Don't Fight with a Narcissist - God Says Do This Instead!

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  • Опубликовано: 2 янв 2025

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  • @Kris_Reece
    @Kris_Reece  2 месяца назад +56

    FREE Narcissist Survival Guide
    krisreece.com/narcissist-survival-guide/
    Conquering Codependency Biblically Online Course
    krisreece.com/conquering-codependency/

    • @djpvma
      @djpvma 2 месяца назад +1

      That's expensive for an online course

    • @Denise-h3c
      @Denise-h3c 2 месяца назад

      @@Kris_Reece Got it! Thanks Kris. 💜

    • @ricvaa
      @ricvaa 2 месяца назад +2

      @@SouthernGospelSinger777 People will show you various ways to dealing with a narc (so much on online and on RUclips) but only if you want to.. It's basically abandoning old or original ideals about your relationship and adopting the new concepts of dealing with a narc- only if you want to. Other option (in your case): divorce.

    • @ricvaa
      @ricvaa 2 месяца назад +2

      @@SouthernGospelSinger777 Well, you seem like you rightly summed up your entire situation. So now.. watcha gonna do??

    • @ricvaa
      @ricvaa 2 месяца назад +1

      @SouthernGospelSinger777 Congrats.. So many wish they could totally break away from a narc. Now it's time for your healing, evolving and moving on. Also, now u should know what to look out for in other potential narcs in your life.

  • @nicolebenson4517
    @nicolebenson4517 2 месяца назад +179

    Many narcissists die having suffered no consequences. Walk away, detach, stop investing in their good or bad. God will deal with them. Focus on your healing and autonomy in God.

    • @maryesser7761
      @maryesser7761 2 месяца назад +12

      @@nicolebenson4517 right on sister, take your power back

    • @BecomingCrazyHorse
      @BecomingCrazyHorse 2 месяца назад +31

      Oh they suffer consequences but we may never see it. One consequence is having to live a miserable life. Thats a kind of hell. They know they’re frauds and there’s a part of them that secretly hates themselves. That’s misery, that’s just one consequence for choosing a life that harms others

    • @sharondoan1447
      @sharondoan1447 2 месяца назад +7

      @@BecomingCrazyHorse If that is the kind of thinking that brings you personal comfort, you are welcome to it. We all find a way.I don’t have it left in me to feel sorry for the suffering of the narcissist. If their lives are painful, why must they spread misery to others? Why are others required by God to endure the meanness of the narcissist. They are such cunning creatures. Before marriage all is fine, then comes the constant drama.

    • @BecomingCrazyHorse
      @BecomingCrazyHorse 2 месяца назад

      @@sharondoan1447 valid questions…here’s what I’ve learned…I have to take RESPONSIBILITY for both ENTERING & REMAINING in that relationship/marriage (20 years). Nightmare doesn’t even cover it but I chose to stay for my kids’s sake. However, once I became wise to the reality and the game I began to break free. Eventually, she couldn’t handle me being wise to the game and refusing to play it and then left…on Thanksgiving Day and took my teenage kids. I carried the anger and bitterness for a long time but at some point I decided to lay it down because I simply wanted to be free of it.
      Now, God has taken all my pain and suffering and used it all to forge me into the man I always aspired to be AND now, I get to help countless others. In fact, I made a documentary that’s on my RUclips channel called Becoming Crazy Horse and also wrote a book with the same title (available on Amazon). Those might be helpful tools for you if you feel so inclined. My life now is the best it’s ever been IN SPITE OF that person and how they tried to destroy my life.
      Narcissists are miserable and they can’t stand to be miserable alone so they make everyone else suffer just so they won’t be alone in their misery. I don’t pity or feel sorry for, there’s no good feelings or bad feelings toward her, there are simply NO feelings

    • @RayannaHull
      @RayannaHull 2 месяца назад +2

      I agree. It'll take another life or lives to catch them up socially.

  • @AFI2100
    @AFI2100 2 месяца назад +159

    Romans 12:19 Dearly beloved, avenge not yourselves, but rather give place unto wrath: for it is written, Vengeance is mine; I will repay, saith the Lord.

    • @eleanorpitt8190
      @eleanorpitt8190 2 месяца назад +8

      The Lord spoke that to me many many years ago. We have to be trust God

    • @gaylechristensen6285
      @gaylechristensen6285 2 месяца назад +7

      ​@@eleanorpitt8190And Trust His timing. It's so hard to endure through the agony of waiting for some kind of absolution.
      Sometimes we want to see vindication now, and it rarely works that way.

    • @heatherross7074
      @heatherross7074 2 месяца назад +4

      Yes!! Amen!! KJV❤❤❤❤

    • @rendemello73
      @rendemello73 2 месяца назад +2

      @@AFI2100 AMEN 🙏 THANKS FOR THE REMINDER MY DEAR BROTHER/SISTER ❤️🙏.

    • @amaqueen9012
      @amaqueen9012 2 месяца назад +4

      AND I TRULY BELIEVE THE TRUTH OF THE WORD OF GOD
      BUT I SHALL
      SAY BYE BYE AND LIVE PEACEFUL AND ALONE/WHILE GOD DOES HIS THING/AND IF THAT MATE REMARRIED
      THAT WILL BE GREAT AS WELL

  • @whipchick90
    @whipchick90 2 месяца назад +94

    I'm married to a narcissist. It's hard but I will shut my mouth in response. I cannot even tell you the evil I see. I'm hurting so much.

