4 Things God Will Show You When Your Future Spouse Is Someone You Already Know

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  • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
    @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  4 года назад +77

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    • @StormChasingNinja
      @StormChasingNinja 4 года назад +1

      Probably a dumb question about this that MMAAAYY or may not be going on with me. Maybe. What if the first one strongly applies to me about opening up (especially since there MIGHT be past hurts, maybe) but literally every available option around me acts like I don't exist or purposely makes it obvious that they don't care to talk with me. Like it's not like I say weird or creepy things to them, sometimes it's as simple as saying hi and asking about their day and already they are trying to move on to the next person to talk too as if I'm bothering them.
      Asking for a friend.... 😅

    • @merlinsvdd
      @merlinsvdd 4 года назад +4

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    • @redhotteagle777harris4
      @redhotteagle777harris4 4 года назад

      Love light and peace

    • @praisenoah3514
      @praisenoah3514 4 года назад

      Very Great and lovely video

    • @BLHSunshne
      @BLHSunshne 4 года назад

      ApplyGodsWord.com/Mark Ballenger
      Hi Mark, I'm BoNitra...I enjoyed this video and all the others...I went to look up one of the scriptures 2 Timothy 5:2. I believe you made a typo the scripture is actually in 1 Timothy 5:2 🙂 again thank you for all your hard work and dedication to us single people. 🙂

  • @b.lloydreese2030
    @b.lloydreese2030 4 года назад +346

    The problem today is that relationships today do not reflect godliness

    • @drdecker1
      @drdecker1 3 года назад +33

      It is our responsibility to ensure this is done.

    • @darlenelane392
      @darlenelane392 2 года назад +8

      AMEN 🙏🙏🙏

    • @hayliemoore3042
      @hayliemoore3042 Год назад +7

      Yea unfortunately. But that’s why we should wait because their are definitely other Godly people out there. And they’re are many Godly relationships they are just ignored because they aren’t trendy

    • @aalyyy.
      @aalyyy. Год назад +1

      @@drdecker1 AMEN

    • @pamelawadkins9951
      @pamelawadkins9951 11 месяцев назад +1

      I am friends with a man right now and we both want to glorify God. So we are getting to know one another by talking on the phone and going to church together. And we will see where God takes us.

  • @nikkiandy1352
    @nikkiandy1352 4 года назад +180

    Ok,
    1. You are able to form relationship with person quickly
    2. You can’t see your life without that person
    3. You can get beyond friendship without crossing healthy boundaries
    4. You and this persons is going down the path marriage

  • @seekingthekingdomfirst8089
    @seekingthekingdomfirst8089 4 года назад +332

    I am currently avoiding your videos🤣🤣 I am afraid on having someone in my mind. But I am curious George🧐 . Right now I want to focus on God. I am seeking God with all my heart ♥️

  • @matildaojo9161
    @matildaojo9161 4 года назад +234

    Lol I feel attacked. God keeps reading my mind. Thanks mark for being obedient!

  • @ashleynicole2963
    @ashleynicole2963 4 года назад +178

    🙏👏🙌 prayer journals help me organize my thoughts and worries about my future spouse, job, ect. My life seems blurry right now. But ill continue to trust God.

  • @SimplyDessB
    @SimplyDessB 4 года назад +191

    It’s Crazy How All Your Relationship Videos Are Popping Up When I’m Dealing With This Guy. At The Moment We’re Just Getting To Know Each Other & Waiting On God Permission To Progress

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  4 года назад +7

      God is good!

    • @ashleeybubbles0957
      @ashleeybubbles0957 4 года назад +5

      And I just broken up with this man that I've been with for 7 years that means the world to me. He was using me the whole time, I was so blind. I really did think he was gonna be my husband. Silly of me 🤧

    • @SimplyDessB
      @SimplyDessB 4 года назад +8

      ashleey Bubbles09 I’m So Sorry That Happened To You 😩 I Will Pray For You My Sister ❤️ God Has Someone Waaaaaaaay Better For You. Stay Strong & Stay Focus

    • @SimplyDessB
      @SimplyDessB 4 года назад +9

      ashleey Bubbles09 & The Guy I Was Talking About On This Comment Wasn’t For Me 😩 God Showed Me That. It Was Kinda Tough Because I Really Liked Him Myself But I Trust In God’s Will. Sometimes It Hurts And Can Be Uncomfortable But It’ll Be Alright In The End ❤️

    • @ashleeybubbles0957
      @ashleeybubbles0957 4 года назад +2

      @@SimplyDessB Thank you so much for your sweet prayers. I'm praying for you also. We're all in this together. It really does hurt but I'm patiently waiting. I love you and may the universe bless you with All of your heart desires 🥰

  • @theinstructionalarchitect
    @theinstructionalarchitect 4 года назад +56

    I had a similar experience with a relationship that started as a friendship, then progressed to a relationship, then a break up. However, after the break up we attempted to maintain a friendship but it wasn't easy. That person eventually migrated, began dating someone else and I had to pull completely away from them. The best thing we can do is to stay in prayer about the person we are dating or would like to date and trust Holy Spirit without too much expectations...be sober and vigilant 🙂

  • @abbydelay
    @abbydelay 4 года назад +139

    Thanks Mark! I feel that God is telling me that it's almost time, I just need to wait a little longer.
    And guess what?! I got baptized with my older sister sunday! Our dad got the privilige of baptizing us, and it was one of the best moments of my life😊❤

    • @Chryslerdealership
      @Chryslerdealership 4 года назад +4

      Congrats!😁❤

    • @txwarriorbride5112
      @txwarriorbride5112 4 года назад +2

      Hallelujah! Check out "We The Kingdom's RUclips video on "Holy Water"! (Acoustic version) it is NOT about the Catholic term of holy water, but about baptism. And "Dancing on the Waves". Beautiful praise music, all based on scripture.😊

    • @abbydelay
      @abbydelay 4 года назад +3

      @@Chryslerdealership Thanks!

