I have moments of having completely let go and I feel great, then certain triggers bring me back down. Sometimes it’s hard to pinpoint why. At times (i tell myself the story that it’s hard to get back up when I know from you that it can be instant) I’m working on getting to a place where I can bounce back faster. Thank you Aaron
The less you care and detach yourself from the outcome the less you will be affected when things do not play out. This makes it easier to stay positive and continue putting actions that propel you forward.
im trying hard to get this mindset i feel like at times im there and boom my mindset is back to attached wondering why they arnt messaging what their doing etc
@@bigenergy3880 That's why these lectures/videos dont really have any positive impact or make any true change. We are already hard wired the way we will remain for virtual eternity 😂
Yes but few times I did this and actually it destroyed my relationship, that I didn’t give a fuck. And also are you really enjoyng life than whne you are walking: “ I don’t give a fuck”
More Tips To Raise Your Vibration! -Meditate Daily -Not relying on anyone else for happiness -Loving yourself more -Seek knowledge -Think before you react with emotions -Practice gratitude -Go outside & connect with nature everyday -Expose yourself to the sun -Keep your environment clean -Use social media & electronics less -Sober lifestyle -Journaling -Writing down dreams -7-8 hrs of sleep -Isolate yourself from people holding you back -Dance more -Realize you’re a soul inside a body having a physical experience -Smile and laugh more -Replace all your drinks with Natural/Organic Water -Eat more healthy greens -Taking Herbs: blackseed oil, haritaki, sea moss -Cut out fast food -Listen to music that heals your soul -Eliminate clutter from your life -Charitable donations/give money to the poor
I love seeing useful information like this. I remember years ago when I was still on Facebook there was always someone, usually a woman for some reason, that would say vibrate higher constantly for an answer to everything but would not say anything else. I felt it was the most unhelpful thing you can tell someone. Telling someone to vibrate higher is not going to make it happen.
I don't give a fuck at all 😂😂😂😂😂when you stop giving a fuck and people start giving a fuck when you just be like bro enough of it I'm not friendly at all
Dude. You helped pull me out of my codependency issue that would just keep me imprisoned in toxic situations which led to heightened mental/emotional/physical states. Now. My cup is full on my own. AND recently dodged another bullet from noticing the signs and holding my boundaries. Freedom!!! 🙌🏼
Hell yes girl!! Love it ...learning myself to push my boundaries and the things i want in my life. I wsnt to be carefree and such. Learning not to be co-independent bc of this guy 'Aaron Doughty
Aaron, I actually really like and benefit from the repetition in your videos. For you and those of us who have dealt with that kind of trauma and deep fucked up childhood programming, we NEED that repetitive reinforcement. We need that affirmative support multiple times for it to sink in. So I always value it, just to let you know.
Well said!!! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ I just wanted to say the same things. Yes, Aaron, repeat those stories! ‘Cause hearing them again and again, it helps many of us in our healing process. And we do learn through REPETITION. For example, how many times we read the same book that we like, and each time we learn something NEW. Each time we read it again, we discover something NEW in the same book that, we might have read it 5 times before. So, be you! And act as you feel! You feel to repeat something, than DO so! ‘Cause at the end, it WILL HELP ONE OF US, in our healing process. Nothing is a coincidence!!!
To the *worthwhile person* seeing this. Don’t allow the past and current pains and hurts stop and define you. You’re more than a conqueror. Rise up and put yourself together. Keep pushing your future depends on it. I wish you all the best in life ❤️.
A great sentiment and way of expressing encouragement for the realistic challenges of life. However most platitudes such as even in this colloquial approach doesn't take into account the advantage that people have to harass an individual utilizing the surveillance state and basic personal tech. When one group has all the tech and is extensively networked and has no rules, it is hard to NGAF.
TRULY 💫 *being in the present* 💫 helps me literally not gaf about anything else outside of that. Also, KNOWING, ACCEPTING, &!LOVING my True Authentic Self allows me to be genuinely secure within myself and therefore, not gaf about other people’s opinions. 😊🙏🏾💚
True. That's what I did with love. If u act like u don't care, guys chase u. If u act like u care, they back off. Try it for yourself, ladies. Ull see what I'm talking about.
