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  • Опубликовано: 18 янв 2025

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  • @ColeyDoesThings
    @ColeyDoesThings  Год назад +797

    Do you agree with my mom on her choices😲? Lemme know your thoughts and i'll share them with her!!
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    • @itenelhak
      @itenelhak Год назад +19

      Definitely agree on the childhood friends and the rivals to lovers dynamics. They are my absolute favourites. 🥰❤
      Also, love seeing you and your mom's videos. They are always so cute and fun to watch. 😊

    • @Jedi-Ghost-SB
      @Jedi-Ghost-SB Год назад +8

      Her takes are really funny and actually quite accurate 😂 Edit: maybe not all of them but a few I definitely think I agree with and are accurate. Just wanted to clarify that

    • @Daelyah
      @Daelyah Год назад +6

      Some, I definitely agree with. A few others, I have my reasons for appreciating them more than her. But rivals to lovers and childhood friends, DEFINITELY YES. 💗

    • @evihippogrief772
      @evihippogrief772 Год назад +2

      I don't know... Some I agree with (like optimist x pessimist and good (but evil) x evil (but good)), but others I just totally disagree (like hero x villain or cop x criminal). And then there's also the ships I literally can't put in any bad tier (but your mom did) because I'm included in them (polyamory ships or exes that still have feelings)

    • @Elia1481
      @Elia1481 Год назад +1

      Can you do a video talking about KOSA

  • @jeezpotato
    @jeezpotato Год назад +5150

    I could never do this with my mother, she would not understand me and would think im absolutely crazy. this is going to surprisingly wholesome to watch

    • @azr3ii
      @azr3ii Год назад +256

      sameee like my mom would lecture me abt _everything_ 😭😭

    • @jeezpotato
      @jeezpotato Год назад +132

      @@azr3ii right my mom doesn’t think I’m capable of liking things to begin with lolol

    • @Toby_429
      @Toby_429 Год назад +17

      Lmao same

    • @BishopShotgun
      @BishopShotgun Год назад +66

      One time my mom found out about my shipping tendencies, we watched an episode starring both characters in the ship (to preface, the episode where I went “I ship it!”). And when we get to that moment in specific, I kid you not, she blurts out with full confidence in the middle of a cute one-off scene: “HE ASSAULTS HIM???”

    • @Gonzora
      @Gonzora Год назад +12

      I mean... Considering all the trouble shippers bring to fandoms, maybe your mom would be right. 🤔

  • @sincerelynotme3522
    @sincerelynotme3522 Год назад +4070

    Im proud of the energy we created in the studio today

  • @scarletthenderson4864
    @scarletthenderson4864 Год назад +2435

    I love how in depth she gave her explanations

    • @Deflamed_Sphere
      @Deflamed_Sphere Год назад +62

      same it is so intriguing

    • @stellamariefanboy.6768
      @stellamariefanboy.6768 Год назад +38

      As someone who moved to America with a mom that doesn’t speak English all to well, it’s always interesting to me hearing what it’s like being able to have full blown conversations with them and them knowing what you’re talking about without having to simplify.

  • @PerukiWigs
    @PerukiWigs Год назад +4925

    I think Coley should legally be proclaimed the fanfic queen

    • @spacedude5208
      @spacedude5208 Год назад +71

      The leaders of the fan fiction faction or the fff

    • @sientificpanda
      @sientificpanda Год назад +35

      All in favour say g-cough-AY!

    • @liilaperhonen036
      @liilaperhonen036 Год назад +17

      ​@@sientificpandaG-COUGH-AY!!!

    • @odetoclear
      @odetoclear Год назад +16

      *fanfic goddess

    • @AndiLang8146
      @AndiLang8146 Год назад +17

      Would that make her mom the Fanfic queen mother?

