I swear we've all been there... and it HURTSSS... if you haven't experienced it yet, you will 🥲 ALSO HIIII WELCOME TO THE FIRST 12 GAYS OF CHRISTMAS VIDEO FOR 2022!!! IM SO EXCITED 🌈 P.S. CODE '12GAYS' WILL GET YOU 10% OFF MERCH BAAABY ✨ shop.laurenelloise.com/
Rule #1: Don’t fall for someone straight. Rule #2: Don’t fall for your best friend. Rule #3: Don’t fall for someone in a relationship. What do we do? We fall for our straight best friend in a relationship.
When I had a similar situation, what really helped me is to focus on my studies and sport. I made my mind too busy to think about her that when I come home I was so tired that instead of thinking about her I slept like a baby. I woke up early, run, study, go to gym, and etc. It really helps but is very important to be careful to not hurt yourself.
what's the mindset that helped get over it, do we really have to give up to the fact that some girls are born straight?, cause I don't think I was born Lesbian, I think I was made into one, and so I don't understand why there are girls who are not.
I would love to buy ur merch but I’m unfortunately in a homophobic household. Also I have had a crush on my BFF for over a year and this video is helping so much ❤
that's okay! i don't plan on taking it away any time soon, so it'll be there for when you can get it / want to! I appreciate you just being here 💗 im so happy this vid is helping! crushing on ur bff hits hardddd
@@laurenelloise omg I cannot believe you actually saw my comment!! Love you and all that you are doing for this community ❤️ thanks again for being you and making awesome vids I watch whenever life pulls me down, I can come to you and feel safe and at home you have helped me through one of the darkest times in my life and because of you I am still here. Thank you ❤️🏳️🌈
Sometimes i wish i was straight so i wouldn't have to go through the 'is she gay' phase and sometimes i don't because being gay immediately makes you 10x cooler than the straights
I'm a little late watching this video, but I told my straight girl crush last year that I had a huge crush on her and then she was straight, But only this year she came out as bisexual! If only you could of come out as bisexual when I had a huge crush on you! Thank you Lauren! It's always annoying when you fall in love with a straight person! 🌈🏳🌈
yeah that means she was never straight lmao, the real problem and the topic of the video is these hard-hearted straights, and I swear, most bi are just the same self-centered woman who only woman she really loves is herself like all the straighties I know.
I have a friend, per say. We became friends because after I confessed to her, we coincidentally keep noticing and being in the same area together, which was really awkward. We slowly started to be friends to a level where we could playfully banter. I swear all the signs point to her being gay. She wore a suit to our school's prefect annual dinner, has a very deep masculine voice, prefers pants of dresses, walks gay (just so masculine), sits gay and etc. She is the most masculine woman I've ever seen besides a Year 9 girl, who is gay. I told her because I wanted to move on with that crush on her. And at the end I still like her and we are friends now. I don't mine being friends, but there will be times where I would wish she was gay. Not sure if I'm over her completely, but I'm really happy with being friends with her. I even wanted to be prefect cuz she is a prefect, now I do still want to be prefect but because there's benefits and advantages with being one. The reason I'm still now 100% letting go is because that she is still questioning. There would be a chance and I'm willing to wait for a while. When I told her, she said that she liked a dude, which I accepted since yea, shes straight. I want to wait, I'm still young so I got time.
Hey, your story just got me. It sounds so real and that’s also a pretty sad thing. If I can ask, how it all ended? Is she still straight or you two are dating now? Sorry for so many personal questions, I’m just intrested in your lovestory ☺️❤️
@@tatanakrylova7404 hey yea so i got over her, though now we don't talk much anymore 😭 I don't really know much about her or what she's doing nowadays since we have different lunch times. It's not rlly a love story haha, just a girl with a little crush.
questioning and straight are 2 different things, my conclusion is that there are girls who are egocentric and they are already in romantic relationship with a woman, that woman is her, she can't be in love with another woman.
but I don't think people are born with solid sexualities and I think they can change according the environment, DON'T tell me why don't YOU change, because all I can see is that the environment, with all men being lozerlozersons and women becoming on top makes you wanna go women lmao, trust me I'm crying while I'm laughing because I don't get it 😭
i actually have a bisexual best friend. i confessed to her a while ago and she doesnt like me back. we have been drifting apart for a while now so its probably better than telling her when we were close. but it just sucks shes gay and doesnt like me.
