Building Confidence and Self-Esteem

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  • Опубликовано: 22 янв 2021
  • Hey everyone! I usually try to alternate the calisthenics videos with "other" videos like philosophy, life, motivation, etc. Today's video was supposed to be about pushups, but it was a nice day and I felt like going for a drive. I drove to a nearby bluff and shot this video.
    (It actually ended up being a lot colder than I thought. If I'm slurring a bit towards the end, this may be why).
    The idea of building self-esteem has been on my mind a lot recently. A lot of people have been asking me about it, so it's sort of been slowly bubbling to the forefront.
    By the way, I certainly don't profess to be an expert. However, these principles have helped me a lot in my teens and 20s, and I'm sharing them here so that they may help others:
    I think the "fake it 'til you make it" attitude some of us have toward confidence is what ultimately results in low confidence and low self-esteem.
    When we become actors that pretend to be confident in something we know nothing about, we become vulnerable. We get upset when someone questions our ability. We attack others and try to bring them down so we seem better by comparison.
    In my experience, a better endeavor is to cultivate self-awareness. When we spend time on introspection and knowing ourselves, THEN we can slowly start to build confidence and reconcile our self-perception with reality.
    If we know we're good at something, we have no fear of other people telling us we're bad. We can say with confidence that we know ourselves better than they do.
    If we know we're bad at something, we should also have no fear in other people telling us we're bad. We completely agree with each other. What is there to argue about? We're always trying to improve.
    Once again, it was a bit cold on the bluff. I apologize if the video isn't as clear and clean as it could have been! I had to somewhat hurry because of the weather and the setting sun.
    Let me know if you have any questions. Have a BEAUTIFUL day!!!!!!
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Комментарии • 2 тыс.

  • @HybridCalisthenics
    @HybridCalisthenics  3 года назад +1742

    I hope everyone is doing well! The bluff was nice but it got a lot colder than I expected. If I'm slurring a bit towards the end, that may be why!
    I hope everyone has a wonderful weekend. I have a feeling this coming week is going to be awesome for you.

    • @christonamtb4089
      @christonamtb4089 3 года назад +5

      How did you make the coffee?

    • @kage2508
      @kage2508 3 года назад +5

      I drink nes café

    • @christonamtb4089
      @christonamtb4089 3 года назад +6

      @@kage2508 you should try coffee it's lovely

    • @Deviiss
      @Deviiss 3 года назад +4

      Hey man, you should put the link for the website in a comment so more people check it out!

    • @HybridCalisthenics
      @HybridCalisthenics  3 года назад +68

      @@christonamtb4089 Aeropress! I love it. I want to eventually start a coffee brand that ships directly to the consumer on a subscription basis. I plan to include a free Aeropress.

  • @hackerulroman
    @hackerulroman 3 года назад +6510

    Hampton feels like the best friend I'll never have

    • @HybridCalisthenics
      @HybridCalisthenics  3 года назад +3424

      I am the friend you ALREADY have.

    • @hackerulroman
      @hackerulroman 3 года назад +954

      @@HybridCalisthenics Then I guess I can rephrase it to the best friend I'll never meet :)

    • @humuhumu3069
      @humuhumu3069 3 года назад +546

      @@hackerulroman well you dont know! You may meet him someday after all this nonsense is over!

    • @HybridCalisthenics
      @HybridCalisthenics  3 года назад +866

      @@humuhumu3069 That's right! Here's hoping!

    • @flapper3370
      @flapper3370 3 года назад +317

      Second this sentiment. You're better for me than I have been able to in ages, and I thank you for just being a calm, positive and strong voice in my life, albeit through an ironically impersonal venue.
      Thank you for having put the work into yourself for others to see that it's worth it. I'll try the same.
      Much love, F

  • @j-lly_4117
    @j-lly_4117 3 года назад +3217

    “Hello my friends-“
    Me: “My happiness is immeasurable, and my day is made.”

  • @eliforeal5261
    @eliforeal5261 3 года назад +2360

    "I'm confident that I'm not sure"
    -5 year old Hampton
    So wise...

    • @hiankun
      @hiankun 3 года назад +42

      Professional Hampton.

    • @Andjun5174
      @Andjun5174 3 года назад +15

      Yet so young 🌱

    • @alelarsen99
      @alelarsen99 3 года назад +18

      "All I know is I know nothing"

    • @Kinobambino
      @Kinobambino 3 года назад +13

      @@alelarsen99 the beginning of great abundance of knowledge. Humility is one of my favorite traits in people. Unfortunately not many people have it.

    • @TyTimeIsAwesome
      @TyTimeIsAwesome 3 года назад +6

      @@alelarsen99 "The more you know, the more you don't know."

  • @snowfall8845
    @snowfall8845 3 года назад +2052

    I’m confident that whatever is in the cup is cold now 😂

    • @AdityaSingh-mh3cb
      @AdityaSingh-mh3cb 3 года назад +33

      Cold coffee! 🐱

    • @Mooslight
      @Mooslight 3 года назад +87

      Plot twist :the cup is empty

    •  3 года назад +11

      HAHAHAHAHA
      Maybe it was tea, which is good cold or hot.

