Don't Take Revenge on the Narcissist - God Says Do THIS Instead!

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  • Опубликовано: 20 дек 2024

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  • @Kris_Reece
    @Kris_Reece  14 дней назад +37

    FREE Narcissist Survival Guide
    krisreece.com/narcissist-survival-guide/

    • @kristofvanhooymissen7785
      @kristofvanhooymissen7785 13 дней назад

      Thank you, Kris 💌

    • @omnamahshivaya6299
      @omnamahshivaya6299 12 дней назад

      I can fix you, sweaty.

    • @ElliSuiii
      @ElliSuiii День назад

      They always remind me Ouroboros/Uroboros. Cycle of their lives. My ex husband had narc cycle every 5 min at the end. Then when he saw it was over (I cannot act when I didn't even said anything) he tryed to kill me throwing me out on Fifth floor. Had to force dislocate my both arms during choking and dragging to get away. He worships God, but not. He wants eternal life but in a covert narc personality. Sick. He is remarried. I pray for her wife.. edit, he uses his "faith" to complete his cycle, nothing more.

  • @GennaroNatale-i9n
    @GennaroNatale-i9n 14 дней назад +334

    I don’t want revenge, I want to just be free from their torture please. I wish them nothing, I just want to forget about them and never see them again please.

    • @blaquecinderella3560
      @blaquecinderella3560 13 дней назад +24

      I know that feeling😢

    • @Ayebaybaye
      @Ayebaybaye 13 дней назад +11

      Absolutely

    • @GennaroNatale-i9n
      @GennaroNatale-i9n 13 дней назад +12

      My only dream at my age right now after over a decade of pain and torture, is to just have my brains back to normal, no more tinnitus no more pain, I want my life back please, I wasn’t perfect, nobody is, I lost a big chunk of my life already, please if somehow this torture can stop just make it happen, been over 12 years since I got back from NewCastle, my only dream is to have my head back to how it was, is all I want.
      I don’t want to litigate over anything, just stop doing this to me please.

    • @Deborah-uw5ip
      @Deborah-uw5ip 13 дней назад +10

      @@GennaroNatale-i9n So sorry to hear of your struggles and pain. Bin there, dun that. I surrendered my life to Jesus Christ, and as a follower, I'm charged with passing on my testimony: He really does save us. I've been saved many times, just because I gave it all over to Him. He carries our burdens. Enjoy the day. Godspeed Gennaro!

    • @tricialafrancerougas
      @tricialafrancerougas 12 дней назад +9

      This was me!! I had others in my divorcecare group talk about hating their ex and what they did to them but all I wanted was to not continue suffering and I don’t hate my ex which then had me asking if it was that bad. It was!! I’m just a kind person and don’t wish evil on anyone… I know that God is a just God and He will take care of everything! ❤ prayers for healing and the next right step 🫶🏼

  • @Jesuschristislordofallforever
    @Jesuschristislordofallforever 12 дней назад +48

    My ex is a covert narc. He would repeat his version of events over and over. Telling me what I experienced never happened. Then apologise and ask forgiveness when i stayed true to the truth. Worst thing was they claimed to be a Christian. Chaos and disorder and a path of destruction from his pride and unrepentant heart. You will know them by their fruit. Recovery takes time and Gods love and reassurance. The psychological damage is something that has graced me with more integrity and discernment. And much stronger boundaries. Glory to Jesus for helping me escape.

    • @tinaureta9891
      @tinaureta9891 4 дня назад

      I UNDERSTAND….. I do….. Covert Narc, with a Bow tie of Christianity is the worst and debilitating. Buts God will NOT be Mocked my friend. Sit down, Rest, Breathe the Love and z protection of Jesus into your soul Daily…. Justice is coming.
      God is always in control.
      Sad… but, the Bible is True.
      “ The Wicked have NO Peace”
      An awful awful way to live.

  • @kellybarton929
    @kellybarton929 14 дней назад +177

    The Lord will fight for you and you only have to hold your peace. Exodus 14:14

  • @georgeblackwell4670
    @georgeblackwell4670 14 дней назад +179

    These people suck the life out of you! How could a human be this terrible! God please give me the strength!! Restore the years that I lost dealing with such a deceitful person!🙏🏾

    • @BroncoBob3113
      @BroncoBob3113 13 дней назад +13

      You not alone

    • @Deborah-uw5ip
      @Deborah-uw5ip 13 дней назад +9

      Agree they are a challenge, but not impossible. My intuitive thoughts:
      I think now (at 71) that we allow some of it on some (subconscious?) level. There's good and bad in everyone and yes, some are worse than others but we were never intended to mix with these 'creatures' Lol
      God will give you the strength is what I'm feeling. And from experience I can tell you that maybe you won't get "restored lost years" but you will get some that are way better. God bless

    • @DonaldWomels
      @DonaldWomels 12 дней назад +6

      @@georgeblackwell4670 that's exactly what I've been praying 🙏 for! Restoration from all the years lost! I'm confident in Jesus! 😊

    • @irinna6379
      @irinna6379 12 дней назад +4

      They are not human.

    • @EAGLEYES112
      @EAGLEYES112 11 дней назад +5

      You echo my thoughts, friend.
      Sad thing is, he is my very own elder brother.
      And I care for him sincerely.

  • @danieldrake7090
    @danieldrake7090 14 дней назад +80

    I did want revenge. Not anymore, thanks to you. I now pray for her that God would heal both our hearts. She filed for devorce , that's all over now. I choose not to be bitter but to forgive. I can now move on with what God has for me. I'm about to turn 64 in January and I feel like my life is just now beginning. Thank you for your teaching.

