As an INTP woman, I get along great with INFJ women, but with INFJ males, they tend to look at me with fear and are uncomfortable around me. What is also very interesting is that my INFJ friend is married to an INTP male, she absolutely worships him and their marriage has been a great success for almost 20 years. Now my partner is an INTJ, and one of the few people that either didn’t regarded me with fear, or discomfort.
I, as an INFJ M, will never feel uncomfortable as long as you are comfortable around me - no matter what's your type is. I don't get it - why would an INFJ M look at an INTP F with fear and discomfort?
@@aladdout9454As an infj female in love with an intp guy (but it's not reciprocated), I can attest to how very possible that is. Meeting him was one of the best experiences I've had, did not really imagine I could like someone so much so fast, and he's an intp for sure.
Thank you so much. I think this relationship is both very complimentary and always fresh for both ones. Based on what yoy say, it's like entering the funnel through the narrow end. All the challenge is at the beginning, and then you'll continually see positive cooperative outcomes. I think it's really ideal for me as a male INFJ who cares mostly about where the relationship leads, and the direction it tends to go naturally. No matter how difficult that is to start, one can carve the way through to start an amazing journey…
Oh that's really interesting how the Natural Pair works 🤔 Thank you very much for the explanation and clarification. And thank the person who asked the question too 👍🏼
Infj man here..I appreciate your take on me. Too many videos simply glorify infj's but we are nowhere near perfect. Puppies and rainbows do not shoot out of my ass!
Very true. I noticed even in a nonsexual way, my ESTJ supervisor would noticably avoid me. It was a weird Fi-Ti loop I could tell. He was a cool dude though when not working otherwise was zero fun haha. Good episode. Thanks Chase!
Not. Great friends though.. but a lot like the ESTJ, except the inferiors are intimidated the Heros. Plus, ISFJ can be vindictive, and INFJ too forgiving, eventually INFJ is a doormat and the ISFJ has lost respect for the INFJ
I would really love your output on ENTP relation to drug use. I have religious ENFJ and ESTJ parents. I feel like I have this heavy lifting I have to do both from a moral standpoint to not disappoint my ENFJ father and need to be constantly on the move to satisfy my ESTJ mother. My coping mechanism was to be rebellious since I was young but it gotten me nowhere with them and I feel like I can't even mention this to anyone since it's a muslim country so the only thing that ever truly helped was drug usage I tried to be discreet but after couple years they caught up to me and now im I feel stuck between feeling the pain of disappointing them and keep taking nonetheless or just give in to the pressure and with the rate of the usual unbearable day to day stress I just feel like i might do smth dumb at one point in the future. This is my first time ever typing or saying this outloud other than to the psychiatrists here but they're religious and mostly traditional where saying shit like this has always been counterproductive. The reason I'm saying this here after binging your videos i feel understood after watching bits where u talk on ur background. At this point I'm just ranting in a yt comment haha its funny this somehow feels like the best option i have. Much love to you and so proud of where you got through the midst of it all.
There's a Korean dating show called Blossom with love and the main couple is an INFP girl and an INFJ male and omg they just be giving u the butterflies throughout the program lol
In my experience, the entp male always seeks recognition, or validation from the INFJ who generally likes the ENTP but they seem to take themselves way too seriously. I love ENTPs, so entertaining to watch, and satisfying to debate with. Very masculine as well, unlike the INFJ males who can embrace their masculinity, but are more in touch with their femininity.
hey joseph, i'm unable to enjoy your content if you upload hdr 60fps videos, outside of usa internet connection is not the best especially using cellular data
Arent golden pairs more difficult to get into? Although It makes sense that bronze pair would be more difficult due to high friction when one is strong where other is weak. However, an argument to the contrary would be that because golden pairs are naturally bad in the lower functions that are compatible with each other, so if the people arent developed, they completely lack the lower functions which make the relationship impossible. So I'm not sure how to see it. I think golden pairs demand the most developed partners to work out. So it's golden but demands a lot of work, u can't win the prize just like that afterall.
bruh if only this was estj male and infj female. that’s the one i need 😫
whyyyyy
As an INTP woman, I get along great with INFJ women, but with INFJ males, they tend to look at me with fear and are uncomfortable around me. What is also very interesting is that my INFJ friend is married to an INTP male, she absolutely worships him and their marriage has been a great success for almost 20 years. Now my partner is an INTJ, and one of the few people that either didn’t regarded me with fear, or discomfort.
The infj woman "worships" the intp guy?? are you sure he's intp?
@@aladdout9454 I also doubt he's an intp
Hmm.. Interesting.
I, as an INFJ M, will never feel uncomfortable as long as you are comfortable around me - no matter what's your type is. I don't get it - why would an INFJ M look at an INTP F with fear and discomfort?
@@aladdout9454As an infj female in love with an intp guy (but it's not reciprocated), I can attest to how very possible that is. Meeting him was one of the best experiences I've had, did not really imagine I could like someone so much so fast, and he's an intp for sure.
