How to be a Successful Single Mother | MINDSET FOR SUCCESS
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- Опубликовано: 11 ноя 2019
- I want to teach you how to be a successful single mother. Being a single mother is tough. I understand that because I was in your shoes many years ago. The limited time, endless mom duties and need to provide financially. You'd think those single mom business success stories aren't for you. But you can become a successful single mom. Yes, it's possible!
My goal as a single mother was to be one of those successful single mom entrepreneurs with one of those single mom success stories. And with the right attitude and mindset, I was able to achieve it!
Now I want to teach all you single moms how to be a successful single mother. Check out this video to learn how!
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It was this video that allowed me to leave my toxic relationship and feel empowered as a single mom. I got my own apartment and lived by myself for the first time, got a better job, went to counseling, saved up and bought a house at 22. THIS VIDEO WAS SO POWERFUL DURING MY WEAKEST POINTS. Thank you so much!
omg Im so happy to hear! Please keep me updated on your journey!
Wow so proud of u girl. This is the inspiration I needed
How did you really save up??
Am a single mom from Uganda but am finding it really hard..
Am even jobless..
Please guys help me
@@theshysingingbabe9040 you are not alone dear.. I think first of all is u need to get a job and have something doing
@@Marysamuel I've tried applying for jobs in all ways..but I've really failed..
Am hoping to start up a small business when I get money..
But...it's really hard
😭😭🙏
Most single moms have loads of family support. I have literally been alone with my kids no help no family and my story is not a story of success like hers. The fact that we are alive is the amount of success I have achieved
You know I'm single here Hungary from my own country. I'm a student and get pregnant. I feel like I'm alone in this type of journey but after watching u guys I feel yup I can survive inshaAllah.Alhamdulillah I have my family & husband support.the thing is I'm alone that's it.pray for me❤
Most single moms that I know including myself do not have support. I have nothing and when I have a tiny amount of help from the kindness of a friend, I appreciate it so much. But then it’s back to square one, I always struggle. I have lost countless jobs because the lack of support, even childcare isnt affordable 100% of the time I need it. I feel there’s no end in sight. I’m doing my best and we are healthy, alive, and the bills are mostly paid. I guess that is a small success!
Yeah, disabled child, no parents, no family, no child support. It’s pretty rough.
@@Ninabeana13 Yes that is an accomplishment when the bills are mostly paid. There are blessings in the struggle
@@Celestriona It can be very rough. I hope you can find some time to enjoy things you might love. Sending you lots of strength and Love 💕
"You don't have to raise your kid alone just to be a good mother." -- thank you for this.
People need to stop talking about being a single mom is where life ends. I was so afraid to leave a toxic relationship just because i was so let down. Then i realised it was the best decision i could make for me and my baby. Instead of dealing with all those problems i can focus on my dreams and we have peace home
Agree and wishing you continued success and happiness on your journey! 💪🏽🌟
I’m ready to be a single mom I cant deal with the stress any longer I’m ready to prosper and be the best parent I can for my baby
I have three kids. I'm low income and I can't afford to pay for childcare outside the hours covered by my vouchers. I'm finishing my degree. But meeting anyone, dating, going out feels impossible. I feel like I'm already spread too thin and I'm always with my kids. I definitely agree that we single moms need to put ourselves first so our kids get the best of us and a bright future.
This woman is all the way right. Make sure yall are stacking up your money.
Don’t always want to spend, spend, spend money.
Don’t be afraid to build up financially.
Don’t be afraid to save up your monies and not touch it.
I’m a single mom of two ages 19 and 20.
They are not in college.
Hoping and praying my daughter makes up her mind to go.
She’s a single mom at 19 also.
Ladies we start by making sure to not allow the wrong man to impregnate us.
Honestly, that’s where the Foundation starts.
Thank you for this I have two kids and I’m trying to finish university at the age of 31. I needed this.
I'm glad Shivone 🙂 Be your best!
