Modern Women Need To Be Put In Their Place!...Apparently | JustPearlyThings
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- Modern Women Need To Be Put In Their Place!...Apparently | JustPearlyThings
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I forgot what tiktok user said this, but kissing the ground men walk on will not save you from objectification, harassment, and assault. If anything, you're in a lose lose situation
Ok this was so much better put than my comment , well said
it’s so messed up how true this is and how many of us have to find out first hand how little men care about or understand the ways they put us in danger.
I was in a 10 yr relationship with someone from freshmen yr in high school to 2016 and he never wanted to marry. Not just me but he didn't want to ever get married. Thru our 10 years he proposed to me but 1 thing I'll always remember is back in like 2009-2010 ish we were at a house party and some guy physically sexual assaulted me and I told him the day after and he didn't do anything. Nothing. Nada. I couldn't believe it. We would see this person out and I would beg him to say something to atleast scare him. And he wouldn't. That right there showed me, yup he doesn't value me, my body or our relationship in general. I WOULD NEVER TREAT SOMEONE LIKE THAT.
I’ve literally tried being that “submissive partner” type and still wasn’t enough to him. Some men just don’t appreciate you enough when you make yourself too accessible, I found out.
So true
My question is, if pearl is exactly what men want, why’s she single?
Lmaoooo i thought AT LEAST she was married 🤣
she'd probably claim it's by choice 😅 but the reality is that she's probably just annoying.
She's not sure what men want- she's not a virgin, she's not 18-23, she's not a 10. I think it's that bitterness that leads her to denigrating other women- deep down she has an inferiority complex so it leads her to overcompensate by loudly pretending she's better than other women
I just found out shes 25. Dude im 30 and i honestly look 15 years younger than her. Literally blew my mind
@@olympiadreamer6992 and thats even sadder. Pandering to the men you know have 0 interest in you just so theyd acknowledge you breathe.
It's hilarious how she says "men aren't interested in modern women" and seems to position herself as being in the group of ideal women...yet, she's running her own podcast...which is very much a modern woman thing.
That's not very barefoot in the kitchen of her.
It's giving Phyllis Schlafly, the OG antifeminist pick-me.
Yeah I can't believe she's even giving her own opinion she should be silent and let the man of the house speak for her, I'm sure he's much more knowledgeable about these topics 😐
@@Shyknit right? Without feminism, they wouldn't be able to state their wrong opinions loudly on a public platform
You are confusing her position. She agrees with FIRST wave feminism which was about granting women basic equal rights to men. That’s been achieved hence why she had the ability to have a podcast. The feminism she finds to be bullshit is current 3rd wave feminism which is total nonsense that’s based on intersectionality and “oppression” that is made up. Name how you’re oppressed or don’t have same equal access that men have? You won’t find it because first wave feminism was successful 💡
@@CurlyBoyChuck idk if you're talking about just in the US but if you are wage inequality and abortion immediately come to mind. Around the world would be whole essay on systematic taking of education opportunity and violence/sa
Pearly things is the QUEEN PICK ME. It's always the women who can't compete with other women using their looks so they parrot these manosphere talking points to look like a traditional woman. Pearl is 28 yrs old woman (who's not a virgin), single and an educated woman with her own business. She doesn't realize it, but SHE IS A modern woman.
I doubt she doesn’t realize it
She realizes but there’s lots of money to be made in misogyny
@@Flayora exactly. I find it similar to the sellout mentality. If you find a niche where you just rare enough to lean in to you can almost guarantee success. Like a white person culturally appropriating black stereotypes and getting positive attention women who are “men’s activists” get a platform for being “rare” or different in a space where she’s not saying or doing anything new but it’s coming from someone who doesn’t fit the original concept. I don’t know if that makes sense
I'm so glad someone said it.
She calls herself a modern woman who is trying to be more traditional... so yeah she isn't what she claims men want
Anyone who claims men are more organized than women has not seen the inside of your average young cis het bachelor’s apartment.
Or have opened a history book
So I was seeing this guy for like 5 years, he treated me good, paid for everything, took me everywhere, he was also nice to me, I was genuinely considering marrying him but he was filthy.
Every time I stepped in to his car I would have to push aside weeks old McDonalds wrappers and food and bit of dirt and fluffy before I could sit down. He always had an excuse for it so I didn't mind.
The first time I went to his house I was grossed out. It was a complete mess and he said that he tidied it but his siblings ((all aged 21+++)) had messed it up. Ok faiirrrr i guess ?? But every other time I went to his house it wasn't much better. It looked and smelled just like his car, like musty and dirty 🤢!
He eventually moved out of his parents house and got his own place and his house was even worse than his old room.
I stepped inside and there was weeks old laundry not even in a hamper or in a designated space, it was just all kicked in to the side of the walls to form paths around the house!!!!!
Every time I was there, there would be dishes pilled SO HIGH in the kitchen, it was almost like instead of just washing the dishes, he would just buy more plates!!!!!!!!!!! I kid you not when I say his kitchen counter was an L shape and it was COVERED HIGH in unwashed dishes!!!!!!
And again !?!??? He would ALWAYS have excuses for the mess but the worst was this table he had in the living room. It was a huge tall table, if you can imagine a King's table with a feast on it, large, high and long, well he had a table like this but it was COVERED in rubbish!!!! Empty pizza boxes, bottles, crisp packers, the lot!!!! And it was like this EVERY TIME!!!!!
And I don't even WANT TO DESCRIBE THE BATHROOM!!!!
And you know what ? I can forgive clutter. I can forgive a mess. but what I can't forgive is FILTH: old food, old crumbs, old laundry, hair all over the place, pizza crusts stuffed down the couches, absolutely not.
Every time I envisioned my future with him, all I could see was myself as the maid, constantly picking up after this 30 year old man, and I just couldn't do it.
@@shadowm2k7 wow I can't believe I glanced over at that story with my own two eyes. And yes I say glanced over because after the first description my soul cannot bear reading how absolutely disgusting that man was so I just skimmed your comment
@@shadowm2k7i just hope he’s mentally ok, i absolutely hope that he does NOT have depression and anxiety especially bipolar. I think he needs help
@@shadowm2k7 he clearly has some seriously severe mental illness. I hope he gets the help he needs
My favorite thing about Pearl is that she's never been married and yet has all this advice about somthing shes never studied or experienced herself. I love that for her.
