Now how should I advise her; okay- first of all let her pray about her life and find peace on whatever decision she makes. However, just to point out; never get married because you are running out of time, you might regret in the long run. Finally, if she wants to settle down with the other guy, kindly let her inform him about her daughter, let him love her for who she is.
She may be looking at the negative what ifs, but what if the guy that wants to kukyala learns about the daughter and is cool with taking her on as his child? The truth sets you free whether it brings the expected reaction or the oposite. I agree with you ladies, she probably doesn't want to marry a man she's not willing to tell her truth.
Let her say the truth Period, if the guy is not ok with the child then that's a turn off for me how do you sleep at night knowing very well yo lying about your baby and also it's not fair to the child 😢
Why should she end up with the man she doesn't love? There are days when marriage stands on love and money comes and goes. She needs to be single and first know her priorities she shouldn't settle with either.
Why would a person center marriage so much that they’d question whether or not to tell a person that genuinely loves them about their child. As a child, I’d never forgive her for that. Meanwhile on top of not knowing about the child, Max doesn’t know about the other man either. He doesn’t deserve that nonsense. Neither does he deserve to be second. Sis needs to just sit down and stop stringing people in her confusion.
I fear that this lady is being selfish and inconsiderate of all the other parties, especially her child. But also perhaps we don't know the full story. Anyway, even the Bibles tells us to tell the truth and it will set us free. So this young lady needs to be honest with her child, her 5-yr boyfriend and her "prospective" husband. Everyone should be made aware of the information/decision that will directly affect them.
Reminds me of a series I was watching on Netflix called Redemption! I am sorry but that babe is selfish, this is YOUR child for crying out loud . The TRUTH will come out some day! What is it that is so serious that she can’t declare her daughter. God forbid she landed on a bad man who can kuhamba small girls? Mbwenu I have many opinions
Let her leave the 5 year guy for sure and choose the one ready
but should she tell him about the child before, during the wedding or after?
Simanyi nakumanya
Fearrr womennnn
Now how should I advise her; okay- first of all let her pray about her life and find peace on whatever decision she makes. However, just to point out; never get married because you are running out of time, you might regret in the long run. Finally, if she wants to settle down with the other guy, kindly let her inform him about her daughter, let him love her for who she is.
I wish I could like this ten times!!!!! 👏👏👏👏👏👏
She may be looking at the negative what ifs, but what if the guy that wants to kukyala learns about the daughter and is cool with taking her on as his child? The truth sets you free whether it brings the expected reaction or the oposite. I agree with you ladies, she probably doesn't want to marry a man she's not willing to tell her truth.
In total agreement! Thank you
Let her say the truth Period, if the guy is not ok with the child then that's a turn off for me how do you sleep at night knowing very well yo lying about your baby and also it's not fair to the child 😢
Right?! There's no sleeping- not in peace anyway!
Why should she end up with the man she doesn't love? There are days when marriage stands on love and money comes and goes. She needs to be single and first know her priorities she shouldn't settle with either.
What has love ever done for anyone?🥲🤩
Why would a person center marriage so much that they’d question whether or not to tell a person that genuinely loves them about their child. As a child, I’d never forgive her for that. Meanwhile on top of not knowing about the child, Max doesn’t know about the other man either. He doesn’t deserve that nonsense. Neither does he deserve to be second. Sis needs to just sit down and stop stringing people in her confusion.
There's no one on earth, that is external- like a ka boy- that would make me stay quiet about my child, some one with literal internal relations!
I fear that this lady is being selfish and inconsiderate of all the other parties, especially her child. But also perhaps we don't know the full story. Anyway, even the Bibles tells us to tell the truth and it will set us free. So this young lady needs to be honest with her child, her 5-yr boyfriend and her "prospective" husband. Everyone should be made aware of the information/decision that will directly affect them.
Oh yes. She needs to think more of the child in question. And act in favour of her.
Reminds me of a series I was watching on Netflix called Redemption! I am sorry but that babe is selfish, this is YOUR child for crying out loud
. The TRUTH will come out some day! What is it that is so serious that she can’t declare her daughter. God forbid she landed on a bad man who can kuhamba small girls? Mbwenu I have many opinions
But being in a relationship where she can't open up about such an important factor should be a red flag to her honestly
She needs to fast for 40 days and 40 nights
@@priscillaatwine6270 🤣🤣🤣 agreed!!!