    • @alesosa6826
      @alesosa6826 Месяц назад +16

      @@whipchick90 I’m so sorry. I’m in the same situation and sometimes the pain is unbearable. I don’t know how I got here but I pray it ends soon. God bless you !!

    • @Godslittlegirl1990-k2c
      @Godslittlegirl1990-k2c Месяц назад +10

      I'm in the same soup and not even my family would believe me because he's good at making me the bad person. I want to leave the marriage though I'm trusting God!
      I've got to a state where I can't trust anyone again even good people😢

    • @shantal1430
      @shantal1430 Месяц назад +11

      @@Godslittlegirl1990-k2c I am in the same boat ... I have learnt to love myself and not depend on anyone for support cause they would just turn around and remind you where your place is as a women ..the man is the head and so forth ...I have learnt love yourself , do what makes you happy enjoy every moment of your me time...trust God with all your heart cause he is mindful of his daughters ..I am a living testimony of this! it is a hard and sore journey but stay in the Lord...he wants what's best for you and he wants you to enjoy the life he has given you dnt wait on a man to make you happy...

    • @Godslittlegirl1990-k2c
      @Godslittlegirl1990-k2c Месяц назад +1

      @shantal1430 thank you so much

    • @wadestudios5180
      @wadestudios5180 Месяц назад +2

      @@whipchick90 I’ll pray for you. Trust in God! He has a plan for you trust me! Love you very much! ❤️

  • @hughenadasilva5055
    @hughenadasilva5055 2 месяца назад +82

    I came back to the Lord Jesus in 1972, ten years into my 56 years narc "marriage." I lived a different life, growing in the Lord Jesus and staying in it for the children. I left it all to the Lord to handle. A long story short, he was removed from our flat by the Court and I have had wonderful peace for 6 years. Been getting to know the Lord Jesus more and more too. Leaving everything to our Heavenly Father is the only Way. 🙌🙌

  • @pinkcamille80
    @pinkcamille80 Месяц назад +25

    NO NO I got away from that narcissistic abuser and now I have PEACE! RUN FAR!!! 🙏❤️

  • @grammyspa-jammies1737
    @grammyspa-jammies1737 2 месяца назад +110

    You have no idea how much I needed this today!!! The last few days I have been praying so hard to let go of the hurt. This morning I asked God to give my husband what he needs to be a better person, and me as well. (separated for 18 months and can never go back) Then I went out with some friends and spent the morning in our Bible education work. I had so much joy, you can't imagine. Then your video topped my day. Thank you.

    • @paulinekiely8990
      @paulinekiely8990 2 месяца назад +4

      ❤❤❤ me too

    • @MLP8044
      @MLP8044 2 месяца назад +6

      Praying for your healing! 🙏🏼

  • @edith2243
    @edith2243 2 месяца назад +177

    I pray every day that God takes away the negative energy and help me focus on healing. My son and all the things i wanted to do all of the past years

    • @mishaanton5436
      @mishaanton5436 2 месяца назад +9

      It's hard when the neg energy is demons. All manner of hate and passive aggressive fu, in every minor way.

    • @angeldee7287
      @angeldee7287 2 месяца назад +10

      You already have given your pain to God and He’s got it now. Stop trying to take it back, you’ve already given it to Him 😊
      Don’t look back……. look ahead 😊

    • @felinaoreite
      @felinaoreite 2 месяца назад +9

      🙏🏻 Help us that are struggling, Jesus❤

    • @sharondoan1447
      @sharondoan1447 2 месяца назад +4

      @@angeldee7287When you live with the source of the negative energy, the reality is that God doesn’t automatically pull the plug or reverse the current.

    • @joycallender6086
      @joycallender6086 2 месяца назад

      ​@@mishaanton5436🥺🤗

  • @gwendolynwehage6336
    @gwendolynwehage6336 2 месяца назад +57

    Amen, Amen! The fretting is because we want to feel in control when we cannot be in control. When I realized I could not do anything to make things better with the narcissists I walked away and felt the freedom of God to carry on without that worry.

    • @MLP8044
      @MLP8044 2 месяца назад +2

      Money holds me back from walking away right now. Dated a nacissist for 7 years too, just devistating. I wanted to have children and start a family, both happy I did not with him, but sad im 40 now

    • @benjamindegley8529
      @benjamindegley8529 2 месяца назад

      😊😊😊
      ​@@MLP8044

  • @soonerwest
    @soonerwest Месяц назад +17

    I came across your video at 4 a.m., and praise the Lord-I needed this message so much. I’m a 55-year-old Army veteran with 23 years of service, yet I feel completely helpless in the very situation you described. There’s someone who is tearing my daughter’s life apart and hurting our family little by little.
    I’ve thought about every scenario you’ve mentioned-feeling anger, hatred, even wanting to see him held accountable in every way. I’ve felt that deep desire to protect my family and help them, but it’s hard to carry this helplessness. As someone who has always protected and cared for his loved ones, it’s one of the hardest things to bear.
    But I know I love the Lord, and I believe He’s with me and my family, guiding us through this. Watching your video felt like a true gift from God this morning.
    Thank you for what you do, and praise God!”

    • @Janna773
      @Janna773 Месяц назад +1

      God bless you with wisdom, to find all the answers you need and strength to do what’s right always. That sounds painfully difficult. I’m sorry you have to bear it. May Jesus Christ strengthen you with all you need. Amen. 🙏🏻

  • @rosemarieryan2361
    @rosemarieryan2361 2 месяца назад +59

    I believe I surrender everthing to God. Amen

    • @sharondoan1447
      @sharondoan1447 2 месяца назад

      Is that one of the “ name it and claim it” false teachings?

