Thoughts on Reducing Stress and Anxiety

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  • Опубликовано: 9 июл 2024
  • Hey friends! How do you manage your stress and anxiety?
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    This is a video topic I've thought about for a few weeks now. I considered how I face and overcome my own stress. As usual, I don't profess to be an expert on this. People have asked for my thoughts on this topic, and I'm sharing this in the hopes that some people can learn from my experience and mistakes.
    I discovered that most of my stress came from doubt and uncertainty. As we try new things-which we SHOULD do sometimes!-we're bound to face this.
    An important factor I could have emphasized more in the video is the importance of introspection. Discovering what is causing our stress and mitigating the causes will bring us peace in the long run. Ignoring our stress can sometimes make it worse.
    My philosophy on stress management comes down to 3 things:
    1.) Accept that some things are out of our control and plan accordingly. Our doubt and uncertainty is almost always paired with a fear of failure. Sometimes the results we want are not the ones that happen. Rather not ignoring this possibility, allow yourself to know that it may happen and ask yourself what you will do if it does. For example, some students face stress in exam season. Nobody wants to fail their finals, but what happens if they do? After the initial onset of panic from this thought, I think our minds start to realize that it's NOT the end of the world. Acceptance of a bad outcome prepares us to adapt and overcome if it becomes reality.
    2.) Adopt the things that ARE in our control into a routine. Rather than relying on bursts of motivation, translate your goals into a PROCESS. If you're stressed about your personal fitness, find a routine you can do a few times a week. The example I use in the video is about brushing teeth. Most times, we don't feel inspired to brush our teeth. If we only brushed our teeth when we're motivated, most of us would probably have poor dental health. Keep this process realistic. If you're new to fitness, don't suddenly try to exercise 2-3 hours a day. Keep a CORE to your routine that you can do no matter how busy or tired you get. Commit to the core and then do more when you're able to. Having this realistic process gives us solace because we know we're taking steps towards our goals.
    3.) There are times when you may get misidentify if something is in or out of your control. Remember to be forgiving to yourself about these mistakes, and they are part of our learning process.
    Hope this helps!
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    1:17 Do I Feel Stress?
    3:13 What Causes Stress?
    6:05 Accept That We Can't Control Everything
    9:48 How to Control the Things We Can
    21:50 Forgive Yourself When You Don't Know the Difference
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Комментарии • 670

  • @HybridCalisthenics
    @HybridCalisthenics  3 года назад +429

    Hey everyone! Sorry this video was a bit longer than I expected. I've had a lot of time to think about the topic and wanted to share things that have worked for me. Here are some time codes to make it easier. Feel free to post your own timecodes!
    0:00 Introduction
    1:17 Do I Feel Stress?
    3:13 What Causes Stress?
    6:05 Accept That We Can't Control Everything
    9:48 How to Control the Things We Can
    21:50 Forgive Yourself When You Don't Know the Difference
    25:13 Lily Design
    25:33 Outroduction
    I'm a bit tired so I'm going to sleep. I'll answer more questions in the morning. I hope you're all having a great weekend!

  • @Malinda
    @Malinda 3 года назад +1107

    What a good soul you are

    • @heyvysh
      @heyvysh 3 года назад +20

      Started the obvious

    • @dawntreader1247
      @dawntreader1247 3 года назад +24

      This is the crossover I didn’t know I needed

    • @me7841
      @me7841 3 года назад +21

      Faith is strong with this one!

    • @HybridCalisthenics
      @HybridCalisthenics  3 года назад +156

      What a beautiful voice and soul you have!

    • @TC-rc1zf
      @TC-rc1zf 3 года назад +9

      You two should just have aura babies

  • @JaroslavDanielSolek
    @JaroslavDanielSolek 3 года назад +550

    This man is too pure for this world. We shall protect him for any cost!

    • @HybridCalisthenics
      @HybridCalisthenics  3 года назад +155

      Always trying to be better for you all!

    • @soumitganguly2789
      @soumitganguly2789 3 года назад +33

      @@HybridCalisthenics Go to sleep already 😂

    • @janterri3539
      @janterri3539 3 года назад +19

      @@soumitganguly2789 Yes, it’ll reduce stress.

    • @billpeet1976
      @billpeet1976 3 года назад +1

      I'm pretty sure he craps and farts just like the rest of us. Get over your weird crush. You don't know him, and he doesn't know you.

    • @janterri3539
      @janterri3539 3 года назад +21

      @@billpeet1976 I don’t think you quite understand.

