A Change in Perspective: What We’ve Learned from Hitting Rock Bottom
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- Опубликовано: 3 июл 2024
- From breaking up with a toxic ex to divorce, we weigh in on how we’ve handled hitting rock bottom and the change in perspective necessary to overcome those moments.
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Say what you want about Jeannie but don't knock her mental strength. She has overcome so much yet she never acts like she's a victim. It's so empowering to see, this is how she stays so humble and down to earth.
Amen!! 🙌
Agree👌
Yes!!
Exactly!!
Perfectly said
I moved from my hometown to Atlanta with nothing but what could fit in my car. I worked 2 waitressing jobs and slept on the floor for 2 years. I graduated school, gave my life to Jesus, built a business, graduated grad school, got married and together we’re successful entrepreneurs still building for the Kingdom. ☝🏽
Yes Queen yess!!!!
Wow girl 🙌🎉🎊
Yes girl
Yes Queen
Yes praise Jesus ! So happy for you sister❤️ May the Lord continue to bless you and those youre around
“I can’t hate a man that my kids love so much”
A whole word 🎯
That's exactly how I felt about my ex so I made a point not to be negative about him. Regardless of his [insert list of horrible things that 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬 did to me, here], he is still the person who helped to create the miracles that are our sons.
@@dr.braxygilkeycruises1460 it takes a strong person to do that ❤
@@henowillson934 real strong
That Part
I need Jeannie to write a book
I’ve been saying this for years 😭 WE NEED IT 😭
Facts
Waiting patiently for it
same
damn right i wanna hear about her going to prison and all
All these woman in this panel have really lived life and it’s so inspiring how resilient they are
I’m so happy for Jeannie, she really deserves all the happiness she has now
Me too , something about her seems genuine…
Yes she has. So HAPPY/PROUD of her🤗❤
Must be the fillers
Adrienne story really touched me cause i guess i grew up on the cheetah girls. Wow that must've been horrible
SAME... Jeannie as well .
❤️
When you hit rock bottom. There's no where else to go but up
Message 🧡
I don’t know who’s in charge of the topics this season but bravo you UNDERSTOOD the assignment 👏👏
Yes!
Something is different this season. Yes, the topics are deep and soul searching. I really love Garcelle too. This show is on fire! 🔥
I swear this show and their topics this season is wilding me out, it's so much better Garcelle as a mother and her divorce experience on this show by far is helping me and leading me to somewhere better in my life........Thank you so much guy🙏🙏🙏🙏
Something always comes along to help us through our difficult moments.
All will pass and will be behind you. That I am sure of.
Thank God for that.
Wilding me out? Lol
Therapy 1:1!!
I never even knew Adrienne had pics leaked until she mentioned it on the show.
YES! OMG I remember that so clearly!
Its nothing compared to what people voluntary post these days
She played herself, tried to get a Kim K./Paris H career.
They investigated how the photos came out and it turned out that she had leaked them herself and the show got cancelled because of that. I felt sorry for the other girls.
In the end I'm glad things turned out well for Adrienne. She was young, made a terrible mistake and she's alway been a hard worker.
@@aquarius-woman5364 these fabrications ☠️ she weren’t on no show. Cheetah Girls was a movie franchise, which they made more of even AFTER the scandal so this comment is null
@@47058 The times were different back then. This is what most of them did to get Disney out of their clean cut image. Britney, Miley, Christina and many more.
Adrienne just went to far because it had worked for Kim K and Paris H. Disney let her go once they realized that she might have done this on purpose. Just look it up, no need to argue about facts and it worked out fine for her in the end so it doesn't matter today.
I don't know if another network picked them up. It wouldn't have been such a scandal today.
I really want to hear more about Adrienne’s childhood acting career. I know Tam did Sister Sister but Ade did 3 Cheetah girls films as well as That’s So Raven alongside going on tour with 3LW & Cheetah girls. Luckily Tia and Tam had each other but imagine doing all of that alone
And she guest started on multiple occasions like "Taina", "Coach Carter", etc 😊💖💖
She talked about it years ago
Ooooooh I never thought of that 🙏🏼
Thiss show helped me during my rock bottom, now I’m in law school with internships with central London law firms, I’m killing it in school, romanticising my life and living my life like it’s golden 🥺🥺😭💖
This show really helped me I can’t even explain, there testimonies and promotion of God was a constant reminder to keep pushing and want more for myself when im serious I really couldn’t. God is good guys! Just stick with it and keep your energy forward-facing and full of love❤️
Yaaas! 😩You better get those lawyer pounds!
