HOCD and FALSE MEMORIES

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  • Опубликовано: 18 сен 2024
  • Jesse talks about false memories and how we can deal with them.
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    In this video I say "False memories CAN be true." What I mean by that is - even although some memories may be real, they are still "false" because of the meaning we assign to them.
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Комментарии • 24

  • @TheyCallMeJesse
    @TheyCallMeJesse  Год назад

    WHAT IF IT'S NOT HOCD - ruclips.net/video/y30IMwYK-Qw/видео.html

  • @nucleonucleo1595
    @nucleonucleo1595 3 года назад +12

    Hi jessy, im near recovery of HOCD, half a year of this hell, your videos helps me a lot

  • @-ce-0715
    @-ce-0715 3 года назад +12

    Thank you I have recovered fully from hocd

  • @KR256-5
    @KR256-5 Год назад +2

    This video thanks alot jesse

  • @elizasylvester564
    @elizasylvester564 3 года назад +3

    My false memory came about by reading a Reddit post and then it just came to me, My mind has convinced me that it happened and that I just forgot

    • @Stoicsaiyan
      @Stoicsaiyan 11 месяцев назад +1

      Bro this is so bizzare but it also proves how powerful the human brain is.

  • @theredbeard6333
    @theredbeard6333 3 года назад +6

    Hello Jesse, Do you have any good Articles about ruminating on memory ? I had false arousal few times in my life because of ocd and I know this for a fact but I have been ruminating about it how and why did it happened, so I am affraid that I have changed my memory

  • @chrishmasilva656
    @chrishmasilva656 3 года назад +6

    Hey Jesse, now I've come to terms with that it's my HOCD that's fucking with my head cuz it all happened in one night 2 years back, but now when ever I feel attraction to a guy , my mind tells me "oh you are forcing to like him,u don't actually like him" and this is killing me, and this makes me question all the crushes I've had when I didn't have HOCD. I feel like dying

  • @purvii2371
    @purvii2371 5 месяцев назад

    Does simply accepting that "okay I'm bisexual" cure this? Because living with uncertainty is next level hard for me though, I wanna FIT in one box and uncertainty making it hell.

  • @Ehden322
    @Ehden322 3 года назад +3

    Hello Jesse, I have a quick question, when I started my HOCD, it happened after i went through two other OCD periods, I had also recently separated myself from my girlfriend and I immediately tried finding someone else but I wasn't happy and that started my HOCD. Ever since, I have been very stressed out about the thought of getting intimate with women, even though previously, that's all I would think about. I am already doing exposure for the homosexual thoughts but what always makes me relapse is the fact that I don't seem to view women the same way, i'm scared somehow. My question would be, should I also do exposure for that?

    • @TheyCallMeJesse
      @TheyCallMeJesse  3 года назад

      if you have a loss of attraction to women, then just accept that. or try your best to. Don't fight it as that is resistance, and the mind will push back. Just say to your self "Im not that attracted at the moment and thats OK". You also sound like you are ruminating a lot. There is no exposure for ruminating, only response prevention. So look up stuff on rumination, people like Michael Greenberg.

  • @thegoodfathers8329
    @thegoodfathers8329 3 года назад +1

    Finally my hocd got

  • @caiquefarias5467
    @caiquefarias5467 3 года назад +1

    thanks for the video, i've suffering with false memories over a year...
    could you talk about dreams? i had a gay dream and i was aroused in the dream

  • @whoknows2511
    @whoknows2511 3 года назад +2

    Does anyone know how to stop the false attraction feel like I’m getting better as the thoughts are less. Whilst the thoughts are less I still have some that are saying that they are only less because I’ve accepted being gay. Any help would be appreciated.

    • @soiloveme9441
      @soiloveme9441 3 года назад +1

      Oh! Well I am dealing with hocd from past couple of weeks only but trust me whoever says that you might be gay and not its just showing up... well that person is literally out of his mind. We always know deep down what we are. I know it deep down that I am straight. You too must be knowing that and when it comes to intrusive thoughts its sign that you are recovering i guess

  • @theone-vn3on
    @theone-vn3on 3 года назад +4

    Hi my hocd is getting so big its controlling me i almost feel like its kicking me out of my own body ,its making me accept that my whole life i have been gay and its creating memories that feel so reall and so crucial and scary .i just don't know what to do i want it out of my life plzz if anyone can help i will appreciate it a lott

    • @TheyCallMeJesse
      @TheyCallMeJesse  3 года назад

      Did you watch the video?

    • @theone-vn3on
      @theone-vn3on 3 года назад

      @@TheyCallMeJesse yess i did and it helped me so much honestly you are the only hope that i have in beeting this but my main problem is my hocd is extreme the tought are not basic they are not about like a person but its like i imagine my self with a man and its like a demon tells me yeah you like that and you want it and when i try to imagine myself with a woman its like i feel that there is not a reference or something that i can grab on or protect myslef with because i have been in relations and i remember that i loved it but i did not do the extreme yet so its like im in a phase of confusion where something is telling me you like sleeping with men and im not beeing able to fight backk and that is my main concern because i dont have any experience at all yet it was all basics and that is worriying me sorry for bothering but im in a massive need of clearance

    • @TheyCallMeJesse
      @TheyCallMeJesse  3 года назад

      With all due respect I can't understand what you're saying as there are no punctuation full stops, it's just one long sentence. I have many videos on my channel including ERP. I suggest you watch them. Better still go and see an OCD specialist

    • @theone-vn3on
      @theone-vn3on 3 года назад

      @@TheyCallMeJesse sorry for not typing in a clear way what i meant was ,i have toughts of liking d*cks , and when i try to convince myself that i don't , i try to do it by saying that i love p*ssys .the main problem is that i haven't had any sexual relation yet so i cant relate to it ,and that is making it even harder , plus hocd thoughts always feel reall wich is stressful altought deep down i know what i really am.

    • @TheyCallMeJesse
      @TheyCallMeJesse  3 года назад +2

      Do not try to convince yourself that you are straight. Learn to sit with uncertainty. Watch my video Avoidance Compulsions and Maladaptive beliefs.

  • @TheyCallMeJesse
    @TheyCallMeJesse  3 года назад

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