But she has studied it. It's not like she pulls these things out of thin air. That's like saying I never survived a car accident, so I can't talk about why you shouldn't drink behind the wheel.
@@misskat7567 she should study her skin then, because she says men prefer younger women but she looks 40 at 20 🥴
@@misskat7567 What study? She just looks around, finds the examples that fit her narrative and calls it her "research". Watch Ethan call that BS out, if you really care.
Pearl is 28 yrs old, single , an educated entrepreneur who is very opinionated yet is telling women to be and do just the exact opposite ! What a grifter😅😅😅
exactly lmaooooo
I think she's 25, and she literally signed up for wife school. Plus, she doesn't give advice on what women should do but calls a lot of women out on their hypocrisy or delusion. The twisted thing is that they think that calling women out means you MUST hate women. That's simply untrue.
@@misskat7567 calling women hoes unprovoked , and reducing their value to a body count is MYSOGINY. And You cannot call youself feminine but yet be so male identified. The most masculine thing to do for a women is build a whole platform around defending men.. no real man wants to be defended by a woman., they want to defend themselves. ..she is 28!
I thought her whole thing was just telling women not to be whores then expect a prince charming.
@@misskat7567 wife school 🤮 no man would sign up for husband school, where is the dignity?
As the barefoot in the kitchen type I fucking hate hearing that “traditional women don’t exist anymore” WE DO!! And we’re cheering on our modern business girlies!!!
Exactly! I'm currently a college student with a part time job. I also want to have a career but boy do I love cooking and cleaning for my bf. I absolutely love supporting him and making his life easier where I can but he does the same for me!
Exactly, My husband makes three times more than I ever will. And he's fine with taking care of the bills if I take care of him. The traditional woman is shamed these days and it's Unfortunate because it's a beautiful way to live.
Can confirm, I stay at home with 3kids of diff age groups (teen, big kid, under1) and I’m cheering for my never wanna have kids just wanna travel the world ladies! It’s whatever makes each individual woman happy!!! And I’m happy baking with my baby on my hip lol
@@toughcookie6144 you rock mama!
At last a good comment
glad someone is talking about her. I’ve accidentally come across her shorts and they all spread so much misogyny and prejudice. it’s scary that young people and especially men see this and think it’s okay to be this hateful towards women. i hope pearl seeks therapy for her internalized hatred , it’s not healthy to be that hateful
Yeah. It’s a weird trend.
Misogyny is the hatred of women solely because they are women. Arguably, Pearl doesn't hate women, she dislikes the actions of *some* women.
@@avaesthetics cap
@@avaesthetics Saying that women who do not fit the narrow box you view as "womanhood" are lesser or bad is still misogyny, even if the one spouting it is a woman. You don't have to hate the entirity of a woman to be a misogynist.
@@avaesthetics this is a very juvenile understanding of what misogyny is and how it works
The only reason men like her is because she says what they want to hear and she enjoys that validation
and its extra weird that she herself is a woman. Like sure pearl maybe youre getting validation but youre also saying how useless you are at the same time
They don’t like her since she’s still single lmao
Ironic thing is no matter how much pick me behavior she does nobody is gonna pick her. It’s all in vain.
The few men she attracts are not quality guys. They’re disloyal, cruel, and don’t respect her as a human being, only an object they can sleep with.
Most of us learned pick me behavior doesn’t pick up a good man in middle school but I guess she missed that social experience.
Yet she still ain't found a husband!😂
@@samanthastutzman21 that's what I thought! If she's the best wifeable woman in modern times , then wheres her husband?
"feminism is a scam!!! Except for when it allows me to have a platform and a voice!"
So true. Hypocrite . She also cheated twice on her ex bfs and LOVES to bash women for cheating (which in her mind can even just be posting sensual Instagram selfies). SIMULTANEOUSLY she EXCUSES and PRAISES men for actually physically and emotionally cheating.
Whatta' gal. 😬
First wave feminism is what she believes in which was creating equality. Guess what it’s been achieved, women have freedom and there are zero laws on the books not allowing women to have the same opportunities as men. What she rightfully finds to be bullshit is this third wave feminism which is based solely on intersectionality and blaming men for everything under the idea of “oppression.”
@@thebusinesswoman23 the yikes is so strong!! How do these people even become so famous, like Andrew Tate - objectively speaking, a JOKE of a human - and somehow they're influencing an audience!
@@CurlyBoyChuck it's in cycles, you can see with most groups. the ones who were mistreated now have a voice, sure, the tensions are rising. but in the end it will level out. well, men had and still have the power (especially old rich men). these old rich men are the issue, you are just making it your own issue.
“Men can survive without women”
Yeah until the human race ends lol 😂
Just like what happen in china
Marriage and women having children were all meant for women to submit to the patriarchy so that men can show off their status. Single men are far more depressed than single and childfree women for a reason. We don’t need men but they need us, no wonder they make these podcast. 🙄✌🏽
How can that pearl girl be saying all that while having masculine energy? By her own logic, she isn't desirable either, but yet she has the nerve to call other woman undesirable.
I think it’s her way of coping. She says those things before she hears them from someone else.
This is what confuses me. Like her being loud and opinionated by her definition is exactly what is wrong with modern women. 😆 She is not resting in her feminine energy. 😂
Why is miss pearly not married with 5 kids yet? Where's her man? How dare she show her face and speak her mind on a public platform? Why does she have her own business when shes supposed to be depending on her man for everything financial?
Bra😂my question exactly 🙂
She has 5 kids?????
@kingofpunks2698 ohhh I just reread that, thanks
Hearing Pearl talk gives uncanny valley. Physically, she does not fit into the “feminine beauty standard.” I also never hear her say she’s “pure” and “virginal” (I’m guessing she does..??) but come on.. None of the men in these panels are lining up to sleep with her.
