Tobie is a true inspiration. Let's take a minute to admire the host, she is incredible, so accepting and asks well-thought questions that actually benefit us-viewers. Thank you, Lisa, so much!
So relatable in the relationship part. Made me feel like I’m not alone from from being in a toxic relationship to finally hearing my heart say this isn’t what I want anymore and letting that person finally go. Love is definitely blind! I couldn’t agree and relate more to Tobie and being able to find new love again but not falling for that person as quickly as my last relationship, if it works out it’ll work out and if it doesn’t then that’s okay too. So far it’s working out and I’m happier than I could ever be. Very amazing video! Thank you Ladies!
It is true think differently. It is really easy to say but hard to accomplish in front of a Narcissist. So much confusion they create. It takes time and a lot of heartaches. Love your comment about Women power and being so Feminine snuggling and loving your husband wish to know more.
Lisa I admire you so much. I love that you don’t stick to the status quo with your personal style, and you seem to have genuinely figured out how to be truly yourself
omgsh i meeded this .. I haven’t told my kids why my mom died and i’ve been waiting for the right age .. my daughters 10 and is the perfect way to tell her
The meaning of this series is so important and critical for the development of women lives. We need role models, we need stories from the women who has risen up from dirt on their own two feet. Women do not need to rely on the societal approval or agreement as to decide what to do with our lives. This program helps so much to tune into more important and meaningful messages given to my heart. I am currently gathering my all strength to escape the swamp i have made solely in order to please the society and people around me. The thing is I MADE THE SWAMP ! So I NEED to build the foundation myself. Thank you WOIM for giving me the courage and support. I keep listening to all the episodes and getting stronger inside.
I’ve listened to all the women of impact episodes, but I shared this with all my girlfriends because we can all relate to the relationship section. Thank you Lisa for this amazing podcast and thank you Tobie for sharing your story
Amazing, Amazing, AMAZING Interview! thank you so much Lisa for another great one. Im a big fan! and Thank you Tobie for sharing your journey and current techniques of being your best version! im currently creating a video to review this interview and taking a quote to write in beautiful calligraphy ! 🤍
What an inspiration! Tobie is so beautiful, intelligent, strong, kind, funny and resilient. ♥️ She is wonderful example we should all follow. Lisa, incredible job on the interview. Loved the questions, you went deep and helped Tobie share so many valuable advice. Thank you so much for this! 🙌
I related to this interview on so many levels. Most people have no idea the struggles of having a successful spouse. I'm continuously trying to make my own way and not fall in the shadows as "just a home maker". I'm looking forward to meeting you at NYCC Lisa. I am loving what you are doing with Women of Impact. 👌 Keep it up.
Amazing episode! Thank you for talking in-depth about speaking up. With your partner, your friends, at work, on the tennis court. Thank you for talking about toxic relationships. I reckon this is topic that will touch women across the world. I feel like many women have been through this, and hearing Tobie talk about how she got out of it was very insightful! Creating an alter ego sounds incredibly powerful! Will definitely give this a shot.
Are we really 'telling our brains' lies, or are our brains telling 'us' lies? Are we really separate from our brains? Since nearly all perception gets processed through the brain, except reflexes and whatever influences the microbes in us are having (which is a fascinating subject we are just beginning to discover), I think it is our brains that tell us things we misinterpret, or rather, interpret in our various ways. The stories we tell ourselves are all made up. Most of our stories serve us well at some point and then no longer do, as we continue to evolve/grow. Telling better stories is a key to happy living to me. Little things add up to big things. You are both great examples of empowered women. I think the social stigmas around "bad" and "good" drugs are causing much more devastation than the actual drugs. Consuming anything in a mindless way, or with an attitude of dis-empowerment is ultimately doing more harm than good, from my perspective. Labeling certain behaviors as shameful leads to a rapid downward spiral. I think it is more about the social stigmas than the drugs themselves. I know I am in the vast minority in this thinking, and yet, I feel it is an important part of the 'addiction discussions' which is being ignored to all our detriment. I feel like I have struggled from a different place than the majority of women, growing up with no father and never feeling complete in a 'supporting female' role...I was clear about my own voice from the start, the only one I could depend on most of my life. I had no idea that females are considered weak and less valuable to society until I hit puberty and started to be sexually assaulted (no tv and no home examples of mainstream family dynamics) and now really trying to learn to embrace and enjoy that feminine role more without feeling disempowered in it. ...learning to accept help and feel valuable when I am a silent or unappreciated help. Abusive relationships are such an easy trap to fall into. It's tough to know where to draw the line sometimes, when we are 'blinded by love' or by our ego identities we think society wants for us. So important for us to continue to discuss this subject. Much love and respect!