  • @feykro4152
    @feykro4152 3 года назад +260

    I accidentally read the title as "Seducing Stress and Anxiety" and quite honestly I'm disappointed. I'd have loved to be told how to seduce my problems away.

    • @nicj5354
      @nicj5354 3 года назад +19

      I'm sure if you are as seductive as humanely possible your stress won't be able to resist 😉

    • @noirpxp_9751
      @noirpxp_9751 3 года назад +4

      @@nicj5354 ✋🤨

    • @internetexplorer7912
      @internetexplorer7912 3 года назад +17

      It's super easy. Show your problem too much love and they'll leave👌

    • @keremozdogru3984
      @keremozdogru3984 3 года назад +2

      found the bard

    • @melonie_peppers
      @melonie_peppers 3 года назад +3

      😂😂😂😂

  • @alissonfurman8203
    @alissonfurman8203 3 года назад +228

    Next video idea...
    You CAN fly, my friend!
    Anyone can build to be able to fly!
    The progressions are fairly straight forward...
    *Thank you for the thoughtful content. I am glad I found your joyful channel.

  • @visennamhw-tv4bi
    @visennamhw-tv4bi 3 года назад +386

    Hampton reduces my stress levels by talking with a forest in the background. Hufflepuff 101% vibes, soothing the rest of us.

  • @whateveriwant3188
    @whateveriwant3188 3 года назад +131

    “Follow the plan, plan for change.” Something that was said in a leadership course I took at work.

    • @mitsuriKoi
      @mitsuriKoi 3 года назад +7

      This is a fantastic line!

  • @soumitganguly2789
    @soumitganguly2789 3 года назад +255

    My relatable takeaway: Don't overthink stuff beyond your control, do everything within your limits & be confident. But don't rule out the possibility of negative outcomes as well, just be prepared of that too. 🤠

  • @certifiedsimp3495
    @certifiedsimp3495 3 года назад +346

    I need more people like him in my life

    • @blueklaoodprogamer9008
      @blueklaoodprogamer9008 3 года назад +16

      There is one person in the world like this and its him

    • @biglou76
      @biglou76 3 года назад +1

      Agree

    • @janterri3539
      @janterri3539 3 года назад +6

      @@blueklaoodprogamer9008 I’m sure you know what he actually means...

    • @Belioyt
      @Belioyt 3 года назад +13

      How about "be more like him to people in your life"?

    • @AlissonSilva-ox4uz
      @AlissonSilva-ox4uz 3 года назад +1

      The problem is, how to find good people out there who are willing to have a friendship with you??

  • @wendyberrios5957
    @wendyberrios5957 Год назад +10

    Jesus Christ, this man has done more to calm my anxiety, stress, and self loathing than my therapist has... and he's just giving me his honest and genuine thoughts.
    He is the best friend we all need; the big brother we all deserve !

  • @SuperEmoney123
    @SuperEmoney123 3 года назад +64

    Friend, my mom also passed on in April of 2020. It’s amazing and heart breaking at the same time to see how life continues on. Thank you for the sound advice.
    My mom loved bougainvilleas they always made a mess but it was a beautiful mess.

    • @serenitybeats1677
      @serenitybeats1677 3 года назад +9

      Sorry for your loss. Just know that you’re never alone. And she’s at peace in heaven just know that ❤️

  • @himanshugangurde1548
    @himanshugangurde1548 3 года назад +104

    This is the best channel and he's one of the best digital mentor we guys can have.... unsuccessful people with this guy we rise. It's our time now.

    • @Monkforilla
      @Monkforilla 3 года назад +3

      Start with ur pfp chuck

  • @Rahul_k04
    @Rahul_k04 3 года назад +34

    I love the way he says, "hello! It is your brother Hampton! "

  • @aimeehastie4563
    @aimeehastie4563 3 года назад +11

    One of the many reasons I subscribed is because he begins with "hello my friends, it's your brother" 🥺🥰 best intro, thank you 😊

  • @JH-cw5po
    @JH-cw5po 3 года назад +7

    This guy is the living definition of wholesome

  • @skilllondon6716
    @skilllondon6716 3 года назад +123

    I’ve just graduated and trying to find a job rn is hell. Accepting that it’s not so bad and that I have no control makes me feel better. But it’s difficult to balance the acceptance of not having control and the complacency of not trying hard enough because you know you don’t have much control… it’s a mental battle

    • @optimusprime9363
      @optimusprime9363 3 года назад +1

      Im European and things might be different but how do have no control over finding a job?