If anyone has issues of RUclipsrs being repetitive remember it’s always someone’s first time watching A video & bringing up what One segment of the audience feels is repetitive is life-changing for someone else also I see it all the time and different types of television Broadcasting especially sports The reason there’s instant replays and recaps Of A for our game because the audience will dip in and out or it’s someone’s first time watching A Sporting event & The reason the announcer is explaining the rules because again it’s someone’s first time watching it might quickly alienate the hard-core audience but they should understand at one point they were beginners too & thank you Aaron your videos always has A Way of resonating and helping out my day Thank you for all the excellent content you produce 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
I've never had tolerance for the "haters " who leave negative comments on any influencer vliogs,etc. It is VERY SIMPLE. If it's not for you, just STOP watching and Unsubscribe! As Ernest Hemingway said: "To each their own. " Love, peace and abundance for all ❤ 🙏 🎆
I can’t not give a fuck man. I have so much passion in me and I put so much into the things that I do, I don’t have it in me not to care. I try not to care and I can tell myself I don’t care, but deep down I really care a lot. I know I shouldn’t care that much, I know it hurts more than it helps, because I do become way too attached to things. But I don’t know how to change that. I feel like it’s something I don’t have control over. It’s like your interests. I can’t stop myself from enjoying a certain type of movie. If I enjoy it I enjoy it. If I care I care.
I resonate soooooo much with your comment. AGAF instead of NGAF! You and me and others ALWAYS GIVE A FUCK! Yes, I am trying to transition from AGAF to NGAF and I find it NOT EASY.
I always feel like it’s a curse to be this hyper aware of your own energy and thoughts. It seems like everyone around me just experiences the things I fight tooth and nail for simply because they don’t even think about it. One of these days I’m sure I’ll see the upside but it sure brings a lot of negativity.
I feel the same way bro. HSP, highly sensitive ppl/empaths. We're out there among you. Youre not alone even tho it can feel ike it. I feel your struggle ✊🏼
This guy helped me with understanding that I'm worthy and he has helped me in so many other different ways too I'd understand why would anybody hate someone who's just trying to help people
Just so you know Aaron, ur channel crosses all generations & ethnicities. You reach the masses w/ useful, practical content. They’ll always be naysayers & sum folks are gonna be pessimistic no matter wat🤷🏽♀️. Keep up the good work😇.
There will always be sceptical people, they feel comfortable making excuses and stuff, rather than just accepting what they get…..n coz their vibrational levels it’s usually bad things they get, making them Even worse and they want others to be like them so they ain’t alone. Hope , belief and faith is more important and beneficial than worrying thinking the worst .
"The more I drew validation from the positive comments the more the negative comments affected me" (13:05) Not needing validation from the outside and being neutral is totally key. Love it 💖
The person with the least amount of interest controls the relationship, personal or business, it doesn't matter. Think about that for a second. It relates to what Aaron is saying here.
I really kind of don't give a f*ck anyway but the breakdown is helpful. It's clear in every litmus test letting go and not giving a crap is a more attractive energy. It's clear that we broadcast everything to the world about us and the world can't help but respond in accordance. The universe provides everything and all possibilities already exist but if we "want" or "need" we are telling the universe it doesn't exist and we push it away and make it harder to attain so the idea is to make your desire (without want or need) more real in your mind than your current physical reality and feel the emotions as if it's happening...the brain will believe it's real because you're feeling it and releasing the hormones of it and will help you create it as part of the brain's survival mechanism and synchronicities will line up, people will do favors for us etc.
YOUR AWESOME. I just lost my partner after 25 years, we were together since we were 16. And your helping me with not giving a fuck about the world or toxic people around me. 💔💔💔
Perfect timing My sister promised she would come to my flight attendant training graduation as she is a flight attendant herself and got me into this profession and I had a gut feeling she wouldn’t make it so I kept reminding her and she was like I will for sure be there so she cancelled on me last night and I graduate tomorrow. I did not graduate from university so this was a big deal for me. I wanted her to feel proud of my achievement. This is the hardest thing I’ve ever done. I also have ADHD and very deep and heavy rejection dysphoria. I went through all the stages of grief. In the end, I will let go and let god.
Your core story is one of your strongest ways to explain how you transformed yourself. You bring out different parts of it depending on what you are focusing on in various videos. Each time I have heard it I took away something different each time. Plus hearing something repetitive reenforces a belief we want to download into our subconscious mind. Keep telling your core stories 💖
The way to look at life is like your watching a movie ,as soon as you start allowing thing to affect you like news etc , the more depressed you will become ,
I used to give a shit about everything when I was younger. Like what people thought about me, if someone said something about me etc etc... But as I got older I quit giving a fuck and it's helped me tremendously. Now my expectations aren't so high so I usually don't get upset if shit doesn't work out. I have that confidence now to where I say I got this and if not it wasn't meant to be..
I really want to thank you for all of your videos. You were one of the reasons why I got the motivation to start this channel. I love your positive energies and that's what I give off on my channel.
guess your story stuck with those haters, aaron. hopefully they see this video and think about what that means that they are holding onto the lower vibe message. i hope you keep doing you and marketing to the new people that need to hear your. i won’t lie sometimes i’m like ehh the same story again… but i know it helps the collective and most of the time i learn something new from it. :) love your methods and videos! thanks aaron!
Oh "authentic" is the perfect description. This is exactly what I needed to hear today! We should totally liberate ourselves from these fucks we're constantly giving. Loving the brutal honesty here!