  • @HoodieSardine
    @HoodieSardine Год назад +5080

    Love how your mom understands the absolute magic that is ENEMIES TO LOVERS

    • @leek.3671
      @leek.3671 Год назад +88

      YEESSSSS

    • @GooseBucket-hr1go
      @GooseBucket-hr1go Год назад +155

      I dare say people understood that delightful cauldron of chemistry all the way back when Mr Darcy initially had no intention of dancing with Elizabeth at a ball. ☺

    • @louzo5175
      @louzo5175 Год назад +71

      the way she commented on angst is awesome n on point lmaoo

    • @faenene
      @faenene Год назад +21

      Yes, one of my fav tropes! :D

    • @M-m585
      @M-m585 Год назад +21

      The classic tropes are naturally the best

  • @PrayerWarrior4
    @PrayerWarrior4 Год назад +1068

    Dang, your mom would be great for storyboarding for charcters and development, she's fantastic 🤩

  • @shirendjorgee9320
    @shirendjorgee9320 Год назад +749

    It’s nice to see that being a monsterf***** is hereditary.

    • @BlueDandilon
      @BlueDandilon Год назад +110

      I choked when I saw this

    • @gabrielvera8988
      @gabrielvera8988 8 дней назад +1

      So, did her brother get the recessive genes?

    • @kaykrystalkay
      @kaykrystalkay 8 дней назад

      ​@gabrielvera8988 nope he hated it lolol shes got a video woth him too :)

    • @gabrielvera8988
      @gabrielvera8988 8 дней назад

      @kaykrystalkay That's... why I said it, dude, I actually came from that video. The joke that the recessive gene was being a monsterf** hater.

    • @kaykrystalkay
      @kaykrystalkay 8 дней назад

      @gabrielvera8988 my bad read it wrong :)

  • @DiaArtCreativity
    @DiaArtCreativity Год назад +854

    I get the feeling Coley's mum would love Good Omens😂
    "different sides" "angel x demon". You could also argue the "good but evil, evil but good" im there😂 also "best friends with sus behavior"

    • @scrunkly_boy1
      @scrunkly_boy1 Год назад +55

      That's exactly what I was thinking!I love Good Omens so much and season 2 broke my heart😭

    • @broblerone413
      @broblerone413 Год назад +42

      i was thinking the same thing! ineffable husbands is like all the best shipping dynamics rolled into one

    • @scrunkly_boy1
      @scrunkly_boy1 Год назад +5

      @@broblerone413 literally though!

    • @asthejayflies
      @asthejayflies Год назад +11

      GOOD OMENS S2 SPOILERS
      shed be hit by the s2 ending tho, they broke up but clearly still love each other. i wonder if shed change her mind if she understood that sometimes circumstances can change (such as aziraphale coming to realize heaven cant be changed / crowley would never want to come back to heaven no matter how much was changed) that make it so that they really can work through the issue that tore them apart

    • @deeznutz2454
      @deeznutz2454 Год назад +5

      I’ve been trying to escape the pain :,)

  • @freshcupofangst
    @freshcupofangst Год назад +2210

    Legit got so hyped from this notification, Coley's mom slays tbh

    • @lunarlight3018
      @lunarlight3018 Год назад +17

      Fellow bsd fan?

    • @freshcupofangst
      @freshcupofangst Год назад

      @@lunarlight3018 You know it! ╮(╯▽╰)╭

    • @sunlightlotus
      @sunlightlotus Год назад +15

      They’re so similar in how they explain things in so much detail! It’s adorable 😊💙

    • @bluespacecadet
      @bluespacecadet Год назад +13

      ​​@@lunarlight3018boy does it suck to be a bsd fan rn 😭

    • @--Friend--
      @--Friend-- Год назад +7

      @@bluespacecadet fr the newest chapter killed me.

  • @freshcupofangst
    @freshcupofangst Год назад +2015

    Coley's mom was so right to put rivals to lovers in god tier. It's devastatingly underrated imo
    Edit: OKAY OKAY I'M SORRY I SAID UNDERRATED!! It's just that ao3 has lumped rivals to lovers into the enemies to lovers tag when that's not what it is, and when people talk about liking rivals to lovers they usually describe what I see as enemies to lovers! So what I consider rivals to lovers is underrated!
    The way I see it, rivalries are not *inherently* malicious (though they *can* be if you want) and can quite often be lighthearted and all in good fun, it's a trope where the characters can be competitive and maybe a bit mean with eachother but still friendly, whereas enemies are...Enemies. Hostility towards eachother is inherent in the trope, it's what it's *built* around.
    TLDR; rivals to lovers and enemies to lovers can be very similar but rivals to lovers is often times more like enemies to lovers more easy going and flexible cousin.