    • @skilllondon6716
      @skilllondon6716 3 года назад +20

      @@optimusprime9363 Looking for jobs is easy, getting them is hard. There are a lot of experience professionals looking for jobs after the pandemic. There are great graduates with experience looking aswell. It’s more difficult than ever for inexperience grads to get jobs. Ironically, you need to have experience to get experience. It’s a loophole

    • @optimusprime9363
      @optimusprime9363 3 года назад +10

      @@skilllondon6716 that sucks I wish you all the best and good luck

    • @snehaiyer3139
      @snehaiyer3139 3 года назад +7

      I feel you, my friend. I've been there many a times. Something that helped me a lot is to hold on to the following quite / belief :
      "What's meant for me WILL NOT pass me by"
      What's not meant for you will never be yours no matter what, but what is meant for you cannot/will not pass you by. This belief has helped me heaps.

    • @tonjo575
      @tonjo575 3 года назад +1

      @@skilllondon6716 you got this man. Good luck 🤞🏽

  • @Kriziio
    @Kriziio 3 года назад +10

    This man is the epitome of everything good, peace, happiness, kindness

  • @samchen139
    @samchen139 3 года назад +3

    Grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.

  • @smaclifestyle
    @smaclifestyle 3 года назад +45

    Such a humble, lovely and friendly person. I could never be like you but I will try my hardest to be the best I can be. Although I do struggle lots. I wish you all the best and thank you for what you have said. The bush that you live in/near is lovely and I love these types of videos.

    • @Natalie-101
      @Natalie-101 3 года назад +5

      I love the thought that he lives inside a bush totally separate from this world😂

  • @LordSalgad
    @LordSalgad 3 года назад +27

    About the tooth brushing: where I live in Brazil usually people brush their teeth after every meal. It is not as common when eating out in social events, but if one goes to a restaurant during one's lunch break, for example, usually they'll have a toothbrush in their bag and use it when they get back at their work place.
    Every drugstore here has kits with foldable toothbrushes (or cases to protect "normal", full-size toothbrushes) and smaller toothpastes

    • @Jhart44
      @Jhart44 3 года назад +7

      No way, that’s crazy because I noticed a lot of Brazil UFC fighters have really white teeth! I’ve never been to Brazil but that makes sense now. I’m gonna start to do that as best I can, thanks!

    • @pedrodemarco8083
      @pedrodemarco8083 3 года назад +4

      BRASIL IL IL IL

    • @charlieluz830
      @charlieluz830 3 года назад +4

      Verdades foram ditas!
      Saudades de trabalhar e acabar escovando os dentes no banheiro do trabalho kjskjskjskjs

    • @sarahfernandes3140
      @sarahfernandes3140 3 года назад +4

      Agree with Carlos. I’d find odd if people didn’t brush their teeth after lunch at work.

    • @prjime5067
      @prjime5067 2 года назад

      In some Latin countries, people brush 3 times a week. Especially children, they come to lunch at home, they brush, tale a 15 minute nap & go back to school for the afternoon classes! You r great!!🌺

  • @shambhavisharma2592
    @shambhavisharma2592 3 года назад +73

    Thank you, sir, I've been extremely anxious because my life altering examinations' date is to be decided soon and I very recently lost my godmother too and everything seems like it's crumbling around me and my imposters syndrome isn't much of a help either. This gave me a lot of perspective on what's important and what I should do ☺️💜✨. I'm grateful ❤️

    • @HybridCalisthenics
      @HybridCalisthenics  3 года назад +31

      I'm glad the video could help at all! I'm sorry to hear about your godmother and your current situation. I hope things will get better for you! I'm cheering for your success. Best of luck on your exams!

    • @itsgeet
      @itsgeet 3 года назад +4

      Goodluck for your boards girl👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽

    • @shambhavisharma2592
      @shambhavisharma2592 3 года назад +4

      @@HybridCalisthenics ☺️ Thank you, Hampton. You've been a constant support even though you do not know me, I'm so thankful ❤️

    • @shambhavisharma2592
      @shambhavisharma2592 3 года назад +6

      @@itsgeet Thank you, they got cancelled, I've been working hard for them but now I can't prove myself through them. No problem, still got NEET 😊💜✨

    • @pattykrasnansky9907
      @pattykrasnansky9907 Год назад

      Imposters syndrome. A name now to what I’ve felt like since childhood “my favorite phoney”. That’s how I’ve felt. It really made me an underachiever

  • @jamiebichelman6526
    @jamiebichelman6526 3 года назад +8

    It’s this rawness and sincerity that all of us appreciate and value so much! For those of us with different physical and/or mental health diagnoses, “just breathe” or “there never was a plan B” doesn’t resonate and will never be anything other than infuriating. Our lives aren’t just *fixed* when someone advises us to eliminate the stress; we’ve tried that our whole lives! It’s videos like these that make us feel heard and accepted

  • @oliverdodd7441
    @oliverdodd7441 3 года назад +17

    Its amazing how you manage to be so positive and caring for everyone around you. Even though you may be going through immense pain you are still trying to make the world a better place! I love your content and you are a major inspiration for me wanting to be more positive and to grow into a better person! Your mother would be extremely proud of you and the internet is lucky to have you!