  • @texaslovelylady
    @texaslovelylady 2 месяца назад +39

    Narcissim seems to be rampant and they go about collecting supply.
    I just want to find healthy people, so I want to focus on healthy relationships.
    So I can recognize it when I find it.
    Thank you

  • @asiapitt4188
    @asiapitt4188 26 дней назад +9

    I have been getting closer to God and he has revealed to me that I am married to a vulnerable narcissist. So much advice from videos ignoring, divorcing, leaving. This is the only video to give me peace. With the scriptures it was very helpful. People think there are exceptions to the word in difficult situations but my God doesn’t make mistakes and his word is final. I will listen to him and trust that the husband he gave me wasn’t a mistake ❤

  • @annelyseclark3312
    @annelyseclark3312 2 месяца назад +25

    30 years in this marriage. I started legal separation twice to protect my kids then young. He came to church repented of his behavior only to start over later on. I did not know about narcissism then. Only found out that this was his issue 4 years ago. So many peoples have been fooled by him at church cause he is so charismatic . God did help me see justice on the past. I need to still trust Him regardless of how he gets away with so much. Thxs for the biblical advices .

  • @LeannaRuthJensen
    @LeannaRuthJensen 2 месяца назад +46

    Your channel confirms that I am on a Scriptural path. (As a survivor self doubt is common. Having someone like you to confirm what God has taught me is such a blessing). I set my boundaries and was a victim of a smear campaign, I did nothing to defend myself but I let go and let God. As others tried to show me the error of my ways, one by one they saw the truth about my "victim". I do believe it happened faster because I didn't do anything to try to vindicate myself, but trusted God with it.

  • @zabraarms3865
    @zabraarms3865 2 месяца назад +37

    ABSOLUTELY AGREE!! That's exactly what I've been doing. Walk away. Never allowed them to upset yourself. Jesus walks beside me every day as I walk through my journey ❣️ Amen-Amen

  • @rebeccacruse7777
    @rebeccacruse7777 25 дней назад +1

    When I am anxious or mad or whatever emotions I am feeling I say the Lord's prayer!!! I have with many of my residents but in no way am I a saint!!! When one of my residents told me I was an angel sent to her by God I said "not quite you don't see the horns protruding do you? I say the Our Father alot!!! Oh I thank God for you Kris!!! it's like you get me!!! You are kind!!! My sister in Christ!!!

  • @sherrilynn8043
    @sherrilynn8043 2 месяца назад +36

    Thank you for doing God's work by helping others! God Bless you and your ministry my friend! 🙂🙏

  • @anthonybennett3226
    @anthonybennett3226 28 дней назад +1

    This is about what God spoke to me years ago about "not becoming the things you hate the most". It's an easy trap to fall into.

  • @dnjones3685
    @dnjones3685 Месяц назад +12

    Everything you said. Best thing I I've done so far is removed them from my life

  • @TheMuslimThriver
    @TheMuslimThriver 2 месяца назад +32

    Trusting God is what brings peace to the believers. Beautiful how religion unites us all 🤍

    • @mrsqueakthecat.8061
      @mrsqueakthecat.8061 2 месяца назад +2

      Yet, it doesn't actually fix any of the problems in the here and now.

    • @TheMuslimThriver
      @TheMuslimThriver 2 месяца назад

      @@mrsqueakthecat.8061 That's exactly where the trust comes in, def not easy but it's all about seeing the bigger picture and trusting the process. Something that seems like the problem may be something good for you in the long run, while something that seems good may be horrible for you. For example, narcissistic relationships.

    • @mrsqueakthecat.8061
      @mrsqueakthecat.8061 2 месяца назад +2

      @@TheMuslimThriver And too many times the trust has been betrayed.

    • @mrsqueakthecat.8061
      @mrsqueakthecat.8061 2 месяца назад

      @@kawaiimombear Ues, thats called false hope. We all know how that works too.

    • @TheMuslimThriver
      @TheMuslimThriver 2 месяца назад

      @@mrsqueakthecat.8061 I hear you and can relate. Unfortunately that keeps happening until we trust the wrong people and learn our lesson. When you put your hope in people and are attached to them you will be betrayed, when you put your hope in God and attach to Him, that is where you attain peace. At the end of the day this life is really short and no one is worth losing your peace over. Free yourself from the stress & leave it to Him to take care of you and handle anyone who has betrayed you.

  • @seeingtheinvisible7439
    @seeingtheinvisible7439 2 месяца назад +26

    i've made that mistake , forgive me Lord! Help me to just be patient and wait and To Trust You 💯!! ❤🙏🏼

    • @mishaanton5436
      @mishaanton5436 2 месяца назад +1

      Pray God will give you pause and faith. 🕊

  • @stitchinginthebarn8307
    @stitchinginthebarn8307 2 месяца назад +25

    I needed this today! I just spent the weekend with my narcissist MIL & her new narcissist boyfriend at her house. I was fretting over going & going over what to say to them in my mind & it was not nice. I knew it & gave it to God because it made me feel gross & not good & i knew i shouldn't borrow tomorrow's trouble. So we went, I held my tongue & we did good. It was only for 24 hours & we left. She is scheming against us to keep us hooked to her & I know God sees it & He can handle it. What I didn't know was the fullness of the matter that you so wonderfully & clearly described. Thank you so much! This video was a blessing to me & I hope you are blessed richly for sharing God's words that I needed to hear today. Thank you!

