I rescued an abandoned dog, but I could not keep the dog for a few reasons. My neighbor took the dog in. I later found out that the neighbor is a malignant narcissist, she took the dog because the dog is pure breed, pretty, healthy and quickly learns to be loving and loyal. The narcissist-neighbor said to me that she was going through divorce and had financial restrains (even though it turned out to be false, she earns more money than I do), so I helped her financially with the dog, spent 1500 dollars of my own money on the dog over the course of 7 months. I also helped her with caring for the dog, I was pet-sitting the dog for 7 months, without getting paid or compensated in any way. I would use my lunch breaks, during working days, to take care of the dog. I cooked beef or salmon for the dog, fed the dog, made sure the dog would use bathroom outside, trained the dog to behave, etc. I cared for the dog very much and wanted to make sure that it would settle happily in my neighbor's house. You can imagine that the dog became very fond of me, and I became very fond of the dog. But then my neighbor-malignant narcissist was arrested after she brutally attacked her husband. She was released from jail upon bond and got a restraining order for 30 days, so that I had to spend even more time caring for her dog. During that time, the neighbor asked me to do things that would require me to risk my life to clean up the mess she created in her life. I said I would not do that. I said I had to draw a boundary and not risk my life for the sake of her unreasonable requests. I reminded her that she was not a victim- as she was describing herself, but she was arrested because she was an abuser. After that, my neighbor-malignant narcissist conditioned her flying monkeys-enablers to bully me, and she completely cut-off my access to the dog. I cannot even say "good doggy" when I see the dog in the street. What is more, if I see the neighbor with the dog passing by in the street in the neighborhood and the dog shows its joy of seeing me, the neighbor-malignant narcissist physically hurts her own dog - to make the dog associate my presence with being physically punished by her owner. I do not care about having any interactions with the neighbor-narcissist, but the situation with the dog is really heart-breaking, and this is exactly what the neighbor-narcissist wants it to be for me, even if she has to hurt her own dog for this purpose.
@@ik1408maybe call animal protection and see what they say ?also pray for that dog. Pray that God would intervene in the situation and maybe that He would send someone better to convince her to let them take the dog in?
I've always known demonic spirit must be involved. The first sign that I found is that narcs behaviors are the same in traits everywhere you find them, regardless of race, culture or location. I think it's only a demonic force that could make such uniformity possible. Thank you, Minister Kris.
I started telling her" the Lord rebuke you, what satan meant for evil, God means for good, in Jesus name". She stopped arguing and I walked away. She shortly after that filed for divorce. Well, I'm glad she did.
Many christians make this experience with narcissistic women. You will be fine, we needed to learn discernment. She said she was a christian girl, deceived me and I believed her, turned out she is the opposite. „Beloved, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are of God […]“. - John 4;1
When you let them know that you know there's a demon they leave and never come back. That demon doesn't want the person getting delivered from the evil inside them.
@ericae6611 She argued about everything...except me calling out her demon. On that, she went strangely silent. No contact was suddenly super easy. With someone with schizophrenia, whose demon was relentlessly picking unfair fights, I pointed and said Jesus Be In You! and they immediately stopped, and apologised.
Kris you’re right about Demonic spirits behind narcissism. These Spirits know who is obedient to God and they use other people to afflict us to get us away from God. The biggest is fasting and praying 🙏
Funny thing is I feel my husband is being influenced by demons….he is a narcissist too. But he claims to be “chosen”….doesnt live like he knows a word in that Bible yet claims to have read it 10x! He’s mean…holds grudges…unsympathetic…judgemental…critical unfiltered mouth etc. But will sit there & laugh or make a remark when he hears me listening to a sermon or podcast about God. Cause he says I’m fake & im the evil one!!
It's been over a year since going zero contact. My peace has been as sweet as dripping honey.🍯 I never ever ever want to be trapped in another toxic insane life sucking vortex like that again. 😳 Thank you Jesus!
My husband, soon to be Ex is 100% possessed by Legions of Demons. He’s an alcoholic and the last five or so years I’ve noticed the darkness exponentially increasing in his persona. The more spirits he drinks, the further he gets from the man we all know and love. He has pushed everyone to their limits of tolerance and now no one wants anything to do with him. I’m sad to say even after the holidays, his parents are done as well. It breaks my heart to see unfold, but I have our four children and myself to protect and provide for. I would appreciate your prayers for strength and courage as I walk away. Thank you for your content Kris 🙏
Yes, last night he laughed at me at the supermarket cashier's in front of our son. I turned to explain. He's happy for me to pay. Otherwise he'd shout out, "NO MONEY" and embarrass all of us. Most definitely demonic !
OH YES!!!!!!!! I was just thinking…when I look at the eyes …they’re not there …it’s not them , it’s like a drunk in a black out, they never remember what they said or did …total denial
They are also weird too. Loud. Obnoxious. Need for the spotlight on them. Embarrassing to be around in public. Family members is always always always apologizing for them. I saw a narc man at a hotel when I worked there. He and his wife came in, he checked in and headed straight for the pool. Left their crying baby with the wife and their seven suitcases. The wife had to take everything up by herself because the husband wanted to relax.
@@specialtwice4975 "Loud. Obnoxious. Need for the spotlight on them. Embarrassing to be around in public." You're describing my ex-wife. She was able to hide her true self and I was gullible.
Kris, you're so right! Its sad that my husband may never understand he has demons influencing him. All i can do is pray that his eyes will be opened to the truth.
@@lynnie77712 I've been with my husband since he was 24. He's 68 now. There's been no chang except to fake being a Christian, a husband, father, brother, an employee, etc. Even after being diagnosed in December 2019 with terminal liver cancer, he still is very much the same narcissist to me mostly and our son. To everyone else he is the greatest. Whenever others tell me how kind, wonderful, etc he is I say nothing which shocks them. When we leave them, I tell him, "They don't know you." I snap him back to reality and the truth. He keeps intact his fake profile. That is what matters to him.
@@lynnie77712 I've known my spouse since he was 24. He's now 68. He was diagnosed with terminal liver cancer December 2019, 5 years ago. He still is the narcissist mostly with me and at times, with our son. With others he's kind, wonderful, etc. When I don't respond to their admiration, they are shocked. When we leave them, I snap him back into reality and the truth. I simply say to him, "They don't know you." He keeps his fake profile which is what matters most to him.
My mother is a Narcissist, she gives me a blank stare, blames me for breaking the family up, she lies, she plays the victim, she is controlling and a lot more.
My mother was that way FIR YEARS then one day I asked her why she hates me AND SHE OPENED UP. It was not what I expected but SHE REVEALED LOTS since then we became extremely close. She confide in me and was actually very proud & protective. Sometimes things happen that YOU DONT KNOW. IF you can I know you likely observe her mood and catch her in a good one. Does she go church or believe in GOD??? ....lmk if you need to TALK VENT ..❤
@@FineCHINA-i6qevidentemente tú madre NO ERA NARCISISTA ya que tenía capacidad de introspección. Digamos que sólo tenía algún trastorno menor de personalidad, pero ella tuvo buena voluntad y quiso corregirse
This is very familiar to me after years of being in contact with family narcissists! I have given up hoping things would change. The joy flooded back into my soul when I realized nothing I do will make it any better. Nothing works, it is impossible to have a rational discussion to clarify or help with understanding. Even our good deeds are mocked and rejected as though we were foolish for doing them. All gifts were ignored and even discarded without a word. I have been praying for them while keeping my distance.
My boyfriend moved my furniture to his parents home before I found another apartment. The next week we went there and my furniture had been thrown out and was in the dirt beside trees in their parking lot. He didn't tell me what his sister had done. It was a brand new set that cost a lot. It had tremendous value to me. I bought it special for my mom's visit in 1983. It was the only time a family member of mine has ever visited me.
@@habbaticchio2468 Yes, no contact with any of them. I got fed up with all the ridicule especially after buying a van for ministry in prisons and also so that my boyfriend could take his family to church every Sunday, lunch and long drives. I stayed at my church for meetings and cell groups. Whenever we met I was ignored. I thank God I dodged those people ! Thank you for your very encouraging reply!