    • @abbydelay
      @abbydelay 4 года назад +2

      @@txwarriorbride5112 Thank you! I will check them out😊❤

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  4 года назад +9

      Amen! I'm so glad you obeyed the command to be baptized! God is good!

  • @txwarriorbride5112
    @txwarriorbride5112 4 года назад +52

    Wow. Just wow. Don't know what to say, except this is both scary, and comforting at the same time. Thank you for another timely video Mark!😊

  • @x-manenemylinez1025
    @x-manenemylinez1025 2 года назад +45

    Wow, I’m about to marry my best friend, I’ve only gotten 2 mins into this video and started to hear God tell me YES this is her, she is the one, we been through so much together, I been through allot with other women also but this one is very special to me and was always on my mind when we were ever apart from each other whether if it was a short or long period of time. Then out of the blue she asked me why have I never proposed to her as yet. Which I am doing now.

  • @latter-daysaintbatman2679
    @latter-daysaintbatman2679 2 года назад +14

    Everytime I fall asleep, I would think of her. The girl I had met about 9 years ago at high school, the girl I made an agreement with but then forgot about, the girl I've been seeing everywhere, the girl from Church, the girl originally from the U.S.A, who came to Canada. I'd dream of her being with me as my girlfriend and the love of my life. God knew that I had been seeking her all my life. He knew I had forgotten who she was because of the time apart. All of that was part of His plan, as a test of faithfulness. God confirmed many times, it is her. However, the Holy Ghost would always whisper to me, "You must be patient, my child. Prepare yourself and improve yourself as she serves on her mission for the Lord, Jesus Christ. You both are young and you will not be too old, and in truth, you both will still be young when you are finally reunited with each other, fulfilling and doing God's work together."

  • @Soulheartedly
    @Soulheartedly 4 года назад +65

    This is a little off spectrum, but I’m loving the new edits!! Almost as if you are teaching in person. It’s obvious that you take the time and energy to edit the clips in a way that allows everyone to understand every point you want to make. Unlike math, there’s always more than 1 way to explain and more than 1 way one can receive. Thank you for working from the heart. Awesome work!

  • @itsme6038
    @itsme6038 4 года назад +85

    Most of your relationship videos speaks to me..and I think about someone everytime I listen to your video.😄

  • @Afluffycookie117
    @Afluffycookie117 4 года назад +73

    What about if you already met the person before, but it's not in God's timing? What about when one spouse knows before the other? What about if they are not attracted to you right now, but later on in life they will be? King David was anointed to be king at 15, but did not actually become king until he was 30. He had to patiently wait 15 years.

    • @susanna_2154
      @susanna_2154 4 года назад +35

      Be patient too. Don't try to force anything. The right person will arrive in God's timing, otherwise they would be the wrong person; and if you already met your future spouse, if he / she truly is the right person for you then he / she will fall in love when God decides it (if it won't happen, they're not the one and you'll meet someone else who will be able to appreciate you). Just trust Him and don't focus all of your energy on this person, focus it on living your life and on God's will. Trust me, when it'll be time, if they're the right person, they'll fall for you and you will thank God it didn't happen before. God's timing is always perfect, maybe you can't see it now but maybe you'll eventually find out that this wasn't the right season for you to be in a relationship,and that if you and this person had started dating now you would have screwed it up or something (speaking by experience). Sorry if I made any mistakes, English isn't my mother tongue and when it comes to writing I always mess something up 😅 I hope you understood what I was trying to say. Also remember: better waiting for a certain person to love you to the fullest than to start dating them when they're not ready or still not completely into you

  • @samuelitooooo
    @samuelitooooo 4 года назад +38

    Signs #2 and #3 go together. I’ve been on both sides of #3. If you feel like you can’t live without him/her but the friendship stays a friendship and there’s little to no momentum towards a closer friendship, it’s likely a sign that it’s *not* going to happen. You might feel something lacking in that you’re not getting back what you’re putting forward. I’ve always been a believer in not forcing things. In my case I asked God so many times to make it clear to me that it’s not going to happen so I can be sure of my efforts - the guy still has to do the pursuing, I’m pretty sure.
    On the other hand, I continually put up boundaries with this other someone else until one day I put it up for the last time and let her know how I’m going to interpret her response to it. And here we are lol! Sign #3 could not be any more clearer to me. When we met I wasn’t even saved and I didn’t even think about dating her. (Then I got saved and she was still there and what do you know, she’s a daughter of God too! Not once did she try to shove Jesus down my throat back then; now she reflects God’s love and protection to me.)