    • @Adar999
      @Adar999 3 года назад +9

      @@Mooslight that explains why no liquid splashed out of the cup as he shook it around..

    • @kizryuver
      @kizryuver 3 года назад +8

      @@Adar999 or may be hes got a technique to move it without spilling the liquid (anime style)
      Tho either of most things ppl said is possible.

  • @kurackurac1523
    @kurackurac1523 3 года назад +2282

    This man is basically like those peaceful monks, just with hair

    • @HybridCalisthenics
      @HybridCalisthenics  3 года назад +818

      Maybe I'll rock the bald look at some point. That'd be kind of a switch-up, huh?

    • @kurackurac1523
      @kurackurac1523 3 года назад +301

      It would be but you got nice hair mate

    • @HybridCalisthenics
      @HybridCalisthenics  3 года назад +585

      @@kurackurac1523 Hahaha thanks! I'm getting ready to cut it to donate. It'll still be "long," but it'll be about 12 inches shorter.

    • @kurackurac1523
      @kurackurac1523 3 года назад +87

      That's really humane

    • @samvdd3063
      @samvdd3063 3 года назад +142

      If you go bald please make sure you look like one punch man😂

  • @oceankane2703
    @oceankane2703 3 года назад +1845

    Hampton is basically Yoda in his early years when he was exercising.

  • @chiamakadoris2262
    @chiamakadoris2262 3 года назад +870

    “Self awareness cultivates self esteem” .......... words of pure wisdom.

  • @dI9ESTIVES123
    @dI9ESTIVES123 3 года назад +447

    I have known this person for 4 minutes and I already trust him with my life.

  • @ICEcoldJT
    @ICEcoldJT 3 года назад +481

    To anyone struggling:
    You’re stronger than any test, paper due, breakup, money issue, or any battle you’re facing. Keep your head up.

    • @HybridCalisthenics
      @HybridCalisthenics  3 года назад +144

      I concur! We're here to support you.

    • @AndreLuis-gw5ox
      @AndreLuis-gw5ox 3 года назад +36

      I dont think I'm stronger than my porn addiction

    • @vortigan8069
      @vortigan8069 3 года назад +11

      @@AndreLuis-gw5ox I'm dead lmao

    • @chaoticsimp4163
      @chaoticsimp4163 3 года назад +14

      @@AndreLuis-gw5ox yes you are :)

    • @Surokkh
      @Surokkh 3 года назад +16

      @@AndreLuis-gw5ox My friend, I know I'm just a random stranger in a comment section - but if you wanna talk here, feel free. We are blessed with strength to overcome the obstacles that life sets before us, that's the belief we should start with! People break heroin addiction, cocaine addiction, and pornography is no god for us to consider it unbeatable!

  • @janelle9998
    @janelle9998 3 года назад +1353

    We need more people like this guy. People who just vibe with and teach their subscribers, or "friends."

    • @deckaextendo
      @deckaextendo 3 года назад +58

      nah, we should be one of these guys

    • @moekiemissa5731
      @moekiemissa5731 3 года назад +2

      Like elisha long

    • @keidenstark5054
      @keidenstark5054 3 года назад +1

      True

    • @THEDONSTR8Fightah76
      @THEDONSTR8Fightah76 3 года назад

      There’s no one like me. I’m real. 99% of people are phony. I’m a different breed. I’m the underdog. And I’ll knock ‘em ALL OUT!!!

    • @robocop6573
      @robocop6573 3 года назад +1

      @@deckaextendo exactly

  • @am33x
    @am33x 3 года назад +278

    Binge watching Hampton is oficially a form of meditation.

    • @LionelHsu
      @LionelHsu 3 года назад +2

      Indeed. 💪

    • @debbieklose8776
      @debbieklose8776 3 года назад +12

      That’s funny.
      I was pulling up a meditation piece to meditate on this morning and got distracted on Hampton’s message here and as I sat with him and his message , I thought , well this was my meditation this morning 😂

    • @thejessica-est
      @thejessica-est 3 года назад +4

      Definitely a healthy form of self care. He's precious ♥️

  • @LetheSystem
    @LetheSystem 3 года назад +776

    I was just sitting on the couch watching his videos, and I started to cry. I'm not entirely sure why, but I think it's because I'm not used to seeing such a positive attitude and vibes from someone. You really do make your viewers feel safe and happy, Hampton. Thank you. ☺

    • @halcyon_echo42
      @halcyon_echo42 3 года назад +28

      It really is refreshing to feel welcome with someone new these days, and he is incredibly warm as well

    • @jey.ar.emmmmm
      @jey.ar.emmmmm 3 года назад +9

      Thats was really sweet and sensire 🌻 you know...I feel that way too, his videos are so calming and positive 🤠

    • @qcrctgavarcesxrfab8015
      @qcrctgavarcesxrfab8015 3 года назад +2

      🥺🥺

    • @MalikAwan-sw2wm
      @MalikAwan-sw2wm 3 года назад +1

    • @mauryawadhwa5295
      @mauryawadhwa5295 3 года назад

      Hope you're doing better now!