Girl, you need to write a book! Your life story is incredible (or is that just your brain's story talking 😉🤷♀️). Thank you so much for sharing, both yourself and your wisdom. SO MANY great points raised. Respect right back! 💜🙌🏻🙏🏻
Love her spirit! Definitely could relate to a lot of what she was saying. Just made an upward turn in my journey to "find my voice". So glad I happened upon Women of Impact!
YAAII!! WAS SOOO LOOKING FORWARD TO THE NEXT EPISODE!! I am a big fan of this show and of Lisa! And I feel soo blessed to be able to discover so many awesome women in this show! Thanks to put this together!
Sounds like my life story. I ended up marring someone (a guy) like my "mother" and realized it was a very toxic relationship.. and I ended up fi ding someone who loves me for me.
Girls thank you so much ❤️ for making this video because for me it's very important, and teaches to non give up, so thank you with all of my ♥ heart, you are very important for me ♥️
The fear of the freeway... I have the same thing. Even if I am not driving. I'm always stepping on my invisible brakes!!! I have to bring my rubiks cube to distract me!! And my childhood is quite similar. 😊😊🤗🤗
Omg ! I have the same fear of driving on the freeway!It started when I was20 and I got control of it when I left my ex husband & 40 years old ! It’s So limiting militating I would feel like I was going to faint whenever I have to drive on the freeway.
Amazing episode as always!! Thank you both for a great convo. I learned and took away a lot, will probably watch again to really absorb the goodness. :) Btw Lisa - I love your sports bra, where's it from?
Hi Lisa, This is a great episode and i can relate to so many things. I want to ask that sometimes we are with people where others are talking and we can't speak because we don't relate to those topics, or they are not the topics to be considered. For example, i can't talk about people. I accept them for whatever they do or not do. However, i consider myself a good conversation maker. I can talk to strangers even. But i am not able to make conversation with some people. With them i feel inferior. What is this feeling? How to get over this?
Laughter=Super power! 💥 I’m so glad I watched to the end!!! Lisa, I love that you wear shorts in your talk shows! Thank you for the interview! You are a gift to The Universe! Love from Germany!
Hi Lisa! As always I love these so much! I have a question for you. I want to be a woman of impact. I want to share with the world my real authentic self sometimes I feel though i'm holding myself back because i'm afraid of tainting the view my family has of me. But I have a voice and I know people need to hear it. How do I get over that fear? My family already hates my career choices they question it all the time. I'm just doing me. Thanks girl! 💜🙏
Sarah Kruse Thanks so much Sarah for reaching out! I actually just posted today on IG about fear. You can’t let it hold you back! Your goal and dream doesn’t reflect how you feel about your family. And if they disagree with your actions then that’s likely because they have fear too. Don’t live a life of “what if”! You’ll always regret not trying! What’s the worst that could happen? You’ll fail? Yeh that will suck but it will make you stronger. So you still gain something! You got this girl!!!
Wanting to be with someone, rather than needing to be with them, is interdependent, not codependent. Codependence is dysfunctional & interdependence is healthy dependence. How you said, "being codependent by choice", is interdependent.
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Tobie is a true inspiration. Let's take a minute to admire the host, she is incredible, so accepting and asks well-thought questions that actually benefit us-viewers. Thank you, Lisa,
so much!
A man is defined by his future, a woman is defined by her past
I could rewatch this interview over and over again. Her confidence is so contagious.
Wow she is so strikingly gorgeous! And it is inspiring how resilient she is knowing about her trauma.
