Men Will BEG FOR YOU - 7 Strategies To Make Him VALUE YOU

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  • @pennir8834
    @pennir8834 Год назад +285

    “Trading your self esteem for scraps of validation”…🤯 I was there once, it’s a dark place to be, don’t go there ladies it’s just not worth it. Thanks Alex 👌

    • @lavender7550
      @lavender7550 Год назад +6

      That's bc u were most likely dealing with a narcissistic human....

    • @AjwaB23
      @AjwaB23 Год назад +9

      I lived in that dark place for decades. I just got out of it and oh my God there’s power here. And there’s peace.

  • @lilia_2023
    @lilia_2023 Год назад +93

    1. understand them
    2. boundaries, only be with them if they respect u & like u too
    3. no emotions
    4. mirror & reflect them to make them open up to u. when u resist & try to prove them wrong u'll make enemies. flatter them & u'll have better time
    5. scarcity = value. goog looks, skills, dont do what majority do, be unique, bold, experiment, go opposite direction
    6. represent great cause

  • @nicolachilds-adams2064
    @nicolachilds-adams2064 Год назад +183

    "Your boundaries are your immune system." Mic drop, Father Alex! 🎉

    • @dopeyasmrdemoimoi3057
      @dopeyasmrdemoimoi3057 Год назад +1

      Facts !!! It’s so real how this is !! :) 🙏 Amen

    • @shan1959
      @shan1959 5 месяцев назад

      Imma write this down and put it on my mirror! ♥️

  • @lydianicole872
    @lydianicole872 Год назад +78

    The thing is be authentic,be yourself hve standards and boundaries no one breaks,let your intuitions lead you, love being alone,dress well, work hard,that's the secret of a healthy life

  • @TheAttractionTriggers
    @TheAttractionTriggers Год назад +29

    *The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed.*

  • @coletteharubella2434
    @coletteharubella2434 4 месяца назад +7

    My cat is soooo into that stick in your hand 🤣 he’s like ‘where is it now, where’s it gone! Ooh its up, ooh it’s down.’

  • @susanay4759
    @susanay4759 Год назад +29

    I love this guy preaching with a stick in his hand

  • @sarahchalmers1122
    @sarahchalmers1122 Год назад +30

    I love it! Everything you state on space is 100% true. Let men restore their masculine identity away from you.

  • @Christie-EnergyHealing
    @Christie-EnergyHealing 7 месяцев назад +7

    😂 the wand is back! ❤ Like a boss! I love father Alex! 🎉🎉🎉

  • @anthiabaker2695
    @anthiabaker2695 Год назад +40

    Love this. Playing aloof is one thing - but having the confidence in myself and my value to set boundaries of how I want to be treated and communicated with, to get the person I really want,
    Is another thing entirely.

  • @Movethroughlifewithgrace
    @Movethroughlifewithgrace Год назад +5

    “If you’re throwing my name to the ground, you’re gonna have to get got.” 😂❤

  • @wonhur885
    @wonhur885 Год назад +88

    Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

    • @wonhur885
      @wonhur885 Год назад

      Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counsellor, and how do i reach her?

    • @wonhur885
      @wonhur885 Год назад

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive.

    • @hellorodmae
      @hellorodmae Год назад +5

      Hey. I know it's tough and painful but the moment ur partner left you, please choose yourself. I'm in the same situation as you. But they need to value us too.

    • @TheBrownpink
      @TheBrownpink Год назад +2

      There are a few things in your paragraph. Firstly, you’ve spent 5 years of your life with this person. So naturally it is like weaning of a drug for you, especially because you love her so much. I do not know the details of your situation, but you have to understand that your other half has WILLINGLY made the decision that her life is better off without you. You have to be hard with your self a bit here. Feel it out… sadly 1 month is nothing compared with 5 years, so brave for more months of feeling down. BUT You have to accept it and be ruthless with your emotions after you’re done feeling it out. And to it sooner than later. Don’t let your self sulk too long. At the end of the day, life is truly too short my friend..
      regards to you❤ to better days❤ and you’ve got this😊

