My best friend from when I was in kindergarten, was diagnosed with stage 4b breast cancer. She had RADICAL surgery. Was going through the mother of all divorced at the time, so had to HIDE her cancer from her soon to be ex, and therefore everyone, for fear he'd use it to fight for custody. That was 20 years ago and she too is going strong. Her oncologist says "cancer is now a chronic disease.". It's something you can live with and adapt to. Sending all my prayers
Kyle , your doing an INCREDIBLE job . I’ve been on both ends of caregiver and the patient and what I can say as a caregiver is please take care of you too. Many times as caregivers we overlook our own needs and put ourselves on the back burner and end up getting exhausted, not only physically, but mentally too. So please take care of yourself 😊
Hi Kyle. I’m so glad that your first week back at work was a success. I’m sorry that you’re experiencing concerns and anxiety over pulling back from your full-time caregiver role. It actually makes me think of separation anxiety that parents and children get when their kids first go to school. It does take time to adjust to that. The main thing I think is encouraging Jenny to stop being stubborn about reaching out for help whether that’s calling on a family member, explaining to the kids while she needs to take a break, taking her pain medication when she needs it, etc. This is a really important adjustment process for her too and I’m sure you’re both going to sail through it brilliantly. You’re always in my prayers and thoughts. 💜💜💜
Kyle you could never fail your family even if you tried to! You are fantastic. Jen couldn't wish for a better hubby and the kids couldn't wish for a better dad. You are the glue that holds your beautiful family together, even when you're not at home. It must be so hard for you being away from them after all that time but please know that you are doing it to support the family that you love so very much, and who love you so very much. You couldn't have done any more than you have done and continue to do. You guys are an inspiration to all of us 💙
I do not wish to upset you But unfortunately your wonderful wife at stage 4, at best 5 yrs At worst 1yr You have become successful youtubers so it's a no brained what you need to do
Your chat today opened my eyes allowing me to understand this dark feeling I've been living with since the loss of my precious husband to cancer. I never felt I was his caregiver but more like I was his love giver. I wouldn't and didn't want to leave his side throughout our long journey. When you talked about going back to work and feeling like you abandoned Jenny, the children and your home, I realized that although I didn't have work to return to I had worse. My husband passed much sooner and unexpectedly and in one moment I was of no use to my love or anyone. It's ten years and I still don't know that I'm of any use. I pray for you and Jenny and your precious kiddos and hope that a well deserved miracle will come your way. We never gave up. Blessings from London, Ontario.
Hi Kyle so nice I see you getting back to normal things you a great dad and Jenny was a wonderful mom to your kids I miss seeing her just be strong in the time of your weakness we feel for you and the kids🙏for you and the kids ❤
When I was 30 I had stage 3 cancer I'm 50 now I was told I was terminal 2 years of verry bad times like Jenny I can relate to her .She looks great having a amazing husband like you helped me
Kyle, you are not Superman! You are doing the things you need to do. Your family is stepping up. They don't want to be pushed out either, I'm sure they are happy to be able to help. You all love each other and are all doing your best. Enjoy what you have, push through these tough times and don't be afraid to except help. God Bless you all.
I love your family so much. Thank you for your vulnerability and sharing your true thoughts and feelings. I don’t have any helpful advice, but just wanted to tell you that you’re doing an exceptional job. You’re one of a kind and the best example of a man and husband that I’ve seen. Your beautiful family is as lucky to have you, as you are to have them. ❤
You are an amazing person Kyle. Don't think for a minute that you have done anything wrong. It's hard to go through something like that. My sister had Hodkins Lymphoma and she had radiation but it was very difficult going through that. She's been in remission for 13 years so there is hope. You are doing a wonderful job as a father and husband, stay positive you've got this!
You are an amazing husband,father and caregiver. Ask for help when needed, and don’t feel guilty about going back to work. That’s what you needed to do for your family. Prayers for Jen and you and the kids!! ❤🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Kyle... you are amazing and Jenny and you are definitely marriage goals. I'm battling breast cancer. When i was first diagnosed I told Jenny about it. She gave me the best advice. She told me to not let cancer take away my joy. This one sentence helped me so much. You've got this Kyle ❤️
Kyle, you have been such a great husband, caretaker and father. I love how you and Josh are so loving and support your wives through such painful times and never complains. I pray you realize it's great to be doing what you love and not feel guilty (as if you are leaving Jenny behind). Don't be so hard on yourself. PRAYERS FOR THE FAMILY.❤🙏
You are a wonderful husband and father. You do amazing, being a care giver is a hard job. I wish you would consider setting up a ‘go fund’ page to unable you to spend more time at home. Who takes care of you, look after yourself. Wishing Jenny all the best with her treatment.
You are one in a million as someone said below. I just pray that GOD completely heals Jenny and that your life can be back to normal, if someone deserves to be happy and have a happy ending is YOU GUYS!!!❤❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I am following your family's journey and I admire you all so much for your strength. I live far away, but I think of your family and pray for you every day. You all are so strong and inspire me every day. God Bless you.
Oh Kyle my heart hurts for you all. We all see it's hard for you. You are a man, husband, and father but you are doing the best as you can. You must give yourself a break. You can't go 100 all the time. Set bad and enjoy life a little . Asking for Help Make you stronger. I was a caregiver for my sister. It is the hardest job in the world But the most selfless act. You are doing a great job. Prayers for your family.
You will learn to live this new normal in your life. You will do this because you want to. It was hard and terrifying when you started this journey And you have been amazing. Your life journey will continue to change and you will grow stronger with each challenge.
As my sister's caregiver years ago, I want to express my admiration and support. I recognized the look when Jenny discussed Amivantama b needing to be paused. I know part of you wished you were there when she had the reaction. It was courageous and wise to accept the help from her sister. You are so completely committed to Jenny and the kids that you need to refuel. I didn't recognize it in time and got severely ill. Self care is essential so you can continue being that stellar husband, father and caregiver. I'm able to watch Jenny because knowing you're there makes it less triggering. Stay well Kyle, and know that we see you being a superhero ❤
Kyle, don’t beat Yourself up for having to go back to work. You are financially being responsible. I’m glad you will ask for help.. people want to help. Stay Positive because Jenny is strong !! ❤❤❤❤
Hi, I have breast cancer, I wish everytime to God it should be me, because I have no children, in matter effect I have no family, God bless you and your entire family.