Aaron you are right to repeat some concepts because many times they are not assimilated at the first listening and therefore we need to listen to them several times, thanks 🙏🏻
I always thought " why is it others don't have to give a fuck but when I want to give it a try "the hell is wrong with you? GIVE A SHIT ABOUT ME!" Now I will truly put it to the test.
I used to think I didn’t give a fuck about stuff but obviously I do! The things you were saying were so on point that I was sitting here going aaaarrrrgggg!!!! every couple minutes.
For whatever it’s worth, I love your new content and your energy is magnetic. I didn’t see much of your old content (and I know you don’t need this validation) but your new videos have helped me tremendously
No one is going to be watching your video from three years ago and hear about your step mother and then want to know it again.....you do a great job with your videos, but you do REPEAT yourself constantly!
Aaron, I stopped giving a flying f*ck 4 years ago when I read Dale Carnegie’s book. After that I discovered people like yourself and Marisa Peer. But the mind is like a car and has to be serviced and maintained. Thanks for all you do to help people ❤️
I am listening to this one on loop. I don't know, I have read so many books, but the way you explain it, is so well and precise. I listen to your audios all day, it's so positive. And your guided meditations have helped me too. Thanks a lot 🙏
Aaron I love your videos. I have been listening to you for 6 months. When you repeat a message I view it that, I on some level need to hear it again. As a physician I have a very demanding and stressful life. I find your messages to be uplifting, relevant, and helpful in a crazy world. Anyone who criticizes on a social media platform is expressing cowardly and bullying behavior. You’re a gift Aaron. Thank you.
@@dianeconrardy829 true, not giving a fuck about either type of comments. You receive means you can keep doing what you’re doing without worrying if people will like it. It’s beat being the real you rather than who people want you to be…
Found your channel last night and within hours of practicing detachment and letting go I saw results within hours!! I’ve been on this journey for 4 years trying to figure out how to detach and you summed it all down in the most amazing way. Thankyou!!!!!
The backward law: Accepting a negative experience, it becomes a positive experience The more you want, the more you lack. wanting a positive experience is a negative experience
Aaron We absolutely adore you, please never stop being you and doing what makes you happy. You have helped SO many people I'm so glad you are you unapologetically. Thank You!!!
You are great at making these videos and I need to hear this stuff over and over. To answer your question, I want to stop trying to trying to find a compromise and then over-compromising myself. If things aren't harmonious, I'm going to give less of a f*** and accept that the person doesn't want to find a solution as much as I do. So now I'm not that bothered. I used to be scared of not being liked so I compromised. But now I'll sit it out. A video on this sort of thing, resolving differences etc, would be great. Thanks. All love xxx
Haters gonna hate!!! You rock Aaron. They just projecting their own self hate. Don’t let them shake your power that has awaken the power in others to wake up too. If they don’t like it, they have the option to not listen. Don’t let them phase you or kill your vibe.
When you talk about your step mom story, you touch others who go through similar things and you open their eyes. That is an issue, you make them think about their own circumstance. Keep doing it, the truth will set people free!
They only say that because they are jealous of how far you have got with all this so just be proud and don't let them get to you they are just serpent snakes trying to hold you back this is why I've struggled with my confidence for so long, had to find myself again as I got lost in this puzzle of life we live in but your videos really helped me talking about your story as it was close to mine I am the true Cinderella story and now it's time to help others through my experience so thank you Aaron you are such an inspiration ✨💖
I appreciate you, your personality and especially not caring. I have always had a problem with not caring but I'm trying to be different and your helping me with that, its healthy for me.
Love your repetitive Stuff, Bro! Keep it up. There's always new nuances and "every recall is a reframe", so it's never "the same" story, because you are never the same person.
Hi Aaron, usually people don’t realize what you’re saying until they are old. I had the same experience when I was in my 30s I went to beauty school and started my own business. And I was picky about my clients. I guess I had the same attitude where I didn’t care what people thought I was passionate about what I did and was good at it and that’s all I cared about.
I was binge watching your videos and actually really started feeling happy with my life, feeling independent and happy. A guy who couldn’t make time for me previously have made me a priority all the sudden. Opportunities with work I was waiting for previously started coming in like crazy. What you say works!
You nailed this episode, Aaron! Absolutely love every talking point you made. Please keep this up. Even if it may 'seem' repetitive. It's exactly what many of us need. Please know you are touching many people and opening up our minds and new way of thinking. Thank you for all that you do🎁🌟🎁
You are so spot on. I really love your videos. Just keep being authentic and you will always be successful ✨ you are teaching so many how to be free from our social conditioning. What you are doing is a public service 😃 thank you for your videos 🥰
Keep being you Aarron. I've been subscribed to your channel for almost three years now. No I don't watch every one of your videos, but when one comes up that resonates with my current circumstances it almost always gives me information to apply to what I'm going through.
