How Men Behave When You Stop Caring
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When people are healed there’s no games to be played because each one will want pure love…
This💯
THIS
True. What he describes is the typical anxious-avoidant toxic relationship cycle and it never ends well.
Period. Those games are exhausting.
The average woman won't stop caring for no reason so if we stop caring, just know the man has a pattern of behaviors that's unacceptable and we're forced to move on. With that said ladies, know your worth and reinforce boundaries when necessary.
So crazy how if I like a dude and really try then he ghosts me but as soon as I ignore a man, they come chasing me.
Yup. I feel that sometimes men treat women the way women should treat them. When they are being negligent, selfish and indifferent, we often try harder. But we should treat them accordingly.
If I had a dollar for everytime a dude begged for my attention and then when I finally give it to them, they like nevermind,🤷♂️👻 I'd be rich.
I mean there’s so many men that are like this .. are all their mothers friends or what ? Lol how can there be so many men who are like this in every state and country it’s just crazy to me. You have your woman you don’t want her she is gone now you want her
Ego boost i guess, i know a guy like this to 🤦♀️@ashleygarza2028
Its a spiritual pandemic indicative of the last days. Read 2Timothy 3 in the Bible. In addition, the devil is attacking men making them utter misogynists. He's also attacking the women riddling them with anxiety & fear of singleness. Pray and learn what's the real culprit. Enmity between God and Satan.
The more you care for yourself the more attractive you are perceived by others. Men like to work, give them something to do and just keep validating yourself by self respect and protecting your energy.
This!!! Take that energy and give it to yourself. Care about yourself! And then care about those who consistently show you care.
I stopped caring and made myself the main character , been liberated ever since
❤
I heard a Doctor say that a healthy relationship will be “boring”. Unhealthy ones are up and down, hot and cold. Approach and avoidance. The cycle repeats itself over and over until you are a shell of a human being. You need to have standards and boundaries. You need to celebrate your life, regardless if you are with or without someone. That’s essential. ☝️✨
I just had to put boundaries on someone.
@@Yahshija good for you. I know it’s very hard. They may try to Hoover you, though. Be good to yourself. You have one life. It’s too short to waste it on dysfunctional people. Be safe✌️✨
@@lissettehurtadoschoel7573 probably not.
I really like this!
Very true. And that's usually due to both people trigging each other. Which, actually means that there are unresolved issue's going on with both individuals.
They don’t want you until your gone
Don't go back
@@dialukando8605 ‼️
@@dialukando8605 I never spent the block never will no ma’am
Hell they don’t even want me once I’m gone 🫤
Detachment is a superpower 😁
That is true that when you don’t care, they desire you more.
No it's not true. In most cases, the man is relieved.
@@hennesseyme9112it’s true. Unless they are antisocial
@@cheekytitaable I find being ignored sometimes as a relief. It's usually if the person goes overboard.
@@hennesseyme9112 maybe you’re avoidant? Define overboard?
Spot on! I will walk away every time. It will hurt like a mf I will cry but I will walk away regardless because I rather be respected than someone who is desperate for an outcome with someone who doesn't want me.
💯💯💯💯
I strongly agree. Kind of what I'm dealing with right now
Me too😢@@90ejb
Im dealing with this right now,,, time wasted money wasted energy… I will try and be strong and get through this!
This!!!!
Even the bible says to "guard your heart with all due diligence. For out of it flows the issues of life"
Thank you for reminding me of this. I needed to hear that.
The BUY-BULL, ha. Even busted clocks are correct at least twice a day 😂
@@peppermintpsaki1157 be respectful or just dont comment???? geez theres always someone like u lmao
If they don’t care they don’t care what You do
This will only work as Alex says if they are into You
Alex is exactly right
Most will take advantage of Your affections
He might milk it for as long as He can
And as soon as You ask for more ( normal healthy needs)
They will bail
Guard Your Heart
That’s how it is. When u genuinely don’t give af they start circling the block never fails😂
I'm almost 60. Why are we still acting like immature teenagers? Frustrating!
It only works if they are into you. I just realized these men that liked me before stopped liking me :’(
They never liked you, u just stopped pursuing them
Mary J. Blige summed this topic up perfectly 👌🏾…
You turned ya back and back I came runnin'
But the simple fact is that you ain't want me
Done enough lyin' and cryin' to myself
Nothin' left to do but move
What else can I do but leave?