Twice, I have seen his eyes go black- like a great white shark - during arguments and confrontation over betrayals. It is very real when someone opens up their lives to the demons thru sin. Lord have mercy.
I have been thinking this too. They dont want to hear our view on things and cant see anything but their own reality. I see this a lot in various comment sections. Unable to have a healthy discussion.
You are correct..I felt in my spirit don't react. It's what they want. And is so hard not to do. Sometimes you can react worse than they are. Best thing is get out!
Holy Cow! I have wondered about this for years! I see it in three people in my life for sure. "Fueling" their destruction for sure. My batc husband of 31 years left me while my mother lay dying. Only a demon could be so heartless. Not a penny since July. No concern for me at all. I am the mother of his son and served him for 31 years. He is a liar and has left a trail of destruction behind him. This video has given me more understanding than any other video you have done. I am so grateful to make some sense of my martial dysfunction. Amen to every word.
He sounds evil. I pray God delivers you from evil. God bless all of us who are affected by evil. Try to get away as soon as you can and ask God to deliver you from evil. God bless you. Stay safe
I'm so sorry. I'm going through this with my adult daughter as we speak. It's horrible. I've been so depressed and I'm isolating myself from all my friends and family. Let's pray for each other.
@@monalisa2662 Mona, Run from narcs. AS FAST as you can! I'd rather be poor, homeless & hungry than to be with one of them. Less than 1% get cured. They destroy everything in their way!!!
Since I nurtured my spiritual life I regularly find myself be guided out of my own misery. By the grace of god I had the most fruitful insights. There are for sure Demons seeking power over us and our family. Never give in their lies and surrender to god.
I think you are "onto something". My ex mother-in-law was a rather unintelligent woman, yet her intrusiveness, spying, and sabotage were brilliantly executed. After decades in which to reflect on my experience with her, I believe she must have had help from the "beyond physical". She always managed to be at exactly the right place at exactly the wrong time.
@@IntegrityMeansAll I was an interpreter for the deaf. Right when I was smiling sweetly at one of my appreciative deaf friends, my mother-in-law managed to stick her face right behind his shoulder and to smile "sweetly' at me... as though my smile were meant for her. It was unnerving. Later, she COMMENTED on how my expression had changed from being sweet to hostility.
I see a lot of comments saying Love them anyway. Yea you can. But from a distance with zero contact unless absolutely necessary. Showing them love only gives them more of your energy to take. Be careful and put yourself first! Always!
@@lisac4375 It's completely spiritual. Once they harden their heart, the enemy can use them. Doesn't matter if they went through trauma or not. It's a heart issue. Lots of people go through trauma and don't harden their heart. It's a choice.
@@ssummers9541 Yep. That's why we need to guard our hearts and ask our heavenly father to help us and put on his gospel armor to keep us safe especially from the poisonous arrows from the devil.
I prayed for my X husband for 13 years, he only got worse with lies,manipulation, cheating. Turn your Prayers to yourself 🙏because the trail of destruction they leave behind is devastating.
Jesus did say to pray for our enemies, which definitely includes them. Yes, pray for yourself, but also continue to pray for them. Often from a distance
@davidm4566 I prayed for my enemy for years unknowingly. I'm now prayed up for myself and those who actually want what is from God but thanks for your opinion/ input
This teaching is so helpful. Every word is to a T of a narcissist person in our family. It is demonic nothing else behind it. Always division , strife , jealousy, manipulation wherever the person is at. Thank you for the prayers to pray for them. ❤ ✝️ ❤
@wendybutler2560 in my opinion, if you're willing to admit it, you're able to work on changing! There's a couple of really good books that could help you. Living from the Heart Jesus gave You and Outsmarting Yourself There's more from these authors, but these are a great place to start!
Same here.When I feel that anger and hatred towards my narcissistic wife who refuses any accountability whatsoever and is the best liar in the world, I remind myself that hating her is poison and only hurts me and the things I love. So I stop myself and pray for her to be strong and brave because I know all of her narcissism is rooted in fear- shear terror she experienced as a young girl. Deep deep down I know she’s a beautiful loving kind little girl just waiting to be brave and GROW UP. I pray someday she does.
Praying for you, I've been down that road, the narcissist in my life had me convinced I was the problem, truthfully, I am a problem, but not in the same way as a narcissist. now I choose to walk with Jesus, and not pursue a relationship in this world. Good luck!
When I went through that stage, the Lord convicted me of not wanting to stop being a victim. He led me out of that and now I live in victory. At least you can see yourself and admit it...which is a good sign. Demons want you to ruminate.
We have to stop expecting non believers to behave how believers would. Treat them with love and respect, and pray for them. But in the meantime learn how to have proper boundaries for yourself. That is key. Our over giving can 💯 be enabling and if we truly love them we need to stop trying to get between them and God. Their eternal soul depends on those who love them not enabling their toxic behavior. Because us over giving is equally toxic. Especially when we aren't giving with joy. When we start playing the victim in our own mind telling ourselves they are using us. The reality is they can only do what we allow.
Well said, especially "we need to stop trying to get between them and God". We can stand in the gap by praying for them while staying out of God's way. Their poison rubs off on us if we spend too much time with them trying to connect.
I fasted and prayed for years, even before I knew she was full blown narcissist and I felt the darkness she carried and spread through out our lives and family. 99.9999% never ever change
I've had to let go of my 80 y.o. sister. She was damaged by our parents. Our mother was damaged by her father. Yes, generational curses. I'm not allowing my sister to vent the poison on me. There are others I've had to let go of. This has been such a hard decade, God knows and freed me through His Son's precious blood. I'm free, praise Abba!
I am so glad I subscribed to your channel. I seriously thought I was going crazy. My daughter is breaking me down so badly I don't even want to wake up in the morning. It's literally killing me.
@estheralarcon1533 I understand more than you know, Friend. It's horrible when one gives birth to one's narcissist, as I did. Don't allow her to take you out! Let's keep each other in prayer!❤️
I was trained to please people by my narc mother and ended up in complete bondage to the fear of man. Anything that happened I got blamed for it. When I became an adult I carried that same mindset and everything wrong was my fault because I was well trained to believe I was as rotten and bad as a human can get. I struggled with self loathing and had no self esteem or self worth. My life was hell on earth. By the grace of God I am finding some healing but I never suspected the damage done to me at the hands of my narc mother was so complete and extensive. But I refuse to let the forces of darkness win, so I continue to put one foot in front of the other and move forward.
This message is so excellent. So many good points. This is a fierce spiritual battle and we must take it seriously and constantly prepare and be aware. Wisdom and humility along with faith prayer and fasting are strong weapons against the enemy and his ploys.
Thank you Kris. You just described my husband to a tee. His favourite saying he uses when passing judgement on others and eluding to scripture to justify it is, 'not my words, it's what scripture says.' Trouble is, he either can't produce the verses or he twists the meaning of the ones he does. Whenever he is challenged by someone, he eventually 'cuts them off' and has nothing to do with them again. He has no friends, and he lives like a hermit. 35 years of this and my eyes have finally been opened to the lies and manipulation. I am tired and lonely and I have chosen to seperate, which isn't a simple task. May God's will be done. Blessings to you Sister.
You can pray that they will wake up but don’t wait around to see if it happens. I think hoping they will change is dangerous. They won’t! Move on! Wish them well and move on.
Thank you! I can feel so alone in these holidays. I just figured him out. I'm so tired of everything, he wears me out. I will try your solutions. He has been in my prayers and God has shown me these traits. I will keep praying...
My husband has always had the ability to remember fights we had years before. We would be driving down a road and he would say "the last time we drove down this road we had a huge fight about x,y and z and you said blah blah blah." I could never understand how he remembered this stuff... Now I get it!
So we defintely should pray for those with the demon of narcisissm. Only God can set those people free. Thank you for this! I've never really prayed for them. I'll start today!
You can't pray for or fix a devil. Would you pray for Satan?? They'll never change. No one is possessing them or making them evil. They just are evil. Get away and stay away if you can and never look back. Pray for yourself that God will deliver you from evil.
