What's the difference talking to a girl or boy? I talk to a load of girls if they're next to me in class. The one thing I can't do is talk to the girl I love
Let me make things easier for you guys. First of all, I don't even know wtf am I doing here since probably most of the ppl that are watching this, lack confidence which is not my case. Big time. Secondly, here's what you should do : - Be a fucking man : Drop all the " :) " ; " :D " bullshit and just say what you think without being totally harsh, make it funny ; Begin to believe that you rule the world and that you already have the girl you want ; Walk with confidence for fuck's sake etc... - Dress nice, jeans, nice shoes (none of that air max crap and shit like that, you're a man not a swagger), white or blue shirt, stay simple and clean basically. - Don't be a shoe-licker, she should be the one licking your shoes, not you. Last advice, don't be jealous or nervous about other guys, if you're confident enough, they're no danger. You're a man, suck it up. Any doubts you may have, pls don't contact me
"She should be the shoe-licker", yeah that's where I lost you. A relationship needs two people who are comfortable with each other. One of the people should not be kissing the ass of the other, no matter their gender. I do like what you said about confidence, though. No one should be fake on their dates, I agree with you on that.
Anna Thompson True story, though, I wrote about my experience. I don't like relationships, I prefer to keep it open, friends with benefits. Note that I'm not a player, players lie to get what they want. They say the kind of shitty things that you guys, as " relationship lovers" want to hear. That's the difference, I'm so over confident that I usually say whatever pumps up in my mind at the moment I'm talking to her, I'm always honest about my intentions. I only said that because that's the mindset you, as a guy, must have, the "I'm the God" mindset
Opinion: To talk to your crush with out it bein awkward... 1. Just be yourself... Umm find things in common, you need to basically ask him or her questions about their hobbies and if your starting off te convo start out with a friendly question. (Ex. What sport do you like to play or watch) 2. Eye contact: you want to look at them straight in the eye... Don't like stare at them... Making it awkward - NO! - just make eye contact when the person is talking 3. Never talk about ex's You don't want to have this guy who likes you back and the guy starts talking about this other girl or involving you in their relationships... No! That's a no no. 4. Don't gossip Guys tend to tell what ever you tell them to ppl. Unless this is in camp or somewhere over summer or spring break chances are they will tell the person or everyone they can your secret.
You say "don't look nervous while talking to them", but that's not something I can control! I can't just be like, oh whoopdy doo, let me just not look nervous while I'm talking to this guy.
I need help. So there's this girl i kinda like, and I think she likes me. Im in middle school and my during class, she sometimes kinda looks at me (like looking at the corner of her eye) and sometimes just looks straight at me. My friends say that she keeps looking at me. She always play with her hair a lot when I look at her behind her back. During break times, she and a group of friends would walk around me and giggle and stuff and would mess around with my friends to maybe get attention. I remember one of her friends just came up to me and asked where I'm from and stuff. Sometimes I can see her looking at my direction, but she doesn't look right at me. We made eye contact once but for only like 2 seconds and then she looked away. Her friends would make fun of me and use jokes where I'm from. Does anyone think that she might be interested in me judging by this information? I like her a lot and she's really pretty.
She sure is interested in you :) Don't worry about her friends, they're just messing around because they know that she likes you. I'm kind of in the same situation but i'm the girl you described :) I'm just too shy to come up to the guy i like, unlike my friends who are always willing to go up to him and ask him something. You should start a conversation with her when she's alone, or text her if you have her number (or if you don't you can ask her friends for it). hope it helps you somehow and good luck!
You cant just like her because of her looks... thats just rude and it makes guys jerks. Get to know her. She is interested but dont over do it. But do tell her how you feel like after awhile, girls like to know how guys feel. Guys dont really tell girls how they feel so thats how relationships fall apart.
I reaaaaally need advice!!! I really really love this guy at my school. he is Korean. We haven't talked yet, but he stares at me whenever he sees me (in between classes and at lunch. we have no classes together ;____;) . so I asked one of my friends for advice. she said that I need to stop being shy. I CANT!!!! I AM REAAAAAAAAAAALLY SHY AND I CANT DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT!!!! she doesn't understand that I can't stop being shy! oh by the way my goal is to say hi to him sometime next week. how do I build up some confidence?!
I think when ever he stares at you, you should look back, smile and wave and if he does the same that's good, then that builds your self confidence and then you guys will be friendlier so you can actually go and talk to him and it won't really feel like your talking to a stranger. Cuz that's a little awkward not gonna lie.
Megan W. Well actually first time you look at him you kinda like wave with your head second time you give him a smile and after you smile you walk up to him and ask him something if you want to build up confidence everymorning look in the mirror and say hi beauty sounds weird but I geuss it works for some lol and don't be shy if he rejected you you where confident enough to make a big step and speak to him practice with it and you will be a player ;) no need to be shy
***** Hope for you he will finally man up because most guys are afraid of being rejected I think it's a shame if a guy thinks the women has to do the work but yeah that is just me ;)
I hate it when guys are attracted more to girls with make up and cute dresses than girls with no make up and a t-shirt and jeans. I mean, chances are that the girls with no makeup are goanna be nicer and funnier cuz they don't care what people think as much as the other ones do!!!! I'm not sayin the prettier ones are bad, im just saying that they might be lairs cuz they care more about what others think. They might care so much that they have to lie to protect their "reputation." I mean, COME ON! in a couple years your not even goanna b in the same school anymore, so why does it EVEN MATTER!?!?!!!!????
I don't think that wearing makeup makes me a lair, I just feel better with makeup on even though I prefer to wear a t shirt and jeans. and no I do not lie to protect my reputation cuz I don't give a damn about my reputation, I m awkward and I like it and I m not planning on acting any other way (and believe me, the only reason I m still in school is because I keep remembering that in a couple of years they will be out of my life)
i don't really get comfterble when I'm near my crush and I just look away and I look back at her after 1 minutes. I just get TOO nervous and she stays with her friends ALOT. I don't want the whole school or my class to know that I like her. I don't like girls that talks about TOO girly stuff I need a TON of help. I will appreciate it if someone tells me some tips. I'm not really popular at school. I don't even know if she likes me or not. I always try to yawn on purpose because I get TOO nervous. I need some help from you. I will appreciate if you help me. ( Help= me subbing to you )
PLEASE I NEED YOUR HELP HERES MY STORY... So like ive been having a major cush on a guy and hes currently a senior and im a sophmore Ive been liking him since the end of last year...So we've NEVER talked and he knows i like him for about a month and like hes also the VERY shy type so idk what to do And we see eachother in the hallways alot. And his friends and my friend know and Im The Shy type too but im willing to do something Please help me because i honestly dont know what to do anymore
Guys dont like it when girl talk about other people or when they are shy and just look at their phone or when they talk about makeup or like things about girls like k i did my nails or witch looks better like this or this and theee both horrible
wow guys this actually worked for me I asked my crush out a couple weeks ago and we are so happy together. My advice is to just keep on trying and be yourself when talking don't try and be someone you aren't.