    • @sharondoan1447
      @sharondoan1447 2 месяца назад

      Your husband may want to remain “ hooked “ to her; do you feel obligated to do the same? Sounds possible you would have preferred to decline the invitation, but your husband wouldn’t . Makes me wonder why your husband would insist on you accompanying him on the visit, knowing your anxiety about doing so. Perhaps something to think about for future invitations.

  • @suzannetidei9450
    @suzannetidei9450 Месяц назад +14

    I appreciate the safe pastures and inherit the land which is literally what I hope for. I am separated from my abusive husband of 45 years, one of the threats he used to try to coerce me to stay was selling the small farm where we raised our ten children. So far that threat has not been made good. My daughters and I feel a strong connection to the land, and I think that was how the Lord originally intended it to be, tending what He blessed us with.

  • @leecarrigan1823
    @leecarrigan1823 2 месяца назад +15

    I am guilty of taking the bait...
    My husband has stage four prostate cancer and alzheimers we adopted his three grandchildren and he is also a narcissistic abuser...thank you for sharing biblical wisdom and truth

    • @Ashleymalone2000
      @Ashleymalone2000 2 месяца назад

      I am so sorry you are living this way. My husband of 27 years is also a narcissistic abuser. I finally realized it. I am so guilty of taking the bait trying to figure out how to stay calm in those moments.

  • @LBOMendoza
    @LBOMendoza 2 месяца назад +12

    Kris, you just told my life story, but God is teaching me to trust Him no matter what 🙏🙏🙏

  • @bradf3963
    @bradf3963 27 дней назад +1

    I'm a "fretter", I needed to hear this today. thank you

  • @Ruth-ul6rw
    @Ruth-ul6rw 2 месяца назад +15

    Just today the Lord impressed upon my heart that I need to heal from co-dependency and I prayed to the Lord to help me be strong. Please say a prayer for R.Y. Thank You. This message is very confirming and I am going to start to learn about co-dependency and hopefully heal this and become free from this. I am in my late 60's and I probably needed to heal from this earlier in my life but probably I was not able to really take the step but now I hear what the Lord has impressed upon my heart just today.

  • @har-elPrusky
    @har-elPrusky Месяц назад +2

    They took from me my last happiness and im stuck with their bitternesd while they r laughing with my stolen good vibes😊😮

  • @theresacarpenter1962
    @theresacarpenter1962 2 месяца назад +21

    Thank you. I feel like God himself sent that message directly to me 🙏

  • @janicemaze3598
    @janicemaze3598 2 месяца назад +28

    Let God be God!!!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽❤️

  • @leajay1960
    @leajay1960 Месяц назад +4

    This is for all relationships, not just intimate ones . So much of this relates to all humanity , family, friends, strangers doesn't matter the passages fit all situations . God is great amen

  • @JB-nf2rp
    @JB-nf2rp 2 месяца назад +11

    I married a year ago in another country. The abuse started the day after the wedding. It continued for the duration of the 4 months I was there until I returned home because my visa was over. I was in a state of shock when I got home. The abuse continued long distance. Then out of the blue someone mentioned the term narcissism to me a couple of months ago. I landed on your channel shortly thereafter. Your videos have been incredibly helpful. Thank you very much! God bless.

    • @lovablemunchkins
      @lovablemunchkins 2 месяца назад +6

      Please just leave! Staying is not worth it

    • @SherryONeill
      @SherryONeill 2 месяца назад +3

      Please Do Not Go Back!!

  • @refiloeleballo4714
    @refiloeleballo4714 Месяц назад +4

    Thank you God loves us he led me to this i see God everyday in my life

  • @maritaallen5148
    @maritaallen5148 2 месяца назад +40

    Both my Mother and brother are narcassists, my Dad has memory loss and I have been looking after him every day for nearly 4 years after I finish work.they have both made it so impossible for me to look after my Dad.I have told them so many times if they didn't stop slandering my name and abusing me I would stop looking after my Dad and his 4 cats, I finally had the courage to stop going to the house, but my God I feel so guilty I'm so worried about my Dad , they don't have the coping skills to look after him cause they are so self absorbed with their own lives.I pray my Dad is OK and the cats , my Dads solictor is going to organise mediation and it can't come quick enough so I can return to look after my Dad. Its so desperately sad that these type of people do everything in their power to make other peoples life a misery, not alone do they take away your peace, but they are incredibly unhappy themselves .I hope I have done the right thing, the whole situation has taken its toll on me mentally. I have put on so much weight, started smoking again and have lost intrest in looking after my self.I pray that God will have mercy on me and guide me to get back on track.

    • @marymazzulli6971
      @marymazzulli6971 2 месяца назад

      @@maritaallen5148 Repeat after me, "WE can do it. WE can get there. We WILL get there." Although it feels so, remember... you never walk alone 💜🙏💜🙏💜🙏💜

    • @Lee-em1lb
      @Lee-em1lb 2 месяца назад +4

      Praying that your dad and cats are ok. I get the lack of self care as well as I've recently Gray rocked my family.

    • @ras9875
      @ras9875 2 месяца назад +5

      No good deed goes unpunished!
      The more you help the more grief they give you.

    • @maritaallen5148
      @maritaallen5148 2 месяца назад +2

      @@Lee-em1lb Thank you

    • @candir6735
      @candir6735 2 месяца назад +4

      Praying for your dad and his cats and you! Take care of you for when you go back in! 🙏💫

  • @LisachildOTMH
    @LisachildOTMH 2 месяца назад +7

    I love your honesty , yes I do want revenge sometimes because some of these narcissist’s are neighbours work colleagues etc, I’m not wicked just sick and tired of these people they are everywhere and I’m always targeted! Thank you 🙏🏽

  • @WortundGebet
    @WortundGebet 2 месяца назад +10

    How lovely are the feet of those who proclaim the gospel of good, who proclaim the gospel of peace.
    Thank you Kris, you are a peacemaker.