  • @cokedupcat
    @cokedupcat 3 года назад +18

    This guy's one of the greatest youtubers of all time and probably the absolute best exercise & health channel

  • @zuzan.1204
    @zuzan.1204 3 года назад +18

    I have braces, so I brush my teeth after almost every meal and it works like I usually go to the restroom after a meal and brush my teeth. I carry a small toothpaste and toothbrush to do that. If I don't brush them I at least rinse my teeth with water. I hope I clarified it for you at least a bit ;)

  • @AmyJackson-_-85
    @AmyJackson-_-85 3 года назад +4

    Just what I needed .... I’ve went through anxiety and a nervous breakdown. I keep cycling back into getting worse then better. I get to paranoid, because of work environment. Nursing homes are so stressful. Mainly, the covid changes has changed how we do stuff. Most of our older workers more veterans have left. Lack of leadership. People treating others very bad. Gossiping about each other and never solving the problem.
    Always starts as a problem and then a habit and then addiction for dopamine.
    Problem + Habit = dopamine addiction

  • @Thebeardedviking865
    @Thebeardedviking865 2 года назад

    I know you are not perfect and no one is. But, my goal is to surpass your mood and state of mind. Right now mine is in the darkness and has been for a very long time. I finally found the courage to face my darkness from life and am currently looking to bring light to it. Thank you for your inspiration.

  • @nidhinarayan4700
    @nidhinarayan4700 3 года назад

    Thank you so much for your videos Hampton! You emanate such a calm aura and just listening to you and talk about these different things somehow has a calming effect. Your heart is too pure and I admire the work that you do. Grateful for your existence 🌸

  • @chchedda
    @chchedda 3 года назад +2

    Just listening to him reduces my stress and anxiety. I watch these videos during work as a lion tamer

  • @mralmostknowitall
    @mralmostknowitall 3 года назад

    Nothing beats listen to your vlogs and just hearing that soothing voice and someone talk about this stuff and bring about bit of peace and awareness in life. Thanks for the coffee time talks. You a good man bud. Glad I found your channel.

  • @itsadiinnit
    @itsadiinnit 2 года назад

    Thank You. For someone dealing with this for 20 years now, I don't feel alone anymore. Much appreciated bruv.

  • @ivarbergstedt6202
    @ivarbergstedt6202 3 года назад +1

    you my friend restore my hope in humanity, ive recently started eating better (much less junk food most of all) and even tho im nowhere near my goal as I just started about a month ago i feel better about myself, a big contribution to this is your videos.

  • @ivanttulern.1416
    @ivanttulern.1416 3 года назад +1

    I love how you give advice on health and fitness. Everything in moderation is perfect. I love how you don't go to the excessive and go like, " Just do it." About exercising. 💜

  • @prjime5067
    @prjime5067 2 года назад +1

    Your summary at the end of the video reminded of what I read:
    God give me the SERENITY to accept the things I cannot change, the COURAGE to change the things I can, and the WISDOM to know the difference. Love your videos & the positive community. 🌺

  • @debotrisaha727
    @debotrisaha727 3 года назад +1

    The fact that I stumbled upon this yesterday when I was about to have a mental breakdown. Your voice calms me so much. Thank you so much for this video

  • @missdirectedawakening
    @missdirectedawakening 3 года назад

    Your genuine you is very pure. The way you want to help the world is beautiful!! We accept you're human and we're just lucky you chose to help the world and thank you 🙏🏼💚

  • @ilikepecansandphilosophy5084
    @ilikepecansandphilosophy5084 2 года назад +1

    Can we acknowledge that this beautiful man is putting those videos fully packed of advice and wisdom out there for us FOR FREE? He is helping so many people and we should all be greatful for the work he puts into whatever he does.

  • @Bjornbloodeye
    @Bjornbloodeye 2 месяца назад

    I'm so glad to have been following your channel. This one has been sitting in my watch later for a while and I'm so glad I finally got to watch this!

  • @RealAyzeNZ
    @RealAyzeNZ 3 года назад +2

    For me recognising when I am stressing, helps a lot. At times I feel an overwhelming uncomfortable way as we all do. But lately I have started to just remind myself that I am stressing and and almost immediately it diminishes, not completely but just knowing what is going on in my mind or physical being, really helps for me.

