We all are meant to help complete each other rather than compete. When you raise another person up , you also raise yourself up. It’s a lie that in order to get ahead you have to beat another person down . You do that and karma will come back at you . We are all gods creation , how you treat another person who is a creation of God also , your treating yourself . We all deserve to be treated with love and not let our ego ( edging god out ) take over . The ego is tied to the earth and earthly desires - greed , adoration by masses , chasing money, things - all the things that won’t matter on your deathbed .
@@MrZeissOne You are correct! We all are already complete if we only look deep enough to acknowledge the fact. We ARE designed to compliment each other with the feminine = stillness and the masculine = motion: as one we are stillness IN motion ❤
@@jeffersonhassan4558 why not…. Generalizations make the rule. The exception does not make the rule. Men want money power fame to gain status and with status comes women. I’m not sure as a man how you don’t understand this
I was raised by my mother who was a feminist. She taught me to seek a career and not a man because a career is what brings you joy and happiness. She always said that children will ruin your life and make you miserable. I tried it her way in my 20’s and 30’s and I was absolutely miserable. In my 30’s I met my husband and we got married. We are very lucky that we got to have 2 kids and now I’m a stay at home mom. My family is what brings me joy and happiness. They are the dream, not a career. I wish I would have started my family a lot sooner and I wouldn’t have wasted years trying to find joy with a career.
For most of her life, my Mom led a very nice life with my Dad and then later my step dad supporting her. But she armchair quarterbacked her daughters to become feminists. At first, we bought into it, but thankfully realized that true happiness came from creating families of our own.
Born in 1955. My salad years were frought with feminist ideology. I tend to think for myself. I ended up marrying, having a child, and getting a divorce. Don’t regret the divorce and the child was the best thing that came out of that. I live close to her and my grandchildren. I recognize that had I not married the man I DID marry I would not have the wonderful daughter I now have.
How do you suggest they do it? Just curious, as I would love to try and help younger women in any way I can but I don’t want to be a social media influencer
Wanting to be respected, independent, not treated as a piece of meat for house chores, procreation and satisfying men's sexual and emotional needs, refusing to be perceived as someone who is automatically less smart, strong, capable of various things just because they have a vagina instead of a penis ruined someone's life? How interesting...
That's true really I am Somali this idea of feminism is disturbing us Women post 100 posts per day talking about men and evolving feminist ideas into younger girls but at the same we don't give attention to them yet they are about to Burst 😅😅
Which is all men's fault. They designed society so that women are invisible. So men are getting karma with women gaining power and using men the same way
Sincerely! I have my own goals and ambitions that have nothing to do with comparing myself to other people. I couldn't give a flying fuck what the next person is doing.
@@Gallo903 B* was thrown into that gladiator mentality without actually taking a good enough moment to think twice and recognize what's actually at stake, Hilarious how short tem the majority of females unfortunately have been tricked into thinking instead of looking at the actual long term and how the miseducation of female minds has been viciously and unethically ravaging and harming the populations well being and state of existence. What a female tells both boys and girls is critical, they're the keys to the planet's physical reality and the shape and state of existence of Civilizations. The biggest job there is, is being there for the children, the boys and girls yet the majority of females have unfortunately gotten fooled into wanting to falsely compete when there is nothing worth senselessly competing for when the actual priority is visible but too many females have been getting fooled and the populations are paying for that every time that everyone in the population complains about a vulnerable mind that was corrupted due to the lack of accountability mostly stemming from the majority of females and if females don't notice fast enough then the populations will unfortunately keep getting sidetracked and sabotaged by the exact Energetic parasite's that threw that corrupt unethical outdated feminist failing Ideology thrown against the populations. It's so damn sad.
My husband made me fall in love with him and then opened my feminist eyes to reality many times. I'm incredibly lucky to have a man who rescued my mind.
@@marianfrances3057 I am so sorry to hear. My hubs grandparents have been married over 70 years. It devastates me to realize they get to go Home soon and even more so to think of one of them losing the other. I imagine they will follow each other quickly. I love them so much. I’m getting weepy just typing this
It's also a divide conquer and control. Women are easily swayed by propaganda, if they are without a masculine presence to see the danger they cannot they will fall for comforting lies.
And don't forget businesses can raise the price of stuff because we are a two income society. Businesses have figured this out about 40 years ago. The price to make most stuff hasn't gone up all that much. The profits have skyrocketed because we can afford more. Now look what that has done.
😂😂😂 Do you live in 2023 Men constantly trying to compete against women calling themselves transgender women coming into our bathrooms coming into our safe spaces and trying to call us Child bears uterus holders and birthing person so tell me again how men are not competing against us.
Just maybe she never wanted to anyway. But likes the thought. I have no idea. I say this but as amazing as my Dad is as he past away now he did everything for my mum I mean everything. That on its own is just insanely beautiful. They were made for each other. I miss them deeply I really do. They just loved. 7 babies. And did the best they could. He worked so hard. Really they are so lovely. Rip👼👼✨ I'm so blessed to have them. ✌️
I once had a female boss. She understood how to be a female boss. She was feminine, kind and competent and the men under her respected her and policed themselves. People like her are rare.