I'm sorry you don't have family. I'm also sorry you wish it could have been you instead. Jesus is your family now and forever. Let the father guide you and your life will lead you to the place of joy.
Vulnerable. You feel as though you left your family vulnerable. But you did not- because you both have family willing and able to step in ASAP. It will be ok. As for the flipped time table - I wish no one had to spend more time at a job than with family. Nonetheless- keep up the great work.
I am not saying that we don't have emotions. What I am saying is that, besides expressing them, rely on your intellect. In other words, sometimes we have to put our feelings aside for now and forge forward. During periods of supporting others, I put my feelings aside and deal with them later - as perhaps you do with your therapist. Cancer was never intended in God's original plan. God only allows this evil for a greater good. Evil never wins.
I think of you guys every day. When I feel myself getting crabby, I think of you two and how real and gracious and loving you are. You inspire me to do better and try harder.
Hi Kyle, I am a breast cancer survivor myself. I had 2 forms (one aggressive and the other not) at stage 2B. I was pretty much alone for the most part all through my battle without an amazing hubby there to help me. I believe you and Jenny will be fine. Keep your faith in the Lord! I cried to Him everyday during and after my battle. He pulled me through it all. God bless you.
Hello Kyle, i went through this as my wife went through chemo and as she declined. She found herself able to do less and less but i had exhausted my Family Medical Leave time and PTO. I can tell you that i had to reach out to friends. What we did was develop a schedule where we had people take shifts, for instance, Paula stayed Monday, Julie stayed Tuesday, etc., so that no one got burnt out, plus my wife got to spend time with her friends and vice versa. We also had some people split days. So each month, i had a schedule and luckily i had enough people that were willing and able to take a shift. That is the only way we made it and i was able to work knowing that she had company and was taken care of. Just my 2 cents.....it was so hard to leave her and i relate and feel for you. Love you guys!
So good to hear from you! Honestly what you described reminds me so much of what it feels like to be a working mom-always pulled in two different directions, two different worlds. It sounds like you are doing all the right things by reaching out to your therapist and expressing gratitude for your family. The only thing I can think of to add is to continue to have pride and care in yourself (because youre doing great and need to take care of yohrself in order to be there for others) and to possibly reach out to the parent of your former student who offered help. I'm sure she meant it wholeheartedly and it could be a connection for your wife - or just a relief of some tasks like grocery shopping or meal planning. Good luck in week 2, you got this!
I know this is different. But my mom came to live with me in Utah, when she developed dementia. I had to get a care giver to be with her during the day. Maybe y'all could hire someone part-time? Like for 3 or 4 hours a day? Kyle you are only 1 person.
Kyle you are one in a million. I’m so sorry you are struggling and feeling like you’re failing them. You are not. You need help too in all of this and thank you for giving us this perspective from the caregiver’s view. You’re such a good man, husband and father. I’m glad that you have this outlet to let your feelings out with us, just like Jenny does. You two are shining examples of grace under pressure, family positivity, and how to ask for help. We love you both so much and thank you for giving us the privilege of commenting back. It helps us too. Yes, each week will get better. You’ve got this. Praying 🙏🏻 ❤for you and your beautiful family.
Hi Kyle. You and your kids are going to be okay. Your sparkly angel is watching over you guys. The way you and Jenny approached this with grace and honesty will help in the long run. Keeping your family in my prayers daily.
Hi, Kyle. I don’t have any words of wisdom to offer, but I just have to tell you that you are an AMAZING husband and dad. I know that you belong to a club that nobody wants to be in, but watching you and Jenny going through this journey has reminded me of what’s important in life. I pray for all of you every night. ❤️❤️💙💖
Hi Kyle, I worked over 30 years as a nurse's aide and was also caregiver for both my parents. I worked night shift (11-7) and then cared for them until 5 pm when my sister relieved me. I then went home to sleep a few hours and back to work that night. It was difficult to say the least and my husband was so loving, helpful and understanding for those few years. Both parents have earned their angel wings and I am no longer able to work because I am now caregiver for that loving husband who has dementia. No, it's not cancer but it is still a horrible, debilitating disease. I'm glad you are reaching out for help, advice and support because I didn't do that and in time the stress and emotions caught up with me. If I can give you any advice it would be to be sure to take some time to take care of yourself. Do things you love that don't involve caregiving even if it's for short period. You need to rest and recharge to be the best husband , dad and caregiver that you want to be. Those short periods will also help Jenny gain more confidence in her abilities to take care of what she is able to. Your family, students and in fact this world is lucky to have a compassionate man not afraid to ask for help and express his feelings. My thoughts and prayers will remain flowing in the direction of your home.
Bless your heart Kyle. You are a truly amazing husband and father. I'm sending you and your beautiful family so much love and healing prayers always ❤️ xxx 🙏🙏
Hi Kyle! You are an amazing husband and father. I was caregiver to my beloved Dad (my sister and I did it together). He was so ill, he had a terrible primary brain tumor. He was 79. I had to return to work after a 6 week leave of absence. It felt great to be back at work, but Dad was so ill and needed two caregivers. So I had to take early retirement. We had barely any help caring for my Dad. It is so important to ask for help. Prayers in Jesus’s Name that all goes well for you, Jenny, and those adorable children. Sending all my love and hugs! God bless you all 🤗❤️🙏🏻
Wow , your love and care for your family is amazing. My prayers are with you. I am taking care of my husband that had esophagus cancer had surgery to take the tumor out no cancer any where else but boy being care giver is a hard journey . He is doing immunotherapy for a precaution measure. I don’t think I would of had the strength if I had littles to take care of too. You and Jenny are doing an amazing job.
Praying for you and your family Kyle. Your guilt is normal but is hard to feel. Jenny is beautiful and such a fighter. I’m impressed with your love for Jenny and how you do your best to keep her spirits up as she fights this terrible cancer. Thank you for sharing your side of this journey y’all are on. 😊🙏💗
Kyle, you restore my faith in humankind after watching this. Your love for Jenny and the kids and your uncomplaining willingness to be an amazing caregiver warms my heart.