  • @nappyfries
    @nappyfries 3 года назад +57

    A few years ago I was praying about my future husband & I remember “you already know him” popped in my head. I thought it was weird but never have stopped thinking about it from time to time. I used to be someone that didn’t need to know someone first before dating them but now I totally am. If I don’t already know the man God has for me, I honestly can’t see myself being with anyone.

    • @SharlenesJourney
      @SharlenesJourney 2 года назад +5

      Did you end up with him I so feel this 😩

    • @nappyfries
      @nappyfries 2 года назад +8

      @@SharlenesJourney not yet! But I still have faith & am praying

    • @Zephaniah2
      @Zephaniah2 Год назад

      ​​@@nappyfries You already know him, He's Jesus Christ Our Lord and Saviour.

    • @Zephaniah2
      @Zephaniah2 Год назад

      But I understand you're meaning a husband in general.

    • @nappyfries
      @nappyfries Год назад +1

      @@Zephaniah2 yeah that’s not what I was talking about. I don’t like it when people refer to Jesus as a woman’s husband. That’s weird to me.

  • @skypie2083
    @skypie2083 4 года назад +14

    Wow God really is speaking to me 🥺❤️ this video just popped up when I needed it!

  • @D.C.TAcademy
    @D.C.TAcademy 4 года назад +196

    Question wouldn't you still need to consult God regardless of the fact of having an attachment. The bible talks about guarding your heart above all else. Our hearts can get attached to people when we spend time and talk to them. Brother we have to be careful. Just because i grow attached to one of the opposite sex does not mean who is a Christian does not mean i will end up with them. Painful but real. A scripture in proverbs states that man makes plans but the Lord establishes them. Shouldnt we be leaning on the Holy Spirit to guide us when our hearts start to get involved? @ApplyGodsWord

    • @misspriss2482
      @misspriss2482 4 года назад +23

      Of course. However, a lot of godly marriages start out with friendships. Mark is only pointing out that if you have a healthy friendship with someone that you really care about, it's possible that that person could be your future spouse. Naturally we should pray to the Holy Spirit for confirmation before we make any decision, though.

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  4 года назад +9

      They key is to rightly apply what God says about guarding our hearts, this may help ruclips.net/video/KTpppAH6g58/видео.html

    • @khadijaking711
      @khadijaking711 4 года назад +6

      What a GREAT question! Very well put together 🙌🏾👍🏾

    • @youknow1595
      @youknow1595 4 года назад

      Amen!

    • @meghynh4531
      @meghynh4531 4 года назад

      Adrienne Johnson I agree with you!

  • @jackyloudoble808
    @jackyloudoble808 4 года назад +14

    Commenting because I know years from now, I have to show this to someone whom I was thinking right now.😂
    Godbless 💟

  • @michellebrown6931
    @michellebrown6931 2 года назад +7

    DEAR LORD LET YOUR WILL BE DONE IN MY TOTAL REFORMATION 🙏
    I LEAVE IT TO GOD FOR ALL HE IS TO ME.

  • @righteousfroce1254
    @righteousfroce1254 4 года назад +79

    Isn't the point of dating is to get to know the person. Oh yeah attachment can be horrible if it's one sided

    • @chadr7522
      @chadr7522 4 года назад

      righteous froce trust me Ik...

    • @Sexysinger123
      @Sexysinger123 3 года назад

      So true my toxic relationship is one-sided 🙃

  • @jeffreysmith5175
    @jeffreysmith5175 4 года назад +15

    I am 59 year old man. I have been divorce for 34 years. I have given up. Gotten use to being single. Love my dogs. Really that's all need. But if God is willing then it shall be.

  • @tinaprice848
    @tinaprice848 4 года назад +16

    I have a best friend whom I respect and love very deeply he helped bring me back to God's love for me and has helped me grow in my spiritual walk with God, but I'm afraid I've damaged the possibility of being more with him with lies I have told while fallen away from God out of passive aggressiveness feeling shunned by him from abandonedment issues I have because he isn't ready for dating. I know I have damaged his trust in me which I'm deeply ashamed of and ask God for forgiveness for this and hope one day he can forgive me. I'm scared of losing his friendship even though he has told me no matter what he will always be there for me as we both felt God led us to each other at the time because we both needed someone to rely on. Sometimes I wonder if we are just meant to help each other heal or if it's meant to be more and struggle with this daily. Please pray with me for guidance in this matter.

  • @yatziriflores8500
    @yatziriflores8500 4 года назад +13

    All your videos have been confirmation to me and a new friend I met at church last month

  • @aservantofgodachildofgodje8799
    @aservantofgodachildofgodje8799 4 года назад +5

    Amen ! HALLELUJAH! Thank you LORD JESUS! GLORY be to GOD ALMIGHTY! this hit home! Thank you brother may GOD continue to take you to a Higher GLORY in JESUS name

  • @goosebumpsk
    @goosebumpsk 4 года назад +57

    Its an exciting time ahead...with finding out who God has chosen to be my wife....I now have practical view points that could be pointing to the wife God has for me as being someone I know BUT its not yet time....

  • @southernbell642
    @southernbell642 4 года назад +7

    This teaching is really on time... because relationships are really not what they are suppose to be anymore....great word... bless you

  • @naturallygigi3294
    @naturallygigi3294 4 года назад +12

    How so timely! God definitely speaks to me through your videos brother Mark. Thank you so much for your obedience to God! God bless you and your ministry 🙏🏽 Shalom!