  • @UnityLove-tj3qg
    @UnityLove-tj3qg 19 дней назад +1

    God knows I need to get out of here so bad and have tried everything that doesn't work. Please God, step in and get us out of this hell with this evil monster!Amen! Amen! Fret not for evil doers! Praise God!🙏

  • @BecomingCrazyHorse
    @BecomingCrazyHorse 2 месяца назад +52

    I learned that the only way to win the Narcs game is to refuse to play it. Get out of the way, get out of God’s way and trust Him to fight the battles FOR you.
    Growth for me has been to close the door to others who want to bring you the latest gossip or talk about the Narcs downfall.
    And yes, trust that the Lord will bring justice. It took me four years for me to get to the point where I could pray for my Narc ex’s salvation and ask God to bless them. When I did, I noticed more of His peace covering me.

  • @reaganjohn6367
    @reaganjohn6367 2 месяца назад +7

    Really GOD* is Talking To Millions Through You 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @Greeneyes77773
    @Greeneyes77773 Месяц назад +2

    Ive just broken up with mine today and I think he was a devil in decise.
    He calls himself a man of god but doesn't follow his commandments.
    Just to think i was ready to move away and start a new life with this guy.
    Thank you god for saving me 🙏✝️

  • @nomzamongwabeni6076
    @nomzamongwabeni6076 2 месяца назад +5

    Lord I trust you in all I do...I will never doubt your love ,I'll wait patiently for you to fight my enermies ,I look up to you...🙏

  • @Uchy123
    @Uchy123 27 дней назад +1

    Living in the same house with a narcissist destroys you. I separated from a narcissist. I can't divorce him but I'm fine living celibate. I have so much more peace now and do not even desire revenge. I just don't want to be around him.

  • @Lisatwade
    @Lisatwade 2 месяца назад +17

    This is 100% true and I know this from how God has acted in my life. But sometimes it takes a looooonnng time! God doesn't move fast.

    • @texaslovelylady
      @texaslovelylady 2 месяца назад +2

      He is merciful and I want the Narcissist radically saved but now realize that I can't lead them to the Lord.

    • @sharondoan1447
      @sharondoan1447 2 месяца назад

      God created the world in six days.

    • @Lisatwade
      @Lisatwade 2 месяца назад

      @@sharondoan1447 re-formed it. It was already formed

    • @sharondoan1447
      @sharondoan1447 2 месяца назад

      @@Lisatwade I do not accept the Big Bang explanation which might suggest that God liked the glob of matter hanging in space and sort of decided he would work it over like a mound of clay. The Bible says, “ In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth. And the earth was without form and void; and darkness was upon the face of the deep.” Genesis 1:1-2. I believe in that God. The God of all creation. And you might also note John 1: 1-5 which reads in part “ … All things were made through him and without him was not anything made that has been made…..” If anyone prefers a modern scientific theory rather than an intentional God theory, they are free to do so, of course. Some Christians see the Big Bang as the human explanation for a divine occurrence.

    • @Lisatwade
      @Lisatwade 2 месяца назад

      @@sharondoan1447 first off, I don’t even know where this subject came from. Also, I never said God didn’t create the universe or the Earth. All I said is he did not create the earth in six days. He reformed what was already there in six days. I do believe he created the Earth as well as everything else, but I do not believe that he created the earth itself in six days. The creation story lends the thought that the Earth was already created at that point.

  • @macseagle5968
    @macseagle5968 Месяц назад +4

    I finally got rid of my narcissist.
    What a living hell .

  • @masoodpervaiz6044
    @masoodpervaiz6044 2 месяца назад +15

    Sister I'm always blessed by you. Delight yourself in God...... This verse picked me up. God bless you my dear sister.

  • @demigaines5644
    @demigaines5644 2 месяца назад +16

    Hi And Thank You For Sharing This I Needed To Hear This After Yrs Of Emotional And Psychological Abuse. I Began Praying Asking God To Help Me Walk Away Going No Contact. I Became Sick With Severe Stomach Issues. I'm Feeling Relief After Letting Go God Thank You For Saving Me..

  • @moemoleta3410
    @moemoleta3410 День назад

    Thank You Lord for rescuing me, I couldn't do it alone, it was all you, I give you all the praise & glory 🙏

  • @babesadams2991
    @babesadams2991 2 месяца назад +6

    Thanks for this! 🤍✨ a lot of clarity! I know I'm doing the right thing. Cuz I feel remoseful for blocking and staying away from narcissist people, they've caused so much damage in all aspects I couldn't unsee their evil practices. I believe holy Spirit will convict them. God keeps his covenant. 🙏🙏 May God bless me with his righteousness. I'm forgiving and hoping the Lord will increase his favor and do not let this narcissists damage somebody else or to be spread may they be brought low. So they can see God's justice and salvation at the same time. The pure in hearts are still bless and will recover in Jesus mighty name. 🌟

    • @Kris_Reece
      @Kris_Reece  2 месяца назад

      I'm so glad you're walking in forgiveness

  • @NoName-dr8wt
    @NoName-dr8wt 2 месяца назад +17

    Kris, you are a GEM. If other Christian women speakers were truly godly and wise as you certainly are, I'd be going to women's studies and women's retreats. 😊

  • @keh-dalia809
    @keh-dalia809 Месяц назад +4

    Wow!!! Thank you so much for your invaluable service!!! With perfect clarity and Christ centered council. Lady, you're saving lives!