I hate other guys that are arrogant sports players (football players). Not every one is going to be in the NFL. Seriously get a job, be smart works out in the long run. A lot of football players think they are the best and they are so_____. (fill in the blank) Hate it when others think they are better than everyone else. So what if your in football, ok your athletic but for how long your not going to do it all your life as a profession, you may be good at it but is all these things I just described going to benefit you. You look like a Massive jerk that others don't want to be around. But not everyone is like this if this applies to you do your self a favor don't be like this, its better if we have less people like that in the world, we get more done that way. If this isn't you then you earn all my respect because your not one of the many high schoolers crying out for attention and lady friends. Others that do play football and don't constantly brag or talk about football and you play football just to have fun and do it just to do it, YOU ARE LEGENDARY. The other arrogant hard headed football players in high school, stop crying for attention, stop trying to impress others unless you are at Peyton Manning status, otherwise pipe down get back to school. Don't be the jerk that every other guy hates because that will drive some people the absolute balls insane. Also girls why do you like football players that are like this that are probably just hiding it to impress you. Just putting it out there. Well I guess that's why people grow up then. Again I missed something, do girls just like football players because they have muscle and/or abs, because there are people that don't play sports and still look ripped or like they actually live and breathe sports. Some one probably read the entire thing, so tell me what you think?
I play football (middle linebacker) and I am the captain. I do not think I'm the best nor the toughest! You will find cocky people everywhere it's not just us, so please before you run your mouth at least know what your saying!
***** Not calling you one of these people, but that's your experience bud but my experience Cool = Full of yourself arrogant "stud muffin" status isn't a good look to others.Not saying you are but at my school sports = look at me I'm so amazing at getting hurt. One of my teachers that used to teach football said, " football isn't going to be around much longer with so many injuries. But sports should = exercise+fun= healthy, that's what sports are for and some just give it a bad look, or discourages others from playing that sport.
jaceebo Not the point It's the personality not the man Still not everyone gets to play in the NFL, but its good to strive for it if you have good values.
well first of all build self confidence, practice some where quiet first and then maybe practice with a friend, next find what she likes to talk about like Lizzie said in the video, and maybe when you start talking your will find a common interest, if you keep it up you will find more common interests, and eventually you will become friends, then best friends, and then you will be together. Have patience though, and never give up. May the lord be with you, ill pray for you too. good luck!
alright, here's my problem, since I have no where else to post it (BEWARE FOR A WALL OF TEXT) 1. there's a girl in a few of my classes, we actually talked to each other a bit before and they were pretty good conversations 2. half the school year in I realized that I gained a crush on her, and now I just feel nervous and can't talk to her at all. Now I'm kinda confused as to if she likes me or not, because- she seems to show body language signs that she feels the same for me Signs I've noticed: feet almost always pointed towards me, looks at me a lot and i think her irises were big, she always seems to somewhat gravitate towards me when we're standing in gym (she kinda, for the lack of a better word, shuffles back and forth, but she generally gets closer to me each time she does, then she kinda tries to start distancing herself but ends up getting close to me again, which I don't think can be accidental. she also always seems to be there for me in a way as in, a few times when a sub teacher was passing out graded papers and she wanted to know where I was (called out my full name) the girl is always the one to instantly point out where I am, and a few times when I forgot my laptop charger and I had to charge she was always the first to lend it out. also on a few field trips she sat right next to me on the bus, when there were plenty of other free seats. she's also laughed at quite a bit of the "funny" things when they weren't really funny. no one else would laugh. and I may have just been hearing things, but she was friends with this one really douchey girl who was always a prick to me, and I think that girl said something about her having a crush on me. it was right after the douchey girl berated me for some nonsensical shit, and it was rather faint but I could've sworn I heard her say "you seriously have a crush on him??". but she also just seems to not wanna talk to me, for example I'll say thank you for something like the charger but she won't respond at all, and a few other similar instances. she once got angry and left the room during homeroom when one of the prankster kids starting putting her + this other boy's name on the wall, and she seems to enjoy talking to "this other boy" during homeroom too. I'm just... lost. BEYOND lost, actually. I keep trying to say hi or wave in the hall when I pass her too but she's usually either with a friend or two, or I end up chickening out. sorry for the wall, I just need an answer for this badly. there's 9 weeks left of school and I wanna atleast get _somewhere_ with her. T_T
also what I've found is that you want to have eye contact because I always get nervous and look away but you need to look at them somewhere near their eyes if you're too shy to look in their eyes then look at their forehead.
I have a friend an her and me are both interested in gaming and she's really pretty. We have a few clases together and we sit with each other but im not sure how to keep a conversation going to make sure NO awkward moments occur haha pls give some advice if you have any
Im very awk and shy and not that very good at talking to my crush but I always catch him randomly looking at me but I don't know if it's in a bad or good way I also don't know how to approach him about it
When I'm my crush we're both super awkward x10 and only around him for some reason I get super awkward, I talk slowly and I move my hands a lot. If I hug him for a long time her hugs me tighter and rocks me back and forth and literally makes my heart flutter. We like the same music, and I never know what to talk about in music and such. He is so hard to talk to :c he's my best friend....
Well I think like when girls are talking about fashion but I do think it is great to listen to them and to make them think they can talk to you about anything
Don't worry, I moved to a new place when I started high school, it'll take a liitle while but you'll be okay just try and talk to people and im sur you'll have no problem getting friends.
OK so my crush used to like me a year or two ago, but I didn't have a crush on her then... Now it's later and I have a crush on her and I don't think she has a crush on me. I've had one class with her this year and we're on opposite ends of the room. ): . I make her laugh a lot but our conversations are awkward a lot of the time... Any advice??
To actually get to said conversation: First, if you like someone, make a move. If you just stare and drool over them for weeks, you'll freak them out and lose your shot. Secondly, when you inevitably do stare/drool over them, always have a smile ready for when they notice you, or better yet, wear it beforehand and have a hello-nod or wave ready for deployment. A serious face, or worse, a scared one, will also freak them out and doom any conversation you might attempt with them afterwards. Other than that, believe me, it's out of our hands. All people can really do when they're scared is be themselves. If they like ya back they'll join in and help and the conversation will go smoothly. If they don't then, odds are, nothing you may say will change their minds.. unless you're a freaking wordsmith.
you said for guys to comment on what they don't like to hear about, I personally feel that when I like someone, it does not matter what she is talking about it does not bother me. now I only really talk to one or two girls so i guess i don't get quite as much crap as some. Just thought id through my input into the water.
I have a problem... I've developed a crush on my best friend's brother. My best friend knows about it and wants us to get together, so she keeps inviting me over her house. The other day I went over their house and he came into the room and started talking to me about himself and cracking jokes and kept wanting me to play video games with him, and it was so hard not to squeal out loud. And then he started playing his guitar and singing and tried to get me and his sister (my best friend) to sing along. And he kept asking me about random personal things. I doubt that he would like me back, but just everything about him makes me so happy. He appreciates the arts more than he does sports, and that's just one of the best things ever for someone like myself. Thank God you made this video, it actually give me a lot more courage to talk to him now.
Do don't even know you, but I'm so happy for you! He seems like a cool guy, you should be together but if that doesn't work out at least you can be friends! Good luck!😀
yeah im shy like that too but trust me you should do the same as your friends coz then he will notice you and you could become friends with him and that would give you a great chance.