But she’s ganna be a burden on her husband that’s the issue no woman understand. 90% of them don’t even make it. I use to work for a utility company 80% of the people that would call for our help were elderly single women who never had a man who anyone else. Everyone’s gone and they’re left. Frankly I find them a burden of society
@Madama Belladonna I take it you're single and will probably remain that way for a long time. Men and women both need each other, stop lying to yourself.
I'm a 50 year old woman & I just want to say how much I love & appreciate men & their role in society. I married my husband at 21 & have two grown kids. My husband is my hero & my rock. I detest feminism.
I don’t detest feminism but I do detest the revenge on men coming from it! Blacks are treated much worse around the world especially during slavery days, and can’t hide their skin color nearly as easily as girls can hide their gender but yet people talk about racism against whites before misandry. And gay males and transgenders don’t get away with too much socially but I’ve seen more people talk about heterophobia than misandry!…
Lady, you have no idea how much this broken hearted man needed to hear that. I'm a currently an unemployed 50 yr old man in an industry dominated by women (ad agencies...I was the only man in a room of 20 on average), who was told by a feminist I think of like an aunt, "good" about it...good if more men can't get jobs to make space for women. I AM the minority in my field. I was FLOORED, and deeply discouraged. Your post lends some healing my way. THANK YOU!!!
Hero?No thanks mate,not all women want a hero,some are born to become a hero themselves,just say you don't have the guts?And what roles?There's nothing they do exclusively,every role includes women too
As a 34 year old woman I bought into it as well but I’ve been lucky enough to get married at 30 and have my first baby at 33. I’m fortunate but also upset that I bought into it for so many years and it affected me in many different ways. I try to educate other young women on it but it’s hard, because everything in our culture screams feminism.
Let me get this right. One one hand you have a washing machine, dryer, dishwasher, rumba. All you have to do is some menial cooking (that you have to do for yourself anyway) and spend time with your own children at the zoo, parc, in the yard etc (THAT's opression) . On the other you go to your corporate job 10 hours a day (8 + comute), pay half your income in tax,drop your children with strangers, still have to cook and clean. And repeat that every week till 65... (This is "freadom and independance" ). And this was hard to figure out ??? 😂
@@think2invest right but young girls have been brainwashed to be strong, independent women who have their own career goals. To admit that our primary goal is to be mothers and housewives is “embarrassing” because society has made it so. Of course, in our heart we want that, but it takes courage to admit it (once we finally wake up from the brainwashing).
She still won, you don't have what she has. No one can tell for certain if she had chosen an alternate lifestyle, she would not have regretted not pursuing her career, yes children that she will probably see once or twice a year may not have satisfied her loneliness. ...and there are many women that have family and a career. People that want to push their agenda will point one person, one specific day in their life to make a point!
@@pchan232, winning is being happy when you’re old. Just because you think you’re getting what you want, doesn’t mean you won’t completely regret it and be miserably depressed in your last years(however many you have left before you realize it).
Not every single career oriented women end up like this,everybody has different mindset,so yes it's not delusional,many single women who are childfree regret nothing
True, when women are young they maybe happy and feel empowered for the time being! It’s sad that it’s often too late by the time women learn, and way off of their peak sexual market place.
So true. The founder of the feminist movement, Gloria Steinem, was a CIA plant sent to destroy the traditional nuclear family. To destroy true femininity.
I think so as well. Corporations wanted more workers to keep wages down and now here we are. Our birthrates have plummeted and now our country can't even sustain itself with children, in other words our society doesn't work at all.
There was one man who was a friend to John d Rockefeller, or one of the Rockefellers, and he gave testimony saying that his Rockefeller friend told him that feminism was started by them in order to get women out of the house and into their labor work force so they could have more, well, corporate slaves basically.
Wait ,what ? Feminism doesnt mean that a woman doesnt need a partner or vice versa, is what i always assume it like . We humans are emotional being . Wr all need a partner ,we all crave emotional support ,a companion . I never thought it that feminism means being single or hating men .
I've never heard a single feminist push tne idea about hating men. I think women who had bad experiences pushed this idea of men are dangerous to women. To be fair feminism is a great movement. Its needed around the world to establish basic human rights laws that protect tne interest of women/girls.
Nahhh. Not really. And I also work in the healthcare setting. Not just local, but national. Out of thousands of patients that I work with over the past 11 years, I only met one man (he is on his mid 70’s) who says that he never really wanted a wife/companion. But I find a lottttt of women. I mean a lot.
I am a biological woman born in 1960. I am a humanist. I was only presented with ideas of being my best self. I have never seen men as a competition . I take responsibility for my feelings, happiness, life choices, and actions, whether in a relationship or not.!