    • @bluespacecadet
      @bluespacecadet Год назад +36

      I wonder how her mom would feel about skk considering they are both rivals to lovers and exes that still have feelings for each other lol

    • @dxrkwitch
      @dxrkwitch Год назад +11

      when did skk date????? they were ex-partners from the mafia but never actually dated😭💔 did i miss something????😭

    • @bluespacecadet
      @bluespacecadet Год назад +11

      @dxrkwitch It's a headcanon within the fandom that they dated while they were in the mafia together

    • @dxrkwitch
      @dxrkwitch Год назад +5

      @@bluespacecadet ohhhh we're talking headcanons😭😭 I was like DAMN I GOTTA FINISH SB😭💔

    • @bluespacecadet
      @bluespacecadet Год назад +4

      @dxrkwitch Oof, you're still in the "happier days" arc lol. It's rough in the current arc 😮‍💨

  • @ITrulyDontExist
    @ITrulyDontExist Год назад +1183

    Coley's mom is the parental figure I needed when I was younger-

  • @רוניבןעזרא-ו6ש
    @רוניבןעזרא-ו6ש Год назад +433

    I see Coley's mom is the kinds person to tell stranger girls in the bathroom "Don't call your ex!!"

  • @maplepainttube8158
    @maplepainttube8158 Год назад +613

    Everyone else go home, Coley's mom has made the definitive tier list! I love how she loves angst, and contrasting couples, but has no tolerance for relationships dynamics that are just bad for one or both characters, I feel that in my soul, and agree so hard.

    • @Baguettes_The_Great
      @Baguettes_The_Great Год назад +34

      I do like her list but I despise bully x bullied because it pushes the "he/she bullies you because he/she likes you" trope. Unless the bully isn't the one bullying the bullied, then it's fine

    • @lusinebaghyan8864
      @lusinebaghyan8864 5 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@Baguettes_The_Greatthe only story with that trope that I like was "silent voice".

    • @Baguettes_The_Great
      @Baguettes_The_Great 5 месяцев назад

      @@lusinebaghyan8864 so real for that

  • @dapawta
    @dapawta Год назад +465

    I clicked onto this knowing immediately "this woman is gonna have Such great opinions"

  • @indigovae3579
    @indigovae3579 Год назад +571

    Ya know, your mum is very wise. She's allowed me to have a new perspective on some of the dynamics that apply to my previous relationship. Mainly "Exes that still have feeling for each other".
    My ex broke up with me because he wanted to work on himself a bit, and in the beginning I was fantasising, and even now I've been fantasising that he'll realise what he's missed out on and come asking to get back together with me. And part of me wants to take him back.
    But, she makes a good point - if we really cared about each other, we would find a way to work things out between us. And She's right. Our chapter is over. We need to start a new one with new people.
    Thank you, Coley's mum, for helping me confirm my decision of not chasing after him anymore. I need to find someone new who is willing to work through things with me there to support them. I was so willing to support my ex in any way, but he really wanted to break things off between us while he worked his own things out. Plus, he's currently ghosting me after he said we can still be friends.
    So yeah. SCREW HIM! I'M GONNA FIND SOMEONE ELSE! Again, thank you, Coley's mum. Thank you from the bottom of my heart! ❤❤❤

    • @Daelyah
      @Daelyah Год назад +38

      The most recent nightmare I had was a "Life Is Strange"-esque one, in which I tried to repair broken friendships, including with the last ex. However, it led to losing my best friend and current nesting partner, as well as an alternate reality version of myself getting into severe trouble with the law.
      Coley's mom has some damn good wisdom that can certainly be applied to RL relationship dynamics. Just further confirming that former relations don't deserve any more of my headspace.

