Ahh yes!!! Beautifully said!!! I had to walk away even though I love him so much. My heart is breaking but he gave me no choice. I can love him from afar and forgive him even though he never asked for it.
I can completely relate and understand I've had to do the same and yes you are absolutely right it is the hardest thing that one will ever have to do because your heart doesn't want to you just know that it's the best thing to do! I too have been there many a day wishing you the best ❣️Mark B
This hits home I don't feel safe communicating with him he doesn't make it safe for me to share my feelings the invalidating me saying I'm negative all the time is draining
This is so true! When we let you in and pour out all our love, if you double cross us, we will pack our love and give it to someone whom will cherish or value it.
It don't matter Most men just don't take us serious. I mean I straight up told my ex the issue and he didn't change it. They just think you're playing games or that you're dicmitized or stuck until you leave their a**😅
Very well said. People need to make themselves accountable for the effects of their decisions on their partners, friends, family. Please keep making these thoughtful, intelligent videos. People need to hear your wisdom.
Me too..... my heart was in so much pain I developed Angina and got on medication. It felt like someone was literally squeezing my heart. People don't understand the damage they cause out here
He mistreated, neglected, lied, emotionally, sometimes physically and mentally abused me. He also used me because the woman he wanted didn’t want him back. I began to feel nothing everyday. How can you love someone that doesn’t love you back. It gets old.
Damn!!! This clip hit it right on the nail! I love you for always putting into words what a lot of us women feel and have a hard time expressing. Please keep speaking the truth for both men and women. God bless you 🙏🏽💕
Sir you brought tears to my eyes with this. I have never felt safe in my life because of males so if I come to you with the love that I have and you say that you love me too, I give you the opportunity to stand with me and yes to protect my heart and if you don't protect that heart, then your hurting me like the rest of them did your No different.
Very very true. You didn’t create the love you experienced from me … it’s always been me. No regrets on letting you in ~ but now, I took it all back. ❤❤❤ Just all to myself … and yes! We can do that too 🥰
This was actually beautiful. Kinda broke it down to "her love is endless and can be for everyone or anyone *worth it* " no one can take your ability to love and no one can stop you from loving
he came back after pushing me many times, but now, i still love him but already scared enough that i went completely silent and even afraid to get near him 🥺 you are so right ..
I just stumbled across this on RUclips. This brought me to tears. It is my heart song, expressed far better than any words that I could come up with on my own.
I love hearing something that I been feeling but never had a way of putting it together without sounding disrespectful. Thank you so much for this message! God bless you and your family and everyone 🙂
That's to the point. It's never right to take love extended by a partner for granted. Regaining it back might never be the same again. Respect really counts.
Forgive and give second chance. People make mistakes and learn. But also you make some differences in how you express your love, make sure you give enough healthy space that make him wonder about you to not think of others and honors you, be busy enough to not constantly bother by seeking attention,... you may surprise by the out come. Most men loves women makes them work like business. Because they think by their head not by their heart like us
Exactly!!! This is what I needed to Hear. I didn’t know how to put it to words but you did and you help me and I hope he sees this so he can understand God is good all the time thank you
I know how it is to love someone and then you walked away because they didn't treat you right but they felt you should stay. I didn't. His words are so true. This is the first video I've ever seen of him
Beautifully said ❤ And we should realize that the love we experience when we are in love is within us. thus we can always experience it whenever we want
@@Shavier777 think on this..... who would give a better experience, someone reading a book to you about, say example 911.....or someone that was actually in it?
I listened to this twice. I never heard this articulated in such a way. This is exactly how I felt with my ex husband. I'm a woman and you get this better than me.
I think everyone has a breaking point I never really had a breaking point but I never have let that change the way I love I still love the same just not in a hurry to give that away I'm by myself but that's not a bad thing it gives you time to know who u r. I lived my life being last and put everyone before me including family, kids, and relationships but I'm more focused on me cause people will let u down every time
I talk to my mom everyday who has seen me through my toughest battles and I have been through some let downs, heart breaks but yet I still smile and I still love the same that's something I can't change no matter how much I want to change Its who I am. And who I will always be.😊
I'm so grateful for my mom she has really helped me move pass a lot of things that means me no good. She will never tell me anything wrong I'm thankful for my mom.
The love is unconditional, the tolerance is not.
This part
True 💞
Very well said
Ahh yes!!! Beautifully said!!!
I had to walk away even though I love him so much. My heart is breaking but he gave me no choice. I can love him from afar and forgive him even though he never asked for it.