I think it is great that you are working toward your degree! I am in the same boat. I'm a single mother who is going to school , working, and building a RUclips channel.
You can do it 🙏 im in my second year of university and 4 months pregnant, im going to be a single mum 😊 these videos are so inspiring 💖
👏🏻 👏🏻 👏🏻
Am a single mom too... trying to finish my University.
I’ve been a single mom for 8 years now, it’s still hard but it’s all worth it ❤
I'm 36 and a single mom. I definitely related to you mentioning wanting the family and not getting the family dynamic you so craved. That's what I wanted with my ex and that's what he played on. Of course, I'm a single mom and stressed, but I've been watching single-mom videos all day and THIS ONE will be on repeat for me daily until I believe I deserve the best life and can work towards achieving that for myself and my son. Thank you for this!
Thanks for sharing!!
I share the same sentiments as a single mother with my 12yr old son.
Hi😊😅
Currently 20 & single had my 1st child Jan 8,2021.
you are in the same boat as I was. I hope you stay strong and use my story as an inspiration.
Thank U ,I needed to hear this as a single divorced mother of two , sometyms I feel so lonely and depressed but I hope one day I will meet someone whom we will enjoy life together 🙏
I'm a single mom of a son, all I want is financial support to establish my food cooking business.
May God grant you your heart's desires. Keep pushing ❤❤
It all begins with yourself I’m ready to change my life and stop receiving bare minnimum and dealing with the same things from the person you had a child with just because you have a child with someone doesn't mean they are meant for you. 💯
I do really agree with this, I’ve got the exact same mind set to prioritize ourselves first cause once we’ve got there, they will be more happy and enjoy life with us. Don’t want to see them in miserable situation, you need to sacrifice for them.
We have the exact family situation and I also became a single mom at the age of 20. You'll be my role model from now on and I will my very best to reach where you are one day. Thank you so much! Please keep inspiring all single moms out there!
Thank you, Inggay. All the best, walk with a positive heart! You can do this 😀😀!
thank you very much for your video.
Thank you for this honesty! ❤️
You are so welcome!
Thank you so much for this video !
You are so welcome!
Thank you for the sharing.
You're welcome
Thank you. You're a big help for me
Glad to hear that!
Thank you.
You're welcome!
Thank you so much I been searching for a video that I could relate and be hopeful again thank you ❤
You are so welcome!
thanks so much!
You're welcome!
So... Im here because I want to see if being a successful single mom exists. My ex left me, and took our son. Naturally I want them both safe, so I literally dump thousands of dollars each month and give her all the support so she can take off on her own, (25 percent of the obligated versus the 60 percent I actually give her). Long story short, she hasn't. It's not easy and I have a huge amount of respect for you considering you did it all on your own. Universally you have to want to succeed.
Hi I’m Anna I’m 30 y/o I’m from Philippines 🇵🇭 and I’m single mother of 2 kids and I only support to my kids I working them alone .. thanks for ur video ❤
I agree with you on child care. I do believe that many people think that putting your child in childcare is selfish.
I have struggled with this through my childrens life is my husband who believes that I can have a business as long as it doesnt interfere with being a mother.
Thank you so much for taking the time to make this video! I am a 27 year old who is now a single mother of 4. I am struggling with depression, anxiety, and PTSD day to day and am searching for financial tips and encouragement. This video really was eye opening and gave a little bit of everything. I am a fighter and will keep pressing on no matter what challenges are thrown my way. again thank you for making this video, lets me know I am not alone in this journey.
Thanks for sharing Katherine 💕 It's not an easy journey that you are on. I wish you strength to face life's ups and downs. If things get too much, please do reach out and seek proper medical help.
Can you tell me what has happened since your comment?❤
Hi mam😊
It's so good!
Thank you, Jennie
Thanks for posting this; am single mum too from Rwanda africa
You're welcome :) Hope you're happy and draw on the strength that comes from love 💖
My challenge is my financial situation that is stopping me from moving out
Thanks for the share
Thanks for watching!