    • @Professor_Brie
      @Professor_Brie Год назад +29

      A family member of mine broke up with a serious girlfriend, and while he was in the midst of getting over his feelings for her and having a really hard time, I remember him explaining that even if she decided she wanted to get back together, he wouldn’t do it, because she had already broken his trust in her, and even if she fixed the issues she had that caused the situation (she never took initiative to get therapy for those problems), he would never be able to have that trust for her again. She may one day fix those problems and have a healthy long lived relationship with someone else, but the two of them could never go back after that break up (and no, it wasn’t a cheating situation, just that the break up was essentially her throwing him in the trash, as he described it)

    • @Doryzitter
      @Doryzitter Год назад +9

      I had a scarily similar situation happen to me. A guy I dated broke things off barely a month after we went on a date that wasn't supposed to be a date. I had wanted a reason to escape my house for awhile because of personal reasons, and that "date" ended with me asking if we were dating. I realize it was a foolish question to ask, but I was wary of his intentions when he kissed me. Turns out, I had been right, cuz a year later, he confessed he had been using me as a distraction from his life. In all honesty, I couldn't blame him for that, since I was doing the same thing kind of. Anyway, he said he needed to work on some things, and I didn't try to talk him out of the relationship. I didn't want to seem clingy, and I thought it was wise of him to better himself so he could pursue the kind if relationship he wanted, preferably not with me. I agree with Coley's mom; once you're out, you're out. I didn't know how to feel about him anyway, especially after feeling pressured by a mutual friend between him and me to date each other since we _clearly_ had feelings for each other 😒

    • @applepatronum4934
      @applepatronum4934 Год назад +12

      Ahw this is so nice to read. I support you in your decision!

  • @June-e
    @June-e Год назад +595

    i love that your mum's looking out for the people in the dynamics it's so sweet

    • @warriorcatkitty
      @warriorcatkitty Год назад +5

      ayyy collector pfp pics! :D

    • @Pinkywinkykinky
      @Pinkywinkykinky Год назад +13

      Think she'd end up despising Catradora not liking the sweet one getting the bad side of things even with all the friends to enemies to lovers-ness

    • @scaramoucheshusband
      @scaramoucheshusband Год назад +12

      @@Pinkywinkykinky catradora is mid i'm not sorry

    • @blockgirlygamer7714
      @blockgirlygamer7714 Год назад +7

      @@scaramoucheshusbandur right and I just wish that we could get a GOOD actually healthy wlw enemies to lovers for once 😭

  • @unnecessarily3dgy
    @unnecessarily3dgy Год назад +294

    Man I WISH I could have a family member rank shipping dynamics but the only one who even knows what shipping is is my brother and he doesn't really care about shipping even when its a canon relationship.

  • @look-at-this-goofy-ahh-rat
    @look-at-this-goofy-ahh-rat Год назад +370

    i should do this with my mom, who is literally a professional writer

  • @LiskaDe
    @LiskaDe Год назад +103

    I love that your mom is very invested in the character development in a ship. It shows she really looks at them like, "But is the story around them going to be good?" Which really makes ya think about "hm, I wonder why I like the ships that I like?"

  • @lmaohi1500
    @lmaohi1500 Год назад +206

    Your mom’s opinions and explanations are literally so valid

  • @I_E_O_T_C
    @I_E_O_T_C Год назад +79

    FINALLY! Someone GETS IT with bully x bullied. I don’t necessarily want them TOGETHER together. I WANT to see the dynamic play out. I want the psychological impacts. I want CONSEQUENCES. I want THINGS to HAPPEN for REASONS related to those psychological ISSUES.
    It’s not about the ship necessarily. It’s about the potential. It’s about the human psyche. It’s so much more than just ‘I wanna see em fck’.
    I could NEVER explain it before

  • @just_Moss
    @just_Moss Год назад +81

    I love how the Mom is all for healthy relationships

  • @anerity_
    @anerity_ 5 месяцев назад +25

    rewatching some old vids with The Mamadoesthings, rip may she fly high 🕊

  • @ElysianLys
    @ElysianLys Год назад +145

    I love how cerebral and deeply thought-out your mom gets with her choices and reasoning, super intriguing! She's definitely got the Elder Fandom mindset well in hand. If I asked my mom, she'd go purely based on vibes and not put nearly as much care into it. (No shame, we all love the vibes in this house!)

