or, it is just men’s projection onto women as to how they would go about had their sexual strategy been to select the best woman possible. weird how it was invented by men not taking any inputs from the subset they seek to describe,but from the subset that “allegedly” gets impacted by hypergamy
Yea it's like those who doesn't agree with the current corporate greed stuff, and then creates this idea of bringing down the whole capitalism system and how communism is better when it is proven not to, rather than trying to fix it back to the healthy capitalism it used to be
I have noticed that ISTP men assume that men and women think the same. They make it through my initial screening process (views on religion, politics, finances, what kind of life they want) and then they are ready to dive right into a relationship. When I explain I'm going to need time to form some kind of emotional connection, or that I have a need for certain kinds of conversations, they can't accept that an ISTP and an INTP aren't compatible. Instead they accuse me of having impossible standards and of having decided I wasn't into them from the first meeting. (I would never intentionally try to date an ISTP but a lot of them mistype as INTP on the apps. lol)
@@nataliachristiani3630 Is it delusional when it happens across the board with ISTPs? Every type has blind spots...but yeah it makes me afraid of them. But I feel so sorry for them because I recognize their Ti. I read somewhere that ISTPs and INTPs have the least amount of coping resources available to them. So there is a kindredness I feel toward them and I wish I could help.
As an istp I take things super slow. And if anyone tries to rush a relationship I rush out of it. There's also a crazy part of me though that likes to tease and tempt to see what the other person will do. So...
They think that "good morning beautiful" is charming, before you even know each other. So gross. I wish I could be with one because I know I need someone more practical than me...but it just can't happen LOL
to "act charming" sounds so fake. we aint fake. we actually are very sweet people when we are comfortable.. we just are charming i guess. i dont like that word tho
Satisfy his needs, always follow the society's rule/norm, express your feeling, ask them any favor, tell him what your desire, and listen to him while he's giving advice.
Bias on the hypergamy part. You really don't need your own place to be attractive. It's about your internal guts. Hypergamy is a feeling
Exactly, If a woman finds you sexually desirable enough they'll screw you anywhere. It's about self respect, attractiveness and character.
or, it is just men’s projection onto women as to how they would go about had their sexual strategy been to select the best woman possible. weird how it was invented by men not taking any inputs from the subset they seek to describe,but from the subset that “allegedly” gets impacted by hypergamy
Yea it's like those who doesn't agree with the current corporate greed stuff, and then creates this idea of bringing down the whole capitalism system and how communism is better when it is proven not to, rather than trying to fix it back to the healthy capitalism it used to be
@@rinbaeethere’s all of human history to use as input
Hypergamy is a feeling. 100%
I have noticed that ISTP men assume that men and women think the same. They make it through my initial screening process (views on religion, politics, finances, what kind of life they want) and then they are ready to dive right into a relationship. When I explain I'm going to need time to form some kind of emotional connection, or that I have a need for certain kinds of conversations, they can't accept that an ISTP and an INTP aren't compatible. Instead they accuse me of having impossible standards and of having decided I wasn't into them from the first meeting. (I would never intentionally try to date an ISTP but a lot of them mistype as INTP on the apps. lol)
Sounds to me that he is delusional
@@nataliachristiani3630 Is it delusional when it happens across the board with ISTPs? Every type has blind spots...but yeah it makes me afraid of them. But I feel so sorry for them because I recognize their Ti. I read somewhere that ISTPs and INTPs have the least amount of coping resources available to them. So there is a kindredness I feel toward them and I wish I could help.
true i don't like istp men as istp woman
As an istp I take things super slow. And if anyone tries to rush a relationship I rush out of it. There's also a crazy part of me though that likes to tease and tempt to see what the other person will do. So...
They think that "good morning beautiful" is charming, before you even know each other. So gross. I wish I could be with one because I know I need someone more practical than me...but it just can't happen LOL
to "act charming" sounds so fake. we aint fake. we actually are very sweet people when we are comfortable.. we just are charming i guess. i dont like that word tho
Charm school? Lol, teasing, Hi CS! Andi
Anyone know how to make an esfj man fall in love with me? Any advice is welcome.
Satisfy his needs, always follow the society's rule/norm, express your feeling, ask them any favor, tell him what your desire, and listen to him while he's giving advice.
And communicate all the time
@@honor9lite1337Thank You!
Don't
Will an esfj and an istp make a good couple?
Yes
Yes and that's actually a pretty common couple configuration...
Pedagogue, or 2nd golden pair. Yes
@@chriskozak7356why lol why second golden pair?
@aladdout9454 its like your top pair except there's no emotional compatibility. Which means it is a little less compatible.