John Gray says estrogen makes women think about emotions too much 10 times more noticing problems around her and talking about problems when under stress. So if estrogen makes so much with human brain and behavior then love empathy and the hormone oxytocin that is a love hormone should actually do much greater work psychologically and physically. Testosterone suppresses the estrogen in a man´s body. Testosterone makes men much calmer to focus on tasks. He says testosterone is about problem-solving. He says therefore husbands shouldn't force the wife to be rational all the time, because it is against her biology. She would become masculine and unattractive to him. Also, he says women shouldn't force their husbands to be emotional too much because it is against their biology. He is designed to be a problem-solver. He is teaching couples how to understand the differences between hormones such as estrogen and testosterone and their effect on the human brain. so they may also communicate much better and show love empathy and fall in love, again and again, every day. I am not sure a husband would be attractive to a woman that is too rational and so being an emphatic decent feminine nice lady, who is kind and holds his hand after coming from work. And their kids also learn to be supportive and decent because kids have mirror neurons in their brains and they are mimicking everything that adults do or say. But I noticed that women like confident men, they may not be necessarily the most good looking but a bit confident but also they love the type of guy who avoids dirty jokes, has some humility, and shows vulnerability because it means men who show a bit of vulnerability have also a great sense of humor and women are attracted to their imperfections and vulnerability they are attracted to stories where the guy explains his shortcomings and how he was in a very humble and vulnerable position to get back on track. Women are attracted to the fact that he is a human, that he isn´t some robot or cyborg or android that never made a mistake. Women love authenticity. Which most men don't know because they are brainwashed by television. But many women can be brainwashed by fake ideals on television. they don't want a perfect guy who acts like a robot. who was born with perfect intelligence which is unrealistic therefore women try to find someone who is authentic. It's not their fault that from a psychological perspective, they fall in love much more with an imperfect but authentic man and kind person, with a sense of humor. Sam Vaknin says love and intimacy is the greatest addiction, healthy addiction, therefore it reduces the need for other addictions such as Facebook and other shallow stuff. Actually, love is not about logic Otherwise, if love was about logic people would never fall in love with anybody.
I can´t get pregnant so what excactly do I need a men for in my life. For the fun and romantic part I´m better of with another girl. I don´t need someone who is just looking to contoll me and doesn´t support me in my life
I’ve dated feminists and let me tell you, they treat their partners like enemies and then gaslight them by saying, “you can’t handle a strong and independent woman who challenges you.” No, I don’t want sleep with someone who sees me as an adversary. It’s not that difficult. Unfortunately for them, they’re still single and blame men for it.
Being a feminist for myself and many women is not about hating men but just having equal rights. Without the feminist movement women would still not be able to vote or have their own bank account. I don't think men understand that women feel unsafe. Women won't do things that men take for granted like walk alone on the street at night. Women still get judged primarily on their looks. I've seen on PBD podcast women being judged on the looks when they are politicians where appearance should not be a consideration. We have a ways to go yet
More like the more money she makes, the more doors that she closes for herself. Bet most men with average incomes would actually find it to be a feature to date a woman with a high income. But she wouldn’t want them because at 30 and high salaried, she would have no use for an “average” man. Notice she’s only upset now that she’s getting old and things are starting to get difficult? Now she wishes that she had a man. Go figure
@@ThermicLight that is not it at all, we have always chose Men on their ability to provide for the family, it's just now that society has changed that means what that is has changed. It used to be we wanted the biggest and the fastest as you would be better equipped at hunter gathering. It's stands to reason that now we want the most successful in means as that is now how you would provide for the family. It is not really any different then you Men wanting a Women who is nurturing and caring as that makes for a good person to look after your children and home. This has always been like this since the dawn of Time. However I will concede that today's Women have somewhat gone back on their end of that deal, and want a traditional Man but are not willing or just incapable of being a traditional Women. Unfortunately the biggest society lie is feminism and by the time women work this out sadly it is too late.
I’m her age, thank god I didn’t fall for that lie. I did however refuse to get married until I graduated college and had a career to take care of myself if I ever needed to. Married 47 years.
I wanted to get married and have all my kids by the time I turned thirty then get a degree when the kids were in school. I have succeeded in both and I have a husband that is crazy about me. I always thought I could do it all just not at the same time
Your definitely a smart cookie that's exactly the path woman should go down and be successful on many fronts family career and personal happiness Congrats
Bhagavad Gita Chapter 16 Text 04 “Pride, arrogance, conceit, anger, harshness and ignorance - these qualities belong to those of demoniac nature, O son of Prtha.”
She doesn't need to compete with anyone, male or female. She is successful in her own right, and that is a great accomplishment! Now, she is ready for a great relationship with a man who will respect her and treat her with dignity. All women should do this! This is misrepresenting the whole point of feminism. The philosophy is not about beating men. It's about being able to have choices without being shamed or hindered. Absolutely nothing wrong with getting married and having children, but some women yearn for more! And that is ok too!!! 😊
I never could figure out what's wrong with my younger sister. The other day my older sister told me she's been in competition with me my whole life. Trying to out Man a Man. While I was trying to be a good brother to her, she was competing with me.
That movement almost claimed me. I will tell u when I surrendered to the more traditional life, I became so much more fulfilled and happy then I ever was before.
Teach YOUNG women age 16 and up. Start EARLY and show em videos of women making those confessions Modern women need to wake up. It is NOT empoweing to allow random men to run thru. Its empowring for a man!!!