  • @yungraptor9864
    @yungraptor9864 4 года назад +49

    Prayed 2 God about this.thank you. Just need to be patient

  • @miseththeymiseththey
    @miseththeymiseththey 3 года назад +3

    It makes sense that both men and women should marry their friend and be friends first..

  • @javonieturner8032
    @javonieturner8032 4 года назад +22

    These videos are always on time 🙌🏾

  • @niciad.2967
    @niciad.2967 4 месяца назад +2

    💘I am currently now dating my friend who I’ve known since we were 14 years old.He took me out 2 years ago but I didn’t have feelings for him.Now today he’s taking me out again and I do have feelings for him.We already have good communication & open up & feel comfortable around each other.

    • @Shaftalooooo
      @Shaftalooooo 2 месяца назад

      Poor man😢
      He should have learnt from his lesson

  • @JohnSmith-ps9gy
    @JohnSmith-ps9gy Год назад +2

    I have someone who I've not met in person we talk for hours it's been over a year there is something very important and special I believe we are both chosen ones. Humility and gratitude.

  • @justinandrew4955
    @justinandrew4955 4 года назад +4

    Please note the verse 2 Timothy 5:2 at the 4.46th minute of the video should instead be 1 timothy 5:2. 2 Timothy ends at Chapter 4. Thank You for your videos and I thank God for every effort in making these videos. So insightful. And God bless you and increase His anointing to inspire you to touch lives through the messages you pass across the World in this Videos. Watching way from Nairobi, Kenya.

  • @cassball7
    @cassball7 4 года назад +8

    This video doesn’t apply to me but it’s great info. I watched another video about it being your time and I think that applies. Both videos showed up in my feed and I think it was the word I needed. I don’t know my spouse but I’m praying God sends him soon!

  • @princessserwaa6304
    @princessserwaa6304 4 года назад +44

    Lol doesn't apply to me but was checking 😄. Hi Mark. Hope everything is well by God's grace? God bless you for the good work your doing.

  • @DrummingWriterTrekfan84
    @DrummingWriterTrekfan84 6 месяцев назад

    I fit points one and two for sure! God is teaching me to slow down because im interested in dating someone who needs lots of time to open up, and i can't imagine being with anyone else except that person because im really attached to her. 🥰 Im learning to get to know her and giving her plenty of time to get to know me. I believe that will help us become closer friends. And yes I definitely don't want to lose her. So this video is definitely confirming a lot of things Mark! Thanks for being led by the Lord in all you do!

  • @butnowamfound
    @butnowamfound 4 года назад +7

    These videos you’ve been posting lately about relationships are REALLY providing confirmation I was so stressed about a year ago. As soon as I got to a place where I was just content with God leading me however He wants and exposing/ concealing whatever He wants, I was led to your videos and now I can sense the liberation and added peace that’s coming from receiving in His timing Word I needed but am no longer fixated on in order to walk ahead... that was Such a run on and it might make no sense, but Mark I’m so grateful for your obedience and I’m blessed by what God is doing through you. May God continue to bless and keep you!

  • @allontetafolla2053
    @allontetafolla2053 4 года назад +4

    This is a message for me, I really like this girl who I've known since I was 16 yrs old

  • @Msbusinesss
    @Msbusinesss 4 года назад +14

    Once again as usual PERFECT TIMING! lol

  • @SavageThoughts-x3c
    @SavageThoughts-x3c 4 года назад +29

    JOHN 17:23 I IN THEM AND YOU IN ME. SO THAT THEY MAY BE BROUGHT TO COMPLETE UNITY. THEN THE WORLD WILL KNOW THAT YOU HAVE SENT ME AND HAVE LOVED THEM EVEN AS YOU HAVE LOVED ME. THE ONLY WAY TO KNOW YOUR SPOUSE IS BY IDENTIFYING GOD'S WAYS INSIDE OF YOUR SPOUSE.

  • @Xoxo.ginaaa
    @Xoxo.ginaaa 4 года назад +2

    Thank you for this upload. Maybe this can help someone who is having doubt or is lost in their everyday lives and works constantly.. Like an FBI agent...

  • @PaytonFrantz
    @PaytonFrantz 4 года назад +10

    This is something I’ve never thought about! So interesting

  • @ladennayoung2939
    @ladennayoung2939 4 года назад +12

    Good video as always. God bless. Please keep praying for me, and your other subscribers. 😊

  • @mezagarner4427
    @mezagarner4427 4 года назад +13

    I’m probably going to date someone I have a friendship with!!

  • @wanril8988
    @wanril8988 4 года назад +11

    What if the person is across the globe? Well, I will just trust God wherever He leads me :)

  • @BeautiNSuccess
    @BeautiNSuccess 4 года назад +38

    Smh sometimes people do spells, loa and a lot of manipulation through words and music and it makes people think they are something they are not. Smh but, I’m dating and building a friendship with someone now. I’m praying about him.

    • @thesilentwarrior6769
      @thesilentwarrior6769 4 года назад +2

      Agree

    • @BeautiNSuccess
      @BeautiNSuccess 4 года назад

      Common Sense Isn't Common this sounds so dumb. I know why your name is what it is. 🤦🏾‍♀️ I won’t even point it out.

