Reprogramming My Life | The Illusion of Control

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  • Опубликовано: 6 июл 2024
  • Time Stamps:
    00:00 - Interview Rollercoaster
    04:23 - Compassionate Journaling
    07:05 - The Case for Sabbaticals
    09:55 - Learning to Trust the Process
    11:46 - Burnout from Misalignment
    13:30 - The Illusion of Control
    16:52 - The 4-Hour Workweek & Mini Retirements
    19:52 - Paying Attention to Signs
    23:04 - Storyworthy & Homework for Life
    24:08 - New Focus
    25:37 - Discord Community: / discord
    Resources:
    - Mini Retirements (Tim Ferriss): • 4 Hour Work Week by Ti...
    - Adult Gap Year (Jay Shetty): • 3 Ways to Take an Adul...
    - Homework for Life (Matthew Dicks): • Homework for Life | Ma...
    Hi there, I'm Jenn!
    Over the past several weeks, I've been buried under an intense interview cycle. Spoiler alert: I didn't receive any job offers.
    In this video, I open up about my thoughts and emotions throughout process, how I've practiced self-compassion to navigate through tough times, and why I surprisingly don't feel defeated. Well, I’m pretty exhausted - but I'm slowly learning to surrender to the flow of life. It's often easier to go with the current than to swim against it, and that's exactly what I'm experiencing.
    Growing up in a household with immigrant parents and being immersed in society's hustle culture, I was raised with the belief that hard work is the only key to achieving our goals. But is that always the case? And is achieving our goals ACTUALLY what's best for us? Or, is it possible that as long as we always do our best and take care of ourselves, the outcome will ALWAYS be the best possible thing for us?
    I'm finally learning to lean into this sabbatical - and for once I'm starting to feel more excited than scared. Feel free to join my Discord community if you ever want to chat or share your story!

Комментарии • 15

  • @daniellelee2806
    @daniellelee2806 4 месяца назад

    Watching someone step into their purpose in real-time. This is good!

  • @tiffanyjones2981
    @tiffanyjones2981 4 месяца назад +2

    5:00- universal wisdom! “jen, You wanna play, you are not in your PAST position for a reason… if you want to keep torturing yourself heres 5 companies” …… the universe is so funny trying to teach us to teach US. You have looked at yourself from another beautiful angle and are learning from your own self to learn your NEW needs. How courageous of you for being truthful and honest with how you were talking to yourself. give yourself comfort girl. You deserve it. Go you!

  • @mimi_thinks
    @mimi_thinks 4 месяца назад +1

    I’m the first U.S. born child of immigrants. As a result, risk taking is so incredibly difficult (near impossible) for me but I took the plunge and quit my job over a year ago to focus on my healing. I had been working since I was a teenager and I was so burned out at 31. Initially the waves of regret and wanting to run back to security were so strong. In retrospect, I cannot believe I had the courage to even do it! Now, my life feels intentional and I’m taking steps in the direction that I WANT to go in. Ironically the loss of control has given me more control.
    It will all work out for you ❤️

    • @Christina-zs2qc
      @Christina-zs2qc 4 месяца назад

      Thats awesome glad to hear!

    • @sui.jeneris
      @sui.jeneris  3 месяца назад

      Thank you so much for sharing! This makes me really happy to hear 💛 I know I owe it to myself to heal. I’m looking forward to the day I can say that my life is filled with intention. Thanks for your positive thoughts, and I’d love any advice if you have any 🫶

  • @Christina-zs2qc
    @Christina-zs2qc 4 месяца назад

    Loving your mindset about things happening for a reason! I think you’re making some breakthroughs and believing in what your next step looks like 🥰 way to go!

  • @--Singularity--
    @--Singularity-- 4 месяца назад +2

    All is decided for you. That´s why this simulation you don´t have control to your career.

  • @brucecollins7424
    @brucecollins7424 4 месяца назад

    I am subscribed thanks for the content!

    • @sui.jeneris
      @sui.jeneris  3 месяца назад

      Thank you for subscribing! ☺️

  • @--Singularity--
    @--Singularity-- 4 месяца назад +1

    Your thoughts of self doubts and so on are GIVEN to you. So, you can thank that nice Universe from that too ..
    Those are not YOU.
    That universe is NOT nice. Otherwise people wouldn´t be living on the gutter. That´s evil. Not nice.

  • @kotadiyachaitanya7957
    @kotadiyachaitanya7957 4 месяца назад

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    • @sui.jeneris
      @sui.jeneris  3 месяца назад

      Thanks for the offer! I’m enjoying learning the editing process myself but if it gets to be too much for me down the line, I’ll be sure to reach out!