JW Elder to PIMO to POMO: "I want to help others!"

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  • Опубликовано: 3 дек 2024

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  • @jaredscott9426
    @jaredscott9426 2 года назад +99

    This was an amazing opportunity that Wendi afforded me the opportunity to share my story. This journey can be tough. I’m here for anyone that needs that support even if it’s just a listening ear. Thank you for listening to my story.

    • @boadiceawarrior4897
      @boadiceawarrior4897 2 года назад +7

      Thank you for sharing it Jared ❤

    • @livingoutloud4210
      @livingoutloud4210 2 года назад +8

      Congratulations and welcome to your freedom Jared

    • @beckywoodbury4069
      @beckywoodbury4069 2 года назад +6

      Very happy that you have been set free. Really enjoyed your discussion with Wendy.
      So glad you went for therapy and doing well. Your story will help others.

    • @AlyH89
      @AlyH89 2 года назад +9

      Thank you so much for sharing! I’m currently a PIMO and trying to fade. It’s super hard. I go to the same congregation as my parents so they know if me and my family are there or not. I’m super close to my family. I don’t wanna loose them but I don’t wanna raise my kids in this cult. I want to celebrate their birthdays and everything. They are in school and I want them to have fun and not be outcasts. Trying to balance all this right now is hard and it’s starting to confuse my kids. Idk what to do or how to do it.

    • @jaredscott9426
      @jaredscott9426 2 года назад +7

      @@AlyH89 I’m so sorry you are facing these tough choices. Don’t put too much pressure on yourself. You will know when it’s the right time to make those hard decisions.

  • @johnnycroat
    @johnnycroat 2 года назад +25

    Gov body = Board of Directors, CO= Regional manager, Elders = Sales managers , MS= Senior Sales Rep, Publishers= sales reps ,

    • @jaredscott9426
      @jaredscott9426 2 года назад +2

      Great analogy

    • @richbreath_
      @richbreath_ 2 года назад +1

      I like that.

    • @pragmaticpoet
      @pragmaticpoet Год назад

      Authoritarian Corporate (fascist) structured Franchised Spirituality for emotional entrapment of virtue signaling and psychological abuse and neglect

    • @last7509
      @last7509 10 месяцев назад

      worldly music is perfectly fine to enjoy 👌

  • @MJ-ej5ok
    @MJ-ej5ok 2 года назад +58

    Wow, I did the same thing from 2017 till 2019 I was PIMO going to meetings it was the worst!!! I stay till I literally could not take it then just stop going to the meetings. My husband confronted me after missing meetings for 6 week. I told him crying all I learned, come to find out he was PIMO too🤣🥳…. Recently we both disassociated our self my whole family left 2019! 🙏🏾

    • @jaredscott9426
      @jaredscott9426 2 года назад +5

      This makes me soooo happy ❤

    • @romancarrillo7904
      @romancarrillo7904 2 года назад +4

      I left 2019

    • @MrChinchilla_hn
      @MrChinchilla_hn 2 года назад +4

      👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 I left in 2001 long before this big movement of activism and so big exodus of JWs, the vast apostate army and pimo. I has been praying for this since 2002.

    • @jaredpetersmith914
      @jaredpetersmith914 2 года назад +1

      That is great!

    • @alexpeace7603
      @alexpeace7603 Год назад +2

      My dear wife and I did the same in 2012. Enjoy your freedom.

  • @christopherhines3775
    @christopherhines3775 2 года назад +14

    Hi Wendy
    I was a Elder for years. My story is too long for the comments. To summarize Jesus called me out of the JW. I had a supernatural experience with him and he still guides me. I am also 45 and listening to the gentleman' s experience I feel for him. This is the first time watching your channel. When Jesus was guiding me I couldn't go up and give a talk after a while. I stayed in the JW because of my family and not wanting to lose or hurt them but eventually got disfellowshipped of Apostasy. I eventually lost my wife who was and still is a pioneer. It has been about 8 years since. I feel the pain the of hearing such experiences but what I know not from what others say or through a third party that Jesus is real. We can't experience him through Organized religion but only through opening our hearts to him. If we seek him with all we have he will show up and this is true healing power we will find and will have a peace and joy that nothing in the world can compare to it. He will teach us, guide our life as the fine Shepard. God bless.

    • @journeyspencer7308
      @journeyspencer7308 2 года назад +1

      I would like to talk with you. I've had a similar experience and agree with your conclusion regarding organized religion.

    • @christopherhines3775
      @christopherhines3775 2 года назад +1

      Hi Spencer,
      Sure. Let me know what medium you would like to use to communicate and when. God bless.