There's this girl at my school and I like her and glance at her during class I think she saw me glance at her but I don't know. I want to talk to her but I'm just very nervous when I try to say something I try to start a conversation with her but whenever I try to talk to her I get worried about other people judging me
WOW! I've recently hit that point were i regret my life and i'm trying to turn everything around by learning where i went wrong. I did EVERYTHING you pretty much said not to do at some point in my life. Where were you when i needed this kind of advice XD.
dude!!! just do it! it doesnt matter if she rejects you, you are tough enough to ask her out! people will think you are tough, i promise. dont be embarresed. and if people laugh of you if she rejects you, just say something like: "well, it was worth a try" or "better luck next time". maybe they will laugh some more at the moment, but they will realize that you are tougher than them, because you actullay dare to ask a girl out!!! do it dude! i belive in you!
I had my friends tell the guy I like that I like him. It was easy for them because all of the girls in the class that him and me are in are best friends with him even my friends. But he has a little "group" with three girls and another guy, and I think he likes on of these girls. But when they told him he didn't believe it, but then I have another one of closest friends tell him it was true. He asked if I like liked him or just as a friend, my friend said as a crush, mostly because he thought of us like friends, and he actually said that. Then the next day there was a field trip and guess who was his bus partner the girl I think that he likes in his little "group". We made eye contact once and awhile. It was awkward. He had my friend tell me that he promised nothing will change and that he will not make it awkward. But he also said that he will give anyone a chance if they are not girly girls, that applies to girls who play with dolls so that doesn't apply to me (because the friend has might like is a total fangirl but covers it up with sports). But what does he mean by chance? Not only that but he is moving into another school district next year, and this school year is almost over, and I might move to another state. I can hardly go a day without seeing him, how am I going to do it the rest of my life? I've tried to give up my crush but it isn't working. My friend who are friend with him (including the girl I think he likes) says to not give up but I can't even. But it's horrible because the girl I think he likes sits right next to me so normally have watch them talk while I suffer. But he gets in trouble a lot in class but I never minded that he encouraged me when I needed most and gives me the best feeling in the world.
So the guy I like is on the Varsity football team at school and he just had a game last night, and I love football because my older brothers play it so I wouldn't mind talking about football with him because I love it!
To guys: even if a girl isn't interested doesn't mean you don't have a chance. If you show them respect and treat them well and make them feel good (if they aren't stuck up) they will remember you. ;)
I REALLY like this boy. Ive liked 2 others before, but this time it feels differently, it feels like hes the one. He keeps looking at me and i keep looking at him, bur we have NEVER talked. But everytime his friend sees me, he nudges him
If he stares at me and smiles, talks to me sometimes about personal stuff but then never replies to my texts but sees them. How do i approach him without making it really awkward
So my crush has openly liked my best friend for awhile but lately he has been flirting with me and talking to me a lot more than he does with her. Does this mean he's over her and that he likes me or is he using me to try and make her jealous?
And also some times i catch her looking at me so does that mean she might like me also... She doesn't ignore me when i see her around school she does say hi
when me and this guy were dating i broke up with him because i got super nervous about it, cause he kept telling me i was beatiful and ive never heard that from anyone, so i broke up with him stupidly. its been a few months and hes dating my best friend. now i hang out around them and stuff but i can tell now hes getting annoyed. And i think i still like him, i feel superguilty cause of my friend but i want him back, what do i do?
Hey, I just found this channel and you're pretty huge so you probably won't be able to answer but I have to tell someone lol. Anyways, I met this girl this year and she's absolutely amazing, she's so talented, a soccer player and an extracurricular fanatic. Like I don't know, I look at her and day dream (not in a weird way lol), she has very pretty eyes an a great personality; super nice, super outgoing, a lot of friends and that is where we differ besides the part of being super nice. I'm not so outgoing and I only have this set friend group and I know that she doesn't really know any of the people I hang out with but I know some people that she knows. When I'm around her, I get really nervous and stutter often and sometimes I pull off a conversation and sometimes I lead it to an awkward silence. Now I don't know what this means but the other day, I didn't have a ride home (I KNOW THIS SOUNDS SO SILLY) but I asked nervously (as expected) and I noticed that she was acting like herself but kind of expecting a different question when I was asking it And now I feel like it'll be way different. I have this fantasy of asking her out but I don't know how to =/ . I don't want to miss this shot, she's just that amazing, thank you to whoever responds ! Also, I've been searching ways to do this but they all are so alike, i wish there was a key to confidence and something you develop. I heard one way to think of them as just people and they are or to expect them to like you.
nothing like a better advice to ask a girl from a girl . 1. have a small talk. in school when you find her say " hi, how are you today? " and then BOOM you two are talking ! 2. be friends with her and her friends hang with her and her friends especially with her friends cause if you do you will have more info about her . when you finished these steps reply to me for more tips good luck😊 go get her tiger! 😋
I'm a girl and I love old hot rods and old rock n' roll. I don;t know why guys don't like me... I'm mellow, talented, and loyal. I guess everybody these days goes my looks, not personality. I am so different from every girl my age. Nice video by the way it really helped!
I have a question, there's this guy I like at school but I don't know what to because every time I talk to him his friends or my friends come up and literally push us to talk and I don't know what to do because the only time I get to talk to him is on the way home, when his mom or my mom is in the car, did I mention that we are neighbors? I don't know what to do because we like each other but we never get time to talk to each other alone I only have one period with him every other day!!!
im 12 and in sixth grade. I am way to nervous to talk to my crush. my friends says she hates me but I don't think she does. most of her friends hate me except for one. I have no idea how to get her to like me. im ugly, gawky and don't use common sense very often. I just want her to like me and I want to know what she thinks of me. what the heck should I do?? im really lost.
Great vid, really helped, the part about gossip is very true and I lost my chance with a girl because of my lack of self control and general knowlege of how girls think. I say just use your head and your heart will follow!
You can just go up to her and go like: Hey. (Yes just "hey"!) And open casual. Like "I heard you wen't to --- movie. Me and my friends were thinking of going but not we're not shure. What did you think of it?) You can also make some eye contact first. It's not hard. Look her in the eyes when she's looking back. Just put on a grin/smile, Just a regular one. Keep eye contact for like 10 seconds or until she breaks it. If she smiles back yer all good to go and ask :) also search for PUA training.
ok...my best friend is dating this guy that i like as a friend...trust me on that.... i do not like him.... but i sorta talk to him for her because she is really shy... but i get the feeling he slightly likes me because he asks me with help on homework even though there is another person right next to him who already finished, or he would make alot of jokes around me, or sit next to me in class and stuff....what do i do?
im shy like you too but girls actually do prefer guys to make the first move coz girls feel really presured but since you should try finding confidence in your self and at leats smile at them :)
i hate it when they talk bad about themselves and when they talk about other guys they like or think are hot or whatever. i also hate when they act bitter and/or mean about my friends or family. i also hate it when they hang out with there exs and guy friends alot but try and keep me away from them. im perfectly fine with a girl being friends with just about whoever the heck they want, but especially if you hang with ur ex alot i at least want to get to know them and know who they are and stuff and not be activly seperated from them by the girl. LADIES IF YOU HAVE SOMETHING TO HIDE FROM UR BOYFRIEND, U MAY WANT TO QUESTION WHETHER OR NOT THEY SHOULD REALLY BE UR BOYFRIEND!
It's really hard to talk to my crush bc I'm really scared like if he is with his friends and I give a compliment to him there gonna say "ooo someone has a crush", or something like that it's really scary to me
In my school, my crush is always surrounded by friends whom I don't like, then if I say something nice to him, his friends and other people will be like, "hey, she likes him." Then I gt picked on until summer break.