Well done on your honesty and putting it out there on how you have felt this week returning to work and grieving your care giver role. Keep using your channel and reaching, you are an amazing husband and Dad ❤
Seeing a counselor is lifesaving. Don't miss your appointments, they give uou the strength to cope and carry on. You've done an amazing job so far, but life must go on. Blessings to you and Jenny and the the kiddos ❤
You are amazing! Don't forget the bike Jenny gave you! She wants you to ride it and relieve some stress! I know it's hard..stress relief is a MUST! LOVE YOU SO MUCH! ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉
Kyle, I am Proud you got to go back to Work! Hopefully that will help Some! Kyle, never feel that you let your Wife or Children Down, Because you are the Best Husband & Father anyone could Possibly be! Youare an Amazing Human Being!! Sending Love ❤️❤️💕 &🙏🙏🙏
Just a few words to tell you that you are doing an amazing job Kyle. You are so dedicated to everything you do and give 100% but, like you said, time is key. Take some pressure off yourself and it will all fit into place. You will both have a new normal. Nothing ever stays the same. Circumstances change and when they do, you change. You adapt… the circle keeps turning. You are an absolute inspirational little family. Keep on keeping on. Oh… and I also have to say that you are the absolute role model for your kids. All my love and prayers to you all ❤❤
I totally agree with you that at the end of the day, there is no time left to spend with your family. But it is great to finally have you back at work and helping your students like me. -Mark Salas
Hi Kyle... I love and pray for your family always... but could you let us know if you ever have "me" time? How do you recharge? With parenting, teaching, caregiving, and RUclips, etc., it seems you are always on the go, and I'm concerned about your wellbeing in all its forms. God bless you...🤗
Kyle, you did not leave Jenny high and dry. The world need more husbands and caring people like you. You and your children and family are in my thought and prayers. Please take care of you now.
Yes you’re so right Kyle. You can’t be all things to all people. Eventually you will have to ask for help or take a step back to do other things you need to do (whether you like it or not). When I was caring for my husband full time it felt in a way as though I was undoing what had happened to him and when I had him go into care so I could manage everything else I felt like I was abandoning him. I had to “leave” him to cope with all the emotions of it all on his own. The trouble is I can’t fix it and him having to face it in his own, in his own style is an inevitability. All that scrambling I did to avoid that just made me sicker myself (I have been both cared for and carer). You know what you have to do Kyle. It’s horrible and you’ll never fully get over it, but some days will be better than others and you will always have the love and support of your family and community and us here to vent to anytime. Big love and respect Kyle. Hang in there man 🥹
I believe Jenny will discover she can still do some of the normal mom things that will build her confidence. As a caregiver for my daughter with cancer I realized I was being too overprotective. When I backed off she regained some important confidence needed for her to get healthier.
So great to have an empty nester who knows and appreciates you so much. Don’t be shy. Please reach out as you need to. They earnestly want to help. 🩷☝️💙. God bless you !
Dear Kyle, you are such a huge blessing to Jenny and your kids. You are strong and able. You have provided for them. You are the best husband and daddy. I pray God continues to bless you as you return to work with less anxiety and worry. Lean on God and He will carry you through.
I have learned in the past 3 years of CV that we can truly live on less. How we make things so important and at the same time, we don't recognize that time is passing us by. I am considered middle aged now but in looking back how differently I would have done everything.
Oh Kyle, you are in No way a failure or abandoning her. She knows that you are there on every level, and she knows you have to go back to work for the finances. You are a wonderful husband, Dad, provider. Bless you, hugs, and prayers for some inner peace.
Hi Kyle, don't worry about going back to work, Jenny is doing well and you couldn't have done better as you did so far 🤗🍀best wishes for you and your family 🙏🍀
Kyle, we ALL want to take care of ourselves and not ask for help; you are not alone. We all need to take care of each other - I’m sure everyone is happy to do so for you guys. Things will get better. Look after yourself 🤗🌈.
Kyle I am so glad u went back to work. Sometimes people can do more than they think they can. My husband and I were both diagnosed with cancer at the same time (in our 60’s) and also I was full time caregiver for my 90 year old mom. Chemo/ radiation/surgery definitely takes it’s toll on you but eventually everything becomes the “new normal “ and Jenny hopefully will see she is stronger than what she thinks she is. It’s good to try to get back to a normal routine for everyone. You do so so much but sometimes u have realize that cancer or any illness is sometimes harder on the caregiver than the patient. Even my doctors told me that. Keep up the great work. So happy for u.
Hi Kyle. I've been watching yours and jennies videos. my son had cancer back in 2003 and completed his therapy the following year successfully. He was a senior in high school and he left that following April for treatment. He didn't finish school but fortunately the school graduated him anyways. And another blessing he felt well enough to attend his graduation and senior prom. He is 38 now and healthy thank God! And I'm hoping the same thing will happen with jenny. I think what happened with us is that we were in survival mode and his treatment was like being in a whirlwind. We had no down time during that time. We also had 2 other kids one in college and my daughter with down syndrome. It was super scary time for my husband and but we solidered thru and like you said in your video time heals all things. We made it thru and you and jenny will too. Btw love yours and Jenny's videos!!
You‘re an amazing open and honest guy. Your words just blew me away, wow. I understand your struggle, I‘m a caregiver as well. I think you’re doing a wonderful job, you have a therapist, so you’re also taking care of yourself! That’s so important. I honestly believe that you’re going to be fine!
I was a caregiver for my husband..I know that mixed feeling because I had to eventually go back to work. Tommy was only 56 when he had his stroke. My eldest daughter and her husband moved in for eight months and then, as he gradually got sicker he had to move to a healthcare facility, and I was so grateful that it was a good one and I could see him on the way to work and on the way home from work, and weekends, but I still had so much guilt. He passed away in 2014 as I look back I was so grateful that I could be there for him. Even when I went back to work, I was there for him, I have no regrets regarding my caring for him. You don’t always have to physically be there for somebody but emotionally you can be, your doing great. Have a blessed day.
Kyle, I adore the love that you have for your family and the love that you have for your students and co-workers. In my humble opinion, you are still being a caregiver, just in a slightly different role. A family needs income. And when not making that income you are back in your previous caregiver role. What more could you ask of yourself. In essence, you are still the 24-7 caregiver. And in an emergency, should one arise, you’ll be right by Jenny’s side. Have faith in yourself as you are a great caregiver, husband, father and teacher.