Thank you so much for this video! I have humored a crush for half a year now, but know it's getting to the point where the crush... will not be funny if I let it persist. I feel that over time, these kinds of crushes are easier to compartimentalize, but they still can hit you like a sledgehammer out of nowhere... especially when it is someone you see every day!
I cry every time I see Jisoo, I'll be honest but straight girls have this aura that I don't know how to explain it, knowing I'd give her my soul but she wouldn't even care that I exist and it doesn't make any difference to her if I disappeared?, anyone, these mixed feelings of sht, I'm tired of all of that.
Yayyyy the 12 gays of Christmas has started, I’ve been waiting for this to come back. I always always love watching them because they are just very different from everyone else’s videos. Can we just appreciate how much hard work Lauren has put in to plan these videos and she does the best ever job. We love you so much and thank you for just being a legend 🎉❤
Today i realised i liked a girl who is straight and i also realised a guy who was my friend may like her , i am kinda feel rather heart broken, she understands me so well it's really painful. as a demipansexual i rarely found someone who could understand me , it's really annoying and hurt ........i really needed this tips now , thank you and i hope i could move on
You remind me so much of the Minecraft RUclipsr pearlescent moon, idk I might just be the accent but you sound and look so much alike and the opening soundtrack for the videos might be the same as she uses for her build time lapses, just a thought no judgement, love your lesbian vids they help me so much
Woo hoo! The 12 gays of Christmas are back! Lauren what should I do when my crush teases me, I’m not sure what I should do. I know she’s straight, I know I can’t change it, she has told me so many times, but I think she likes the attention, I don’t wanna loose what we have so what should I do?
The funny thing is that I fell in love with my gay friend (who is a girl) just a couple of weeks after she sad she has a crush on her another friend (who is also a girl and who I don’t know). I realised I like her yesterday and now I have to wait until she will say her crush about her love to see if I have chance.
Love your videos so much! I really, really needed this one, thank you! Unfortunately, I'm not even past stage one! I'm pretty sure she's not gay but as she's just about the one person who can make me smile just by existing right now, I am very reluctant to give it up. I know that it will only hurt more as time goes on but I just can't bring myself to care! I will try the next step in about a year's time probably!
just got back from dance practice,who was my partner for the first duet section we ever did?this friend of mine who I've been crushing on for a while.she's straight and she's in my friend group and I literally stare at her already when she dances,now I have to be face to face with her(but still I hope couples won't change cause at least I have an excuse to). this feels like it was made just for me(but I know I'll still crush on her)
Hi Lauren! I would really appreciate some more videos about how to confess to your crush (your experiences included if you want to) + dealing with the outcome. As well as date ideas, wlw flirting and just anything along those lines 😊
It's not my best friend but my roommate whom I share a dorm room with. I don't even know if she's straight or not. We don't talk about stuff like that because it's a difficult topic for me. I wish I could tell her that I like her but I don't want to scare her away if she's not interested. I know she's open-minded but I haven't even told her that I'm gay.
I have been in receiving end of this kind of situation even though I'm male. And result was that I was really sorry for my friend that I'm straight . Even though I'm really shy person and almost never could personally say that I have crush for someone I recommend that you say something about it because you have better chance to get over with it or if you are super lucky you'll get partner.