Thanks for sharing
My pleasure
Love your video and your powerful testimony. I believe when we share our testimony about our ups and downs it empowers people who may be going through the same thing. keep up the good work. My heart goes out to all single moms and mothers, who may be in a toxic relationship. You guys are amazing.❤️🌹👏😃👍
Thanks for your kind words 😊
You’re very welcome. Moms are amazing.❤️👱♀️👶❤️👏😃👍
Thanks so much am single mum struggling with 1 kid any support if you you can, please
These are a lot of good thoughts! I especially agree that being a single mom doesn't have to stop you from pursuing your dreams!
Thanks! There are many different paths that we can choose to walk on. Each with their struggles and their rewards ❤️
Hi...I love you
Like and subsribed already. When I woke, i typed how to be successful single mom then this appears. And i didn't regret watching this. Thumbs up to u. Hoping to meet you personally.
Yay thanks so much Ching. I will make more videos like this for you.
thank you beautiful soul, uve helped me with this video❤🙏💫💕
You are so welcome
I was doing good achieving my goals, doing online school, working full time taking her to childcare during the day, using her time at her dads to have a rich social life, and I just started to feel guilty like I wasn't spending enough time with her. So I caved and let her dad move in with me to help me with her. It is a relief, but I feel like a failure because all of that kind of led me to exhaustion. How do you deal with exhaustion as a mom when it seems like the grind never stops? Even a few days off doesn't really do it for me.
Thnk u for th story it made me stronger
Glad to hear that
This video helped me a lot thank u
Glad to hear that! You are welcome
Thank you! Very motivational. I left my toxic relationship when i was 8 months pregnant with our second child and now, 10 months later, i still struggle to leave my babies in someone else’s care. I love how you explained the logic behind letting go of that mentality in order to secure a better life for my family. Truly inspiring 💗
You got this! Thank you
I happy for you 👍🏽 happiness and love is the greatest gift
Thank you
thanks a lot for this. I needed this advice
You're so welcome!
Woow all what u say i need, i lost myself in motherhood
So glad I could help
I like this alot because most of the videos I have seen have used self love alot and I've never understood that. One video was saying I cant love someone if I dont love myself because I dont know what love is and I dont agree with that. Love always came naturally to me, it's my make up. I understand that I should have respect and some dignity. I should not tear myself down but build myself up instead. Your approach made more sense to me and you were honest and some of those questions were brutal but it was good. It was an effort to get to the root of the problem. I feel that almost all the reasons you mentioned are ways I have sabotaged myself. I grew up in a very violent home, I was constantly made fun and put down, yelled at, physically abused and I know I wasn't in a proper frame of mind when I ended up with my ex. I know I can trace alot of this back to trauma, to so much physical and emotional abuse that it affected my mental health. I ate my feelings and was in a constant state of stress. Then I ended up with diabetes, pcos and adrenal fatigue. I think there are so many things holding me back but one step at a time right? Gotta start somewhere. My health has been improving and I've been researching on more natural but intensive methods of healing and I'm having improvement. I struggle with my confidence and any belief I can do anything at all. I was told my whole life I couldn't succeed at this or that and all my ideas were shot down. My grades suffered, teachers talked to my dad and he blamed me so I was punished through detentions, suspensions and really condescending teachers. I'd fall asleep in class because my dad stayed up all night. He even blackmailed me into doing his computer course for him! Now I have this terrible, terrible fear of failing that I'm not sure how to overcome but I feel like you are a lifeline. I'm tired of hearing from people who don't share my single motherhood state but tell me how and what I should do. I'd like to meet people but I feel so awkward. It's been 5 years and then covid. I dont know how to reach out to anyone. I'm at the point in my life (32) where it's not easy to make new, lasting friendships. I want to succeed but feel so repressed. Because I wasnt allowed to explore my options, I have pent up anger even though I practice daily