@@rebekahford8199 Pray for your own protection but also ask for protection of the person in question, from Archangel Michael of the Light!!! Ask for God's Love and Comfort to fill their heart and their empty spaces, so they will have enough "reason" to resist the urge to indulge to satan's promises and ways. Indulging to his ways is caused by anger, anger is caused by fear&pain. So pray for God to help THAT parts of your person in question. That is about what I do.
@UnityLove-tj3qg wrong, we are supposed to pray for our enemies as well as our loved ones. as far as Satan goes he's a fallen angel above our paygrade, but fellow humans are to be saved ♥️
My suggestions: Emotionally Detach from them. Distance yourself from them. Divorce them. Zero contact. One is not obligated to stay in a toxic relationship with a wicked person. You cannot fix them. I was married for 13 yrs to someone that turned out to be a vile, unfaithful, abusive, lying, conniving, deceitful narcissist. After divorcing her I felt like I'd been raped. Spiritually raped.
@@stripedassape8148 your peace is more important, while it’s okay to do it, it will become mentally exhausting on you and your peace of mind is more important to help other people that actually want to be helped. I’ve dealt with too much of this and finally decided for my own peace of mind, I’ve released them(family members) I have more peace now for others. It will mentally drive you down, that’s being realistic.
Cold & distant, oh how I know this well. Just the lack of love was a sign to me. Narc stepmom fits your description well. She is blocked and her heart is hard & black. She is selfishness personified!
Thank you for being here, for your experience and video. Im so glad youre here. Ive experienec it as a child and and adult. Im 74 now and looking back. Bless you for helping people.
This is all true, Kris. Thank you for the light you're shining on this subject for us all. Praying for healing for all of us who have suffered in the hands of this abuse.
Narcissists are angry empty people due to their past trauma and neglect. This long standing unresolved anger is the perfect foothold for the devil to latch onto a person. It is all too common in the world, in fact it is and always has been rampant.
I have been dealing with a very difficult situation with my husband’s unsaved mother and family. I have been experiencing physical pain and sickness to a point where my blood pressure has risen and I experienced a stroke in my right eye when my mother in-law last visited. I have been experiencing physical sickness for the past 5 years when she visits. I don’t know what to make of it. I am a Christian and I know that there is no power that is more powerful than our Heavenly Father and Jesus. I am so sure that my mother in-law has opened the door to demonic spirits in her life. She is an a nicotine and gambling addict who loves money and is very jealous of my relationship with my husband. I don’t have a perfect marriage because my husband also has a very stubborn side to him. Please pray for me to be healed in my body,mind and soul in Jesus mighty name by the power of the Holy Spirit Amen 🙏
This was a huge confirmation for me in my battle over my daughter against a narcissist. Fast & Pray - i had been praying instead of supper and need to get back to it.
I am going through the same thing. I understand. I'm suffering from their "flying monkeys" also. I am always so angry ! My blood pressure has physically increased to where it is too high.
Praying for a narcissist is such a waste of time. They DO NOT change or repent. The truth is not in them. They don’t heal, there are some people that cannot be saved.
I agree! Did anyone see ONE true narc change through prayer??? For real?? .... I am done. No more prayers for him. 20y of lies and hell and two traumatized teenagers are enough. He is heartless and sees only himself. I will leave him as fast as i can.
@@solideogloria007 I understand how you feel, but I have to maintain faith, otherwise I am saying that this person being delivered is too hard for God, therefore I am saying that God is a “liar” when he says there is nothing impossible to him. His timing doesn’t match ours. You can keep your distance, but I would suggest pray until you see a breakthrough.
@@CP-xb1du I lived with mine for 18 years and still had to deal with her for another 29 years because somehow she got ahold of my apartment key and would barge in my apartment without even calling first unexpectedly digging through my belongings... She had no right.. and I put a halt to that real quick when I had to threaten to go to Legal services to put a stop to her breaking laws that she was not supposed to be breaking.. threatening to put them in jail also put them in their place where they leave you alone also.
This heavy weight of unending bitterness is a constant trait i experienced, even when she is lying about it and failing to hide it. One time when she was in seriously painful rage, I asked her, what if there is an alternative emotion that you could give your attention right now, she said there is nothing like alternative "I have the right to be angry". And I went silent and starred at her in dismay. Very dangerous pollutant.
This is spot on! I can attest that these are the tools to win. I can also attest that you cannot pray once or twice and expect everything to change over night. The Bible says that "men should pray without ceasing." That doesn't mean to pray 24/7. It means to pray everyday until you get an answer or healing. Living with a narcissist is like living as Daniel in the lion's den. If I know Daniel he was praying at least 3 times a day. So should you. You will notice a big change but they may lash out and pick fights if you neglect your prayer windows. 9am, 12pm, & 3pm.
@@helenhighwater5313 It's no coincidence that Jesus was hung on the cross at 9am (the morning sacrifice hour), the sky went dark at 12 pm, and He died at 3pm, (the evening sacrifice hour). God's timeline has a purpose for everything and it never changes.
Can't stop shaking my head as you describe perfectly, my dear friend Evelyn especially how she justify her anger and deny holding grudges. Right now, I feel very emotional but deeply sorry for the poor, arrogant orphan knowing how she is deeply trapped in what I used to think it's all about learned helplessness and PTSD, and emotional disregulation. Thanks for these enlightening insights Kristi. L❤❤ Donald from Nigeria.
Great Video Kris........so true sometimes it is the enemy......Ephesians 6:12 For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this world's darkness, and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms. Great Advice! God Bless you my Friend!!
Holding onto bitterness & resentment is HUGE 🏹 (regarding his family), goes back abt 50 years. The last 18 yrs now include me. This is most clearly demonic. I covet prayer. There's a beginning plan in place, yet I need clarity 🙏
She put that in where people ought be upset. What she's saying is forgive the corrupt and pray justice never happens. If you have a problem with e v i l she's saying you're the trouble
@@StalkedHuman then she's delusional,, because light always wins over darkness,, our father is going to win no matter if she likes it or not.. just saying. Tell her to go read 2nd Kings chapter 9
Both my parents were only children. And they were both Narcissistic. The criticism was BEYOND BELIEF !!! I think I have sent my comment before. I am forever doomed. I have just accepted it. At my age it's to late.. Thank you...👍🇺🇸🐕
God does not soften an unwilling heart. He hardens it more. That is biblical. He gives the new heart of flesh to the believer, the ones who call on Him.
@@graftme3168 I spent 2 years praying for him but he chose evil, finally (thank God) he left me and he also brag for being evil and coherent in his choice to follow evil 😅
and yet the religious narc gave a rebutal of their side in a bible sermon directed at us. Even said the words get behind me satan too. They re the ones that are demonic acting like wolves in sheeps clothing.
Put on the Armor of God!! Thank you for your work Kris!! As a self aware, diagnosed narcissist, ive came to finally accept this aspect of the demonic narcissist, im going to be exploring this more on my channel.
Our 5th daughter is the personification of this evil and defensiveness. She's undependable, and never able to apologize for the mayhem she causes. Her kids are clinging to their dad, and see for themselves what their mom is doing.
Thank you and God bless you! I heard the rest of this video. I do get tired ; however, your video will keep me going to keep praying 🙏 for my daughter and the spiritual warfare that is in my son in laws home. I do need to move out. While I am here, I will keep going. God always wins.
My ex made us homeless by me giving him my paycheck to pay bills and he used all of it to support his girlfriend. It has always been treated like my fault because he told everyone I refused to work even though I was working 90 hours a week and he stayed home and everyone knew it. After our divorce I had to move far away from that area because everyone had it in their heads I was a spoiled woman who refused to work even though I worked at four different restaurants. Edit: He had people so convinced there were people who went to court saying he needed to get custody because I refused to work. The judge ended up asking people if I worked before he would even let them speak and if they said I didn't he excused them right away. I got full custody with him not even getting visitation.
Thank you! How you articulate and convey your points combined with the sound of your voice is one of the best I have ever heard. I'm having a real challenge in this area, specifically, and I needed this. Happy New Year and God bless you!
