Does ADHD Mean We're "Better Off Single"? | The Lone Wolf Illusion
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- Опубликовано: 10 фев 2025
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In this video, I am going to talk about...
ADHD relationship problems
Why we can think that ADHD means we should be single forever
What is The Lone Wolf Illusion
How can we revitalize ADHD relationships?
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00:00 - Introduction
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- Chris
Chris this video is amazing! and I love the new backdrop btw. I used to think that my ADHD + anxiety was the cause of problems in my relationship and there wasnt a lot I could really do about but accept it, just get stronger alone - lone wolf illusion. But I was wrong! Not only could I own my anxiety and ADHD, but I could own my relationship too. Problem wasn't my ADHD, but my limiting beliefs, unhelpful mindsets, and lack of knowledge on what do actually do about it.
Thanks so much man!!
And yeah, 100% it's all about how your mindset is, for sure. So much can change once you start seeing and doing things differently, and it has a huge impact. I've seen change in you since I've known you too! It's awesome
When the whole internet tells you that ADHD’ers are better off single, this is a wonderful positive take!! Thanks for this…
💛🎉 thanks for stopping by!
Love this! Thanks!🎶🌟
Thanks so much Jess!
@@BeUltranormalWell handled earlier. 👏👏
Thank you :)
After a bad relationship I fell for the lone wolf illusion, focused soley on my career, then became rich and my best self.
Money is great, celebrate that. I'll always believe in the ability to grow more, though. Each to their own though.
Ahahah excellent 👌
Let a woman marry you and take half of your wealth as alimony please
You are a genius!
Ha! I've been called worse things in my life
@@BeUltranormal those are just losers, because you are smart and successful.
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But I see so many people getting into relationships because they think they're expected to. That they'll be lonely. There's a massive difference between single and alone. After years of housesharing I couldn't bear sharing a space full time again. I love being around people, but there are limits. I haven't ruled out relationships, but I'm not actively pursuing one. I don't feel I'm missing out in the least. It's easy enough to hook up for sex, if that's how I feel. It's such an individual and personal thing. That could change tomorrow, and that's fine too. For me it's about having choices. I don't have that lone wolf, I'm strong enough to go it alone mentality. Interaction is everything for an old show off like me.
I agree! The members and I talk about what type of goals for ourselves are healthy, and it's important to dig deep and think about where it comes from. If you get into a relationship because you think that you *should* then it's always going to be a lot weaker as a result.
Slamming yourself to one side (i.e. "I should never be in a relationship" or "I should only be in this relationship, no matter what") is usually as a result of "shoulding". And I think that believing that ADHD means we should be single forever is an overcorrection in that case.
Be strong enough to go it alone, be strong enough to go it with someone else. Both require work, you just have to choose which work you put in! :)
That music in the background is so distracting and loud
Apologies for that! I've been working on lowering it on future videos, let me know if it's a little better!
Meh, spend enough time alone you stop needing other people.
Like I said in the video, there's no reality where we can exist without other people, let alone a reality where we can succeed without other people. If you're willing to put in the work to create great relationships then you can get the benefits that a partnership brings, this is why all of the truly successful people develop really high standards of soft skills.
But it's each to their own, I guess.