  • @fimbulvetr16
    @fimbulvetr16 3 года назад +305

    I like how it gets darker and darker and you can't even see his face at the end of the video anymore.

    • @HybridCalisthenics
      @HybridCalisthenics  3 года назад +123

      Yes. The sun was too bright when I got there. Then when the lighting started getting better, it got dark FAST.

    • @crafttyangelo8574
      @crafttyangelo8574 3 года назад +11

      Golden hour? More like golden 8 minutes aka the sun setting

    • @rijvada
      @rijvada 3 года назад +4

      yeah, it shows how much time that he spent making this 4 mins video. Really appreciate it.

    • @rainingwords5775
      @rainingwords5775 3 года назад

      @@HybridCalisthenics but your Light shines through always 🌞 but the chats in the dark r lovely too

  • @superchocopaste6375
    @superchocopaste6375 3 года назад +555

    He seems like a guy i could sit and just talk about my problems with...

    • @jos7066
      @jos7066 3 года назад +16

      I feel you, it’s okay to state your problems down here. Even though I won’t help much perhaps venting will help you breath easier

    • @kommunitykonnected
      @kommunitykonnected 3 года назад +3

      That's some real shit...me too. Wish I had someone to rap with here and there that actually had a good sense of facts, opinion and perspective.

    • @coryholdcraft5070
      @coryholdcraft5070 3 года назад +5

      We should blow up this comment with venting/assisting others because everyone has problems and sometimes we gotta let them out..

    • @coryholdcraft5070
      @coryholdcraft5070 3 года назад +3

      @@kommunitykonnected I too, wish, that I had a friend that I could talk to about some of my problems, but that's not really an option for me. Feel free to want to contact me if you need someone to talk to or just wanna chat. You sound like a good person that was maybe done wrong by someone.
      I would say that I have a good sense of what you said, but it's kind of opinion based so I'm just gonna say that I can hold a conversation and I'm not ignorant or arrogant, so I suppose that's sufficient.

    • @veerabhadraprasadr9886
      @veerabhadraprasadr9886 3 года назад +3

      Well tbh If I were to vent my inner feelings then it would be the following:
      How can my mother have such high hopes and such love for me when I myself know that I am a failure....I act all happy in front of her hoping that she does not pick up on my feelings of lonliness and....acting all happy makes me want to feel happy, but I don't....having friends who care about me is a blessing but at times I avoid them as I feel Thier attention is not worth for this disgusting body.
      People do have a notion that I'm good at studies, but I am not...by fluke my words reach a certain answer....but when I open up and say....I don't know...they laugh it off and say, you know it, cause you are a genius...this puts me into a more confusion state, a state which makes me think....do people really think that I have such good knowledge....
      Exams, one such event in life where I start studying the previous day of the subject related exam, and think I can pull it off, but while trying to...I end up realizing of how I screwed myself over....and then that very thought of how I screwed myself over leads me to thinking of how I am unworthy of all the comforts provided by my parents....one thing leads to an another....
      I may be typing here and expressing my inner feelings...as I type this...I have this one notion behind my brain and it be screaming that....I'm a attention whore....wanting attention from everyone...wanting someone to scold me and comfort me, tell me that it's okay to feel like this...this journey of life is tough....etc....all these attention seeking behaviour of mine .....I even don't know if I have it or not...but I do end up blaming myself for being an attention whore...
      When people do tell me positive stuff, I feel good for a while...then back to the same rabbit hole....really.....how pathetic can I be...😎....😓....

  • @nzkid2599
    @nzkid2599 3 года назад +281

    This dude is awesome not cocky like most other “self help RUclips gurus”

  • @aayushmanandhar6362
    @aayushmanandhar6362 3 года назад +154

    His Aura so bright, everyone can feel it through the internet

  • @jaycarroll5700
    @jaycarroll5700 3 года назад +361

    You can't be ugly when your heart is pure.

    • @zrashid3350
      @zrashid3350 3 года назад +47

      Reminds me of that line in one of Roald Dahls books - 'If you have good thoughts they will shine out of your face like sunbeams and you will always look lovely'

    • @jupita551
      @jupita551 3 года назад +17

      @@zrashid3350 Or a line from the Petit Prince, "you're eyes are blind, you can only see properly with your heart" ( or something like that i only knoe it in french)

    • @malachiwood5973
      @malachiwood5973 3 года назад +3

      @@zrashid3350 oh wow I haven’t heard or seen that name in so long. Growing up BFG (big friendly giant) had to be one of my all time favorite books :)

    • @YJ-7
      @YJ-7 3 года назад

      @@malachiwood5973 I loved his books and Quentin Blake's books when I was a kid.

    • @nabzoku
      @nabzoku 3 года назад +5

      That's not true.