John Gray says estrogen makes women think about emotions too much 10 times more noticing problems around her and talking about problems when under stress. So if estrogen makes so much with human brain and behavior then love empathy and the hormone oxytocin that is a love hormone should actually do much greater work psychologically and physically. Testosterone suppresses the estrogen in a man´s body. Testosterone makes men much calmer to focus on tasks. He says testosterone is about problem-solving. He says therefore husbands shouldn't force the wife to be rational all the time, because it is against her biology. She would become masculine and unattractive to him. Also, he says women shouldn't force their husbands to be emotional too much because it is against their biology. He is designed to be a problem-solver. He is teaching couples how to understand the differences between hormones such as estrogen and testosterone and their effect on the human brain. so they may also communicate much better and show love empathy and fall in love, again and again, every day. I am not sure a husband would be attractive to a woman that is too rational and so being an emphatic decent feminine nice lady, who is kind and holds his hand after coming from work. And their kids also learn to be supportive and decent because kids have mirror neurons in their brains and they are mimicking everything that adults do or say. But I noticed that women like confident men, they may not be necessarily the most good looking but a bit confident but also they love the type of guy who avoids dirty jokes, has some humility, and shows vulnerability because it means men who show a bit of vulnerability have also a great sense of humor and women are attracted to their imperfections and vulnerability they are attracted to stories where the guy explains his shortcomings and how he was in a very humble and vulnerable position to get back on track. Women are attracted to the fact that he is a human, that he isn´t some robot or cyborg or android that never made a mistake. Women love authenticity. Which most men don't know because they are brainwashed by television. But many women can be brainwashed by fake ideals on television. they don't want a perfect guy who acts like a robot. who was born with perfect intelligence which is unrealistic therefore women try to find someone who is authentic. It's not their fault that from a psychological perspective, they fall in love much more with an imperfect but authentic man and kind person, with a sense of humor. Sam Vaknin says love and intimacy is the greatest addiction, healthy addiction, therefore it reduces the need for other addictions such as Facebook and other shallow stuff. Actually, love is not about logic Otherwise, if love was about logic people would never fall in love with anybody.
I always loved competing against men because it was fun and I was very good at it. I was raised by my dad, and that taught me to really appreciate men, and want to marry one just like him (strong, responsible, respectful, and one who takes charge and takes care of his family). I did, and I’m so thankful for him.
Then it only stands to reason that any piece of that puzzle that doesn't fit into place should be discarded as quick as an unhealthy one-sided marriage.
I was raised in a lot of dysfunction & abuse. I often heard how sorry men are. By God's grace somehow I didn't take that in for long. I married at 17, we had 43 years & he was the most kind, loving friend & my treasure, my world before he went home to the Lord. We raised 2 sons to be good men who have happy marriages & families too. That's FAR better than any millions!
@@trexpeliahelvetios2302 My precious husband did go far too early- he was paralyzed by a medical mistake. We fought for 9 years for his life, and if we had been able to sue, I could have cared for him so much better, & he would still be alive. While the socialized healthcare in other countries is a nightmare disaster and far worse than ours now, ours is still pathetic. Tort reform in Texas protects these killer Dr's & hospitals, courtesy of Greg Abbott, (who sued the people whose tree hurt him & won millions) . Then he turned around & got laws passed others hurt by these Drs couldn't sue by lying about what it was. That's why my husband is gone so early. He was an unusually strong man, in his beliefs, values, & heart. I thanked God so many times I got to be his wife, & I told him that, and I'm so thankful our sons are so like him.
As women growing up in the 70s and 80s we bought a lie that said we can have it all. But at what price? We gave are children over to other people raise and we tried to be men. Why? Being a woman is not a bad thing. And having a husband and children can be the best life in the world. The career can come when the children grown up. Sharing a life with husband raising children is beautiful and a great way to live.
It's strange to hear the way feminism is depicted. For many people, it's not at all about competing with men or being anti-male. It's about having options and not being forced into a particular, predetermined role regardless of personal traits
@@arnowisp6244 Misogyny is pretty good at making enemies too. The problem is most people only see one side. You say modern feminism I say misogyny. We need to see from both sides to come to an understanding. Right now the male female power struggle reminds me of autoimmune disease where the immune system is attacking the body. We are are making each other sick.
@@giantsr1eva Yes, that's what the people behind all this tells you. "Women should be free to make their own decisions" Then they use mass media to brainwash women that choosing a career over a family is more important, then we get to the tragedy of this video.
That's the source of her sadness. Can you imagine hearing those lady's chat? My man surprised me today...etc. While you go home to sleep in a cold bed.
As a man, I have the privilege of having almost half of my hard-earned money taken from me to pay for social programs where women are 90% of the users.
@@tylerharris4392there is, you just need to look for them. I've met alot of good women that I simply wasn't compatible with (Most of them were either very religious or not at all, whereas I'm more in the middle. That and what we wanted out of life were just too different. I don't hate them for it, it is what it is). It requires taking the time to get to know different people and maybe getting out of your comfort zone a bit, but it pays off.
I think it’s less about taxes and more about output. Now men and women both work for comparable pay and lifestyle as a man did with a stay at home wife back in the day. The taxes didn’t double… the output and productivity did. Corporations now have two worker bees instead of one for the same price.
It actually started when majority of the men went to war for WWII. It left a huge labor gap that women had to fill to keep war supplies, the economy, and US moving. When the men returned from war, the jobs women were doing for years were given back to men. But women no longer wanted to go back in the house to be housewives. They felt empowered and had the first full taste of “independence”. Look up “Rosie the Riveter Icon”… It was propaganda that worked in the short term but backfired in the long term. “Around 5 million civilian women served in the defense industry and elsewhere in the commercial sector during World War II with the aim of freeing a man to fight.”