  • @guywiththeweirdspellingoflogen
    @guywiththeweirdspellingoflogen Год назад +83

    Your mom is actually on point with a lot of these tbh. She’s got the balance between the couple having enough differences to make it interesting but not wanting pointless fighting or drama. Also she could not be more right about rivals to lovers GOD TIER

  • @varada3106
    @varada3106 Год назад +302

    coley on a posting spree we love to see it
    oh mother coley feed us with the fandom trash we crave for

  • @latuacantante1990
    @latuacantante1990 Год назад +65

    She is no longer just your mother, Coley, she is now OUR mother! XD

  • @thewaffleywizard648
    @thewaffleywizard648 Год назад +170

    ok but your mum has some really based reasoning 👏

  • @metagnat
    @metagnat Год назад +58

    I adore how concerned your mom is about the health of these notional relationships. It's very sweet.

  • @lrmurphy
    @lrmurphy Год назад +261

    HERE WE GO AGAIN! MY DOSE OF MRS. DOESTHINGS SPITTING FACTS.

  • @codo430
    @codo430 Год назад +17

    I like the distinction between "bully" and "villain" made here. The bully doesn't understand themselves fully, and might want to be changed but the villain is likely a better schemer, and could drag the hero down to their level.

    • @wiltingrosel7449
      @wiltingrosel7449 Год назад +4

      Yes!!! I feel a lot people missed that part of the mom's explanation on why she likes bully X bullie!

  • @mujiescomedy279
    @mujiescomedy279 4 месяца назад +7

    I love how Coley’s mum isn’t thinking about what’s the most fun but what’s the most healthy a lot of the time

  • @one-onessadhalf3393
    @one-onessadhalf3393 Год назад +36

    COLEY’S MOM SAYING TO THE EXES THAT STILL HAVE FEELINGS FOR EACH OTHER “YOU’RE DONE GET OVER IT” HAS ME ON THE FLOOR LMAO

  • @teeteeplays
    @teeteeplays Год назад +70

    I love how Coley’s mom knows some fandom slang XD

  • @rowan404
    @rowan404 Год назад +26

    My mom listened to this as I was watching, and when she heard, “lovers to rivals” she laughed out loud and exclaimed, “I love it!”

  • @ivydelight
    @ivydelight Год назад +49

    I love how your mom gave reasonable explanations to a lot of her choices. She really gave this some thought. I could literally never do this with my mom. 😅

  • @ShadowMellowK
    @ShadowMellowK Год назад +36

    when your mom went OFF about exes who still have feelings for each other? i felt that

  • @legslegsankles
    @legslegsankles 4 месяца назад +14

    Rest in peace MamaDoesThings ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @agentorder4604
    @agentorder4604 Год назад +330

    Lmao Colley’s mom talking about monster x human
    Reason why they like it
    Mom:
    “I want to see how it works”
    Colley(what she thinks)
    “I want to see how “it” works😏”

    • @rxbelrubiez
      @rxbelrubiez Год назад +11

      LMAO THATS LITERALLY WHAT I WAS THINKING TOO 😭

    • @book_roblox
      @book_roblox Год назад +2

      NAHHHHHHH BROTHA NAHHHHHHHHHHHH

  • @tsifirakiehl4250
    @tsifirakiehl4250 Год назад +24

    Coley’s mom just gets it about the exes trope. Like, you two broke up for a reason! What makes you think things are going to be any different the second time around? Pro tip for real life: if you ever find yourself tempted to get back with your ex, remind yourself of exactly why they’re your ex.