    • @SimonePahl
      @SimonePahl Год назад

      Y’all don’t realize these 2 scammers talkin bout 5 years and the spiritual advisor have been posting the exact same comments on these type of RUclips channels for yeaarrrssss…finna report these b!tches/bots

  • @1230_boo
    @1230_boo Год назад +18

    Alex Ive been following you for years and I can see the growth 🙏🏼❤️ i appreciate your work

  • @nannaed7833
    @nannaed7833 Год назад +31

    Alex - can we truly “make” someone value us tho? I find men either value a woman and invests from the beginning or he feels lukewarm and will search for others while he has you in limbo .

    • @munix9351
      @munix9351 Год назад +19

      Men treat women based on how they feel about themselves. But will manipulate you into thinking you had a part to play in the process.

  • @ellamedic8963
    @ellamedic8963 Год назад +9

    I miss seeing you with that white fluffy microphone you ised to have before 😂 That was legendary!

  • @ladylemieux4648
    @ladylemieux4648 Год назад +3

    🤣 That's why I love this channel. "Ima pray to the spaghetti monster". 😂😂

  • @Lisagriggsofficial
    @Lisagriggsofficial 7 месяцев назад +1

    I just want to say that. Part about. Dropping into your masculine energy so that. He feels more comfortable that was pure gold!!!! Every time my business partner tells me that he loves me. In my masculine energy and he preferred.! Thank you ❤️

    • @alchemygold8786
      @alchemygold8786 4 месяца назад

      I did this subconsciously depending on my situation. Amazing

  • @Vi_lovely
    @Vi_lovely Год назад +7

    Father Alex got the magic stick 😊

  • @carecafetips
    @carecafetips 10 месяцев назад

    At 13:09 absolutely to the point- set boundaries and they’re gone which I see it as a blessing

  • @RJK1647
    @RJK1647 Год назад +10

    I spat my cigarette out laughing at ' ugly looking babies' 😂 😂 😂 😂
    Fantastic thank you father Alex 👏

    • @Challenger2A7
      @Challenger2A7 Год назад +2

      "An ugly baby is a very nasty object." -Queen Victoria.

    • @RJK1647
      @RJK1647 Год назад

      😂 🤭

  • @Xiandoe
    @Xiandoe Год назад +8

    I think you can embrace their culture and still keep your integrity by staying true to your beliefs. It comes with the territory sometimes you just won’t be liked for your beliefs and that’s okay.

  • @AD-hh6dd
    @AD-hh6dd Год назад +38

    Being too agreeable is a turnoff though. It has to be balanced so you’re not a pick me girl

  • @deeplyfeminine865
    @deeplyfeminine865 Год назад +4

    Great content.
    I would listen to others without judgement. People would become fond of me. I stopped because I didnt get it back.
    I guess the part of me that needed that too took over.

  • @AshMoraila
    @AshMoraila Год назад +5

    This is what needs to be taught in schools

  • @shantelclark5840
    @shantelclark5840 Год назад +12

    I really love your content and people will always have something to say. Keep doing what your doing Father Alex❤ your doing a great job and helping so many people. Thank you!!

  • @THEMYSTICYARNS
    @THEMYSTICYARNS 7 месяцев назад +1

    24:42 Ever notice how folks always got a new conviction every five? It’s like opinions, everyone’s got one. But hey, it’s your call if you wanna put it out there ennit Epic Content it's 👑

    • @THEMYSTICYARNS
      @THEMYSTICYARNS 7 месяцев назад

      Diggin’ the raw edge you’re showin’ at the finish, boss. Your stuff’s pure gold lately, no cap. Got me vibin’ with you on a whole new level, just sayin

  • @CCrockergirl
    @CCrockergirl Год назад +10

    What about when someone goes from texting you all day and night one day then completely ignoring you the next day 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @varaidzo2222
      @varaidzo2222 Год назад +10

      Just be quiet and listen to what they have to say,next time block

    • @annphoenix4565
      @annphoenix4565 Год назад +2

      yeah, like someone used to call 3 times a day now they don't call at all

    • @BrooklynBaby100
      @BrooklynBaby100 5 месяцев назад +1

      @CCrockergirl stop texting … if he wants to call he will.