U are spot on man Leaked FBI documents and proofs of big corporate business man admitted (e.g. Rockkerfellr foundation) that they funded feminists movement to get women to work so they can tax them
@@danielprice538 I’ll get shredded I’m sure but it doesn’t make it untrue, at least in my experience. But the productivity I’ve seen from men versus women in the workplace is incomparable. If you laid off all the women in the entire workforce you would not see much of a fall in productivity; lay off all the me and the world collapses. Again, this is ONLY applied to my work experience and fields. But I say that to kind go against your statement and back up the commenter, or rather to say at the very least the government gets way more in taxation out of the deal than society gets production.
Supposedly this is worse in China because of what happened with the one child policy making the women there overly entitled to alpha males, creating a false sense of security and philosophy about "never settling" like never settle down which means never getting married. Jokes aside, I don't doubt this is affecting the westernized places like Japan.
The real truth is we NEED one another. Neither should invalidate, minimise nor devalue each other. This is the key to marital, domestic, community peace, success and joy.
That's a half truth at best. This is what it sounds like when someone starts a war, supports that war, lost the war and now trying to save face. You DON'T get to set the terms & conditions of surrender. The victor does.
Yeah making your life easier by supporting you . Mine learned the hard way when I left,he apologized for neglecting me , to late then. I stopped caring. Two way street ,he really regretted it how smooth his life was until I left. So piss on your dominance theory.
I have always been proud to be a women. But always proud to have a man who would take care of his family, although I did my share as well. When you try to prove that you are better than someone else, you lose any creditworthiness.
I am a well educated woman who chose to stay home and raise our son. But I wasted 34 years of marriage being angry and resentful that I left my career. It’s time to let young women know that a family and a good man are the key to a happy fulfilling life. Men need to be appreciated, loved and valued for being a sturdy provider. And women need to be exalted for being the backbone of a happy, healthy family. The current divorce rates and gender confusion are proof that what we’re doing is not working!
Well said. What changed it for you? And why do we need to hear it from others to “confirm” or to “convince” us what we deep inside already knew and felt called for? What makes the grass look greener on the other side? I’m asking myself for myself as well. Do we tend to seek validation from mainstream think tanks?
Shut up. Not everyone wants a lifestyle as yours. Working women can still have a family if they choose to. There's nothing wrong with them if they choose to stay single or not.
the problem is most modern women want abusive guys ( aka 'bad boys') Nice guys finish last these women will only realize this when they are in their 60s
That's why my rule number one in dating is: never date a feminist. I can't think of any reason why a man would benefit from dating a self proclaimed feminist. My girl is a traditional woman. She does all the womanly things and I do the manly things. We fit like puzzle pieces to make a whole. I have no idea why women now days want to live like they're men. But while they are slaving away in their job, my girl sleeps as much as she wants and lives a life of leisure other than the hard work she does maintaining our life. But she has no boss, no deadlines, etc. We also have a baby on the way which fills her with joy, me as well. Traditional gender roles are the natural way for the average person. Time to bring back common sense everyone.
Bro, just remember, not that I mean nothing thing of it, but please get a secret paternity test no matter how much you trust her. Please 🙏 it's a great advice
“I wanted to prove to men that I can beat them. So I entered a female-dominated business, with a mainly female target demographic, and 4 decades of investing without children expenses got me well-off.”
Exactly. Little value add to society. Her opposite would be a man who started a plumbing or construction company - things we need. Women extracting cash from other women isn’t success. She has stuff - but she left no legacy.
No self respecting man wants a feminist as his girlfriend / wife - He wants a woman who was meant to be his helpmate like The Bible says not his competitor
Everyone deserves a second chance! Life has been interesting full of surprises! Thera are a lot of single man out there! If she really changed I hope her the best! May God almighty help her!
There needs to be balanced. You can be a boss and a vulnerable partner. Just learn when to turn it on and off. Compete w other men/women but do NOT compete with YOUR man/woman
Feminism is about: * treating women as equal to men not only on paper; * having equal job opportunities with men; * not having to put up with the pressure to marry and procreate which society puts on women; * not being blamed for becoming a victim of physical or psychological violence, sexual harrasment or assault - that is always the attacker's fault; * not having to obey the society's beauty norms and hate yourself if you are different from the standards of attractiveness; * not letting people believe in gender stereotypes, which also benefits men who are also victims of those stereotypes about the traits which "a real man should have" and all of that bullsh*t; * creating a culture of active consent when a woman can have sex when she wants to and not when she is psychologically pressured into sex by her date/boyfriend/girlfriend/husband/wife; moreover, she can ask the partner to stop in the process if she wants to.
@@user-jp6me1by7y Will feminists marry men who are shorter, weaker, dumber and poorer than themselves? - NO. All women want SUPERIOR MEN - taller, stronger, smarter, richer. Men are SUPERIOR GODS of the planet. Men built everything and civilized women.
@@user-jp6me1by7y no it's not. That's how YOU interpret feminism. That is not universal among feminists. Feminism is a female empowerment movement. That's the only universal. Everything else is a personal ideal.
You’re definitely happier in that eastern paradise than this western hell that we currently have here! My wife and I will eventually retire there. It was beautiful when we visited.
You can't really feel sorry for them. I guarantee you there were tons of nice guys interested in her throughout her earlier years but she scoffed at them for not making as much as her. She's in that position by her own doing.