And you see why the “feminine beauty standard” is problematic..??? It has us looking at people superficially, just like I did talking about Pearl. We create an endless back and forth, a catch-22. These “standards” are harmful to all women, including Pearl.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I find her pretty. 🤷♀️
She's built like linebacker, she's single, 26y.o so an unwanted according to hers and manosphere men standard, and she used to date angryreaction who she allegedly cheated on so yeah.
She absolutely knows her looks are very 🥴 to most, projecting her own insecurities.
Typical pick me behavior, they try to score points with men by bashing and complaining about women, thinking it’s going to make these same men want them, meanwhile these men are sleeping/marrying with the same type of women you’re running your mouth about. And they don’t want you Pearl.
@@yougotgamesonyourphone6947 that’s why she’s single 🤣 maybe she should’ve focused more on the “standards”
She's talking about women having 2 baby daddies when there's grown men out here with 10+ baby mommas *cough cough* Nick Cannon
She just had a man on with allegedly seven baby mommas. And you know she said it was THE WOMEN’S fault. Lolololololol
Yeah she said only baby daddies are desired by women but baby mamas aren't desired by men.
*cough* double standard *cough*
@@budgetcoquette The father is the problem for leaving the baby alone. The woman didn't make the baby by herself, both parties are at fault.
She might not have multiple kids from multiple baby daddies but her skin sure looks like it. That woman is aging like milk 😂
Y’all I think pearl has self esteem issues. I feel like she is projecting her insecurities onto women she feels inferior to. I hope she is able to find healing and work through the misplaced aggression. 🦆
She's just grifting because it's profitable, hence all the thought pieces and her.
I don’t know any man that wants her!! Even though she speaks for them!! 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
I’ve always thought that but couldn’t put it into words
Definitely got this energy from her 🦆
She does have self esteem issues. She was groomed as a child by her basketball coach and the only men that were around her did so to mooch of her. But yes she's just doing this to gain profit
I really wish someone would just pick her, choose her, love her! But in all honestly, Pearl is a pick me and men always come to her defence saying “We have to protect this one!” “She’s telling the truth” But like, why isn’t she picked yet? Where’s HER man?!
asking the real question!!!!
I'm a man and I don't like her, her pick me attitude is not attractive.
Trueeee
She looks quite manly herself tbh
She has 3 kids with 3 different baby-daddys (pardon my spelling) hidden in the basement. And they all found out 😆
Her comments will always say “WE NEED TO PROTECT PEARL!!” but date her or wife her? Crickets.
Yepp because she supports their narrative but she is neither up to the standard of beauty she dictates, nore is she "pure" because she is not a virgin. She played herself.
I think it’s ironic that Pearl is saying what men want, but she’s literally what the men she’s talking about DONT want. They don’t want a loud girl with an opinion, even if the opinion matches their’s, the fact that she has an opinion at all puts them off.💀💀 having a podcast scares away the men you’re validating girl💀
304’s don’t get it
EXACTLY! She's the dream girl that no boy wants.
The way she looks around for validation for every word she speaks… embarrassing
Her insecurity is loud af
Women ask for divorce because men don’t want to be the bad guy. They pull away emotionally and make the marriage absolutely unbearable.
That's just because men are less selfish and are more likely to know what actual commitment is. Even when they're unhappy, they stay in the marriage because they made promises and commitments. ",For better or for worse" actually means something to a man.
@@RabidDisposition oh please 😂
They want a wife and a mistress. They want to look like a man that has it together. Like they have a successful marriage and work life. So they won’t ask for a divorce.
@@lilfairykiki122 lmao "men are less selfish" is one of the funniest jokes I've ever heard in my life ☠
@Angela if a man "makes a marriage unbearable" it's only because the woman made the marriage unbearable first.
Honestly, I pity Pearl. It’s abundantly clear that she’s never had a group of close girl friends growing up, which is honestly incredibly necessary for adolescent development.
So she’s grown up to be a bitter woman, one devoid of femininity, and what it actually looks like.
Exactly. She’s the type to get beaten by her husband and say she deserved it because his dinner wasn’t made by the time he got home from work 😂😂
She reminds me of a lot of homeschooled kids I knew with terrible parents.
Yeah, I want to feel sorry for her but the things she’s said REALLY are messed up, if you’ve seen the tweet with her saying 16 year old girls are hotter than 23 women you’ll know she’s practically crazy at this point
they only thing these alpha male and alpha female podcasts seem to consistently have in common is their complete disregard of the existence of gay people
And misogyny.
Exactly and it's dangerous, making women think that having boundaries 🙄 with men is a masculine thing. Remember I use to judge women being single women and after my ex dump me now I understand how those women feel, you have to control your destiny men are still confused about what they are looking for.
why should gay people be included in every single conversation on earth? sometimes it's just not about them and that's not offensive pls
Why do they have to be included in the conversation when there talking about specific dynamics between men and women? Most people are straight as well, so I don’t see the problem as long as there being respectful and not rude to gay people.
@@dantayhylton9938 well said
Glad we’re keeping it real, Pearl be on some bs
Dude 😭 someone has to get this chick off my boyfriend's fyp
@@obokengm788 if he watches her run girlfriends
@@maryamtara2934 it's not his fault, the algorithm targets him. And he doesn't really watch this type of content so he only sees the milder stuff
@@obokengm788 oh good, lets pray for his mind not to be corrupted by his FYP
@@obokengm788 lol ok I was about to say R U N
my ex showed me this podcast and he agreed with everything that its the 'modern' woman's fault for everything that goes wrong in a man's dating life. when him and i had this conversation and i turned it around to say, "why can't we look at these issues from a human perspective instead of blaming men or women?" and he went on this rant about how he thinks women are at fault, yada yada yada. It also made me thankful i'm not with him anymore. But i agree with you. It is a human problem and should be talked about more instead of pointing fingers at genders.
Glad he's an ex
What genuinely shocks me about Pearl is that she herself was dumped by the Angryreacts guy for having too high of a body count. Things she shames women for. She’s also 27 . Her late 20s. The age she says you should be married before because you’re not hot anymore. She says women need to be silent followers. Yet she is very loud with her podcasts, interviews etc. Says we shouldn’t vote because we are too emotional for politics. Yet she is very opinionated. Everything she says directly contradicts who she is. It’s a lazy grift.