For about almost 3-4 years I suffered from giving too much f to fking everything, and it’s about 2 months that I’ve watched your videos, and specifically this one has changed my life for good. I don’t give a single damn f to anything, only myself. The bad vibes are gone, the toxic people are gone, I got the job that I desired to have. I’m living the life that I thought I would never live with all of the pressure on my mind that also affected my body. All I wanna say is “Thank You.” for everything that you have done. Huge Love from Iran❤️
Been watching you nearly a year. In both of your magnetic challenges. Grateful for both and you, Aaron. Usually see you in white and black t-shirts; love seeing a colored shirt on you and awesome hat! Looking forward to listening 👂 to this video. Love the weird part! Love with Your Beautiful Activation Vibration GF is glowing in you, through you and on you!
I totally get why you tell your back story but I don't only see from my perspective. I look forward to each of your videos. You resonate with me and your childhood was similar. Plus you seem to get edgier by the day and I see nothing but love and unity in you. You soulshine brother💫
Thanks for this video! I'm going to focus on being ok with being different! I've been teased for being "too silly" or "weird" & had to curse ppl out for attempting to demean me. I don't like yelling at people or defending myself. I just want to feel safe being myself. I want to get to the point where I can laugh hysterically🤣🤣 at someone's judgement then walk away
I just started listening to your videos and like you said if you didn’t share your “story” in each video briefly then I wouldn’t completely understand. You don’t have control of who watches each video or when in your Video journey. All of the greats “repeat themselves”. It’s a huge part of what you’re doing. I love your energy and your videos!
So much positive energy coming from all this comments it's the kind of place and people I'd want to spend all my time..conversations worth my time...thanks to all of you for all your perspective that I'll be adding to my own and applying
Hey guys! What are you going to give a f* about this 2022? Let me know in the comments below!
I just want world peace 😂
monitoring my thoughts and changing them when i catch myself on a loop
My mental and physical health, as well as a world that breaks free from its mass psychosis.
More exercise 😺🐾
I have moments of having completely let go and I feel great, then certain triggers bring me back down. Sometimes it’s hard to pinpoint why. At times (i tell myself the story that it’s hard to get back up when I know from you that it can be instant) I’m working on getting to a place where I can bounce back faster. Thank you Aaron
The less you care and detach yourself from the outcome the less you will be affected when things do not play out. This makes it easier to stay positive and continue putting actions that propel you forward.
I'm not religious but A-men to that
im trying hard to get this mindset i feel like at times im there and boom my mindset is back to attached wondering why they arnt messaging what their doing etc
@@bigenergy3880 That's why these lectures/videos dont really have any positive impact or make any true change. We are already hard wired the way we will remain for virtual eternity 😂
Yes but few times I did this and actually it destroyed my relationship, that I didn’t give a fuck. And also are you really enjoyng life than whne you are walking: “ I don’t give a fuck”
Thank you 🙏🏾
More Tips To Raise Your Vibration!
-Meditate Daily
-Not relying on anyone else for happiness
-Loving yourself more
-Seek knowledge
-Think before you react with emotions
-Practice gratitude
-Go outside & connect with nature everyday
-Expose yourself to the sun
-Keep your environment clean
-Use social media & electronics less
-Sober lifestyle
-Journaling
-Writing down dreams
-7-8 hrs of sleep
-Isolate yourself from people holding you back
-Dance more
-Realize you’re a soul inside a body having a physical experience
-Smile and laugh more
-Replace all your drinks with Natural/Organic Water
-Eat more healthy greens
-Taking Herbs: blackseed oil, haritaki, sea moss
-Cut out fast food
-Listen to music that heals your soul
-Eliminate clutter from your life
-Charitable donations/give money to the poor
Love this! I really needed this today! 😁
Thank you! 💛
Man, the fact that you put meditation in number 1, meditation changed my life.
I love seeing useful information like this. I remember years ago when I was still on Facebook there was always someone, usually a woman for some reason, that would say vibrate higher constantly for an answer to everything but would not say anything else. I felt it was the most unhelpful thing you can tell someone. Telling someone to vibrate higher is not going to make it happen.
Best comment by far. Thank you for posting.
Love this!
"Attachment is scarcity and detachment is abundance." These are some powerful powerful words right here 👏👏👏
Biggggg time
I don't give a fuck at all 😂😂😂😂😂when you stop giving a fuck and people start giving a fuck when you just be like bro enough of it I'm not friendly at all
Dude. You helped pull me out of my codependency issue that would just keep me imprisoned in toxic situations which led to heightened mental/emotional/physical states.
Now. My cup is full on my own. AND recently dodged another bullet from noticing the signs and holding my boundaries. Freedom!!! 🙌🏼
Jojo, I am in the same toxic situation, watching Aaron and transferring my realty.