John Gray says estrogen makes women think about emotions too much 10 times more noticing problems around her and talking about problems when under stress. So if estrogen makes so much with human brain and behavior then love empathy and the hormone oxytocin that is a love hormone should actually do much greater work psychologically and physically. Testosterone suppresses the estrogen in a man´s body. Testosterone makes men much calmer to focus on tasks. He says testosterone is about problem-solving. He says therefore husbands shouldn't force the wife to be rational all the time, because it is against her biology. She would become masculine and unattractive to him. Also, he says women shouldn't force their husbands to be emotional too much because it is against their biology. He is designed to be a problem-solver. He is teaching couples how to understand the differences between hormones such as estrogen and testosterone and their effect on the human brain. so they may also communicate much better and show love empathy and fall in love, again and again, every day. I am not sure a husband would be attractive to a woman that is too rational and so being an emphatic decent feminine nice lady, who is kind and holds his hand after coming from work. And their kids also learn to be supportive and decent because kids have mirror neurons in their brains and they are mimicking everything that adults do or say. But I noticed that women like confident men, they may not be necessarily the most good looking but a bit confident but also they love the type of guy who avoids dirty jokes, has some humility, and shows vulnerability because it means men who show a bit of vulnerability have also a great sense of humor and women are attracted to their imperfections and vulnerability they are attracted to stories where the guy explains his shortcomings and how he was in a very humble and vulnerable position to get back on track. Women are attracted to the fact that he is a human, that he isn´t some robot or cyborg or android that never made a mistake. Women love authenticity. Which most men don't know because they are brainwashed by television. But many women can be brainwashed by fake ideals on television. they don't want a perfect guy who acts like a robot. who was born with perfect intelligence which is unrealistic therefore women try to find someone who is authentic. It's not their fault that from a psychological perspective, they fall in love much more with an imperfect but authentic man and kind person, with a sense of humor. Sam Vaknin says love and intimacy is the greatest addiction, healthy addiction, therefore it reduces the need for other addictions such as Facebook and other shallow stuff. Actually, love is not about logic Otherwise, if love was about logic people would never fall in love with anybody.
Honestly (and also not in a rude way) I don't get most of this comments. Being Feminist is all about having options, opportunities. We couldn't vote, we were forced to get married, have children, we weren't able to have a career, to study, to work, to have our own bank account or even to get notified about the diseases we had. Now we can CHOOSE, a key word, we CAN have both, you GET TO be a stay at home wife, get married, have kids, AND work and study. This isn't a black & white situation. The difference between having kids now, and being a stay at home wife now, its the decision factor. YOU CAN CHOOSE to do one, both or none. Being a feminist DOESN'T mean you CAN'T love men or women, or both, or neither, BEING A FEMINIST IS TO FIGHT TO LET EVERY WOMAN HAVE THE OPPORTUNITY TO CHOOSE. (If I have any grammatical mistake, or rather any spelling one, I would thank you if you told me, I'm not a native English speaker and the feedback would be really helpful to improve
How many women did we have to hear from who said they gave up their own autonomy to depend on a man, only to be cheated on, beaten, emotionally abused, abandoned, and wish they had kept their independence to get to that point? People always want to blame feminism, but feminism was a reaction to men not holding up their end of the bargain first.
100% In the speakers own words, she said i want a husband, i no longer want to compete... she didn't say i wanted a husband all along and i shouldn't have built my buisness. There's nothing stoping her from getting a husband now, when she finally wants it. He spined it like she regrets all her prior decisions. May be she did but not in the fragment that he quoted.
@yulia7577 depending on how old she is getting a husband is impossible after 40 dating for women is almost entirely impossible and if she has reached menopause she can no longer have kids and even before then her chances are low men date young not because we are pervs but because you have high fertility which allows us to continue our bloodline and fulfill our basic human desire to have kids
I dated a woman for 3 years who was 33 when we first started dating. Her first relationship. Always put her independence first, and that was ultimately why we broke up. She just didn't develop the state of mind to put us first as opposed to just herself. She couldn't do it, and she was mid 30s. At 65, there's just no way she finds a husband even if she commits to the idea that she wants one.
At 65 there are old men trying to scrape by on social security or disability whom do marry elderly women to combine incomes and not live alone. I know a woman who remarried at 64.
@@SoldierAndrewbut she didn't get what she really wanted, she had to settle for whatever bit of happiness there was left available for her out there, even if he's her soul mate she'll be wishing she met him at 24 so they could have built a life together, not slot into the seperate lives they had already built seperately
I would cry the life out of me if I'd destroyed my chance to have a happy life like she did. It's too late now. Can't have kids anymore when you're 65 girl... too late...
What the hell? I mean have you ever met a FEMINIST Now, I'm not talking about toxic Feminist Such a shame people focus on toxic feminism only Men are equally important and beautiful just as Woman. End of story... A feminist said🖤
Its not all women that are like this and people buying into the idea that some women speak for all has been a part of the problem. So men and women both believing this idea that people are clones because of physical traits and must all think the same has also contributed to the issue and this idea that one person just must be speaking for everyone because they said so or are on tv. If it was understood by most people that one person doesnt speak for a whole gender unelected this would have died out a long time ago and people would have been laughed off the television. Everybody not using their brains has been a big problem and all people validating these groups through acting as though what they are saying is real instead of them being con artists abusing peoples sexualities etc has been a massive contributer
@@peab9179 First of all, not all people in general desire a romantic partner, and not all women are interested in men. Secondly, if someone cares more about your appearance than your personality, then they probably aren’t a good fit for a long term relationship.