    • @RobBrito
      @RobBrito Год назад +2

      The blessing that walking with Jesus is. You sir are blessed for all that you went through as we all are in this situation. Yes as forewarned we will stand alone in this world and we will be derided and such, but that's exactly the point, we have nothing to do with the world en masse. We stand with God in the intimacy of our hearts, He will make that way. God bless you, and my hats off to you! Hearing our Lord's voice is all we need.

  • @jaredpetersmith914
    @jaredpetersmith914 2 года назад +10

    Loving seeing these young men stand up for the truth and use their voice to expose the organization.

  • @anar.trujillo5744
    @anar.trujillo5744 2 года назад +8

    I'm just so relieved NONE of our kids got baptized into this.

  • @laymanphil8513
    @laymanphil8513 2 года назад +21

    The more a JW learns, the more he will understand that he is being manipulated by the Watchtower. It will always be easier to manipulate the ignorant than the knowledgeable. Today thanks to the internet more and more JWs are learning and leaving this fundamentalist cult. The end of this cult is before us.

    • @Peacewithinyoursoul
      @Peacewithinyoursoul 2 года назад +3

      I like your comment: "easier to manipulate the ignorant than the knowledgeable."

    • @anar.trujillo5744
      @anar.trujillo5744 2 года назад +1

      I think it happens to both in my opinion

  • @justinthyme5382
    @justinthyme5382 2 года назад +22

    Any jw wanting to exit, I would like to share my experience, I've pomo now for some 4 years, I'm 82 years old this year and have 4 generations (ha ha)in the truth, I became totally inactive after researching the internet and csa cover ups, I am not disfellowshiped, but the best way to leave is to become TOTALLY INACTIVE and if questioned by anyone including the elders, tell them that you have a PERSONAL PRIVATE CONSCIENCE ISSUE, you MUST say NO MORE be like Jesus when he was bullied by the scribes and Pharisees, remember that SILENCE IS GOLDEN. after a short period they will just brand you as being spiritually weak, if any of you have been a jw for years you will understand that the once a year memorial attenders are not shunned, in fact quite the opposite. Remember that the PERSONAL, PRIVATE CONSCIENCE ISSUE. Must remain that way. I'm fully aware that age is a factor, but remember that we ALL have a CONSCIENCE. best of Luck (ha ha)on your escape.

    • @labelle8110
      @labelle8110 2 года назад +1

      I agree with you! You fully understand the culture of JW!

    • @IamEpicHill
      @IamEpicHill 2 года назад +3

      Hi Justin! I will take your advice on what to say next time I’m approached. I will say I have a personal private conscience issue and leave it at that per your advice !
      I already had a reminder note written out for just that moment, but was saying way too much that surely would have raised all their flags. I thought you’d enjoy reading it and knowing you saved me from a big headache!!!
      What I had planned to say 😂:
      Thank you for your interest in me and my family. After reading the organization’s publication in where the governing body admits that they are not inspired and infallible, and realizing that their interpretation of Bible prophesies are incorrect and seeing and hearing the lies that a governing body member under oath said to the Australian Royalty Commission, I can no longer be a part of an organization that lies to its members and government officials.

    • @justinthyme5382
      @justinthyme5382 2 года назад +3

      @@IamEpicHill I'm glad to be of help, remember if you're still being interrogated say calmly "what part of private personal conscience issue don't you understand?"PS. I'm 82 years old this year so I've chosen the pseudonym just in time. Bye and all the best and success for the future.

    • @gennaropannelli7138
      @gennaropannelli7138 Год назад +1

      @@IamEpicHill anchio come te ho fatti questi primi passaggi ,ma sono andato molto oltre per esempio controlla la svegliatevi del 8 settembre del 1991 ,danno onore a l'ONU e dice che l'ONU porterà pace e sicurezza ETERNA chiedete ai T D G, e nel 1992 si associa tramite L'ONG a l'ONU fino al 2001quando il giornale INGLESE IL GUARDIANO pubblica la notizia due giorni dopo la Watchtower si è dissociata da L'ONU che coincidenza strana costruisce e vende le sale del regno dei testimoni di Geova in tutto il mondo VENDUTE ANCHE A ENTI RELIGIOSI DI BABILONIA LA GRANDE INVESTIMENTI CON SOCIETA DI CUI LA FILIP MORRIS ERA A CAPO IL PIU GRANDE PRODUTTORE DI SIGARETTE AL MONDO azioni con la JP MORGAN rapporti con il mondo politico qui con L'OSCE UN GRANDE ORGANO POLITICO EUROPEO. E MOLTO ALTRO .LA SOCIETÀ WATCHTOWER E UNA MULTINAZIONALE E NASCONDE I SOLDI NEI PARADISI FISCALI QUESTO E SOLO UN ACCENNO DA L'ITALIA SALUTI E BUONA VITA A TUTTI SECONDO I VOSTRI DESIDERI.