I am sensitive to energy around me and what I can say, I have met two narcissists-men that confirm the above said. They were in different places, time (10 years spart exactly), age and so on, but both had issues with gradiosity, alcohol and were throwing themselves on every woman around them, they needed to sexually control them. BUT they were not similar in energy, they were IDENTICAL! I couldn't get it, because each person is unique. Like they were both captured in some common evil incubus spider web. It was scary.
I bind that spirit of confusion in agreement with you standing on Mat. 18:19 and I loose peace and direction and victory in the mighty powerful name of JESUS ‼️🙏🙏🙏
Interesting topic.I am glad to see it.Ut has become a fashion to show understanding for every form of evil and it has become a taboo to call it evil or even to have a concept and addressing the fact that there are evil people or forces. I am tired of other channels asking for understanding for wicked people under the label of a personality disorder I don't care if someone has a personality disorder as an excuse..I just do not want them in my life.
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I think narcissists open portals for demonic oppression/possession. In the case of my narcissist, she indulged in astrology, fortune, telling, alcohol and drugs and reading, violent and pornographic novels. Narcissists open the door to demonic forces, and so they must repent, cry out for salvation and Stay rooted in God’s word and prayer. I do believe our prayers can help them come to repentance, but they must work out their salvation with fear and trembling to ever visit those sins again.
I was married from 1982 to 2001 to the most abusive man i have ever known, back then i read every book on domestic abuse i could find, but nothing matched his behavior.anyway fast forward to like 5 years ago i read its demonic all those years i was trying to please a demon, and im a born again Christian and i had no idea.i spent alot of years of my life being put down, made fun if , hit and pushed, till i had nothing left.when i filed for divorce he says to me,i thought you said you would never leave me.but it did not stop there , it took 10 years to get my settlement,he claimed bankruptcy so i got less money on and on, if i was a writer i could write a book .demons come in all forms.
Yes, my wife and she's in jail now for assaulting me a few weeks ago while I was sleeping then strangled me, I almost died. She called the cops herself, lied that it was me, I was choking on my own blood, beaten, scratched up and then she fought with the cop, got pepper sprayed then tased. In the last few weeks, I've received several letters and a few phone calls of her wanting me to apologize & go to counseling. Now connecting the dots, it's been her being a narcissist. She's been verbally, psychology and somewhat physically abusive but this time was the worst yet. We've been married 8 yrs now, together for 10 and almost from day 1 it's been chaotic. And now in the last few months, I kinda thought that a demon was attatched to her. Now it makes even more sense.
The only thing dealing with spirits that if you pray out one the the Bible states the 7 will return worst then the first . So praying it out of the narcissist is good but they must turn to the holy spirit or they will be worst soon after.. Also Jezebel and a narcissist are basically one in the same… Yes i’ve felt trapped confused and exhausted completely
Oh my goodness, you have opened up my eyes and solve the confusion in side my mind and the whole situation 😢 I am very tired of this nonsense in my marriage
I am thankful for this podcast. Even as a minister I have seen people under and over spiritualizing things. Beautifully balanced and informative. I can only think how many marriages and relationships could have been saved if people would only grasp this teaching. One cannot reform a demonic spirt and flesh must be crucified and brought into submission to the Spirit of God and truth. Many do not understand the distinction. Thank you for this beautiful word and I believe it will help and set many free. Blessings!
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I rescued an abandoned dog, but I could not keep the dog for a few reasons. My neighbor took the dog in. I later found out that the neighbor is a malignant narcissist, she took the dog because the dog is pure breed, pretty, healthy and quickly learns to be loving and loyal. The narcissist-neighbor said to me that she was going through divorce and had financial restrains (even though it turned out to be false, she earns more money than I do), so I helped her financially with the dog, spent 1500 dollars of my own money on the dog over the course of 7 months. I also helped her with caring for the dog, I was pet-sitting the dog for 7 months, without getting paid or compensated in any way. I would use my lunch breaks, during working days, to take care of the dog. I cooked beef or salmon for the dog, fed the dog, made sure the dog would use bathroom outside, trained the dog to behave, etc. I cared for the dog very much and wanted to make sure that it would settle happily in my neighbor's house. You can imagine that the dog became very fond of me, and I became very fond of the dog.
But then my neighbor-malignant narcissist was arrested after she brutally attacked her husband. She was released from jail upon bond and got a restraining order for 30 days, so that I had to spend even more time caring for her dog. During that time, the neighbor asked me to do things that would require me to risk my life to clean up the mess she created in her life. I said I would not do that. I said I had to draw a boundary and not risk my life for the sake of her unreasonable requests. I reminded her that she was not a victim- as she was describing herself, but she was arrested because she was an abuser.
After that, my neighbor-malignant narcissist conditioned her flying monkeys-enablers to bully me, and she completely cut-off my access to the dog. I cannot even say "good doggy" when I see the dog in the street.
What is more, if I see the neighbor with the dog passing by in the street in the neighborhood and the dog shows its joy of seeing me, the neighbor-malignant narcissist physically hurts her own dog - to make the dog associate my presence with being physically punished by her owner.
I do not care about having any interactions with the neighbor-narcissist, but the situation with the dog is really heart-breaking, and this is exactly what the neighbor-narcissist wants it to be for me, even if she has to hurt her own dog for this purpose.
What should I do?
@@ik1408maybe call animal protection and see what they say
?also pray for that dog. Pray that God would intervene in the situation and maybe that He would send someone better to convince her to let them take the dog in?
@@ik1408 pray pray pray
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I've always known demonic spirit must be involved. The first sign that I found is that narcs behaviors are the same in traits everywhere you find them, regardless of race, culture or location. I think it's only a demonic force that could make such uniformity possible. Thank you, Minister Kris.
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devil not demon
@@janpierzchala2004if you read up on demons you’ll find the similarities are endless
The word "demonic" works for me. Satan may not have time to sabotage each person personally. His accomplices take part in Satan's work.
@@janpierzchala2004 What is the difference between the two?
I started telling her" the Lord rebuke you, what satan meant for evil, God means for good, in Jesus name". She stopped arguing and I walked away. She shortly after that filed for divorce. Well, I'm glad she did.
Many christians make this experience with narcissistic women. You will be fine, we needed to learn discernment.
She said she was a christian girl, deceived me and I believed her, turned out she is the opposite.
„Beloved, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are of God […]“. - John 4;1
🙏🙏🙏
When you let them know that you know there's a demon they leave and never come back. That demon doesn't want the person getting delivered from the evil inside them.
@ericae6611 She argued about everything...except me calling out her demon. On that, she went strangely silent. No contact was suddenly super easy.
With someone with schizophrenia, whose demon was relentlessly picking unfair fights, I pointed and said Jesus Be In You! and they immediately stopped, and apologised.
@@danieldrake7090 I wonder if it's possible to save them from themselves?
Kris you’re right about Demonic spirits behind narcissism. These Spirits know who is obedient to God and they use other people to afflict us to get us away from God. The biggest is fasting and praying 🙏
Nice to read that they are serious leverages for narcs!
Funny thing is I feel my husband is being influenced by demons….he is a narcissist too. But he claims to be “chosen”….doesnt live like he knows a word in that Bible yet claims to have read it 10x! He’s mean…holds grudges…unsympathetic…judgemental…critical unfiltered mouth etc. But will sit there & laugh or make a remark when he hears me listening to a sermon or podcast about God. Cause he says I’m fake & im the evil one!!
Fasting and prayer is honestly the key
It's been over a year since going zero contact. My peace has been as sweet as dripping honey.🍯 I never ever ever want to be trapped in another toxic insane life sucking vortex like that again. 😳 Thank you Jesus!
"going zero contact"
That's the best tactic for dealing with toxic family members.