  • @usernamenick8944
    @usernamenick8944 3 года назад

    I just want to say a huge thank you, you offer us so much without expecting anything!
    I've managed to make leaps of proggress with your help, both physically and mentally and I'm extremely grateful

  • @gunner8883
    @gunner8883 6 месяцев назад

    Dude your channel is amazing, definitely helping with my anxiety each morning-noon when I sit down have my coffee and write down my schedule. Thanks for sitting down with us and helping bro!

  • @evilpac2327
    @evilpac2327 3 года назад +1

    Great video, as always. I've been watching a lot of your content lately, and started the routine on your website this week. There's a loooong road ahead, but it feels nice to have started it. Looking forward to the update.
    You are a kind soul, thank you for everything. I'm sure your mother is proud of you.

  • @FijianSouljah1312
    @FijianSouljah1312 3 года назад +3

    Honestly, I don’t mind how long the video is just as long as you’ve made your point and your message comes out properly..
    Keep up the videos, you’ve honestly motivated me to get back in shape physically AND mentally!
    Luv from down unda (Australia) ! 🙌🏽🇦🇺

  • @Coffee_Is_Magic
    @Coffee_Is_Magic Год назад

    You have no idea how much this has helped me. Your mother I'm sure would be so proud of who you've turned out to be. Thank you

  • @rakib_rahman
    @rakib_rahman 3 года назад

    Somehow you feel more human in this video hampton. Thank you so much for sharing your struggles and pains with us. It shows that even if Hampton looks perfect from the outside, in the inside he's just as confused and figuring out his answers as everyone else is! It's really nice of you to share that dog story as well! A lot of the times, we give up way too easily and we beat ourselves up for it but then someone or something convinces us to be kind to ourselves and keep going. I hope you have a beautiful day and you take good care of yourself! And again, thank you my friend for the message!

  • @TriggerStand
    @TriggerStand 3 года назад +146

    me: has to study
    also me: watches 26 minute video because it's hampton

    • @joooanit0224
      @joooanit0224 3 года назад +7

      Shut up and study.

    • @Grimmjeaux
      @Grimmjeaux 3 года назад +13

      @@joooanit0224

    • @shivaniGautam-ux5ur
      @shivaniGautam-ux5ur 3 года назад +3

      Hey buddy thanks ( I need to study and I just started watching this video but after reading you I will watch this later )
      Thanks for saving my schedule

  • @kryslene14
    @kryslene14 3 года назад

    Hi Hampton ☺️ I just wanted to let you know how thankful I am that you impart and spend time to create this community with us. Unexplainably you help me calm myself. I hope you have a great day ☕️

  • @Whippet4Life
    @Whippet4Life 10 месяцев назад

    I just found you while I was looking for some workout advice a few days ago, and now i just look at all of your videos. I love your "coffee" videos even more, you are an amazing person. In the world we live right now we need people like you more than ever, thank you 💜... sending love from Slovenia 🙏

  • @speedbrake22
    @speedbrake22 3 года назад +1

    Awesome video Hampton! And I got the Beautiful Day shirt today, it’s very nice! Thanks man, hope more people get to see your videos

  • @leslieturner5300
    @leslieturner5300 3 года назад +2

    Thank you. I needed this today and thank you for being honest and straightforward about how you are as a human being 🙏

  • @HanLink
    @HanLink 3 года назад

    I really needed one those videos from you, and now you uploded it. What a timing.

  • @samantharosario4631
    @samantharosario4631 3 года назад

    Love your channel! I am starting my journey with calisthenics after years of inactivity due to knee injury from college volleyball. Love your positive and easy going personality🙌🏽

  • @rojoanguimena3038
    @rojoanguimena3038 3 года назад +6

    Hey hampton=)
    Just wanna let you know I have been doing exercise 3 months consistently using the routine that you shared.
    Your videos explaining, breaking downs things, the helpful tips, etc have been awesome.
    Thank you so much for all the content.
    I feel stronger, healthier, happier

  • @clarab325
    @clarab325 3 года назад

    Thank you for this video! I really needed this and thank you for suggesting a routine/process to deal we the things we can control, I had never really thought about that

  • @taylorharbin3948
    @taylorharbin3948 Месяц назад

    Realistic expectations. Yes siree, that has been great for me. I feel much better having done something reasonable for me and still have time/energy for other things than to completely wear myself out.