  • @Kat1791
    @Kat1791 2 месяца назад +12

    Just what I need, exactly when I need it. Thank you, Lord. Thank you, Kris.

  • @lisastrohmeyer5236
    @lisastrohmeyer5236 2 месяца назад +8

    Thank you God, Universe, and Angels for watching over me, guiding me, and protecting me, I am Blessed. Please expose them, make them be caught and arrested. Amen. ❣️🙏🙏❣️

  • @janetfree7448
    @janetfree7448 2 месяца назад +5

    So true. Listen to her she’s telling you the truth and the Lord It took 23 years of a narcissist. God brought me out faithfully. The Lord got me divorced and I am free. Hang in there. God‘s got you covered.🙏❤️. He truly got his vengeance. Thank you Yeshua. 👏👏🙌

  • @mariantruly
    @mariantruly 2 месяца назад +4

    Side note sis - the colour of that top totally makes your eye colour shine! :)
    And thank you so much for the visual of walking away from the washing machine instead of checking it every 3 mins lol I really needed to hear that. God bless you Kris.

    • @Kris_Reece
      @Kris_Reece  2 месяца назад +1

      Thank you. I'm so glad it blessed you 🤗

  • @liciacanada7527
    @liciacanada7527 2 месяца назад +6

    Kris I’ve never seen a video and one only psalm that describes exactly what I’m going through and it happened just now couldn’t stop crying !!!! I came home picked up the phone and there you are…all I needed to hear!
    Thanks Kris Reece thank you Lord you’re an amazing God

  • @nurseld1
    @nurseld1 2 месяца назад +12

    Thank you again for your words of "Wisdom" faithfully applied! Amen!!

  • @chibuzonwankwo1793
    @chibuzonwankwo1793 2 месяца назад +3

    I trust you, Lord!
    I refuse to judge anyone especially the narcissist but let you be God over my life and relationships.
    I have peace.

  • @rustyshackleford4299
    @rustyshackleford4299 2 месяца назад +2

    Thank you, Ms Lady. Oh, and no generic begging to "likeify, commentate, subscribble"? Unheard of and incredibly refreshing! Class act all around.

  • @porschenator
    @porschenator Месяц назад +5

    Id like him to repent, to flee from evil, and come back to the Lord. I forgive him with all of my heart. His still God's child too and worthy as well. There's still love in my heart for him despite the mean things he did. God bless him. ❤

  • @7LisaMarie7
    @7LisaMarie7 Месяц назад +2

    Wowww....This video/teaching is phenomenal! I can't say enough about it. Thank you, God, for leading me to your videos!!

  • @jodiburnett6211
    @jodiburnett6211 2 месяца назад +6

    The washing machine does the work while you tend the garden…
    Thank you for this perefect visual clarity.
    My petty resentments and beggy prayers don’t compare to Divine Timing.
    I’ve been eating a lot of Halloween candy lately, feeling bratty and catty.
    “That’s Evil. Stop It.”
    Amen. 🙏🏽 ❤

  • @carolgordon5522
    @carolgordon5522 2 месяца назад +7

    I have stop fretting a for a long time but was getting impatient for my deliverance but thank you for reminding me to continue to trust God. So timely.THANK YOU KRIS, you've been a tremendous blessing to myself and daughters

  • @butterflyj685
    @butterflyj685 Месяц назад +4

    My mother is a narcissist, and for years, I let her get away with mistreating both me and my husband. I kept quiet because I didn’t want people to think I was being unloving or unchristian. Eventually, I tried setting boundaries, but she constantly disrespected them, trying to assert control over every area of my life-even over my husband.
    After I distanced myself, my mother shifted her focus to my sister, who recently moved back to town after being away for five years. It's been eight years since I last spoke to my mother, and I had considered the possibility of reconciliation. But my sister started calling every other day, venting about the exact same behaviors that drove me to walk away in the first place.
    I finally had to ask her to stop coming to me with these complaints. Listening to her frustrations dragged me back into a dark place filled with resentment and bitterness, feelings I’ve worked hard to overcome. It felt like reliving my own pain all over again, and I even started feeling angry on my sister’s behalf.
    If my sister hadn’t returned, I might have believed my mother had changed. But seeing her treat my sister the same way has shown me that nothing has improved; in fact, it seems worse. She simply moved on to someone else to manipulate and control.
    Despite it all, I continue to give it to God, trusting Him to handle what I can’t.

  • @TessE777
    @TessE777 2 месяца назад +4

    I had to walk away from my own Narcissistic Mother after decades of abuse. Especially when she began to abuse my grandchildren. I told her that I loved her, I gave her money all the time. And, I told her that I'd always pray for her.
    BUT, I underlined the part of the speech that I said about how I would never stay around anymore for her to abuse me.
    SO, now I stop at her house to check up on her but when she starts belittling me and verbally abusing me I just say, "OK Mom, you must not want company, I'll come back around later." However, it depends on how much money she wants. If she has her Social Security check on the 3rd (& up til the middle of the month) she's abusive, BUT toward the end of the month she has less money SO she's not so abusive since she wants money.
    Therefore, I've found timing is so important with many of the Narcissists. 🙄🤔😂😂😂

  • @sandramillar9067
    @sandramillar9067 24 дня назад +1

    Wow! Oh this is so good. You stopped me in my tracks with
    Lord stepping in and me stepping aside.