Help gurllll I have tried everything i just can't get over her!! it feels like i can never love sm the same ever again she is my first love, my bff, and is straight ......ikik i should not waste my time on her but i jst can't! I have been in luv w her for 3yrs now😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Thank you! She was bi but she isn’t anymore… (that’s what my friends say) and now she has a bf I think, they jokingly flirt but I think they are together I’ve been trying to get over her for a year…
Love that the 12 gays of Christmas is back!! 🌈 Can I ask though, just in case you do a video I suggested I’m the question box, can you not show my insta handle? I’m not out to many people and I just wouldn’t want people to see, hope that’s ok? Xx
I love my best friend and we've been friends for like 15 years and she also knows I'm lesbian and she's straight..... And It's really hurt to see her dating someone else 😢 If It was any other guy i can still manage but fuckkkkk SHE IS DATING MY COUSINNNNNN😭😭 it hurtsssss like helll!!! But why i always caught her staring at meeeee😑 i don't know what to do
I recently asked a girl out and she just said nothing and now’s she’s been ignoring me for a few weeks now and before I told her we used to talk all the time.
My crush is this really popular straight girl. We are not friends what so ever but she is in my class and I can't stop dreaming about her and looking at her. 😶😶😶 I feel sad when she gets excited over this boy she's texting but I also feel Very happy that she's happy. I just feel brocken. I don't have instagram but this girl does and I look at her instagram on other people's phones. Treating it like a breakup is perfect. Completely avoid her for sure.
Here's the thing...at work she KEPT LOOKING AT ME- ALL THE TIME! We'd have that 'eye-lock' moment! Well I told her that I knew she was straight but I wasn't so stop bcuz I'm getting wrong msg. Have since found out she's married-for 11 yrs!!yes!!! Wtf?! :(
Going through this rn bc my crush’s best friend told me that “I have no chance bc she’s straight” and that girl’s boyfriend told me the same thing very harshly and it made me super upset bc I’ve been crushing on my crush for like half a year already and my old gf dumped me before that :(
I’ve had a few comments requesting this! I might have to make it! 💗 also, it’s okay to be alone! there are pros and cons to being in a relationship so enjoy the time you have to yourself!
I have a huge crush on my best friend, I’m moving schools next year and she’s straight so ik it’s probably not going to work out the way I want it to, I’m trying to get over her but i just can’t, she’s the only one I want to be with, it hurts
It’s really my 1st time being part of the 12 days of gaymas. But honestly though I’ve never been part of it before. But anyway for me: I really do want either a girlfriend or many girlfriends , but I jus want them to be a lesbian only but not as straights. But don’t get me wrong on that I really do love all people , but I jus don’t want straights at all. Cuz straights always wants a boyfriend , but rather than jus actually wanting a girlfriend. But that’s what I really don’t like at all , cuz in fact that’s what I hate. Cuz I jus don’t wanna be judged for what I do look like. Cuz it really breaks my heart that they jus do that , but instead of actually going along with what I really want.
HELP PLEASE GUYS 💔😞 So im in love w my girl bsf. I’ve liked her for only a few days, but I’ve been debating if I liked her for awhile and I think I’ve officially fallen. She’s straight, but has said she’s been bi curious in the past. She’s very flirtatious and touchy feely with me, but that’s just how she is. That’s not helping tho tbh. I really like her- but she likes this guy from her apush class. He’s some blonde dude, but she’s head over heels. She asked me if she was gay would I have crush on her and I said “yea probably, but I have crushes on everyone lmao.” She glazed over it, but I can’t admit I do like her. I have no clue what to do, but I’m really sad abt it :( Leave advice please 😢❤
Tell her how you feel. Its better for you to express your feelings rather than keeping it to yourself. Your friendship might not be the same as before but atleast you have been true to yourself.