  • @sunlightlotus
    @sunlightlotus Год назад +68

    We need another tier ranking video from Coley and her mom but for Kdramas 👀💙💙

    • @donagorali5950
      @donagorali5950 Год назад +1

      YES EXACTLY!!! Such a good video idea!!!

  • @NobodyWhoIsHere
    @NobodyWhoIsHere Год назад +41

    living for all of the weird barbie creature cameos in the editing

  • @dreemurr0050
    @dreemurr0050 Год назад +27

    I wasn’t expecting a deep relationship and media analysis here, but I’m here for it now.

  • @jackie6361
    @jackie6361 Год назад +12

    "Rivals to Lovers. I want to see the ANGST" I've never heard something more relatable in my life

  • @yourlocaldemon2195
    @yourlocaldemon2195 Год назад +22

    Coley’s mom really giving out free romantic advice if you squint

  • @youarenowdotted.
    @youarenowdotted. Год назад +67

    My mom would be so confused if I tried to tell her about anything to do with ships T^T

  • @L1M3SH4RK
    @L1M3SH4RK Год назад +43

    Your mom is literally the best 😭

  • @maxwellgrimsley
    @maxwellgrimsley Год назад +19

    I love your mom caring for the sunshine person, even though it’s fictional she doesn’t want anyone hurt. What a queen. 😭💕

  • @medii48
    @medii48 Год назад +31

    the fact that she watches edits on Instagram is so cute 😭❤️

  • @kazewz
    @kazewz Год назад +22

    the fish from barbie mermaid tails set off the chaotic vibes from the start.

  • @fridaypilot
    @fridaypilot Год назад +46

    The GOAT mom is back at it again🔥🔥🔥

  • @leixa0701
    @leixa0701 Год назад +20

    I always loved this type of videos.
    "my mom ranks...." "my mom reacts to..."
    You know that it'll always be a banger everytime

  • @Ace_Maus
    @Ace_Maus Год назад +10

    3:20 your mom just validated my feelings so perfectly here. Having been broken up the only two times I dated by guys who left the country, yeah, I've witnessed people working that out, those two just didn'r want to. 😭

    • @book_roblox
      @book_roblox Год назад

      They do not deserve you, sis. As many have said, "there are plenty of fish in the sea"

  • @didi8360
    @didi8360 Год назад +27

    This was great! I loved listening to your mother's reasons, and it was fun seeing how she went from "Let's go off of if they will work out or not IRL" to "Hmm.. But will this be Interesting?". Her and I have very similar tastes lol

  • @cloudenvy47
    @cloudenvy47 Год назад +17

    Let’s be honest, we all want a mom like Mama Coley

  • @emilyschomer6715
    @emilyschomer6715 7 дней назад +2

    3:40 I think it's a matter of circumstances, they break up because they're going to far away colleges and long distance isn't working

  • @lishs-og
    @lishs-og Год назад +2

    Your mum is adorable and makes a lot of sense. I find myself agreeing most often. It was wonderful "meeting" her, and you're right, she explained herself well and it wasn't weird at all. Chin up Mama Coley, you were a joy to watch and hear your thoughts on. I'd love to see you on more one day.

  • @auliamate
    @auliamate Год назад +12

    A Love Between Fairy And Devil reference!!!
    Ironically that’s possibly my moms fave c-drama for the MC’s relationship 😂😂😂

  • @tapping-asmritalia6658
    @tapping-asmritalia6658 Год назад +3

    Rival to lover "God Tier" YES, just YES. Love ur mom, Enemies to lovers is my favorite too and childhood friends who meet again is my other fav!! Oh... And the moon and sun it's Soo interesting also to me.

  • @CrisSelene
    @CrisSelene Год назад +1

    Your mom is an angel and hilarious.
    Also, I didn't expect to see Xiao Xingchen when I clicked on this, but I'm glad I did

  • @somegoodsoup7008
    @somegoodsoup7008 Год назад +164

    I guess the liking of "Monster x Human" is genetic.
    I've also got the thought that your mother might be into Lumity if you showed her it knowing her tastes.