    • @annawallace3264
      @annawallace3264 13 дней назад +12

      no need to have revenge as it will affect you not them. The Narc will have to answer to God about what they’ve done in their life, not us. My Narc Husband passed away 4 mos ago was married to him 54 yrs. Peace and quiet is here now, thanks be to God. I wish you the same.

    • @oneloveoneheartonedestination
      @oneloveoneheartonedestination 9 дней назад

      Respect the old skool generations, you clearly hear how the Devil is bissy,woman and man nowadays a different build sad but truht,but olso coming closer to the end goal 🎉

    • @therapistsandnarcissism
      @therapistsandnarcissism 5 дней назад

      When they absorb your children into their hate and disdain camp, it means a bigger set up for God to bring soooo much good out of such evil🙏🙏🙏

  • @mraereed
    @mraereed 14 дней назад +68

    I've been with my narcissistic husband for 9 years. I've slowly become a shell of myself. I pulled myself away from God. But he stayed right there because once I started calling out to him, to somehow get me out of there. It happened within months. Not exactly the way I would have hoped but I have to be going through this to know what I allowed in my life. So I don't repeat it. God is gracious. He knows I was strong enough to get here to this women's shelter and I'm going to be stronger each and every day. I'm stronger today, than I was yesterday. And I can't even wait till tomorrow! 💪

    • @mshowell3710
      @mshowell3710 11 дней назад +2

      God Bless!! I'll be praying for you!!All things possible with God...& where 2 agree it shall be! So I agree with you you have a lovely home & great career & all supportive friends! & Physical Financial & Spititual Health! & I have an eBay biz if you need anything to set up your place I prob have it! Cute stuff too! I'll give you!🙏🏻🩷

    • @SherryONeill
      @SherryONeill 4 дня назад

      @@mshowell3710
      Lol
      Your Offer To her Made me Smile !!

  • @fifilafleur5555
    @fifilafleur5555 12 дней назад +34

    It’s been decades now… and I’m still waiting for God to do something about these self absorbed, selfish, cruel, vindictive, evil individuals who have told so many lies about me and destroyed my reputation and other peoples’ opinions of me. I’ve just had to take my punishment and live my life in isolation without love because of these backstabbing & narcissistic individuals. I literally lost everything. Including my health. Late stage cancer that is no longer curable. I hope my enemies are proud of themselves.

    • @lilirebeccaskinner6670
      @lilirebeccaskinner6670 11 дней назад +7

      God can bring you healing and justice ...that is His will and heart's desire...He already paid for it❤

    • @marinagallant1847
      @marinagallant1847 7 дней назад +2

      I pray you get healthier

    • @glendaschilder3048
      @glendaschilder3048 7 дней назад +2

      I'm so sorry for what you have been through, I've been through this too..but I don't have cancer..even though my health is not the best anymore..🎉

  • @VerlindaWaters
    @VerlindaWaters 12 дней назад +21

    God will do it better than I can!!

  • @TonyJohnson-z3p
    @TonyJohnson-z3p 8 дней назад +14

    They are so evil. I pray for justice in Jesus name amen 🙏

  • @GregMunro
    @GregMunro 11 дней назад +219

    A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient.

    • @TrentReeves-c2k
      @TrentReeves-c2k 11 дней назад +1

      There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things

    • @GregMunro
      @GregMunro 11 дней назад +3

      Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white..

    • @TrentReeves-c2k
      @TrentReeves-c2k 11 дней назад +2

      This is helpful, I will look her up online right now...Thanks.

    • @GregMunro
      @GregMunro 11 дней назад

      You wont regret it

    • @SherryONeill
      @SherryONeill 4 дня назад

      What you Say Indicates Neither Of you Is A Narc
      Those RelationShips NEVER BeCome Loving

  • @eugenejoseph7076
    @eugenejoseph7076 14 дней назад +51

    Once you realize you are in a relationship with a narc, leave immediately, do not attempt to explain, rationalize or debate why you are leaving, just move on, and I recommend that you say just one prayer for them, "God they are yours. Do what you need to do to humble them, amen", then stop praying for them to avoid getting triggered by memories. For you, pray that the Lord will give you the grace to forgive when you remember what they did to you. That's it, full stop. Finally, put this hard learned lesson in your 'I will ensure that next time I meet up with one of these narcs, I will avoid them like the plague'!!!

    • @Imtoobusyslayingrn111
      @Imtoobusyslayingrn111 12 дней назад +4

      finally someone said this 😭 I felt that praying for them is actually giving me false hope making me go back to their manipulative tactics until I realize I've been used again without my knowledge.
      Ty for this I will kee this in mind :D ❤

    • @anais457
      @anais457 12 дней назад +4

      Thank you for your post. You are so right to make one prayer and stop because it was triggering bad memories. When I read your post I said one prayer. I gave my husband to God. We are separated and going through a divorce. I had blocked him from all social media. I choose no contact. I finally have joy and peace back in my life. I love my life now. My kids are all adults and it is just me spending time with God! Thank you once again for your post it set me free!

    • @therapistsandnarcissism
      @therapistsandnarcissism 5 дней назад +1

      Amen and Amen!! “Full stop”

    • @SherryONeill
      @SherryONeill 4 дня назад

      And ThankFully we Learn Exactly What To Look For Now

    • @SherryONeill
      @SherryONeill 4 дня назад

      @@Imtoobusyslayingrn111
      God Told me To Stop Praying For him
      I Have

  • @LeannaRuthJensen
    @LeannaRuthJensen 13 дней назад +9

    Yes. Each piece of armour protects you and the Sword- Word of God lets you have victory. I know this is true from my own life.

