What Happens When Pride Gets in the Way of Your Happiness
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- Опубликовано: 3 окт 2024
- Does pride ever get in the way of your own happiness? Plus, which is a more important trait - having a strong sense of humor or being a brainiac?
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#pride #selfworth #personalitytraits
I love Loni’s self awareness of her in past seasons. I know it doesn’t come easily or naturally to her but she’s opened up a lot more in recent seasons, and I appreciate her more serious and intellectual side.
Yeah she’s very smart not in just what she knows but the way she goes about presenting information
@@InspirationalSmiles Yes you’re right, especially when it comes to presenting news and factual info, she has a way of simplifying it which makes it easy to follow.
Yes yess!! This!
We love you Lonnie !
I do as well! People forget that she comes from an engineering background and she should get props for that!
Pride will cost you everything but leave you with nothing.
Yup!
So true!
Truth
I am so glad Loni embraced the decision to just wear flat shoes. This is really major and I don't know anyone else on TV doing that other that Whoopi sometimes.
And Wendy Williams
true,,,, i see even pregnant talk hosts wearing very high heels and wonder whether they aren't uncomfortable
@@katy5362correct!!!
Loni is really growing! Love it. Garcelle has changed the hosts and the show in general. Best addition ever!
Garcelle really fits the dynamic of the show! She vibes so well! Love her!
I'm exactly Adrian when it comes to pride, I get embarrass easily so my pride don't allow me to put myself out there in fear of embarrassment
Being shy is tied to Pride and the fear of embarrassment around people that you stay to yourself
Adrienne
If you’re reading this I hope this year you wholeheartedly believe that you are worthy & enough
❤️
Loni’s growth is beautiful I simply love her!!!
Loni’s take on the funny topic was interesting because the first person I thought of was her lol she definitely had a issue with knowing when to stop the funny and just participate in the conversation . Sometimes that can be overbearing because it seemed like it was her way of deflecting during deep conversations
Mannnnnn these girl chats be giving me life!! Thank you ladies for starting off the New Year with amazing topics!!
Pride comes before the FALL and the sad part is prideful ppl be so prideful they don't know they falling 💯 😪
Pride is something that will easily make people sway away from you if have you too much of it ! Too much pride to apologize , to not have humility , to not remain humble… lemme tell you something having too much pride is the death of things that mean most to human heart !
🎯 pride is the reason I’m divorcing. Meaning the highest on the spectrum. A Narcissist can’t be married.
💯💯💯
Wow Adrienne just explained me,I feel like I have miss out on so much just cuz I don’t want to come off looking dumb.The slightest detection am off.
“girl you 45 now” has me cryingggg😭
There's a difference between Having Pride and being Prideful. I truly pray that Adrienne gets delivered from fear 😔 I love Loni!!! She's amazing this season
Adrienne and her "FUN FACT" 😂 There's a big misconception that smart guys are socially awkward and nerdy, the funny/witty guys are usually smart anyway - most comedians hold degrees from prestigious universities
Yeah, I know one with a masters in computer science… Loni herself used to be an engineer
You have to be smart to be able to think on the spot and make good comparisons between current affairs etc
I promise Adrienne and Jeanie's stories get me everytime LOL
Loni has grown soooo much! We love you Loni!!!
Come on Loni !!!!!!! Loving your journey
Adrienne really hit home with this one
Yaaaaas Loni! Knowing your worth is important, pride comes before a fall! 💃🏽
Pride is unhealthy period. We can’t mix it up with self worth, dignity and principles it is not the same. The Bible warns against pride, so there’s no such thing as I have a healthy amount of pride. I love Loni’s perspective…
*pride offers a sense of protection from people hurting you. everybody has a little portion of it subconsciously. now if you live by it, then that’s unhealthy and can turn into ego and conceitedness. it’s good to have an even balance of humbleness as well*
I think common sense and street smarts can be helpful in everyday life but I don’t need a teacher or a mentor I need someone who can bring ease to my life and sometimes when time gets tough u gotta laugh to keep from crying so having someone in my life that can make me laugh… I’ll take that over anything else ! Laughter heals the soul
Pride is a fool's best friend.... Great quote!
Reading the room is important
Thank you for the longer videos!
I have been feeling Loni for a HOT minute!!! I can relate with her 100%! I am very much appreciate a SMART person! I also love funny, I will take them combined but I am attracted to smart! Sorry very much not sorry. 😁🤣🙌
Adrienne described insecurity not pride.
The two are intertwined in a way
@@MJ-wc6nm This is true. My insecurity rooted in fear & shame that stemmed from childhood. It probably came off as being prideful. Haha...I don't know Adrienne but love the conversation that she's sparked.🙏🏼
@@MJ-wc6nm you nailed it.