  • @mr.ponstan7522
    @mr.ponstan7522 3 года назад +1

    Bravo! Very good video. I appreciate you for the work you do and the way you do it. Very relaxed and laid back but straight forward. You made very good points and gave very good advice. Sorry to hear about your Mother. You have my condolences. Keep up the good work and just keep being you and you'll go very far! God bless you!

  • @alexprieto8277
    @alexprieto8277 3 года назад +3

    I liked what you said at the end about core routines.
    I do pushups, 2 types of squats, 100-ups, plank and reverse plank, backward lunges, and easy version of burpees.
    I started with knee pushups being unable to do 1 pushup. I still can't do too many pushups(I weigh 350 lbs) but I do knee pushups too.
    I'm just trying exercises adding what I think is useful. Cemented the workout over a month feel good when I work out. Need to add cardio to lose body fat.
    I enjoy your videos you have a wealth of knowledge.

  • @bamaphoenix9873
    @bamaphoenix9873 3 года назад

    Thanks for sharing and reemphasizing these tips and reminders. Also, thanks for your dedication to your channel and for the continued desire to help others. You're a blessing. 🙏😎🙏

  • @dailydoseofmedicinee
    @dailydoseofmedicinee 3 года назад +13

    Physical symptoms of anxiety🙌
    stomach pain, nausea, or digestive trouble.
    headache.
    insomnia or other sleep issues (waking up frequently, for example)
    weakness or fatigue.
    rapid breathing or shortness of breath.
    pounding heart or increased heart rate.
    sweating.
    trembling or shaking.

    • @Andrew20pp
      @Andrew20pp 3 года назад +2

      You just described me 🥲

    • @f.a3202
      @f.a3202 3 года назад

      @@Andrew20pp same. but what can we do? i just failed my driving test because of anxiety

    • @Andrew20pp
      @Andrew20pp 3 года назад +2

      @@f.a3202I remember failing my first test too. This is terrible advice if you ask me but I blamed the crappy roads by the DMV so I went to a different DMV in the nice side of town. That gave me confidence and passed the test. It went so well the instructor was practically on his phone the entire time. You jusneed to build confidence.

  • @shyam5631
    @shyam5631 2 года назад

    I love this CHANNELLLLL!!!!!!!. Your content is very peaceful and extremely useful. I am glad that i found this channel at the right time.

  • @taylort5775
    @taylort5775 2 года назад

    Thanks for sharing this. All of your videos help reduce stress. Even your exercise videos. You have such a soothing voice, plus the nature around you. Thanks for all you do Hampton!

  • @genesisansbro4936
    @genesisansbro4936 3 года назад +3

    I have hpv, high grade CIN 3... meaning the abnormal cells on my cervix are highly likely to turn into cancerous cells. I need to learn how to de stress... also if you are a woman reading this please get your Pap smears done atleast once a year. Thank you for the words of wisdom.

    • @RadishTheFool
      @RadishTheFool 3 года назад

      That does sound very stressful. I hope you have found people to support you. Good luck, I wish you all the best.

  • @jaxd7206
    @jaxd7206 3 года назад +1

    Thank you for the lovely insight my friend ❤️ I happened to be one of the people that brushes his teeth after every meal.
    Reason is, I have a broken tooth and I'm terrified of dentists so I haven't gotten to get it fixed yet.
    So brushing after I eat anything helps with its hygiene.

  • @rabidscallion9947
    @rabidscallion9947 3 года назад

    Thanks for your honesty and clarity!!! You’re awesome.

  • @mr.spyderman
    @mr.spyderman 3 года назад

    As always, thank you for your thoughts Hampton. I appreciate your content very much!

  • @SakkusMind
    @SakkusMind 2 года назад +4

    Hey Hampton, I really love these videos! I would love to hear an episode on having needs and respecting others needs (also if they are clashing)
    Thanks brother ❤️

  • @krishnalyn227
    @krishnalyn227 3 года назад +1

    Thank you, brother! We really appreciate these videos.

  • @AdaLollA
    @AdaLollA 3 года назад

    being kind to one self can be very tough at times. dealing with setbacks is sometimes troublesome and the fear of spiraling is an additional problem. i really appreciate eveything you do. could you do a video on overthinking / spiraling? its cool if you won't - youre already doing way more than anyone could ever ask of you.