    • @BeautiNSuccess
      @BeautiNSuccess 4 года назад

      Common Sense Isn't Common no and I’m not Christian I’m spiritual. I believe in Jesus & God Your comment doesn’t make Since. I pray for God to order my steps and guide me and show me what he has for me to do.
      I don’t need to read the words of the Lord’s Prayer I knew it since I was 6 by memory.
      I don’t pray and ask for anything and if you were really Christian you wouldn’t tell someone to not pray. I don’t follow philosophers I follow the Holy Ghost directly. I have a relationship with the creator I constantly let go and let Hod. I got this . Btw t his comment 5 months ago. If I pray about a man being right for me or signs the universe will give them to me.
      I don’t think People know what prayer is . 🤦🏾‍♀️ it’s ok tho’ to each his own .
      No you can’t get God to do what you want . 🤦🏾‍♀️🙄😩
      It’s clear you are not a Christian and btw I don’t pray for anything I pray about it.

    • @BeautiNSuccess
      @BeautiNSuccess 4 года назад

      Common Sense Isn't Common
      Yeah I feel weird saying I’m not a Christian but, I am more spiritual than religious... what I’m saying is . I don’t pray I like that that prayer went more so like, dear God thank you in advance for revealing to me the intentions of this guy,
      I’m dating or that’s interested in dating me. Showing me what he wants with me or if he’s who you have for me. And remove him from me thank you in sometimes I say in Jesus name sometimes I say just amen 🙏🏾 also
      I don’t ask for people that’s weird , I don’t even pray for a husband and men try to flock to me even the I’m. Celibate. I pray for wisdom, knowledge, peace, understanding, strength and victory over every trial and every test.
      Sometimes I don’t ask for anything sometimes I just say Thank you most high holy one for all the wisdom and knowledge you’ve given me in my life and continue to . For revealing deceptions, lies, fake people, for protecting me and trying to protect me when . I wasn’t looking out for myself.

    • @BeautiNSuccess
      @BeautiNSuccess 4 года назад

      Common Sense Isn't Common Ok Well I’m Christian Then. That’s who saved my life. Literally

  • @aplusmerchant2281
    @aplusmerchant2281 3 года назад +4

    I think God introduced me to my future wife. But he showed me that I need to be a better Christian and have a better relationship with Him before I can date her. I am heartbroken by this but it’s true, I have not had a good relationship with Christ and I have rejected him in the past and I feel very ashamed but now I know I must pursue God in all I do.

    • @jonahwasch4598
      @jonahwasch4598 3 года назад

      Well you can pursue her and grow with God in same time, we never knew how God can use a relationship to carry out His will.
      Take risk or lose the chance if you know God already introduced your future wife then why not pursue it?

  • @bernadineware5473
    @bernadineware5473 4 года назад +6

    I prayed and I asking God to send me someone of His choice. Plus I am a widow and a Minister. I am waiting for God timing. Because He told me I had to wait on His timing. Thanks for the information you share.

  • @a2t4r75
    @a2t4r75 4 года назад +6

    I keep on dreaming about this one girl. We don’t do anything, but I see her across the room and all she has to say is hey and I’m already happy. Thing is I’m pretty sure she used to like me but I don’t know if she still does, and I think she has a boyfriend. I can’t do anything because I’m not going to school right now so therefore I can’t see her.

  • @brittneyl9481
    @brittneyl9481 4 года назад +13

    We've known each other for 7 years. I liked him as soon as I met him but then he went down the wrong path and nothing ever happened between us. He has since gotten to a better place in life and he is the kind of guy I would want to be with now. I am praying to God because if it's meant to be He will find a way.

    • @lifestyle-uncensored
      @lifestyle-uncensored 4 года назад +3

      Sis, take your eyes (and heart) off him and live!
      If he didn't 'see' you and consider the pursuing a relationship with you in seven years, what would possibly change now? Trust God alone.

  • @e.n.6079
    @e.n.6079 4 года назад +10

    JESUS CHRIST 🌹❤️IS KING!

    • @Angel.O7
      @Angel.O7 4 года назад

      PERIOOOOODDTTTT❤

  • @valenciawalker6498
    @valenciawalker6498 4 года назад +9

    I’m not that type of person . However my relationship in 2014 we dated a month in a half before we declared it official the next month . We are still dating in 2020♥️

  • @shalinikaushal9752
    @shalinikaushal9752 4 года назад +3

    I feel the same feelings for a Godly guy we both are attach I Love him n he too loves me we both are believers but don't know what is going to happens😁😁😁

  • @MiaCarter7
    @MiaCarter7 Год назад +1

    I’m trying to keep the faith

  • @jeanettemaya9753
    @jeanettemaya9753 4 года назад +16

    I got notified twice of this video! Could it be a sign? :P haha. Another great video!

  • @hadassaheritage
    @hadassaheritage 4 года назад +10

    Your videos ministered to me when God led me to break up with someone...now they're ministering to me as I feel God is leading me to someone else 🤔🤔 I'm terrified lol

    • @sweetulip2004
      @sweetulip2004 4 года назад +1

      Question if you don't mind me asking: How did you know God was calling you out of that relationship? How did you go about executing the break up?