@@peab9179 How is anything I said personal? I simply spoke the truth. Not everyone wants a romantic partnership, and people who focus too much on appearance are often toxic.
For me, it has never been competition with men but a desire for independence from my family. Some of us grew up in homes with totalitarian fathers and you just need* to break free and can't wait to find the right man with whom you could start a new life. While I always wanted a husband and children, my desire to make sure I could always rely on myself financially became priority. And without intending to, men didn't know what role to play in my life and vice versa. I do wish I had the foresight to balance that earlier in life. I'm working on it now because I still want my husband. ❤️
I'm reminded of a scene in The Fountainhead where Howard Roark is asked by Ellsworth Toohey what Roark thinks of him. Roark dismisses Toohey with "But I don't think of you". This is what every man she was supposedly trying to beat thinks of this woman.
Honestly, as a trad wife in her 40’s I find this so gratifying, because making the choice to raise my children, and support my husband by making sure he has someone to come home to that is making sure he has dinner was not easy when our marriage and children were young. But I’m so glad I did it and so grateful for my husband for making it happen. Looking forward to our children finding their way in the world and looking forward to growing old with my man.
@@spoons250 with the joy I’ve experienced in life, I’m just so grateful, it would be inconvenient to work again but I wouldn’t mind. I wouldn’t ever remarry though. I would never bring a stranger into the lives of my children. Also, let me add, being eggless is such a relief! And I have 3 wonderful people who love me and will always want me around.
I married at 21 after I qualified as a nurse after having children (4) I worked part time as a nurse until our youngest was in high school then I went full time, we raised our children and worked together to raise our kids and buy our home. Our children are all married and have children now and we have 12 grandchildren. Our life wasn't easy, I couldn't be a full time home maker due to finances but truthfully I'm glad about that because we shared the load. I feel very blessed to have children and grandchildren, we have now retired, our 45th wedding anniversary is this month and don't have any regrets
The day women understand their success doesn't threaten men is the day they will begin to understand you battle all men when all men ain't even your enemy nor do we even care.
@@Ludoovik To each his own but you should at least pursue success in your way. It's a given women will earn more but not necessarily true for all. Just money doesn't threaten me. It's who they are inside that makes you step your shit up.
@@Undomaranel that’s not the point. The point is women chase their career to compete against men so they don’t need a man in their life until it’s too late for them to find out feminism has lied to them because she genuinely wanted a family. However, men chase their career to support his family and not to prove he’s better than a woman.
@@themack5653 There are a lot of women who simply make bad choices in life early on- they reproduce with men who are useless as providers- so they "chase a career" as you call it so that they can provide for themselves and their children. (others are widowed and are forced to become providers because of that)
One of the best episodes yet! Nothing but facts time and time again. People just refuse to wake up and accept indeniable, objective reality.. and they will be in for a rude awakening time and time again with "coping" and denying said reality.
That’s already happening man, men have being denying reality: women can do their jobs as good as they do, can be independent and successful as they are… but because of their denial they forced women to push them out of their lives to do it… and now, poor women they are not happy hahahahha in reality is poor little men, big women are scary! 😂😂😂
@@user-io3ru9tc1d hahahahahahha that’s the pot calling the kettle black…. YOU ARE THE ONES PROJECTING THEIR FEARS: if women don’t need us and are happy alone then… we are going to be old and miserable without nobody to take care of us 😂😂😂😂
Men and Women are created to complete each other, Not compete with each other.
We all are meant to help complete each other rather than compete. When you raise another person up , you also raise yourself up. It’s a lie that in order to get ahead you have to beat another person down . You do that and karma will come back at you . We are all gods creation , how you treat another person who is a creation of God also , your treating yourself . We all deserve to be treated with love and not let our ego ( edging god out ) take over . The ego is tied to the earth and earthly desires - greed , adoration by masses , chasing money, things - all the things that won’t matter on your deathbed .
Complement
The feminism ideology is part of the elites to control population ! It's deception of the highest order !
@@lenwelch2195thankyou for this comment very insightful
@@MrZeissOne You are correct! We all are already complete if we only look deep enough to acknowledge the fact.
We ARE designed to compliment each other with the feminine = stillness and the masculine = motion: as one we are stillness IN motion ❤
Women work hard to show they don't need men.
Men work hard to get women.
Thats been dead. Men don't work for women anymore. Men have smartened up.
Men get hard to get other men
Don't generalize all men
@@c2819fnf it is?
@@jeffersonhassan4558 why not…. Generalizations make the rule. The exception does not make the rule. Men want money power fame to gain status and with status comes women. I’m not sure as a man how you don’t understand this
I was raised by my mother who was a feminist. She taught me to seek a career and not a man because a career is what brings you joy and happiness. She always said that children will ruin your life and make you miserable. I tried it her way in my 20’s and 30’s and I was absolutely miserable. In my 30’s I met my husband and we got married. We are very lucky that we got to have 2 kids and now I’m a stay at home mom. My family is what brings me joy and happiness. They are the dream, not a career. I wish I would have started my family a lot sooner and I wouldn’t have wasted years trying to find joy with a career.
How is your relationship with your mother if you don’t mind me asking?
