“Trading your self esteem for scraps of validation”…🤯 I was there once, it’s a dark place to be, don’t go there ladies it’s just not worth it. Thanks Alex 👌
1. understand them 2. boundaries, only be with them if they respect u & like u too 3. no emotions 4. mirror & reflect them to make them open up to u. when u resist & try to prove them wrong u'll make enemies. flatter them & u'll have better time 5. scarcity = value. goog looks, skills, dont do what majority do, be unique, bold, experiment, go opposite direction 6. represent great cause
The thing is be authentic,be yourself hve standards and boundaries no one breaks,let your intuitions lead you, love being alone,dress well, work hard,that's the secret of a healthy life
Love this. Playing aloof is one thing - but having the confidence in myself and my value to set boundaries of how I want to be treated and communicated with, to get the person I really want, Is another thing entirely.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
Hey. I know it's tough and painful but the moment ur partner left you, please choose yourself. I'm in the same situation as you. But they need to value us too.
There are a few things in your paragraph. Firstly, you’ve spent 5 years of your life with this person. So naturally it is like weaning of a drug for you, especially because you love her so much. I do not know the details of your situation, but you have to understand that your other half has WILLINGLY made the decision that her life is better off without you. You have to be hard with your self a bit here. Feel it out… sadly 1 month is nothing compared with 5 years, so brave for more months of feeling down. BUT You have to accept it and be ruthless with your emotions after you’re done feeling it out. And to it sooner than later. Don’t let your self sulk too long. At the end of the day, life is truly too short my friend.. regards to you❤ to better days❤ and you’ve got this😊
Y’all don’t realize these 2 scammers talkin bout 5 years and the spiritual advisor have been posting the exact same comments on these type of RUclips channels for yeaarrrssss…finna report these b!tches/bots
Alex - can we truly “make” someone value us tho? I find men either value a woman and invests from the beginning or he feels lukewarm and will search for others while he has you in limbo .
I really love your content and people will always have something to say. Keep doing what your doing Father Alex❤ your doing a great job and helping so many people. Thank you!!
I just want to say that. Part about. Dropping into your masculine energy so that. He feels more comfortable that was pure gold!!!! Every time my business partner tells me that he loves me. In my masculine energy and he preferred.! Thank you ❤️
I think you can embrace their culture and still keep your integrity by staying true to your beliefs. It comes with the territory sometimes you just won’t be liked for your beliefs and that’s okay.
Great content. I would listen to others without judgement. People would become fond of me. I stopped because I didnt get it back. I guess the part of me that needed that too took over.
24:42 Ever notice how folks always got a new conviction every five? It’s like opinions, everyone’s got one. But hey, it’s your call if you wanna put it out there ennit Epic Content it's 👑
Diggin’ the raw edge you’re showin’ at the finish, boss. Your stuff’s pure gold lately, no cap. Got me vibin’ with you on a whole new level, just sayin
Hi Alex, I simply love your videos and the way you talk in your own authentic style :) Sounds cute. Could you please give me the reference of the two different voice recording you play in this video..? One is I guess from Robert Greene's The Art of Seduction and the other one is from..?
4:53 is this an audio to listen to every morning?! I used to always listen to this but cant find it anymore, can you please share the link ?? It would be highly appreciated ❤
It's very very ignorant to think that racism and sexism don't exist outside of the criminal justice system. It's even more ignorant to dismiss a social phenomenon simply because you haven't seen it. Based on that logic, anything I haven't seen - but is widely reported everyday - doesn't actually exist.
What about creating pain and stirring the pot of insecurity so you are their source of validation when you choose to do so? How do you balance these things
Everything you said was so on point until you got here… how can you speak on things you haven’t experienced? How can you say racism exist except what you’ve personally experienced? 37:24
Sometimes, in order to avoid negative consequences such as losing your job or being socially rejected, it is necessary to assimilate and refrain from expressing all of our beliefs openly. Showing complete honesty without considering the audience can result in having more enemies than friends. There are certain topics that are better kept to oneself, and it takes wisdom to recognize this. Unless you're willing to share all your beliefs with everyone, it's advisable to be selective in what you disclose.