Liszt help! I have a crush at school he's new school just started and my friends said he likes me. But I don't know what to do I don't talk to him I'm to scared. Like when I do try he walks away bc my friends follow him 24/7 so he trys to stay away from them. But I never get to talk can u help me please.?
Help PLEASE!! So I know this is gonna sound really stupid, but I've been talking to this guy online for almost 2 years now. I really like him and we've met only once. We have some mutual friends so its not like he's a total stranger. We dont talk as often as we used to... What do I do? Help please!
I'm in a REALLY bad situation. My crush goes to a school. I don't. I'm homeschooled. Well, how do I know her? She and I play saxophone together in a community jazz band, but, jazz is over and school is almost. (I know you're thinking) Next year, won't you be in band together? No. I will move up a band, and she will not. I may never see her again!!! I know she lives in this neighborhood, but I'm not sure where... She obviously likes me back, but I'm worried she'll start liking another guy soon. I have no friends that know her, so I can't have a wingman. I know the general area where she lives, I know of about 25-30 houses and one of them is her house. Should I just knock on every door and say something like: "Hi, is this Jacob Wilson's house?" And then wait until I find her??? I really, REALLY, want advice!!!!! PLEASEPLEASEPLEASEPLEASE answer this. I need to know if I should give up. Or not. 'Cause once I find her house, I can put a letter in their mailbox for her. Please answer this question. It is really important to me. I don't even care if it's Lizzie. I just want advice. Thanks! :D
Also, is there a way to tell if the guy u like that is in a relationship does not like their gf/bf? They never talk to each other, but only play tag...
First of all, talking to a girl is really easy. All you need to do is to show her that you're confident. Once you do that, get the balls to go up to her and talk to her. When you're talking to her, look her in the eyes and smile to the things she says (when appropriate). Show her that you're interested by touching her arm to get her attention or simply talking about things she likes, just don't sound like a stalker. But above all, don't become AN option for her, be her ONLY option. Kthx bai c:
I need some advice, I have recently started dating a girl, we only text eachother after school, When we're in school and see eachother both of us freeze up and get VERY nervous. I really want to talk to her. I've only said hey to her. I really need help with my confidence, also her friends are always around her (About 6 ) All surrounding her, and it feels like there's something in me that just doesn't allow me to walk over there and talk to her. Pls give some advice ASAP I'm going swimming with her in 2 days with 1 of her friends and 1 of mine.
I already talk to my crush and I want to go out with her so bad but her boyfriend is the most popular kid in my grade and he hates me. Also I told a person I like her but he told his friend and now the word is spread all around and I get humiliated every time I go to school. What should I do?
Me and my girlfriend don't talk at school but we text every day and she talks to this guy named Bryan more than me and I don't know if she's going to dump me 4 him and I try talking 2 her but I get really nervous. i don't want her to dump me she's really beautiful and I want to keep being her boyfriend what should I do PLEASE HELP!!!!
Just go up to her and hug or take her hand or kiss her because I'm a girl and I think that's sweet! Also don't be scared, your both human! And I know as a girl I get really scared to talk to someone I like, so if you go up to her she will be glad because she won't have to go up to you! And you are going out for a reason she obviously likes you so be confident and just go up to her and hug her or something, show your not scared and you care about her! Hope this helped! Xxx
I like this guy at school and he likes somebody else and everytime i see them together i kinda cry the bathroom because ive been liking that guy since i was grade 2 im grade 7 now
my crush is always shy to talk to me we only talk if we text and she always say's to me that "im shy because i didnt have friends in our school" but she have many friends! sometimes i caught her looking at me and she texts me this emoticon ":*" something like that. She has another crush and then these days she said that she dont like him anymore and she always say that i should stop making fun of her cause i'm just joking she know's that I make many girls cry. what should i do?
Hey Lizzie, i have a question for you, there's this boy at my church that i really wanna befriend (I'm homeschooled by the way) so i only see him and get the chance to talk to him a couple times a week, how can i befriend him and keep a friendship going without freaking him out and making him think i like him (idk if he has a girlfriend yet) any help would be very much appreciated, Thanks :)
My friend who I like, that video game tip you said about to try not to start a conversation that way, 90 percent of all our conversations start that way and most of those are started by her lol she's a major gamer like me
highlight her good points, you don't have to actually say shes attractive, unless you want to. Just take her attention to the good points about her, maybe shes smart, or athletic, or sweet, or kind.
I used to be good friends with this guy i like, we were 4 and neighbors.Now i have a HUGE crush on him.His friends all know because my ex friend told EVERYONE who i like. I am afraid that my crush knows.My crush and i sometimes text and when we do we always compliment eachother. Plus my crush sometimes stares at me in class
Lizzie help! I have a huge crush I talk to him but I always seem nervous, so does he. And I never say anything anyone would want to hear. Please help with my situation.
My problem with guys is that when I like them I suddenly become SUPER shy! I feel like sometimes I give off the wrong sign. How can I get or hint to a guy that I like him?
Guys I'm going into 8th from 7th grade, and towards the end of sixth grade I asked her out. She said no, because she had a boyfriend at her camp that she recently broke up with, so she wasn't ready. In 7th grade, I didn't talk to her AT ALL because I lost interest, now I'm back into her. Talking to her his year is gonna be WEIRD. I don't know how to approach her :/ . Help???????
I'm going to a new school and i met this girl on account of mutual friends. People are telling me she likes me but how do i start a conversation with her to make it easier when i ask her out
I don't even know how to talk to girls, how am I supposed to talk to my crush?
What's the difference talking to a girl or boy? I talk to a load of girls if they're next to me in class. The one thing I can't do is talk to the girl I love
TheTuckerMan26 Sameeee :L
lol just talk to them as your friends but practice on random girls then progressively get hotter and sexyier girls
same here tull118
lol same here
since elementary all the way til' highschool, i've always been in "boys only" schools so uh
"i know how u feel bro"
Let me make things easier for you guys. First of all, I don't even know wtf am I doing here since probably most of the ppl that are watching this, lack confidence which is not my case. Big time. Secondly, here's what you should do :
- Be a fucking man : Drop all the " :) " ; " :D " bullshit and just say what you think without being totally harsh, make it funny ; Begin to believe that you rule the world and that you already have the girl you want ; Walk with confidence for fuck's sake etc...
- Dress nice, jeans, nice shoes (none of that air max crap and shit like that, you're a man not a swagger), white or blue shirt, stay simple and clean basically.
- Don't be a shoe-licker, she should be the one licking your shoes, not you. Last advice, don't be jealous or nervous about other guys, if you're confident enough, they're no danger. You're a man, suck it up.
Any doubts you may have, pls don't contact me
thnx lol
you must really get a lot of girls then
"She should be the shoe-licker", yeah that's where I lost you. A relationship needs two people who are comfortable with each other. One of the people should not be kissing the ass of the other, no matter their gender. I do like what you said about confidence, though. No one should be fake on their dates, I agree with you on that.
Anna Thompson True story, though, I wrote about my experience. I don't like relationships, I prefer to keep it open, friends with benefits. Note that I'm not a player, players lie to get what they want. They say the kind of shitty things that you guys, as " relationship lovers" want to hear. That's the difference, I'm so over confident that I usually say whatever pumps up in my mind at the moment I'm talking to her, I'm always honest about my intentions. I only said that because that's the mindset you, as a guy, must have, the "I'm the God" mindset
maglena bigby Yeah I have, though I don't have to have. I just have to have the ones I want
Opinion: To talk to your crush with out it bein awkward...