It’s the run for me 🤣🤣🤣 Yass I remember Adrienne was on there
It’s not an “ancient Hebrew proverb,” Loni. It’s a Bible scripture found in Proverbs 16:18. 😊💕
The Book of Proverbs (Hebrew: מִשְלֵי, Míshlê (Shlomoh), "Proverbs (of Solomon)") is a book in the third section (called Ketuvim) of the Hebrew Bible (The Hebrew Bible is the same as the Christian Old Testament so it’s in the Bible because it’s an old Jewish wisdom and the Old Testament is the Jewish texts).
I would have really loved Jeannie’s perspective on this! She expressed before that she’s a sapiosexual and is attracted to intelligence and I relate to that
'Pride cometh before a fall' is also in the Bible.
I thought she was going to quote proverbs. It definitely is in the bible.
It’s in The Book of Proverbs (Hebrew: מִשְלֵי, Míshlê (Shlomoh), "Proverbs (of Solomon)"), which is a book in the third section (called Ketuvim) of the Hebrew Bible (The Hebrew Bible is the same as the Christian Old Testament so it’s in the Bible because it’s an old Jewish wisdom and the Old Testament is the Jewish texts).
“You shouldn’t be a shamed of your tv guilty pleasures”. This show is my guilty pleasure
Adrienne your getting pride confused with fear. It's your fear that stops you not pride. Fear of being embarrassed for example. In my opinion
Fear and insecurity
Exactly! Pride would be if she thought she’s too good for the Masked Singer
There’s a lot different kinds of intelligence and smarts. For example I think ade is so socially intelligent, she’s relatable and funny and just so good at being engaging and knowing what to say to connect well. That’s a type of intelligence
I always start my day off with the real, this show is amazing
Uff that was eye opening, I never thought it was about pride too only imposter syndrome. This gave me a new perspective on my own issues lol. 👏🏾
Yup different strokes for different folks 😂
I loved that Loni I’m both funny and smart
Also Adrienne’ you should encourage your husband to go to jeopardy
Adrienne, my sister and I would watch Richard Bay during the summer break.
Pride & Ego are the worst traits lol
I miss the old Maury . Paternity test and cheaters are all it shows now. I remember so much the man or woman episodes out of control teenagers . Jenny Jones is a throwback ! loved it !
Y'all been dropping a word in these videos
You should Def have a good level of Pride , but not too much where you don’t learn and grow or unintentionally hurt yourself or someone 🙂 !
Richard bay and then jerry springer were my favorites!!!!
The gold nose on Loni is distracting me!!! 😩🤣🤣🤣
Reason i married my husband! He is hilarious 🤣😆😂
I think I prefer smart people too. I value someone with views and emotional intelligence.
I was a child when Richard bay came on...he had slime on his show that's what made me watch as a kid
Loni is beauty and brains though too with her engineering degree lol but I'm with her I like smarts first 🤷🏽♀️
LOVING THESE GIRL CHAT TOPICS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Is Adrian pregnant she’s been wearing a lot of big suit jackets if so I’m so happy for her
She addressed this a few months ago saying she wasn’t pregnant and she just likes baggy clothes because they are in style. But I keep hoping that she’s wearing baggy stuff so that when she eventually does get pregnant, she can hide it until the pregnancy gets to a certain stage.
Remember when Loni was the DJ on the Ellen Show. She was funny and they kept asking her back.
Adrian that is me all day.
i love just the three of them
I have a prideful sister. She’s an expert on everything.
I'm glad they allow Loni to be smart now because she was annoying af in the first couple of seasons. She is way more likable now.
Loving Loni ❤️
Happy 2022
😊 Smile! ❤️
I like a "smart man" not a "smart ass" know the difference 😉😉
But Loni, I enjoyed your humour in the first season! Loved the first season.
I think a sense of pride is okay but having too much pride is definitely an issue. 😳
Gm edagdwg thanks you tube for sharing this story of ego takes over your thinking be thankful and wait god bless you with pay attention to what you do and say Linda j. Peace knowing god for yourself is a real gift from god only
This is old. But i think the people that are unable to switch off the jokes are the ones that use it as a defense mechanism
Loving Loni's look right now 😍 Your makeup and color is bomb 💣
Loni's sneakers are always dope mannnn!!!
6:41 okayyy Adrienne 🙄
I remember Richard Bey. He would hold a Mr Puniverse contest and a Ms. Big Butt. It was hilariously low budget but entertaining. Keep up the good work ladies. I love The Real!
Bring Tamera back!!!! All the ladies are great but I miss our sister we grew up with!!!!!
lmaooo garcelle, i lalso ove 90 day fiancé and those other TLC shows like thousand pound sisters and extreme cheapskates... just mindless fun.
Arsenio Hall was always a blast,
It felt like a party 🎉
Loni has really grown as a host. I’m eally loving her insight this season.