These men are iconic in that they act like they agree with Pearl while still choosing the women that she complains about🫶🏻
Don't you mean ironic 😭
@@Rima-ms4mg they are ICONS😂😂😂
She thinks she’s the exception 💀 all the boys in the comments don’t actually want her they’ll just suck up to anyone that favors them in the slightest. She herself is a modern day women 🤷🏻♀️
Does choosing mean marry and commit or dating? Cause there's a vast difference. Many men will date the fun, sexually active woman and then marry the less sexually experienced woman afterwards. Not saying that's all scenarios, but it's kind of like the argument Marilyn Monroe vs. Jackie Kennedy. Both women are beautiful and intelligent, but they're both known distinctly for certain attributes. Marilyn was the talented and glamorous actress and Jackie was the intelligent and loyal first Lady. Playboy John was "alleged" to have an affair with Marilyn, however he stayed with Jackie. I say this a Marilyn Monroe fan and also a sympathizer for both Jackie and Marilyn, I'm not saying this to demean one group and uplift the other.
I hope you're being sarcastic
As a traditional woman myself, I agree with a few things she says but I can't overlook her hypocrisy. She's childless, single and acts masculine. She's the polar opposite of what she says women should be. She uses vulgar language, she asks the men she works with if they'd "smash" a random girl from tiktok, she's overall just extremely annoying and hypocritical.
Exactly. I'm a mutual thinking person. I don't care about traditionalism or liberalism, etc. I care more about individual perspectives. And anyone with reason should be able to see that Pearly things is an attention seeker. She likes mael validation. What we all can agree on (or should be able to), is that seeking validation from anyone is being weak minded and is weird.
Traditional women do not call other women ho3s
@@nicotinedealer7653 traditional women don't use vulgar language, point blank period. And if it slips out, we apologize. Pearl never does. Curious, huh?
@@the.earthlyaquarius Pearl is far more masculine than a lot of men I know, and not the nice kind of masculine.
Oh ffs, that crap about purity and youth is so suspect. I was 30 when I got remarried, had two children and I definitely wasn't "pure", but neither was my husband. These women trashing other women in exchange for scraps of praise from a bunch of toxic dudes really ought to just mind their business.
The fact is pearl isn't even married shes just saying all this baseless stuff
Saying modern women need to be put in their place is such a weird take. I have a PhD because I love this field. It just so happens that its lucrative. My job requires travel, sitting on panels, etc. You're asking me to undo things that happen to comes with the trappings of a life I carved out for myself? Btw Im 40 and have a partner and no kids. A state that I enjoy. I have freedom. Pearl is biased but tries to hide behind stats with be methodology and doesn't consider context.
Meant to say bs methodology
My thing is, you can criticize women who don't share your views or lifestyle all you want, but you don't have to put women down. Women like Pearl put women down, not even to spread a message like "oh be more modest because it's a good feminine value" or whatever, but because it's what will make you desirable for men. All her arguments are about being more desirable for men. It's crazy. And no I don't agree with anything at all she says, everyone should be able to live their lives as they want without hurting others.
Yeahh living their life as free riders, putting women down ? More like telling it how it is 🙂, is not that Pearl sides with men but she actually sides with common sense and logic
@@WiredMarquezTV
Oh, so you're a Pearl's fan type thing.
Good for you.
@Ki fan of logic, being correct and common sense, I believe that it would be good for everyone
@@WiredMarquezTV "fan of logic" ok buddy whatever helps you sleep at night...
@@WiredMarquezTV I used to be a “fan of logic” but then I realized that I was just being a people pleaser and agreeing with whoever spoke last. She may have some points you agree with but you can’t agree with everything a person says. Maybe try sitting for an hour every day and do some research of your own and learn on your own without someone “teaching” you. Common sense and logic is not real when it comes to societal values and personal values. No one opinion is truly right so just remember that.
I'm really annoyed with this whole male role model obsession as well.
As nice as it is to have a father the world isn't always like that. You could end up having one mom, two mothers or grow up without any male relatives.
As long as your parent/guardian has common sense you're good.
But saying that you're lacking an integral piece of yourself because you don't have male role models is nonsensical.
The statistics of children raised without fathers is more to do with public perception rather than some missing male energy.
A woman depending on a male relative just because he's a man is demeaning to that woman and the rest of her female relatives.
The above is true in the reverse.
What's between your legs doesn't matter, only what's between your ears.
Men and women are capable of both amazing and heinous feats.
🦆
What I hate the most about that rhetoric is that it still puts the blame on the woman. "why aren't there any male role models in your child's life" idk why did the husband leave, the uncles weren't interested in having a role...and when these single mums do attempt to find a role model via a stepfather figure, people like pearl go off on how they are just looking to use this man and will divorce him eventually. It's sad ad
Yeah I did appreciate that that one guy at least acknowledged that a maternal figure/female relative can provide all the necessary wisdom that people insist only a male can provide.
@@graceindeswoods5090 if you don't marry, don't have a child - you are a loser, you wasted your time and 100% you couldn't find a man, because you were a wh0re your whole life. If you chose someone, but you split and you are a single mother - you are the lowest of the low, no matter whose fault it was. You should've picked better, there were tons of "good" men in your dms, but you chose to ignore them. If you have/had a successful husband, you have no right to expect him to be loyal, who tf do you think you are? If you split, you are used up, you should've picked someone other, but you wasted your time running after chad.
If you reject guys - all of them are good, you are arrogant. If accept him and he is good - you don't deserve him or he's a beta. If he is bad and you split - you choose badly, ignored all the "good" ones.
I agree so much, it annoys me so much and is extremely agonizing. Like why is the father/male figure always given favour to? (Or in most cases). When the mother/female figure deserves equal acknowledgement which she is not given even 1% of it? This also derives from the "fatherless activities" thing which I'm pretty sure originated from misogyny. Why don't we say motherless activities? Is the mother not capable of being acknowledged or deserving of this??? Or of raising the child?? Ugh.
And let's not forget how these poor single mums try so hard to just survive or even exist!! (Specially in male dominated places [work place etc] and women like pearl [who have internalised misogyny] encourages these men/people to continue that behaviour which potentially/eventually makes the place unsafe or dangerous for the mum. And how much this all affects on the mum's mental health :(.