I'm in Canada so I don't know what it's like down there... I know here we have some kind of caregiver benefit through the gov to help people in situations like this... Could you possibly get somethin like that and work part time so you have more time at home? P.S. I've mentioned before that my ma raised me *completely alone* while struggling with cancer.... No family, no friend's support (busy, working folks)... It was tremendously hard for her...she feels like she failed me in a lot of ways (of course I don't see it that way....I think she's superwoman...) So kudos to you for the way you care for your family. Doing it completely alone was terrifying for my ma...and exhausting. Nobody should have to go through that alone. The fact that Jen has you, her dad, sister and friends to lean on is great. 👍
Ikwym. I'm here in Canada too, when I had a seizure that caused me to have a stroke I had a care-aid come in for 2 hours 7 days a week. And now that thing have gotten a bit worse. I have a 24/7 care aide that live up stairs from me. I have the basement. She is there to help me all my basic and medical needs. May Jenny Rest in Peace. She will never be forgotten... She is flying high like a beautiful butterfly.🦋🦋
I’ve been following y’all’s story but today my heart is with you Kyle and those precious children. God bless you also for going thru the hardest of times. You are an Angel the way you loved sweet Jenny. An Angel on earth. God bless you and the family ❤
You are the world's greatest care-giver, husband and father. God bless you., Kyle. adore u your sweet wife and children and wish you ALL good things. Be well beautiful Jen,
I was a care taker for both my mom and dad. Afterwards there were things I really felt so guilty of a few things I could have done over. For example my mom said she would like to have liver and onions and it was a little late, not so late that I could do it and I still think about that and that happened 2013. I didn’t have anybody that helped and I wished my 2 brothers and a sister would have helped me. I stayed at my dads for almost 3 years and I got so little help from my siblings that I was both mentally and physically exhausted. I kept that against them for a while. I was the only one married, I had a husband at home by himself and I felt like my family let me down. They were selfish and just stayed in their comfortable life and home. I know I’m complaining but i would do it all over again. I’m so happy that you had and still do. Especially having children. You inspire me Kyle and you are amazing ❤❤
You are so amazing don't ever forget that you have been there for your family 1000% and I know it's hard not being able to be there now just k now your beautiful wife understands and not in anyway does she think your abandoning them you can't always be there your providing for your family I can't even imagine how you feel but please don't think your not being there your amazing beautiful wife understands more then u know so just keep being the amazing man that you are God bless you all praying for your beautiful family I already feel apart of your family thank for allowing us to be apart of your story ❤ your a good man
In Va when someone is disabled, they will actually pay a family member to step up and be a care giver. If there is anyone inur family that doesn’t work and would like to help out.. that’s an option. I wish I lived next door as I work from home and could help out tremendously.. my heart goes out To you, Kevin, you are an amazing father and an amazing husband. I just watched a video of a lady that was terminally ill with cancer and she was diagnosed a year before she passed that she was terminal and within months of that he decided he didn’t wanna be in a relationship with her anymore, which was so Bad. How could a man be by woman so long and when she’s in her last months of life, he makes her move. She had to move in with her daughter six months before her passing. You are amazing kudos to you and what you’re doing for your family you are a manly man and I can see why Jenny loves you so much. Thank you for all you do for her stop❤
On hard days please remember you have a beautiful home with 2 healthy children. You have a steady income and lots of family and friends that love you. You also have a beautiful wife that does have some challenges in her life right now, BUT each day will get easier and when you guys are 60 years old you will look back at this and realize how strong you guys were and that you both are doing well and happy. Take it one day at a time and baby steps will see you through. Life is a journey and some journeys are harder than others. You guys will overcome this and all will be great again. Hold the faith. Hugs from Canada xoxo
It's not the amount of time spend with your family it's what you do with the time you have together. You guys are making wonderful memories. I'm praying that this treatment works and the cancer goes away.
Kyle you are such a good man….you are helping Jenny while you are away…you are helping her regain her independence….yes she needs help sometimes when she’s not feeling good but you guys have a great support team…. It takes a village to raise kids these days!! Also by going back to work you are helping financially to.. I’m sure it was hard but you are not abandoning your family you’re helping them grow…. Love ❤️ to all….🤗❤️👍🙏🙏
Hi Kyle, you are an amazing person. You could never fail your family, the love you have for each other will see you through these difficult times. I’ve never been in your position, but could you have separation anxiety? For 8 months you’ve been there 24\7, ready to handle everything. I’m wondering if you could have a graded return to work, perhaps working half days for a time? You should be proud of yourself hun, we all are. Xxx
My best friend from when I was in kindergarten, was diagnosed with stage 4b breast cancer. She had RADICAL surgery. Was going through the mother of all divorced at the time, so had to HIDE her cancer from her soon to be ex, and therefore everyone, for fear he'd use it to fight for custody. That was 20 years ago and she too is going strong. Her oncologist says "cancer is now a chronic disease.". It's something you can live with and adapt to.
Sending all my prayers
Kyle , your doing an INCREDIBLE job .
I’ve been on both ends of caregiver and the patient and what I can say as a caregiver is please take care of you too.
Many times as caregivers we overlook our own needs and put ourselves on the back burner and end up getting exhausted, not only physically, but mentally too.
So please take care of yourself 😊
I'm so happy you exist. 🍏
Thank you 😊
Hi Kyle. I’m so glad that your first week back at work was a success. I’m sorry that you’re experiencing concerns and anxiety over pulling back from your full-time caregiver role. It actually makes me think of separation anxiety that parents and children get when their kids first go to school. It does take time to adjust to that. The main thing I think is encouraging Jenny to stop being stubborn about reaching out for help whether that’s calling on a family member, explaining to the kids while she needs to take a break, taking her pain medication when she needs it, etc. This is a really important adjustment process for her too and I’m sure you’re both going to sail through it brilliantly. You’re always in my prayers and thoughts. 💜💜💜
Kyle you could never fail your family even if you tried to! You are fantastic. Jen couldn't wish for a better hubby and the kids couldn't wish for a better dad. You are the glue that holds your beautiful family together, even when you're not at home. It must be so hard for you being away from them after all that time but please know that you are doing it to support the family that you love so very much, and who love you so very much. You couldn't have done any more than you have done and continue to do. You guys are an inspiration to all of us 💙
Yas sister! Preach! What she said 😀👍😘
I totally agree. Kyle is an amazing man. You have done everything you can for your family. May God bless you always.
I do not wish to upset you
But unfortunately your wonderful wife at stage 4, at best 5 yrs
At worst 1yr
You have become successful youtubers so it's a no brained what you need to do
@@dairinnally5912wow🤦♀️ You could have said how great of a husband and father he is and wish them the best.