  • @caitlinoneill4479
    @caitlinoneill4479 12 дней назад +12

    I was dealing with a narcissist neighbor with 3 people from the church I used to attend criticize me for not loving thy neighbor as the bible directs us. I'm thankful to God for Kris Reece devoting her ministry to help us out 🙏 whole armor of God around Kris and all followers of Christ.

  • @travelwithsouthernchick5112
    @travelwithsouthernchick5112 14 дней назад +18

    Need this going through a divorce from one and it’s crazy because they lie about everything! I am trust God to deal with it

  • @PhinaJef
    @PhinaJef 10 дней назад +23

    GLORY!!!'m favoured, $140K every 3weeks! And am retired i can now give back to the locals in my community and also support God's work and the church. God bless America 🇺🇸 ❤️

    • @OluchukwuEbube
      @OluchukwuEbube 10 дней назад

      Hello, how do you achieve such biweekly returns? As a single parent i haven't been able to get my own house due to financial struggles, but my faith in God remains strong.

    • @PhinaJef
      @PhinaJef 10 дней назад

      Thanks to my co-worker whom God used to give a great opportunity of crossing paths with 'Mrs ELIZABETH ANN LARSON'.

    • @LisaMacLean-p4f
      @LisaMacLean-p4f 10 дней назад

      I started with a miserly $1500. The results have been mind blowing I must say TBH!!!

    • @ThomasAllison-l3j
      @ThomasAllison-l3j 10 дней назад

      I know that woman (Kate Elizabeth Becherer )
      If you were born and raised in new York you'd know too, she's my family's Broker for 3yrs till now and a very good one if you asked me. No doubt she is the one that helped you get where you are!!!!

    • @BernardKingsley-z9y
      @BernardKingsley-z9y 10 дней назад

      How do I get connection to this woman you speak about!!?

  • @janeeliot1568
    @janeeliot1568 11 дней назад +7

    Dear Kris, I've been watching your videos and listening to your wise words for some time now, since I found the strength to leave my abusive marriage. I put my trust in God, and He didn't let me down. My husband is now a shadow of his former self, he's lonely, miserable and in mental decline. I remember your words about having a responsibility to him not for him. I kept calm, spoke my truth, let go and let God. I have peace knowing God's in charge.

  • @tonykahil144
    @tonykahil144 14 дней назад +50

    Jesus … Saviour of the World … bless & protect us all.

  • @scotthutchinson7491
    @scotthutchinson7491 14 дней назад +22

    Thank you Jesus! Help us Father to give the fight to you and to stay in your covering and protection, thank you for the Armour of God, and the garment’s of gratitude and praise. Show us your strength O GOD our salvation. Amen

  • @nobody-nada
    @nobody-nada 13 дней назад +25

    I've been gang-stalked by a narcissist, his relatives and friends for years. They've ruined my life and yet they are not satisfied.
    Oh, Lord God, look at their sitting down and their rising up, I am their taunting song. Vindicate me, Oh God for You have said, "Vengeance is Mine. I will repay." 🙏

  • @roshaerose6177
    @roshaerose6177 14 дней назад +18

    ❤Romans12;19 Amen
    I trust Him❤He alone I trust❤

  • @peu1285
    @peu1285 14 дней назад +21

    I was raised and emotionally abused by my narcissistic "Christian" mother, and ended up with a narcissistic "Christian" husband, which I didn't realize till in my 50s. I cut myself off within 5-10 years of this realization but never wished them ill because i am counting on God's assurance that He will make things right in His time. I continue to pray for them, AND THEIR "CHRISTIAN" ENABLERS, for enlightenment and repentance before it's too late. Thankfully my children are adults now and see for themselves the fakery of it all.

    • @jackiepowell7513
      @jackiepowell7513 13 дней назад +1

      Christian in name only cino. Your mom?

    • @badomaji
      @badomaji 11 дней назад

      Some hide behind the name 'Christian', a cloak to hide the darkness.

  • @lenmoodley6715
    @lenmoodley6715 14 дней назад +28

    Thank you, Kris. What a powerful message. You have helped both my wife and i understand and overcome the effects of this behaviour, which we recently experienced by a christian leader. God bless you for your ministry. Vengeance is definitely his.

  • @yvonnebasson8652
    @yvonnebasson8652 13 дней назад +10

    Karma gets them in the end, keep your peace&move on!

  • @michaelfischer-xp4cw
    @michaelfischer-xp4cw 12 дней назад +172

    Cool video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

    • @elladonaldson-lh6nc
      @elladonaldson-lh6nc 12 дней назад +3

      its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back

    • @michaelfischer-xp4cw
      @michaelfischer-xp4cw 12 дней назад +2

      Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him or her?

    • @elladonaldson-lh6nc
      @elladonaldson-lh6nc 12 дней назад +2

      Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

    • @michaelfischer-xp4cw
      @michaelfischer-xp4cw 12 дней назад +1

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

    • @sandycares2995
      @sandycares2995 12 дней назад +4

      Sadly, this happens to many of us in our lives. I know how you feel. It's really really tough To go through. Many many tears.
      My help was trying to keep busy outside with many projects to get my mind off of it for awhile. Gradually the pain started to ease. It's like the death of a loved one. Going through the mourning process. Miraculously , eventually you start to notice the sun shining more and you will find yourself starting to smile and get back on track. It's a journey for sure.
      Jesus is always with you. He is your friend in times of trouble.❤🙏

  • @markar6395
    @markar6395 14 дней назад +24

    Thank you Jesus. The timing if this video is perfect. Bless you Kris

  • @BR-kk9qu
    @BR-kk9qu 10 дней назад +5

    I’m finally feeling freedom and peace.