Men who constantly talk about youth scare the heck out of me 😮
🦆
Men are obsessed with youth. 18 to 25. It’s depressing.
@@pr23487 no man says its depressing when women want a wealthy man who's 6'2 n fit so why is it wrong when a man has preferences? not to mention that men dating women 18 to 25 is completely legal in every part of the world
@@princevegeta8581people roast those women all the time. Be serious
@@princevegeta8581 If age of consent was 13, you would call 18 year olds old
why do i feel like pearl actually has very little experience of dating and attention from men
You can see it lol lol it's always the awkward lanky horse girls
probably bc she looks the way she does lmao
🦆🦆🦆 This is interesting because I thought the "Female Andrew Tate" concept was the type of person who uplifted women and like hated men and sh1t talked men, not a woman who agreed with him😭
Tbh when I think of female Andrew Tate, I think of them being the exact same as Andrew, just instead of women it's men but apparently the only difference now is the gender
Thewizardliz!!!
But she doesn't hate tho, she's a good woman:))
That would also be a bit problematic lol
like could you imagine someone trying to develop a concept of alpha and sigma females based on gender roles?? Y i k e s
women will ALWAYS be desirable at ANY age. regardless if they have kids or not. our feminine essence is timeless and priceless.
But isn't beauty différent than attractiveness?😅 U Can think someone looks very good but not find them attractive 😆
Not necessarily true, but I agree that women can be beautiful at any age. True beauty is intertwined with your personality and soul. An 80 year old woman may not be considered visibly attractive by society, but their personality is what makes them beautiful.
i guess i'm not a woman then because i'm undesirable 😓😓
@Chrissy 123 cap
Hahaha I used to think that this was a myth until I started working at a customer service desk with older coworkers. They get asked out by older men all the time!
she’ll say women are too easy while also saying men will leave you if you don’t put out 😂 like girl at least pick a damn side
Youth and purity? What men is she talking about? Which adult men out there are trying to date 15yos? Of course she’s pandering to insecure guys who can’t date within their own age range, but somehow the women are to blame for that.
Men do value youth and purity. It is the divine feminine image. A tainted women will always have an ick to her .
@@хорошийчеловек-л6я A 15 yo is not a woman lol
@@mittag983 youth as in 20 years old women. Don't play dumb
@@alexjohnes4772 most young women date young men anyway.
@@mittag983 they be insecure predators fr
It’s like she still doesn’t get that trying to get the approval of those type of guys through adopting their ethos doesn’t actually work , you have to be hot to have whatever sliver of respect or rather attention they’re capable of.
It reminds me of trying to get my narcissistic dad’s attention as a kid by trying to like football and cars, but it didn’t matter lol
And this is the truth 💀
I didn't know having your own opinion different from the norm means you're chasing male attention
@@avaesthetics I mean when the opinion rotates exclusively on how to be "wifey material" it is a legitimate doubt
@@avaesthetics Babes you can have different opinions but being hateful and disrespectful whilst bringing down a whole ass gender is something else. She's obviously enforcing double standards
@@avaesthetics her collection of opinions is essentially the supplementary pack to alpha male messages . Not saying her opinions aren’t her own, but theyre completely adopted and never stray from alpha male rhetoric . Do you see that ?
I feel like Pearl is gay and in the closet. I think she has really complicated feelings towards women because she has internalized homophobia. Come back to my comment if she gets outed in the next few months/ years lol.
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Eh, I think she may have internalised misongny because there are women who unintentionally have it (take Colleen Hoover for example) I get what you mean though it's a bit off to speculate on someones sexuality purely because of their misongy
100% agree.
same with andrew tate but towards men
If she is........ I can fix her..... she's kinda kyoot.....
Pearl's internalized misogony is dangerous to the possible young women (and men) who consume her content. For example her perpetuating that women should know how to cook, is misogonistic if one-sided. As Salem said everyone should know how to cook! Cooking and cleaning arelife skills. Otherwise we're churning out (another) generation of codependent man-babies who don't know how to look after themselves.
My theory is that she thrives on validation and attention and she couldn't get it from the men she wanted. So she started putting down other women to appease men so that they would want her. But no decent man or decent woman wants to be around someone like her so she is just attracting the lowest of low.
She is a pick me, and at the end of the day the men she's trying to appease will never view her as equal. She's hurting herself and others for men who don't avtaully care about her.
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Well said than done lad 🦆
IMO women don’t need the safety net of marriage like they used to. People aren’t getting married because they don’t have to. We don’t expect it anymore either if kids are involved. It’s not that deep and it’s not men or women’s fault.
Also because our current economic system makes it harder to meet people because people are working for longer hours with less pay. But screw nuance, blame modern women.
What is deep then?
Is anything deep these days?
@@takeshikovach5165 um idk maybe things like the current state of the economy, mass shootings, minority struggles...stuff like that...I'm thinking maybe..those things are pretty deep, concerning, and worth having a conversation about at some point. Hot take? 🤔
@@takeshikovach5165 I'm always surprised at the depths people go to in order to defend their bad opinions. Does that count?
She's trying to systematize and generalize things that can't be boiled down to extremely simple causes, and mixes that frustration with hatred of other women. All while being a hypocrite. Because she isn't a virgin, and she's not married at the age of 27. She seems like she's hiding something that she's struggling with and projecting it onto everyone else.
she’s not a virgin?
@@AwkwarddFoxx nope. She said she lost her virginity in college. She talked about it in a podcast
I'm so glad you covered the topic of Pearl. She infuriates me as she is reducing the progress in women's freedom to self expression and growth. One thing that bothers me is how insecure she sounds when she says things. Putting men on a pedestal while bringing women down. We don't need more of that, especially from our own gender. Bring people up so we can progress together.
Another thing about the statistic that 70-somthing-percent of divorces are started by women, is it doesn't take into account who left the relationship first. Because men can just get up and leave, completely walk out on their families but then it's left to the women to actually do the work of filing for divorce. I'd be curious to see what the numbers would look like if that was factored in. Men will purposefully hold back from signing divorce papers to drag things out and legally keep women trapped.