  • @PurpleNinjaPwr
    @PurpleNinjaPwr 3 года назад +12

    About the brushing teeth after every meal topic:
    When I was in high school I had Invisalign. These are the “invisible braces” that “work faster than regular braces” and are more expensive. It’s like a plastic retainer that’s more sturdy.
    I had them for five years and had to remove the two plastic pieces every time I ate, brush my teeth after each meal, rinse the pieces, then put them back on. This included at the cafeteria and when I ate at restaurants. So yeah I would bring my purse with a toothbrush, toothpaste, and floss inside and go to the restroom to brush after eating like Hampton says here haha.
    After five years of doing this habit daily, I was finally done wooo!- oh wait I have retainers now so that my teeth don’t revert their shape. For a few years I wore those retainers day and night. I’d take a purse to work with brushing essentials and brush my teeth at the break room sink. No one ever batted an eye but once a coworker once asked me, “are you brushing your teeth?” I said, “yep!” he kind of slowly nodded and said, “cool.” 😆
    To this day I wear my retainers every night and still have brushing essentials in my purse just in case.

    • @aidey8mph605
      @aidey8mph605 2 года назад

      The cleanest mouth in the universe

  • @sophkeyy
    @sophkeyy 3 года назад

    This video was so good at reducing my stress I instantly fell asleep watching it. Now I have to watch it again to actually hear your tips for stress reduction.

  • @Maxioisdead1
    @Maxioisdead1 3 года назад +23

    ok this is absurd....
    i was searching that i randomly forget things after like 1 second, and it showed that it might be because of anxiety and stress...
    and you just instantly uploaded this video... like are you in my house or smth???

    • @Maxioisdead1
      @Maxioisdead1 3 года назад +7

      why did i write this?

    • @HybridCalisthenics
      @HybridCalisthenics  3 года назад +11

      Hahaha must be sweet serendipity!

    • @Maxioisdead1
      @Maxioisdead1 3 года назад +3

      @@HybridCalisthenics lol

    • @BOOhaha96
      @BOOhaha96 3 года назад +1

      @@Maxioisdead1 LOL

    • @iamtheluciddreamofficial
      @iamtheluciddreamofficial 3 года назад +1

      Dude me too but I didn’t got this issue anymore trained my cognitive abilities to fix that, u can do this too

  • @Taylor-bw4zg
    @Taylor-bw4zg 3 года назад

    I dont have anyone really that I consider a close friend but these videos always make me feel like I do so thank you for these

  • @lydiarhiannon624
    @lydiarhiannon624 3 года назад

    Hampton. Your videos are so wonderful, i feel the love you want to share emanating from all your videos!! Thank you for being you and sharing your soul with us all. This is an amazing message, what I heard was: 'be your own best friend!' Dont be so hard on yourself, and be kinder in mind and heart. I find talking to myself helps a lot, I tell myself things like: 'its okay if I fail, I can accept that I might fail/it won't turn out how I expect or want it to'. When it comes to inner work, I've always found just a simple acceptance of the emotions you feel is enough to release the stress/trauma associated. So accepting that you might fail, and knowing that its okay if we do, is always something I've found of benefit. I also find the stoic belief of control runs true here - 'you're only in control of yourself, your mind and reactions'. Knowing that gives me, personally, more drive to better myself and I find I am a lot happier now with life now I'm focusing on myself and how I am, rather than the external forces that I've no ability to control (the place I live, the people I interact with and how they are etc..) I believe that the world is a much nicer place when you can find peace in your own mind and heart, within, so that outside of you can reflect back to you the tranquility you feel. (Have you heard of the inside-out perspective? Its very interesting!)
    Thanks again Hampton, your videos always keep me on the right track. Blessings to you and your family ❤

    • @lydiarhiannon624
      @lydiarhiannon624 3 года назад

      As a side note - if you struggle to accept that you might fail, see if you can accept that your resistant to accepting that you might fail. And if you still struggle, see if you can accept the resistance, to the resistance of accepting that you may fail. Keep going that way until you find you can accept it. You'll be surprised how relieved you feel once you've worked through all those layers, simply by accepting yourself for feeling as you do 🙏🏻

  • @joanagodoy2012
    @joanagodoy2012 3 года назад

    Feeling so much better and inspired after watching this, thank you.

  • @Hannahdealer8180
    @Hannahdealer8180 3 года назад +3

    You're such a beautiful soul. Thank you for sharing! ✝️ 💟

  • @heidigreen821
    @heidigreen821 3 года назад

    I really like these styles of videos. It helps me calm down hearing these talks when I do yoga.

  • @SalsaNube
    @SalsaNube 3 года назад

    You are a unique and beautiful soul. Have a beautiful day tomorrow and same to all of You in this community!

  • @EkkoMr
    @EkkoMr 3 года назад

    Hampton Videos always reduce my stress.
    Glad i found this community.