Amen brother! Let’s praise the Lord.
well said❤
Amen ❤
Lesson learned ! 😅 Knowing that we cannot survive without Jesus name in this world is a lesson many of us had to go through 😂
My husband, soon to be Ex is 100% possessed by Legions of Demons. He’s an alcoholic and the last five or so years I’ve noticed the darkness exponentially increasing in his persona. The more spirits he drinks, the further he gets from the man we all know and love. He has pushed everyone to their limits of tolerance and now no one wants anything to do with him. I’m sad to say even after the holidays, his parents are done as well. It breaks my heart to see unfold, but I have our four children and myself to protect and provide for. I would appreciate your prayers for strength and courage as I walk away. Thank you for your content Kris 🙏
@@KellyJoHill I'll pray for you, but also for him 🙏🏻
Il pray for u I left an alkie years ago the best thing I pray that God delivers him from this
He has to go through this. And he has to go through it alone. Proud of you for walking away! Stay safe! 🫶🏼✨
Fathers Chad Rippberger, Vincent Lampert, and Carlos Martins are awesome exorcists. Something to keep in mind.
THE LIGHT ALWAYS WIN
@cocococo-st7ne AND WILL!!! 💎💎💎💎
is always said this to my narcissistic ex gf before even knowing what she was...
“be wise as serpents and innocent as doves”
- Matt. 10:16 🔥
Yes, last night he laughed at me at the supermarket cashier's in front of our son. I turned to explain. He's happy for me to pay. Otherwise he'd shout out, "NO MONEY" and embarrass all of us. Most definitely demonic !
Wisdom is having enough sense to know demons aren’t real…LoL
@@supraxlr808 tell that to people with voices promoting anorexia, murder or suicide. Don't be naive
One of my favorite scriptures
HOW EXACTLY TO DO THIS?????? Could people explain what they mean, please????
Amen! This is a spiritual battle.
"We wrestle not against flesh and blood....."
OH YES!!!!!!!! I was just thinking…when I look at the eyes …they’re not there …it’s not them , it’s like a drunk in a black out, they never remember what they said or did …total denial
They are also weird too. Loud. Obnoxious. Need for the spotlight on them.
Embarrassing to be around in public. Family members is always always always apologizing for them.
I saw a narc man at a hotel when I worked there. He and his wife came in, he checked in and headed straight for the pool.
Left their crying baby with the wife and their seven suitcases.
The wife had to take everything up by herself because the husband wanted to relax.
@@specialtwice4975 "Loud. Obnoxious. Need for the spotlight on them.
Embarrassing to be around in public."
You're describing my ex-wife. She was able to hide her true self and I was gullible.
Agreed, experienced many times, so sad. Definitely possession.
Spot on. My narc's eyes would literally glaze over as the rage bubbled forth.
@@specialtwice4975 oh dear me..poor lady
Kris, you're so right!
Its sad that my husband may never understand he has demons influencing him. All i can do is pray that his eyes will be opened to the truth.
@@lynnie77712 I've been with my husband since he was 24. He's 68 now. There's been no chang except to fake being a Christian, a husband, father, brother, an employee, etc. Even after being diagnosed in December 2019 with terminal liver cancer, he still is very much the same narcissist to me mostly and our son. To everyone else he is the greatest. Whenever others tell me how kind, wonderful, etc he is I say nothing which shocks them. When we leave them, I tell him, "They don't know you." I snap him back to reality and the truth. He keeps intact his fake profile. That is what matters to him.
@@lynnie77712 I've known my spouse since he was 24. He's now 68. He was diagnosed with terminal liver cancer December 2019, 5 years ago. He still is the narcissist mostly with me and at times, with our son. With others he's kind, wonderful, etc. When I don't respond to their admiration, they are shocked. When we leave them, I snap him back into reality and the truth. I simply say to him, "They don't know you." He keeps his fake profile which is what matters most to him.
Same here!
Same 🙏🏻
Same here.
My mother is a Narcissist, she gives me a blank stare, blames me for breaking the family up, she lies, she plays the victim, she is controlling and a lot more.
My mother was that way FIR YEARS then one day I asked her why she hates me AND SHE OPENED UP. It was not what I expected but SHE REVEALED LOTS since then we became extremely close. She confide in me and was actually very proud & protective. Sometimes things happen that YOU DONT KNOW. IF you can I know you likely observe her mood and catch her in a good one. Does she go church or believe in GOD??? ....lmk if you need to TALK VENT
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@FineCHINA-i6q I really like that, that certain traits can appear as narcissism, but can be addressed and even potentially healed.
I understand , I've seen it . I feel so sorry for the kids of a narcissist.
@@FineCHINA-i6qevidentemente tú madre NO ERA NARCISISTA ya que tenía capacidad de introspección. Digamos que sólo tenía algún trastorno menor de personalidad, pero ella tuvo buena voluntad y quiso corregirse
How old were you when you understood something was odd with her, and did you have your father present?
This is very familiar to me after years of being in contact with family narcissists! I have given up hoping things would change. The joy flooded back into my soul when I realized nothing I do will make it any better. Nothing works, it is impossible to have a rational discussion to clarify or help with understanding. Even our good deeds are mocked and rejected as though we were foolish for doing them. All gifts were ignored and even discarded without a word. I have been praying for them while keeping my distance.
My boyfriend moved my furniture to his parents home before I found another apartment. The next week we went there and my furniture had been thrown out and was in the dirt beside trees in their parking lot. He didn't tell me what his sister had done. It was a brand new set that cost a lot. It had tremendous value to me. I bought it special for my mom's visit in 1983. It was the only time a family member of mine has ever visited me.
Hi You are right. Be encouraged. I am currently in the same situation and realization. I'm keeping my distance but praying for them fervently.
@@楊宜強wow that is awful. These people have to be avoided at all costs!
@@justebisme5 Pray for them as the Spirit leads you. Don't let them live rent-free in your head.
@@habbaticchio2468 Yes, no contact with any of them. I got fed up with all the ridicule especially after buying a van for ministry in prisons and also so that my boyfriend could take his family to church every Sunday, lunch and long drives. I stayed at my church for meetings and cell groups. Whenever we met I was ignored. I thank God I dodged those people ! Thank you for your very encouraging reply!
One of the best video EVER ON NARC !!
Twice, I have seen his eyes go black- like a great white shark - during arguments and confrontation over betrayals.
It is very real when someone opens up their lives to the demons thru sin. Lord have mercy.
I've witnessed the black Eyes 👀 No unseeing that evil EVER. May 13 2023
I recall sitting at the dining table with my exes daughter.
The cold stare from her truly frightened me.
God have mercy.
Christ have mercy.
God have mercy.
It's the pupils of the eyes dilating like the eyes of a predator zeroing in on the kill.
I HAVE SEEN THAT DEMONIC LOOK! I left and never have looked back!
I have been thinking this too. They dont want to hear our view on things and cant see anything but their own reality. I see this a lot in various comment sections. Unable to have a healthy discussion.
it is not always. my former narcissist friend did not need help from a demon.
@@uncleruckusnorelation6705are you sure about that? And yes, few things in life is 100% one way or the other.
I will calmly say let’s have an adult conversation and be minimized, criticized and pulverized into guilt tripping that I’m not an adult. 😝
@@aciddiver1978 because they are delusional. They live in their own world and do not care about what anybody else says.
No hope sadly
God knows.....so comforting. Keep praying and telling Him your fears, pain, sorrow... He sees and does not forget.
It’s so true!! Put on the Armor of God!! Thank you for your work Kris!!
It’s so important to NOT react to the narcs. Easier said than done, but you must NOT react. Leave! Get away from them as quickly as possible!
Yes! I am learning that art painfully. Sick demons
You are correct..I felt in my spirit don't react. It's what they want. And is so hard not to do. Sometimes you can react worse than they are. Best thing is get out!
But what about when they follow you?
Kris: "demanding forgiveness without repentance"
This video stirs up memories.
Holy Cow! I have wondered about this for years! I see it in three people in my life for sure. "Fueling" their destruction for sure. My batc husband of 31 years left me while my mother lay dying. Only a demon could be so heartless. Not a penny since July. No concern for me at all. I am the mother of his son and served him for 31 years. He is a liar and has left a trail of destruction behind him. This video has given me more understanding than any other video you have done. I am so grateful to make some sense of my martial dysfunction.
Amen to every word.