Alex you havent seen a thought but they exist, so to say you're iffy about most instances of racism because you haven't experienced it, is ignorant! Otherwise, great video.
So you’re just gonna fake your entire personality just to please someone else? If you see yourself with someone isn’t it important to have similar views values and beliefs? You always say to think long term .. I disagree this time
What I'm saying is choose your battles. You don't have to get into a debate on everything you disagree on. If you're at a job and your Republican and everyone is an extreme democrat, I would recommend to act a little bit like a democrat to keep your job and to move up in the ladder. Especially if you don't care about politics. Call that fake if you want. That's on you. If you know you don't care about the topic but they care about it, let them have their day and let them win. It's not the end of the day. We don't have to keep it real all the time. And it's not about faking your personality, I don't know where you heard that
“Trading your self esteem for scraps of validation”…🤯 I was there once, it’s a dark place to be, don’t go there ladies it’s just not worth it. Thanks Alex 👌
That's bc u were most likely dealing with a narcissistic human....
I lived in that dark place for decades. I just got out of it and oh my God there’s power here. And there’s peace.
1. understand them
2. boundaries, only be with them if they respect u & like u too
3. no emotions
4. mirror & reflect them to make them open up to u. when u resist & try to prove them wrong u'll make enemies. flatter them & u'll have better time
5. scarcity = value. goog looks, skills, dont do what majority do, be unique, bold, experiment, go opposite direction
6. represent great cause
The thing is be authentic,be yourself hve standards and boundaries no one breaks,let your intuitions lead you, love being alone,dress well, work hard,that's the secret of a healthy life
"Your boundaries are your immune system." Mic drop, Father Alex! 🎉
Facts !!! It’s so real how this is !! :) 🙏 Amen
Imma write this down and put it on my mirror! ♥️
*The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed.*
I love it! Everything you state on space is 100% true. Let men restore their masculine identity away from you.
Love this. Playing aloof is one thing - but having the confidence in myself and my value to set boundaries of how I want to be treated and communicated with, to get the person I really want,
Is another thing entirely.
My cat is soooo into that stick in your hand 🤣 he’s like ‘where is it now, where’s it gone! Ooh its up, ooh it’s down.’
😂 the wand is back! ❤ Like a boss! I love father Alex! 🎉🎉🎉
I love this guy preaching with a stick in his hand
😂
😂 I also love the stick.. it's so cute and hilarious.. and it actually works
Alex Ive been following you for years and I can see the growth 🙏🏼❤️ i appreciate your work
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counsellor, and how do i reach her?
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive.
Hey. I know it's tough and painful but the moment ur partner left you, please choose yourself. I'm in the same situation as you. But they need to value us too.
There are a few things in your paragraph. Firstly, you’ve spent 5 years of your life with this person. So naturally it is like weaning of a drug for you, especially because you love her so much. I do not know the details of your situation, but you have to understand that your other half has WILLINGLY made the decision that her life is better off without you. You have to be hard with your self a bit here. Feel it out… sadly 1 month is nothing compared with 5 years, so brave for more months of feeling down. BUT You have to accept it and be ruthless with your emotions after you’re done feeling it out. And to it sooner than later. Don’t let your self sulk too long. At the end of the day, life is truly too short my friend..
regards to you❤ to better days❤ and you’ve got this😊
Y’all don’t realize these 2 scammers talkin bout 5 years and the spiritual advisor have been posting the exact same comments on these type of RUclips channels for yeaarrrssss…finna report these b!tches/bots
Alex - can we truly “make” someone value us tho? I find men either value a woman and invests from the beginning or he feels lukewarm and will search for others while he has you in limbo .