  • @cecilia9396
    @cecilia9396 3 года назад +346

    somehow looking at him makes me want to be a better person

  • @yellowmesh7821
    @yellowmesh7821 3 года назад +101

    Every time he says 'This is your brother Hampton' I feel it in my soul like, as if in fact we were actually related or close, there's such a welcoming familiarity in his delivery 💯

  • @JTM369
    @JTM369 3 года назад +49

    If I talk about life people will think I'm depressed.
    If I talk behind people's back, they will think I'm normal.

  • @drelaplante2515
    @drelaplante2515 3 года назад +233

    "I'm a professional Hampton" I love that line.

  • @hickdead3846
    @hickdead3846 3 года назад +197

    "hello my friend its your brother hampton-"
    * likes video *

  • @aymankramez2010
    @aymankramez2010 3 года назад +1161

    Hampton: I am not the Messiah
    Literally everyone: HE IS THE MESSIAH

  • @jrstretch1
    @jrstretch1 3 года назад +208

    Also, another way to raise self esteem is to understand your value. You should not let someone else's opinion of you decrease your self worth. Keep it up bro

  • @joshuapayne3937
    @joshuapayne3937 3 года назад +419

    Start with this to build confidence and self-esteem:
    Stop comparing yourself to others and only compare yourself to who you were the day before. It's easy to compare yourself to someone who's better at relationships, richer, stronger, or healthier than you, but it's mentally healthier and fairer to compare yourself to who you were the other day.
    Take solace in knowing that you're better today than you were the day before, because maybe you spent some time to work towards developing a skill, meditating, exercising, learning something, or enjoying a book.

    • @elieteoliveira-janus2416
      @elieteoliveira-janus2416 3 года назад +14

      This is the real motivation to get real , down to earth and position yourself

    • @papihuey
      @papihuey 3 года назад +17

      I’ll add this: ....some days you will find out you are worse than yesterday , and that’s ok, as long as you’re willing to keep going forward and improve yourself. Like myself, I worked out everyday 2 years ago but I’ve not been working out lately, I know that, I’m improving a different aspect of myself, so don’t worry too much, worry can cause more harm than you think👍you don’t have to be the best version everyday, that’s unrealistic

    • @concreteknowledge3168
      @concreteknowledge3168 3 года назад

      Thank you for this

    • @SocialTown
      @SocialTown 3 года назад

      Hey all, I'd be really happy if you also check and subscribe to my channel. How about this video? ruclips.net/video/3U4jCvcJZDQ/видео.html

    • @exceptionallyriso
      @exceptionallyriso 3 года назад +1

      @@SocialTown
      Can you stop spamming these self promos •-•

  • @jocardz614
    @jocardz614 3 года назад +228

    "I'm confident with not being confident" damn you hit hard on that sir.

  • @user-cv3dr4kt7j
    @user-cv3dr4kt7j 3 года назад +39

    "Confidence is how much trust you put in yourself"
    That really changed everything for me :')

  • @lil_tictac7790
    @lil_tictac7790 3 года назад +43

    This man is actually just sitting down drinking coffee having the time of his life trying to help others.

  • @yBryan1
    @yBryan1 3 года назад +647

    The only thing that spreads faster than the coronavirus is this man's positivity
    EDIT: 0:04 sounds kinda funny
    Lockdown killed my sense of humor lmao

    • @steveng6721
      @steveng6721 3 года назад +16

      Real shit im subbed just because hes so pleasant

    • @Sonja147
      @Sonja147 3 года назад +4

      Like no kidding! Yesterday I looked and he didn't have 1 million subscribers yet. Now I'm here and he does!

    • @iTaxHD
      @iTaxHD 3 года назад +3

      Cause he's Christian

    • @SocialTown
      @SocialTown 3 года назад +1

      Hey all, I'd be really happy if you also check and subscribe to my channel. How about this video? ruclips.net/video/3U4jCvcJZDQ/видео.html

    • @yusufakbar6186
      @yusufakbar6186 3 года назад

      Innit

  • @nguyenthithanhanus2155
    @nguyenthithanhanus2155 3 года назад +197

    Ladies and gentleman we've found it
    *buffed Bob Ross*

    • @bandab270
      @bandab270 3 года назад +3

      HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHA you made my day

    • @williamcochran2057
      @williamcochran2057 3 года назад +9

      (Inhales deeply to embrace this heartwarming comment that has filled the gap left by Bob’s passing) I will now love this man in a new way, the same way I loved bob when he was still here.(bob still lives on in my heart, but now he is joined by a happy little man, Hampton.)

    • @jayrico1973
      @jayrico1973 3 года назад

      Lean

    • @bmp3364
      @bmp3364 3 года назад

      @@jayrico1973 it’s a joke why u have to scrutinise it

  • @yaoxian9933
    @yaoxian9933 3 года назад +45

    "Im professional Hampton". No one can be better at being you than you being yourself! :)

  • @martinxvidxb
    @martinxvidxb 3 года назад +15

    2:05 ... "I am confident that I am not sure." This is so pure!

