How To Initiate a Challenging Conversation

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  • Опубликовано: 9 сен 2024
  • This video identifies a few tools that you may want to try out when initiating a challenging conversation. This approach helps you to feel grounded within yourself before entering into potentially charged communication. Checking in and preparing yourself, as well as with the other person can allow for more spaciousness within the exchange. Being on the same page about what the topic is and how long the conversation may need can also set you both up for a successful and authentic conversation.
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Комментарии • 27

  • @marlensantizo4059
    @marlensantizo4059 Год назад +14

    ❤ Asking for consent to share is so important, it changed my relationships so much when I started doing that, thank you for sharing!!

  • @Jellybrainish
    @Jellybrainish Год назад +2

    Oh... So it might be on me that so many tough talks in my relationship goes south.
    I am guilty of dumping and gushing everything I'm excited or frustrated with on the other person and then expecting them to be ready to talk. (ADHD does not help in slowing me down.)
    Thank you for the tip! Need to keep this one in mind. ❤

  • @Schmelda
    @Schmelda Год назад +9

    I quite literally dumped how I was feeling on someone today, told them I didn't expect a response to try and lessen the load but I'm seeing how this might be the more mindful way of going about it. Super relevant, thank you!

  • @Beautiful_Days9249
    @Beautiful_Days9249 Год назад +4

    I just love your relationship tips. Thanks. I blurt out things too much. Not very consciously thinking of the other person's space. Makes me reflect.

  • @Anoukvs91
    @Anoukvs91 Год назад +2

    I love this!! Such a respectful and loving way to communicate with each other. I never thought about asking consent. Especially when it's about something sensitive it's so important to both be in a good and loving head space. You don't know if someone is if you don't ask first. It's strange how something so simple makes so much sense and yet so few people have thought about it in that way. Thank you for sharing, it's really helpful. 🤗🙏🏻

  • @Davlavi
    @Davlavi 4 месяца назад +1

    Very deep thanks.

  • @rachaelknapp8871
    @rachaelknapp8871 Год назад +1

    Love this!! I’ve found so much comfort and healing in the friendships where this type of communication is present. I love the nuance between the actual invitation and the demand disguised as an invitation.

  • @NatalieBrownMusic
    @NatalieBrownMusic Год назад

    Wow I love this teaching about asking for consent before you share. I love this and appreciate that you shared this. I am going to do this going forward. Thanks loves!

  • @Taodharma
    @Taodharma Год назад +1

    You guys nailed it again. I love the consent part! I started practicing that as my partner and I used to just blurt things out in the moment, which can be very ungrounding and dysregulating. Once I explained the concept and why consent is important it really helped with the challenging conversations.

  • @Glowupby40
    @Glowupby40 Год назад

    I love this kind of content from you guys! Always ready for more!❤

  • @margokim3206
    @margokim3206 Год назад +1

    Great and insightful video! Thank you for sharing your tips, I think communication is vital to any successful relationship.
    I would also love to see videos about raising a child - I think you're doing that in a unique way and I'd like to know more on how to be a parent like you! Just a suggestion. Have an amazing day, love you both ❤️

  • @Hayden-bq5gx
    @Hayden-bq5gx Год назад +1

    I love this. Thank you ❤

  • @sherryclark5475
    @sherryclark5475 Год назад

    This seems like really great advice. I'm really looking forward to trying it out next time I need to have a difficult conversation. Thanks!

  • @RegularHuman
    @RegularHuman Год назад +1

    Thank you for sharing and teaching us!

  • @lottywhittingham7202
    @lottywhittingham7202 Год назад

    Needed to see this video today. Definitely going to start doing this more ❤

  • @jennybowen8656
    @jennybowen8656 Год назад

    This is great, thank you.

  • @emmacollett2629
    @emmacollett2629 Год назад +3

    Spaciousness is a word you use a lot.

    • @becg5611
      @becg5611 Год назад

      What word do you use a lot?

    • @emmacollett2629
      @emmacollett2629 Год назад +1

      @@becg5611 the words I use the most at the moment are 'F*** the Tories' because I'm in the UK and it's a dumpster fire because of their incompetent government.

  • @AlexisBelon
    @AlexisBelon Год назад +1

    Once again we post a vid at the same time it’s a sign