    • @Frostfern94
      @Frostfern94 Год назад +1

      I was thinking that

    • @braindavidgilbert3147
      @braindavidgilbert3147 Год назад +9

      Some studies do show that kinks might be at least a little genetic.

    • @somegoodsoup7008
      @somegoodsoup7008 Год назад +3

      ​@@braindavidgilbert3147no flippin way you gotta be cappin, man! I need to see the proof on this.

    • @braindavidgilbert3147
      @braindavidgilbert3147 Год назад

      @@somegoodsoup7008 cant link on youtube, so look up “Are Kinks Hereditary? What Science Says About the Genetics of Desire” by Glamour.

  • @princessofthecourt3183
    @princessofthecourt3183 Год назад +25

    The energy both of them have is great 😂🤌🏻

  • @RubiByron
    @RubiByron Год назад +8

    I'm tempted to do this with my mom now, she was one of the original star trek fan girlies 🤣🤣

  • @EMan753
    @EMan753 Год назад +8

    Damn I love her! Even the ones I disagreed on, she was making points! Love seeing parents who are able to have fun like this, mine would not want to play along and/or be very concerned lmao

  • @BrianWanke
    @BrianWanke 7 месяцев назад +4

    Your mother is a mood, she has good taste. 😂

  • @doctor_axoltol5195
    @doctor_axoltol5195 Год назад +12

    Your mom speaks facts! Her voice is so pretty and she seems so sweet! You guys have such a close bond I hope we can see her in future videos

  • @emmybm15
    @emmybm15 Год назад +2

    "Childhood friends who meet again years later" in God Tier THANK YOU! One of my comfort shows is "Revenge" (It was a Drama with soap elements) and my OTP in that is that dynamic but most weren't keen on it but I absolutely fell in love with it, also the angst (if you know the series you'd get why there was angst) was frustrating at times but LOVED IT!

  • @frostfyrespirit_0653
    @frostfyrespirit_0653 Год назад +9

    "monster x human... this is interesting" got me i just-😆

  • @OO-ek8sc
    @OO-ek8sc Год назад +12

    1am over here! Can't wait to watch the video
    Edit: Personally I agree with your mom's tier list full heartedly!

  • @ivanadragmire2873
    @ivanadragmire2873 Год назад +5

    i could never imagine explaining ANYTHING from fanfic culture to ANYONE i know irl, let alone my parents. but here Coley is, just sharing it all with her mom.
    you go girl.
    but i'll be over hear vaguely referencing my interests because i will actually die if someone irl know what i write.

  • @sherryting-yulin2545
    @sherryting-yulin2545 Год назад +7

    Your mom is such a wise person, love hearing her insights XD

  • @YourWaywardDestiny
    @YourWaywardDestiny Год назад +12

    Now I know what to write to capture your mother. It's all over for her. Rivals to lovers or childhood friends in a K-drama fandom. Hell, I'll write both in the same fic if I can get away with it.

  • @canadianlucifer8446
    @canadianlucifer8446 Год назад +5

    1:46 I don't really like celebrity x fan because the fan usually doesn't know the real celebrity, who they really are as a person, just the persona they portray and it has a bit of a weird power dynamic. A much better dynamic imo is celebrity x not a fan. A celebrity that is just dumbfounded that this person has never heard of them or who they are nor do they care, and the celebrity realizes they love that this person sees them for their true self and they love this completely mundane and normal person because that's all they want in life- normalcy. (Yes, this is about klapollo lmfao)

  • @Littleghostman4
    @Littleghostman4 Год назад +10

    I love your mom, she seems like a sweet lady :)

  • @1dk_what2writehere
    @1dk_what2writehere Год назад +6

    I have never wanted to be friends with someone's mom so bad- she seems like an absolute sweetheart with taste!