gratitiude. I'm not a drinker, smoker and I don't do drugs. How do you find what you love? Like my schooling was pretty controlled so I dont know if my interests are really my interests anymore. Do you know what I mean? Sometimes you like something for a period of time because something in it appeals to you until you are there doing it and then realize it's not for you. I feel like being 32, I dont feel I have all the time in the world. I've been running out of steam with my kids and health issues that I feel spent but I desperately want to feel alive and rejuvenated! I feel like I work at something and then something comes in my life that interrupts my progress and sets me 10 steps back. Yes, I also do want to feel loved again but with someone who's not broken but I need to be in that position! All my thoughts are jumbled right now. Probably my very biggest worry at the moment is the deep seated, anxiety inducing stressful thoughts of trying to be successful. I am so afraid of failing, of wasting even more time. I hope you make a video addressing your fears, mindset of persevering when your emotional and dependent on some sort of stress relief. In your case it was alcohol and it almost was for me except it was destroying my health so fast so I had to stop. I'd love it if you made another video about healthy habits vs bad habits. Substituting for example the need to overindulge, daily routines that help. Something along those lines. Thanks for listening to my ramble and I hope it made sense. Thanks for your video and I'm happy that you are in a much better place. I wasn't to be there with you one day!
Thanks so much for sharing your story. I really appreciate it. I will create some videos about fears and mindset for persevering :-)
@@LinhPodetti thank you! I feel I'm missing some thing in my toolbox and I'm starting to wonder if I need a life coach. There's always room and need for growth and that's what I want to do but often I get caught up in my day to day duties and forget the longer plan that i should be working towards. I guess it's just easy to get caught up in routine and your mental state becomes a routine as well. Would love to hear how you kept yourself going, what ignited you when you were down and how you kept to your goals. See, I keep my family at a distance now and I am feeling better for it. It's good for me and so I'm beginning to see how negativity can hurt and affect any plans at all. What about the negativity you can't avoid? You could be in a bad environment which you have no control over for example working a job as a single parent that offers childcare options and ability to work from home at times and no one can compete with that but your co workers are very negative people. Sometimes your in a situation and there is no end in sight. I don't know where or how I can get certified and go to school. I'm looking at shorter term options. What mental tools would you use? I would love to hear more of your thoughts and opinions.
Anita Kovacs what’s your email? I will invite you to our new women success group to help give you some more guidance ? Pls email me linh@outsourcingangel.com.au
Your beginning story is so similar to mine oh my
Great video
Glad you enjoyed it
Thank you for posting this. It made my day easier as a single mom.
Wow, that is really heartening to hear 🥰🥰
I gave you a like just in the first few seconds bc I already felt inspired.
Thank you, glad to hear that I inspired you
Omg this is so what i needed ❤️🥰 happy you spread the knowledge and inspiration.
Glad it was helpful!
I’m 8 months pregnant & 33 yrs old... I needed this! 😭💙
You are not alone...I am the same age as you and 8 months pregnat as well, and very unhappy with my marriage. Sometimes I think it would be best for me just to be dead.
I am 35 now and had my first at 31 went back to school at 31 1/2 and am doing pretty well. Some day its harder than others but you can do it and will!!
@@Lafleurbrioche thank you! I just had my boy 5 weeks ago!
Thank you all for the wonderful support! Yes, we are not alone. If things get too tough, please do reach out and get professional help.
Congratulations!! 😊May this motherhood bring you more strength and love n happiness with ua baby boy.
As new mum i might get difficult at times but at same time small moments with lil one will be worth it . Dont miss it , this moment will never come back when he grows big....
Lots of love and strenght to you!!!
Subscribed to the channel♥️❤️❤️😃
Awesome, thanks!
This made me happy. Its so inspirational. Thank you.
Thank you, Maimoon, I'm glad it did.
Thankyou soo much.Lovely video and very helpful.