I like "Modern women need to find their place" a lot better. Hell, I'd extend it to "Modern people need to find their place".
The vast majority of my peers are extremely nihilistic and lost in life. They have no idea what they're living for, and it's crushing them. Do what you want, find what you want, because living aimlessly will eat you alive. Isn't that bad enough? On top of that, being forced in a certain direction just makes things worse. And being in the business of forcing people in a certain way, I can't even imagine how soul sucking that must be.
Beautifully said ❤️
This is so true. What I dislike is how some people interpret these issues as woman only. It's not just "modern women". Modern men need to know their place too.
The thing that really gets me about her is that she's a modern woman as well. The same women she's insulting is what she is. She has a job and not married yet here she is insulting other women who are in the same boat. She's going to be very embarrassed if she ever truly grows up and realizes some men look down on her even though she's saying the same thing they are. I feel bad for her
If nobody wanted 'old' women my great aunt wouldnt be dating again after her husband of 30 years passed away. Pearl is delusional.
Some men go above and beyond to prove they don't like women and some women help them.
"I don't think men need women" PLEASE talk to the self-proclaimed angry incels. PLEASE. I'm begging you. teach them their worth is not in their ability to f women.
I’ve seen like a lot of Pearls videos recently and i really…can’t with her. There are plenty of conservatives that I’m willing to talk to and have a conversation with. It’s important to talk instead of build resentment in silence. But…i could truly go my whole life without talking to her and be okay with it :|
i like listening to people of all political spectrums, but there's a new breed coming out these days where people really do be saying the most unhinged outta pocket things for clout, idk which that would be lol
She's not a conservative. She is but this is not the definition. This is..... grifting. It's "if I say something wacky, I'll benefit financially, because I'll get attention. And there is an audience waiting for me, they will latch onto my every word. And Look! I'm not a man! They will look at me even more!"
@@electricpurple4112 100%. i live in idaho so i’ve met many conservatives and i’ve seen many genuine conservatives online and she absolutely isn’t one lmao. she radiates, OOZES fake conservative vibes.
I'm conservative and I have no idea what she is. I think she feeds off the validation of the Andrew Tate loyalists who get validated by what she preaches. There's no one right way to be a woman. Also, her stright dogwater misogynistic takes on womanhood are patently anti-biblical and against actual conservative values.
@@_salemtovar_ would you be willing to do more videos on political topics? I love ur views and opinions on things, and I think your content would help balance out the opinions posted by current political commentators. There's also not that many POC women in the political discussion.
" 'I'm a 10!' Modern Woman HUMBLED"
then the clip shows a girl talking beautifully about how she doesn't care anymore how she's perceived by other people, because after a long time feeling bad about herself for "not being anyone's first choice", she finally feels happy and comfortable with who she is, and that probably "makes her an 8"
clickbait much? 🦆
Saying that she doesn't care about how people look at her tells you she knows deep down she knows how people will look at her. She gives herself an 8 to feel better, but refusing to do something to better herself.
@@misskat7567 even tho I disagree with every single thing that you just said, please explain to me how your point makes " 'I'm a 10!' Modern Woman Humbled" not a fake a clickbate title/thumbnail. Because the woman in the interview wasn't neither claiming she was a 10, nor was she "humbled" by anyone
@Vitória Bottaro I agree that the tile is clickbait, but I'm not making a point about that. I'm talking about the girl who convices herself that she doesn't care, but she actually still does. She wants to be desired but refuses to make changes that would better herself.
@@misskat7567 you are making a lot of assumptions about this woman's self-esteem and the inner workings of her mind for someone who doesn't know her at all
@Vitória Bottaro I've seen similar talks like hers over and over again. Someone is trying to convince themselves that they're fine when they're not. I would also say to watch the video in full in your own time. It's not that hard to find since it's one of her more popular videos, but the panel of guests there have a point.
There are two things that I believe Pearl could be:
1.A troll.Theres a great chance she doesn't believe anything she says and just pretends to be like that in order to make money off of insecure men.
2.Insecure.Not to be offensive, but she doesn't fit into most "modern" beauty standards.She's the antithesis of the tan, full lips, curvy, almond eyes IG Model that men lust for.And I think that instead of turning her resentment towards toxic beauty standards, or just get off the internet, she turns it against the women wo seem to benefit from these standards.She tries to get male validation by presenting herself as the defender of men's interests, and trying to humble other women, ESPECIALLY the conventionally attractive ones.
Nah shes both of those things🤣
The thing is, Pearl has cheated on previous partners and what’s she’s doing is just projecting how she views herself and I guess if I’m really reaching probably justifying being a cheater since she is one herself
source? proof?
@@хорошийчеловек-л6я She cheated on angryreactions there is proof at Kiwifarms/Lolcow etc
I guess I could be considered a "traditional woman" but there's no way I'd ever be interested in these guys who just complain about """"modern women"""" because I'm not gonna be around someone who puts women down constantly
Girl same. I’d never be in a relationship where my partner puts women down.
@@Banana-eb8qr they would probably treat us bad anyway !
@@shadowm2k7 absolutely.
Exactly. You can have a preference and find it. But the complaining and need to project their desired lifestyle onto all the women who aren't their wives or girlfriends most likely never ends. Imagine how they would then treat your children. Smh
Anytime I defend women the men on RUclips are calling me a hoe and saying I will die alone. When I have a boyfriend that pays all my bills while I take care of the home. I just don't see the point in trying to bring another woman down for her choices.
its the way these podcasters be talking about marriage material when most of them aren’t even married 💀
i love how all these dating coaches and love gurus are chronically single 🤭. and the fact that none of their fans seem to notice or care that their fave love coach cant ceep a partner is..... really weird
The people who say things like Pearl does, only want this vicious cycle to continue. Hating men/women just further drives each other apart instead of creating community and love with one another. They want respect, but still tear each other down to try to make themselves appear better. The quintessential pick-me.
They’re selling easy answers and self-righteousness, it appeals to people who don’t know any better, sadly.
Incendiary content gets views and reactions, another problem with social media. Salem did a good job calmly calling out the bs.