1. Just be yourself... Umm find things in common, you need to basically ask him or her questions about their hobbies and if your starting off te convo start out with a friendly question. (Ex. What sport do you like to play or watch)
2. Eye contact: you want to look at them straight in the eye... Don't like stare at them... Making it awkward - NO! - just make eye contact when the person is talking
3. Never talk about ex's
You don't want to have this guy who likes you back and the guy starts talking about this other girl or involving you in their relationships... No! That's a no no.
4. Don't gossip
Guys tend to tell what ever you tell them to ppl. Unless this is in camp or somewhere over summer or spring break chances are they will tell the person or everyone they can your secret.
You say "don't look nervous while talking to them", but that's not something I can control! I can't just be like, oh whoopdy doo, let me just not look nervous while I'm talking to this guy.
I need help. So there's this girl i kinda like, and I think she likes me. Im in middle school and my during class, she sometimes kinda looks at me (like looking at the corner of her eye) and sometimes just looks straight at me. My friends say that she keeps looking at me. She always play with her hair a lot when I look at her behind her back. During break times, she and a group of friends would walk around me and giggle and stuff and would mess around with my friends to maybe get attention. I remember one of her friends just came up to me and asked where I'm from and stuff. Sometimes I can see her looking at my direction, but she doesn't look right at me. We made eye contact once but for only like 2 seconds and then she looked away. Her friends would make fun of me and use jokes where I'm from. Does anyone think that she might be interested in me judging by this information? I like her a lot and she's really pretty.
She sure is interested in you :) Don't worry about her friends, they're just messing around because they know that she likes you. I'm kind of in the same situation but i'm the girl you described :) I'm just too shy to come up to the guy i like, unlike my friends who are always willing to go up to him and ask him something. You should start a conversation with her when she's alone, or text her if you have her number (or if you don't you can ask her friends for it). hope it helps you somehow and good luck!
You cant just like her because of her looks... thats just rude and it makes guys jerks. Get to know her. She is interested but dont over do it. But do tell her how you feel like after awhile, girls like to know how guys feel. Guys dont really tell girls how they feel so thats how relationships fall apart.
She likes you
"(without it being awkward)"; my reaction, hells yeah this is the video for me! I luv you lizzie!
I reaaaaally need advice!!! I really really love this guy at my school. he is Korean. We haven't talked yet, but he stares at me whenever he sees me (in between classes and at lunch. we have no classes together ;____;) .
so I asked one of my friends for advice. she said that I need to stop being shy. I CANT!!!! I AM REAAAAAAAAAAALLY SHY AND I CANT DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT!!!! she doesn't understand that I can't stop being shy!
oh by the way my goal is to say hi to him sometime next week. how do I build up some confidence?!
I think when ever he stares at you, you should look back, smile and wave and if he does the same that's good, then that builds your self confidence and then you guys will be friendlier so you can actually go and talk to him and it won't really feel like your talking to a stranger. Cuz that's a little awkward not gonna lie.
Helen Nguyen ill try my best!!! ^^""" (thanks!)
Megan W. Well actually first time you look at him you kinda like wave with your head second time you give him a smile and after you smile you walk up to him and ask him something if you want to build up confidence everymorning look in the mirror and say hi beauty sounds weird but I geuss it works for some lol and don't be shy if he rejected you you where confident enough to make a big step and speak to him practice with it and you will be a player ;) no need to be shy
***** i feel the same!
***** Hope for you he will finally man up because most guys are afraid of being rejected I think it's a shame if a guy thinks the women has to do the work but yeah that is just me ;)
Hate it when they talk about their hair or make up
You're the first Christian youtuber I watched. God bless!! your vids are soooooo inspiring. :D
I hate it when guys are attracted more to girls with make up and cute dresses than girls with no make up and a t-shirt and jeans. I mean, chances are that the girls with no makeup are goanna be nicer and funnier cuz they don't care what people think as much as the other ones do!!!! I'm not sayin the prettier ones are bad, im just saying that they might be lairs cuz they care more about what others think. They might care so much that they have to lie to protect their "reputation." I mean, COME ON! in a couple years your not even goanna b in the same school anymore, so why does it EVEN MATTER!?!?!!!!????
girls with no makeup are so much better and you can be more confortabil with them
ryanatv17 well that's your opinion
I don't think that wearing makeup makes me a lair, I just feel better with makeup on even though I prefer to wear a t shirt and jeans. and no I do not lie to protect my reputation cuz I don't give a damn about my reputation, I m awkward and I like it and I m not planning on acting any other way (and believe me, the only reason I m still in school is because I keep remembering that in a couple of years they will be out of my life)
well I think that's great!!! good 4 u! :)
Lol, t-shirt and jeans are my life! I'm just a kid, so no one judges much at my age. ( middle school )
i don't really get comfterble when I'm near my crush and I just look away and I look back at her after 1 minutes. I just get TOO nervous and she stays with her friends ALOT. I don't want the whole school or my class to know that I like her. I don't like girls that talks about TOO girly stuff I need a TON of help. I will appreciate it if someone tells me some tips. I'm not really popular at school. I don't even know if she likes me or not. I always try to yawn on purpose because I get TOO nervous. I need some help from you. I will appreciate if you help me. ( Help= me subbing to you )
Same here
PLEASE I NEED YOUR HELP
HERES MY STORY...
So like ive been having a major cush on a guy and hes currently a senior and im a sophmore Ive been liking him since the end of last year...So we've NEVER talked and he knows i like him for about a month and like hes also the VERY shy type so idk what to do
And we see eachother in the hallways alot. And his friends and my friend know and Im The Shy type too but im willing to do something
Please help me because i honestly dont know what to do anymore
How can you hate video games
Guys dont like it when girl talk about other people or when they are shy and just look at their phone or when they talk about makeup or like things about girls like k i did my nails or witch looks better like this or this and theee both horrible
wow guys this actually worked for me I asked my crush out a couple weeks ago and we are so happy together. My advice is to just keep on trying and be yourself when talking don't try and be someone you aren't.
I hate other guys that are arrogant sports players (football players).
Not every one is going to be in the NFL.
Seriously get a job, be smart works out in the long run.
A lot of football players think they are the best and they are so_____. (fill in the blank)
Hate it when others think they are better than everyone else.
So what if your in football, ok your athletic but for how long your not going to do it all your life as a profession, you may be good at it but is all these things I just described going to benefit you. You look like a Massive jerk that others don't want to be around.
But not everyone is like this if this applies to you do your self a favor don't be like this, its better if we have less people like that in the world, we get more done that way.
If this isn't you then you earn all my respect because your not one of the many high schoolers crying out for attention and lady friends. Others that do play football and don't constantly brag or talk about football and you play football just to have fun and do it just to do it, YOU ARE LEGENDARY. The other arrogant hard headed football players in high school, stop crying for attention, stop trying to impress others unless you are at Peyton Manning status, otherwise pipe down get back to school. Don't be the jerk that every other guy hates because that will drive some people the absolute balls insane.
Also girls why do you like football players that are like this that are probably just hiding it to impress you. Just putting it out there.
Well I guess that's why people grow up then.
Again I missed something, do girls just like football players because they have muscle and/or abs, because there are people that don't play sports and still look ripped or like they actually live and breathe sports.