My pleasure 😊
First off, thank you thank you for sharing your story as a single mom. I’ve been feeling alone in this journey and your words have given me so much inspiration. I want to follow my dreams, but I put my daughter, my job, and literally everything else before myself. Thank you for inspiring me to Put Me First. To utilize my community for support. And to open myself up for Love again. Thank you again for sharing. The universe is using your story for good ❤️
You are so welcome!
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yes that is so true. i am trying to do my best to help myself with my own son right now. thanks for your advice.
You are so welcome
I feel child care is what is stopping me.
I'm sorry you feel that way, Courtney. How about family or friends, or working around your child's schedule? Take time to look after yourself, become stronger and in a better position to give the best to your child 😊
WORD!! ❤ thank you
I so needed to hear this message right now!
You're welcome.
Thanks !
Thank you for posting this. I am definitely not going to let my circumstances hinder me. I think the biggest goal I wanted to achieve is starting my RUclips channel even though I’m still a small channel it’s a good feeling to know what future opportunities will come
Glad it was helpful!
Thank you so much, I really needed this, this is just what I needed, your wonderful 💖
You are so welcome. Glad it was helpful!
Glad I came across your page, thank u so much for this info. Single boy Mom of 2 boys & I am 21. No family support & a inconsistent "dad"
You got this!
loved this :)))
Thank you!
I'm a single parent and working as a housemaid. And now I do blogging and I hope someday I will be successful 🙏
Good luck, yes dream big and believe!
You are amazing ! Such an inspiration xx
Thank you so much!!
Needed to hear this! Thank you
Glad it was helpful!
Okay! Staying on. You are giving me hope right now in a time of some serious uncertainty. As a single mom of a 5 year old I'm scared but everyday I keep on. Dating is the last thing on my.mind and admitting I need help didn't even occur to me as an option. Thank you.
Yes you can do it!
Great insight.. i was also a single young mom without a clue of what i was doing..but i managed in the last 10 years.
🙂 Glad for you.
Thank you for creating this video! it was so inspirational! I am a new mom and a single mom at that! you have given me motivation to want to succeed in being a SAHM and working from home! :)
You got this!
I really appreciated your positivity and energy! I also liked how you mentioned that life comes comes down to choice. How you said " I can choose to be a single Mom and still be successful" Heck ya!. Keep up the great work!
Thank you Elizabeth :D I have the right ingredient: right attitude and mindset and I owned it Heck yeah!! 😊✨
I loved her positive energy in this video as well! She was great! I hope I get some opportunities to do something with her in the future.
@@Sammieh8su You're so sweet thank you
Thank you so much.This video is life changing
You're so welcome!
I’m at the very start of my journey, hope it goes well, your amazing ❤️
You got this! Thank you
I really needed this. Thank you.
Glad it was helpful!
Absolutely loved this
Thank you glad you like it
Thanks a lot, you are the best advisor that really helps with a good mindset. I really love your advice. Thanks again.
Happy to hear that!
Thank you for this!!
You're so welcome!
Hi I have two kids under 3 so the childcare cost is stopping me I live in an expensive city. I have no help from family!! Their dad seems them inconsistently so I can't really work around that. I feel like my option is to wait until they are in school full time but by then I feel like I am already losing my feelings of ambitions and energy!
I'm sorry things are tough Camilla. Don't give up. We need to be positive and resourceful when times are hard. Seek out help, mend fences with your family. Hope things look up for you soon.
Needed this ❤️
Im glad I can help.
@@Unknown-kr6gz Yes, I am fine now. Thanks
@@brandon556 Thanks!
Hi mam😮😮😮😮
Thanks
Watching your vids for the 1st time today. Thank you for speaking in real terms.
I appreciate that
Fear of failure...this holds me back from doing what I truly want. Working through this now - I’m single, 34 years old and 36 months pregnant 🤰
You got this! Dont be afraid to try new things, only win or learn. No failure.