Thank you so much. I think this relationship is both very complimentary and always fresh for both ones. Based on what yoy say, it's like entering the funnel through the narrow end. All the challenge is at the beginning, and then you'll continually see positive cooperative outcomes. I think it's really ideal for me as a male INFJ who cares mostly about where the relationship leads, and the direction it tends to go naturally. No matter how difficult that is to start, one can carve the way through to start an amazing journey…
well from ISTJ perspective i am just intimidated by all Ni users. 😔 I am just afraid i will be unwanted all the time, makes me stuck in a rut.
Oh that's really interesting how the Natural Pair works 🤔 Thank you very much for the explanation and clarification. And thank the person who asked the question too 👍🏼
The video quality is impressive🎉 great experience
Infj man here..I appreciate your take on me. Too many videos simply glorify infj's but we are nowhere near perfect. Puppies and rainbows do not shoot out of my ass!
What about estj man infj women ????
Very true. I noticed even in a nonsexual way, my ESTJ supervisor would noticably avoid me. It was a weird Fi-Ti loop I could tell. He was a cool dude though when not working otherwise was zero fun haha. Good episode. Thanks Chase!
Somehow every ESTJ that speaks in my presence sounds like music. They talk incessantly, but I'm always fascinated just listening to that Te hero lol
Every ESTJs presence repulse me. I avoid them like a plague.
My guess is you're an ENFP?
No and like when they start opening up about their feelings they do it in such special and specific ways they're soo atractive
I'd like to know how compatible INFJ and ISFJ are long term.
Not. Great friends though.. but a lot like the ESTJ, except the inferiors are intimidated the Heros. Plus, ISFJ can be vindictive, and INFJ too forgiving, eventually INFJ is a doormat and the ISFJ has lost respect for the INFJ
There's a lot of conflict with both parties Ti and Fi
Hard to maintain
It's compatible type just not the highest one.
But certainly it's not conflict type.
What about an entp male infj male 😮
Thanks for the golden nuggets CSJ❤
I would really love your output on ENTP relation to drug use. I have religious ENFJ and ESTJ parents. I feel like I have this heavy lifting I have to do both from a moral standpoint to not disappoint my ENFJ father and need to be constantly on the move to satisfy my ESTJ mother. My coping mechanism was to be rebellious since I was young but it gotten me nowhere with them and I feel like I can't even mention this to anyone since it's a muslim country so the only thing that ever truly helped was drug usage I tried to be discreet but after couple years they caught up to me and now im I feel stuck between feeling the pain of disappointing them and keep taking nonetheless or just give in to the pressure and with the rate of the usual unbearable day to day stress I just feel like i might do smth dumb at one point in the future. This is my first time ever typing or saying this outloud other than to the psychiatrists here but they're religious and mostly traditional where saying shit like this has always been counterproductive. The reason I'm saying this here after binging your videos i feel understood after watching bits where u talk on ur background. At this point I'm just ranting in a yt comment haha its funny this somehow feels like the best option i have. Much love to you and so proud of where you got through the midst of it all.
Coping
What about the infj male and infp female?
PewDiePie and marzia lol
Great sex (best I've ever had) but INFP females have a hard time being present and exchanging quality mental stimulation.
its great, based on mutual respect, silver pair. One of the more lasting ones.
There's a Korean dating show called Blossom with love and the main couple is an INFP girl and an INFJ male and omg they just be giving u the butterflies throughout the program lol
@@koski3141 but, pewdiepie is an istj marzia is an infp
Do infj male and istj female have similar dynamics?
Or is it worse?
In my experience, the entp male always seeks recognition, or validation from the INFJ who generally likes the ENTP but they seem to take themselves way too seriously. I love ENTPs, so entertaining to watch, and satisfying to debate with. Very masculine as well, unlike the INFJ males who can embrace their masculinity, but are more in touch with their femininity.
Maybe externally. Internally, INFJ men are usually more masculine. Of course, cognitive focus matters too.
But this video is about INFJ w/ ESTJ, not ENTP 🤔
Entp men are feminine
I need estj make and infj female
INFJ male, ENFP female. Completely smothering me to the point I'm suffocated. What a disaster with these unhealthy people
True
hey joseph, i'm unable to enjoy your content if you upload hdr 60fps videos, outside of usa internet connection is not the best especially using cellular data
Arent golden pairs more difficult to get into? Although It makes sense that bronze pair would be more difficult due to high friction when one is strong where other is weak. However, an argument to the contrary would be that because golden pairs are naturally bad in the lower functions that are compatible with each other, so if the people arent developed, they completely lack the lower functions which make the relationship impossible. So I'm not sure how to see it. I think golden pairs demand the most developed partners to work out. So it's golden but demands a lot of work, u can't win the prize just like that afterall.
Dear INFJs,
Please stay away from ESTJs. Date any other 15 types, but not an ESTJ. If necessary, remain single, but don't date an ESTJ.
lmaoo why
Do not project your failed relationships in other people.
Why? Was he a narcissist?
It's not fair that u focused this video only in ESTJs females and INFJs males, what about the other way around? 😑