To walk away with love still in your heart is one of the hardest things I’ve ever had to do... ❤
I can completely relate and understand I've had to do the same and yes you are absolutely right it is the hardest thing that one will ever have to do because your heart doesn't want to you just know that it's the best thing to do! I too have been there many a day wishing you the best ❣️Mark B
@@MariaGutierrez-cr3sd ❤️
speak that!!!! Exactly 😔😏💔
Agreed
same here
Hard to love someone you don't feel safe with and respected by. Wish more men would watch this BEFORE they mess around and find out.
More women cheat then men.
Yes, and Amen. 😢❤ Invested too much time. God knew.
absolutely
Truer words were never spoken....'Feeling safe and Peace of mind' are so important to us! Thanks for this! 💛🙏🏽
Amen tell him handsome intelligent brother we’re all the intelligent men with a heart ❤️❤ ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
This hits home I don't feel safe communicating with him he doesn't make it safe for me to share my feelings the invalidating me saying I'm negative all the time is draining
Wow wow & wow
You just read me totally
You're so wise
Amen!
This is so true! When we let you in and pour out all our love, if you double cross us, we will pack our love and give it to someone whom will cherish or value it.
Exactly
Yes ma'am 🎯
Yesssss indeed
Can and does this work without God involved????
True🙌🏽
Loving a person and being in love with a person is a big difference ❤
❤
Not enough people understand this fact.
When we start to feel unsafe with someone, especially expressing our feeling, it's all down hill from there.
At this exact point..
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@@iramsabasame 🥺
❤
True 👌🏼
This! Nailed it! And so eloquently too.
Love can’t exist without feeling safe
That's right ❤❤❤
I bez zaufania
It’s a slow demise, by the time we leave we’ve given it everything we have . By the time we leave we’ve been done a long time.
He’s spot on.
It don't matter Most men just don't take us serious. I mean I straight up told my ex the issue and he didn't change it. They just think you're playing games or that you're dicmitized or stuck until you leave their a**😅
My goodness he understands a lot more than most!⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
Facts. 💯
Can we clone him and reproduce a million times?
His eloquence is perfection.
I don't get it. So he saying women are selfish and manipulators.
Very well said. People need to make themselves accountable for the effects of their decisions on their partners, friends, family. Please keep making these thoughtful, intelligent videos. People need to hear your wisdom.
You hit it straight not missing. She loved like that before she met you, you just got to experience the sincerity of her heart
Cold hard facts!!! I've been there. Used, abused/mistreated. I loved till it almost killed me Had to walk away to keep my heart safe❤🔥🙏👑🙏🔥❤
This
Me too..... my heart was in so much pain I developed Angina and got on medication. It felt like someone was literally squeezing my heart. People don't understand the damage they cause out here
Girl. I feell you !!! Same thing here. We have to stay save and protect ourselves or we will be killed off.
Word!!!!
He mistreated, neglected, lied, emotionally, sometimes physically and mentally abused me. He also used me because the woman he wanted didn’t want him back. I began to feel nothing everyday. How can you love someone that doesn’t love you back. It gets old.
Thank you for putting feelings into words that some women have trouble expressing ❤ you're amazing ✨
And he said it perfectly. He spoke to what we women go through.
Damn!!! This clip hit it right on the nail! I love you for always putting into words what a lot of us women feel and have a hard time expressing. Please keep speaking the truth for both men and women. God bless you 🙏🏽💕
I totally agree
Amen and amen this is so true.
Taking someone's genuine love for you for granted is the worst mistake you'll ever make
True
like my x and his wicked falsehood of people..
Amen.
Sounds like you have been through something ❤🌺🌾
Sir you brought tears to my eyes with this. I have never felt safe in my life because of males so if I come to you with the love that I have and you say that you love me too, I give you the opportunity to stand with me and yes to protect my heart and if you don't protect that heart, then your hurting me like the rest of them did your No different.
Very very true. You didn’t create the love you experienced from me … it’s always been me. No regrets on letting you in ~ but now, I took it all back. ❤❤❤ Just all to myself … and yes! We can do that too 🥰
AMEN!!! ME TOO. IM SAFE NOW. THANK GOD
So True 🌹
What a perfect addition to an already true msg. ❤
Sppeeeeaaaakkk!!!
It’s ALWAYS been ME!!!
This was actually beautiful. Kinda broke it down to "her love is endless and can be for everyone or anyone *worth it* " no one can take your ability to love and no one can stop you from loving
So true....
Fantastic! This gentleman is an earth Angel. Thank you💐
Wow, I love the way you’re able to put a woman’s heart into words ❤
Me too!
