Uncertainty & Doubt (Obsessive Compulsive Disorder) with Jeff Bell, Speaker/Author

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  • Jeff Bell is a successful northern California radio newscaster, as well as accomplished speaker on "Navigating Uncertainty and Managing Doubt." Author of "Rewind, Replay, Repeat" and "When in Doubt, MAKE BELIEF."
    AboutHere.TV presents snippets of Jeff's talk in Auburn, CA in late April, 2010.

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  • @nccsing
    @nccsing 4 года назад +47

    a lot of times, i know something is true when it doesnt illicit a strong emotional response. if a thought makes me extremely anxious, i usually can know that that is an ocd thought and doesnt need my attention. true things usually dont hurt me to think

    • @h3ll0w0rldmusic
      @h3ll0w0rldmusic 4 года назад +2

      this made me cry so now i'm confused

    • @Senacesn
      @Senacesn 4 года назад +2

      So true! That's what I've discovered recently as well. Not going to give the power to it and not going to do any more compulsions.

    • @hughg.rection7208
      @hughg.rection7208 2 года назад +1

      That’s true when you feel somthing you know it’s like it feels good to imagine or atleast not stressing depending on the topic but a ocd thought is extremely distressing and feel alien like. Like the devil on your shoulder constantly nagging at you but the angel on the other side barely speaks at all.

    • @danniellejohnson448
      @danniellejohnson448 2 месяца назад

      @@hughg.rection7208Battlefield of the mind literally. Father of lies 👿 plants doubt like the 🐍 in the 🪴 to Eve

  • @moho.tube9
    @moho.tube9 4 года назад +19

    I completely agree with that. The more you ask for reassurance, the more you find yourself doubting everything.

  • @Charlie-fx5vs
    @Charlie-fx5vs 4 года назад +19

    Here's a tip on how I faced my unhealthy doubts, and it worked out fine for me. Just remember, once you face your doubt, and walk with the anxiety that you fear, it's done. There's no turning back. Knowing that you've faced your doubt and your fear, and knowing that you are now able to live with it much easier than you thought, will make that monster that feeds on your compulsions go away.

  • @gregap8282
    @gregap8282 4 года назад +24

    Man living with OCD is a nightmare, a complete and terrible nightmare. This is the definition of mental torture

  • @amoylinseanpaulbandojo8760
    @amoylinseanpaulbandojo8760 4 года назад +19

    I struggle with OCD.. It's affecting my faith especially I'm new in this journey.. Help me God.
    And also ask God to help us guys

    • @vpd2121
      @vpd2121 3 года назад +2

      Ugh me too mate..... It just tries to trap me in my mind

    • @dominicadams9732
      @dominicadams9732 3 года назад

      @@vpd2121 Repent the kingdom of heaven is at hand! It's the last hour Jesus is going back soon! Turn from your wicked ways it says the last days will be like the days of Noah they were eating drinking marrying partying than a flood came! God warned Noah so he made a ark and Noah tried warning Gods people but they were stiff neck with unbeleave they called Noah crazy but only Noah and hes family survied because they believed God! And they built a ark. Same now Jesus is warning us to be ready hes coming for a bride without spot or blemish for people who are on fire for him who show that Jesus is there lord and there house is in order and is ready for hes return. Our body is the temple of God! In Jon it says "FAITH WITHOUT WORKS IS DEAD" are you going to heed this warning!Hebrews 11:7 - By faith Noah, being warned of God of things not seen as yet, moved with fear, prepared an ark to the saving of his house; by the which he condemned the world, and became heir of the righteousness which is by faithMatthew 24:44 - Therefore be ye also ready: for in such an hour as ye think not the Son of man cometh.
      1 John 2:28 - And now, little children, abide in him; that, when he shall appear, we may have confidence, and not be ashamed before him at his comingRomans 13:11-14 - And that, knowing the time, that now [it is] high time to awake out of sleep: for now [is] our salvation nearer than when we believed.1 Corinthians 15:52 - In a moment, in the twinkling of an eye, at the last trump: for the trumpet shall sound, and the dead shall be raised incorruptible, and we shall be changed. It says if you say Jesus is lord and you believe that he died on the cross and resin on the 3rd day you shall be saved! Get your house in order and ready or purish keep your eyes on Jesus and you will not sink. The sighns are here! Jesus loves you!

  • @chaitanyadeshmane8243
    @chaitanyadeshmane8243 22 дня назад +1

    Hatts off to his understanding of OCD.

