1. Strenght in a man, that you can handle the relation, help the woman feel stable, confidence, don't come to emotional reactive, how you handle, act and present yourself. How you take control of challenges. Condole, support them if they have a conflict. Feedback how they do something good or wrong, tell the truth how you observed it. What gave her pain and that you don't support it and how we will handle it. Sets the stage for boundaries 2. Positivety. Be happy, comforting. 3. Confidence in your aproach towards her. Knowing your woman, what she (dis)likes. Show that. Take full control of this relation, act that you value the relation. How you set the tone. 4. Security means stability. Support her. Confident enough to tell her your concerns about the relation. Getting to know your women, her wonderful qualities, where she want to improve on, her long life goals. Remembering. Voicing what goes wrong in the relation. Achieve these goals together. Sticking to your word. 5. Affection, touch (some like it), offer words of affirmation (how much you love her, show and say how beautiful she is) help her achieve her goals. Example bought something she needs. Open the door for her, carry her to the other side of the street where it is dry on the road (some like it).
Apollonia, I love your videos because they have helped me understand the importance of just paying attention and showing up and also showing love by our actions and cultivating relationships with each other.
Hi Apollonia Ponti! I thank you for your advice and encouragement. It helps me to put my past behind me and start to love and appreciate myself. Also you have built up my confidence in talking to people. Now I'm attracting more loving and caring women in my life. I love you so much, you are highly appreciated.
1 strenght in a man: what qualities that show u can handle the relation, help them feel stable, confidence, way u handle situation, not to emotional, think what is good for both. How u present urself, take control of challenging situation. Be the shoulder, support. Can tell it when u do something wrong or right. Tell the truth. 2 positivity, happy, comferting 3 confidence in aproach, know ur woman what likes and not, show this. Value relation. 4 security, stability. Woman will be supported, open communication if there are concerns. Get to know her, wonderfull qualities, goals, likes, want to improve. Support her. stick to ur word. 5 affection: affirming words, help her achieve her goals. Hold there hand.
Thank you for such amazing advice. I love your channel. My question is there's a lot of broken, confused and insecure women out there yet, beautiful, just like men. Some women don't always recognize these qualities and some are not sensitive to all these pieces of advice you're giving. Sad part is we men sometimes find out after we are already involved with them. I'm a 34yr old single man. How do you respond to this? Thank you.
Men she made so very good points, but there is something else you must keep in mind to be to confident and loving etc right as time goes by open up a little because when you push all of it up front it can intimidate her, she'll like you and all but she'll move a little funnier than how she would to because of the over powering feelings she's feeling.
Does sticking to your word work both ways men want stuff from a relationship too I like when a woman sticks to her word am I wrong to expected this from my woman??
@@ApolloniaPonti thank u for replying to me how do I walk the line between being assertive and saying what I want rather than coming off as controlling and possessive if I'm doing all the compromise should I leave?
We men have been going out of our skulls trying to figure out what makes a woman happy only to find out that they don't want us to give a shit, and maybe that's because they don't- and there's the real problem. Women generally don't give a shit about men anymore except as an accessory. We still see women as integral to having a life and family, but women have gradually changed into treating men as a tools for a specific area in their lives: this one for babies, this one for fun sex, this one for money/career, this gay one for advice on men. A man can do all the things Apollonia talks about, and it's all good advice- but we are finding that too often it doesn't matter. You can be a perfect man in any situation and the woman still treats you like a tool. Women even say out loud and with conviction: "I don't need a man". So it is an uphill battle that all too often is not worth the effort, which is really sad because men are designed to go to the edges of the Earth for a woman. When they abuse that instinct in us, we suffer horribly for nothing and spend our lives for zero gain, even wind up below zero. I don't mean to be so cynical, but also I don't want to put my head in the sand and not see what is going on. Since Apollonia seems to be good at seeing both sides of the issue, she would do well to set women straight on some things- I know that I as a man would greatly appreciate it.