Omg. This couldn’t be said any better. Thank u. My heart is broken but praying this pain will pass.Thank u
I hope your pain will pass quickly.
It will pass when you stop looking back and start looking forward. Ditch the rose tinted glasses and build a future worth having.
Wow he took the words right out of my heart.
I like the way you explained the way a woman 's love works.
he came back after pushing me many times, but now, i still love him but already scared enough that i went completely silent and even afraid to get near him 🥺 you are so right ..
I never stop loving RH. I have to protect my heart. The safe and honest has left.❤🙏
Dayum!! Beautifully insightful, sir. God bless everyone going through this. 💖🙏💖
thanku. I will overcome and be ,BETTER"
This is absolutely Spot-On.
I had the utmost respect he took advantage.😢😢😢😢 plz through this out there.😢😢😢
She never stopped loving you. She just stopped believing in you.
Yes!!!
🙏💯
❤
Exactly. Breaks my heart.. I'm going through it now.
And respecting him
I just stumbled across this on RUclips. This brought me to tears. It is my heart song, expressed far better than any words that I could come up with on my own.
I wish I could show my husband this... its too late am in love with someone else but from a distance ...I feel better this way
You’re amazing and always on point. We appreciate you
SPOT ON!!! I tell my husband all the time how "SAFE" I feel, I am with him. And i make sure to thank him💕
What about him makes you feel safe?
You are blessed, Queen!
Exactly. We hold on until holding on hurts. Then. Then we go numb.
I really love your thoughtful conversations
Yes! Feeling safe and protected is so important...
Say it again
Yes
The swearing at me..taking my paychecks..throwing things at me....I checked out and was terrified...it took me a long time but I left
True
Glad you were able to leave, there’s nothing like peace ☮️ ❤
just left . something happened to me
Aw hell nawl
Good for you that you found the strength! Best wishes🙏🏽
Oh this is so true and so timely. Once I started to feel unsafe even though I loved him I had to go. And honestly it'll probably make his life easier
I had to the same. I recognized that he was struggling in ALL levels in the relationship therefore I pulled it. I wish him well nonetheless.
Well spoken. Once the boundaries of peace and respect has been crossed, this changes the level of respect the other person once had as well!
Amen si🌸😄😘
So on point🙌
Thank you for saying this💟
You speak with a lot of wisdom and truth. Don't stop! I ❤ listening. God bless you for what you are doing. 😊
I love hearing something that I been feeling but never had a way of putting it together without sounding disrespectful. Thank you so much for this message!
God bless you and your family and everyone 🙂
Amen 🙌.
This makes me cry. It's like you are speaking from my heart. Thank you 💘
Me too
Thank you Sweetheart. Put so eloquently. Going through that right now
Wow you just explained my relationship of 27yrs perfectly. I can't thank you enough to give me the words.🙏🏽❤️
Exactly!! "Once your decision took away her peace of mind"👈🏽 that part!!!
Hearts are not just objects to juggle
Okay 👌🎉🎉🎉
Thanks for speaking truth!
You always say the right words at the right time. Thank you
This is the perfect explanation on a woman's behalf. It truly resonated with me! Thank you for validating so many of us women's position🙏🏽💕
Thank you Jane. Right on point and a real eye opener
You couldn't say it any better exactly how I feel after being in a toxic relationship, I finally broke free.
Very good
Me too 😊
Thank you for speaking for me. Your understanding is healing.
Thank you very much for all that you do. You always say the exact words that i cannot put together to express how I feel.
Right 👍🏾
Amen!!!!!🎉🎉🎉🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
Finally someone gets it. 🔥👑🔥
Yes. I'm wondering how in the world did he find the answer to how a woman feels after being in a bad relationship.
My Brother you articulated this so beautifully. THANK YOU
This truth hit brutal..definitely an eye opener
That's to the point.
It's never right to take love extended by a partner for granted.
Regaining it back might never be the same again.
Respect really counts.
Exactly… love requires safety and respect. Walking away was the hardest decision, ever
Its one of the saddest thoughts, knowing that point is around the corner.
I JUST LOVE THE POSITIVE WORDS THAT U HAVE TO SAY EVERYTIME THOSE ARE FACTS MAY GOD CONTINUE TO BLESS U EACH DAY
Yes this is how I feel that’s exactly what happened. He told me he took my love for granted.
Amen. God bless you for clearly articulating what I have been feeling and trying to express.
Remember: A woman's behaviour is always a reaction to whatever actions she is receiving.
Yes!!! The male sets the precedence !!!
Exactly
Thank you.