    • @wrangelinhabitant161
      @wrangelinhabitant161 5 месяцев назад

      He plays unprofessionally😂

  • @reemsaif3105
    @reemsaif3105 Месяц назад

    Bounderies are great. I use it all the time ❤❤

  • @alchemygold8786
    @alchemygold8786 4 месяца назад

    By far. This video was a home run. I learned so much. 😊

  • @rosemaryodiakosa
    @rosemaryodiakosa Год назад +10

    I love your videos, your vibe and wise words ... Thank you

  • @culturedancer
    @culturedancer 11 месяцев назад

    I love your videos, Alex!! You're the funniest, hippest dating coach on RUclips. Your advice is effective and I always enjoy listening to you. ❤❤❤

  • @MsStacey_
    @MsStacey_ Год назад

    “Im gonna pray to the spaghetti monster” took me out 😂😂😂

  • @tarothijadevenus4017
    @tarothijadevenus4017 4 месяца назад +1

    The stick got me 😂

  • @josefinemilo
    @josefinemilo Год назад +6

    Thank you father Alex!❤

  • @asapmonkey2393
    @asapmonkey2393 Год назад +7

    like every relationship is a game i swear yo.

  • @erikasaucedomd8772
    @erikasaucedomd8772 Год назад +1

    Love the classical music in background 🙏
    Oh and the content amazing too 🙏❤️🙏

  • @alchemygold8786
    @alchemygold8786 4 месяца назад

    Changed the game!

  • @karlcast4882
    @karlcast4882 Год назад +5

    hiiii Dalexis loved your content. Keep going ❤❤

  • @91FreeSpiritX
    @91FreeSpiritX Год назад +3

    U deserve that many likes always father Alex 😂❤

  • @yeseniaguajardo3987
    @yeseniaguajardo3987 Год назад +6

    The stick lol

    • @aprilgreen62
      @aprilgreen62 10 месяцев назад

      Dont he love having some kind of stick in his hand, like a baby! 😂😂😂

  • @anu6195
    @anu6195 10 месяцев назад

    Hi Alex your content is amazing!

  • @keishaosbourne1691
    @keishaosbourne1691 Год назад +1

    That's a good message 😍 value yourself

  • @Cvill502
    @Cvill502 Год назад +3

    You are hilarious and so authentic , I love it ! Haha why do you carry a stick ??

  • @SoulSuckingWorld
    @SoulSuckingWorld 4 месяца назад +1

    28:10 Tyrone 😂😂😂

  • @rawaneu
    @rawaneu 3 месяца назад

    I wanna see a whole episode with Tyrone the personal trainer, Melissa, and Bob the builder 😂😂

  • @babytriss-5477
    @babytriss-5477 4 месяца назад

    Hi Alex, I simply love your videos and the way you talk in your own authentic style :) Sounds cute.
    Could you please give me the reference of the two different voice recording you play in this video..? One is I guess from Robert Greene's The Art of Seduction and the other one is from..?

  • @lovice43
    @lovice43 10 месяцев назад

    Great video. Thanks 🙏🏾

  • @brendacastro6344
    @brendacastro6344 10 месяцев назад

    Great video! ❤

  • @JS-pu6gc
    @JS-pu6gc Год назад

    Excellent content Alex!!!! ❤

  • @sdura8447
    @sdura8447 Год назад

    A little late here! Will watch the again! Thank you for the videos😀

  • @Cdoming471
    @Cdoming471 Год назад

    Thank you, I really needed to hear this today.

  • @lynnphilo472
    @lynnphilo472 Год назад +2

    Great advice❤

  • @Thestarrwashington
    @Thestarrwashington 7 месяцев назад

    This was a good video.