I can’t shake the feeling that she’s behaving this way because she’s incredibly closeted, she kinda dress like a closeted girl from like 2014
Internal misogyny, being brain washed in the old ways of men, I feel like she hasn’t seen the light yet. Thank you for covering this Salem , you are a gem 💎 💕
internal misogyny isn't real. grow up
"You're not wifeable" me being a modern woman who is married to a man lmao
Exactly! I was married! Threw him out back in the Ocean. Have a boyfriend. That wants to marry me. I’m modern Asf! Don’t give a damn about men’s opinions. I don’t live to please males. I don’t listen to men at ALL!!! My boyfriend knows this and still wants to marry me. Women think they get respect by going along with what men say!! Women are silly and NEED to stop listening to men Immediately! Like seriously!
miss pick-me-pearl doesn't realize that she's not even the type of woman that men want in the first place yet has this weirdass attitude 😭
this woman wants a man’s approval so bad it’s so uncomfortable to watch
I honestly hate people who generalize the way she does. It’s ridiculous and it’s giving major I’m NoT LiKe OtHeR GiRLs vibes. The truth is that to be in a good relationship you need to find someone who values the same things as you and then spend years trying to loosen up your sphincter every time they don’t close the drawers all the way. Relationships are personal and they are between people who are in them and what works for one couple will not for another - saying “men like this” “women need to be like that” is all her insecurities speaking up because she feels like she needs to be a certain specific way to please men. I find the opposite is true - the less you give F* the more of them are drawn to you.
Yes pick meeeeee
My own mother and sister are conservatives and absolutely hate, are intimidated by, and insanely jealous of other women. It's disgusting.
You think because your mother and sister are like this, that all conservative woman are like that??
@@mysta4478 nope never said that. But I notice trends especially in those with a traditional view of a woman's place in society
Unfiltered Raw Opinion : her vibe when she talks, she has this look on her face where not even she can believe what she is saying and as if she's trolling and waiting to see what your reactions are and continuing from there and its weird. its like a 13 year old little brother insecure and unsure of himself and trying to get attention by trying to purposely irritate you lmaoo.
My bf and I were just making fun of Pearl last night lmao I'm so glad u made a video on her. Half the time she said something, I'd reply "girl stfu" or burst out laughing like I can't take her seriously. I'm seriously hoping she's just doing this for money and doesn't actually care, but on the other hand, spreading this message to ppl who lack critical thinking is concerning.
Literally i was talking about her with my boyfriend today and he said exactly what you did, that he hopes she's saying that bs just because she's getting payed for it, i can't imagine someone thinking so poorly of both genders. How can someone say that it's delusional to want a man who finds grand canyon beautiful
I agree I don't see no ring on her finger too.Andrew and pearl think they know everything.
Not “girl Stfu” 😂😂😂
The whole trend of rating peoples looks from 1-10 is so unbelievably gross to me.
same I’ve never rated anyone
🦆On the part where you said “Bring your partner around your family and friends.” I absolutely agree with that. I have brought guys around my family who straight away showed their true colors immediately. They disrespected my mother. Talked smack about my sister. Mouthed off to my friends. And I knew right away that that person was not the one for me. I met my current partner and they are respectful towards my family and pair well with my friends. They don’t become irrate assholes when they don’t get their way or lose at video games. They aren’t rude to service workers. They just make sense. I really enjoyed your video as always! ❤ 🦆
Absolutely. I just died when that dude said bring your FLING around???! My FLING??! Around my family?? Whyy
@@graceindeswoods5090 Yea, definitely wouldn’t bring a fling but a someone I’m serious about? Oh yes, they would have to meet my friends and family. Of course, only if they were serious about me too.
When she said that women who have two kids from diferent dads are hoes... I felt very angry because that's my mom situation, and it's hard. You can't judge another women situation like that, being a mother is never easy
Learn from it and don’t make the same mistakes lol.
If your mom stole would you call her a thief?
If your mom killed someone would you call her a murderer?
Stop using sentiment to judge logical approaches
@@steph_koko none of those things you describes equate to having children
@@oh.hey.2045 this was not a discussion of having kids lol it was a discussion on moral decorum
@@steph_koko did you just equate something relatively minor to something like theft or murder💀💀
According to her own standards, she should be at least wearing some make up and curling her hair a bit to be more appealing to men, no? For some reason this is odd to me. It’s like she forgot she herself is a woman too. She probably thinks she is not like other girls and wearing makeup is superficial. She has such a cute name, Pearl, and she decided to be so rude. x.x Bashing other women is not attractive at all.
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As a married woman…..don’t let people weaponize marriage or “wifey material” bs against you. If you want to be partnered, prioritize character & mutual respect & build a friendship. It’s so cringe especially hearing an unmarried woman weaponize marriage against other women. Thanks for all you do Salem, I think we all just need to go touch some grass 🥴 🦆
I thought people grew out of this phase where women and men are seen as different species when they get older or is this just a heterosexual thing?
None of these folks ask or are even interested WHY women are initiating divorces on a much higher rate than men. For them it just comes down to women evil, poor men. Everything about them is so incredibly shallow.
10:05 also, let's remember that Zendaya wasn't considered beautiful through her entire life. At the beginning of her career, she got casted as "protagonist's bf", and except of being her duo dancing, she wasn't supposed to look good. She was even supposed to look less cooler than her. She only started to be seen as beautiful when her career skyrocketed.
That doesn't means that she is not beautiful and talented, she is, but the way how we admire her has a lot to do with how we perceive her through her success and fame
Love how Pearl is single 😭😭 she’s literally unattractive to both types of men (I say types because the stuff she’s talking is in the world of “alpha/omega/beta men”)
1. NORMAL men who aren’t into the propaganda think she’s annoying
2. The exact type of men she’s advocating for are all about “submissive” women. I don’t think she’s been very submissive and breedable.
Pearl doesn’t even have any original thoughts at all … she literally regurgitates points incels make on forums, other podcasts etc
You can tell she just scrolls the incel sections of the internet, takes notes and then repeats them.