I believed you would marry me
But now I gotta breeze, I be's with LT
When you come to ya senses
But then it's too late
That's always how it be
Catch me with the B's
On the wheels Giuseppe on the heels
Shoulda Marc Jacob, Fe Fe bag me
When you had me, next dude will gladly
Pick up where you left off
Ice me, wife me, you ain't gon' have me
Cryin', cryin', cryin'
Same old 😌 focus on your own self
It’s really about letting the expectations go, and focus on how you feel.
Avoiding negative self talk about yourself, or feeling unworthy.
Listening more, talking less, observing more and accepting what they are willing to give in the sense of love, support, attention, attentiveness.
I agree in some cases it’s time to move on, but we tend to re create the same circumstances in other relationships based on how we attract and what we feel about ourselves.
It’s possible to attract someone who doesn’t play games, and one who isn’t moved by competition but appreciates the goodness of someone.
on day 4 of no contact because of this…not ignoring so we can be together just working on genuinely deattaching.
Welp, sorry to say: if you’re counting the days, you’re nowhere near ready. And no, I’m not judging, I’ve been where you are 😕
@@peppermintpsaki1157 nowhere near ready for what? 😂
@@Tatiana-oz2fn id ignore them, theyve been leaving passive aggressive comments lol
Crazy how this video just dropped into my lap… wow. Thank you brother
yeh if they dont notice you stopped caring - it just aint worth putting in the effort anymore!! gotta let em go
This video is the reason i rather be single. I don't have time for the games.
They start doing all the things you asked them to do. It’s still a no. Kiss 💋 my whole 🍑 . 😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂🎯
This happens in friendships too! 😂
Alex you are right.
You are very smart. Whether people want to accept what you are saying or not, there’s a lot of truth to what you are saying. I run my business with this mentality, too. Things have gotten so much better because of this attitude. Less friction for me. I have peace of mind. Finally. When I cared, life was a disaster. Now that I don’t, I’m happier.
The one that shows the least interest is the one in control
Taking outright steps and knowing you count only on yourself helps to shift energy, as if transcendentally.
This is SUPER in point and tbh, has been my superpower without me even knowing it, until recently.
I know the universe gifted me with this power because of the narcissistic abuse I have endured in my very young 30 years.
Now I am intentional with my energy and my time so I don't have to experience unnecessary toxic exchanges.
Thank you for this video dude 😊❤
I can totally relate to you!!
This is true. It’s amazing what detachment does!! Like magic. I like your new studio. Love the background
as a man its the opposite if a woman ignores me I'll just go about my day. spiritually evolved people don't have time for mindgames.
My man breath won’t stink he will be godly and have a neat appearance and he won’t be jealous of people from his past
Alex, you're really great at this ❤❤❤
This is true and it just means we never get to be happy in a relationship 😢
Honestly I consider all these advices only for situations when we have to deal with avoidant people. We have to learn and evolve until we start attracting secure ones so you don’t have to calculate all the time.
No. Not true. You just have to understand human nature & how we all desperately need the Lord to help in the walk of life.
@@danilaroche1156 speak for yourself
He’s trying to help you navigate around the wounded people and the traps they put out. If that’s all you want to see, that’s what you’ll get, and maybe that speaks to your own wounding that you should take care of first, BEFORE thinking about relationships. If you don’t, eventually you could become one of those very types Alex is warning others about, those types who pay their trauma forward with manipulation, traps and tricks.
@@peppermintpsaki1157 maybe you should stop looking into it so much
Having watched you for some time & found a clarity & profoundness in your words, a freshness in your delivery & shared laughter in ‘Melissa’……
this Video felt very Special…….including it’s synchronicity!! Bless You 🙏🏻🪔
Yes true! dealing with somebody who’s easy. Not the one having you wondering what’s what. Inconsistent, ghosting etc just too much a waste of time. Hurt, heal and move on ❤
I just gotta say you are incredibly intelligent mentally, spiritually, and emotionally and incredible woke like wow thank you for what u share with us
I’m only 6 mins in and you’ve said a mouth full already 🙏🏾 Thank You Brother 🤍
I really loved this video. So helpful. I needed this.
Thank you for this confirmation alex you explained this so well
True True True True 😉 greetings from Amsterdam 😊
You should never stop caring about the mother or father of your children! You should always uplift them!❤
The painting behind you looks soooo intriguing, bringing so much more dimension to the enterier, and even like shiftng what you talk about . Did you paint that? Hope you'd bring it more in center focus so that we could see it better. Love your content, you're a true saviour.
Ok, we all been there,playing games..and after that play with emotions trust is lost-game over-relationship is over
Dude I really appreciate your videos and this one was like going to church and having the sermon be just for me. This is literally happening to me...but this person is awesome the only thing is I will have to put them in a different position in my life. A position where some privileges are not going to be present. Its a good thing for me and for them...ultimately its on me and I have to be responsible for my own guardianship.