Yo bro fuck appollonia, she's a set up. she setting you up for failure, You want good advice , be looking and in good shape! then FUCK N GO! thats my secret, FUCK N GO! they will contact you when they are ready to fuck again! what a woman wants , i really dont care, i do me! Do wat u wanna do, when u wanna do it, and I dont business if a woman likes it or not! What women really want to to CONTROL you, tell u where to go and wen to go! tell u how to spend youre hard earn money on them! what they are really looking for is an ASS , one they can RIDE! Real men dont allow this shit to happen! we jus FUCK N GO! So u can get with the program or jus suffer the wrath of a woman! ps. this will not work, if your not good looking and in good shape!..
Hey apollonia :) i looked your videos and really need a help I came across a girl and many of my friends told me that she's hard to get but fortunately i've been able to talk to her among many guys , we travelled A few times but i really dont know what's on her mind , because when we are together it's like everything going like it should be , her attention , her talks , we try to know each other we joke , she also asks me to wait for her until her family pick her up..But it's not the same on chats ..I even gave her the space, i've try not to be needy also , when i just seen her message and let it as "seen" and didnt reply her because she did so and replied 3days later ..Despite not replying her , she texted back and asked for information , and i had to send her some picture on instagram but it didn't go ..I told her that expecting she would probably opt for whatsapp ..But she reply NO PROBLEM THANK YOU And i dont know what to do next , i simply seen the message !
You're missing the point completely. The MAN took care of the problem, saved the day, all by himself. This is what MEN do. They fix shit, even when it's a pain, even when it isn't his problem. He's probably is getting great head right now, while some are watching this video, and sniping. Just sayin'.
@@macvena What if this man couldn't afford to buy it? then he wouldn't have been able to fix it? its always the same, words are just words, woman wants facts, let's do not be naive, money has a huge impact in this game.
@@macvena No he,s not missing the point, he hit the nail straight on the head! She full of shit it's the MONEY , she looking ! Who gives a fuck about here exams being on a computer, all my information are in my books, and i just gruadate the other day! Yeah it the thing with two covers and pages inside! How about picking one up, opening it up, and yes reading it!
@@macvena it just figures...the best story involved the man not just spending his valuable time getting hers fixed...but instead doing the "right manly thing" and just buy her a brand new one. This is how you make your girl secure with you and win her heart. Lol....please bro
These qualities are decided by women's personality traits. Not all women look for these qualities in men. According to my personality trait, i look for these major qualities in man, confidence, and (stability, security, little bit support only) .
#1 the bank account information #2 the title to the house #3 trying make sure their name is on the life insurance policy #4 complain 24/7 about their feelings and tell him she don't give a fluck about his #5 like to communicate with their ex... but if caught you communicating with your ex.....all the doors to hell will be open......and Satan will even get torch by her
And after a number of years doing all of that, she will file for divorce, and find a way to blame you for it. And she will not care about hoy much effort and resources you put into the relationship. She will grow bored because you are too perfect.
The subject is great , but something is annoying with the picture . The background seems to be too near , and I find it’s details so distracting .. The light casted on your face if any is absorbed by background light and that denied us the joy of reading clearly your facial expressions which could have helped a lot on understanding what you were trying to say and communicate.
Yeah, because of the framing & deep depth of field, she almost isn't the focus of the video.. It's a psychological thing.. 😅 Different settings & a closer shot (as opposed to wide shot) would likely work much better..
I am like this video. It just sounds normal. I am so tired of seeing arrogant dudes talking about the alpha male bullshit. We should be over that in this day and age. Sadly you seem to have some of those yourself too.
Why only men? Why not women ?women should be doing all that you are saying! Because their beauty dies or falls in a very short time. Let women work hard for us to keep them in are life for a lifetime
What if the woman does not stick to her words? example..she said she would come at this time but then does not follow through and does not even acknowledge it the next day.
I’m starting to think men and women have no idea what each other want.
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While these are generally good points, it sounds like you are addressing a bunch of girly men. Sad most men are so weak. Good to see you are helping those boys.