Actually what Loni is talking about is not intelligence as in IQ but she's speaking about Emotional Intelligence, which self awareness is a part of. Being able to read a room and know when to quit is a combination of both IQ and EI
WOW! Garcelle is so so so stunning
Yes. Life is to serious to be taken Seriously. Learn to LAUGH!
character is what will take u a long way in relationships. funny is a cherry on top
My guilty pleasure is any cooking/food show.
How is that a guilty pleasure?
I just love this show lol
I remember the Richard Bey show.😭
I love how Loni kept it real about that first season. But we weren't mad that you was telling jokes. We were just mad that the jokes didn't seem true. 😂
Hahahah. Personally I was mad because the jokes would be made at the wrong time/ moment 🙃
I can’t get past Adrian’s outfit 🤣🤌🏽 maybe a cute Bob with this look.
Pride comes before the fall. Pride is ultimately what caused Satan to get kicked out of Heaven. He saw his reflection in the crystal lake and saw how beautiful he was. He wanted to take Gods place. I’d rather humble myself and possibly embarrass myself.
Andrian is wearing that far too large jacket.
The first time, I thought maybe the studio was cold and she needed it for warmth.
Please stop dressing her in these oversize outfits
Actually, the designer needs to really, reconsider the styles.
They are dressing Lonnie likes she is in lounging clothes.
Now if they are having bad weather and are dressing for the weather, but lately they are dressing like they are in a circus.
Pride has its place and it's value but sometimes it can hold us back,or from getting help.
Why does every topic has to be about sex.
Is Lonnie,advertising shoes for sketchers or some other footwear.
People have body changes and edema and she has been wearing shoes for exercise , walking or for foot problems.
I would like to know the brands she is wearing.
Her lounge jumpsuits are nice but they make her look like a stuffed toy.
Lonnie can dress for larger women but with a little pizzazz.
women of all ages and body sizes and shapes watch this show.
I have several of the jumpsuits, but I prefer separates,they just go better with my lifestyle.
The jumpsuits are ok for home but can be awkward.
I know this is the fashion as leisure wear but many of us can't wear the cuffed ankle,they cut off circulation.
For comfort and ease to walk and run and exercise, they are ok,but for older women at least myself, I need the straigh hem
Everyone please be cautious.
This covid is deadly!!!!
I just realized the shows are broken into segments, at least on utube, it continues fir one episode.
I think each segment is half hour and just continues to the next one
so we are responding to each segment.
I like the stage format but many of the topics are redundant.
Maybe since, I am older the topics have been discussed over the years at different ages.
I know the producers are appealing to the younger generations.
These are becoming more self experiences and seem to be more towards self-esteem.
It depends on the age of the viewer how we respond.
Sometimes with all the yelling I have a headache. so I have to save and watch later.
No one let's each other finish before they start over talking each other.
I'm really concerned with Loni's health. She's been getting bigger and bigger. I hope she's okay and loses it. I would hate for her to pass away from weight related complications :(
Ad doesn’t sound prideful, she sounds insecure. Loni did make so many jokes in earlier seasons. It was too much. I’m glad she recognized that.
Yessss 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 and Full of fear which makes me sad for her for real.
To me, it actually sounds like fear of embarrassment which is Pride but it can also be insecurities because in order to fear embarrassment, you gotta care about what others think abt you at least subconsciously
@@jaydecampbell3499 agreed
Let's not confuse Pride being Proud of who you are and acknowledging that with Arogance. If your friends are envious of your accomplishments...you need new friends.
Great topic
Yes, 90 days fiancé. Love that show
This was a word!!
Thats a great thing Israel did for Adrienne but on the flip side that is EXHAUSTING. I dont want to have to force my spouse to go for their dream. You need to be self motivated & i can add to that but if i have to do ir for you. That is exhausting. That is a job for a father not a husband.
My idiotic show is *Selling Sunset.* I hate almost everyone on that show except Crishell and Amanza. I spent so much time this past week screaming at my TV. I need therapy from yelling how these women need Therapy! 🤣😂
Did Adrian? Work on the Ugly Duckling episode's? That tured in strippers or models? After they grew up.
I like smart people. I can’t stand being around dumb people. Yes 90 day fiancé!
I remember Richard Bey!
Noooo never let Pride go❣️ There's Pride , and there's ego.
~cheetah g@y 🌈
Loniiiii 😍❤🙌🏽💜👑👏🏽
Pride comes before a fall is a scripture in the Bible
Me too Loni. I really need a smart man because intelligence is definitely sexy.
The scripture says pride is before a crash Proverbs 16:18
And you should have won Mask Singer Adrienne.
Just I have put my pride aside and taken my current role..and now I'm pushing for and going to get my what I deserve
i love loni, s comments.
90 day fiancé is my ish too Garcelle
I definitely understand what Loni says about comedians or people who are extremely funny, not knowing how to read the room.