She is benefiting from this and I believe she doesn’t care about other people or women. She definitely isn’t thinking how many small minded men are going to hurt a woman because of her. She is hyping up incels and that is dangerous. Also if she ever gets in a relationship you know some petty women will get her man to cheat. I don’t believe she thinks all the things she says but she is saying them for money
Yes! Underrated comment right here
I've never understood why equality did not actually stand for equality, whether it's gender, race or sexuality. Men and women can exist in the same space and be of equal value. Nobody needs to tear down another person to bring themselves or someone else up. No-one is asking that either.
... Pearl pisses me off... If she was right, then why did Dad cheat on mum? She was loyal and never cheated on him... He was mum's only one (not by her choice if I were Frank about it)...
If that was my experience, I'd rather not go into any relationship...
Irrelevant but every time I hear the name Pearl I think of Mr Krabs’ daughter lmao
It seems from this girl's perspective that women are the only one who gets older. I mean, I didn't know men were ageless, they don't use to have life backgrounds when start a new relationship, or something like this.
Why this male background is not a problem for women, but the female one is a problem for men?
I've been wondering why my dad was still 25
@@Crabernacker GURL LMFAOOOO
Ah, bingo! That's because women are seen as a Commodity, not unique human individuals.
Because we have standards. Sorry that 90% of modern women can't met them
Also the ridiculous double standard of a woman with kids being some kind of problem.
Like there isn't pretty much an exact ratio of single men with kids for every single woman with kids? Like them kids didn't just pop up out of nowhere? How come the men aren't seen as negatively for being single parents.
We are not in a housewife economy; we have a modern unstable economy that takes TWO incomes to survive. Does she want women to be working 9-5 maybe with a part time job and THEN take care of the house, cook, and raise the kids (if they have them)????
Its irritating to see a woman who is undermining the work other woman did for modern day woman but I don’t think she realizes that the reason she is able to speak and say her opinions is because of the woman that spoke out
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She said it's better to be a "pick-me" than a "skip-me." It's been a year and she's still nothing but a "skip-me”
She said men cheat because of women. Then women leave and they are the reason they break the family 😂😂😂 she can’t even make an eye contact. Just look all around the room full of men to have their approval form them. Yet, they will never choose her.
Basically, i think that she has found the way to make money by using her own low self-esteem issues to manipulate men. Her manipulative skills are pretty good, i can tell that. She chooses very carefully her guests(women and men) and knows how to handle the conversation to get from her women guests the behavior that she wants, in order to make them look crazy, loud, immature or even silly. Many men are falling for that, because that's pretty much their idea for women too. And this is how you have a recipe for success...
The funny thing about her opinion about men not needing women is that stats show differently. Happiest man are married man, and saddest single man, but for women it is other way around, the single women are happiest. Not only that but stats also show that man benefit far more from relationships and marriage than woman do. In my opinion people need other people, that is how we are designed and it is in our nature, but in most cases women found comfort and connection with their friends while man relly on women and romantic relationships.
Also found it hilarious that pearl is this super desparate pick me girl, doing anything for male validation, yet is single and can't get a man.
btw, love the video, agree with everything you said.
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Okay femcel
Totalmente cierto 🎉
@@Wario1382 ok incel
@@Wario1382 ? I don’t understand your comment. All they said was facts stats and own opinion, which respects both parties so why « femcel »?
Pearl: Women should be seen and unheard unless it’s me, then I need to be heard everywhere.
Pearl basically said if a man is cheating on you, it's always the woman's fault
I've watched many of pearls videos and no she does not. She just believes woman like being cheated on lol
@@mysta4478 that's just as bad 💀
@@mysta4478 if women liked being cheated on, why would they leave partners who cheat?🙄 Making no sense.
@@ms.ferretmanthing2404 because most woman don't leave straight away.
Pearl is what you get when someone is always picked last during dodge ball as a kid. So she spends the rest of her life obsessed with getting picked.
Heyyyyyy I was picked last and I'm not like that
Men fr dip their nugget in every dipping sauce and when a women even opens the packet a lil their demonized
Not necessarily true. Male promiscuity is not encouraged either, but sadly it's normalized in our society. There definitely is a double standard
Not everyone will find you attractive, but some will think you are absolutely gorgeous. Beauty is relative, the most important is who you are as a person, because the ones who find you beautiful might not like you anymore after getting to know you 🦆
Pearl talking about purity like she’s a virgin 💀💀💀
Maybe pick mes are because they ain’t chosen, like her🤷♀️. She said she rather get picked than skipped 😂🫢.
Or talking about marriage and children like she’s married w children.
Why is pearly not married yet, surly she would have been "picked" by now🙄
Because she’s less than mid.
my grandma walked in my room while I was watching this and she said "wow, what a beautiful lady"
I don’t agree with this notion that certain people are attractive and the rest of us are all just regular. Societal norms of attractiveness are pretty ridiculous. Basically if you’re famous/rich and have the means to invest in your appearance/health, you’re attractive. In an everyday world with no modifications, Kylie Jenner would be considered ordinary too.
I think what Salem meant was more like the majority of people that aren't famous or rich enough to have the resources to invest in their appearances like crazy at their disposal don't conform to the beauty standards of today, which are, quite ridiculous. I don't think she necessarily meant that everyone that's not super rich or a celebrity is just mid or average. But yes, without modifications, Kylie Jenner would just likely be seen as ordinary. But that's not the case. It's just the truth that most regular people don't have the resources to invest copious amounts of resources into their appearances.
this comment !!!
Idk man, anyone who starts referring to women in derogatory ways loses all credibility in my book. You can have an intelligent conversation about stuff and not go there man.
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Exactly to be Respectful
13:10 is she gonna act like there are not an equal amount of men being "hoes" and for the streets? But when they do it's ok?! Like women aren't out here being the virgin Mary lol, a dude is involved. Also men can get multiple women pregnant (and do on occasion even having multiple families lol) like keep the same energy for both sides, but she won't cause she wants validation from only one group...
I don't agree but they literally think that it's normal for men to sleep around because they don't carry a baby. It's weird how they mad at women for a problem men literally created or at the very least participate in. Women can't be h0es by themselves 🤷🏾♀️ but alot of men don't even think men capable of being h0es even though again they be the first ones running to bed.