Some one probably read the entire thing, so tell me what you think?
I play football (middle linebacker) and I am the captain. I do not think I'm the best nor the toughest! You will find cocky people everywhere it's not just us, so please before you run your mouth at least know what your saying!
*****
Not calling you one of these people, but that's your experience bud but my experience Cool = Full of yourself arrogant "stud muffin" status isn't a good look to others.Not saying you are but at my school sports = look at me I'm so amazing at getting hurt. One of my teachers that used to teach football said, " football isn't going to be around much longer with so many injuries. But sports should = exercise+fun= healthy, that's what sports are for and some just give it a bad look, or discourages others from playing that sport.
I don't see what's wrong with following your dreams.
jaceebo
Not the point
It's the personality not the man
Still not everyone gets to play in the NFL, but its good to strive for it if you have good values.
Who is watching in 2016
mee
Me lmao
same
well first of all build self confidence, practice some where quiet first and then maybe practice with a friend, next find what she likes to talk about like Lizzie said in the video, and maybe when you start talking your will find a common interest, if you keep it up you will find more common interests, and eventually you will become friends, then best friends, and then you will be together. Have patience though, and never give up. May the lord be with you, ill pray for you too. good luck!
alright, here's my problem, since I have no where else to post it (BEWARE FOR A WALL OF TEXT)
1. there's a girl in a few of my classes, we actually talked to each other a bit before and they were pretty good conversations
2. half the school year in I realized that I gained a crush on her, and now I just feel nervous and can't talk to her at all.
Now I'm kinda confused as to if she likes me or not, because-
she seems to show body language signs that she feels the same for me
Signs I've noticed:
feet almost always pointed towards me, looks at me a lot and i think her irises were big, she always seems to somewhat gravitate towards me when we're standing in gym (she kinda, for the lack of a better word, shuffles back and forth, but she generally gets closer to me each time she does, then she kinda tries to start distancing herself but ends up getting close to me again, which I don't think can be accidental.
she also always seems to be there for me in a way as in, a few times when a sub teacher was passing out graded papers and she wanted to know where I was (called out my full name) the girl is always the one to instantly point out where I am, and a few times when I forgot my laptop charger and I had to charge she was always the first to lend it out. also on a few field trips she sat right next to me on the bus, when there were plenty of other free seats. she's also laughed at quite a bit of the "funny" things when they weren't really funny. no one else would laugh.
and I may have just been hearing things, but she was friends with this one really douchey girl who was always a prick to me, and I think that girl said something about her having a crush on me. it was right after the douchey girl berated me for some nonsensical shit, and it was rather faint but I could've sworn I heard her say "you seriously have a crush on him??".
but she also just seems to not wanna talk to me, for example I'll say thank you for something like the charger but she won't respond at all, and a few other similar instances. she once got angry and left the room during homeroom when one of the prankster kids starting putting her + this other boy's name on the wall, and she seems to enjoy talking to "this other boy" during homeroom too.
I'm just... lost. BEYOND lost, actually. I keep trying to say hi or wave in the hall when I pass her too but she's usually either with a friend or two, or I end up chickening out.
sorry for the wall, I just need an answer for this badly. there's 9 weeks left of school and I wanna atleast get _somewhere_ with her. T_T
You're really sweet Lizzie. Thank you for putting these videos out.
: )
also what I've found is that you want to have eye contact because I always get nervous and look away but you need to look at them somewhere near their eyes if you're too shy to look in their eyes then look at their forehead.
I have a friend an her and me are both interested in gaming and she's really pretty. We have a few clases together and we sit with each other but im not sure how to keep a conversation going to make sure NO awkward moments occur haha pls give some advice if you have any
Im very awk and shy and not that very good at talking to my crush but I always catch him randomly looking at me but I don't know if it's in a bad or good way I also don't know how to approach him about it
Wow you give the best advice lizzy and the most beautiful person that I've watched give advice.
When I'm my crush we're both super awkward x10 and only around him for some reason I get super awkward, I talk slowly and I move my hands a lot. If I hug him for a long time her hugs me tighter and rocks me back and forth and literally makes my heart flutter. We like the same music, and I never know what to talk about in music and such. He is so hard to talk to :c he's my best friend....
He also imitates me on purpose for my hand movements sometimes and we both laugh about it.
Well I think like when girls are talking about fashion but I do think it is great to listen to them and to make them think they can talk to you about anything
Don't worry, I moved to a new place when I started high school, it'll take a liitle while but you'll be okay just try and talk to people and im sur you'll have no problem getting friends.
OK so my crush used to like me a year or two ago, but I didn't have a crush on her then... Now it's later and I have a crush on her and I don't think she has a crush on me. I've had one class with her this year and we're on opposite ends of the room. ): . I make her laugh a lot but our conversations are awkward a lot of the time... Any advice??
Crystal Guar
best use of caps 10/10 - IGN it was okay.
To actually get to said conversation: First, if you like someone, make a move. If you just stare and drool over them for weeks, you'll freak them out and lose your shot. Secondly, when you inevitably do stare/drool over them, always have a smile ready for when they notice you, or better yet, wear it beforehand and have a hello-nod or wave ready for deployment. A serious face, or worse, a scared one, will also freak them out and doom any conversation you might attempt with them afterwards.
Other than that, believe me, it's out of our hands. All people can really do when they're scared is be themselves. If they like ya back they'll join in and help and the conversation will go smoothly. If they don't then, odds are, nothing you may say will change their minds.. unless you're a freaking wordsmith.
you are absolutely amazing! Thx so much lizzie!
you said for guys to comment on what they don't like to hear about, I personally feel that when I like someone, it does not matter what she is talking about it does not bother me. now I only really talk to one or two girls so i guess i don't get quite as much crap as some. Just thought id through my input into the water.
I have a problem... I've developed a crush on my best friend's brother.
My best friend knows about it and wants us to get together, so she keeps inviting me over her house.
The other day I went over their house and he came into the room and started talking to me about himself and cracking jokes and kept wanting me to play video games with him, and it was so hard not to squeal out loud. And then he started playing his guitar and singing and tried to get me and his sister (my best friend) to sing along. And he kept asking me about random personal things.
I doubt that he would like me back, but just everything about him makes me so happy. He appreciates the arts more than he does sports, and that's just one of the best things ever for someone like myself.
Thank God you made this video, it actually give me a lot more courage to talk to him now.
Do don't even know you, but I'm so happy for you! He seems like a cool guy, you should be together but if that doesn't work out at least you can be friends! Good luck!😀
Looks like your relationship is building up really well, i hope you get together, good luck!
yeah im shy like that too but trust me you should do the same as your friends coz then he will notice you and you could become friends with him and that would give you a great chance.
There's this girl at my school and I like her and glance at her during class I think she saw me glance at her but I don't know. I want to talk to her but I'm just very nervous when I try to say something I try to start a conversation with her but whenever I try to talk to her I get worried about other people judging me
WOW! I've recently hit that point were i regret my life and i'm trying to turn everything around by learning where i went wrong. I did EVERYTHING you pretty much said not to do at some point in my life. Where were you when i needed this kind of advice XD.
dude!!! just do it! it doesnt matter if she rejects you, you are tough enough to ask her out! people will think you are tough, i promise. dont be embarresed. and if people laugh of you if she rejects you, just say something like: "well, it was worth a try" or "better luck next time". maybe they will laugh some more at the moment, but they will realize that you are tougher than them, because you actullay dare to ask a girl out!!! do it dude! i belive in you!