  • @laleyendadelayaguarundi9934
    @laleyendadelayaguarundi9934 Год назад +2

    Thank- you Wendi & Jared, I was a 4th. generation JW, being a auxiliary pioneer for 6 years & 4 as a regular, I was Never Happy as a JW; I wasted my Youth, Time & Energy for the Organization. Since I left, my Mental Health has improved 180°, I keep focus & busy with Productive and Meaningful goals, I'm working on my Master's degree & do a Lot of Charity work,. Things that the Organization loves to discourage.

  • @lyleteresa7788
    @lyleteresa7788 2 года назад +5

    How can they justify spending millions of dollars on media centers when children are starving.thank you both for sharing your story will help so many people.

  • @Kat-eo4pm
    @Kat-eo4pm 2 года назад +17

    This was such a relatable interview! Especially when Jared said , “when I know something is wrong , I am done”. I could no longer be disingenuous, either. Thank you for these awesome interviews Wendi! I love learning how exjws have moved on in life, and what they are accomplishing now. Side note, the peekaboo appearance by your son was hilarious . 🤣

    • @WendiRenay
      @WendiRenay  2 года назад +2

      So glad you liked it! I also love me a good survival story!
      Yeah, my son haha he’s a comedian

    • @rebekahabraham7224
      @rebekahabraham7224 2 года назад

      I Love You My Cousin Jared!!

  • @writerinc
    @writerinc 2 года назад +3

    And it's a very sluggish treadmill, glad he got out. Really enjoyed this interview 😍

  • @cherylcroom4607
    @cherylcroom4607 2 года назад +7

    I was molested when I was about 7 years old, by a brother in the congregation. I didn't tell my mom until I was 36 years old. She responded with an attitude of not caring and quickly changed the subect.

    • @elliesambrook5929
      @elliesambrook5929 2 года назад +1

      My friend killed herself

    • @robinkishmiller2596
      @robinkishmiller2596 2 года назад +1

      Sounds like what happened to me.

    • @robinkishmiller2596
      @robinkishmiller2596 2 года назад +2

      @@elliesambrook5929 oh no! How awful.

    • @gennaropannelli7138
      @gennaropannelli7138 Год назад +1

      E veramente crudeli e infamante, ma il peggio e che sia questa organizzazione di satana e i loro anziani proteggono i pedofili incolpando le vittime causando danni maggiori rimanendo indifferenti ,QUI NON CE NESSUN DIO ,E NON CE MAI STATO ,DA L'ITALIA SALUTI E BUONA VITA A TUTTI SECONDO I VOSTRI DESIDERI.

    • @cassandrasmom
      @cassandrasmom Год назад

      I am so sorry you had to endure that. I hope you are well and able to heal.

  • @robinkishmiller2596
    @robinkishmiller2596 2 года назад +4

    There are so many folks leaving....my goodness!

    • @WendiRenay
      @WendiRenay  2 года назад +1

      The house of cards is crumbling!

  • @bruenastralith5404
    @bruenastralith5404 2 года назад +10

    Feels good having a beard, right Jared? I know, I'll be braiding mine soon! 😆 Seriously, this was enjoyable. Jared, you're brave to be so open and honest and I hope your love life has improved. Thank you both.

    • @fadetoexadam182
      @fadetoexadam182 2 года назад

      Loved this interview. Thank you both.

    • @jaredscott9426
      @jaredscott9426 2 года назад +1

      Thank you for the kind words and I love having a beard!

  • @jomzkified
    @jomzkified 2 года назад +7

    for a s second i thought Wendi's hair is flaming like power is being released hehe. Anyway, very interesting interview.
    Different stories of waking up all leading up to seeing the truth about the truth.
    Thanks Wendi and Jared for this wonderful discussion.

    • @WendiRenay
      @WendiRenay  2 года назад

      Haha hey it just might be! There are coincidences. 🔥

  • @whatif2133
    @whatif2133 2 года назад +5

    I was a regular pioneer in my 20's. Now I AM a Christ Conscious Awakened Mystic Soul. I still hold the Bible in strong regard but it holds completely new meaning. Rudolph Steiner's work and Theosophy really resonates with me.

    • @whatif2133
      @whatif2133 2 года назад

      Realize how the Free M asons use Gaslighting. It was control to extort but now they will do everything they can going foward to shock people into either being mindless sheep cutting off soul or wake up. We must be the ones who have love among ourselves to help these sheep without a shepherd.

  • @ismaelamadot3893
    @ismaelamadot3893 2 года назад +6

    Good morning, Wendi. Hello from Puerto Rico. Hello to your son. Thank you and very appreciative for all the help and work. You are pleasing God in awakening people. The sect is destructive period. It has to end. Sooner than later. Many blessings from Jehovah and Christ. Amador, Kingdom Christian from sunny Puerto Rico.