I know what you mean. Ive been there too. Aaron is like the best friend I've never met 👍🕺
Hell yes girl!! Love it
...learning myself to push my boundaries and the things i want in my life. I wsnt to be carefree and such. Learning not to be co-independent bc of this guy 'Aaron Doughty
Aaron is just so special we love you man
"You can be the ripest, juiciest peach in the world, and there's still going to be somebody who hates peaches."
Aaron, I actually really like and benefit from the repetition in your videos. For you and those of us who have dealt with that kind of trauma and deep fucked up childhood programming, we NEED that repetitive reinforcement. We need that affirmative support multiple times for it to sink in. So I always value it, just to let you know.
Yessss! Thank you for this comment. Straight out of my own thoughts.
Well said!!!
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
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I just wanted to say the same things.
Yes, Aaron, repeat those stories!
‘Cause hearing them again and again, it helps many of us in our healing process.
And we do learn through REPETITION.
For example, how many times we read the same book that we like, and each time we learn something NEW.
Each time we read it again, we discover something NEW in the same book that, we might have read it 5 times before.
So, be you! And act as you feel!
You feel to repeat something, than DO so!
‘Cause at the end, it WILL HELP ONE OF US, in our healing process.
Nothing is a coincidence!!!
100% i love repetition
this!! 🫶
Agree!
I truly believe that things need to be repetitive until we master that thing.
To the *worthwhile person* seeing this. Don’t allow the past and current pains and hurts stop and define you. You’re more than a conqueror. Rise up and put yourself together. Keep pushing your future depends on it. I wish you all the best in life ❤️.
Thank You.. Same To You. 💝
The Chancellor Thank you VERY much for your kind words, which I really needed today! I hope your life is going well though. 😊
A great sentiment and way of expressing encouragement for the realistic challenges of life. However most platitudes such as even in this colloquial approach doesn't take into account the advantage that people have to harass an individual utilizing the surveillance state and basic personal tech. When one group has all the tech and is extensively networked and has no rules, it is hard to NGAF.
TRULY 💫 *being in the present* 💫 helps me literally not gaf about anything else outside of that. Also, KNOWING, ACCEPTING, &!LOVING my True Authentic Self allows me to be genuinely secure within myself and therefore, not gaf about other people’s opinions. 😊🙏🏾💚
Wise man oce said the more you care about what people think about you, the more reasons you have to hold you back from living a life of abundance ✨💕🙏
Don't use the impolite word Fuck.
Be a gentleman too.
A good reminder.. think I was getting needy in an area of my life and energy becoming negative.. so now I am Stop giving a F*ck !!
True. That's what I did with love. If u act like u don't care, guys chase u. If u act like u care, they back off. Try it for yourself, ladies. Ull see what I'm talking about.
“When you realize how perfect everything is, you will tilt your head back and laugh at the sky.” - Buddha
💜 Heart-Based Manifestation RUclipsr
If anyone has issues of RUclipsrs being repetitive remember it’s always someone’s first time watching A video & bringing up what One segment of the audience feels is repetitive is life-changing for someone else also I see it all the time and different types of television Broadcasting especially sports The reason there’s instant replays and recaps Of A for our game because the audience will dip in and out or it’s someone’s first time watching A Sporting event & The reason the announcer is explaining the rules because again it’s someone’s first time watching it might quickly alienate the hard-core audience but they should understand at one point they were beginners too & thank you Aaron your videos always has A Way of resonating and helping out my day
Thank you for all the excellent content you produce 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
It serves your highest purpose not giving a fuck about stuff seriously! It may sound un spiritual but it’s actually the most liberating thing 🙏🏽😁❤️
All experiences are spiritual, because we are spiritual beings playing an avatar. I don`t want to miss the experience of money and luxury.
The vulnerability definitely makes your energy higher
“Freedom comes when you learn to let go, creation comes when you learn to say no”
You don’t need to explain yourself Aaron your good 😊
never get tired of the stepmom or shoe store stories, because they are real
It sounds like a seinfield episode title 😂
Misery likes company so they’re trying to bring you down to their level since they can’t reach yours
I've never had tolerance for the "haters " who leave negative comments on any influencer vliogs,etc.
It is VERY SIMPLE. If it's not for you, just STOP watching and Unsubscribe!
As Ernest Hemingway said:
"To each their own. "
Love, peace and abundance for all
❤ 🙏 🎆
I can’t not give a fuck man. I have so much passion in me and I put so much into the things that I do, I don’t have it in me not to care. I try not to care and I can tell myself I don’t care, but deep down I really care a lot. I know I shouldn’t care that much, I know it hurts more than it helps, because I do become way too attached to things. But I don’t know how to change that. I feel like it’s something I don’t have control over. It’s like your interests. I can’t stop myself from enjoying a certain type of movie. If I enjoy it I enjoy it. If I care I care.