  • @Dane_Booker
    @Dane_Booker 12 дней назад +171

    l highly recommend to everyone to read: Your Life Your Game by keezano 🙌 I read it, and it truly changed my life. It shows how connecting with God and your inner self can lead to spiritual growth and financial success. A must-read... God bless! 🙏

    • @jamesfx33
      @jamesfx33 12 дней назад +1

      @@Dane_Booker just bought it, thank you

    • @mike.williams1999
      @mike.williams1999 12 дней назад +1

      @@Dane_Booker Such a good book, it helped me a lot in dental school☺️

    • @The.Rockyy007
      @The.Rockyy007 12 дней назад

      G book

  • @adventurouspanda9110
    @adventurouspanda9110 14 дней назад +16

    2:50 “Spiritual warfare is considered to be: the fight to believe God’s TRUTH over the enemy’s lies.”
    3:05 spiritual warfare is about overcoming deception
    3:25 the deceiver’s lies become strongholds. The strongholds lead to you act and feel according to those lies
    5:20 God’s armor enables you to fight against temptation or deception
    5:30 if we put on the whole armor of God, we will be able to stand firm against all the powers of the enemy
    6:00 put on the BELT OF TRUTH = hold fast to God’s truth, which exposes the lies and manipulation of the narcissist.
    6:07 God’s TRUTH grounds us in reality so we can see through their falsehoods.
    6:18 put on the body armor of God’s RIGHTEOUSNESS
    6:19 When we follow God’s commands, we guard ourselves from falling into the narcissist emotional traps and ensures that we walk in integrity, not reacting out of hurt or manipulation.
    6:35 the shoes of PEACE. This allows us to stand firm in the message of Salvation no matter the chaos the narcissist brings.
    We can walk knowing that we are saved and secure in God‘s love… not swayed by their emotional tactics.
    6:48 SHIELD OF FAITH… our belief in God‘s promises. Our faith in God‘s Word shields us from the narcissist’s seeds of doubt and lies.
    7:03 TRUST IN GOD’S PROMISES OVER THE ENEMY’S SCHEMES.
    7:08 Helmet of Salvation = guards our mind by protecting our thoughts from the toxic narratives.
    7:20 The Helmet of Salvation reminds us that our identity is in CHRIST, not the identity that the toxic narcissist tries to impose on us.
    7:55 SWORD OF THE SPIRIT, THE WORD OF GOD
    8:00 fight against the lies and manipulation with the Truth of God’s Word.
    8:11 The Truth of God’s Word destroys the lies of the enemy.
    8:37 THE SWORD OF THE SPIRIT IS KEY
    11:25 Beloved, never avenge yourselves,
    but leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written,
    'Vengeance is mine, I will repay,' says the Lord. ~ Romans 12:19

  • @stephanielane1821
    @stephanielane1821 12 дней назад +8

    Luke 6: 27-31 But I say to you who hear. Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who abuse you.

  • @Romans_Twelve_Two
    @Romans_Twelve_Two 13 дней назад +15

    Thank you, Kris! I was in Ezekiel 34 last night and had such peace, then later the neglect got to me, not remembering my full armor 😔 I asked my narsassist why he neglects me, so then came the flaming darts of the enemy - manipulation, gaslighting, accusations, lies, yelling etc. I was in tears and began to hyperventilate in overwhelment. He then, for the first time, got physical. Through tears and a breathless voice, I told him, "You hit me," and immediately he denied it. Please pray for myself and my children. I'm still in shock.

    • @rurig9311
      @rurig9311 13 дней назад +6

      @@Romans_Twelve_Two it escalates. I know it’s difficult to think under stress but start documenting until you’re ready to make a move. Look up the laws in your state. Start reaching out to family. I’m sorry you’re going through this.

    • @DSW-dq5bx
      @DSW-dq5bx 12 дней назад +6

      You need to have it documented with the police. You don't have to press charges. Please find a shelter or flee to family that can help and leave ASAP. It will only get worse. If you can't do it for yourself, do it for your children. It will probably be the hardest thing ever to do, but God will be with you. Praying for you and your safety.

    • @badomaji
      @badomaji 11 дней назад +3

      I am so sorry you and your children are being exposed to such evil. 🙏

    • @SherryONeill
      @SherryONeill 4 дня назад

      GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT
      If you Are UnAble To Not Speak About What he Does And Does Not Do, If you Are Not Able To Stay In GRAY ROCK ( Dr Ramani Teaches That) And Not Speak Things That Trigger The Demons, You Need To GET OUT
      Mine AlMost Got Physical Twice In The Last Three Days And It Would Not Have Gotten That Far If I Had KEPY MY MOUTH SHUT
      I am In NO WAY Blaming Us Or Making Excuses!!!
      But we Are Fully CapAble Of Keeping A Calm Environment By Being Silent ESpecially When They Are TRYING To Get EMotional Supply
      I Have Done Well For Months But For Some ReaSon I Have BackSlid Big Time By Going Thru The Storm Again, Twice
      Those Two Storms Were GeneRated By my Mouth
      No I Do Not Yell But I Said The Things I Know To Be True And It Fired That Verbal Tirade Right Up
      I Had Enough So That I Will REMEMBER To Not Take The Bait And To ReMain Quiet
      Peace To you
      They Are Very Dangerous If They Cross A Line
      Yours Has

  • @francesvasquez2073
    @francesvasquez2073 14 дней назад +43

    God give me strength, because it's been very difficult

    • @rg-mi5hh
      @rg-mi5hh 14 дней назад

      You're not kidding. Neighbors like this are a piece of work.