    • @hadassaheritage
      @hadassaheritage 4 года назад

      @@sweetulip2004 so that relationship was sent from the devil to destroy me, in many ways. I however was convinced that it was of God through "confirmations", what people said, and what this person told me. It all seemed perfect except for my relationship with my mother. It had always been so strong, but literally one day to another we weren't the same. We fought more often and grew a part. One day we had an argument, that led me to ask God to reveal to me what I may have not seen. My spiritual eyes were covered, so I hadn't seen the red flags, but I told God "reveal anything that is hidden, even if it hurts me". That Friday through Sunday the Lord was showing where my ex was lying, and because I was still convinced that it was of God I made my efforts in being a virtuous girlfriend: forgiving and moving forward. Who was I to judge right? So for a month I spent praying to God to restore the relationship, but simultaneously I was praying for revelation (more truth) and it seemed to get "worse" as the relationship crumbled. I didnt share these things with my ex, I kept them to myself until I finally felt God say it was time to leave. I brought everything to his attention, every lie, and said that we couldn't move forward if I could not trust, but if it was meant to be itll be. He tried hard to convince me of his devotion and righteousness, but eventually his true colors came out and every manipulative and cynical fiber of him poked through. I dealt with his harassment for about a year until he finally decided to move on with his life.
      It was a process. I cannot say it was one thing or another, but more so a culmination of many conversations with God. I truly died to myself.

    • @sweetulip2004
      @sweetulip2004 4 года назад

      @@hadassaheritage wow sis. Thank you for sharing. I pray as you move forward in your walk with God, you will be strengthen and blessed with abundant wisdom & discernment! Stay focused on growing & developing in Christ. By doing so you will be in a better position spiritually, emotionally & mentally to make the right choice in the future regarding marrying. Rooting for you and ALL that God has for you!! ✨✨ Follow me (Crystal Roland) on social media if you like!

  • @faithcoles1166
    @faithcoles1166 4 года назад +6

    ❤️❤️❤️
    is my story of love be written right now?!?
    your videos are so inspiring and I am very grateful for them and you. thanks so much! 😊🙏 if you have any tips on reading the Bible and understanding the Word, please leave a comment of encouragement and insight. God bless!

  • @beanie_bae
    @beanie_bae 2 года назад

    I saw this in my reccommended video section and I had to take a look! I still am unsure if the person I know is going to be my husband one day or anything, because our friendship is growing, but it isn't all in depth at once. I want him in my life for sure, but I don't know if he would not be able to handle not having me in his life. I think with any friendship of the opposite sex the only thing further than a good friendship is a relationship. I don't know what God's plans are for my life, but I do see both of us getting married one day, I'd just like to know if it is with him. I'll continue praying and waiting!

  • @alissavandress7523
    @alissavandress7523 7 месяцев назад

    Mark, I’ve been watching your videos since last year. I never thought I’d need advice from RUclips and I’m even hesitant to comment publicly but God humbles us and guides us to seek help. These videos have been so insightful ever since I started watching and learning. Thank you for your guidance.
    Would you possibly do a video on what to do if you have feelings for a Christian man but he’s involved in a relationship? I don’t know what step I should take and feel in my heart that your Godly wisdom can guide me. He’s a friend and I want to get to know him better but I feel wrong since he has a girlfriend and I can sense he’s putting his guard up. What does scripture say in this situation?

  • @mint_soup9743
    @mint_soup9743 4 года назад +1

    On number one: you said in a previous video to avoid a woman who only wants to be friends when she knows you like her. What I fear in that statement is the pressure that puts on women to focus on romantic things before friendship, to not have a chance to really get to know a person first, whether it ends romantically or not will not be determined until later. We all need to start somewhere.

  • @dilkiaa9628
    @dilkiaa9628 4 года назад +5

    It's on perfect timing I am glad to subscribed your channel God bless you

  • @kingwolford515
    @kingwolford515 4 года назад +21

    I'm to friendly to know if it's more then friends lol

  • @lorahamilton397
    @lorahamilton397 4 года назад +6

    What if I don't have any friends? And what if the only man I ever truly could be married to was taken out of my life. This is terrible advice for me but you seem like a good person. God bless you.

    • @jad3ruby_
      @jad3ruby_ 4 года назад +1

      Lora Hamilton God bless you dear, trust God, He can turn things around in the snap of a finger.

  • @jemmy924
    @jemmy924 3 года назад

    Number is so ME! You get it. Thank you lol. Great vid👍

  • @jadajohnson7957
    @jadajohnson7957 3 года назад +8

    Please pray for me to get a new future husband to be his future wife one day and that I deserve happiness and love in faith hands. 🙏

  • @ronaldirwin9922
    @ronaldirwin9922 2 года назад +1

    I work with a woman. I want to walk away. But. I voice in my head is saying don't give up... there is more to the story. Visions of future events. They always come to pass. Should I change anything?

  • @thebaxman4459
    @thebaxman4459 4 года назад +1

    It's getting harder for me to cope and I HATE not having the BLESSING of that VERY SPECIAL someone! A LOT of my friends have a Facebook profile pic of them with their VERY SPECIAL someone and I NEVER have ANY dating prospects NO MATTER WHAT. Maybe God just does NOT care how FED UP I am with going through this.