Men treat women based on how they feel about themselves. But will manipulate you into thinking you had a part to play in the process.
Being too agreeable is a turnoff though. It has to be balanced so you’re not a pick me girl
At 13:09 absolutely to the point- set boundaries and they’re gone which I see it as a blessing
I love your videos, your vibe and wise words ... Thank you
“If you’re throwing my name to the ground, you’re gonna have to get got.” 😂❤
I really love your content and people will always have something to say. Keep doing what your doing Father Alex❤ your doing a great job and helping so many people. Thank you!!
I just want to say that. Part about. Dropping into your masculine energy so that. He feels more comfortable that was pure gold!!!! Every time my business partner tells me that he loves me. In my masculine energy and he preferred.! Thank you ❤️
I did this subconsciously depending on my situation. Amazing
I think you can embrace their culture and still keep your integrity by staying true to your beliefs. It comes with the territory sometimes you just won’t be liked for your beliefs and that’s okay.
I miss seeing you with that white fluffy microphone you ised to have before 😂 That was legendary!
Father Alex got the magic stick 😊
Great content.
I would listen to others without judgement. People would become fond of me. I stopped because I didnt get it back.
I guess the part of me that needed that too took over.
Thank you father Alex!❤
The stick got me 😂
🤣 That's why I love this channel. "Ima pray to the spaghetti monster". 😂😂
hiiii Dalexis loved your content. Keep going ❤❤
Thank you
I love your videos, Alex!! You're the funniest, hippest dating coach on RUclips. Your advice is effective and I always enjoy listening to you. ❤❤❤
This is what needs to be taught in schools
Love the classical music in background 🙏
Oh and the content amazing too 🙏❤️🙏
By far. This video was a home run. I learned so much. 😊
I spat my cigarette out laughing at ' ugly looking babies' 😂 😂 😂 😂
Fantastic thank you father Alex 👏
"An ugly baby is a very nasty object." -Queen Victoria.
😂 🤭
The stick lol
Dont he love having some kind of stick in his hand, like a baby! 😂😂😂
What about when someone goes from texting you all day and night one day then completely ignoring you the next day 🤷🏻♀️
Just be quiet and listen to what they have to say,next time block
yeah, like someone used to call 3 times a day now they don't call at all
@CCrockergirl stop texting … if he wants to call he will.
He plays unprofessionally😂
Hi Alex your content is amazing!
like every relationship is a game i swear yo.
Changed the game!
Excellent content Alex!!!! ❤
That's a good message 😍 value yourself
24:42 Ever notice how folks always got a new conviction every five? It’s like opinions, everyone’s got one. But hey, it’s your call if you wanna put it out there ennit Epic Content it's 👑
Diggin’ the raw edge you’re showin’ at the finish, boss. Your stuff’s pure gold lately, no cap. Got me vibin’ with you on a whole new level, just sayin
Great video! ❤
Great video. Thanks 🙏🏾
Hi Alex, I simply love your videos and the way you talk in your own authentic style :) Sounds cute.
Could you please give me the reference of the two different voice recording you play in this video..? One is I guess from Robert Greene's The Art of Seduction and the other one is from..?
What’s the audio book your listening too
Great advice❤
Thank you, I really needed to hear this today.
“Im gonna pray to the spaghetti monster” took me out 😂😂😂
You are hilarious and so authentic , I love it ! Haha why do you carry a stick ??
It's a wand bb
He is our father Alex. Check out his older videos. 😅❤
4:53 is this an audio to listen to every morning?! I used to always listen to this but cant find it anymore, can you please share the link ?? It would be highly appreciated ❤
No its not the same one but what’s the name of this author??
I checked your courses and can I just buy the emotional immune one? I don't want the package deals:(
U deserve that many likes always father Alex 😂❤
A little late here! Will watch the again! Thank you for the videos😀
This was a good video.
anyone know where he's getting the recording from in the part discussing self-esteem? 11:44?