    • @neitskrome4873
      @neitskrome4873 14 дней назад

      Francesvasquez Yes me too 😢🙏

    • @Rania-x9e
      @Rania-x9e 14 дней назад

      I know more power to u

    • @AahanaRathod-j3q
      @AahanaRathod-j3q 11 дней назад

      I know it is difficult...but don't give up...just wait and stay calm

  • @francesvasquez2073
    @francesvasquez2073 14 дней назад +26

    It took me along time to realize I have been dealing with a Narcissist for 7yrs and drained me.

  • @ozaldavid27
    @ozaldavid27 10 дней назад +3

    This is the single video which gives solution also for natsisist Great God bless you for blessing for millions

  • @lindaortiz4435
    @lindaortiz4435 8 дней назад +3

    Kris: thank you so much. The Lord is truly using you to show us how to fight back against All the narcs that are looming around just trying to attack & use us. God Bless you

  • @kiml2922
    @kiml2922 13 дней назад +11

    Great Biblical advice. Thank you! ❤🙏

  • @Ashleymalone2000
    @Ashleymalone2000 14 дней назад +10

    This was your absolute best video! All of your videos are great but this one was just the exact thing I needed right now. I’m in the chewed up phase after 27 years considering divorce, he’s on a whole new level of anger and deceit.

    • @DSW-dq5bx
      @DSW-dq5bx 12 дней назад +1

      27 years here also with a covert narc. I'm now a year out of the relationshite (yes I said it because that's exactly what it was) and divorced. I have such peace now in my daily life, but still having to deal with anxiety issues. Ashwaganda helps and looking into somatic exercises and vagus nerve reset. May God bring you peace and blessings in the future away from the narc.

  • @twobeagles1365
    @twobeagles1365 14 дней назад +6

    Sometimes you have to trust God that he has this in his power, I often pray, God may I be a reflection of You in all that I Do.

  • @Lily-f8g2r
    @Lily-f8g2r 13 дней назад +3

    My mum is a narcissist and it can be really hard sometimes.
    Thank you so so much; videos like this help me and remind me that I am never alone

  • @r.mitchell1480
    @r.mitchell1480 12 дней назад +5

    I found myself wanting to defend myself against her smear campaign and even wondered why God was allowing this to happen to me all while it seems like she was living her best life with no regrets. But I came across your channel and now I'm starting to understand a little better and not to seek revenge.

  • @djeddie-d-cj6pt
    @djeddie-d-cj6pt 14 дней назад +9

    Bless you kris. Thank you for your help. Amen. God bless you and family. God bless the listeners as well

  • @jewelsquinlan333
    @jewelsquinlan333 11 дней назад +4

    AMEN, that's exactly why I put on my armor everyday!

  • @kc26119
    @kc26119 12 дней назад +2

    My son is trapped in a Narcissistic relationship.😢. He has changed so much. She controls him. I pray He comes back to God. 25 years as a Christian. Thank God for you!!

  • @ritalilley6005
    @ritalilley6005 8 дней назад +3

    Thank you thank you!! Dear sister ♥️ it brought me to tears, this message was just in time from the Lord ♥️ The Lord bless you 🙏 He is using you and I love you 💖 I'm sharing this on my Facebook to help others ♥️

  • @lylevalentine5902
    @lylevalentine5902 14 дней назад +19

    Thank you Kris you have helped me through my separation and divorce! It is so painful being discarded, blamed and cheated on!

  • @tiosurcgib
    @tiosurcgib 13 дней назад +5

    All good advice. EXCEPT if you're in any danger; in which case, get yourself away and safe if you possibly can. And/or take measures to safeguard yourself.

  • @MrVarkeyengland
    @MrVarkeyengland 11 дней назад +2

    Forgiveness by grace , fight with the sword of the spirit

  • @Pilgrim06
    @Pilgrim06 14 дней назад +33

    Kris, this advice based on the Words of St Paul is simply divine - thank you for sharing God’s word. I am free from the chains of this satanic bond, through the power of prayer, through the armour of God, and the benevolence of the Holy Spirit. God bless you richly for your mission.

    • @jackiepowell7513
      @jackiepowell7513 13 дней назад

      Paul and the Pauline epistles to the Church. Namely, us.

  • @SentaDR
    @SentaDR 14 дней назад +32

    You are hearing from God! A very timely Word for not only victims of narcissists, but for this TIME, we are all living in. God has used you to explain the scriptures, so I can effectively apply them in my daily life. Thank you for hearing Him. What you have just delivered, so succinctly, in 12 minutes and 14 seconds, was more powerful than most hour long sermons or $350 therapy sessions. You gave it to me and the rest of the world, as ministry… freely. May God richly bless you for ministering to me and the thousands of others who desperately need healing and to live life, in full.