I’m a female too. But for me I jus can’t even tell if a female is straight or is into other females. But I really hate it like when people jus straight up jus judge us jus for what we all look like , but instead of not taking the time to jus look at us from the insides. But also I jus don’t really know , if a female is straight and is into other females. But I do hate it that females jus only look for boyfriends , but instead of actually looking for girlfriends. But how can I get a girlfriend who is a lesbian , but instead of actually being straight…??? Please make a video for that. Cuz I’m in a world that’s so filled with all straights , but I really don’t mean this in the wrong way. But I jus either wanna have a girlfriend or many girlfriends.
I want your murch so bad but im broke and my family is homophobic Also ive had a crush on a straight girl who doesn't even know i exist its great lifes great 😢😊
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I swear we've all been there... and it HURTSSS... if you haven't experienced it yet, you will 🥲 ALSO HIIII WELCOME TO THE FIRST 12 GAYS OF CHRISTMAS VIDEO FOR 2022!!! IM SO EXCITED 🌈 P.S. CODE '12GAYS' WILL GET YOU 10% OFF MERCH BAAABY ✨ shop.laurenelloise.com/
I was just like ok im over it when she told me😂
stronggggg 💪
I was like u wasted so much time im not gonna waste any more 😂🤦♀️
YES I WAS ABOUT TO ASK IF U WERE GONNA DO 12 GAYS OF X-MAS
here we goooooo
Rule #1: Don’t fall for someone straight.
Rule #2: Don’t fall for your best friend.
Rule #3: Don’t fall for someone in a relationship.
What do we do?
We fall for our straight best friend in a relationship.
literally tho hahahaha 😭
Yea well sometimes you can't help it! Then it's too late, you're crushed by your straight girl crush!!! :(
Rules are there to break them
You got that one right!
i like my best friend lol
When I had a similar situation, what really helped me is to focus on my studies and sport. I made my mind too busy to think about her that when I come home I was so tired that instead of thinking about her I slept like a baby. I woke up early, run, study, go to gym, and etc. It really helps but is very important to be careful to not hurt yourself.
what's the mindset that helped get over it, do we really have to give up to the fact that some girls are born straight?, cause I don't think I was born Lesbian, I think I was made into one, and so I don't understand why there are girls who are not.
BUT SHES SO CUTE AND SO PERFECT AND HELP 😭
I feel ya! This happened to me like twice! Recently my heart literally sank when I heard she's straight!
she’s so pretty and nice and smart I wish she loved me back 😭
I would love to buy ur merch but I’m unfortunately in a homophobic household. Also I have had a crush on my BFF for over a year and this video is helping so much ❤
Sameeee gosh I’ve been crushing on my BFF for 2 years
Same
that's okay! i don't plan on taking it away any time soon, so it'll be there for when you can get it / want to! I appreciate you just being here 💗 im so happy this vid is helping! crushing on ur bff hits hardddd
@@laurenelloise omg I cannot believe you actually saw my comment!! Love you and all that you are doing for this community ❤️ thanks again for being you and making awesome vids I watch whenever life pulls me down, I can come to you and feel safe and at home you have helped me through one of the darkest times in my life and because of you I am still here. Thank you ❤️🏳️🌈
Hope you'll get to buy it soon if you love it so much!
its hands down the worst feeling
I FEEL U
question is why any woman want to be straight, I don't understand, men are less attractive and more trouble
Sometimes i wish i was straight so i wouldn't have to go through the 'is she gay' phase and sometimes i don't because being gay immediately makes you 10x cooler than the straights
I finally got over a “straight” girl crush and then she came out as pan 😅
potato potato, still straight, self-centered and unable to love another woman than herself, bi, pan are just gredy straights lmao.
I'm a little late watching this video, but I told my straight girl crush last year that I had a huge crush on her and then she was straight, But only this year she came out as bisexual! If only you could of come out as bisexual when I had a huge crush on you! Thank you Lauren! It's always annoying when you fall in love with a straight person! 🌈🏳🌈
yeah that means she was never straight lmao, the real problem and the topic of the video is these hard-hearted straights, and I swear, most bi are just the same self-centered woman who only woman she really loves is herself like all the straighties I know.