  • @karakuration9216
    @karakuration9216 5 месяцев назад

    Good shiit🙏🏼

  • @Rii-jw1sk
    @Rii-jw1sk 4 месяца назад

    4:53 is this an audio to listen to every morning?! I used to always listen to this but cant find it anymore, can you please share the link ?? It would be highly appreciated ❤

    • @Rii-jw1sk
      @Rii-jw1sk 4 месяца назад

      No its not the same one but what’s the name of this author??

  • @MyAkachi
    @MyAkachi Год назад +2

    It's very very ignorant to think that racism and sexism don't exist outside of the criminal justice system. It's even more ignorant to dismiss a social phenomenon simply because you haven't seen it. Based on that logic, anything I haven't seen - but is widely reported everyday - doesn't actually exist.

  • @Lebanesetweety
    @Lebanesetweety Год назад +2

    What’s the audio book your listening too

  • @banusamanci
    @banusamanci 4 месяца назад

    I checked your courses and can I just buy the emotional immune one? I don't want the package deals:(

  • @belindaziglar8785
    @belindaziglar8785 Год назад +1

    Excellent content, but music in background is a
    Distraction

  • @Selfmagnet
    @Selfmagnet Год назад +7

    Hit the like button

  • @healacalmwellness5394
    @healacalmwellness5394 Год назад

    Omg I'm roflmao at " Let a Mfer Breath" so true bruh lol 😅

  • @myriambenromdhane1703
    @myriambenromdhane1703 11 месяцев назад +3

    Please remove the background music. super distracting. Thanks for all of the valuable advice

  • @mitraabedian6183
    @mitraabedian6183 Год назад

    I enjoy it so much really Masterpiece

  • @dinakhachimi7699
    @dinakhachimi7699 Год назад

    Alex, you Should do a video on Kristin Cavallari energy

  • @natividadramirez4696
    @natividadramirez4696 Год назад

    Pls make more like thesee

  • @Christina-ri1lh
    @Christina-ri1lh Год назад +5

    What about creating pain and stirring the pot of insecurity so you are their source of validation when you choose to do so? How do you balance these things

  • @seolajun3653
    @seolajun3653 5 месяцев назад

    Who is that person talking? In the audio? Is it a book I wanna buy it

  • @zombiemomma0
    @zombiemomma0 Год назад

    I wish you would do travel videos.

  • @doeshe
    @doeshe 3 месяца назад

    Whistling like Bobbb 😅

  • @menggochannel5858
    @menggochannel5858 Год назад

    dont hit me with that stick!

  • @Rebecca-vt7rp
    @Rebecca-vt7rp 9 месяцев назад

    anyone know where he's getting the recording from in the part discussing self-esteem? 11:44?

  • @spicytrinirice
    @spicytrinirice Год назад

    Coupon code not working

  • @harithaabharathan2311
    @harithaabharathan2311 Год назад +1

    This whole video felt like a slap of the face ..... Been doing all of this

  • @annyespinal8077
    @annyespinal8077 Год назад +7

    Hahaha I’m lucky I’m so pretty

  • @simonakobianova9262
    @simonakobianova9262 Год назад +1

    What's the book Dalexis?is it in your book club?

  • @shaybae111
    @shaybae111 Год назад +1

    Everything you said was so on point until you got here… how can you speak on things you haven’t experienced? How can you say racism exist except what you’ve personally experienced? 37:24

  • @blessings3154
    @blessings3154 Год назад

    What book and author are you referring to?

  • @ghostwriter568
    @ghostwriter568 8 месяцев назад

    What is the music in the background

  • @yeseniaguajardo3987
    @yeseniaguajardo3987 Год назад

    Love all this advice❤

  • @joeyjo7553
    @joeyjo7553 Год назад +9

    So you’re just gonna fake your entire personality just to please someone else? If you see yourself with someone isn’t it important to have similar views values and beliefs? You always say to think long term .. I disagree this time

    • @MindfulAttraction2.0
      @MindfulAttraction2.0  Год назад +34

      What I'm saying is choose your battles. You don't have to get into a debate on everything you disagree on. If you're at a job and your Republican and everyone is an extreme democrat, I would recommend to act a little bit like a democrat to keep your job and to move up in the ladder. Especially if you don't care about politics. Call that fake if you want. That's on you. If you know you don't care about the topic but they care about it, let them have their day and let them win. It's not the end of the day. We don't have to keep it real all the time. And it's not about faking your personality, I don't know where you heard that

  • @wonderwomanx1268
    @wonderwomanx1268 Год назад +3

    Embracing and assimilating are different than believing what they believe as a tactic. That is disingenuous.