  • @GrinTack-ri1ur
    @GrinTack-ri1ur 12 дней назад +3

    What the narcist really needs is gods love and support, with strong reinforced boundaries... A network of support from people who understand the condition... It is a terrible unfortunate illness for all those involved... I am bpd, my son npd... I will never abandon him, tho for my protection, i regularly need to keep him at a distance... 🙏

  • @meceu2
    @meceu2 11 дней назад +2

    That is so good and so faithful and I thank him every day for you and your words of wisdom. I literally just finished reading a book on the armor of God. Called stronger together weaker apart. In August, my family, accuse me of things which were not true, and when I came to my own defense, instead of discussing it, they chose to disown me.
    Yesterday I learned from an aunt that my mother was having a procedure done for her heart. She was told that I was the one who cut ties and I was the one that did not want anything to do with them. I told her that was not true I had not blocked anybody .
    Then I confronted my sister and asked about mother‘s procedure. She shared with me about it and then she told me that mother was confused and properly told her sister that I had blocked them. That she loved me that she missed me that she even bought me a Christmas gift. I thanked her and then told her again how hurt I was by the things that she had said, and had accused me of. Her response again to this was live your life on your own goodbye. She also posted a bunch of really nasty stuff aimed at me. I almost wanted to seek revenge. Tell her what I thought with the colorful metaphors and all. However, I listen to your video first took a deep breath and realized how good God is and how faithful he is.
    During these last few months, God bless me with the three dollar pay raise and the ability to buy a really nice vehicle. He has blessed me with friends and a reconnection with my cousins. I am blessed and I see that my sister and mother have closed the door to real happiness and content and satisfaction. Thank you again.

    • @lilirebeccaskinner6670
      @lilirebeccaskinner6670 11 дней назад

      Thank you for sharing the details...it helped me tremendously...prayer for ongoing peace for you❤

  • @janedoe707
    @janedoe707 12 дней назад +3

    " They won't be vulnerable enough to ask for what they want, but they do feel entitled enough to have it." @Kris_Reece what a word. Thank you for this.

  • @CookieMonster-hm8hx
    @CookieMonster-hm8hx 13 дней назад +2

    7:30 “ ..stand firm against the enemy, fighting with the strength and the truth that only comes from the Lord.”

  • @truth9409
    @truth9409 8 дней назад +1

    I am part of a church resource center. The person in charge is slowly destroying everything. I have been wrestling with the wrongs going on. Its come to the point I feel I must speak the truth. I'm about to speak to our Pastor today. That prayer was for me. During my time with God today and he told me to pray with the Pastor first. Pray that I speak THE TRUTH IN LOVE. WOW confirmation. God is good

  • @HeSaidICouldntDoIt
    @HeSaidICouldntDoIt 13 дней назад +3

    Kris thank you for sharing this experience and knowledge with us. It explains what I've been going through with my narcissist soon to be ex. I had someone tell me I just need to let things go now while in the middle of this battle! They just don't see the spiritual battle I am in. I explained I'm learning and growing but have to remain on guard and prepared for what satan tries to throw at me next! I'm continually praying for and seeking knowledge. I am much stronger now in the Lord, recovering from the evil soon to be ex. God bless!

  • @GroovyGorgeous
    @GroovyGorgeous 14 дней назад +66

    “God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.” - Psalms 46:1
    Amen 🙏🏻

    • @mrsqueakthecat.8061
      @mrsqueakthecat.8061 14 дней назад +2

      Does James 4:17 and related passages apply to God or not?

    • @josephaddition
      @josephaddition 14 дней назад

      Amen

    • @jackiepowell7513
      @jackiepowell7513 13 дней назад

      ​@mrsqueakthecat.8061 james and Hebrews are to the converted judaizers. Romans to Philemon to the Church but those 2.

  • @mikepeek5655
    @mikepeek5655 9 дней назад +1

    I heard Bert Reynolds quote the following when he said he was fired and was going back to get revenge and tell his former employer / boss what he thought of him. Then , he said "I learned that the guy had died.
    That's when I realized that
    " Living good is the best revenge "

  • @kristofvanhooymissen7785
    @kristofvanhooymissen7785 13 дней назад +2

    Thanks Kris, I tried exorcism on some narcissists. Hope it works. Every fallen soul who redeems himself can be saved. Love your work, Kristo Gabriel

  • @yvonnebasson8652
    @yvonnebasson8652 13 дней назад +3

    I had to deal with narcissists my whole life! 69ys! Only now my eyes were opened, I'm dealing with the aftermath of that abuse, cptsd, but they are out of my life, but struggling with the anger for only realising now their dark and malevolent, empty souls

  • @bonnebela1
    @bonnebela1 9 дней назад +2

    I did not know how insidious the person is who I let move in. I’m exhausted. I decided to fight this battle in the spirit now.. God spoke the same message to me
    Your video could not been more a divine blessing and just what I needed
    Just tonight I realized I neede to give everything in my
    Life to God and remember the battle is the Lords.
    She needs to take her son and leave my home. She’s verbally and emotionally abusive to her son. I want the peace back that I once had.
    I need her gone
    I need a divine intervention to get her out. Waiting on serving a notice and all that is too much. I can’t leave my home and feel safe.
    She’s damaged and stole my property and scared my 3 cats.
    It’s going to be difficult to have her here and not lose my composure again.
    Please pray for a miracle. I need my house back. I’m not able to leave my house to go to the court because she’s always here.
    I’m not the only one she’s destroyed their peace.
    I think I may have to also file a no contact order along with the vacate notice.
    Thank you

    • @Paulohlsson7
      @Paulohlsson7 4 дня назад

      Hi Bonnie, how's your day going with you?

  • @vickijoseph2731
    @vickijoseph2731 10 дней назад +2

    Thank you, Kris!