  • @Coco-og7zw
    @Coco-og7zw 2 месяца назад +8

    Needed to hear this TODAY!!! This video is a divine answer to my prayers and how to move forward with my marriage. Thank you, Kris.

    • @Coco-og7zw
      @Coco-og7zw 2 месяца назад

      @stayblessed5105 … Thank you so much!🥰Prayers up 🙏🏽 for you as well. [Numbers 6:24-26]

  • @yuu_miran
    @yuu_miran 2 месяца назад +9

    I just want to be happy and blessed too, for at least for what short time is left for me. Let them be happy too but I want to be happy too, Lord. Or at least at peace and far from them, I want to forget about all of them forever.

  • @trinitycarlin1324
    @trinitycarlin1324 2 месяца назад +4

    I've just found your channel only a few days ago. This is exactly what I needed to hear. Thank You Jesus. Isn't it funny how God will put something in your feed that you didn't even know existed but is exactly what you need. Thank You Jesus. I trust You. I will wait on Your justice. Not in my timing but in Yours. Thank You Jesus.

  • @AlfredaJones-ei2bs
    @AlfredaJones-ei2bs 2 месяца назад +8

    Yes the one lady that said take away the negative energy away from her it's your enemies because you are living right for God now and they try to bring up your past it's like a dark cloud that's trying to not allow you to show your light but please show your light through God he loves you palms 37 is a powerful trust God with all of your heart Provbes 3-5-6 Trust God he is right there for you Amen 🙏🙏🙏

  • @davidr7333
    @davidr7333 2 месяца назад +4

    Also: Psa 1 "How blessed is the man who does not walk in the counsel of the wicked, Nor stand in the path of sinners, Nor sit in the seat of scoffers!" Be careful who you associate with. Often you need to leave. Not always possible, but no . . .

  • @alanhealth8132
    @alanhealth8132 2 месяца назад +5

    Thank you, I pray everyday for God to protect me from my narcissistic partner, she abuses me everyday.

    • @ritalawson7020
      @ritalawson7020 2 месяца назад

      Move far far away go no contact. You don't need this stuff

  • @RonaldEscoto-y8b
    @RonaldEscoto-y8b 2 месяца назад +9

    Let go and let God ✨️ Amen 🙏

  • @vincentruffo5948
    @vincentruffo5948 7 дней назад

    I really needed to find this channel, dealing with a vicious narcissist in a family court struggle. I’m grateful for the word I am hearing, thank you.

  • @AnitaJason-s4d
    @AnitaJason-s4d 2 месяца назад +50

    Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.

    • @Mia1827
      @Mia1827 2 месяца назад +1

      It's hard to let go of someone you love; I went through a similar experience when my 12-year relationship ended. I tried everything to get him back, and eventually I had to turn to a spiritual counselor for assistance.

    • @AnitaJason-s4d
      @AnitaJason-s4d 2 месяца назад +1

      Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?

    • @Mia1827
      @Mia1827 2 месяца назад +1

      His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

    • @Mia1827
      @Mia1827 2 месяца назад +1

      he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.

    • @AnitaJason-s4d
      @AnitaJason-s4d 2 месяца назад

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive
      Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤

  • @LeOlamVaed
    @LeOlamVaed 2 месяца назад +3

    I was literally grieving and praying last night for righteous judgement on this Narcissist life. I was thinking how could he get away for too long with everything with no consequences, literally zero consequences for so long and so many years. 7 years of my youth and life stolen completely due to deception and lies.

  • @nicolecato634
    @nicolecato634 2 месяца назад +6

    My narcissistic mom has caused so much damage in my life it is hard to have faith on justice with her.

    • @gonniekuiper1570
      @gonniekuiper1570 2 месяца назад +1

      @@nicolecato634 dear Nicole, be patient and keep your heart right for God. God will work it out

  • @lorrainesullivan371
    @lorrainesullivan371 2 месяца назад +2

    Thank you Kris. I have been struggling because of what is happening to my son (and to us his family) who may be married to a narcissist. I have been praying to the Lord for guidance and then your video popped up! The Lord truly does answer prayers. 🙏❤️🙏

  • @annehopkins2079
    @annehopkins2079 Месяц назад +2

    I am glad, the Lord sees and hears and knows the heart of them , it is hard not to fret, yet I know the Lord knows.

  • @DCHydfromewe777
    @DCHydfromewe777 24 дня назад

    Lean not unto thy own understanding but in all ways acknowledge YAHUVEH and HE will direct thy path 🙏

  • @venuspsychicmasseuse
    @venuspsychicmasseuse Месяц назад +1

    Sometimes it saves your life and others lives to flatout call them out especially if you're cornered and threatened

  • @autumnvaughn5889
    @autumnvaughn5889 20 дней назад

    Woman! Omgosh! That opening statement with the laundry nailed it for me! Wow! Amen❤

  • @Timelessnesstime23
    @Timelessnesstime23 Месяц назад +2

    God bless you for this video! Very helpful. Such a godly way to respond to hard times with others ❤️

  • @ken9221
    @ken9221 2 месяца назад +3

    Good message Kris. God always gives us an out in His Word. One of my verses for comfort is Corinthians 7:29. I'm 76, lived with a narcissist for 36 years and have peace because of the scriptures you have quoted.
    Silence can truly be priceless. Love your ministry 🙏 prayers your way.