  • @twichewie
    @twichewie Год назад +9

    Coley and her mum are so cute and wholesome together 🥺🥺🥺 this made my heart feel so full 🥺❤❤

  • @sheepysnowtato824
    @sheepysnowtato824 Год назад +4

    6:16 I want to know why she likes this one in comparison to the 'anger problems x a literal sunshine', cause I see 'bully x bullied' as having the same issues as the other trope but worse cause it's even more likely to be handled po.orly and consequently send a bad message.
    6:43 She even uses the word 'anger' XD

  • @crohyena
    @crohyena Год назад +10

    her asking 'what's sus behavior' got me lmao

  • @renatal.129
    @renatal.129 Год назад +5

    THE EGGMAN AND STONE CLIP KILLED ME, COLEY LIKES ALL MY WEIRD SHIPS!!

  • @subliminal..goalss3-pk3kw
    @subliminal..goalss3-pk3kw Год назад +2

    i saw "childhood friends who meet again years later" and immediately thought of wrightworth 😭

  • @peachesbloom
    @peachesbloom Год назад +1

    7:13 the scoff lmao, so cute

  • @aizmaskas
    @aizmaskas Год назад +9

    I really like the mature perspective!

  • @emilyschomer6715
    @emilyschomer6715 7 дней назад +1

    9:50 Adorable

  • @j0j0thefan
    @j0j0thefan Год назад +8

    Your mom is such a sweetheart. You guys are so cute 😊

  • @Tipsy_Turby
    @Tipsy_Turby Год назад +5

    I like how deep her answers and thought processes are lol

  • @MOONCHILD8
    @MOONCHILD8 7 месяцев назад +1

    13:57 oh she was the person who was in my For you page on YT in 2020? And doing fanfic?! I found her after so many years! Woo! Happy to see her again! 💗🎀

  • @SEL-CHI
    @SEL-CHI Год назад +2

    4:38 I agree rivals to lovers is best

  • @InEachRetellingPodcast
    @InEachRetellingPodcast Год назад +3

    Your relationship with your mom is so heartwarming. 🥰

  • @nokitadokuhebi8991
    @nokitadokuhebi8991 Год назад +4

    I think it's interesting how the reason why your mum doesn't like hero/villain is exactly the reason I DO like it! I love that fallen angel, dark side, corruption stuff, it's so complex and angsty and paints a really great story where they both influence each other in one direction until they're both morally grey (😙👌). Enemies to lovers? no! Enemies AND lovers!

  • @aclaymushroomwithaberet7084
    @aclaymushroomwithaberet7084 Год назад +8

    Coleys moms opinions are unbelievably god tier

  • @SapphireSonata
    @SapphireSonata Год назад +3

    Opposites attract is such a fun dynamic, I vibe with your mom’s god tier rankings 😍

  • @V-SanSings580
    @V-SanSings580 Год назад +4

    I love her Mom! She explains her reasoning in a similar way I do and it’s very comforting to hear someone go so in-depth with ship dynamics. Love the new video!!☺️

  • @alexander_markovski
    @alexander_markovski Год назад +1

    the irrational urge to call my 65 year old mother to do a tier list like this. i know she's watched bridgerton so she MUST have at least some opinions

  • @ZaneEnthusiast
    @ZaneEnthusiast Год назад +2

    Can I just say that I appreciate you so much for putting Robotnik and Stone when explaining the Villain x Assistant 😭
    Those two have WAY to much sexual tension

  • @Lady_ETHNE
    @Lady_ETHNE Год назад +9

    I love it when Coley's mom is on the channel.

  • @Formoka
    @Formoka Год назад +2

    Your mom is great fun to watch doing this. She adapted to the game right away and had interesting reasoning for her choices. It’s sweet your mom could do this with you.

  • @sarahy1680
    @sarahy1680 Год назад +3

    This video? God Tier! Hearing your mother work out why something did or didn't work for her was wonderful and your editing? *chef's kiss* Monster x human, huh? You know we all went there.... 😊

  • @sarahlacascade1522
    @sarahlacascade1522 4 месяца назад +2

    I love that you used the famous stock picture of bullying with the girls, it's so funny 😂

  • @alenalim1479
    @alenalim1479 Год назад +1

    ur mom has such a healthy perception of relationships!!! love these videos