It really is all about maintaining a stubbornly positive perspective on life. It is never as bad as our imagination suggests. ❤️
This is so beautifully said!
Exactly!!!
Some things are just as bad as our imagination suggests but I still do believe in maintaining a stubbornly positive perspective in order to make it out
I like that “ stubbornly positive “ I’m going to remember this
Mines is
Hope Loni heals from the whole Tamar situation. She's clearly still hurt...
What happen????
@@MJ-tk4tc When Tamar was let go, Tamar assumed one of the girls set her up to be fired, because Vince had alluded to that. THEN someone who worked personally with Loni came forward and said Loni encouraged the producers to fire Tamar.
So all the fans of the show blamed Loni and sent her horrible messages. Loni has stated she didn't have anything to do with Tamar being fired because she doesn't have that much power on who stays or leaves the show.
@@selfrespectingfemale6811 I think Tamar even believe it moreso and one of Lonis close associates told her it was loni. Tamar also didn't realise Vince was a snake
But Tamar did come out last year or earlier this year and said that she now realizes that it was the network that produced her family's show or The Real big wigs that messed up her The Real situation because they basically had complete control of her and had to give her permission to do other gigs etc. When they realized that she was spreading herself thin they messed up The Real for her and then just sat back and watched the blame game unfold.
Yea she was speaking about the fired rumors but Adrienne gave her input and she didn't elaborate. Yea I can tell it still bothers her, Tamar is cool with the other ladies. I don't think she'll ever be cool with Loni 🤔 hopefully one day they'll make up and put this bs behind them
Jeannie has been through some of everything, so grateful for her always telling us about it
I left my abusive ex husband while he was at work. I took what could fit in my Corolla and never looked back!!!! I'm thankful I got out and I am living & building the life I always dreamed of. I thank God everyday 🙏🏾 🙌🏾
They provided a whole ministry with this clip!🙌
Loni really must have been totally affected by folks accusing her of getting Tamar fired. She keeps bringing it up so much!
Their segment about it a few seasons back where she said “AND I DIDNT DO IT” talking about being the one who got her axed, her voice was shaking and she looked like she was tearing up. I think it hurt her really bad too.
I wish Tamar would go on there for a resolution ..
Can you imagine so many people on the Internet lying on you? That could shake anyone’s World 😕
Of course she is! And people still on her neck for no reason. I really wish her the best because she's always the 1st to defend other people, especially her co-hosts, but when she was accused the other were very silent. I guess this is strong black woman stuggle, who else relate?
@@Pampy93 correct. Loni always tried to get so tight with her sisters and sometimes they unnecessarily snob her ie Tam and even Garcelle but Tamar went too far . What's more hurtful is even after this her "rebirth" she has tried to connect with everyone except Loni, that's really must be painful.
This is the BEST panel The Real has had. I love how they gel. I think they deserve another Emmy but this time with Garcelle.
I really want Jeannie to write a book. About her life, about her experiences, she is so inspiring and empowering. That book would be worth every penny
Well Adrienne, if it makes you feel any better I didn’t even know about that til today.
Same
Ade's story gave me goosebumps. That was real.
♥️
Needed to see this going through it rn 😫
You can do it girl 💗 you'll have a breakthrough soon. Stay blessed
Yesss!
Hang in there girl u will come on top
Same girl! Its been a year, sending you blessings.
Thank y’all 💕💕 for your encouraging words they mean the world ❤️❤️❤️I pray you guys get through your situations too ❤️❤️❤️❤️ much love 💕
I think Jeannie had said it best over the years “ go through what you go through “ ! Some of the things you go through that may feel like hell and the end of the world when you’re past it u realize that it was meant to mold you and turn you into the damn good person you are meant to be with or without that person or situation affecting you In The future !
*"ALL things work together for the good of those who love the Lord and are the called according to HIS purpose." That ain't just a Bible verse; it's a way of life. And Jeannie is sho nuff a good example of that resilience.* 🤗🥰🙌🏽
@@dr.braxygilkeycruises1460 amen 😊🙏
@@dr.braxygilkeycruises1460
Easy verse to quote, but extremely difficult to digest and live by.