Thankyou so much for this video, I’m 27 had a baby at 26 went back to school to get a degree. Nothing is really holding me back b/c I’m just so determine to succeed , I just really wish that I could speed up time so I can start enjoying my success. I really can’t wait to be fully successful in my own life.
Yay so happy for you. I can hear the determination in your voice.
H😊
Thanks that really helped ❤️
Thank you, I'm glad I was able to help.
Thanks for the great points about the mindset to overcome adversity
My pleasure!
I’m so glad I came across your video, I’ve been struggling a lot on figuring out ways to better my self to support my son and I.
You got this!
Thank you so much for this!
You're so welcome!
Hi😊😅
For years I struggled with outstanding debts, bills and my children's school fees. I was at a point where I wanted to give up. I came across every RUclips channel about how to make and multiply your income through passive income. Fortunately, I had saved some money and decided to start an investment, Now I have bought my second house already, earn on a monthly through passive income and got 4 out of 5 goals, just hope it encourages someone that doesn’t believe in investing
I went through alot of financial crises during my divorce. I had to raise my kids up all alone with no help from anyone. Currently I am living smart and frugal with my money. Bought my second house already. Saving and investing lifestyle made it possible for me.., Till now I earn monthly through passive income. I am planning on retiring when my kids are done with college.
I am a single Dad. Not quite long I started investing. I'm very curious and need help on how to enhance and increase my returns. Any good investment tips would be appreciated.
I invest across the top markets but not by myself tho. I follow the guidelines of Alexandra Diana Jose. I can correctly say she’s worth her salt as a investment advisor . I say because I see that in her results as my portfolio grows by averages of 20 to 30%. OVERALL,she made me financially stable investing with her help. So I’ll advice you do get a good investment advisor for yourself.
You are right, I am one of many who has benefited from investing with Alexandra Diana Jose. 2020 is an unforgettable year in my life, back then I lost my job due to covid and had no reason to live. Diana made a good life possible for me through passive income and I owe her my life. To be honest, I feel like she is an angel of who was sent to help those who are suffering financially.
Impressive. Would you mind sharing some more details. I’d like to have a talk with her.
to piggyback off my previous comment the one thing I think is holding me back right now is my mindset and motivation. I will be working hard to focus on any positives and do my very best to make each day memorable for my 4 babies. The other obstacle is my health, through my depression, stress, anxiety I have gained alot of weight causing heart strain. I need to focus on my inner mental heath as well as my physical health. There is alot of growth to be done....but in the end it has to be worth it :)
Yes, the journey requires a lot of hard work. Do find the necessary help to be physically and mentally strong, Katherine.
This is beautiful! Thank you for sharing your journey with us ❤️😊
You are so welcome!
This video just confirmed my decision. Thank you.
Great! you're welcome
This year we have left my kid's Their father has chosen another life and I have 5 children am 24 years old. What advice and awareness do you have? Also i want to became a success women but how?
Hi Queen Domar, I have some upcoming videos on Single Mom Success coming soon and how to start a Virtual Assistant business. Don't forget to subscribe and press bell button to get notification
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Thank you for this.. My ex of 7 years. Packed up and left this month ... God bless every strong woman that's here 💗
You are so welcome. GBU you too.. stay strong and positive.
Needed to see this.. thank you 💖
You are so welcome
@@LinhPodetti girl I just got out of a DV relationship I let my kids go with my mom for a month while I heal .. tonight they'll be back and your words I truly needed
Our stories are alike. Glad I stumbled upon your video!
That's awesome!
My challenge is starting up a business of my own,
Starting a business is a big challenge, but you’ve got this! Focus on your passion, take it step by step, and don't be afraid to ask for help when you need it. Your hard work will pay off. Keep pushing forward! 💪🚀
I’m currently in the same similar situation I have no family to turn to. My mother has cussed me out including cussing out my new born. I’m just looking for a new path in life. I need to work on my Finances and move foward I just need some help.
You got this!
I just stumbled upon this channel. You have a South African accent 😂
Really hahahah