  • @juggiebonebrain3383
    @juggiebonebrain3383 3 года назад +504

    *removes asking Hampton to do surgery from bucket list*
    Dammit.

    • @EUCLlD
      @EUCLlD 3 года назад +18

      He said splinter surgery is ok, you're still good my bro

    • @juggiebonebrain3383
      @juggiebonebrain3383 3 года назад +13

      @@EUCLlD whew.

  • @tim.wolf212
    @tim.wolf212 3 года назад +101

    Hampton is the uncle Iroh of the internet.

  • @telvanni3651
    @telvanni3651 3 года назад +17

    My dad died last week and I have felt completely lost since it happened. Your videos have really helped me through this tough time. So thank you.

    • @melo1990
      @melo1990 Год назад +1

      Hey I know you posted a year ago but I just wanted to say I hope you are doing okay!

  • @evantan8266
    @evantan8266 3 года назад +32

    This dude is so positive that the comment section love him

  • @rickye7547
    @rickye7547 3 года назад +44

    You know a channel is good when the video's only been out for a couple of seconds but there are already a lot of comments.

    • @HybridCalisthenics
      @HybridCalisthenics  3 года назад +23

      Hahaha meanwhile I'm trying to give everyone a response. I'm really flattered, though.

    • @rickye7547
      @rickye7547 3 года назад +3

      @@HybridCalisthenics thanks for the kind comment! I really hope I have someone like you as a friend though, you sound so genuine and supportive!

  • @carson_6022
    @carson_6022 3 года назад +28

    I swear he's filming this from heaven... its so peaceful

  • @caster7376
    @caster7376 3 года назад +29

    i love how the sun slowly sets in the background

  • @Pratzz1312
    @Pratzz1312 3 года назад +31

    Hampton is the most genuine person on the internet. Hope everyone has a great weekend!

  • @hmmmmm8716
    @hmmmmm8716 3 года назад +184

    Dammit this guy is almost everything I want to be he inspires, motivates and lifts up all of his audience. I would love to be a person that could proudly say they have affected or changed his life in an important way. That would be cool, I guess Hamptons goal is to make sure everybody wants to help everyone be great. I love his goal.

    • @williammckinney5213
      @williammckinney5213 3 года назад +3

      Try to make it your own goal as well, maybe you won’t be amazing at it, but you will be better than you are now.
      It really is inspiring.

    • @hmmmmm8716
      @hmmmmm8716 3 года назад +2

      @@williammckinney5213 I'll try.

  • @seafood_cherry
    @seafood_cherry 3 года назад +102

    brother Hampton,
    you’re such a cutie.
    have a beautiful day, too.

  • @emmat3088
    @emmat3088 3 года назад +7

    I actually hope the world doesnt ruin this guy. There is not a lot of people like him in the world. I have never seen such a positive person.

  • @SneakyNinja345
    @SneakyNinja345 3 года назад +58

    "But I'm biased because I made it."
    Literally everything this man says is free of bullsh*t. Really enjoy your videos Hampton. I wish I was as chill you. 😁

  • @aarya9382
    @aarya9382 3 года назад +61

    I just lost both my grandparents in the span of a week and honestly I am glad you made this video 😭

    • @HybridCalisthenics
      @HybridCalisthenics  3 года назад +41

      I'm so sorry for your loss. I don't know your beliefs or spirituality, but I believe your grandparents are in a better place and I will pray for them.

    • @KatharineMongrain
      @KatharineMongrain 3 года назад +2

      Sorry for your loss. I know it ain't easy now, but soon it'll get bearable, then tolerable, and one day itll be a twinge of sadness with an overwhelming sense of love and peace. 🤗 when I lost my grams it was like losing a light from my soul, but now I'm just grateful I had her.

    • @sabitobio5176
      @sabitobio5176 3 года назад +2

      I‘m so sorry stay strong sending prayers🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️

    • @Bohongihatikuu
      @Bohongihatikuu 3 года назад +3

      Stay strong buddy 🙏

    • @aarya9382
      @aarya9382 3 года назад +2

      Thank you everyone, I really appreciate it ❤️

  • @tetsujuu8081
    @tetsujuu8081 3 года назад +18

    I gotta make it clear:
    I love you making this world a brighter place through your vibrations, Hampton. This is so priceless that you have so much subscribers being actually your friends who can rely upon you. Thank you and good luck to you, brother!🌞

  • @Anna-nm8mk
    @Anna-nm8mk 3 года назад +14

    Thank you Hampton for inspiring others and sharing love, awareness and kindness.
    Greetings from over here in Germany - you‘ve gone worldwide my friend !

  • @samuelbraun849
    @samuelbraun849 3 года назад +86

    This is the most humble and wholesome person I have ever seen.

  • @notsuoh7233
    @notsuoh7233 3 года назад +14

    This guy restores my faith in humanity

    • @redaouu
      @redaouu 3 года назад +3

      Indeed

  • @casperey1978
    @casperey1978 2 года назад +1

    This video made me think of this quote from James Hollis:
    "If one is busy pursuing what needs to be pursued, is interested in something worthy, and finding it all getting more and more interesting, then one has scant time to brood on the pseudo-issue of self-esteem.”