How to keep a woman.... Man: must watch carefully, tread carefully, act carefully, watch and feel her needs, don't be to emotional, don't be emotionaly aloof, be confident but not too much, be risky but not cocky, be nice, but not too nice, have an opinion so she loves you but don't he too opinionated Do all these things and she may love you for it??????????????????????? Hahahahaha
Here Is the problem if men dont talk abaut like he have olmost no mony or no money this dont mean hes not confident enought if men dont talks with you things maby that happend today or talks with wery little few words abaut his Day that doesnt mean he IS not confident enought...
Ok...that Mac Book story is rediculous. So basically for my girl to feel secure with me I better buy her somethi g really expensive to replace what she messed up. Because how much money I have and spend is DIRECTLY tied to her security which is tied to how she feels emotionally about me. Lol. Rediculous. I mean really...??? A brand new Mac Book?? That's a terrible story.
Pretty things are for touching, and men will have that part of the deal or there will be another deal made elsewhere real quick. Better have that laid down real clear to start with, and the very first turndown is the very first nail in the relationship coffin, and don't think for a second we'll tolerate it.
1. Strenght in a man, that you can handle the relation, help the woman feel stable, confidence, don't come to emotional reactive, how you handle, act and present yourself. How you take control of challenges. Condole, support them if they have a conflict. Feedback how they do something good or wrong, tell the truth how you observed it. What gave her pain and that you don't support it and how we will handle it. Sets the stage for boundaries
2. Positivety. Be happy, comforting.
3. Confidence in your aproach towards her. Knowing your woman, what she (dis)likes. Show that. Take full control of this relation, act that you value the relation. How you set the tone.
4. Security means stability. Support her. Confident enough to tell her your concerns about the relation. Getting to know your women, her wonderful qualities, where she want to improve on, her long life goals. Remembering. Voicing what goes wrong in the relation. Achieve these goals together. Sticking to your word.
5. Affection, touch (some like it), offer words of affirmation (how much you love her, show and say how beautiful she is) help her achieve her goals. Example bought something she needs. Open the door for her, carry her to the other side of the street where it is dry on the road (some like it).
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I never thought I would be listening to advice about dating and relationships. What has my life become?
Doug Webb you never know what fucking surprising life could be .
Same here
Doug Webb fr and I don’t even need it 😂
Same here dude.. don't know wtf is going on
Same here man!
Apollonia, I love your videos because they have helped me understand the importance of just paying attention and showing up and also showing love by our actions and cultivating relationships with each other.
Great advice here... very informative!
I like what u say about security and how guy needs to stick to his words. Good video
The woman has to be able to count on you.
That's so on point. Hope my spouse learns them.
The scenery behind is very loving and natural, rarely had I seen u using these backgrounds,u use the same natural background in other videos as well
Appolonia! So cute and smart. Keep up the great work. You're helping a lot of people (and, have a wonderful smile!).
I'm doing everything right I'm so proud of myself
Hi Apollonia Ponti! I thank you for your advice and encouragement. It helps me to put my past behind me and start to love and appreciate myself. Also you have built up my confidence in talking to people. Now I'm attracting more loving and caring women in my life. I love you so much, you are highly appreciated.
1 strenght in a man: what qualities that show u can handle the relation, help them feel stable, confidence, way u handle situation, not to emotional, think what is good for both. How u present urself, take control of challenging situation. Be the shoulder, support. Can tell it when u do something wrong or right. Tell the truth.
2 positivity, happy, comferting
3 confidence in aproach, know ur woman what likes and not, show this. Value relation.
4 security, stability. Woman will be supported, open communication if there are concerns. Get to know her, wonderfull qualities, goals, likes, want to improve. Support her.
stick to ur word.
5 affection: affirming words, help her achieve her goals. Hold there hand.
Micha Vlijmen, van
Or: keep women at distance, and have a chill, comfortable , positive and healthy good life!!
Quickest way to lose a woman is to go back on your word, be undependable
That dress looks amazing on you Apollonia!!
Wow, this is so well put, I took notes... Thank you very much!