I resonate soooooo much with your comment. AGAF instead of NGAF! You and me and others ALWAYS GIVE A FUCK! Yes, I am trying to transition from AGAF to NGAF and I find it NOT EASY.
I always feel like it’s a curse to be this hyper aware of your own energy and thoughts. It seems like everyone around me just experiences the things I fight tooth and nail for simply because they don’t even think about it. One of these days I’m sure I’ll see the upside but it sure brings a lot of negativity.
I feel the same way bro. HSP, highly sensitive ppl/empaths. We're out there among you. Youre not alone even tho it can feel ike it. I feel your struggle ✊🏼
This guy helped me with understanding that I'm worthy and he has helped me in so many other different ways too I'd understand why would anybody hate someone who's just trying to help people
Most people including me have to hear things many times for it to sink in.
Just so you know Aaron, ur channel crosses all generations & ethnicities. You reach the masses w/ useful, practical content. They’ll always be naysayers & sum folks are gonna be pessimistic no matter wat🤷🏽♀️. Keep up the good work😇.
There will always be sceptical people, they feel comfortable making excuses and stuff, rather than just accepting what they get…..n coz their vibrational levels it’s usually bad things they get, making them
Even worse and they want others to be like them so they ain’t alone. Hope , belief and faith is more important and beneficial than worrying thinking the worst .
I’m gonna give it a like just because of the title!!! 😀
Dude if you get a hundred positive comments and 5 bad ones, that’s 95% .. that’s something to be proud of, not worried
He’s right once I start caring people don’t like me as much😂
"The more I drew validation from the positive comments the more the negative comments affected me"
(13:05)
Not needing validation from the outside and being neutral is totally key.
Love it 💖
What the heck? Why is this guy so smart? I did not want to take a dang thing he said seriously but I couldn’t stop watching him because he is RIGHT!!
The person with the least amount of interest controls the relationship, personal or business, it doesn't matter. Think about that for a second. It relates to what Aaron is saying here.
I have the art of not giving a f@$&! I love that book! I've read it several times!
I really kind of don't give a f*ck anyway but the breakdown is helpful. It's clear in every litmus test letting go and not giving a crap is a more attractive energy. It's clear that we broadcast everything to the world about us and the world can't help but respond in accordance. The universe provides everything and all possibilities already exist but if we "want" or "need" we are telling the universe it doesn't exist and we push it away and make it harder to attain so the idea is to make your desire (without want or need) more real in your mind than your current physical reality and feel the emotions as if it's happening...the brain will believe it's real because you're feeling it and releasing the hormones of it and will help you create it as part of the brain's survival mechanism and synchronicities will line up, people will do favors for us etc.
Well said! THANK YOU ✨
The cool guy leaning against the locker with a toothpick??? Hahahaha Aaron I’m dying!!! Lol 😂
Letting go is abundance , wow
I've accepted that I will always be alone. Too much heartbreak and too old to go through that again. Learning not to give a f**k
YOUR AWESOME.
I just lost my partner after 25 years, we were together since we were 16.
And your helping me with not giving a fuck about the world or toxic people around me. 💔💔💔
Getting your sense of validation internally rather than externally
Perfect timing
My sister promised she would come to my flight attendant training graduation as she is a flight attendant herself and got me into this profession and I had a gut feeling she wouldn’t make it so I kept reminding her and she was like I will for sure be there so she cancelled on me last night and I graduate tomorrow. I did not graduate from university so this was a big deal for me. I wanted her to feel proud of my achievement. This is the hardest thing I’ve ever done. I also have ADHD and very deep and heavy rejection dysphoria. I went through all the stages of grief. In the end, I will let go and let god.
Love the title. You are on point with your break down.
I learned this value phrase and learning this.
" Learn to live without the appraisal or rejection........of people."
Your core story is one of your strongest ways to explain how you transformed yourself. You bring out different parts of it depending on what you are focusing on in various videos. Each time I have heard it I took away something different each time. Plus hearing something repetitive reenforces a belief we want to download into our subconscious mind. Keep telling your core stories 💖
Love this video 🙌 really helped me! I’m a people pleaser and it’s time to “not give a f”
The way to look at life is like your watching a movie ,as soon as you start allowing thing to affect you like news etc , the more depressed you will become ,
I used to give a shit about everything when I was younger. Like what people thought about me, if someone said something about me etc etc... But as I got older I quit giving a fuck and it's helped me tremendously. Now my expectations aren't so high so I usually don't get upset if shit doesn't work out. I have that confidence now to where I say I got this and if not it wasn't meant to be..
Some repetitive things you talk about I like them because It reminds me the lesson again and again and it becomes unforgettable .