  • @joebidenissus1975
    @joebidenissus1975 3 года назад +82

    "I think I'd be one ugly woman, but still"
    HAHAHAHAH

    • @helioschan7705
      @helioschan7705 3 года назад +2

      That's where he may be lacking in self-awareness! :-)

    • @ahmadjamalmughal47
      @ahmadjamalmughal47 3 года назад +1

      @@helioschan7705 Lol I always thought he'd make a cute woman. 🤣

  • @RachaelLongLastName
    @RachaelLongLastName 3 года назад +71

    I’ll take “just Hampton” over a self-esteem and self-confidence expert any day of the week

  • @Pc-cu5ev
    @Pc-cu5ev 3 года назад +9

    Hampton is like all the good family members condensed into one gorgeous entity. A father, a brother, a uncle, or a grandpa.

  • @ShahStrzUCM
    @ShahStrzUCM 3 года назад +23

    You helped me so much in life. Ever since my favorite rapper died pop smoke and kobe died I lost track of life. The covid started and the movements. Life was bad for me as a 15 year old. But 1 day I see your videos and I watched literally like so much of them fully for a whole day and it made me feel better as a person. I started getting confident to do things and motivated. Then I started watching on how you can build up on strength and everything. I used to weight about 320 pounds now I weigh 230 pounds with a lot of muscle and life just has been amazing. I can dunk now thanks to you.

  • @c_usanchez6113
    @c_usanchez6113 3 года назад +7

    love to have friend like him sitting down having coffee with nice weather and taking a good advice.

  • @Nice-re5nm
    @Nice-re5nm 3 года назад +119

    This guy talking smooth as sliding down a butter hill.

    • @Sonja147
      @Sonja147 3 года назад +1

      Sliding down a butter hill on a giant slice of toast 🍞

    • @SocialTown
      @SocialTown 3 года назад

      Hey all, I'd be really happy if you also check and subscribe to my channel. How about this video? ruclips.net/video/3U4jCvcJZDQ/видео.html

  • @v3riety166
    @v3riety166 3 года назад +53

    This guy helps me with my anxiety and depression on a whole different level man. Thank you!

    • @champer423
      @champer423 3 года назад +1

      Same here with anxiety based depersonalization.
      He really helps :)

    • @cyclops9202
      @cyclops9202 3 года назад +1

      @@champer423 same here

    • @champer423
      @champer423 3 года назад

      @@cyclops9202 Do you know Shaun O'Connor?
      He really helped me a lot with the recovery.
      ruclips.net/video/qJGBp5i4W9s/видео.html

    • @cyclops9202
      @cyclops9202 3 года назад +1

      @@champer423 i started being aware of it recently :( unfortunately and i think being aware of it is a step ahead and noi didn't know him thankk you i will check him out 🙏 Im glad to hear you're doing better now.

    • @champer423
      @champer423 3 года назад

      @@cyclops9202 happy to help :)
      And don't worry it will get better, for me at some points it was so horrible but now its much better and I am confident that eventually it will totally go away.

  • @albairisvelazquez8630
    @albairisvelazquez8630 3 года назад +5

    I love people like him hard to find but they are out there God bless him.

  • @ArshadKhan-gt2dv
    @ArshadKhan-gt2dv Год назад +1

    Bro feels like he was a pure soul type Main Character in a anime and just reincarnated into this world like how tf are you so positive man. You actually inspire me to be more positive and kind to ppl

  • @ronnychristenjoyer6778
    @ronnychristenjoyer6778 3 года назад +29

    He's been sitting there one whole day and whole night, talking about self-esteem.

  • @mockingwizard
    @mockingwizard 3 года назад +92

    “I’d be one ugly woman”
    Why am I cracking up at this 😂😂boy nooooo! You’d make a BEAUTIFUL WOMAN!!!!

    • @cryco472
      @cryco472 3 года назад +4

      Preachhh 😆😆

  • @varshank9736
    @varshank9736 2 года назад +2

    The difference between confidence and self esteem you pointed out was so awesome.. so insightful man!
    U totally broke the stereotype that
    being cocky = confident + high self esteem
    whereas being self aware is key.

  • @aaishahbong3824
    @aaishahbong3824 2 года назад +1

    Yes ..agreed...be you and don't "be like" ... we all have the potential to great, kind, empathetic, generous people. When we help others...we naturally feel good about ourselves. Small kindness, respect, manners...leave the trash talk for the trashy people...aspire to be better and seek knowledge. People will respect you and admire you...just as some admire the movie stars and musicians. Sadly young people are inundated with ugly, selfish, nasty, immoral examples portraited as role models and they imitate what they see in popular culture because they don't know anything else. 😢 There is soooo much more they can do and be if they have good role models and Hampton, you are a good place to start. Thank you for setting the bar high!