Praying for you Mona Lisa.. 🙏
He sounds evil. I pray God delivers you from evil. God bless all of us who are affected by evil. Try to get away as soon as you can and ask God to deliver you from evil. God bless you. Stay safe
I'm so sorry. I'm going through this with my adult daughter as we speak. It's horrible. I've been so depressed and I'm isolating myself from all my friends and family. Let's pray for each other.
@@estheralarcon1533praying for you. Don't withdraw. Just pray and seek GOD'S direction...❤
@@monalisa2662 Mona, Run from narcs. AS FAST as you can! I'd rather be poor, homeless & hungry than to be with one of them. Less than 1% get cured. They destroy everything in their way!!!
Since I nurtured my spiritual life I regularly find myself be guided out of my own misery. By the grace of god I had the most fruitful insights. There are for sure Demons seeking power over us and our family. Never give in their lies and surrender to god.
Well said brother.
Kriss, I think you are correct about this. I have personally experienced this, and it really is disturbing and frightening. Thanks.
Agree, it is frightening because they are dangerous.
I think you are "onto something". My ex mother-in-law was a rather unintelligent woman, yet her intrusiveness, spying, and sabotage were brilliantly executed. After decades in which to reflect on my experience with her, I believe she must have had help from the "beyond physical". She always managed to be at exactly the right place at exactly the wrong time.
Can you give examples?🙏
Same here.
@@IntegrityMeansAll I was an interpreter for the deaf. Right when I was smiling sweetly at one of my appreciative deaf friends, my mother-in-law managed to stick her face right behind his shoulder and to smile "sweetly' at me... as though my smile were meant for her. It was unnerving. Later, she COMMENTED on how my expression had changed from being sweet to hostility.
I see a lot of comments saying Love them anyway. Yea you can. But from a distance with zero contact unless absolutely necessary. Showing them love only gives them more of your energy to take. Be careful and put yourself first! Always!
That's a very interesting point. I never thought of narcissism as a spiritual problem.
Absolutely!
@@carolyn4423 I think it 100% is
@@lisac4375 It's completely spiritual. Once they harden their heart, the enemy can use them. Doesn't matter if they went through trauma or not. It's a heart issue. Lots of people go through trauma and don't harden their heart. It's a choice.
@@ssummers9541 Yep. That's why we need to guard our hearts and ask our heavenly father to help us and put on his gospel armor to keep us safe especially from the poisonous arrows from the devil.
@@tamc9550 Amen! Pray "on" the armour every single morning and remain in close connection with the Lord at all times.
The more the narc feels like a victim, the more justified they feel in their toxic and damaging ways.
I prayed for my X husband for 13 years, he only got worse with lies,manipulation, cheating. Turn your Prayers to yourself 🙏because the trail of destruction they leave behind is devastating.
Same here.... 20y and two traumatized teenagers. He is cold and heartless like a stone. Sees only himself. I am done and out as fast i can.
@solideogloria007 be safe and stay prayed up for yourself and your children
Agree!
Jesus did say to pray for our enemies, which definitely includes them.
Yes, pray for yourself, but also continue to pray for them. Often from a distance
@davidm4566 I prayed for my enemy for years unknowingly. I'm now prayed up for myself and those who actually want what is from God but thanks for your opinion/ input
This teaching is so helpful. Every word is to a T of a narcissist person in our family. It is demonic nothing else behind it. Always division , strife , jealousy, manipulation wherever
the person is at. Thank you for the prayers to pray for them. ❤ ✝️ ❤
Now I'm thinking I'm the narcissistic. I can't let go of the hurt and find myself dwelling on it still and getting mad about what happened to me. 😢😢😢
@wendybutler2560 in my opinion, if you're willing to admit it, you're able to work on changing!
There's a couple of really good books that could help you.
Living from the Heart Jesus gave You
and
Outsmarting Yourself
There's more from these authors, but these are a great place to start!
Same here.When I feel that anger and hatred towards my narcissistic wife who refuses any accountability whatsoever and is the best liar in the world, I remind myself that hating her is poison and only hurts me and the things I love. So I stop myself and pray for her to be strong and brave because I know all of her narcissism is rooted in fear- shear terror she experienced as a young girl. Deep deep down I know she’s a beautiful loving kind little girl just waiting to be brave and GROW UP. I pray someday she does.
Maybe it's that you need closure.
Praying for you, I've been down that road, the narcissist in my life had me convinced I was the problem, truthfully, I am a problem, but not in the same way as a narcissist. now I choose to walk with Jesus, and not pursue a relationship in this world. Good luck!
When I went through that stage, the Lord convicted me of not wanting to stop being a victim. He led me out of that and now I live in victory. At least you can see yourself and admit it...which is a good sign.
Demons want you to ruminate.
We have to stop expecting non believers to behave how believers would. Treat them with love and respect, and pray for them. But in the meantime learn how to have proper boundaries for yourself. That is key. Our over giving can 💯 be enabling and if we truly love them we need to stop trying to get between them and God. Their eternal soul depends on those who love them not enabling their toxic behavior. Because us over giving is equally toxic. Especially when we aren't giving with joy. When we start playing the victim in our own mind telling ourselves they are using us. The reality is they can only do what we allow.
Well said, especially "we need to stop trying to get between them and God". We can stand in the gap by praying for them while staying out of God's way. Their poison rubs off on us if we spend too much time with them trying to connect.
I fasted and prayed for years, even before I knew she was full blown narcissist and I felt the darkness she carried and spread through out our lives and family. 99.9999% never ever change
I've had to let go of my 80 y.o. sister. She was damaged by our parents. Our mother was damaged by her father. Yes, generational curses. I'm not allowing my sister to vent the poison on me. There are others I've had to let go of. This has been such a hard decade, God knows and freed me through His Son's precious blood. I'm free, praise Abba!
Your counsel when dealing with narcissistics is far superior than what I have received from listening to others. God Bless you and thank you so much.
I am so glad I subscribed to your channel. I seriously thought I was going crazy. My daughter is breaking me down so badly I don't even want to wake up in the morning. It's literally killing me.
@estheralarcon1533
I understand more than you know, Friend. It's horrible when one gives birth to one's narcissist, as I did. Don't allow her to take you out! Let's keep each other in prayer!❤️
Yes, both my daughters are exactly like this. I live in emotional pain every day.
@@SonjaElizabethTeal I will definitely pray for you. It's heartbreaking.
@@LoriFuentes-mn5qc I definitely feel your pain my friend. This video is absolutely amazing. I learned so much.
My life coach told me it's up to me to SAY ENOUGH IS ENOUGH AND THAT'S WHAT I AM GOING TO DO!!!
I was trained to please people by my narc mother and ended up in complete bondage to the fear of man. Anything that happened I got blamed for it. When I became an adult I carried that same mindset and everything wrong was my fault because I was well trained to believe I was as rotten and bad as a human can get. I struggled with self loathing and had no self esteem or self worth. My life was hell on earth. By the grace of God I am finding some healing but I never suspected the damage done to me at the hands of my narc mother was so complete and extensive. But I refuse to let the forces of darkness win, so I continue to put one foot in front of the other and move forward.
We dont fight against flesh and blood!
Amen 🙏🏼
Excellent explanation of the evil attack. ❤ 😂. I always apologized, even when it was not my fault.
I do that, too!!! 😢
@cynthiacarson685 Now, do not hurt yourself. Until they realize their error.
This message is so excellent. So many good points. This is a fierce spiritual battle and we must take it seriously and constantly prepare and be aware. Wisdom and humility along with faith prayer and fasting are strong weapons against the enemy and his ploys.
Oh the emptiness in their eyes when theyre manipulating you. It scared me when I look back and think about what they must have gone through.
Thank you Kris. You just described my husband to a tee. His favourite saying he uses when passing judgement on others and eluding to scripture to justify it is, 'not my words, it's what scripture says.' Trouble is, he either can't produce the verses or he twists the meaning of the ones he does. Whenever he is challenged by someone, he eventually 'cuts them off' and has nothing to do with them again. He has no friends, and he lives like a hermit. 35 years of this and my eyes have finally been opened to the lies and manipulation. I am tired and lonely and I have chosen to seperate, which isn't a simple task. May God's will be done. Blessings to you Sister.