  • @justinporter458
    @justinporter458 2 года назад +12

    This Saturday I,m driving my beautiful active pimi wife Nicole to the Kingdom hall so she can go witnessing at the markets. I dissociated in 2018 aged 57 after getting addicted to apostate videos for 4 years 2014 to 2018 , I just had to be sure the apostates were telling the truth . I,m now a atheist and Nicole is a active pimi and we have a great marriage, Nicole can't drive so I take her to the Tuesday night meetings and Saturday morning field service groups , I smile and wave at JWs in the car park just to show them I,m a kind and considerate apostate to win them over without a word. Justin porter ex jw

    • @daleprice8111
      @daleprice8111 Год назад

      THEIR IS ONLY ONE GOD ; IRONICALLY AT
      ISAIAH 43:10 . THE CONTEXT SAID NO GOD WAS FORMED BEFORE ME OR AFTER
      ME . YET WATCHTOWER CALLS JESUS A God AT JOHN 1:1 . JESUS SAID I AM THE LORD AT ACTS 9:5 ?

    • @justinporter458
      @justinporter458 Год назад

      @@daleprice8111 Thanks Dale ,The JW Bible has been tampered with to fit their doctrine. Justin Porter ex jw ❤️

    • @justinporter458
      @justinporter458 Год назад

      @@daleprice8111 Dale Watchtower has tampered with the Bible so it matches up with their doctrine. Don't trust the JW New World Translation of the Bible. Justin Porter ex jw ❤️

    • @ysabelduran1247
      @ysabelduran1247 Год назад

      @Dale Price Yes there's only one God. Jesus is God manifested in the fresh Juan 1;14 , He is mighty God Isaiah 9;6 , God with us, He is Lord & God, Juan 20:28,29 , Jesus is our great God & Savior, Titus 2;13, Jesus is the Alpha & Omwga, Revelation 1;8,2;8 These scriptures prove the deity of Christ which Jws & Mormons &:Adventists deny.i pray that this cult dint steal your faith in your lov9ng creator

    • @justinporter458
      @justinporter458 Год назад

      @@ysabelduran1247 The Koran proves the existence of Allah and Mohammed. Justin Porter ex jw ❤️

  • @johnnyruins9025
    @johnnyruins9025 2 года назад +7

    Thank you Wendy and Jared for a great interview.

  • @louisesummers6398
    @louisesummers6398 2 года назад +8

    Thank you both I wish you so much joy in your life an your healing from a trumatic cult an childhood , your courage to speak out has helped many . 💖

  • @researchound
    @researchound 2 года назад +5

    Excellent interview!! I relate to both of you in so many ways! It is actually very comforting to hear your experiences and perspectives.

  • @williamsalun8911
    @williamsalun8911 2 года назад +4

    great video---youre looking well Wendi--hugs from ex elder in UK

  • @grannymabel
    @grannymabel 2 года назад +5

    Thanks Jared great testimony. Now live your best life .

  • @sarahlee9320
    @sarahlee9320 2 года назад +4

    Great interview. Thank you for what you do. Information help people heal after surviving the abusive Jehovah Witness cult.

  • @NilDreams
    @NilDreams 2 года назад +2

    Amazing story! Glad Jared is on a healing path.

  • @spencerclarkson7578
    @spencerclarkson7578 2 года назад +3

    I’m a little behind on your interviews, but once again this was so good. There were many things Jared said that I felt I could relate to. Really good stuff, thanks. And I followed his ig

  • @phil6740
    @phil6740 2 года назад +5

    What a great video! I could listen to you all for another couple hours. Hope there is a sequel down the road. I'm a fellow gen xer.
    Relate to what was mentioned toward the end about life is short, so don't be miserable- most of my time as jw I was miserable. Also the thought about helping those less fortunate , doing the street witnessing and someone was sleeping on the street and handing them a tract as they are trying to stay warm. Thank you for producing this video.

  • @crisscugnizzo
    @crisscugnizzo 2 года назад +5

    Thank you Wendy !!!

  • @indigosmyth7475
    @indigosmyth7475 2 года назад +2

    This was so interesting! Thank you 🖤💗🖤

  • @astral_voyager
    @astral_voyager 2 года назад +5

    What i like about your podcast Wendi is that you dont get nasty when talking about JW's. Some pods ive listen to really gets nasty. Thumbs up👍 for the way you handle this👌
    Ive enjoyed this Podcast! Looking forward to more. Kind regards POMO.

    • @WendiRenay
      @WendiRenay  2 года назад

      Thank you Wickus, I hope you’re doing well after what you’ve been through.