  • @billlambert9218
    @billlambert9218 4 года назад +8

    I get dreams about the woman i used to date. I've known her for years. She knows how i feel about her. I've grown and learned what i should of known in the past. No matter who I'm with i keep dreaming about her. What should i do? I tried to be with someone else but I'm not fulfilled in any way. I don't even feel love. Idk what to do?

    • @richiegangemijr7225
      @richiegangemijr7225 4 года назад +4

      I’m literally in a similar situation. The word of God says in Mathew 7:7 ask and it shall be given to you, seek and ye shall find, knock and it shall be opened to you. I dated a girl for a while and we had really strong feelings, both Christians, but Of course some issues that needed resolve. I don’t speak to her, but she would tell me about dreams she had if we did randomly speak one day. I would have a dream about her in that same exact night which I found really strange. God is not the author of confusion and if something’s for you, it’s yours! I would simply ask God for a sign, stand on it, and wait🙏🏼. Hope this helps, especially that you still have feelings for this girl, God won’t withhold any good thing from his children. Ask God to answer you in his perfect timing.

    • @redhotteagle777harris4
      @redhotteagle777harris4 4 года назад +2

      @@richiegangemijr7225 praise and glory to the most high!! Love light and peace.

  • @zacqueeentertainment7336
    @zacqueeentertainment7336 4 года назад +51

    MARK YOU KEEP POSTING ABOUT FUTURE SPOUSES AND IM PATIENTLY WAITING IN CELIBACY. WHERE ARE THEY?

    • @wj2107
      @wj2107 4 года назад +9

      Talks with Josiah You may be unknowingly incomplete with something. What if they show up and you’re not actually ready? You may reject it.

    • @smartkookie
      @smartkookie 4 года назад +9

      Your faith is little. You need to trust God more.

    • @zacqueeentertainment7336
      @zacqueeentertainment7336 4 года назад +9

      I’ll be okay. I need to become the one and not worry about meeting the one

    • @smartkookie
      @smartkookie 4 года назад +6

      @@zacqueeentertainment7336 I love that thinking. You got this! She is on her way. When she comes she is going to love you soo much that its going to get on your nerves and I want you to think back to my comment.

    • @zacqueeentertainment7336
      @zacqueeentertainment7336 4 года назад +3

      Smart Kookie tbh I thought about female friend who I had. Her and I met in school and clicked immediately. Actually when I first met her I thought she was into me. I never asked her or anything but She told me she was married and I thought nothing more of it. But as we grew in friendship we’d text, call, almost everyday for months it got to a point to where my closest confidants and family thought she liked me and wasn’t respecting her marriage relationship. It never occurred to me that I should have placed tighter boundaries on a friendship like this. So I cut her off completely. And it hurts like hell right now. Tbh she has guy friends she texts and does other things with. She’s called me her best friend even though she is in a married relationship. Whether she is intentional or not I don’t think a true friend would ever place another friend like that in a tough place. I realized we got too close and I also liked her too but I cut off everything. I felt attached and it felt great to be around each other. But she doesn’t belong to me and I wanted to respect her marriage completely. Some of the signs mark was referring to made me think of her because we both know each other very well. It’s just frustrating because i know I’m doing the right thing. And I’ve been waiting for a female best friend exactly like this. And the ONE time I find it, it’s this difficult situation. And that’s why I commented lol. Thanks for listening btw

  • @sweetku6261
    @sweetku6261 4 года назад +2

    im still on dating portion, maybe God had a way. 😊😇 God, you take control of my lovelife. 😇

  • @jonmann4980
    @jonmann4980 4 года назад +9

    There’s a girl I’m friends with and it feels like God is telling me that we should be together however I’m not physically attracted to her does anyone have any advice for me?

  • @rdrrdr778
    @rdrrdr778 4 года назад +2

    Praise our Lord Jesus Christ🙏🙏❤️❤️

  • @isaacmarquez09
    @isaacmarquez09 4 года назад +22

    I met someone who reminds me a lot of my ex when it comes to our dynamic and interactions. We are friends right now but we get closer and closer everyday little by little. I cant tell if God is trying to tell me to use my past experience to not make the same mistakes again with the same kind of relationship so it will thrive, or he is telling me to stay out of that possibility altogether. What should I do?

    • @ceruleanB
      @ceruleanB 4 года назад +11

      Guard your heart and pray for discernment!

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    @hoiliswu6070 4 года назад +1

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  • @RealLadi228
    @RealLadi228 4 года назад +4

    I said just today..I must change the dynamic of a relationship between me a person talking or texting via phone no physical contact anymore or anytime soon due to the possibility of healthy boundaries being crossed..
    Wow!
    Look@God#3

  • @roninyasuo4301
    @roninyasuo4301 4 года назад +2

    3:02 That helped so much.😂😂 The double negatives always confuse me.

  • @HASmarie24
    @HASmarie24 4 года назад +1

    I have this man in my mind.....he is my former workmate but when he became an officer he transfer to another office...I feel so sad and I want him back in my life..I pray every night that God will bind us together..that someday he will be my future husband...

    • @johnmarlan9238
      @johnmarlan9238 3 года назад

      How did you become attach to him. What made him special?

  • @beneettakulah7536
    @beneettakulah7536 4 года назад +4

    This is truly helpful!!