You're welcome!
Thank you 🙏 I’m going to watch this a second time to make sure I didn’t miss anything.
Stick to my word, got it!!!😇
You are very welcome!
Best,
Apollonia
I’m not saying that I’m the best man on earth, but I’m sure I have all of these powerful things she mentioned.
I'm not good at relationships,Was just loving your dress
Great video! Love the music at the beginning.
Another great vid session!!! you're so amazing!!
Love you, nice one. You have said it all.
Thank you for supplying questions ...
Thank you for such amazing advice. I love your channel. My question is there's a lot of broken, confused and insecure women out there yet, beautiful, just like men. Some women don't always recognize these qualities and some are not sensitive to all these pieces of advice you're giving. Sad part is we men sometimes find out after we are already involved with them. I'm a 34yr old single man. How do you respond to this? Thank you.
The guy that bought the MacBook probably did score that night jaja ....your videos are great
CPR Computer just after one month she will forget what he did and start bulshitting again you know .
Can you bring more scenarios when talking about confidence in a relationship. Thank You
How about when I'm positive and all women I tried to talk are negative?
5 Love Languages is a great read for healthy relationships too
It's a pleasure to see that Apollonia was on holidays and having lots of fun on this one :D
Please can you talk about how to build a strong long distance relationship.
Break up and find someone closer.... lol
@@adcreel9079 😂😂😂😂
Men she made so very good points, but there is something else you must keep in mind to be to confident and loving etc right as time goes by open up a little because when you push all of it up front it can intimidate her, she'll like you and all but she'll move a little funnier than how she would to because of the over powering feelings she's feeling.
Great feedback!
Does sticking to your word work both ways men want stuff from a relationship too I like when a woman sticks to her word am I wrong to expected this from my woman??
Not at all! You should expect that from a woman 100%!
@@ApolloniaPonti thank u for replying to me how do I walk the line between being assertive and saying what I want rather than coming off as controlling and possessive if I'm doing all the compromise should I leave?
We men have been going out of our skulls trying to figure out what makes a woman happy only to find out that they don't want us to give a shit, and maybe that's because they don't- and there's the real problem. Women generally don't give a shit about men anymore except as an accessory. We still see women as integral to having a life and family, but women have gradually changed into treating men as a tools for a specific area in their lives: this one for babies, this one for fun sex, this one for money/career, this gay one for advice on men. A man can do all the things Apollonia talks about, and it's all good advice- but we are finding that too often it doesn't matter. You can be a perfect man in any situation and the woman still treats you like a tool. Women even say out loud and with conviction: "I don't need a man". So it is an uphill battle that all too often is not worth the effort, which is really sad because men are designed to go to the edges of the Earth for a woman. When they abuse that instinct in us, we suffer horribly for nothing and spend our lives for zero gain, even wind up below zero. I don't mean to be so cynical, but also I don't want to put my head in the sand and not see what is going on. Since Apollonia seems to be good at seeing both sides of the issue, she would do well to set women straight on some things- I know that I as a man would greatly appreciate it.
Yo bro fuck appollonia, she's a set up. she setting you up for failure, You want good advice , be looking and in good shape! then FUCK N GO! thats my secret, FUCK N GO! they will contact you when they are ready to fuck again! what a woman wants , i really dont care, i do me! Do wat u wanna do, when u wanna do it, and I dont business if a woman likes it or not! What women really want to to CONTROL you, tell u where to go and wen to go! tell u how to spend youre hard earn money on them! what they are really looking for is an ASS , one they can RIDE! Real men dont allow this shit to happen! we jus FUCK N GO! So u can get with the program or jus suffer the wrath of a woman!
ps. this will not work, if your not good looking and in good shape!..
I’ve done all of this and it still wasn’t good enough. Women know a days don’t appreciate someone good until it’s gone.
Was this video helpful? Comment "helpful" if so! :)
Apollonia Ponti yes very helpful I would say now I’ve got some ideas! Thank you.