  • @v.c.18
    @v.c.18 3 года назад

    Thanks for the video Hampton! I found it really relatable and applicable!
    This video helped me realise there are things I tell myself are out of my control so that I can be comfortably complacent with my indulgent, leisurely lifestyle, when in reality that's untrue, and I should indeed work towards those goals. I'm gonna do that now!
    I only found your channel 2 weeks ago but I've since watched so many Coffee with Hampton videos because you really inspire me to improve myself, and always give helpful, realistic advice on how to do so! Keep up the good work! God bless!
    (side note: it makes me so happy that you're Christian haha. That serenity prayer was a really good reminder for me :)) )

  • @randomdds
    @randomdds 5 месяцев назад

    Hey Hampton,
    I stumbled into your channel yesterday.
    As a dentist, i recommend just swishing with water after your meal to clear out sugars.
    As for brushing, as long as its before bed (and after your last meal).

  • @heero8130
    @heero8130 3 года назад

    Dude ur video just keeps me getting stronger and stronger.

  • @DarkKnight_
    @DarkKnight_ 3 года назад

    Love your videos, Hampton. Although I don't feel stress nowadays, I really struggled with it and this really puts things into perspective

  • @CDTaRo
    @CDTaRo 3 года назад +4

    Found this guy a few days ago, I never really binge watch youtubers but these talks are so chill and helpful most of the time. He just seems like a really good person to be with and listen to

  • @brianarobles8282
    @brianarobles8282 Год назад +1

    I would love if you had a podcast! I’d love to hear your thoughts while I do something mindless and at the moment you’re the only fitness personality I trust :) Just a thought! Thanks for the content friend! ❤

  • @binitakawar1527
    @binitakawar1527 2 года назад

    You really feel like a brother. I feel at peace with you talking.

  • @BOOMNERD51
    @BOOMNERD51 2 года назад

    I'm getting hooked. Have to make a comeback from sedentary ways and fight fear of injury at 71, and wanting quick muscle buildy like I could do in my forties. Very inspired sometimes to injury but every PT routine! was a learning experience, especially sciatica. Benched me the longest, but makes balancing 12 year old me with 71 yr old.

  • @cydia2178
    @cydia2178 3 года назад

    I have a coming university exam thats so important for me and i was so stressed and here this videos is what i need. Thanks a lot and hey guys if you’re reading this wish me luck!🧿

  • @Chloe-kf1jq
    @Chloe-kf1jq 3 года назад +7

    I have the final exam of my degree on monday, I really needed this thank you xx

    • @RadishTheFool
      @RadishTheFool 3 года назад +1

      Good luck, I hope it goes well. 😊

    • @prjime5067
      @prjime5067 2 года назад

      Good luck! I bet you will do just fine!🌺

  • @xavierburgos2647
    @xavierburgos2647 3 года назад +1

    I’m so happy I found this channel

  • @Rafael-qd1xw
    @Rafael-qd1xw 3 года назад

    Very good video bro! Been struggling with stress and anxiety lately and I think your tips and advices will definitely help me. Thanks from Brazil!

  • @hannahjoubert5725
    @hannahjoubert5725 3 года назад +2

    Thank you Hampton! ❤️

  • @Lentreeo
    @Lentreeo 2 года назад

    Thank you! Your videos are so stress relieving, very wise words man.

  • @marthawade5297
    @marthawade5297 3 года назад

    Thanks for tjis video. It was very insightful and helpful. My "take away" is tp remember that I DO have control of many things and that I shouldn't be too quick abandon them or give up.

  • @anesethemi5054
    @anesethemi5054 2 года назад +3

    Hampton u are really a bless dude, I am trying to get through colledge, and sometimes I get the idea that I am not suited for this, it should be different and I cant control it, but as u said if we keep trying we might be able to realise that we are indeed able to control some stuff, so yeah thanks a lot for the advice and I really enjoy ur videos.

  • @douglasemsantos
    @douglasemsantos 3 года назад

    Thank you so much for the great advice! I have all the tools, now I need to practice it.

  • @Shanthi..
    @Shanthi.. 3 года назад

    literally one of the best things that happened to me ...... found your channel!

  • @fjficthus
    @fjficthus 11 месяцев назад

    Excellent advice. Just what I needed to hear this morning. Thank you.

  • @MrTyrannowalfisch
    @MrTyrannowalfisch 3 года назад

    thank you very much for this and your other videos, you are a wholesome person!

  • @heroa8592
    @heroa8592 3 года назад +42

    I was just writing an essay about this and in glad we agree 😂

  • @Sayori-cs9vp
    @Sayori-cs9vp 3 года назад

    Unbelievable ! Great timing as usual 👍🏻 thank you