    • @MindfulAttraction2.0
      @MindfulAttraction2.0  Год назад +10

      Sometimes, in order to avoid negative consequences such as losing your job or being socially rejected, it is necessary to assimilate and refrain from expressing all of our beliefs openly. Showing complete honesty without considering the audience can result in having more enemies than friends. There are certain topics that are better kept to oneself, and it takes wisdom to recognize this. Unless you're willing to share all your beliefs with everyone, it's advisable to be selective in what you disclose.

    • @MindfulAttraction2.0
      @MindfulAttraction2.0  Год назад +7

      Like Chappelle said, when keeping it real goes wrong.

  • @wrangelinhabitant161
    @wrangelinhabitant161 5 месяцев назад

    Old-school recording😂

  • @dnibcn93
    @dnibcn93 Год назад

    What is a boundary

    • @banusamanci
      @banusamanci 4 месяца назад +2

      Basically expressing yourself openly when something they do annoys you. You are educating them about what you don't tolerate😊

  • @jennyp32
    @jennyp32 Год назад +4

    Alex you havent seen a thought but they exist, so to say you're iffy about most instances of racism because you haven't experienced it, is ignorant! Otherwise, great video.

  • @DJ-fh7xn
    @DJ-fh7xn 5 месяцев назад +1

    You are likeable and fun

  • @katherinetran812
    @katherinetran812 Год назад

    Damn, pre-historic babies. 😂

  • @sitiny69
    @sitiny69 Год назад +3

    You're so freaking cute and smart.
    I think you are just awesome 👍☺️

  • @IfyzionTv
    @IfyzionTv Год назад +3

    🎉🎉🎉

  • @samanthaguirado4280
    @samanthaguirado4280 Год назад

    What if it was committed but he got mad bc twice when you were together your ex called and now says he can’t trust you/ got really jealous

    • @divinealchemy2470
      @divinealchemy2470 10 месяцев назад +1

      Bc why are u keeping that line of communication open ? That mf shoulda been blocked .. I’m with ur guy on this one . He shoulda left .

  • @bijouxbijoux
    @bijouxbijoux Год назад +1

    Kinda killed the whole message with "I haven't seen/ experienced it" .. I haven't experienced R*pe but im sure it exists 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @zykira2010
      @zykira2010 Год назад +1

      He never said it didnt exist.he said he havent seen it in the areas of life where the majority complains about it

    • @FTYC2022
      @FTYC2022 7 месяцев назад

      ​@@zykira2010oh yes he said it went he first expressed that ignorant sentiment that should had been kept to himself

  • @beatrisurukova1337
    @beatrisurukova1337 Год назад

    no spinaroonies :D

  • @bryansolis3139
    @bryansolis3139 4 месяца назад +1

    Thanks Padre I just had a mind shift today but I ain't following your cult leadership

  • @RedWreaths
    @RedWreaths Год назад +3

  • @ariana2523
    @ariana2523 Год назад

    This hit way too far wow..realized so many things

  • @Kudychun
    @Kudychun Год назад

    Luv u

  • @AshMoraila
    @AshMoraila Год назад

    📝

  • @Victory0909
    @Victory0909 3 месяца назад

    Soo wise, soo smart , soo talented , sexy too 😊

  • @iihabibaii
    @iihabibaii Год назад

    What? No I shouldn’t hate you because you’re different

  • @inspiretobeher7274
    @inspiretobeher7274 Год назад

    Is the voiceover from a book?

  • @danihurtado6486
    @danihurtado6486 Год назад +1

    Lmao u are so funny