So happy to hear this! :)
Should I expect my woman to keep her word to or is this seen as feminine on my part or should i expect it in return?
Yes it was very helpful video
Hey apollonia :)
i looked your videos and really need a help
I came across a girl and many of my friends told me that she's hard to get but fortunately i've been able to talk to her among many guys , we travelled A few times but i really dont know what's on her mind , because when we are together it's like everything going like it should be , her attention , her talks , we try to know each other we joke , she also asks me to wait for her until her family pick her up..But it's not the same on chats ..I even gave her the space, i've try not to be needy also , when i just seen her message and let it as "seen" and didnt reply her because she did so and replied 3days later ..Despite not replying her , she texted back and asked for information , and i had to send her some picture on instagram but it didn't go ..I told her that expecting she would probably opt for whatsapp ..But she reply NO PROBLEM THANK YOU
And i dont know what to do next , i simply seen the message !
good video indeed!
Wow this was nice to hear appolonia
Now I know why my girl loves me.
So the most amazing story about one of her clients is when her man bought her a brand-new Apple computer. Right....
Yes, you win a woman's heart by buying her stuff.
You're missing the point completely. The MAN took care of the problem, saved the day, all by himself. This is what MEN do. They fix shit, even when it's a pain, even when it isn't his problem. He's probably is getting great head right now, while some are watching this video, and sniping. Just sayin'.
@@macvena What if this man couldn't afford to buy it? then he wouldn't have been able to fix it? its always the same, words are just words, woman wants facts, let's do not be naive, money has a huge impact in this game.
@@macvena No he,s not missing the point, he hit the nail straight on the head! She full of shit it's the MONEY , she looking ! Who gives a fuck about here exams being on a computer, all my information are in my books, and i just gruadate the other day! Yeah it the thing with two covers and pages inside! How about picking one up, opening it up, and yes reading it!
@@macvena it just figures...the best story involved the man not just spending his valuable time getting hers fixed...but instead doing the "right manly thing" and just buy her a brand new one. This is how you make your girl secure with you and win her heart. Lol....please bro
Excellent so more
You are good helpful
Great video
This is good, thank you!
Good vid A.spot on just figured all that after yrs beautiful. Matty Brooklyn n.y
I love this video
your hair looks nice in this video u should keep it like that
Thank You.
What about things men expect from a relationship?
You hopefully knows or makes your mind up what you want?
You're suppose to articulate your wants and expectations early on. If you dont set boundaries she'll walk all over you.
Shes just there.
What if she wants a 25$ thousand dollar race car and left me with blue balls? Hahahah I'm fucking serious
That's right on point
Why did you ditch the opening theme?
the next video should be about what men need from women in a relationship...
YOU LOOK STUNNING X
Nice background by the way,
Thank you so much video just sound normal massage I love yeah women powerful need relashinship both present conference way handle.
So nice video Appollonia
Apollonia you seem different in this video.. Are you buzzed? Lol
Love that smile, you're intoxicating to look at :)
the struggle is real
I love this video dope
These qualities are decided by women's personality traits. Not all women look for these qualities in men. According to my personality trait, i look for these major qualities in man, confidence, and (stability, security, little bit support only) .
Is it 9 or 5?
I love this video of you have posted very much .
I would hope the girl I want doesn't get into a fight with people, she is a trained kickboxer, so ...
#1 the bank account information #2 the title to the house #3 trying make sure their name is on the life insurance policy #4 complain 24/7 about their feelings and tell him she don't give a fluck about his #5 like to communicate with their ex... but if caught you communicating with your ex.....all the doors to hell will be open......and Satan will even get torch by her
Well, I could not afford a new MacBook 😂 I would have had to think of something else
What about sex? Is it crucial in a relationship?
2:18 - Hmm, y'all appreciate that yeah..? 🤔💭 I've seen it go the other way sometimes.. - @Acharich
From 3:18 specifically..
Same applys to women 50/50
And after a number of years doing all of that, she will file for divorce, and find a way to blame you for it. And she will not care about hoy much effort and resources you put into the relationship. She will grow bored because you are too perfect.