  • @78northwest80
    @78northwest80 2 месяца назад +5

    Good morning Ms.Reece, I can't thank you enough for covering this topic and scripture. I have been struggling immensely with this situation, and have prayed for guidance, of which you have provided to me this morning...thank you 🙏

  • @praveenkumar-op9iv
    @praveenkumar-op9iv Месяц назад

    ❤ My dear sister I am so thankful to My God Jesus for your wonderful life and Teaching. You have helped me to survive my spiritual struggles. May the Lord shower his blessings on you and your family. 🙏 Amen.

  • @siobhanwolf3602
    @siobhanwolf3602 Месяц назад +3

    I really do trust but hear what you are saying about Co-dependency. Got the worst kind of news today, the narc in my life is trying to squeeze the life out of me financially. I did vent and told him to right his actions ir he'll regret it. I felt so bad after sending that message but I was heartbroken and distraught. I have offered up my problem and then this happened. I mean no disrespect and wish no harm but I felt absolutely blindsided - yet again. It's real life horror

  • @louborlagdan140
    @louborlagdan140 Месяц назад +2

    Amen 🙏
    Vengeance is mine.
    I will repay saith the Lord.

  • @VickiWells-lg5ub
    @VickiWells-lg5ub 2 месяца назад +7

    Great information for healing ! Thank you Kris 🤗❤️🙏🏻‼️🙌🏻

  • @lizj6739
    @lizj6739 2 месяца назад +1

    I cannot even tell you how thankful I am for you, your content and this video in particular. You are truly God's angel to provide such meaningful advice. It woke me up. It is everything. I may need to play it several times a day for what I am going through. God Bless you my sister and thank you from my whole heart ❤🙏💞

  • @sleeperno1215
    @sleeperno1215 Месяц назад +1

    This is exactly what I needed to hear right at this moment.

  • @RichardCopeland-s1c
    @RichardCopeland-s1c 2 месяца назад +1

    I watch often. You have a lovely way about you, and I have been helped by you as a Christian person who has encountered many narcissists from an early age. You are doing a great job. Praise Jesus 🙌

  • @rhondae8222
    @rhondae8222 2 месяца назад +1

    Thank you, sister, for sharing biblical truth. Praise Christ.

  • @joycewiley8680
    @joycewiley8680 2 дня назад

    Thank you.
    I was looking for this, and God sent it to me.

  • @VictoriousthroughChrist
    @VictoriousthroughChrist 2 месяца назад +1

    Kris, I’ve been paying evil for evil. This video is helping me get back on track mentally. I’ve taken the bait and grew resentment, I’ve reacted like a person whom was violent and aggressive (which I’ve never been before) I’ve felt guilty and shameful. Thank you so much for your channel and the work you do, in churches when I’ve mentioned the abuse to several pastors and their wives they’ve done therapy with us, once my husband said what they needed to hear they thought it was a regular marriage. No one understands, I’m so thankful to God he has a soldier on this front that most ignore. Narcissist is the psychological term for demon. I’m convinced.

    • @NarcissistHex-nf9eq
      @NarcissistHex-nf9eq 2 месяца назад

      As a self-aware diagnosed narcissist, I am very torn on this, I know that I had a horrible nightmare of a childhood and that leads to disorders like NPD Etc. So for me, I at least have an obvious explanation. But what about the people that come from good families and healthy families and they grow up to gaslight, cheat, rage lie, stonewall ....So all these tactics ,where did they come from? So maybe there is something to be said for demonic possession, I still don't know though.

  • @billgates-jb8jl
    @billgates-jb8jl Месяц назад +1

    TRUST means to rest in God. You need only to be still for the Lord will fight for you. EX.14:14 In psalm 37 the key is to be still and rest in God despite all the crap that life can throw at you. So in Hebrews 4:11 We labour(feeling prayer in our heart like giving birth) to enter that rest.

  • @bomackin
    @bomackin 2 месяца назад +6

    I have been learning that, when my soul is in a state of unrest after an abusive situation, I NEED THAT UNREST TO DRIVE ME TO LEARN MORE ABOUT MY RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD &/OR MY VALUES, NEEDS, (thus boundaries), &/OR I NEED TO VISIT WITH GOD TO DISCERN HOW TO ADJUST MY VALUES, PERCEIVED VALUES, WHICH ISSUES ARE ACTUALLY AT THE HEART OF MY "CARES" (so I can cast those on Him), &/OR HOW TO EXPRESS THOSE VALUES &/OR CONSEQUENCES....in love....

    • @StellaClements-ml3wb
      @StellaClements-ml3wb Месяц назад +1

      @bomackin I resonate with your points exactly; I need to overcome codependency (hard with financial constraints etc), also not allow myself to be triggered. It's hard when you want to be authentic but don't feel its reciprocated. Casting my cares on The Lord is my balm. Blessings.

  • @user-eg1nq8um3r
    @user-eg1nq8um3r 23 дня назад

    You are who I was meant to find lol. Ive been opening myself up to a relationship with God for the past few years, but felt I was unworthy and not ready because of bad choices I was making and everyone says that's when you need him most but for me I didn't want to be disrespectful by faking it so I just never committed yet but now I feel very close to just finally fully submitting my self to our Lord and Savior and coming across these videos today was amazing and just one more sign pushing me towards him. thank you for these videos

  • @78northwest80
    @78northwest80 2 месяца назад +1

    Thanks!

  • @saintjosephterrorofdemonsp6132
    @saintjosephterrorofdemonsp6132 27 дней назад

    “Pray, hope, and don’t worry”
    Saint Padre Pio - Franciscan Capuchin Catholic Priest
    First Friday December 6, 2024
    Saint Nicholas, pray for us especially help us in doing good and avoiding evil!