I have a friend, per say. We became friends because after I confessed to her, we coincidentally keep noticing and being in the same area together, which was really awkward. We slowly started to be friends to a level where we could playfully banter.
I swear all the signs point to her being gay. She wore a suit to our school's prefect annual dinner, has a very deep masculine voice, prefers pants of dresses, walks gay (just so masculine), sits gay and etc. She is the most masculine woman I've ever seen besides a Year 9 girl, who is gay.
I told her because I wanted to move on with that crush on her. And at the end I still like her and we are friends now. I don't mine being friends, but there will be times where I would wish she was gay. Not sure if I'm over her completely, but I'm really happy with being friends with her.
I even wanted to be prefect cuz she is a prefect, now I do still want to be prefect but because there's benefits and advantages with being one.
The reason I'm still now 100% letting go is because that she is still questioning. There would be a chance and I'm willing to wait for a while. When I told her, she said that she liked a dude, which I accepted since yea, shes straight. I want to wait, I'm still young so I got time.
Hey, your story just got me. It sounds so real and that’s also a pretty sad thing.
If I can ask, how it all ended? Is she still straight or you two are dating now?
Sorry for so many personal questions, I’m just intrested in your lovestory ☺️❤️
@@tatanakrylova7404 hey yea so i got over her, though now we don't talk much anymore 😭 I don't really know much about her or what she's doing nowadays since we have different lunch times. It's not rlly a love story haha, just a girl with a little crush.
questioning and straight are 2 different things, my conclusion is that there are girls who are egocentric and they are already in romantic relationship with a woman, that woman is her, she can't be in love with another woman.
but I don't think people are born with solid sexualities and I think they can change according the environment, DON'T tell me why don't YOU change, because all I can see is that the environment, with all men being lozerlozersons and women becoming on top makes you wanna go women lmao, trust me I'm crying while I'm laughing because I don't get it 😭
This rlly helps me because I can't get over my straight bff and this one girl kila thanks for helping
ahhh i feel u! im sending my most positive vibes ur way so you can get over her 💗
YOU ARE BACK!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉✋🏻✋🏻✋🏻 I have, for some reason, missed your videos! Welcome back. I hope you’re back now for good. 🤞🏻❤️
awww this is cute! i missed you guys too 🎄❤ so exciteddddd
Hey I'm not stalking my crush. she doesn't even have social media, and I only talk to her in person. All I know about her is what she's told me.
Aww that’s so good!! I love that actually, so old school which is what we all crave
I swear Lauren is literally my therapist! 😅🥰
i actually have a bisexual best friend. i confessed to her a while ago and she doesnt like me back. we have been drifting apart for a while now so its probably better than telling her when we were close. but it just sucks shes gay and doesnt like me.
4:41 heartstopper is a good one (reading and watching)
Thank you so much for this video! I have humored a crush for half a year now, but know it's getting to the point where the crush... will not be funny if I let it persist. I feel that over time, these kinds of crushes are easier to compartimentalize, but they still can hit you like a sledgehammer out of nowhere... especially when it is someone you see every day!
Yessssssss, we all needed is. I want this video to be longer 😭😂❤️
Awww yay for the timing! But also dang, maybe we need a part 2 hahah 💗💗💗
@@laurenelloise pleaseeeee, love all your videos so much
Ahhh tysm
@@laurenelloise 💗
just watching your video made me cry ... everything you say here is SOOO true !!
I cry every time I see Jisoo, I'll be honest but straight girls have this aura that I don't know how to explain it, knowing I'd give her my soul but she wouldn't even care that I exist and it doesn't make any difference to her if I disappeared?, anyone, these mixed feelings of sht, I'm tired of all of that.