@@dairinnally5912?????He is an amazing person that loves his family and misses his wonderful wife! Much love from around this wonderful earth!❤❤
You are an incredible husband! You and Jenny are so blessed to have each other. Continuing to pray for your family🙏❤️
Your chat today opened my eyes allowing me to understand this dark feeling I've been living with since the loss of my precious husband to cancer. I never felt I was his caregiver but more like I was his love giver. I wouldn't and didn't want to leave his side throughout our long journey. When you talked about going back to work and feeling like you abandoned Jenny, the children and your home, I realized that although I didn't have work to return to I had worse. My husband passed much sooner and unexpectedly and in one moment I was of no use to my love or anyone. It's ten years and I still don't know that I'm of any use. I pray for you and Jenny and your precious kiddos and hope that a well deserved miracle will come your way. We never gave up. Blessings from London, Ontario.
Hi Kyle so nice I see you getting back to normal things you a great dad and Jenny was a wonderful mom to your kids I miss seeing her just be strong in the time of your weakness we feel for you and the kids🙏for you and the kids ❤
When I was 30 I had stage 3 cancer I'm 50 now I was told I was terminal 2 years of verry bad times like Jenny I can relate to her .She looks great having a amazing husband like you helped me
Kyle, you are not Superman! You are doing the things you need to do. Your family is stepping up. They don't want to be pushed out either, I'm sure they are happy to be able to help. You all love each other and are all doing your best. Enjoy what you have, push through these tough times and don't be afraid to except help. God Bless you all.
I love your family so much. Thank you for your vulnerability and sharing your true thoughts and feelings. I don’t have any helpful advice, but just wanted to tell you that you’re doing an exceptional job. You’re one of a kind and the best example of a man and husband that I’ve seen. Your beautiful family is as lucky to have you, as you are to have them. ❤
You are an amazing person Kyle. Don't think for a minute that you have done anything wrong. It's hard to go through something like that. My sister had Hodkins Lymphoma and she had radiation but it was very difficult going through that. She's been in remission for 13 years so there is hope. You are doing a wonderful job as a father and husband, stay positive you've got this!
You are an amazing husband,father and caregiver. Ask for help when needed, and don’t feel guilty about going back to work. That’s what you needed to do for your family. Prayers for Jen and you and the kids!! ❤🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Kyle you're so good with the kids God will help you through this jenny was a wonderful woman she will be missed so much ❤️ 💛
Kyle you are the most wonderful husband and father.💙💙
Hang in there Kyle! Prayers and healing thoughts being sent to you and Jenny
HUGE HUGS young man - to both /ALL of you!!
Kyle... you are amazing and Jenny and you are definitely marriage goals. I'm battling breast cancer. When i was first diagnosed I told Jenny about it. She gave me the best advice. She told me to not let cancer take away my joy. This one sentence helped me so much. You've got this Kyle ❤️
Kyle, you have been such a great husband, caretaker and father. I love how you and Josh are so loving and support your wives through such painful times and never complains. I pray you realize it's great to be doing what you love and not feel guilty (as if you are leaving Jenny behind). Don't be so hard on yourself. PRAYERS FOR THE FAMILY.❤🙏
We need to keep the Go Fund page going !!!!!
You are a wonderful husband and father. You do amazing, being a care giver is a hard job. I wish you would consider setting up a ‘go fund’ page to unable you to spend more time at home. Who takes care of you, look after yourself. Wishing Jenny all the best with her treatment.
Thank you! you’re an A plus educator. You and Jenny are amazing!
You are one in a million as someone said below. I just pray that GOD completely heals Jenny and that your life can be back to normal, if someone deserves to be happy and have a happy ending is YOU GUYS!!!❤❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
You are SIMPLY THE BEST ❤❤❤ DON'T EVER FORGET THAT❤❤❤ JENNY AND THE KIDS LOVE YOU SO MUCH♥️♥️♥️
I am following your family's journey and I admire you all so much for your strength. I live far away, but I think of your family and pray for you every day. You all are so strong and inspire me every day. God Bless you.
You got this! It is good to share all of your feelings…it will help all of you!
Kyle, This 5 months since this video, but I hear your stuggle leaving Jenny. God bless you. Your in my prayers, all of you.❤💓
Oh Kyle my heart hurts for you all. We all see it's hard for you. You are a man, husband, and father but you are doing the best as you can. You must give yourself a break. You can't go 100 all the time. Set bad and enjoy life a little . Asking for Help Make you stronger. I was a caregiver for my sister. It is the hardest job in the world But the most selfless act. You are doing a great job. Prayers for your family.
Working and providing for your family is still supporting your family also, but in a different way. You are an awesome husband and father.
You will learn to live this new normal in your life. You will do this because you want to. It was hard and terrifying when you started this journey And you have been amazing. Your life journey will continue to change and you will grow stronger with each challenge.
As my sister's caregiver years ago, I want to express my admiration and support. I recognized the look when Jenny discussed Amivantama b needing to be paused. I know part of you wished you were there when she had the reaction. It was courageous and wise to accept the help from her sister. You are so completely committed to Jenny and the kids that you need to refuel. I didn't recognize it in time and got severely ill. Self care is essential so you can continue being that stellar husband, father and caregiver. I'm able to watch Jenny because knowing you're there makes it less triggering. Stay well Kyle, and know that we see you being a superhero ❤
Kyle, don’t beat
Yourself up for having to go back to work. You are financially being responsible. I’m glad you will ask for help.. people want to help. Stay
Positive because Jenny is strong !! ❤❤❤❤
Hi, I have breast cancer, I wish everytime to God it should be me, because I have no children, in matter effect I have no family, God bless you and your entire family.
I'm sorry you don't have family. I'm also sorry you wish it could have been you instead. Jesus is your family now and forever. Let the father guide you and your life will lead you to the place of joy.
You are husband GOALS!!! 💜
Hang in there. I know your torn. Never know what tomorrow holds.
Vulnerable. You feel as though you left your family vulnerable. But you did not- because you both have family willing and able to step in ASAP. It will be ok. As for the flipped time table - I wish no one had to spend more time at a job than with family. Nonetheless- keep up the great work.
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I am not saying that we don't have emotions. What I am saying is that, besides expressing them, rely on your intellect. In other words, sometimes we have to put our feelings aside for now and forge forward. During periods of supporting others, I put my feelings aside and deal with them later - as perhaps you do with your therapist. Cancer was never intended in God's original plan. God only allows this evil for a greater good. Evil never wins.