  • @Denise-h3c
    @Denise-h3c 10 дней назад +1

    Thanks Kris. As usual you calmed my anxiety and gave me a wealth of information. Suited and Booted ❤

  • @rwheel1962
    @rwheel1962 12 дней назад +2

    God’s timing is so good. I was attacked “again” yesterday by the family beast…aka narcissist. Thank goodness my husband was beside me when I read the attack from a text. This is their usual choice weapon to use in their attacks. He told me how to reply to the text so as not to escalate it. But it’s very difficult to move on without these ugly attacks playing over and over in my head. Fo ward to this morning and I see this video. Thank you Kris Reece for your words of wisdom as you consistently share on RUclips. Now I have the encouragement to hold on to God’s truth and wait on Him to fight for me. I am very weary of this narcissist 😞

  • @EasyRussianLessons
    @EasyRussianLessons 14 дней назад +148

    They wanted a reaction. They sent all their flying monkeys to harass you. They wanted you to get mad. Instead they have achieved the opposite. Peace. Your peace should be such a priority that no demon in hell is able to trigger you anymore. Your peace is their downfall.

    • @saraheck7898
      @saraheck7898 14 дней назад +13

      💯 "No one can steal your joy unless you let them." When we realize it's spiritual, it's easier to not have an emotional reaction, or take it personally. I also heard someone once say, "The space in my head is prime real estate."

    • @josephaddition
      @josephaddition 14 дней назад +6

      Amen

    • @rosemarymuritu
      @rosemarymuritu 14 дней назад +5

      Can't agree more

    • @AlanaBradley-m3t
      @AlanaBradley-m3t 13 дней назад +2

      Yes, thank YOU, GOD ALMIGHTY, if I did not know you, I think this would have killed me, but I can summon peace and joy from YOU and JESUS and will not only survive it, but go no contact asap...

    • @monicarai1497
      @monicarai1497 13 дней назад +3

      Amen 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @BlankCanvas88
    @BlankCanvas88 14 дней назад +7

    Thank you, Kris! Great message!

  • @DJH97
    @DJH97 10 дней назад +1

    Good for you!! That’s awesome. I pray God will take care of me as well. At 64 still working full time AND own a business that my son helps me with. Not sure retirement is an option anytime soon but I’m thankful I can still work.

  • @lilirebeccaskinner6670
    @lilirebeccaskinner6670 11 дней назад +1

    Thank you for the spiritual encouragement and stand on our authority over all the works of the enemy!

  • @MA-xi9bh
    @MA-xi9bh 14 дней назад +7

    Never have them a reaction

  • @Happinessjenn-1578j
    @Happinessjenn-1578j 12 дней назад +2

    I have to pray and remember that god has my back and not to let hurt and anger make me less .❤

  • @chloe-t8b4u
    @chloe-t8b4u 8 дней назад +70

    Cool-videos! My five-year relationship came to an end a month ago. The love of my life chose to leave, and I can't stop thinking about him; I love him so deeply. I've done everything I can to win him back, but nothing seems to work. I'm feeling frustrated and can't imagine my life with anyone else. Despite my efforts to move on, I just can't shake the thoughts of him. I don’t know why I’m sharing this, (but I really miss him)

    • @Shanieceflordi
      @Shanieceflordi 8 дней назад

      Saying goodbye to someone you love is difficult; I know this from my 12-year relationship ending. But I was unable to simply let him go, so I made every effort to get him back. I eventually sought aid from a spiritual counselor, who was able to help me regain his affection.

    • @chloe-t8b4u
      @chloe-t8b4u 8 дней назад

      It's interesting! How can I contact a spiritual counselor most efficiently, and how did you find one?

    • @Shanieceflordi
      @Shanieceflordi 8 дней назад

      Father Obah Eze is a wonderful spiritual counselor who has the ability to bring back your ex.

    • @Shanieceflordi
      @Shanieceflordi 8 дней назад

      He can assist you; he is Father Obah Eze, and he possesses immense powers.

    • @chloe-t8b4u
      @chloe-t8b4u 8 дней назад

      I just sought him up online thanks to your helpful information. remarkable
      I just checked Father Obah Eze online, and he's really genuine. Thank you again ❤

  • @Bethelhorses
    @Bethelhorses 11 дней назад +6

    When you said "I heard this drop in my spirit".... that perfectly discribes many experiences I have had when it's like... something just speaks to my spirit! the other night it was just one word. "Redeemed" I had been feeling so guilty about so many of my past wrongs and hating myself for them.... and it was like this one word was God saying "don't grieve over all that, I have redeemed you"

  • @josephaddition
    @josephaddition 14 дней назад +7

    Hallelujah 🙌 thank You Lord 🙏

  • @ReaganJohn-s5x
    @ReaganJohn-s5x 14 дней назад +24

    My GOD* My Salvation* My Redeemer* 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

  • @ReConstructed37
    @ReConstructed37 9 дней назад +2

    Hand clap 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 this message is liberating! My husband needs deliverance

  • @maxwell-cole
    @maxwell-cole 9 дней назад +1

    This is one of my favorites. Absolutely divine. 🙏🏽 Thanks Kris.

  • @DeniseRobinson-d6m
    @DeniseRobinson-d6m 13 дней назад +3

    When I got hurt badly by my Narc family, I punished myself, and was miserable! But now I just leave it, because no matter what I'd do or say, they would not relent, So!! I am waiting on God to vindicate me in His time, I still struggle with anger and bad emotions I know I am not alone, I have friends out there in the same boat!! Walk on Water folks! We! Will Win in the End!! Thank God xxxx

  • @AlfredaJones-ei2bs
    @AlfredaJones-ei2bs 14 дней назад +38

    For the lady that her husband for 38 years of marriage and stole her life saving you will get it all back God will give it all back and more keep the faith he is a marvelous God Amen 🙏🙏🙏.