Yayyyy the 12 gays of Christmas has started, I’ve been waiting for this to come back. I always always love watching them because they are just very different from everyone else’s videos. Can we just appreciate how much hard work Lauren has put in to plan these videos and she does the best ever job. We love you so much and thank you for just being a legend 🎉❤
THANK YOU SO MUCHHHHH
Today i realised i liked a girl who is straight and i also realised a guy who was my friend may like her , i am kinda feel rather heart broken, she understands me so well it's really painful. as a demipansexual i rarely found someone who could understand me , it's really annoying and hurt ........i really needed this tips now , thank you and i hope i could move on
As a demibisexual I can relate :(
Ahh noo I'm a bit late haha!
I'm super excited for the 12 gays of Christmas!
You’re really early still!!!! 🌈🌲 yesssssssss
Incredible new video my friend, may your jolly 12 Gays Of Christmas begin, much love ❤️🙏🌈
eeee thank you!!!
@@laurenelloise You're welcome 🙌
1 minute in to the video, my crush is straight and my BFF-
Sameeee 😢
This video came just at the right time! Thank you so much ❤
Aw good 🖤🖤 I’m happy for the timing. Wishing u the best with ur crush situation 😣
@@laurenelloisethanks💖 I can't believe you seen my comment 💗💓
Yay the 12 gays of Christmas
It’s backkkkkkk
@@laurenelloise YAY!!
You remind me so much of the Minecraft RUclipsr pearlescent moon, idk I might just be the accent but you sound and look so much alike and the opening soundtrack for the videos might be the same as she uses for her build time lapses, just a thought no judgement, love your lesbian vids they help me so much
She’s not even straight or taken i just don’t want her to hurt me.💀
We decided to run away together and she ran away alone. Like girl what?
I missed your video and this series!!!
i missed you too!!!!
Great opener to the 12 gays of Christmas!
Btw. these tips apply also for other genders.
Yewwww!! Yeah you can really take these and apply them to whatever your crush situation! It’s just a reallyyyyy common thing lesbians / wlw face 💗🌈🙌
Woo hoo! The 12 gays of Christmas are back! Lauren what should I do when my crush teases me, I’m not sure what I should do. I know she’s straight, I know I can’t change it, she has told me so many times, but I think she likes the attention, I don’t wanna loose what we have so what should I do?
The funny thing is that I fell in love with my gay friend (who is a girl) just a couple of weeks after she sad she has a crush on her another friend (who is also a girl and who I don’t know). I realised I like her yesterday and now I have to wait until she will say her crush about her love to see if I have chance.
but i love her..
omfg the timing on this XD
ur welcome ;)
THANK YOU when i saw this i were like AAAH EXACTLY WHAT'S HAPPENING NOW so... i'm looking forward to the next video!!!
are you bi?
@@blackpinkjisoo4969 yeah, why?
I need so much a girlfriend!
She will come when you least expect it! 🖤
Hey!😅 I want a girlfriend too
Love your videos so much! I really, really needed this one, thank you! Unfortunately, I'm not even past stage one! I'm pretty sure she's not gay but as she's just about the one person who can make me smile just by existing right now, I am very reluctant to give it up. I know that it will only hurt more as time goes on but I just can't bring myself to care! I will try the next step in about a year's time probably!
just got back from dance practice,who was my partner for the first duet section we ever did?this friend of mine who I've been crushing on for a while.she's straight and she's in my friend group and I literally stare at her already when she dances,now I have to be face to face with her(but still I hope couples won't change cause at least I have an excuse to).
this feels like it was made just for me(but I know I'll still crush on her)
I have been waiting for this video for monthsss!!!!!
naww then im really glad its finally here for you!!!
Hi Lauren! I would really appreciate some more videos about how to confess to your crush (your experiences included if you want to) + dealing with the outcome. As well as date ideas, wlw flirting and just anything along those lines 😊
hey i made a video on that exact topic! ruclips.net/video/w1anrEh5aqA/видео.html BTW i am planning to do a wlw date ideas real soon 🙊
its here!!! just uploaded the wlw date ideas ruclips.net/video/SfFDbjMqE-M/видео.html
It's not my best friend but my roommate whom I share a dorm room with. I don't even know if she's straight or not. We don't talk about stuff like that because it's a difficult topic for me. I wish I could tell her that I like her but I don't want to scare her away if she's not interested. I know she's open-minded but I haven't even told her that I'm gay.