Adrienne I can relate about never wanting to disappoint one's mom...its a lot of pressure because she always has your best interest
I stopped watching this show last season, I would watch here and there but over all I was just over it and I thought the show had just lost it’s spark …butttt this season is just 🔥 👏 the ladies look amazing , the spark is there, and the topics are interesting 🤭🥰
We just want long clips like this more often , that is all, I’m from Australia so I can’t catch it on tv xxx
Me too! I think it was the fact that they were doing the show over zoom that was making it feel different
Same here. I stopped watching before Amanda Seales took apart panel. But whoever decided to cast Garcelle......SPOT ON! I LOVE IT ❤
Jeanie Mai should write a book seriously now!!🔥🔥
I remember how sad I was when those pics of Adrienne leaked I’m glad she and Vanessa Hudgens both overcame that. That’s terrible and shouldn’t happen to anyone.
Wait what happened?
@@michaelamitchell1603 vanessa sent a picture to her boyfriend at the time zac effron ( its why she was in there less in the 3rd film high school musical
@@hakunaaaaamatataaa9564 Thank you for explaining. I didn't know that
@@michaelamitchell1603 you're welcome x
@@hakunaaaaamatataaa9564 wait do Disney put her in that movie for less time bc of that?
Garcelle just made me love her even more! I can’t hate a man that my kids love … just when I thought garcelle couldn’t get any damn better!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯
As a young 22 yr old woman, I appreciate this soooo much🥺 I appreciate the transparency from them. It gives me hope for my future. Thank you for this segment 💟
I love these deep motivating topics from the ladies! I need this segment to be a whole segment!!! 30 minutes! An hour! ❤❤❤👌 Love you ladies!!!
That's the thing. This is why I'm single at 37 and loving it. I already have enough problems in my life I don't need relationship drama. I would never let a man put me in a position where I have to suffer that kind of heartache. EVER
love these topics so much. wish they shared more stories about their past
Even tho tamar eventually explained on her podcast how manipulated she was, it’s good she knows the truth. But Loni is definitely still hurt. But rightfully so, that situation made people look down on her and some people still believe it. And I remember that happening to Adrienne too, wow 🥺.
What episode in her podcast did she say that??
@@ke4112 It was back in March
Yep I remember people were so nasty and cruel to Loni especially. Saying she was the reason Tamar was fired and she was jealous. At least Tamar cleared it up but I still understand Lonis hurt.
@@kgomes1126 yep it was terrible
@@kgomes1126 I remember that smh
I watched this because I knew I needed it. I'm in my rock bottom now, and I feel horrible.
Things are going to get better 🙏🏽
@@thiagobailon Thanks!
I can relate. I have heard ‘once you’re at rock bottom, the only way is up’ so try keeping that in mind. Sending good vibes your way!
You got this girl!!!
Its these types of conversations they should be having. All of them are so successful now that you sometimes forget where they come from and what they have been through. So incredibly inspiring!
💯
I remember at just 20 years old, trying a harder drug in college that messed me up so much, it changed me forever. It brought on anxiety, and health problems. I fell out of my friend group, I broke up with my boyfriend, and in the fall I was diagnosed with crohn's disease. I felt like my life was over. How could I be gay and have this disease and ever date or feel love again, who would want to carry my burden? I was riddled with anxiety and pain from running to the bathroom constantly, losing weight and energy. A doctor at the time said I may never be able to hold a full time job, and that I would have to stay on medication for the rest of my life. I was so fed up with my situation, being confined to my bed and the bathroom in my last year of college, that the only thing I could do was research how to get better. I did everything doctors told me not to do. I started seeing a naturopathic doctor. I focused on changing my diet, I supplemented with herbs and natural things the earth makes, not drugs that just mask pain or mask the problem. It took a while, but I started seeing results to the point where I felt like I could go out with people again, I didn't have to be afraid of where the closest bathroom was and what not. And now, a decade later, I've worked in the #1 entertainment market for TV production, I can enjoy the junk foods I like on a day off from the gym and I have an incredible body with lean muscle mass. I NEVER just blindly accept what others tell me, I question everything and do my own research. That's why when I look around right now and see an incredibly sad state this country has gotten to where people have neglected their health for so long, now they're in a position to be begging for an antidote. It's not everyone's fault though, as the way our food system works is so incredibly messed up. But if I can go from rock bottom in my health, so can you.