    • @calabriagirl4202
      @calabriagirl4202 14 дней назад +1

      🙏♥️

    • @DJH97
      @DJH97 14 дней назад +3

      My ex narc left me and took our retirement money too. I pray it’s replaced somehow as well. At 64 I have to keep working for years probably.

    • @hibiscus1974
      @hibiscus1974 13 дней назад +1

      @@DJH97me too have to work till i die because of my covert husband

    • @ironlady6897
      @ironlady6897 10 дней назад

      At 55, instead of looking forward to retirement, I had enough,. Left my 18 year misery marriage to a drunken narc, empty handed. It was a rough road, but God took better care of me than the man I had left. Thirteen years later, he passes away, and I find my meager SS increased threefold. A sweet little bit of justice for the hell I'd been through. I thank God for bringing me through to the other side, and the unexpected way things got a little easier for me.

  • @latanyapowell2397
    @latanyapowell2397 11 дней назад +2

    A narcissist will make you jump and scream like a mad person but learn to hold your peace and pray like you never prayed before heaven will fight for you .

  • @sunrisinghot
    @sunrisinghot 14 дней назад +3

    Thank you so much. I really need to hear this right now. I'm recovering.
    Thank you 🥲xx

  • @NellyFavouredButterfly
    @NellyFavouredButterfly 14 дней назад +3

    This was short but sweet. So helpful, thanks Kris❤

  • @tammyshamrock618
    @tammyshamrock618 8 дней назад +1

    Forgiveness and prayer

  • @ayomibh
    @ayomibh 9 дней назад +2

    ...they don't want to be vulnerable enough to ask for what they want but they do feel entitled enough ti have it...
    Thats who a narcissist is 😢
    May God help us to not become narcissistic because of scars and invulnerability in Jesus name Amen 🙏

  • @NarcissistHex-nf9eq
    @NarcissistHex-nf9eq 14 дней назад +13

    Jesus , Saviour of the World … bless & protect us all.

  • @AnnetteMcDonald-i7o
    @AnnetteMcDonald-i7o 14 дней назад +17

    2 years ago I didn't know what narcissist meant other than it was some kind of selfishness! I married a covert narcissist. Demonic personified. Pray 🙏 for me and my children. Please

    • @Merlin0426
      @Merlin0426 13 дней назад +2

      Me too, except 3 years ago.

    • @sophiachin1262
      @sophiachin1262 12 дней назад

      Leave now its early yes 2 years me too but enough is enough. That time was a good minimum....stand in the Lord and see His salvation. Leave him in God's strength. Move out of town or even the country and start a new life. Pray for healing and for your true destiny husband never stop until your with your proper ordained spouse. LOOK if someone really loves you even a worldly man he go show you. They showed hatred and harm because that's what they really feel about us. It's a demonized person. They are not 💯

    • @carmelodieli1587
      @carmelodieli1587 12 дней назад

      🙏🏻❤️

  • @fireupyourheartfortruth
    @fireupyourheartfortruth 13 дней назад +2

    Thank you for this lesson from The Bible, Praise Jesus!❤🎉❤😊

  • @peacefulone4461
    @peacefulone4461 14 дней назад +15

    Today's felt like crushing. It's been different, more intense & coming from multiple directions. Kris, it's definitely warfare. Thank you so much for this video

  • @A.Varsakelis
    @A.Varsakelis 13 дней назад +1

    Thank you so much for these videos. You have helped me to understand what I was in. God bless you.

  • @marcialdeleongonzalez9604
    @marcialdeleongonzalez9604 10 дней назад +1

    AMEN THANK YOU LORD ❤🙏

  • @lindahall582
    @lindahall582 2 дня назад

    I thank God i found your channel. I have a narcissistic family member. I cannot simply walk away, no matter how much i wish I could. Thanks to your teachings, I can better manage the situation. Thank you so very, very much. I needed to hear this, and I am writing diwn a lot if what you said in this video to carry with me. God bless you, Kris.

  • @PatriciaMcCormack-w9q
    @PatriciaMcCormack-w9q 14 дней назад +2

    It’s our 3 grandchildren whom I feel so heartbroken for. 8 years now since their mother used them to hurt us to get revenge. My Catholic faith has kept me stable with such nastiness.

  • @angieRN73
    @angieRN73 14 дней назад +5

    Amen 🙏 thank you Kris! It's been intense! 3:49

  • @Cowboy19735
    @Cowboy19735 10 дней назад +3

    I DONT WANT Revenge, just want God's Fair Justice!

  • @GODISANARCISSIST
    @GODISANARCISSIST 9 дней назад

    forgiving and than forgetting that person!!! forgiveness does not mean reconcilie

  • @renamaemcdonald2075
    @renamaemcdonald2075 12 дней назад +2

    Love this! Rick Renner wrote a detailed book about these verses of scripture too. It's a good read, titled "Dressed To Kill".

  • @nbf_279
    @nbf_279 9 дней назад +2

    god bless u kris. praise god

  • @amars3513
    @amars3513 13 дней назад +3

    God bless you Kris and your ministry.

  • @tzofiadambrosie867
    @tzofiadambrosie867 14 дней назад +7

    Amen. So good ❤

  • @Mrs_Chiques
    @Mrs_Chiques 12 дней назад

    I really appreciate these videos as they offer such practical advice, and I also found this encouraging.

  • @DJH97
    @DJH97 13 дней назад +1

    I don’t try to interpret peoples’ words differently than what was said. Learned that the hard way.

  • @SunShineLady-d4r
    @SunShineLady-d4r 8 дней назад

    I forgive them and ask God to bless them 🙏