  • @cheyhorse0382
    @cheyhorse0382 Год назад +3

    Barely 1 year after losing my teenage son to suicide, an elder I used to think very highly of told me that if my relationship with God/Jah was as good as I said or thought it was, I wouldn’t be grieving my son’s death so hard or deeply 💔

    • @missrob4538
      @missrob4538 10 месяцев назад

      What a horrible thing to say sorry about your son I wonder who these sinful men thinks they are

  • @haan3549
    @haan3549 2 года назад +4

    You both are amazing. Thank you for sharing your insight. It’s good to know we’re not alone. Love to you both💗💗💗

  • @jeanniejewel2272
    @jeanniejewel2272 2 года назад +3

    Awesome interview Wendi Renay. Thank you Jared for sharing your story.

  • @DrakeAlexanderKnight
    @DrakeAlexanderKnight 2 года назад +5

    There were quite a few Witnesses in my area who linked being down or depressed with the amount of time spent in the field ministry

  • @4flyguyeli
    @4flyguyeli 2 года назад +4

    This is an amazing interview! I enjoyed every minute of it! Thank you very much!

  • @andysandoval4601
    @andysandoval4601 2 года назад +7

    I have tried 2 times to leave this cult but my wife starts crying and saying she doesn't deserve that so I am still PIMO out of guilt.
    I admire your courage and strength in pulling the bandaid.

  • @matilda4406
    @matilda4406 2 года назад +2

    I really enjoy this video, thanks Wendi and Jared

  • @lisettebordeleau3765
    @lisettebordeleau3765 Год назад

    This man is so courageous and honest. He deserves the best and that is what I wish he will have!

  • @debkopinsky8438
    @debkopinsky8438 2 года назад +4

    that's so true..I grew up in the 70's and do NOT recognize this religion and by the way..they were telling everybody the same things back then about "you won't even graduate"..same thing they were telling people in the 40's!!!

  • @jonathanrichards3441
    @jonathanrichards3441 Год назад

    Hallo Wendi, good job. My regards from the Dominican republic

  • @1Rhettsgirl13
    @1Rhettsgirl13 Год назад

    Thanks for sharing your stories.

  • @Lovealwayswins1
    @Lovealwayswins1 2 года назад +2

    Wendy we love your show!!!! Keep it up God bless you and healing and happiness to you….joy!!! Thank you!!!

  • @ysabelduran1247
    @ysabelduran1247 Год назад

    Good interview. Please let each other finish their complete thought. Don't interrupt, please, please

  • @genesistv5912
    @genesistv5912 2 года назад +2

    thank you for the information.. very nice

  • @desertboot9755
    @desertboot9755 2 года назад +1

    I love hearing how you loved the videos when they came out. I had a huge gap - back from the days when you were even encouraged to not have a TV to this - and I can't help but still feel it's so wrong.

  • @martir8370
    @martir8370 2 года назад +2

    Awesome story.. glad you got out... take pure courage!!!!!

  • @Jay-yp3oq
    @Jay-yp3oq 2 года назад +3

    Hi Wendi, this was a great interview and I really enjoyed it. Thanks for all that you do for everyone. I wanted to tell you about the new apostate coalition channel that eyewitness awake made. The latest video with him and Rion is about helping every child victim of CSA and it is about the Mormons but including other cults including JW. If this picks up speed in a few years it could get media attention. Please help support the new channel. Thanks, Wendi for everything. I'm not sure I would have made it this far without you.

    • @WendiRenay
      @WendiRenay  2 года назад

      Thank you Jay, I reposted their TikTok, can you drop the link here so I know for sure the one on YT you’re referring to? Appreciate it!

    • @WendiRenay
      @WendiRenay  2 года назад

      Thank you Jay, I reposted their TikTok, can you drop the link here so I know for sure the one on YT you’re referring to? Appreciate it!

    • @Jay-yp3oq
      @Jay-yp3oq 2 года назад

      @@WendiRenay it’s the last Apostate Coalition video on RUclips with the Mormons. I not sure how to post that link here

    • @Jay-yp3oq
      @Jay-yp3oq 2 года назад

      @@WendiRenay if you message me again I will try and send a link from my email. I cleared the last one

    • @Jay-yp3oq
      @Jay-yp3oq 2 года назад

      I couldn't figure it out but I sent it to your Gmail I hope you don't mind

  • @henrim9348
    @henrim9348 2 года назад +1

    Great interview. Great guest.

  • @justinthyme5382
    @justinthyme5382 2 года назад +9

    Every jw watching please read for yourself the book Crisis Of Conscience by Raymond Franz a former GB member, it will fully open your eyes to the truth about the "truth".

  • @StefWokeUp
    @StefWokeUp Год назад

    GREAT interview!! Thank you for this 🙏🏼

  • @NatalieGrand
    @NatalieGrand Год назад

    Great episode. Keep up the good work, healing and awareness.