I really want to thank you for all of your videos. You were one of the reasons why I got the motivation to start this channel. I love your positive energies and that's what I give off on my channel.
You have a great channel, l enjoy your reading and the style you give it. 😀
@@beautifuldragon80 Thank you 🤗❤️
guess your story stuck with those haters, aaron. hopefully they see this video and think about what that means that they are holding onto the lower vibe message. i hope you keep doing you and marketing to the new people that need to hear your. i won’t lie sometimes i’m like ehh the same story again… but i know it helps the collective and most of the time i learn something new from it. :) love your methods and videos! thanks aaron!
Aaron you're one of the best RUclipsrs out there, don't' listen to people who haven't made 2,000 videos.
Oh "authentic" is the perfect description. This is exactly what I needed to hear today! We should totally liberate ourselves from these fucks we're constantly giving. Loving the brutal honesty here!
My daughter and I loveeeeee you! The old and new! Or whatever lol. We love your vibe.
This is a great reminder for me, I appreciate your videos ✨
Don’t let these haters dim your light
You have no idea how timely the notification came to me for this video. Thank you Aaron!
iSASI1977 - YOU HIT THE NAIL ON THE HEAD iSASI1977. Thanks for the comment :D
Aaron you are right to repeat some concepts because many times they are not assimilated at the first listening and therefore we need to listen to them several times, thanks 🙏🏻
I always thought " why is it others don't have to give a fuck but when I want to give it a try "the hell is wrong with you? GIVE A SHIT ABOUT ME!" Now I will truly put it to the test.
I used to think I didn’t give a fuck about stuff but obviously I do! The things you were saying were so on point that I was sitting here going aaaarrrrgggg!!!! every couple minutes.
I find it's helpful to purposely continue not giving a f***. Because discontent will creep back in every chance it gets.
For whatever it’s worth, I love your new content and your energy is magnetic. I didn’t see much of your old content (and I know you don’t need this validation) but your new videos have helped me tremendously
No one is going to be watching your video from three years ago and hear about your step mother and then want to know it again.....you do a great job with your videos, but you do REPEAT yourself constantly!
I like the Stepmom stories bc it reminds me of my narcissist mom who abused me therefore it reminds me to stay no contact. ❤️
same with my own biological mother. ❤️ it’s not easy. proud of you!
@@laurenhimsel Thank you. It’s not easy. ❤️
Am i doing the right thing staying no contact with my mom? She is racist.
@@AccidentalWarrior144 Yes, energy is contagious. My mom is racist too. She hates my white boyfriend.
Aaron, I stopped giving a flying f*ck 4 years ago when I read Dale Carnegie’s book. After that I discovered people like yourself and Marisa Peer. But the mind is like a car and has to be serviced and maintained. Thanks for all you do to help people ❤️
I am listening to this one on loop. I don't know, I have read so many books, but the way you explain it, is so well and precise. I listen to your audios all day, it's so positive. And your guided meditations have helped me too. Thanks a lot 🙏
The same thing!!! Aaron simply saved my money on psychologist 😁 literally 🙏
@@valentinamorozova6814 I feel blessed to have explored his channel here 😅
Aaron I love your videos. I have been listening to you for 6 months. When you repeat a message I view it that, I on some level need to hear it again. As a physician I have a very demanding and stressful life. I find your messages to be uplifting, relevant, and helpful in a crazy world. Anyone who criticizes on a social media platform is expressing cowardly and bullying behavior. You’re a gift Aaron. Thank you.
I fully concur!
@@dianeconrardy829 true, not giving a fuck about either type of comments. You receive means you can keep doing what you’re doing without worrying if people will like it. It’s beat being the real you rather than who people want you to be…
This video is totally aligned with how I feel about myself and my life. Not giving a f*#%k is so freeing!
Thank you 😊 💓 so true 👍🏿 I have not cared before and things just happened! I need to remember those instance more
Thanks Aaron. 🍃 As you move up in frequency and become wiser and internally stronger the challenges increase in weight too.
Found your channel last night and within hours of practicing detachment and letting go I saw results within hours!! I’ve been on this journey for 4 years trying to figure out how to detach and you summed it all down in the most amazing way. Thankyou!!!!!
The backward law: Accepting a negative experience, it becomes a positive experience
The more you want, the more you lack. wanting a positive experience is a negative experience
Aaron We absolutely adore you, please never stop being you and doing what makes you happy. You have helped SO many people I'm so glad you are you unapologetically. Thank You!!!
Aaron is kinda like religion i watch him when my chips are low and oh boy are they low right now. Keep up the good work. Thank you.
Wow!!! That’s Such a Great Job Story, Phenomenal Fun Story.🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾
You are great at making these videos and I need to hear this stuff over and over.