  • @frostdude1
    @frostdude1 7 лет назад +22

    This is the best thing I've heard so far regarding OCD and how to deal with it. I wholeheartedly agree and I've seen it in my own life that when I have purpose and goals, something that is bigger than the OCD, I can manage it so well
    This message needs to be heard by all OCD sufferers!

    • @laxmandas5252
      @laxmandas5252 5 лет назад

      True... Purpose empowers us to live in doubt

    • @dominicadams9732
      @dominicadams9732 3 года назад

      @@laxmandas5252 Repent the kingdom of heaven is at hand! It's the last hour Jesus is going back soon! Turn from your wicked ways it says the last days will be like the days of Noah they were eating drinking marrying partying than a flood came! God warned Noah so he made a ark and Noah tried warning Gods people but they were stiff neck with unbeleave they called Noah crazy but only Noah and hes family survied because they believed God! And they built a ark. Same now Jesus is warning us to be ready hes coming for a bride without spot or blemish for people who are on fire for him who show that Jesus is there lord and there house is in order and is ready for hes return. Our body is the temple of God! In Jon it says "FAITH WITHOUT WORKS IS DEAD" are you going to heed this warning!Hebrews 11:7 - By faith Noah, being warned of God of things not seen as yet, moved with fear, prepared an ark to the saving of his house; by the which he condemned the world, and became heir of the righteousness which is by faithMatthew 24:44 - Therefore be ye also ready: for in such an hour as ye think not the Son of man cometh.
      1 John 2:28 - And now, little children, abide in him; that, when he shall appear, we may have confidence, and not be ashamed before him at his comingRomans 13:11-14 - And that, knowing the time, that now [it is] high time to awake out of sleep: for now [is] our salvation nearer than when we believed.1 Corinthians 15:52 - In a moment, in the twinkling of an eye, at the last trump: for the trumpet shall sound, and the dead shall be raised incorruptible, and we shall be changed. It says if you say Jesus is lord and you believe that he died on the cross and resin on the 3rd day you shall be saved! Get your house in order and ready or purish keep your eyes on Jesus and you will not sink. The sighns are here! Jesus loves you!

  • @MrKili125
    @MrKili125 6 лет назад +17

    Thanks for this great video. I'm having intrusive thoughts since nearly 4 months now (had them some years before). At the beginning I was very anxious and even depressive because I couldn't get them away. I tried so hard but the anxiety got worse.
    Only after I stopped controlling my thoughts it got better. Today they became less and they don't scare me anymore :)

  • @MultiMagnumforce
    @MultiMagnumforce 8 лет назад +40

    OCD is like a delusion of thoughts not in the sense of that extreme case but can be looked at like a nickname. It's false thoughts about emotional feelings that drive this disorder don't be a prisoner of the brain. Goodluck to freeing yourself from the OCD its not that hard if you stop trying so hard and accept the thoughts.

    • @gingerisevil02
      @gingerisevil02 6 лет назад +6

      MultiMagnumforce the anxiety is terrifying and makes it feel so real though :(

    • @CrisC99
      @CrisC99 4 года назад

      Sadly I understand this all to well

    • @danniellejohnson448
      @danniellejohnson448 2 месяца назад

      Battlefield of the mind. Like the father of lies (Satan) puts doubt/confusion in the mind causing the anxiety. Deception Corinthians 10:5- Cast down imaginations

    • @MultiMagnumforce
      @MultiMagnumforce 2 месяца назад

      FEAR causes OCD.

  • @matthewharris696
    @matthewharris696 5 лет назад +7

    This is the best technique to use for any type of anxiety. Having delt with ocd and depersonalization the best thing to do is just get your mind off of it and you'll forget. I've delt with driving ocd so I would hit a hole or the car would make a noise and in order to completely be sure I didn't hit anything I would circle back. But when I would circle back I would pay no attention to the spot of the noise and drive right by. This shows that we're addicted to the compulsion so the best thing to do is to just not do it

    • @phoenician7157
      @phoenician7157 4 года назад

      This comment helped me a lot and made so much sense to me. Thank yku

  • @AuthenticSelfGrowth
    @AuthenticSelfGrowth 3 года назад +1

    Very good 💯🙏🏽

  • @saurabhvermaportfolio3859
    @saurabhvermaportfolio3859 4 года назад

    Respect your knowledge you shared

  • @gdarit
    @gdarit 6 лет назад +1

    Thanks

  • @michaeljohnson2922
    @michaeljohnson2922 3 года назад +2

    To everyone. Seek out “the feeling good podcast” by Dr David Burns. The GOAT. You’ll never be the same.