I appreciate your story love ❤️
Thank you for sharing that. Powerful story. Can I ask what the drug was? For warning prospective college students of possible consequences in the future
Jeannie’s life story/ testimony remains one of the most inspirational. Forever waiting on that book that will eventually become a biopic/movie 🎬
I loved Jeannie’s advice, so damn relatable!!!
This is why I love Jeannie. She has been through it. I'm going through it now and it's nice to hear that cause look at her now! Gives me hope you know? And I'm also glad Ade told that story. You never know what people are going through.
I currently in my rock bottom… I really hope I’ll get out of it 😭😭😭😭
You will. Keep taking things a day at a time
THIS is why I love this show. Right here. The ultimate inspiration. They hands down helped me during my depression and that sounds extremely extra I know😭 but I remember I was DEPRESSED and this show always promoted God, I was only 18-20 years old so it was a good way for me to remember strong bad bitches pray to the Lord and keep going. I’m not joking Adrienne love for Paris got me to save my money and drag myself on my bday to Paris for even just a day ( I’m from London) when I was moving anti-social.
Now I’m 100,000% better and flourishing in ways I never thought I could I can’t even believe it’s my testimony😭 i hope one day I can see a live tapping of the real or meet these girls to be able to tell them they are soo inspirational for young girls like me
Yes rock bottom can be important. I have had a number of really rough periods where I thought there was no way things would get better. But every single time I came out of it bigger and better.🙏🏾
So glad Adrienne finally addressed that!!
I love when Jennie share her story
I hit rock bottom last year . This year doing better ✨🔥
Sigh ~ I'm currently at rock bottom. This couldn't have come at a better time for me. It does feel like it'll never end, but I'm hopeful that I'll slowly rise up and out of it.
This is my absolute favourite episode. This is real.
Jeanie's whole LOOK🔥💜❤
I wouldn't say that I've hit rockbottom, but I feel restless and stressed, because of my current life situation. It's 02:00 I cannot sleep, I feel restless and I currently have heartburn because of it. I feel like I want more and to improve my life, but I can't seem to find the energy nor motivation right now to work on it. I just need time...
🙏🙏😔
Take it one day in a time, you’re stronger than you think. Hang in there!! 🙏🏾
Every day do a little more than the day before. The smallest task or thing to improve your life even if it is one minute of your day.. and then tomorrow add one more minute, and keep adding a little bit more every day. Wether it be a walk, writing, taking a bath, eating one healthy meal.. etc. You got this! 💕
Its hard for us to change ourselves when we have no support. I think you should consider outside help, for me it is Jesus and a therapist that I recently found. But I'm praying that God sees you through this and that He will give you strength. 💕
Now this is "the real" that I remember & loved😃
I've had the displeasure of hitting rock bottom and it turned me into a hustler!! I make it my mission everyday to never be without again. That's why I currently have 3 streams of income and Im working on more. I'm determined to make it out here 🙏🙏🙏
I really needed this on tonight. I’m going through something that I feel like I can’t come out of. But you all gave me hope. I’m going to keep going. Mark my words. Ima be back to update the comment with a praise report 🙌🏽
Youve got this jazmun! Im also going through hard times but im going to remember its the struggle that makes you!
you got this!!! wish you all the best
Let me comment because queen I wanna stand with you when I read the praise report!!! You got this and you’re gonna be ah okay!!! Believing with you and holding you up when it gets hard!!! Love and light 🙏🏿💕
Thank you for sharing girls, you are all inspirational. 🙌😊♥️
y'all are big sis and aunties, i love you deerly
Adrienne if it makes you feel any better, Chanel was my fave character, i saw yall in concert when i was in like middle school & I never knew anything about leaked pics
All of their stories are so relatable and intriguing..I need a book from all of them.
I have to get Loni’s book. I love to hear all the ladies life experiences. You ladies are awesome. 💕
I remember the Adrienne scandal lol and I remember she wasn't allowed to be in the Macy's thanksgiving day parade for it I was so mad lol the cheetah girls were not there but in the end I got to meet Adrienne in future and it was amazing !
These convos on the real have been extremely insitiful this season....proud of these ladies n I real hope these convos are touching at least one life...hardship is real and perseverance is key
Needed this 🤍 love and light to all of you 🤍
Adrienne always explain things point by point and still ask if it make sense 🤣 and I am like yessss gurlll it make sense !