  • @TrijitSaha
    @TrijitSaha 3 года назад +72

    "I think I'd be one ugly woman, but still!" You're too amazing man, most wholesome person I've seen on RUclips. Also haven't clicked a notification so quickly in a long time!

  • @DeezBoi
    @DeezBoi 3 года назад +5

    Hampton is definitely a brother from another mother who is always there to help bring out the best in you.
    Damn

  • @brennaekempf7213
    @brennaekempf7213 3 года назад +5

    You are so encouraging to listen to and I hear the sincerity in your message. Thank you for being honest and open to help others with their "secret" insecurities. You've definitely made an impact on me, for sure. Right now it's very hard to be a confident Christian in this upside down world and you have encouraged me to be more bold and confident in my walk. Thank you and may God bless you in your ministry to others!

    • @kivaomari1450
      @kivaomari1450 2 года назад

      AMEN brudda‼️
      It's our greatest honor to be loved by God.
      To wake up each and every day
      To leave your house and still make it back to the crib
      To love and to be loved
      To be human
      And the greatest of all.....
      TO HAVE SUCH A LOVING AND MERCIFUL FATHER IN HEAVEN.
      You are very right man... its hard being a straight up Christian in this current society ...
      But its even harder to not thank God for his ever present mercy.
      Keep the faith strong bro, and keep believing in him.
      Its not am easy journey brejin!

  • @Rozka
    @Rozka 3 года назад +1

    Honest man, makes you accept his mistakes instantly. Apply that.

  • @user-fu7ib8xw4x
    @user-fu7ib8xw4x 3 года назад +5

    "High perceived confidence but low self esteem". That line hit me harder than the rest because its how I've been pushing myself and what I was told to do. I "faked it till i made it" while being unaware of my own limitations wc honestly just resulted to more disappointments and heavier strikes on my self esteem.

  • @hajimeippo804
    @hajimeippo804 3 года назад +28

    My friend I achieved 1 arm push ups 💪💪💪🙋🏾‍♂️

    • @BossuJmek2k18
      @BossuJmek2k18 3 года назад

      Good job man! Keep it up

    • @bacchus9389
      @bacchus9389 3 года назад +1

      Awesome! I hope to achieve close to that same level of strength, I’m about to start the knee push ups on my push up journey.

    • @hajimeippo804
      @hajimeippo804 3 года назад

      @@BossuJmek2k18 thank you 😊

    • @hajimeippo804
      @hajimeippo804 3 года назад

      @@bacchus9389 thanks... I was also at that point where I could not do even 1 push ups... Now I can do 50... Don't give up... If you do 1 hours of workout.. Then you will be 1 hour closer to your dream body

  • @cutecadaver10
    @cutecadaver10 3 года назад +2

    It's melting how happy everyone in the comment section is. Love you Hampton

  • @williamcochran2057
    @williamcochran2057 3 года назад +1

    Happy 1 Mil Hampton!!!! love you buddy! Your pure heart shines just as bright as your amazing character!

  • @Tanaos37
    @Tanaos37 3 года назад +25

    Dude I found out about you just recently and the amount of joy, peace, tranquility and general positive energy that every video of yours gives me is just incredible. Thank you so much and keep it up!

  • @captain0sam
    @captain0sam 3 года назад +22

    Random man on cliff, shares wise and much needed advice

  • @Lovely_planet
    @Lovely_planet 3 года назад +1

    You’re an amazing human man. Thanks for bringing so much joy during these dark times brother.

  • @MorinoEdits
    @MorinoEdits 3 года назад +1

    Thank you so much for this. I've recently come across your fitness videos and I really love your energy. There's humility and reassurance, and you have an erudite air about yourself. It's kinda refreshing.

  • @brvllbee8727
    @brvllbee8727 3 года назад +6

    this is exactly what i need right now. thank you so much hampton!
    to everyone reading this: have a beautiful day

  • @HarpreetExplores
    @HarpreetExplores 3 года назад +42

    Hampton is the elder brother I wish I had.

  • @fordwayne3833
    @fordwayne3833 3 года назад +1

    I think the reason people ask your advice is not because you know more or experienced more than most, but because you're a very good thinker, and your reasoning makes a lot of sense.

  • @lore5080
    @lore5080 3 года назад +1

    I've been binging all your videos and shorts, and I think I'm in love with you tf (platonically ofc)??? You're such an awesome person!! I hope you got plenty of rest, ate great and did all the things you wanted to do today ❤

  • @coco12354587
    @coco12354587 3 года назад +8

    I agree with your message, telling someone to be confident or fake it til you make it does lower self esteem because you feel like you’re lying. Self awareness allows you to be less confident but still aware that you don’t know something and that’s the reason why. You can always grow