💜What a Gorgeous human being she is! I love seeing how she has such a passion in helping children! Children are our future!! Beautiful interview 💜
So relatable in the relationship part. Made me feel like I’m not alone from from being in a toxic relationship to finally hearing my heart say this isn’t what I want anymore and letting that person finally go. Love is definitely blind! I couldn’t agree and relate more to Tobie and being able to find new love again but not falling for that person as quickly as my last relationship, if it works out it’ll work out and if it doesn’t then that’s okay too. So far it’s working out and I’m happier than I could ever be. Very amazing video! Thank you Ladies!
This is so awesome to hear! Thank you for sharing ♥️ ♥️
This woman is LIFE.
People, she taught her kids how to Goggins themselves.
Intuitively.
A man is defined by his future, a woman is defined by her past
She's such a beautiful, strong, fascinating woman! I absolutely loved this & can't wait to hear more from her! 💖 Thank you WOIM & Lisa for sharing!
A man is defined by his future, a woman is defined by her past
How beautifully coindependence defined by them. This channel is like giving new perspective and grow from where we are.
Her confidence just lightens up the room 🤗🙈🙈
It is true think differently. It is really easy to say but hard to accomplish in front of a Narcissist. So much confusion they create. It takes time and a lot of heartaches. Love your comment about Women power and being so Feminine snuggling and loving your husband wish to know more.
Lisa I admire you so much. I love that you don’t stick to the status quo with your personal style, and you seem to have genuinely figured out how to be truly yourself
omgsh i meeded this .. I haven’t told my kids why my mom died and i’ve been waiting for the right age .. my daughters 10 and is the perfect way to tell her
Strength to you Sis 😰😥
The meaning of this series is so important and critical for the development of women lives. We need role models, we need stories from the women who has risen up from dirt on their own two feet. Women do not need to rely on the societal approval or agreement as to decide what to do with our lives. This program helps so much to tune into more important and meaningful messages given to my heart. I am currently gathering my all strength to escape the swamp i have made solely in order to please the society and people around me. The thing is I MADE THE SWAMP ! So I NEED to build the foundation myself. Thank you WOIM for giving me the courage and support. I keep listening to all the episodes and getting stronger inside.
Jovade C this is so incredible! So happy help in some way and to be part of your journey 🙏🏻💗 Create the life YOU WANT! 💖
I’ve listened to all the women of impact episodes, but I shared this with all my girlfriends because we can all relate to the relationship section. Thank you Lisa for this amazing podcast and thank you Tobie for sharing your story
Oh lady. It’s like you’re speaking to me directly. Thank you. What a role model.
A man is defined by his future, a woman is defined by her past
She hit the nail on the head 💕💕💕 and her so beautiful! I love the idea of homeschooling this makes you as parents develop as well
she has such a glowing energy! thanks for sharing this conversation with us x
Amazing, Amazing, AMAZING Interview! thank you so much Lisa for another great one. Im a big fan! and Thank you Tobie for sharing your journey and current techniques of being your best version! im currently creating a video to review this interview and taking a quote to write in beautiful calligraphy ! 🤍
What an inspiration! Tobie is so beautiful, intelligent, strong, kind, funny and resilient. ♥️
She is wonderful example we should all follow.
Lisa, incredible job on the interview. Loved the questions, you went deep and helped Tobie share so many valuable advice.
Thank you so much for this! 🙌
Thank you!! 😊 Tobie is all of those things and we're so grateful to her for sharing! Much love ♥️♥️
Moving on is a good thing.
What a motivational person.. I don’t her being in India.. but she is really inspiring..
I related to this interview on so many levels. Most people have no idea the struggles of having a successful spouse. I'm continuously trying to make my own way and not fall in the shadows as "just a home maker".
I'm looking forward to meeting you at NYCC Lisa. I am loving what you are doing with Women of Impact. 👌 Keep it up.
A man is defined by his future, a woman is defined by her past
Amazing episode!
Thank you for talking in-depth about speaking up. With your partner, your friends, at work, on the tennis court.