No she knows then that your taking an interest same thing happened to me but just don't be shy and try to get her to laugh as it is a good sign
When ever I'm troubled with girls I always come to your videos!
I had my friends tell the guy I like that I like him. It was easy for them because all of the girls in the class that him and me are in are best friends with him even my friends. But he has a little "group" with three girls and another guy, and I think he likes on of these girls. But when they told him he didn't believe it, but then I have another one of closest friends tell him it was true. He asked if I like liked him or just as a friend, my friend said as a crush, mostly because he thought of us like friends, and he actually said that. Then the next day there was a field trip and guess who was his bus partner the girl I think that he likes in his little "group". We made eye contact once and awhile. It was awkward. He had my friend tell me that he promised nothing will change and that he will not make it awkward. But he also said that he will give anyone a chance if they are not girly girls, that applies to girls who play with dolls so that doesn't apply to me (because the friend has might like is a total fangirl but covers it up with sports). But what does he mean by chance? Not only that but he is moving into another school district next year, and this school year is almost over, and I might move to another state. I can hardly go a day without seeing him, how am I going to do it the rest of my life? I've tried to give up my crush but it isn't working. My friend who are friend with him (including the girl I think he likes) says to not give up but I can't even. But it's horrible because the girl I think he likes sits right next to me so normally have watch them talk while I suffer. But he gets in trouble a lot in class but I never minded that he encouraged me when I needed most and gives me the best feeling in the world.
So the guy I like is on the Varsity football team at school and he just had a game last night, and I love football because my older brothers play it so I wouldn't mind talking about football with him because I love it!
To guys: even if a girl isn't interested doesn't mean you don't have a chance. If you show them respect and treat them well and make them feel good (if they aren't stuck up) they will remember you. ;)
I REALLY like this boy. Ive liked 2 others before, but this time it feels differently, it feels like hes the one. He keeps looking at me and i keep looking at him, bur we have NEVER talked. But everytime his friend sees me, he nudges him
If he stares at me and smiles, talks to me sometimes about personal stuff but then never replies to my texts but sees them. How do i approach him without making it really awkward
You have such good advice!! I have one question what do I do because I cheer for my crushes team
when ever you see him just like casually walk up to him and be like heey! and just talk and see where it goes from there! and be confident!
what do you do if you think you crush thinks that you are invisable and you sit right next to them
thanks this is some really helpful advice. is it bad if im a sophmore and i like a freshman?
So my crush has openly liked my best friend for awhile but lately he has been flirting with me and talking to me a lot more than he does with her. Does this mean he's over her and that he likes me or is he using me to try and make her jealous?
1 tip ive always heard is just do it, be confident, but its not that easy...
I hate when girls complain about their problems before you even know them.
this girl just gets it
And also some times i catch her looking at me so does that mean she might like me also... She doesn't ignore me when i see her around school she does say hi
Yup she likes u:)
Lucky
She likes you man
how can you get over your crush if you really like them
when me and this guy were dating i broke up with him because i got super nervous about it, cause he kept telling me i was beatiful and ive never heard that from anyone, so i broke up with him stupidly. its been a few months and hes dating my best friend. now i hang out around them and stuff but i can tell now hes getting annoyed. And i think i still like him, i feel superguilty cause of my friend but i want him back, what do i do?
Hey, I just found this channel and you're pretty huge so you probably won't be able to answer but I have to tell someone lol.
Anyways, I met this girl this year and she's absolutely amazing, she's so talented, a soccer player and an extracurricular fanatic. Like I don't know, I look at her and day dream (not in a weird way lol), she has very pretty eyes an a great personality; super nice, super outgoing, a lot of friends and that is where we differ besides the part of being super nice. I'm not so outgoing and I only have this set friend group and I know that she doesn't really know any of the people I hang out with but I know some people that she knows.
When I'm around her, I get really nervous and stutter often and sometimes I pull off a conversation and sometimes I lead it to an awkward silence.
Now I don't know what this means but the other day, I didn't have a ride home (I KNOW THIS SOUNDS SO SILLY) but I asked nervously (as expected) and I noticed that she was acting like herself but kind of expecting a different question when I was asking it And now I feel like it'll be way different. I have this fantasy of asking her out but I don't know how to =/ .
I don't want to miss this shot, she's just that amazing, thank you to whoever responds !
Also, I've been searching ways to do this but they all are so alike, i wish there was a key to confidence and something you develop. I heard one way to think of them as just people and they are or to expect them to like you.
nothing like a better advice to ask a girl from a girl .
1. have a small talk.
in school when you find her say " hi, how are you today? " and then BOOM you two are talking !
2. be friends with her and her friends
hang with her and her friends especially with her friends cause if you do you will have more info about her .
when you finished these steps reply to me for more tips good luck😊 go get her tiger! 😋
Tiffany Tepox morales I thought the same thing. Thanks for the help :)
+iSongzHD your well come 😊
At what stage should I tell the girl that holding her hand and kissing is out of the question?
With my crush whatever she talks about I never hate it because everything she talks about is awesome and she is a girl gamer.
+Lizzie what if your friend told your crush and started to avoid you? What should I do? I need help her name is Carson.
I'm a girl and I love old hot rods and old rock n' roll. I don;t know why guys don't like me... I'm mellow, talented, and loyal. I guess everybody these days goes my looks, not personality. I am so different from every girl my age.
Nice video by the way it really helped!
I have a question, there's this guy I like at school but I don't know what to because every time I talk to him his friends or my friends come up and literally push us to talk and I don't know what to do because the only time I get to talk to him is on the way home, when his mom or my mom is in the car, did I mention that we are neighbors? I don't know what to do because we like each other but we never get time to talk to each other alone I only have one period with him every other day!!!
or, he's not shy and just doesn't like you. I've been in that situation. just like see how he acts with his friends and stuff.
how do you aproach your crush without being awkward, forceful, or as if its too planed out?
im 12 and in sixth grade. I am way to nervous to talk to my crush. my friends says she hates me but I don't think she does. most of her friends hate me except for one. I have no idea how to get her to like me. im ugly, gawky and don't use common sense very often. I just want her to like me and I want to know what she thinks of me. what the heck should I do?? im really lost.
Smile a her when she walks past
Same here
Great vid, really helped, the part about gossip is very true and I lost my chance with a girl because of my lack of self control and general knowlege of how girls think. I say just use your head and your heart will follow!
Watching this on valentines day..
You can just go up to her and go like: Hey. (Yes just "hey"!) And open casual. Like "I heard you wen't to --- movie. Me and my friends were thinking of going but not we're not shure. What did you think of it?) You can also make some eye contact first. It's not hard. Look her in the eyes when she's looking back. Just put on a grin/smile, Just a regular one. Keep eye contact for like 10 seconds or until she breaks it. If she smiles back yer all good to go and ask :) also search for PUA training.
ok...my best friend is dating this guy that i like as a friend...trust me on that.... i do not like him.... but i sorta talk to him for her because she is really shy... but i get the feeling he slightly likes me because he asks me with help on homework even though there is another person right next to him who already finished, or he would make alot of jokes around me, or sit next to me in class and stuff....what do i do?
that happened with my crush she said i'm not beautiful and i feel like she just wanted someone to say she was beautiful
im shy like you too but girls actually do prefer guys to make the first move coz girls feel really presured but since you should try finding confidence in your self and at leats smile at them :)
i hate it when they talk bad about themselves and when they talk about other guys they like or think are hot or whatever. i also hate when they act bitter and/or mean about my friends or family. i also hate it when they hang out with there exs and guy friends alot but try and keep me away from them. im perfectly fine with a girl being friends with just about whoever the heck they want, but especially if you hang with ur ex alot i at least want to get to know them and know who they are and stuff and not be activly seperated from them by the girl. LADIES IF YOU HAVE SOMETHING TO HIDE FROM UR BOYFRIEND, U MAY WANT TO QUESTION WHETHER OR NOT THEY SHOULD REALLY BE UR BOYFRIEND!