Keep on confusing negativity for being factual
I don't trust no woman after what happen to me
You probably met the wrong one.
Can you please do a video about the famous ladies man Casanova
Was she in that singing group apollonia 6 in the movie purple rain
Women Will, and will always sacrifice freedom for Security and stability.
You said 5 but titled it 9
CPR Computer she probably deleted the bits about lots of gifts, money, days off, girls nights out, male “friends”, doing what she tells you to do, etc
@@Tony-dh 😂😂
Well she calls me honest and I’m protective so she don’t get hurt she told me she likes that
That background, it hurts my eyes
All the males complaining, she ain’t lying; those are “women’s” needs. Pay more attention and you’ll fully understand.
Where's the Triple Like button? 👍
The subject is great , but something is annoying with the picture . The background seems to be too near , and I find it’s details so distracting .. The light casted on your face if any is absorbed by background light and that denied us the joy of reading clearly your facial expressions which could have helped a lot on understanding what you were trying to say and communicate.
Yeah, because of the framing & deep depth of field, she almost isn't the focus of the video.. It's a psychological thing.. 😅 Different settings & a closer shot (as opposed to wide shot) would likely work much better..
I am like this video. It just sounds normal. I am so tired of seeing arrogant dudes talking about the alpha male bullshit.
We should be over that in this day and age.
Sadly you seem to have some of those yourself too.
Telling a woman, that she's doing something wrong??? Really???? That's going to bring on a FIGHT!!!!
Would love it if y'all was talking to me that y'all would tell me you're talking to me and if not I'll just carry on that you're not talking to me
Your boyfriend is beyond fortunate!!!
Why only men? Why not women ?women should be doing all that you are saying! Because their beauty dies or falls in a very short time. Let women work hard for us to keep them in are life for a lifetime
What if the woman does not stick to her words? example..she said she would come at this time but then does not follow through and does not even acknowledge it the next day.
She's playing games. Immature. Does not care. :(
Thank you for your reply, if i may ask, what should i do? continue to attract her, be straight forward or just let her go?
Right: but missing Financial support or being a her housewife.
I’m starting to think men and women have no idea what each other want.
While these are generally good points, it sounds like you are addressing a bunch of girly men. Sad most men are so weak. Good to see you are helping those boys.
Your so strong bro! So manly and tough behind your keyboard. I'm so proud of you
How to keep a woman....
Man: must watch carefully, tread carefully, act carefully, watch and feel her needs, don't be to emotional, don't be emotionaly aloof, be confident but not too much, be risky but not cocky, be nice, but not too nice, have an opinion so she loves you but don't he too opinionated
Do all these things and she may love you for it???????????????????????
Hahahahaha
Here Is the problem if men dont talk abaut like he have olmost no mony or no money this dont mean hes not confident enought if men dont talks with you things maby that happend today or talks with wery little few words abaut his Day that doesnt mean he IS not confident enought...
Typo , Ms. Ponti , not Pontiac , sorry about that
I want some one who is ready for relesonship
10. Money
Hi
U are beautiful gir
Ok...that Mac Book story is rediculous. So basically for my girl to feel secure with me I better buy her somethi g really expensive to replace what she messed up. Because how much money I have and spend is DIRECTLY tied to her security which is tied to how she feels emotionally about me. Lol. Rediculous. I mean really...??? A brand new Mac Book?? That's a terrible story.
Apollonia, may I see your left hand?
Relationship happy boyfriend Jessica till
Pretty things are for touching, and men will have that part of the deal or there will be another deal made elsewhere real quick. Better have that laid down real clear to start with, and the very first turndown is the very first nail in the relationship coffin, and don't think for a second we'll tolerate it.
I need a japonese woman.
There is a lot of more advice for men than woman, why is that?
There is a ton of advice for women. I don't think that's true. If you're talking about my channel it's because I work with men.
And what the hill are woman going to do for me ??
She's there, it gets way worse if she has kids.
Eres chula mi reina 😘