This right here. Needed this so much today.
I love this new set up on the real. The topics are also a lot more juicy and “real” I love it!
This is exactly what i needed.
So so much wisdom and truth !!!
True and so good 🙌🏽
This was so needed. It's so hard but you have to keep fighting no matter what.
The topics this season are giving me life ❤️
The Real is keeping it real... Excellent topic and great insight from the ladies...👌👍
💚 💚 💚
Thank You Ladies for sharing 🙏🏽. I really REALLY needed to hear this!
I love that they are all back together with these conversations! i missed them all like this
This talk really helped me. I usually just listen for entertainment, but this is the first time I felt connected and that the talk was therapeutic.
This segment helped me so much 🥺❤️
Wow! This is some of the best advice I've truly ever heard
I am impatiently waiting for a time where everything I am going through is in the past. Just to get passed the financial worries will be the best thing that will happen to me. Thank you for the real where strong women keep it a 100
Thank you Loni Love for being being who you are !!! You have a fan in me !!!👍🎀
Breakthrough is always near! Keep going!
Thx for truly sharing your story!!!
This is such an inspiration for me, right now 🥲
Mkay I have to say, I didn’t love Garcelle in the beginning and I missed Tam. But she’s really grown on me. She seems classy, smart and strong.
excellent topics this year!!! amazing job ladies 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Thank u all ladies for being honest and sharing your vulnerability. I appreciate it.
I need to hear this! Soooo timely!
I love all of the ladies. This show has grown so much and this season feels the most authentic consistently as all of the ladies are being vulnerable and honest, which brings us as viewers in closer. We all recognise and feel real energy and stories vs. the not so real! Thank you, as vulnerability truly is a super power!
I began watching this show at 22. I'm about to be 31! I've grown so much from you all, not to mention been thoroughly entertained! My generation of 90's born babies need this show. Thank you 🤍.
P.S - Mrs Jeannie Mai Jenkins, the people called and they said we need that memoir! Mama you have lived. Your life is a testimony.
Wow the ladies are preaching to me!
Best chat vid so far🙏🏽🙏🏽
This has been such a hard year for me. I had a terrible relationship that caused me to lose literally everything. This passed two months I’ve lost my grandma and a cousin I was very close to both. I’ve gained so much weight battling this depression. Now I’m starting a new job working for the state, got a new apartment for my son and I & I’m really taking my weight loss journey very serious. It won’t be easy but I’m excited for a fresh beginning. Although I am still sad about my losses I’m grateful I havetwo extra angels watching over me
Amen Maria! You got this!!!
@@CMK2712 thank you 🙏🏾❤️
When I go through things, I always tell myself that it's not the end of the world but just the end of the day.
Wow 🥺 thank you ladies for always being so vulnerable and encouraging. 🥺🤍
“But you can’t fall off the Floor, so up is the only way ” - “Break out this Box” Cheetah Girls
♥♥♥♥♥
Wow..to listen to this? It is refreshing!
True... Rock bottom might not lead you to the Top... However try, try, And Try again!!! Bad relationships are always the worst!!!!! But keep trying and you will Recover💖💞💋
This is so empowering to see right now‼️ I’ve been in a very dark place lately an recovering ❤️🩹/healing from this injury. I am a Sexual Abuse/Physical abuse survivor an also battle with Clinical Depression/Anxiety I was contemplating suicide a couple nights ago. I had looked at My Gun an looked at some pills 💊 I had written a note 📝 an was gonna go through with it so glad I didn’t do it. Nothing but God that came & rescued me .
Hope you are in a better place now. Sending love and hugs your way 💗💗💗
I’ve been contemplating the same and a survivor of the same. God continues to show me why I should still be here and I’m glad he showed you also. Hope you’re doing well🙏🏾
@@keilagomesborges5889 Yes Queen I’m glad you’re still here love ❤️!! God definitely has a divine plan for your life … I’ll be praying for you an sending you love 💕, light , peace , blessings & favor.
These ladies experiences are very helpful testimonies. God bless you all fabulous women for being vulnerable and so inspirational.🙏🏽❤️✨
One of my favorite clips! So inspiring
I swear God knew I needed to hear this! ❤ love you ladies
The topics this season are soooo good!!!!
Thank you ladies for sharing your stories! Loni Love, I love you!
Jeannie, I love you, and your humbleness!
I love the topics this season!! Yes ladies