It's really hard to talk to my crush bc I'm really scared like if he is with his friends and I give a compliment to him there gonna say "ooo someone has a crush", or something like that it's really scary to me
In my school, my crush is always surrounded by friends whom I don't like, then if I say something nice to him, his friends and other people will be like, "hey, she likes him." Then I gt picked on until summer break.
OMG same
Liszt help! I have a crush at school he's new school just started and my friends said he likes me. But I don't know what to do I don't talk to him I'm to scared. Like when I do try he walks away bc my friends follow him 24/7 so he trys to stay away from them. But I never get to talk can u help me please.?
Help PLEASE!! So I know this is gonna sound really stupid, but I've been talking to this guy online for almost 2 years now. I really like him and we've met only once. We have some mutual friends so its not like he's a total stranger. We dont talk as often as we used to... What do I do? Help please!
I'm in a REALLY bad situation. My crush goes to a school. I don't. I'm homeschooled. Well, how do I know her? She and I play saxophone together in a community jazz band, but, jazz is over and school is almost. (I know you're thinking) Next year, won't you be in band together? No. I will move up a band, and she will not. I may never see her again!!! I know she lives in this neighborhood, but I'm not sure where... She obviously likes me back, but I'm worried she'll start liking another guy soon. I have no friends that know her, so I can't have a wingman. I know the general area where she lives, I know of about 25-30 houses and one of them is her house. Should I just knock on every door and say something like: "Hi, is this Jacob Wilson's house?" And then wait until I find her??? I really, REALLY, want advice!!!!! PLEASEPLEASEPLEASEPLEASE answer this. I need to know if I should give up. Or not. 'Cause once I find her house, I can put a letter in their mailbox for her. Please answer this question. It is really important to me. I don't even care if it's Lizzie. I just want advice. Thanks! :D
Also, is there a way to tell if the guy u like that is in a relationship does not like their gf/bf? They never talk to each other, but only play tag...
First of all, talking to a girl is really easy. All you need to do is to show her that you're confident. Once you do that, get the balls to go up to her and talk to her. When you're talking to her, look her in the eyes and smile to the things she says (when appropriate). Show her that you're interested by touching her arm to get her attention or simply talking about things she likes, just don't sound like a stalker. But above all, don't become AN option for her, be her ONLY option. Kthx bai c:
no a conversation needs 1 person to be successful.
its soooo hard to look in his eyes because i melt every time
i do
us guys really don't hate anything a girl talks about because honestly your just happy to see their face
I need some advice, I have recently started dating a girl, we only text eachother after school, When we're in school and see eachother both of us freeze up and get VERY nervous. I really want to talk to her. I've only said hey to her. I really need help with my confidence, also her friends are always around her (About 6 ) All surrounding her, and it feels like there's something in me that just doesn't allow me to walk over there and talk to her. Pls give some advice ASAP I'm going swimming with her in 2 days with 1 of her friends and 1 of mine.
9:10 im not wearing jewelry... U pointed at ur ring wen u sed that
Hey guys, two things; one, is year 8 in the UK same as 8th grade in the US (12-13 yrs) and is it weird to ask your crush out on valentine's day?
I already talk to my crush and I want to go out with her so bad but her boyfriend is the most popular kid in my grade and he hates me. Also I told a person I like her but he told his friend and now the word is spread all around and I get humiliated every time I go to school. What should I do?
Me and my girlfriend don't talk at school but we text every day and she talks to this guy named Bryan more than me and I don't know if she's going to dump me 4 him and I try talking 2 her but I get really nervous. i don't want her to dump me she's really beautiful and I want to keep being her boyfriend what should I do PLEASE HELP!!!!
Just go up to her and hug or take her hand or kiss her because I'm a girl and I think that's sweet! Also don't be scared, your both human! And I know as a girl I get really scared to talk to someone I like, so if you go up to her she will be glad because she won't have to go up to you! And you are going out for a reason she obviously likes you so be confident and just go up to her and hug her or something, show your not scared and you care about her! Hope this helped! Xxx
Alright I'll try it
Dude just tell her how you feel
I like this guy at school and he likes somebody else and everytime i see them together i kinda cry the bathroom because ive been liking that guy since i was grade 2 im grade 7 now
What should I do there's a boy I really like and some people think he likes me and some people don't so what should i do?
Thanks to all who answered my questions
my crush is always shy to talk to me we only talk if we text and she always say's to me that "im shy because i didnt have friends in our school" but she have many friends! sometimes i caught her looking at me and she texts me this emoticon ":*" something like that. She has another crush and then these days she said that she dont like him anymore and she always say that i should stop making fun of her cause i'm just joking she know's that I make many girls cry. what should i do?
what if you have like, a lot of rubber bracelets on one arm? do you think that would be a turn-off?
Hey Lizzie, i have a question for you, there's this boy at my church that i really wanna befriend (I'm homeschooled by the way) so i only see him and get the chance to talk to him a couple times a week, how can i befriend him and keep a friendship going without freaking him out and making him think i like him (idk if he has a girlfriend yet) any help would be very much appreciated,
Thanks :)
My crush sits right next to me in class and we've only has 2 conversations and he's really nice and funny
guys hate girls talking about tampons,pads and menstral cycles
My friend who I like, that video game tip you said about to try not to start a conversation that way, 90 percent of all our conversations start that way and most of those are started by her lol she's a major gamer like me
highlight her good points, you don't have to actually say shes attractive, unless you want to. Just take her attention to the good points about her, maybe shes smart, or athletic, or sweet, or kind.
No. It just shows your unique way of style. He should love you for that.
I used to be good friends with this guy i like, we were 4 and neighbors.Now i have a HUGE crush on him.His friends all know because my ex friend told EVERYONE who i like. I am afraid that my crush knows.My crush and i sometimes text and when we do we always compliment eachother. Plus my crush sometimes stares at me in class
Lizzie help! I have a huge crush I talk to him but I always seem nervous, so does he. And I never say anything anyone would want to hear. Please help with my situation.
My problem with guys is that when I like them I suddenly become SUPER shy! I feel like sometimes I give off the wrong sign. How can I get or hint to a guy that I like him?
Guys I'm going into 8th from 7th grade, and towards the end of sixth grade I asked her out. She said no, because she had a boyfriend at her camp that she recently broke up with, so she wasn't ready. In 7th grade, I didn't talk to her AT ALL because I lost interest, now I'm back into her. Talking to her his year is gonna be WEIRD. I don't know how to approach her :/ . Help???????
I'm going to a new school and i met this girl on account of mutual friends. People are telling me she likes me but how do i start a conversation with her to make it easier when i ask her out