"Whenever he is challenged by someone, he eventually 'cuts them off' and has nothing to do with them again."
I'm there too, almost 30 years. 😢
You can pray that they will wake up but don’t wait around to see if it happens. I think hoping they will change is dangerous. They won’t! Move on! Wish them well and move on.
Thank you! I can feel so alone in these holidays. I just figured him out. I'm so tired of everything, he wears me out. I will try your solutions. He has been in my prayers and God has shown me these traits. I will keep praying...
🙏hugs
Pray for your delivery from evil. Don't pray for the evil one. They knew what they're doing and love it!
I commend you I feel too tired to pray anymore 😭😭😭
You can pray, but just know the best thing is separating
Keep the spirit honey! God is bigger ❤@@bonnieelaschuk8611
My husband has always had the ability to remember fights we had years before. We would be driving down a road and he would say "the last time we drove down this road we had a huge fight about x,y and z and you said blah blah blah." I could never understand how he remembered this stuff... Now I get it!
Narcissist love car rides because you are trapped with their flapping mouth.
You are always hitting the core of the problematic behaviour! Loving and watching you from Athens Greece!
Yes, prayer works a lot to deal with them. At least to manage your life to keep you at peace in the moment.
So we defintely should pray for those with the demon of narcisissm. Only God can set those people free. Thank you for this! I've never really prayed for them. I'll start today!
Everyone..have a wonderful day..blessings and much love to you all ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Blessings and much hope for us who have been suffering by them that God brings us soon full justice.
Thank you and back at ya! 🙂✝️🙏❤️
Same to you
I would love a video on how to pray and bless those that struggle with demonic influences connected to narcissistic behavior.
You can't pray for or fix a devil. Would you pray for Satan?? They'll never change. No one is possessing them or making them evil. They just are evil. Get away and stay away if you can and never look back. Pray for yourself that God will deliver you from evil.
@@rebekahford8199 Pray for your own protection but also ask for protection of the person in question, from Archangel Michael of the Light!!!
Ask for God's Love and Comfort to fill their heart and their empty spaces, so they will have enough "reason" to resist the urge to indulge to satan's promises and ways. Indulging to his ways is caused by anger, anger is caused by fear&pain. So pray for God to help THAT parts of your person in question.
That is about what I do.
@UnityLove-tj3qg wrong, we are supposed to pray for our enemies as well as our loved ones. as far as Satan goes he's a fallen angel above our paygrade, but fellow humans are to be saved ♥️
My suggestions: Emotionally Detach from them. Distance yourself from them. Divorce them. Zero contact.
One is not obligated to stay in a toxic relationship with a wicked person. You cannot fix them.
I was married for 13 yrs to someone that turned out to be a vile, unfaithful, abusive, lying, conniving, deceitful narcissist.
After divorcing her I felt like I'd been raped. Spiritually raped.
@@stripedassape8148 your peace is more important, while it’s okay to do it, it will become mentally exhausting on you and your peace of mind is more important to help other people that actually want to be helped. I’ve dealt with too much of this and finally decided for my own peace of mind, I’ve released them(family members) I have more peace now for others. It will mentally drive you down, that’s being realistic.
My narcissist ex-husband avoided accountability for his lies, abuse, cheating, etc. saying "God hardened my heart".
Cold & distant, oh how I know this well. Just the lack of love was a sign to me. Narc stepmom fits your description well. She is blocked and her heart is hard & black. She is selfishness personified!
Thank you for being here, for your experience and video. Im so glad youre here. Ive experienec it as a child and and adult. Im 74 now and looking back. Bless you for helping people.
This is all true, Kris.
Thank you for the light you're shining on this subject for us all.
Praying for healing for all of us who have suffered in the hands of this abuse.
Narcissists are angry empty people due to their past trauma and neglect. This long standing unresolved anger is the perfect foothold for the devil to latch onto a person. It is all too common in the world, in fact it is and always has been rampant.
I have been dealing with a very difficult situation with my husband’s unsaved mother and family. I have been experiencing physical pain and sickness to a point where my blood pressure has risen and I experienced a stroke in my right eye when my mother in-law last visited. I have been experiencing physical sickness for the past 5 years when she visits. I don’t know what to make of it. I am a Christian and I know that there is no power that is more powerful than our Heavenly Father and Jesus. I am so sure that my mother in-law has opened the door to demonic spirits in her life. She is an a nicotine and gambling addict who loves money and is very jealous of my relationship with my husband. I don’t have a perfect marriage because my husband also has a very stubborn side to him. Please pray for me to be healed in my body,mind and soul in Jesus mighty name by the power of the Holy Spirit Amen 🙏
This was a huge confirmation for me in my battle over my daughter against a narcissist. Fast & Pray - i had been praying instead of supper and need to get back to it.
I have had positive results from God thru 72-100 hour fasts... "But this kind never comes out except by prayer and fasting." (Matthew 17: 21)
I am going through the same thing. I understand. I'm suffering from their "flying monkeys" also. I am always so angry ! My blood pressure has physically increased to where it is too high.
Pray, Walk in Silence, Run.....they can and will attempt to destroy you. They are dangerous. They have to want to change.
Praying for a narcissist is such a waste of time. They DO NOT change or repent. The truth is not in them. They don’t heal, there are some people that cannot be saved.
Have you tried prayer and fasting?
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I agree! Did anyone see ONE true narc change through prayer??? For real?? .... I am done. No more prayers for him. 20y of lies and hell and two traumatized teenagers are enough. He is heartless and sees only himself. I will leave him as fast as i can.
@@solideogloria007 I understand how you feel, but I have to maintain faith, otherwise I am saying that this person being delivered is too hard for God, therefore I am saying that God is a “liar” when he says there is nothing impossible to him. His timing doesn’t match ours. You can keep your distance, but I would suggest pray until you see a breakthrough.
I am leaning on the fact they have to want to change and most do not. It is an inherited disorder, their brains are wired differently.
The obly healthy relationship with a narcissist is no relationship. Run for your life. Run. Block. No contact. It's the only way.
This is all so true, and I have proof! I dealt with one for 25 years.
@@CP-xb1du I lived with mine for 18 years and still had to deal with her for another 29 years because somehow she got ahold of my apartment key and would barge in my apartment without even calling first unexpectedly digging through my belongings... She had no right.. and I put a halt to that real quick when I had to threaten to go to Legal services to put a stop to her breaking laws that she was not supposed to be breaking.. threatening to put them in jail also put them in their place where they leave you alone also.
This heavy weight of unending bitterness is a constant trait i experienced, even when she is lying about it and failing to hide it. One time when she was in seriously painful rage, I asked her, what if there is an alternative emotion that you could give your attention right now, she said there is nothing like alternative "I have the right to be angry". And I went silent and starred at her in dismay. Very dangerous pollutant.
Love wins! In Christ, victorious!! Light over darkness in the mighty name of Jesus!
Fruitful, prosperous, joyful 2025 to you and yours, Kris.
That questioning them is the equivalent to questioning God is spot on!
so true so entitled. We ve had to separate from their evil toxicity, no more supply for their projecting chaos
This is 100 percent truth. Ask the Lord for discernment and he will open your eyes big time!
This is spot on! I can attest that these are the tools to win. I can also attest that you cannot pray once or twice and expect everything to change over night. The Bible says that "men should pray without ceasing." That doesn't mean to pray 24/7. It means to pray everyday until you get an answer or healing. Living with a narcissist is like living as Daniel in the lion's den. If I know Daniel he was praying at least 3 times a day. So should you. You will notice a big change but they may lash out and pick fights if you neglect your prayer windows. 9am, 12pm, & 3pm.
The old gospel song goes, "Daniel prayed, every morning, noon , and night...."
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It's no coincidence that Jesus was hung on the cross at 9am (the morning sacrifice hour), the sky went dark at 12 pm, and He died at 3pm, (the evening sacrifice hour). God's timeline has a purpose for everything and it never changes.