    • @WendiRenay
      @WendiRenay  Год назад

      Thanks Natalie, appreciate you being here

  • @catmeow333
    @catmeow333 2 года назад +3

    I’m curious about the picture over your bed. It looks like one of my old armageddon nightmares.

    • @jaredscott9426
      @jaredscott9426 2 года назад +3

      Just an abstract style from Marshalls Home Goods Store 😊

  • @mariflorent
    @mariflorent 2 года назад +2

    Gratidão 🙏

  • @haroldcollins8393
    @haroldcollins8393 2 года назад +3

    Any song published no matter who recorded it only has a 25 year royalty pay out then the song goes to the public to be recorded who ever wants to for free. Don't have to pay royaltys after 25 years.

  • @rockpadstudios
    @rockpadstudios 2 года назад +3

    I was assigned the territory cards - I simply couldn't do it because it was so boring.

  • @GG-kv8vv
    @GG-kv8vv 2 года назад +1

    Thank you.

  • @astral_voyager
    @astral_voyager 2 года назад +2

    Im the only one in my side of the family that was a JW. A uncle from my side of the family abused me from age 7 to about age 14, so about 7 years. It stopped bekause i ran away from home age 15 and never have been back. My mom never knew, but years later the wind of the abuse came to her attention but bekause she was fond of him and he was very helpfull to her on many occasions. My mum has disowned me up to this day. I left me mums home in 1992 and up till today have never seen her again. Note though she was never aware i became a JW as my mum was a penticostal. I was baptised a JW in 2003.

  • @sanderooij
    @sanderooij Год назад +1

    Sorry to hear about the abuse😭

  • @4flyguyeli
    @4flyguyeli 2 года назад +5

    This describes JW’s perfectly!
    “People who believe false things can’t be around honest people. If you believe things that are false, you can’t have freethinking people who are skeptical and curious and who care about you enough to tell you the truth and free you from the foggy, narcissistic death grip of error and falsehood and delusion. Who is content to let you live in a delusion?? …..People who share those delusions and who don’t care about you.
    Delusion, fantasy, falsehoods and propaganda are solitary confinement. The reason propaganda is so dangerous is because it isolates people. And through isolation people go crazy. If you are isolated and you know it you experience a peculiar type of agony that will motivate you to do whatever it takes to get contact with people. If you are isolated and you don’t know it because you’re only surrounded by people who share your same delusions (cults) …..you are isolated because the only thing you have in common with the people around you is shared delusion. Collective madness is not emotional intimacy.
    The isolation that separates us from each other when we get wrapped in falsehoods is the worst thing of all because it is without obvious symptom…. Yes, you become unstable, defensive, inoculated against any truth teller and will attack anybody that tells the truth in your environment, but you can’t love, you can’t be loved, you can’t relax. You are always on guard for whatever might puncture your delusions which provokes rage which drives good people away and anybody might rescue you from delusion will be driven away and you are left alone in the foggy devil ribbed cage bosom of falsehood…
    That which is not real, that which is not true, that which is not proven, that which is the opposite of truth. You are full of peculiar hatreds, instability, vanity… because anybody who just repeats lies and only listens to lies is vain because they won’t submit themselves to reason and evidence. So, the vanity, the narcissism, the isolation the peculiar hatreds…. to be falling without even knowing that you’re falling, to be ill with no symptoms….. is the most dangerous thing of all. And to be lonely in a crowd of thousands of people cheering all the same falsehoods, to be certain, pompous, to be vain, to be full of rage at anybody who threatens these delusions…. to be told that the pursuit of truth is the acceptance of evil… to be isolated and thereby easily manipulated.
    People who pursue delusion and end up wrapped in delusion are saying… I can’t be loved, all I can do is pretend to merge. I can’t be loved for who I am so I will hide in a room full of photocopied people with photocopied opinions and pretend that I’m part of something. I will dissolve my individuality, I will shred and eviscerate any original thought I might possibly have, any curiosity, any skepticism I might possibly have so that I can dissolve into the nothing of the photocopies around me. I can’t have love, but I can self abase and self erase into proximity. I can nod, smile, agree, and praise who everyone praises and hate who everyone hates… I can be a shadow cast by the tombstone of my mind. I can’t exist, I can’t excite, I can’t be unique, but I can blend. I can submit I can conform and then I will have physical proximity combined with unbelievable isolation. I can’t approach the truth so I will just burrow into empty people.
    We can only ever meet in reality itself. We cannot meet in fantasy we cannot meet in lies we cannot meet in propaganda. We can only meet in the truth. When you are with the truth, you can do without people because you are with yourself and with the facts and reality. When you don’t have the truth you have a bottomless desperate need for people that you could never connect with. If all you have in common with others, with those around you is a mutual agreement to slash your mind into ribbons and accept whatever lies come rolling down the conveyor belt, you’re not with anyone, and you will never feel loved. The price of conformity is the absence of love. The price of conformity is terror of solitude.
    Truth tellers can handle the journey from the town of the dead to the outposts of the living and the thinking. It’s a long journey across that desert. The ghosts can’t make it. You can’t love a character in a video game because they are programmed. You can’t love people who don’t think for themselves because there is no one to love, thought is the only individuating characteristic that we have. The only thing that we have that is uniquely our own is our capacity to think for ourselves, and that is the only passageway through which the light of love can reach. They suffer in the worst possible way which is to not even know what they are missing… Avoid it if you can at all possible costs.”