I think of you guys every day. When I feel myself getting crabby, I think of you two and how real and gracious and loving you are. You inspire me to do better and try harder.
Hi Kyle, I am a breast cancer survivor myself. I had 2 forms (one aggressive and the other not) at stage 2B. I was pretty much alone for the most part all through my battle without an amazing hubby there to help me.
I believe you and Jenny will be fine. Keep your faith in the Lord! I cried to Him everyday during and after my battle. He pulled me through it all. God bless you.
I am happy you got through your cancer fight. I too am a survivor❤
Me too I did it a lone my partner left when I found out my cancer came back ….. It’s so hard but your not a lone ❤❤
@@clairebeever3038so sorry that your partner abandoned you in your time of need.
Our choice in life partners is sooo very important!
She had lung cancer
Hello Kyle, i went through this as my wife went through chemo and as she declined. She found herself able to do less and less but i had exhausted my Family Medical Leave time and PTO. I can tell you that i had to reach out to friends. What we did was develop a schedule where we had people take shifts, for instance, Paula stayed Monday, Julie stayed Tuesday, etc., so that no one got burnt out, plus my wife got to spend time with her friends and vice versa. We also had some people split days. So each month, i had a schedule and luckily i had enough people that were willing and able to take a shift. That is the only way we made it and i was able to work knowing that she had company and was taken care of. Just my 2 cents.....it was so hard to leave her and i relate and feel for you. Love you guys!
So good to hear from you! Honestly what you described reminds me so much of what it feels like to be a working mom-always pulled in two different directions, two different worlds. It sounds like you are doing all the right things by reaching out to your therapist and expressing gratitude for your family. The only thing I can think of to add is to continue to have pride and care in yourself (because youre doing great and need to take care of yohrself in order to be there for others) and to possibly reach out to the parent of your former student who offered help. I'm sure she meant it wholeheartedly and it could be a connection for your wife - or just a relief of some tasks like grocery shopping or meal planning.
Good luck in week 2, you got this!
I know this is different. But my mom came to live with me in Utah, when she developed dementia. I had to get a care giver to be with her during the day.
Maybe y'all could hire someone part-time? Like for 3 or 4 hours a day? Kyle you are only 1 person.
Kyle you are one in a million. I’m so sorry you are struggling and feeling like you’re failing them. You are not. You need help too in all of this and thank you for giving us this perspective from the caregiver’s view. You’re such a good man, husband and father. I’m glad that you have this outlet to let your feelings out with us, just like Jenny does. You two are shining examples of grace under pressure, family positivity, and how to ask for help. We love you both so much and thank you for giving us the privilege of commenting back. It helps us too. Yes, each week will get better. You’ve got this. Praying 🙏🏻 ❤for you and your beautiful family.
It's the hardest thing to ask for help, it really is. To show vulnerability. Not easy😔
Yes everyone that knows you two will be glad to help ya please ask for help.
I can’t imagine the mixed feelings you have about going back to work. Be as kind to yourself as you are to your beautiful family! ❤
Kyle you are only human DONT stress yourself out
Hi Kyle. You and your kids are going to be okay. Your sparkly angel is watching over you guys. The way you and Jenny approached this with grace and honesty will help in the long run. Keeping your family in my prayers daily.
Hi, Kyle. I don’t have any words of wisdom to offer, but I just have to tell you that you are an AMAZING husband and dad. I know that you belong to a club that nobody wants to be in, but watching you and Jenny going through this journey has reminded me of what’s important in life. I pray for all of you every night. ❤️❤️💙💖
Becky those are wise words to say. Heartfelt Heart-sent , words spoken from the heart are wisdom n knowledge. ❤
Hi Kyle, I worked over 30 years as a nurse's aide and was also caregiver for both my parents. I worked night shift (11-7) and then cared for them until 5 pm when my sister relieved me. I then went home to sleep a few hours and back to work that night. It was difficult to say the least and my husband was so loving, helpful and understanding for those few years. Both parents have earned their angel wings and I am no longer able to work because I am now caregiver for that loving husband who has dementia. No, it's not cancer but it is still a horrible, debilitating disease. I'm glad you are reaching out for help, advice and support because I didn't do that and in time the stress and emotions caught up with me. If I can give you any advice it would be to be sure to take some time to take care of yourself. Do things you love that don't involve caregiving even if it's for short period. You need to rest and recharge to be the best husband , dad and caregiver that you want to be. Those short periods will also help Jenny gain more confidence in her abilities to take care of what she is able to. Your family, students and in fact this world is lucky to have a compassionate man not afraid to ask for help and express his feelings. My thoughts and prayers will remain flowing in the direction of your home.
Bless you . I wish there were more people like you in the world. If there were, the world would be a nicer place . ❤❤❤❤
Aww thank you so much
My pleasure ❤. Each heart represents your families love for each other .
Bless your heart Kyle. You are a truly amazing husband and father. I'm sending you and your beautiful family so much love and healing prayers always ❤️ xxx 🙏🙏
Hi Kyle! You are an amazing husband and father. I was caregiver to my beloved Dad (my sister and I did it together). He was so ill, he had a terrible primary brain tumor. He was 79. I had to return to work after a 6 week leave of absence. It felt great to be back at work, but Dad was so ill and needed two caregivers. So I had to take early retirement. We had barely any help caring for my Dad. It is so important to ask for help.
Prayers in Jesus’s Name that all goes well for you, Jenny, and those adorable children. Sending all my love and hugs! God bless you all 🤗❤️🙏🏻
Wow , your love and care for your family is amazing. My prayers are with you.
I am taking care of my husband that had esophagus cancer had surgery to take the tumor out no cancer any where else but boy being care giver is a hard journey . He is doing immunotherapy for a precaution measure. I don’t think I would of had the strength if I had littles to take care of too. You and Jenny are doing an amazing job.
Praying for you and your family Kyle. Your guilt is normal but is hard to feel. Jenny is beautiful and such a fighter. I’m impressed with your love for Jenny and how you do your best to keep her spirits up as she fights this terrible cancer. Thank you for sharing your side of this journey y’all are on. 😊🙏💗
Kyle, you restore my faith in humankind after watching this. Your love for Jenny and the kids and your uncomplaining willingness to be an amazing caregiver warms my heart.