Prayer saved my life and got me away from him. I’m safe and protected. Amen
Can't stop shaking my head as you describe perfectly, my dear friend Evelyn especially how she justify her anger and deny holding grudges. Right now, I feel very emotional but deeply sorry for the poor, arrogant orphan knowing how she is deeply trapped in what I used to think it's all about learned helplessness and PTSD, and emotional disregulation. Thanks for these enlightening insights Kristi. L❤❤ Donald from Nigeria.
Great Video Kris........so true sometimes it is the enemy......Ephesians 6:12 For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this world's darkness, and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms. Great Advice! God Bless you my Friend!!
Merry Christmas. Yes my dear Kris, of course we have to pray and protect ourselves. God bless you.
Holding onto bitterness & resentment is HUGE 🏹 (regarding his family), goes back abt 50 years. The last 18 yrs now include me. This is most clearly demonic. I covet prayer. There's a beginning plan in place, yet I need clarity 🙏
She put that in where people ought be upset. What she's saying is forgive the corrupt and pray justice never happens. If you have a problem with e v i l she's saying you're the trouble
She's speaking as a jezebel spirit
@@StalkedHuman then she's delusional,, because light always wins over darkness,, our father is going to win no matter if she likes it or not.. just saying. Tell her to go read 2nd Kings chapter 9
@@tamc9550 I don't think you follow. Read job. They said what you said, and it was not counted as virtue. All who virtue signal are e v i l.
@@peacefulone4461 Jesus and the prophet preached repentance of sin but the false church preaches grace and forgiveness when it's not theirs to give
Both my parents were only children. And they were both Narcissistic. The criticism was BEYOND BELIEF !!! I think I have sent my comment before. I am forever doomed. I have just accepted it. At my age it's to late.. Thank you...👍🇺🇸🐕
God does not soften an unwilling heart. He hardens it more. That is biblical. He gives the new heart of flesh to the believer, the ones who call on Him.
@@graftme3168 I spent 2 years praying for him but he chose evil, finally (thank God) he left me and he also brag for being evil and coherent in his choice to follow evil 😅
Agree, it’s definitely spiritual…..and I believe they are insecure
I am at the other side. 20 years but ne untangled and free. Praise God!!!
Definitely demonic.
her narration somewhat too, the voice...so tired now
and yet the religious narc gave a rebutal of their side in a bible sermon directed at us. Even said the words get behind me satan too. They re the ones that are demonic acting like wolves in sheeps clothing.
Put on the Armor of God!! Thank you for your work Kris!! As a self aware, diagnosed narcissist, ive came to finally accept this aspect of the demonic narcissist, im going to be exploring this more on my channel.
Our 5th daughter is the personification of this evil and defensiveness. She's undependable, and never able to apologize for the mayhem she causes. Her kids are clinging to their dad, and see for themselves what their mom is doing.
Kids are a reflection of their parents.
Thank you and God bless you! I heard the rest of this video. I do get tired ; however, your video will keep me going to keep praying 🙏 for my daughter and the spiritual warfare that is in my son in laws home. I do need to move out. While I am here, I will keep going. God always wins.
My ex made us homeless by me giving him my paycheck to pay bills and he used all of it to support his girlfriend. It has always been treated like my fault because he told everyone I refused to work even though I was working 90 hours a week and he stayed home and everyone knew it. After our divorce I had to move far away from that area because everyone had it in their heads I was a spoiled woman who refused to work even though I worked at four different restaurants. Edit: He had people so convinced there were people who went to court saying he needed to get custody because I refused to work. The judge ended up asking people if I worked before he would even let them speak and if they said I didn't he excused them right away. I got full custody with him not even getting visitation.
I feel your pain.
What a beautiful message of hope! It gave me so much peace after so many days.
Thank you for all your help. Confirms what I live through
Went through this and more finally broke the trauma bond and am starting the healing self love and care and goals
Thank you! How you articulate and convey your points combined with the sound of your voice is one of the best I have ever heard.
I'm having a real challenge in this area, specifically, and I needed this. Happy New Year and God bless you!
Kris Terce Sorry again and again they continues hurting me Thank you Madam God Bless You 🌌🙏always🙏🙏🙏
I am sensitive to energy around me and what I can say, I have met two narcissists-men that confirm the above said. They were in different places, time (10 years spart exactly), age and so on, but both had issues with gradiosity, alcohol and were throwing themselves on every woman around them, they needed to sexually control them. BUT they were not similar in energy, they were IDENTICAL! I couldn't get it, because each person is unique. Like they were both captured in some common evil incubus spider web. It was scary.
Textbook is what they are.
Every single time I start to pray my mama comes to stir confusion. EVERY SINGLE TIME!!!
I bind that spirit of confusion in agreement with you standing on Mat. 18:19 and I loose peace and direction and victory in the mighty powerful name of JESUS ‼️🙏🙏🙏
Interesting topic.I am glad to see it.Ut has become a fashion to show understanding for every form of evil and it has become a taboo to call it evil or even to have a concept and addressing the fact that there are evil people or forces.
I am tired of other channels asking for understanding for wicked people under the label of a personality disorder I don't care if someone has a personality disorder as an excuse..I just do not want them in my life.
🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯 *"That's right. They're in bondage" ... Kris Reese circa era 2024*
*_"I was my own False Self's 1st Victim" ..._** Professor Sam Vaknin circa era 2022*
And Satan wants vengeance above all.
I think narcissists open portals for demonic oppression/possession. In the case of my narcissist, she indulged in astrology, fortune, telling, alcohol and drugs and reading, violent and pornographic novels. Narcissists open the door to demonic forces, and so they must repent, cry out for salvation and Stay rooted in God’s word and prayer. I do believe our prayers can help them come to repentance, but they must work out their salvation with fear and trembling to ever visit those sins again.
Praying for you all this time of your life 🙏
Thank you so much for your teaching, the Lord has open my eyes to see what is been going on
I appreciate you 🙏🏻
I was married from 1982 to 2001 to the most abusive man i have ever known, back then i read every book on domestic abuse i could find, but nothing matched his behavior.anyway fast forward to like 5 years ago i read its demonic all those years i was trying to please a demon, and im a born again Christian and i had no idea.i spent alot of years of my life being put down, made fun if , hit and pushed, till i had nothing left.when i filed for divorce he says to me,i thought you said you would never leave me.but it did not stop there , it took 10 years to get my settlement,he claimed bankruptcy so i got less money on and on, if i was a writer i could write a book .demons come in all forms.
I am so sorry for what you went through I pray God heals ALL your hurts 🙏🙏🙏
Yes, my wife and she's in jail now for assaulting me a few weeks ago while I was sleeping then strangled me, I almost died. She called the cops herself, lied that it was me, I was choking on my own blood, beaten, scratched up and then she fought with the cop, got pepper sprayed then tased. In the last few weeks, I've received several letters and a few phone calls of her wanting me to apologize & go to counseling. Now connecting the dots, it's been her being a narcissist. She's been verbally, psychology and somewhat physically abusive but this time was the worst yet. We've been married 8 yrs now, together for 10 and almost from day 1 it's been chaotic. And now in the last few months, I kinda thought that a demon was attatched to her. Now it makes even more sense.
The only thing dealing with spirits that if you pray out one the the Bible states the 7 will return worst then the first . So praying it out of the narcissist is good but they must turn to the holy spirit or they will be worst soon after.. Also Jezebel and a narcissist are basically one in the same… Yes i’ve felt trapped confused and exhausted completely
Oh my goodness, you have opened up my eyes and solve the confusion in side my mind and the whole situation 😢 I am very tired of this nonsense in my marriage
I am thankful for this podcast. Even as a minister I have seen people under and over spiritualizing things. Beautifully balanced and informative. I can only think how many marriages and relationships could have been saved if people would only grasp this teaching. One cannot reform a demonic spirt and flesh must be crucified and brought into submission to the Spirit of God and truth. Many do not understand the distinction. Thank you for this beautiful word and I believe it will help and set many free. Blessings!
i just divorced one today i feel peace now thanks god.🙏🏽