Alex, i’ve always seen you talking about people that are in talking stages or dating. Could you please do videos on how to act, as a woman, when you’re married?. There’s a lot of us out here! Please and thank you🩷
This is a really toxic dynamic.
This is a game that is exhausting. If they act like this they dont deserve me. I'm walking away. I need a man that is actually grown and in higher vibration. I definitely dont have the space to carry them to higher energetic level.
So many have no self worth south node and when the inner work is done 144K North node ☯️ no longer concern if the other stay or goes at this point. ❤ Divine Truth 🙏🏽
❤ PREACH REVEREND ALEX!!!!!!!😊 AMEN!!!!!❤
This should be applied to all relationships
❤ Beautiful. Thank you for sharing, you’re definitely someone to be celebrated 👏
My dog definitely gives me the side eye when I piss her off
Well said! You're a frkn genius!!!!
I'm subscribing to you for sure. I loved the talk and I love your style!
This video came right on time ❤ thanks
mmmm yesss! So difficult to do with someone you like.
It only make sense 🙏🏽
I just found your channel recently, your content helps A LOT.
Very good insight. Thank you.
What you said about romanticism 4:20 is interesting and it shows how different people are. Some people are naturally romantic whether in a relationship or not. Being giving, affectionate and loving ISN’T a chore to them but rather pleasure. Seems like only an avoidant/emotionally unavailable person would view such displays as a chore.
All I could think while listening to your intricate mind is “damn that’s a banger ! 🤯
Your words. Powerful. 🙏🏻
Very astute young man.
Blowing up a man phone while u in jail just to ignore ur kids says alot about you
Amazing advise, thank you.
I really needed to hear this.
Father Alex knows and understands there are so MANY ways that people are manipulating each other through toxic behaviours…
And this my friends is why he will always have clients and always have videos to make, because negative Nancy here, but things are only going to get worse…
Now instead of wallowing in the above 👆 comment. Just take comfort in the fact you always have control over yourself and not others ❤
Sounds like a description of awakening to a narcissist's deceptive ways
Guys we need God! Please seek God & develop a relationship with God!God will never do you 💖!
Just talking about these childish games got m tired muchless playing them😂😂😂😂
How to be toxic in a toxic relationship 101
Wow I’m going thru this rn wow
I love this video Alex.... Great Job explaining this subject!!! 🎉
GREAT VIDEO! I needed to hear this today. ❤
Wow this video is so enlightening!
Wonderful video!
Straight Facts🙏🏾
But who wants who you don’t care about? Makes no sense.
U can want someone or love them so much but at some point u start remembering hold up I love me tho and then u can show u stop caring even though u kind of do care BUT u need to see do they actually care about u and that they see what's going on and they don't want to lose u because u not showing that much care...I dont know if u get it...if u ever been in a long relationship u would get it so I don't know...
You care but you make nothing or noone your idol. Even Jesus espoused this concept.
I know what you mean healthy detachment
Very sad way to enter into a relationship...truth and honesty...should be paramount.
It should not be about leveraging, gambling on this is a game.
It is a description of games toxic people play.
U r a genius
How remixed our outfits
Hey Alex!
Father Alex, I got nothing but love for ya, baby! 🫶🏾
Great grammar, gorgeous!
@@user-qs2vt4ty1z lol I said it like that because it’s a song. I’m not sure who used to sing it. I think it was Heavy D. Cheers🥂to your pettiness.
Love your content
Thanks!
This happens to me all the time for example I have above average reflexes sometimes I'm catching something mid air before I even realize it's falling.
Is it weird that he cares only when I care?
I think Alex is talking more about the beginning of a relationship. Not if it’s a longer more established relationship. So, I guess it depends at what stage you’re on.
The best video 👏🏻
Brilliant
I love your work ❤️ wow
Yes indeed❤
My catman is all the man that I need
Great Video👌👍🙏
...thnx ...like forreal
self love resolve all of this not meditation
We exposed her but she still running them lies
Can we talk more about situations with people who are still living together, but broken up? It’s been this way for a year. We’ve been broken up for a year and still live together do to both of us moving to a different state together with no family. What are some suggestions since there is no time away from one another?
You can't find a roommate after a year girl?
emotions always dampen down after few months though.. yup guys love it when they know you care so much
I’m just tired of the games. This is that toxic shit.
Not all men are the same
I love you ❤
Great video. New Subby
Do you already know Melissa and Tyron😂?