Thank you sooo much for making this
ur so welcome!! 🖤
I have been in receiving end of this kind of situation even though I'm male. And result was that I was really sorry for my friend that I'm straight . Even though I'm really shy person and almost never could personally say that I have crush for someone I recommend that you say something about it because you have better chance to get over with it or if you are super lucky you'll get partner.
Help gurllll I have tried everything i just can't get over her!! it feels like i can never love sm the same ever again she is my first love, my bff, and is straight ......ikik i should not waste my time on her but i jst can't! I have been in luv w her for 3yrs now😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Thank you! She was bi but she isn’t anymore… (that’s what my friends say) and now she has a bf I think, they jokingly flirt but I think they are together
I’ve been trying to get over her for a year…
Love that the 12 gays of Christmas is back!! 🌈 Can I ask though, just in case you do a video I suggested I’m the question box, can you not show my insta handle? I’m not out to many people and I just wouldn’t want people to see, hope that’s ok? Xx
yes! of course, any time I do a Q&A, i will ALWAYS ask for people to add 'anon' if they want to be anonymous 💗
Thank you sm for this!!! It helped so much. Also, your beautiful! ❤
i had searched "what to do if your crush IS a lesbian", talk about a wrong turn at alburquerque
I love my best friend and we've been friends for like 15 years and she also knows I'm lesbian and she's straight.....
And It's really hurt to see her dating someone else 😢 If It was any other guy i can still manage but fuckkkkk SHE IS DATING MY COUSINNNNNN😭😭 it hurtsssss like helll!!!
But why i always caught her staring at meeeee😑 i don't know what to do
I recently asked a girl out and she just said nothing and now’s she’s been ignoring me for a few weeks now and before I told her we used to talk all the time.
We becaming friends after I confessed to her but idk if I already over her or not...
Currently, I'm crushing on our head girl for 2023, and... and... well, I think I'm doing a good job of hiding it.
My crush is this really popular straight girl. We are not friends what so ever but she is in my class and I can't stop dreaming about her and looking at her. 😶😶😶
I feel sad when she gets excited over this boy she's texting but I also feel Very happy that she's happy. I just feel brocken.
I don't have instagram but this girl does and I look at her instagram on other people's phones.
Treating it like a breakup is perfect. Completely avoid her for sure.
Here's the thing...at work she KEPT LOOKING AT ME- ALL THE TIME! We'd have that 'eye-lock' moment!
Well I told her that I knew she was straight but I wasn't so stop bcuz I'm getting wrong msg. Have since found out she's married-for 11 yrs!!yes!!! Wtf?! :(
aww dang that sucks but hey look at you go, telling her takes courage
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Yeh well she and Talor Schilling could be sisters!!!! NO KIDDING. I 🥰
Going through this rn bc my crush’s best friend told me that “I have no chance bc she’s straight” and that girl’s boyfriend told me the same thing very harshly and it made me super upset bc I’ve been crushing on my crush for like half a year already and my old gf dumped me before that :(
I think that my friend is Straight! So I think I just won’t tell her 🥺. I just don’t want to break the Friendship 😔
Thank you! I really needed this, but ine question. What if the person you like has just left your workplace, and you still like them?....
yaaay im super happy the timing is good for you!
can you make a video on how to get a girlfriend bc im lonely asf
I’ve had a few comments requesting this! I might have to make it! 💗 also, it’s okay to be alone! there are pros and cons to being in a relationship so enjoy the time you have to yourself!