It why all men should throw 💩 at women
EXACTLY
This was so deep. I am dealing with this very same thing at this very moment. You explained me so and my situation so well. It's mind-blowing.
Get up and leave!
@@odinfeehcu1984 Oh I did, and I'm so glad that I did. I left after watching this video.
Thank you
Am soo impressed
Your words are pure!
I relate completely.
You sharing these videos is truly needed nowadays. Thanks for just putting it all out there and being real about it!
Facts!!!! Recently lost my peace at mind in my relationship and the love I felt for him hasn’t been the same since….😢
I'm in the same exact situation
What happened to the peace of mind?
Thanks SO VERY MUCH FOR SHARING TRUE/'SPIRITUAL' INTENTS OF THE HEART!❣️😊
Yes 🙏🏾🌺
Made me smile and know my worth
So true. He took me for granted. Always threatening me other women. I left him n now he is coming back. No way I m taking him back.
Forgive and give second chance. People make mistakes and learn. But also you make some differences in how you express your love, make sure you give enough healthy space that make him wonder about you to not think of others and honors you, be busy enough to not constantly bother by seeking attention,... you may surprise by the out come. Most men loves women makes them work like business. Because they think by their head not by their heart like us
Stay strong woman.
@@LoveBird-o8m you turned my heart.
Don’t ever go back .. he has and never will change.
💯 FACTUAL No truer words have ever been spoken.
Always on point! Tell them!!!!!
Exactly!!! This is what I needed to Hear. I didn’t know how to put it to words but you did and you help me and I hope he sees this so he can understand God is good all the time thank you
If she truly loved you, she would never stop loving you. She just learned where to stand with you
You have said it so well
Tell them how it goes
Blessings
Once again, Mr.Jaxn THANK YOU! ! ! 🙌👏👏🙏💜
Love how true you are! Thanks for speaking my mind! 🎉
Yes 💯💯 Yes,!
Just made me cry so hard for what he has done to us
This maybe the smartest thing you ever said about a real women Brother👏🏿🎤
I love this! Speaking straight facts! 🎯💯
Yes 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
Awesome truest words of wisdom !
Thank you 🙏
I know how it is to love someone and then you walked away because they didn't treat you right but they felt you should stay. I didn't. His words are so true. This is the first video I've ever seen of him
Amen. What a great teacher.
Wow! You nailed it. Thanks. I'm still seeking someone to love like that.
These are the deepest words ever! Blew my mind in many ways because I had this AHA moment
Beautifully said ❤ And we should realize that the love we experience when we are in love is within us. thus we can always experience it whenever we want
💥 Explosion. He couldn't have said it any better.
I TOTALLY AGREE!!! He Aced it!!!!
But is he talking about himself? From experience
@@Shavier777 think on this..... who would give a better experience, someone reading a book to you about, say example 911.....or someone that was actually in it?
He really couldn’t
If you don't have loyalty you can't possibly know what love is😳💯
Loyalty and love are directly proportional
True 👍 jesu loves all regardless ❤️ wow what a wonderful message bless your heart ❤❤❤❤❤brother ❤️ 💙 ♥️ 🙏
She’s always protected and always will be. AMEN
Real Talk! Thanks Brother 🤗
I listened to this twice. I never heard this articulated in such a way. This is exactly how I felt with my ex husband. I'm a woman and you get this better than me.
You explained it so well that’s exactly what it is thank you for sharing ❤🙏
He understands everything. God bless him.
I got tired and I had enough and there is no more of me I walked away. And comfortable with my decision.
I think everyone has a breaking point I never really had a breaking point but I never have let that change the way I love I still love the same just not in a hurry to give that away I'm by myself but that's not a bad thing it gives you time to know who u r. I lived my life being last and put everyone before me including family, kids, and relationships but I'm more focused on me cause people will let u down every time
I talk to my mom everyday who has seen me through my toughest battles and I have been through some let downs, heart breaks but yet I still smile and I still love the same that's something I can't change no matter how much I want to change Its who I am. And who I will always be.😊
There were a few things made me walk away and it wouldn't have made a bit of difference if I had of stayed
It wasn't going to matter what I said or thought so I couldn't fix a relationship that was broken
I'm so grateful for my mom she has really helped me move pass a lot of things that means me no good. She will never tell me anything wrong I'm thankful for my mom.
Thank you so much!!! You could NOT have said it any better!!! God bless you!!! ❤
Fire..🔥 🔥no truer Words EVER spoken!!!!!!
Thank you for you powerful input in my life you awake me up.
Beautifully said brother. Just love your reels ❤
Yes. This needs to be heard!