To answer your question, I want to stop trying to trying to find a compromise and then over-compromising myself. If things aren't harmonious, I'm going to give less of a f*** and accept that the person doesn't want to find a solution as much as I do. So now I'm not that bothered. I used to be scared of not being liked so I compromised. But now I'll sit it out. A video on this sort of thing, resolving differences etc, would be great. Thanks. All love xxx
Haters gonna hate!!! You rock Aaron. They just projecting their own self hate. Don’t let them shake your power that has awaken the power in others to wake up too.
If they don’t like it, they have the option to not listen. Don’t let them phase you or kill your vibe.
I love you Ahron, keep spreading your energy and don't give a shit🔥😘
When you talk about your step mom story, you touch others who go through similar things and you open their eyes. That is an issue, you make them think about their own circumstance. Keep doing it, the truth will set people free!
They only say that because they are jealous of how far you have got with all this so just be proud and don't let them get to you they are just serpent snakes trying to hold you back this is why I've struggled with my confidence for so long, had to find myself again as I got lost in this puzzle of life we live in but your videos really helped me talking about your story as it was close to mine I am the true Cinderella story and now it's time to help others through my experience so thank you Aaron you are such an inspiration ✨💖
I appreciate you, your personality and especially not caring. I have always had a problem with not caring but I'm trying to be different and your helping me with that, its healthy for me.
Love your repetitive Stuff, Bro! Keep it up. There's always new nuances and "every recall is a reframe", so it's never "the same" story, because you are never the same person.
Hi Aaron, usually people don’t realize what you’re saying until they are old. I had the same experience when I was in my 30s I went to beauty school and started my own business. And I was picky about my clients. I guess I had the same attitude where I didn’t care what people thought I was passionate about what I did and was good at it and that’s all I cared about.
I was binge watching your videos and actually really started feeling happy with my life, feeling independent and happy.
A guy who couldn’t make time for me previously have made me a priority all the sudden. Opportunities with work I was waiting for previously started coming in like crazy.
What you say works!
I appreciate your repetitions. They up the chance I'm gonna HEAR you. Thank you, you've helped me realise a lot of stuff
You nailed this episode, Aaron! Absolutely love every talking point you made. Please keep this up. Even if it may 'seem' repetitive. It's exactly what many of us need. Please know you are touching many people and opening up our minds and new way of thinking. Thank you for all that you do🎁🌟🎁
You are so spot on. I really love your videos. Just keep being authentic and you will always be successful ✨ you are teaching so many how to be free from our social conditioning. What you are doing is a public service 😃 thank you for your videos 🥰
Keep being you Aarron. I've been subscribed to your channel for almost three years now. No I don't watch every one of your videos, but when one comes up that resonates with my current circumstances it almost always gives me information to apply to what I'm going through.
I appreciate this so much Aaron. It makes life move on with ease instead of letting things get to me. 🙏🏻😉
For about almost 3-4 years
I suffered from giving too much f to fking everything, and it’s about 2 months that I’ve watched your videos, and specifically this one has changed my life for good.
I don’t give a single damn f to anything, only myself.
The bad vibes are gone, the toxic people are gone, I got the job that I desired to have.
I’m living the life that I thought I would never live with all of the pressure on my mind that also affected my body.
All I wanna say is “Thank You.”
for everything that you have done.
Huge Love from Iran❤️
You think you're just giving dating advice, your giving life advice 👊🏽
Been watching you nearly a year. In both of your magnetic challenges. Grateful for both and you, Aaron. Usually see you in white and black t-shirts; love seeing a colored shirt on you and awesome hat! Looking forward to listening 👂 to this video. Love the weird part! Love with Your Beautiful Activation Vibration GF is glowing in you, through you and on you!
I totally get why you tell your back story but I don't only see from my perspective.
I look forward to each of your videos. You resonate with me and your childhood was similar. Plus you seem to get edgier by the day and I see nothing but love and unity in you. You soulshine brother💫
Peace. Much love. Namaste.
Thanks for this video! I'm going to focus on being ok with being different! I've been teased for being "too silly" or "weird" & had to curse ppl out for attempting to demean me. I don't like yelling at people or defending myself. I just want to feel safe being myself. I want to get to the point where I can laugh hysterically🤣🤣 at someone's judgement then walk away
I just started listening to your videos and like you said if you didn’t share your “story” in each video briefly then I wouldn’t completely understand. You don’t have control of who watches each video or when in your Video journey. All of the greats “repeat themselves”. It’s a huge part of what you’re doing. I love your energy and your videos!
Haven't listened to you in a while. This is exactly what I needed to hear today
Thank you for this video, it helped me with my situation, this zoom out view 💎
the art of not giving a fuck is a beautiful thing.
It's NOT your energy that's rubbing these people wrong...It's theirs.
So much positive energy coming from all this comments it's the kind of place and people I'd want to spend all my time..conversations worth my time...thanks to all of you for all your perspective that I'll be adding to my own and applying