Good shiit🙏🏼
28:10 Tyrone 😂😂😂
What is the music in the background
Who is that person talking? In the audio? Is it a book I wanna buy it
It's very very ignorant to think that racism and sexism don't exist outside of the criminal justice system. It's even more ignorant to dismiss a social phenomenon simply because you haven't seen it. Based on that logic, anything I haven't seen - but is widely reported everyday - doesn't actually exist.
Excellent content, but music in background is a
Distraction
What's the book Dalexis?is it in your book club?
What about creating pain and stirring the pot of insecurity so you are their source of validation when you choose to do so? How do you balance these things
I wanna see a whole episode with Tyrone the personal trainer, Melissa, and Bob the builder 😂😂
Hit the like button
I enjoy it so much really Masterpiece
Coupon code not working
Hahaha I’m lucky I’m so pretty
😂
Please remove the background music. super distracting. Thanks for all of the valuable advice
Pls make more like thesee
Everything you said was so on point until you got here… how can you speak on things you haven’t experienced? How can you say racism exist except what you’ve personally experienced? 37:24
What book and author are you referring to?
Alex, you Should do a video on Kristin Cavallari energy
Omg I'm roflmao at " Let a Mfer Breath" so true bruh lol 😅
What is a boundary
Basically expressing yourself openly when something they do annoys you. You are educating them about what you don't tolerate😊
What if it was committed but he got mad bc twice when you were together your ex called and now says he can’t trust you/ got really jealous
Bc why are u keeping that line of communication open ? That mf shoulda been blocked .. I’m with ur guy on this one . He shoulda left .
I wish you would do travel videos.
🎉🎉🎉
Love all this advice❤
❤
Embracing and assimilating are different than believing what they believe as a tactic. That is disingenuous.
Sometimes, in order to avoid negative consequences such as losing your job or being socially rejected, it is necessary to assimilate and refrain from expressing all of our beliefs openly. Showing complete honesty without considering the audience can result in having more enemies than friends. There are certain topics that are better kept to oneself, and it takes wisdom to recognize this. Unless you're willing to share all your beliefs with everyone, it's advisable to be selective in what you disclose.
Like Chappelle said, when keeping it real goes wrong.
Alex you havent seen a thought but they exist, so to say you're iffy about most instances of racism because you haven't experienced it, is ignorant! Otherwise, great video.
Whistling like Bobbb 😅
You are likeable and fun
dont hit me with that stick!
So you’re just gonna fake your entire personality just to please someone else? If you see yourself with someone isn’t it important to have similar views values and beliefs? You always say to think long term .. I disagree this time
What I'm saying is choose your battles. You don't have to get into a debate on everything you disagree on. If you're at a job and your Republican and everyone is an extreme democrat, I would recommend to act a little bit like a democrat to keep your job and to move up in the ladder. Especially if you don't care about politics. Call that fake if you want. That's on you. If you know you don't care about the topic but they care about it, let them have their day and let them win. It's not the end of the day. We don't have to keep it real all the time. And it's not about faking your personality, I don't know where you heard that
You're so freaking cute and smart.
I think you are just awesome 👍☺️
This whole video felt like a slap of the face ..... Been doing all of this
Quiero hacer negocio contigo
❤❤❤❤❤
Is the voiceover from a book?
That is Alex voice.
📝
Thanks Padre I just had a mind shift today but I ain't following your cult leadership
no spinaroonies :D
Luv u
🏆🏆🏆
Damn, pre-historic babies. 😂
Lmao u are so funny
Soo wise, soo smart , soo talented , sexy too 😊
You lost me at Congo is in North Africa
Kinda killed the whole message with "I haven't seen/ experienced it" .. I haven't experienced R*pe but im sure it exists 🤦🏽♀️
He never said it didnt exist.he said he havent seen it in the areas of life where the majority complains about it
@@zykira2010oh yes he said it went he first expressed that ignorant sentiment that should had been kept to himself