    • @kizryuver
      @kizryuver 3 года назад

      Yeah tho it can be hard to do all the time cuz there are things that ppl shouldnt or cant make public sometimes for their own
      safety due to social conditions,environment etc n its understandable, also most of us lie a lot either consciously or subconsciously or
      even involuntarily smtyms as humans due to society (with exceptions not being able to
      lie would either b a rarity due to a condition (if it exists), ppl who arent living in society n even then they may lie to themselves etc so it d b a lie to ourselves if we say we dont lie too. )
      and even to ourselves regardless of how truthful we wish to be and sometimes its a right/wrong/neutral/grey choice n we just need to know which ones correct for what circumstances.
      but in some cases its safer not to do so..eg.imagine if you say you can light a match stick well cuz ppl told you to be confident but you ended
      up burning your fingers due to lack of supervision or instructions etc,its a small example that can lead to possibly worse out comes but there r similar situations
      which could lead to worse outcomes where it d b better to say we cant do it.
      Tho i understand that saying yes to most things regardless of your opinion can happen due to being expected to say yes especially in schools,workplaces,society, homes etc
      N it comes due to being expected of absolute obedience from teachers/elders/society/employeers/superior/
      etc.
      So many things are not black and white but grey when it comes to such things.
      But since it can be difficult to determine whats correct step to take ppl should
      really try to think for themselves more deeper while focusing on different ppls experiences, opinions etc that are relevant and also try to see if those can be utilized for themselves.

  • @eornstar1191
    @eornstar1191 3 года назад +6

    When you talked about self awareness it reminded me. Whenever anybody asked me to do things I would say "I'll try" because I dont want to be wrong or a liar incase I cant do it. But then my mom told me it was annoying

  • @marisahicken
    @marisahicken 3 года назад +1

    You are so refreshing, thank you for all you do!

  • @SbeveXO
    @SbeveXO 3 года назад +1

    Man, your videos are amazing. They have and still are helping me. Thank you so much

  • @hackerhacker3667
    @hackerhacker3667 3 года назад +7

    This guy speak faster than any of therapy talkers. Making this short video's like a whole program🥰

  • @somosreeroy7749
    @somosreeroy7749 3 года назад +11

    The way his words tingle my brain is out of this world.

  • @remexist469
    @remexist469 3 года назад +1

    Hampton you really did help me out, I barely just discovered u by it recommending me on how to do a push up, love that video as it taught me so much that I didn't know but now I do know because thanks to you now I feel more confident in myself to work out more. This video taught me a lot about just accepting it and just have more confidence in everything you do it means a lot to have found such a channel like this your videos is all that I need so thank you so much for taking time outta your life to make these videos I believe in you and your work keep doing great things Im a fan now BTW. Appreciate you thank you.

  • @Vandalier74
    @Vandalier74 2 года назад +2

    I love this guy, wish I could look at life like he does. Much respect.

  • @Sodys_eyy
    @Sodys_eyy 3 года назад +6

    Ok, I just paused the video, left the bed and I am going to make cup of coffee for this video :)

  • @madimontoya8924
    @madimontoya8924 3 года назад +7

    No matter how sad I am, his voice calms me and makes me really happy. I’m glad he makes the content he does and I’m glad he shares what he knows and touches the lives of so many people.

  • @valentinazuluaga3171
    @valentinazuluaga3171 3 года назад +1

    I just wanna say thank you for all your videos, your voice it's amazing. It makes me feel calm and I have learned a lot from your videos. 💕 you seem like an awesome person thanks for everything you do!

  • @keiththao7534
    @keiththao7534 3 года назад +1

    Honestly it takes a lot for me to subscribe to someone when you can just simply look them up on the search bar but I had to sub to this channel for my good. You're a blessing to us all brother, thank you for taking your time to make these videos.

  • @alifalif6986
    @alifalif6986 3 года назад +10

    Omg Hampton you sent this at the right time! My school just got reopened I lose even a tiny bit of confidence in myself 🗿

  • @candidlyopinionated19
    @candidlyopinionated19 3 года назад +12

    I was feeling so stressed, but this brought me a moment of peace and clarity. Thank you :)

  • @akhilhebbar6545
    @akhilhebbar6545 3 года назад +2

    Everyday before I go to work I just watch one of his videos........it takes away all my stress and I start my day with some warm vibes. Thank you

  • @catinabag2342
    @catinabag2342 Год назад +1

    "I'm a professional Hampton"
    Dude I love u

  • @Favour135
    @Favour135 3 года назад +11

    There aren't many people that I can truly say deserve a million subscribers, but you deserve way more. Congratulations on your 1 million, there will be many many more to come.

  • @hamptoncalledmehisfriend6y383
    @hamptoncalledmehisfriend6y383 3 года назад +97

    When this video has 47 views and 107 likes:
    **youtube not drunk**

  • @DeathRiderAnt64
    @DeathRiderAnt64 Год назад +1

    Mate I love watching your videos, recently going through a hard time and I'm trying to rebuild myself and start getting fit and having a more positive mindset, and your videos cover all that I'm trying to do! It's a shame you live so far away, you'd be a fantastic friend in person. Thanks again!

  • @joseteran7097
    @joseteran7097 3 года назад +1

    Thanks for existing and share some of you with us. I just love your videos... Have a beautiful day!!