  • @journeyspencer7308
    @journeyspencer7308 2 года назад +1

    Jared,
    My family was in a congregation near Olean. We probably know a lot of the same people. It would be interesting to talk with you. You probably know the Gleasons and Krivulkas and Allen's. In Olean, I knew Rick Bryson and the Kamery family.

    • @jaredscott9426
      @jaredscott9426 2 года назад

      Unfortunately that is where she was born back in 1917 - moved to Buffalo and everyone is dead and gone.

  • @anar.trujillo5744
    @anar.trujillo5744 2 года назад +2

    Don't get me started on the blood. We had to get help from another town cong. Logic and common sense was what helped my husband stay on his toes and his faith. My case was talked about in one of the annual meetings so We were told by an elder who died already

  • @anar.trujillo5744
    @anar.trujillo5744 2 года назад +3

    Has anyone thought about the 501c3 status that they have. Ever wonder about all that government money they get because of all that have joined. My husband and I just started wondering about it.

  • @Darrinnewlife
    @Darrinnewlife 4 месяца назад

    I want to know more bout that song.

  • @Fishin4Life596
    @Fishin4Life596 2 года назад +3

    I can't imagine the guilt of helping facilitate a death by the blood policy, and then realizing it's all a lie and leaving!

  • @FINALYFREE59
    @FINALYFREE59 Год назад

    In my case, what I did , because I didn't want to go though the humillacion of being disfellowshipped. I told the elders of my congregation that we were going to move to another state, and I would tell them which congregation I would atten to, let them know. I know some of ex JW or JW would criticize me, but it worked for me. Hopefully will help some what I did.

    • @WendiRenay
      @WendiRenay  Год назад

      That’s a great plan. A covert fade

  • @matilda4406
    @matilda4406 2 года назад +1

    that girl in the water picture of the red live forever book, if you remember, was also taken from a model, i forget her name

  • @cmartn9672
    @cmartn9672 2 года назад +1

    Which song is it that was on the Christmas album? The songs being made by "worldly" people interest me so much!!!

  • @greatoutdoorsgear7538
    @greatoutdoorsgear7538 2 года назад +2

    i always ask this question, could you resurrect a JW from any previous decade and show them the org today and would they think it was still the truth? no i don't think so...........

  • @sanderooij
    @sanderooij Год назад

    sorry that he was interrupted when he talked about after he told his parent

  • @Darrinnewlife
    @Darrinnewlife 4 месяца назад +1

    Im trying to get understanding I'm just recently a pimo

    • @WendiRenay
      @WendiRenay  4 месяца назад +1

      @@Darrinnewlife hi there, welcome! I understand you’re going through so much right now. That PIMO life is not easy my friend.

  • @matilda4406
    @matilda4406 2 года назад +3

    infj's are the most extroverted of the introved, so that may be why you get on the border of E and I, welcome to MBTI personality types !

  • @WendiRenay
    @WendiRenay  2 года назад +6

    To contact Jared head over to Instagram: he’s @JaredlScott77 (that’s a lowercase L)

  • @ZeteticPlato
    @ZeteticPlato Год назад

    Ex JW Graduated in 2004
    Dissociated in 2013
    Adopted in 1988
    Adopted Grandma was WWII Vet ex Mormon and JW Elder
    My uncle's were elders
    Raised by my mom
    Dad left at age 7
    Died in 2019
    Real dad died in 2011

  • @MobileMedia-y7i
    @MobileMedia-y7i Год назад

    At around 56:45 you say "and the faithful slave isn't even the governing body". The faithful and discrete slave are the governing body. They once believed that the faithful and descrete slave meant "all anointed" ones.

  • @jessemachuca
    @jessemachuca 2 года назад +1

    I was also an immediate Pomo

  • @anar.trujillo5744
    @anar.trujillo5744 2 года назад +1

    @1542 exactly what my husband would do

  • @sanderooij
    @sanderooij Год назад +1

    👍🏾

  • @Magalys1958
    @Magalys1958 2 года назад +1

    Forgive my ignorance, but what is Pimo and Pomo?