  • @skywalker9770
    @skywalker9770 2 года назад

    Encouraging talk 👏

  • @jafll141
    @jafll141 9 лет назад

    Great upload

  • @aStrayforMyTime
    @aStrayforMyTime 5 лет назад +3

    mine shows in perfectionism (i obsess about energy, like every aspect, from shortest distance to conserve calories, or gas (windows side roads, ac highway) to the speed of light and quantum level unfortunate me Im dyslexic and its more a visual thing and this is where i live when im not worried sometimes the earth is going to stop or one of the quarks (building blocks of the universe) or law of physics. This stuff i can manage but.. since I split up with my g.f we were together for 12 years(2 kids) I was 19 then(now 35) and its made it so bad, 2 ways one they have to be perfect (follow my energy guild lines,and mental test). I have no problem with looks, or attracting them and every once and while I will then the next part comes in i dont wont to think sexual of them and come off like a complete creep. This has gottin so I wont look at women or girls in public whether they want it or know it. or "a friend might be like dude like at that ass" and i pretend to look (sometimes i blur my vision or dont look) and in the guys world for them not accuse me of being gay even my ex accuse. writing this has taken 3 hours because of the triggers and fighting the perfectionism thoughts telling to me "just stop" "delete it" "your not good enough' "i wish i had a better Daddy" in daughters voice or "i wish i never had him" in my moms voice. as soon as i send it(this comment) im going regret it but i cant read it again i redo it over and over send

  • @armstrongliberato6419
    @armstrongliberato6419 6 лет назад

    awesome , fantastic

  • @jablow6323
    @jablow6323 4 года назад +1

    All of this sounds great, and it may work for some people, but the habituation he speaks of doesn't happen for me. I've dealt with the same obsession causing intense fear, doubt, etc for over a year now. I've tried literally everything I can think of to manage it before I decided to just give up and accept it. It still persists relentlessly day in and day out. It's like jumping into the freezing cold water and it never "warming up". The habituation doesn't happen.

    • @vpd2121
      @vpd2121 3 года назад +1

      Is it still going on for you?? I'm going through the same thing..

    • @right..5651
      @right..5651 Год назад +1

      Heard that brother 😔

  • @stefanjezdic3157
    @stefanjezdic3157 5 лет назад

    Thanks

  • @b9m866
    @b9m866 3 года назад

    this shit was the best thing i've ever watched with my eyes , yeah you don't get what i'm saying

    • @kejopr23
      @kejopr23 Год назад

      What else have you watched things with? 😆

  • @officeriasishu907
    @officeriasishu907 Год назад

    I AM doubting about my life,i don't know i have OCD or not but i questions everything and then doubts begin again and again,i am tired of my life even Dr can't help me,i think like i'am going to mad one day

  • @nickbally8192
    @nickbally8192 4 года назад +3

    What if sitting with ur anxiety lasts ur whole life

  • @МыколаНетребко
    @МыколаНетребко Год назад

    My lung bully is the fear of eternal torture in Hell. Walking in that doubt is a bit more challenging.

  • @Victor-26
    @Victor-26 4 года назад +1

    2020

  • @kerrymeyer239
    @kerrymeyer239 2 года назад

    I have suffered for 27 long awful years with this monster in my head..tons of therapy.tons of meds... nothing helps.

  • @vincest.fabiano9909
    @vincest.fabiano9909 8 лет назад

    Alexian Brothers OCD clinic, lead by Dr. Patrick McGrath- is a great place to go for help.

    • @Captaincrapful
      @Captaincrapful 6 лет назад

      VINCE ST. FABIANO p0lĺĺĺlĺĺllllllĺllpllpppppppl

  • @avonleamontague2469
    @avonleamontague2469 2 года назад

    Can this guy go ahead and narrorate my biogprahy?

  • @frost1183
    @frost1183 4 года назад +1

    Why does the world seem so alien 😞

  • @Raghav21456
    @Raghav21456 2 года назад

    This gentleman looks and talks like William Lane Craig 😂

  • @whatshisname3304
    @whatshisname3304 4 года назад

    Is this an infomercial? the laughter is perfectly timed and he has a library to sell. nauseating.