@@laurenelloise thank you! and i agree with u but still
ok so at least my crush is not my bff cause that would've sucked even more
I have a huge crush on my best friend, I’m moving schools next year and she’s straight so ik it’s probably not going to work out the way I want it to, I’m trying to get over her but i just can’t, she’s the only one I want to be with, it hurts
How do you keep your cool around your crush
good question! i think you just gotta take a deep breath and be yourself, being yourself is what will attract the right person for you!
@@laurenelloise thanks
I love you lauren🥰
What do i do when i fell for a girl that i know is gay but i'm just not in her league? :/ cause it hurts just as much as a straight girl crush
I have a crush on an asexual. I hope this helps
Me accepted that my friend is straight next day she came out as bi.
So I may be very late but ur merch is cute wish I could buy it but I'm broke
It’s really my 1st time being part of the 12 days of gaymas.
But honestly though I’ve never been part of it before.
But anyway for me: I really do want either a girlfriend or many girlfriends , but I jus want them to be a lesbian only but not as straights.
But don’t get me wrong on that I really do love all people , but I jus don’t want straights at all.
Cuz straights always wants a boyfriend , but rather than jus actually wanting a girlfriend.
But that’s what I really don’t like at all , cuz in fact that’s what I hate.
Cuz I jus don’t wanna be judged for what I do look like.
Cuz it really breaks my heart that they jus do that , but instead of actually going along with what I really want.
HELP PLEASE GUYS 💔😞
So im in love w my girl bsf. I’ve liked her for only a few days, but I’ve been debating if I liked her for awhile and I think I’ve officially fallen. She’s straight, but has said she’s been bi curious in the past. She’s very flirtatious and touchy feely with me, but that’s just how she is. That’s not helping tho tbh. I really like her- but she likes this guy from her apush class. He’s some blonde dude, but she’s head over heels. She asked me if she was gay would I have crush on her and I said “yea probably, but I have crushes on everyone lmao.” She glazed over it, but I can’t admit I do like her. I have no clue what to do, but I’m really sad abt it :(
Leave advice please 😢❤
No advice here, just someone going through a similar thing. Good luck
Tell her how you feel. Its better for you to express your feelings rather than keeping it to yourself. Your friendship might not be the same as before but atleast you have been true to yourself.
I’m a female too.
But for me I jus can’t even tell if a female is straight or is into other females.
But I really hate it like when people jus straight up jus judge us jus for what we all look like , but instead of not taking the time to jus look at us from the insides.
But also I jus don’t really know , if a female is straight and is into other females.
But I do hate it that females jus only look for boyfriends , but instead of actually looking for girlfriends.
But how can I get a girlfriend who is a lesbian , but instead of actually being straight…???
Please make a video for that.
Cuz I’m in a world that’s so filled with all straights , but I really don’t mean this in the wrong way.
But I jus either wanna have a girlfriend or many girlfriends.
i like my best friend thats straight but she obviously doesn't like me the same way
ok but what do i do if she broke up with me (after being my first kiss) by telling me she was straight and you cant seem to get over her
5:44 if I unsubscribe to her or block her than I will loose our friendship
Iloveyour videos 😍😍😍
thank uuuuuu
THANKYOU
ur welcome 😇
Literally have the biggest crush on my bestie aka wifey not literally tho
And watch ally hills in love with s straight girl music video from 2016 😂😂
OH MY GOD YESSSS 😭😭
thank you
You're welcome :)
@@laurenelloise i sent an email to collab other wize you help me so much
Ok shees my besrie on which i have a crush and im a girl and so is she and my bestie stsaight sooo thx
what if you have no one to replace her with 😕
you find something else / someone else! Doesn’t have to be romantic, can be friendships or hobbies. You got this 💖
@@laurenelloise thank you!
I want a girlfriend 😭😭😭
I promise she will come when you least expect it! 💘
I want your murch so bad but im broke and my family is homophobic
Also ive had a crush on a straight girl who doesn't even know i exist its great lifes great 😢😊
Well, my little sister is straight, and a cute little blonde that was successfuly picked up by a cute girl.