    • @IamEpicHill
      @IamEpicHill 2 года назад +2

      PIMI: Physically In / Mentally In
      POMO: Physically Out / Mentally Out
      PIMO: Physically In / Mentally Out
      POMI: Physically Out / Mentally In

  • @Goonapachamoothoo
    @Goonapachamoothoo Год назад

    What Jehovah haschosen will not retreate

  • @Sportliveonline
    @Sportliveonline 9 месяцев назад

    so as you learn more your opinion will change thats universal##

  • @anar.trujillo5744
    @anar.trujillo5744 2 года назад +1

    @5455 same way I felt.

  • @rwesleyslaght111
    @rwesleyslaght111 Год назад

    What does PIMO and POMO mean?

    • @WendiRenay
      @WendiRenay  Год назад +1

      PIMO is "physically in, mentally out" and POMO is "physically out, mentally out"

  • @matilda4406
    @matilda4406 2 года назад

    george benson ?

  • @daleprice8111
    @daleprice8111 Год назад

    THE PIMOs ARE LIKE PRISONERS WHO WANT TO ESCAPE BUT THEIR CERCUMSTANCES

  • @MultiBurger1
    @MultiBurger1 Год назад

    Is this Joel Osteen's brother?? 🤔

  • @downieduck2414
    @downieduck2414 2 года назад

    why does interviewer keep interupting the guests stories!!!

    • @WendiRenay
      @WendiRenay  2 года назад +1

      Hey there. I’m “the interviewer”. Nice to meet ya! I appreciate the feedback, albeit a little rude. But hey I’m working on my craft. Thanks for being here.
      Wendi

    • @jaredscott9426
      @jaredscott9426 2 года назад +2

      I am sorry you projected your feelings onto Wendi. I can assure you she never made me feel cut off or interrupted. I hope you enjoyed the content 😊.

    • @downieduck2414
      @downieduck2414 2 года назад

      @@jaredscott9426 well it is her channel - its called constructive criticism - i think it is about the viewers hearing what you had to say - she a big girl and can handle it i am sure

  • @CC-yy8yd
    @CC-yy8yd Год назад +1

    It is so sad to see how many leave Jehovah. I am not speaking about leaving the organization that is entirely separate from actually losing faith in Jehovah God altogether. This is ehat happens when humans follow humans put their trust in man rather then God. Read 2 Thessalonians and pray on it. Many have been stumbled... WT is crushing witnesses left and right.

  • @RiskeFactor
    @RiskeFactor 2 года назад

    This is painful to watch…

    • @WendiRenay
      @WendiRenay  2 года назад

      What do you mean?

    • @RiskeFactor
      @RiskeFactor 2 года назад

      @@WendiRenay one must question anyone that reacts and responds in absolute terms. Whether JW or ExJW.

    • @WendiRenay
      @WendiRenay  2 года назад

      Hm I’m not sure exactly sure what you’re referring to. In the org that is definitely true. All we knew was absolutions.

    • @jaredscott9426
      @jaredscott9426 2 года назад

      @@RiskeFactor I agree 100% - is there something specific you personally found painful and also absolute in the interview. I’m always happy to engage in polite discussion. Hope you are having a great day Raul.

  • @elizabethdavila7235
    @elizabethdavila7235 Год назад

    Wow. Don't you stick to tyke Bible? I don't know what faith you'll have now?? What none?? Now you will not survive what's coming for rebellion to God

    • @WendiRenay
      @WendiRenay  Год назад

      I’m sorry to hear you still live in a fearful world.

  • @colonalklink14
    @colonalklink14 2 года назад

    Jesus is Lord God Almighty clothed in unsinful humanity and He is the author of "eternal life" to all who realize that they are sinners deserving of God's just punishment in Hell and turn (repent) from whatever they trusted in before, if indeed they trusted in anything; to trusting in the person and finished work of Christ "alone" for salvation.

    • @WendiRenay
      @WendiRenay  2 года назад +1

      Can you prove this?

    • @colonalklink14
      @colonalklink14 2 года назад

      @@WendiRenay I have over 35 verses proving that Jesus is Lord God Almighty.
      What part do you want me to prove?
      Galatians 2:16, 2: 21, Ephesians 2: 8, 9, 10, Romans 4: 5, 6, and Romans 11: 6, clearly seperate faith from works of any kind.

  • @mrm8850
    @mrm8850 2 года назад

    well i dont see bible scriptures so there goes the help!! Romans 16:17-18 big time fail!!

  • @anar.trujillo5744
    @anar.trujillo5744 2 года назад +2

    @5640-5715 you hit it on point there was no way they could get us to be a "company man" or "company woman" like they tried with us

  • @sanderooij
    @sanderooij Год назад

    👍🏾