Thanks for the update Kyle. Big week for you all. Sending love as always. ❤
Well done on your honesty and putting it out there on how you have felt this week returning to work and grieving your care giver role. Keep using your channel and reaching, you are an amazing husband and Dad ❤
Seeing a counselor is lifesaving. Don't miss your appointments, they give uou the strength to cope and carry on. You've done an amazing job so far, but life must go on. Blessings to you and Jenny and the the kiddos ❤
You are amazing! Don't forget the bike Jenny gave you! She wants you to ride it and relieve some stress! I know it's hard..stress relief is a MUST! LOVE YOU SO MUCH! ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉
Kyle, I am Proud you got to go back to Work! Hopefully that will help Some! Kyle, never feel that you let your Wife or Children Down,
Because you are the Best Husband & Father anyone could Possibly be! Youare an Amazing Human Being!!
Sending Love ❤️❤️💕 &🙏🙏🙏
Just a few words to tell you that you are doing an amazing job Kyle. You are so dedicated to everything you do and give 100% but, like you said, time is key. Take some pressure off yourself and it will all fit into place. You will both have a new normal. Nothing ever stays the same. Circumstances change and when they do, you change. You adapt… the circle keeps turning. You are an absolute inspirational little family. Keep on keeping on. Oh… and I also have to say that you are the absolute role model for your kids. All my love and prayers to you all ❤❤
I totally agree with you that at the end of the day, there is no time left to spend with your family. But it is great to finally have you back at work and helping your students like me.
-Mark Salas
Awesome to hear from a student.
You are needed in both ,school n home and making an impact in peoples lives,
Take care of yourself too.
You are an amazing husband, father and friend to Jenny and children. Prayers for strength and peace...you are doing great!!!
Hi Kyle... I love and pray for your family always... but could you let us know if you ever have "me" time? How do you recharge? With parenting, teaching, caregiving, and RUclips, etc., it seems you are always on the go, and I'm concerned about your wellbeing in all its forms. God bless you...🤗
Kyle, you did not leave Jenny high and dry. The world need more husbands and caring people like you. You and your children and family are in my thought and prayers. Please take care of you now.
Yes you’re so right Kyle. You can’t be all things to all people. Eventually you will have to ask for help or take a step back to do other things you need to do (whether you like it or not). When I was caring for my husband full time it felt in a way as though I was undoing what had happened to him and when I had him go into care so I could manage everything else I felt like I was abandoning him. I had to “leave” him to cope with all the emotions of it all on his own. The trouble is I can’t fix it and him having to face it in his own, in his own style is an inevitability. All that scrambling I did to avoid that just made me sicker myself (I have been both cared for and carer). You know what you have to do Kyle. It’s horrible and you’ll never fully get over it, but some days will be better than others and you will always have the love and support of your family and community and us here to vent to anytime. Big love and respect Kyle. Hang in there man 🥹
Thank you so much for your kindness
@@kyleapple9702 oh Kyle it’s my pleasure. I wish there was more I could do. I feel your pain. I really do.
I believe Jenny will discover she can still do some of the normal mom things that will build her confidence. As a caregiver for my daughter with cancer I realized I was being too overprotective. When I backed off she regained some important confidence needed for her to get healthier.
So great to have an empty nester who knows and appreciates you so much. Don’t be shy. Please reach out as you need to. They earnestly want to help. 🩷☝️💙. God bless you !
Dear Kyle, you are such a huge blessing to Jenny and your kids. You are strong and able. You have provided for them. You are the best husband and daddy. I pray God continues to bless you as you return to work with less anxiety and worry. Lean on God and He will carry you through.
I have learned in the past 3 years of CV that we can truly live on less. How we make things so important and at the same time, we don't recognize that time is passing us by. I am considered middle aged now but in looking back how differently I would have done everything.
You willget there, you and Jenny are legends Continued Prayers❤❤
Your doing an Amazing job Kyle .
Thanks for being raw and emotional, we need more of this honesty and open-ness from males, so we can make it normal
Oh Kyle, you are in No way a failure or abandoning her. She knows that you are there on every level, and she knows you have to go back to work for the finances. You are a wonderful husband, Dad, provider. Bless you, hugs, and prayers for some inner peace.
Hi Kyle, don't worry about going back to work, Jenny is doing well and you couldn't have done better as you did so far 🤗🍀best wishes for you and your family 🙏🍀
Way to go, Kyle! You are a great person. 😊
Kyle, we ALL want to take care of ourselves and not ask for help; you are not alone. We all need to take care of each other - I’m sure everyone is happy to do so for you guys. Things will get better. Look after yourself 🤗🌈.
Kyle I am so glad u went back to work. Sometimes people can do more than they think they can. My husband and I were both diagnosed with cancer at the same time (in our 60’s) and also I was full time caregiver for my 90 year old mom. Chemo/ radiation/surgery definitely takes it’s toll on you but eventually everything becomes the “new normal “ and Jenny hopefully will see she is stronger than what she thinks she is. It’s good to try to get back to a normal routine for everyone. You do so so much but sometimes u have realize that cancer or any illness is sometimes harder on the caregiver than the patient. Even my doctors told me that. Keep up the great work. So happy for u.
Kyle, you, Jenny and your family are in my thoughts and prayers 🙏🙏🙏🙏
I hope your students know they have to be stars for you! Nothing less will do, dammut!
Hi Kyle. I've been watching yours and jennies videos. my son had cancer back in 2003 and completed his therapy the following year successfully. He was a senior in high school and he left that following April for treatment. He didn't finish school but fortunately the school graduated him anyways. And another blessing he felt well enough to attend his graduation and senior prom. He is 38 now and healthy thank God! And I'm hoping the same thing will happen with jenny. I think what happened with us is that we were in survival mode and his treatment was like being in a whirlwind. We had no down time during that time. We also had 2 other kids one in college and my daughter with down syndrome. It was super scary time for my husband and but we solidered thru and like you said in your video time heals all things. We made it thru and you and jenny will too. Btw love yours and Jenny's videos!!
You‘re an amazing open and honest guy. Your words just blew me away, wow. I understand your struggle, I‘m a caregiver as well. I think you’re doing a wonderful job, you have a therapist, so you’re also taking care of yourself! That’s so important. I honestly believe that you’re going to be fine!