Thank you for talking about toxic relationships. I reckon this is topic that will touch women across the world. I feel like many women have been through this, and hearing Tobie talk about how she got out of it was very insightful!
Creating an alter ego sounds incredibly powerful! Will definitely give this a shot.
So glad that the content resonated with you and that you got a helpful takeaway!! Stay tuned for more Women Of Impact!!
Are we really 'telling our brains' lies, or are our brains telling 'us' lies? Are we really separate from our brains? Since nearly all perception gets processed through the brain, except reflexes and whatever influences the microbes in us are having (which is a fascinating subject we are just beginning to discover), I think it is our brains that tell us things we misinterpret, or rather, interpret in our various ways. The stories we tell ourselves are all made up. Most of our stories serve us well at some point and then no longer do, as we continue to evolve/grow. Telling better stories is a key to happy living to me. Little things add up to big things.
You are both great examples of empowered women. I think the social stigmas around "bad" and "good" drugs are causing much more devastation than the actual drugs. Consuming anything in a mindless way, or with an attitude of dis-empowerment is ultimately doing more harm than good, from my perspective. Labeling certain behaviors as shameful leads to a rapid downward spiral. I think it is more about the social stigmas than the drugs themselves.
I know I am in the vast minority in this thinking, and yet, I feel it is an important part of the 'addiction discussions' which is being ignored to all our detriment.
I feel like I have struggled from a different place than the majority of women, growing up with no father and never feeling complete in a 'supporting female' role...I was clear about my own voice from the start, the only one I could depend on most of my life. I had no idea that females are considered weak and less valuable to society until I hit puberty and started to be sexually assaulted (no tv and no home examples of mainstream family dynamics) and now really trying to learn to embrace and enjoy that feminine role more without feeling disempowered in it. ...learning to accept help and feel valuable when I am a silent or unappreciated help.
Abusive relationships are such an easy trap to fall into. It's tough to know where to draw the line sometimes, when we are 'blinded by love' or by our ego identities we think society wants for us. So important for us to continue to discuss this subject.
Much love and respect!
Girl, you need to write a book! Your life story is incredible (or is that just your brain's story talking 😉🤷♀️). Thank you so much for sharing, both yourself and your wisdom. SO MANY great points raised. Respect right back! 💜🙌🏻🙏🏻
Love her spirit! Definitely could relate to a lot of what she was saying. Just made an upward turn in my journey to "find my voice". So glad I happened upon Women of Impact!
Danielle Boone 👏🏻 welcome to the family!!! 🙌🏻🙏🏻💗
Women of Impact Thank you💕
Wow you’re videos have improved so much. I love to see how comfortable you have become in front of the camera. You give the best interviews!
Powerful and insightful. There are many things both men and women can here. Thank you Lisa and your guest Tobie for sharing :)
So glad you enjoyed! 👍🏻 Stay tuned 😊
YAAII!! WAS SOOO LOOKING FORWARD TO THE NEXT EPISODE!! I am a big fan of this show and of Lisa! And I feel soo blessed to be able to discover so many awesome women in this show! Thanks to put this together!
So glad to hear that! Thank you for watching and stay tuned 💜♥️
Thanks so much!!!
A man is defined by his future, a woman is defined by her past
Tobie you are such an Angel!
This is so good man. You and your husband and impact theory are making such a impact not only in my life but everyone's
That's so awesome to hear! ❤️
For me at an young age to see and know this awesome womans inspires me.
I love the dialogue in this video!!
Sounds like my life story. I ended up marring someone (a guy) like my "mother" and realized it was a very toxic relationship.. and I ended up fi ding someone who loves me for me.
Wow I love Tobi! I have no words to describe her! 😤🔥🙏🏾. Props to the interviewer. ❣️. I thoroughly enjoyed this episode!
I can relate to so much ! That's amazing ! I love your channel ! One day I will be on it 😍
My new inspiration, god sent 🙏🏼
Aww 🙏🏻
I used to go through that fear of the freeway out of the blue but I was in an abusive marriage at the time
Gorgeous and genuine soul ❤️thank u for the inspiration!
love this conversation she did with her children, so beautiful episode, thank you :)
Girls thank you so much ❤️ for making this video because for me it's very important, and teaches to non give up, so thank you with all of my ♥ heart, you are very important for me ♥️
That's so lovely to hear! Much love back!! ❤️❤️
@@LisaBilyeu 💕 💕 💕 ❤️ 😘
Thank you very much for your videos! They're a great inspiration and so are you! Much love, joy and excellent opportunities!