  • @Baruj67
    @Baruj67 Год назад

    Most people do nota waut for his/her future Godly spouse or wife . He / she Will arrive in your life Even when You do not look for him/her.

  • @nanostar7660
    @nanostar7660 4 года назад +7

    Time stamp: 2:32- make sure attachment is accompanied by appropriate amounts of commitment

  • @sup.LeeBoy
    @sup.LeeBoy 4 года назад

    Yo AGW, it’s because you’re videos I got out of relapsing.

  • @Ursin101
    @Ursin101 4 года назад +1

    I always watch and learn from your videos.

  • @kieshacurry2532
    @kieshacurry2532 4 года назад +3

    Thanks For This Video🙏🏼

  • @l-em5526
    @l-em5526 4 года назад +6

    Wow this is good 👏

  • @tyraresilient2812
    @tyraresilient2812 4 года назад +2

    Wow we have been friends for 2yrs. He was under my nose the whole time

  • @jazzystarlight-i7i
    @jazzystarlight-i7i 3 года назад

    NOT ALL ATTACHMENT IS BAD 🤧 TRUTH WAAAHHH

  • @ellietormozov9333
    @ellietormozov9333 4 года назад +5

    What about god bringing a relationship back together? God had you break up and he brings a couple back together in his timing

  • @anneyoung2310
    @anneyoung2310 11 месяцев назад

    There is no one (in my life currently) that I can’t imagine being without or am currently attached or attracted to, nor whom I respect enough to consider marriage material; there have been candidates, but not in the past several years.
    My two standards (spiritually equally yoked-2 Cor.+ mutual attraction-Song of Songs) have either not been met, or the relationship (in the past) did not progress to the depth required for intimacy; I’m morbidly afraid of the wrong person being attracted to me, which may be too empathic.

  • @LadyQInspires
    @LadyQInspires 4 года назад +6

    It gotta be between my ex and the person I keep hearing in my head lol

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  • @girlofJesus-333
    @girlofJesus-333 4 года назад +16

    Cool I'm 20 but I don't know ANY GUY :-D Still I enjoyed the video 😅

  • @anthonyshipp67
    @anthonyshipp67 Год назад

    I try not to think about the person in church I like. I ask God why I'm thinking about her. I just keep thinking about her a lot I posted to this about Jesus and God because I know they got plans for me and to my future. I just to think about my future and my goal. Whatever God plans is. I trust him. I get back think about God and nothing else but God

  • @sirenamontreala.k.aelibatt4699
    @sirenamontreala.k.aelibatt4699 4 года назад +1

    Wisely video God bless n Thank you 😊

  • @solangedaniel3987
    @solangedaniel3987 4 года назад +1

    I just met somebody n am trying to pull away but a voice is telling me he is d one

  • @theprolificnetwork4670
    @theprolificnetwork4670 3 года назад

    I think #3 is extremely misleading. People have issues controlling urges so #3 validates those who can't control themselves and creates more people hooking up as committed just to taste the fruit.

  • @darkmeetslyte_2102
    @darkmeetslyte_2102 4 года назад +5

    Hey. This probably won’t apply to a toxic pseudo-friendship that ended up with hurt people (one of whom married someone different for the wrong reasons) and confusion, right?

  • @bhuvanabhuvana7330
    @bhuvanabhuvana7330 4 года назад +1

    Dear god plz show me my soulmate well he holds my hand without fear 😔😓

  • @mircari
    @mircari 4 года назад +7

    I am 42, married my first time When I was 27 years old & virgin, I met him again in church (we were former high school classmates) he was a church leader....he had a lover within church
    I married my second and last time 6 years later, meet him within the new church I was attending, we served together and were great friends, again we married and he got himself a lover in his job.
    Both of my ex husbands got their lovers pregnant while still married to me...,I found about everything at the very end of my marriages.
    I am deeply heartbroken and I guess these men were not christians at all...I do not understand this joke on my life.

    • @niceplayground
      @niceplayground 4 года назад +4

      I'm so sorry about this. One question did God show you somehow this was the man he had for you? I'm so scared to marry the wrong person and often pray that God will make it clear to me personally.

    • @mircari
      @mircari 4 года назад +1

      niceplayground Actually I prayed for both andspecifics signs and God provided those....so I do not know these 2 men just were not committed not real christians at the end

    • @niceplayground
      @niceplayground 4 года назад

      @@mircari ok what specific signs if I may ask?

    • @dianachophy
      @dianachophy 4 года назад +2

      Don't look for signs first. You givr your walk with God high priority, you'll learn to hear from Him.

    • @e.l.243
      @e.l.243 4 года назад +1

      @ mmr...
      There are a lot of bad guys going to church to hunt christian girls.

  • @yd4460
    @yd4460 Год назад +2

    God must come first for if he or she truly honors respect loves God. Then they will truly honor respect love each other. I truly am that type of person really wants to date someone for a while to let them know me fully. and I may know them fully. that's the only way you'll know if you'll get along forever true soulmates. but you must be fully honest about everything and anything holding nothing back.and hopefully they will hold nothing back from you. and I mean true honesty about everything and anything to give each other the chance to back out. because truly if you don't want to go through heartbreak. then you will want to be honest about everything and anything. if you truly want a true soulmate for life. just my opinion. God bless all in your search for your true soulmates. All love and respect for all.💯%💗🤍💗💯%