Kyle you are a great dad to your kids and was a wonderful buddy 😊
I was a caregiver for my husband..I know that mixed feeling because I had to eventually go back to work. Tommy was only 56 when he had his stroke. My eldest daughter and her husband moved in for eight months and then, as he gradually got sicker he had to move to a healthcare facility, and I was so grateful that it was a good one and I could see him on the way to work and on the way home from work, and weekends, but I still had so much guilt. He passed away in 2014 as I look back I was so grateful that I could be there for him. Even when I went back to work, I was there for him, I have no regrets regarding my caring for him. You don’t always have to physically be there for somebody but emotionally you can be, your doing great. Have a blessed day.
Kyle, I adore the love that you have for your family and the love that you have for your students and co-workers. In my humble opinion, you are still being a caregiver, just in a slightly different role. A family needs income. And when not making that income you are back in your previous caregiver role. What more could you ask of yourself. In essence, you are still the 24-7 caregiver. And in an emergency, should one arise, you’ll be right by Jenny’s side. Have faith in yourself as you are a great caregiver, husband, father and teacher.
I'm in Canada so I don't know what it's like down there...
I know here we have some kind of caregiver benefit through the gov to help people in situations like this...
Could you possibly get somethin like that and work part time so you have more time at home?
P.S. I've mentioned before that my ma raised me *completely alone* while struggling with cancer....
No family, no friend's support (busy, working folks)...
It was tremendously hard for her...she feels like she failed me in a lot of ways (of course I don't see it that way....I think she's superwoman...)
So kudos to you for the way you care for your family.
Doing it completely alone was terrifying for my ma...and exhausting. Nobody should have to go through that alone. The fact that Jen has you, her dad, sister and friends to lean on is great. 👍
Ikwym. I'm here in Canada too, when I had a seizure that caused me to have a stroke I had a care-aid come in for 2 hours 7 days a week. And now that thing have gotten a bit worse. I have a 24/7 care aide that live up stairs from me. I have the basement. She is there to help me all my basic and medical needs.
May Jenny Rest in Peace. She will never be forgotten... She is flying high like a beautiful butterfly.🦋🦋
You are doing an amazing job. As a caretaker to my youngest son who is disabled and running my own business - the balancing act is a real struggle
It really is
Hi Kyle I a. Cancer survivor alright Kyle prayers for your family.😇🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏😇
I’ve been following y’all’s story but today my heart is with you Kyle and those precious children. God bless you also for going thru the hardest of times. You are an Angel the way you loved sweet Jenny. An Angel on earth. God bless you and the family ❤
You are the world's greatest care-giver, husband and father. God bless you., Kyle. adore u
your sweet wife and children and wish you ALL good things. Be well beautiful Jen,
I was a care taker for both my mom and dad. Afterwards there were things I really felt so guilty of a few things I could have done over. For example my mom said she would like to have liver and onions and it was a little late, not so late that I could do it and I still think about that and that happened 2013. I didn’t have anybody that helped and I wished my 2 brothers and a sister would have helped me. I stayed at my dads for almost 3 years and I got so little help from my siblings that I was both mentally and physically exhausted. I kept that against them for a while. I was the only one married, I had a husband at home by himself and I felt like my family let me down. They were selfish and just stayed in their comfortable life and home. I know I’m complaining but i would do it all over again. I’m so happy that you had and still do. Especially having children. You inspire me Kyle and you are amazing ❤❤
I am fairly new to Jenny's channel and I just subscribed to yours. What grades and subject do you teach
It's like separation anxiety. When a mom gores back to work after she has a baby. It's awful!!
I’ll just put this out there…you would make an amazing nurse 👨⚕️
You are so amazing don't ever forget that you have been there for your family 1000% and I know it's hard not being able to be there now just k now your beautiful wife understands and not in anyway does she think your abandoning them you can't always be there your providing for your family I can't even imagine how you feel but please don't think your not being there your amazing beautiful wife understands more then u know so just keep being the amazing man that you are God bless you all praying for your beautiful family I already feel apart of your family thank for allowing us to be apart of your story ❤ your a good man
In Va when someone is disabled, they will actually pay a family member to step up and be a care giver. If there is anyone inur family that doesn’t work and would like to help out.. that’s an option. I wish I lived next door as I work from home and could help out tremendously.. my heart goes out
To you, Kevin, you are an amazing father and an amazing husband. I just watched a video of a lady that was terminally ill with cancer and she was diagnosed a year before she passed that she was terminal and within months of that he decided he didn’t wanna be in a relationship with her anymore, which was so Bad. How could a man be by woman so long and when she’s in her last months of life, he makes her move. She had to move in with her daughter six months before her passing. You are amazing kudos to you and what you’re doing for your family you are a manly man and I can see why Jenny loves you so much. Thank you for all you do for her stop❤
I have been a caregiver for over 30 years. Loved it. I’m retired now. But I can relate to all of what you are going thru.
I’m always praising Jenny & forget to tell you what an amazing Dad, husband & caregiver you are. ❤
On hard days please remember you have a beautiful home with 2 healthy children. You have a steady income and lots of family and friends that love you. You also have a beautiful wife that does have some challenges in her life right now, BUT each day will get easier and when you guys are 60 years old you will look back at this and realize how strong you guys were and that you both are doing well and happy. Take it one day at a time and baby steps will see you through. Life is a journey and some journeys are harder than others. You guys will overcome this and all will be great again. Hold the faith. Hugs from Canada xoxo
It's not the amount of time spend with your family it's what you do with the time you have together. You guys are making wonderful memories. I'm praying that this treatment works and the cancer goes away.
Kyle you are such a good man….you are helping Jenny while you are away…you are helping her regain her independence….yes she needs help sometimes when she’s not feeling good but you guys have a great support team…. It takes a village to raise kids these days!!
Also by going back to work you are helping financially to.. I’m sure it was hard but you are not abandoning your family you’re helping them grow…. Love ❤️ to all….🤗❤️👍🙏🙏
Hi Kyle, you are an amazing person. You could never fail your family, the love you have for each other will see you through these difficult times. I’ve never been in your position, but could you have separation anxiety? For 8 months you’ve been there 24\7, ready to handle everything. I’m wondering if you could have a graded return to work, perhaps working half days for a time? You should be proud of yourself hun, we all are. Xxx
Huge adjustment for all of you.
Kyle you have been the most attentive caregiver I have ever seen. You couldn't have done a better job.
Kyle it is good for you to go back to work in your actual situation to keep your mind busy you are an awesome Dad I am sure Jenny is proud of you