Tony u struck gold here my man.
The fear of the freeway... I have the same thing. Even if I am not driving. I'm always stepping on my invisible brakes!!! I have to bring my rubiks cube to distract me!! And my childhood is quite similar. 😊😊🤗🤗
Omg ! I have the same fear of driving on the freeway!It started when I was20 and I got control of it when I left my ex husband & 40 years old ! It’s So limiting militating I would feel like I was going to faint whenever I have to drive on the freeway.
California has the biggest home-schooling..btw new to your channel I first heard Tobie when her husband Tony interviewed her. Love your channel!
Gerri Vedrene thanks so much 😊🙌🏻💪🏻💕
Amazing episode as always!! Thank you both for a great convo. I learned and took away a lot, will probably watch again to really absorb the goodness. :) Btw Lisa - I love your sports bra, where's it from?
I love this channel so much
Hi Lisa,
This is a great episode and i can relate to so many things. I want to ask that sometimes we are with people where others are talking and we can't speak because we don't relate to those topics, or they are not the topics to be considered. For example, i can't talk about people. I accept them for whatever they do or not do. However, i consider myself a good conversation maker. I can talk to strangers even. But i am not able to make conversation with some people. With them i feel inferior. What is this feeling? How to get over this?
Great interview and topic. Thank you
Who is the person that you mentioned at minute 8 about the anxiety and excitement brain behaviour?
I love October!
Tobie & Lisa rock!,,
Fantastic interview!
Yees!!! Thank you, so glad you enjoyed it!!
Thanks mother!!
Can't wait for the episode of today!!
Such a beautiful interview, thank you!
Laughter=Super power! 💥 I’m so glad I watched to the end!!! Lisa, I love that you wear shorts in your talk shows! Thank you for the interview! You are a gift to The Universe! Love from Germany!
Aww! Thank you so much! 💜 Really glad you enjoyed the episode and even more glad you like Lisa's shorts 😂😉🙌🏻
Hi Lisa!
As always I love these so much!
I have a question for you. I want to be a woman of impact. I want to share with the world my real authentic self sometimes I feel though i'm holding myself back because i'm afraid of tainting the view my family has of me. But I have a voice and I know people need to hear it. How do I get over that fear? My family already hates my career choices they question it all the time. I'm just doing me.
Thanks girl! 💜🙏
Sarah Kruse Thanks so much Sarah for reaching out! I actually just posted today on IG about fear. You can’t let it hold you back! Your goal and dream doesn’t reflect how you feel about your family. And if they disagree with your actions then that’s likely because they have fear too. Don’t live a life of “what if”! You’ll always regret not trying! What’s the worst that could happen? You’ll fail? Yeh that will suck but it will make you stronger. So you still gain something!
You got this girl!!!
@@lisabilyeu8103 oh my gosh thank you so much! I will have to go back and read on IG as well. Thank you!! 💜🙏
I really dislike alter ego idea. It destroys the development of integrity, growing up as the true person, to yourself, to others etc
It is easy to say if it will work out ot not eithet way it will be ok if ur not in love
Wanting to be with someone, rather than needing to be with them, is interdependent, not codependent. Codependence is dysfunctional & interdependence is healthy dependence.
How you said, "being codependent by choice", is interdependent.
amazing ❤ ❤ ❤ ❤ ❤
Beautiful
#parentinggoals
The ego thing seems weird like working with spirits and stuff that sucks
❤️
I'm starting to get a little irritated. With my sis
I am in South Africa please help me pay for my tuition fee i am female. I really desire to be a chef
I don't like the way Lisa dresses - as she's just returned from a gym and hadn't had time to change.
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I'm just hopeing for nothing
Try not to put those long beginnings. I click off right away.
she is so fine