Have you purged yourself off all that poison?
@@barry-qy7lh mostly! I’m still working on it 😊
For most of her life, my Mom led a very nice life with my Dad and then later my step dad supporting her. But she armchair quarterbacked her daughters to become feminists. At first, we bought into it, but thankfully realized that true happiness came from creating families of our own.
Born in 1955. My salad years were frought with feminist ideology. I tend to think for myself. I ended up marrying, having a child, and getting a divorce. Don’t regret the divorce and the child was the best thing that came out of that. I live close to her and my grandchildren. I recognize that had I not married the man I DID marry I would not have the wonderful daughter I now have.
The worst part is the older generation won’t tell or school/educate the younger generation about feminism and how it destroyed their lives.
How do you suggest they do it? Just curious, as I would love to try and help younger women in any way I can but I don’t want to be a social media influencer
Well for one, don’t tell the younger generation to delay having kids, as my single feminist wine ain’t did to my sister. Very wrong. Very…evil.
Wine aunt*
Wanting to be respected, independent, not treated as a piece of meat for house chores, procreation and satisfying men's sexual and emotional needs, refusing to be perceived as someone who is automatically less smart, strong, capable of various things just because they have a vagina instead of a penis ruined someone's life? How interesting...
@@suzc2167just have a talk with every woman that you know. There are single and married women that don’t what is best for their own happiness.
She was competing with people who weren’t even paying attention to her
That's true really
I am Somali this idea of feminism is disturbing us
Women post 100 posts per day talking about men and evolving feminist ideas into younger girls but at the same we don't give attention to them yet they are about to Burst 😅😅
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 facts….. finally I find a perfect comment….
Which is all men's fault. They designed society so that women are invisible. So men are getting karma with women gaining power and using men the same way
Sincerely! I have my own goals and ambitions that have nothing to do with comparing myself to other people. I couldn't give a flying fuck what the next person is doing.
@@Gallo903 B* was thrown into that gladiator mentality without actually taking a good enough moment to think twice and recognize what's actually at stake, Hilarious how short tem the majority of females unfortunately have been tricked into thinking instead of looking at the actual long term and how the miseducation of female minds has been viciously and unethically ravaging and harming the populations well being and state of existence. What a female tells both boys and girls is critical, they're the keys to the planet's physical reality and the shape and state of existence of Civilizations. The biggest job there is, is being there for the children, the boys and girls yet the majority of females have unfortunately gotten fooled into wanting to falsely compete when there is nothing worth senselessly competing for when the actual priority is visible but too many females have been getting fooled and the populations are paying for that every time that everyone in the population complains about a vulnerable mind that was corrupted due to the lack of accountability mostly stemming from the majority of females and if females don't notice fast enough then the populations will unfortunately keep getting sidetracked and sabotaged by the exact Energetic parasite's that threw that corrupt unethical outdated feminist failing Ideology thrown against the populations.
It's so damn sad.
It's never been about "equality" it's always been about dominance.
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He was describing ego.
Women aren't even comfortable being dominant. It's not their nature
Men dominating women, you mean
@@mhorworshipper7456 go get a life. Go to school. Stop wasting your time here.
My husband made me fall in love with him and then opened my feminist eyes to reality many times. I'm incredibly lucky to have a man who rescued my mind.
It's not our job to rescue you.
I don't know anything if you aren't still the same person. Whatever you are at 7, you will be the same at 70
@@CuchulainAD male version of feminisme lol
@@rayantahraoui4930 numpty ....
@@rayantahraoui4930 no it's not you numpty.... Jesus...wake up.
Men +Women = A family, I rest my case.
I got married at 21. All the old screechy feminists cackled against me. 19 years later, I’m still married and joyful
Agree, I was married at 19 my husband died last year after nearly 60yrs married
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@@marianfrances3057 I am so sorry to hear.
My hubs grandparents have been married over 70 years. It devastates me to realize they get to go Home soon and even more so to think of one of them losing the other. I imagine they will follow each other quickly. I love them so much. I’m getting weepy just typing this
Wise choice
@@marianfrances3057 key to happiness is not being a hoe and marriage with pure commitment, it's perfection
On the 5 friends i have married at that age 4 of them are divorced 💁♀️ guess our own experience is not statistics enough
The government pushed feminism becomes it increases their tax revenue each year. 😂😂😂
And the corporations, too, because it drives down wages.
duh
It's also a divide conquer and control. Women are easily swayed by propaganda, if they are without a masculine presence to see the danger they cannot they will fall for comforting lies.
And increases voter base and reduces wages for corporations.
And don't forget businesses can raise the price of stuff because we are a two income society. Businesses have figured this out about 40 years ago. The price to make most stuff hasn't gone up all that much. The profits have skyrocketed because we can afford more. Now look what that has done.
Pride and anger blinds you from seeing things clearly
It's not pride,it's self respect
There is an epidemic of middle age women getting into their Lexus' wishing they had a Toyota and a toddler instead.
Same with men,white straight men are now the loneliest demographic because women no longer wanna compromise
Yep. Driving that Lexus straight to the therapist 🤷🏽♂️. Smh
With the wine bottles from Costco, bundle pack 🗿⚡
@@WhispersOnLy yet white men are the loneliest demographic,make that make sense
@@jeffersonhassan4558 What does that have to do with the original comment?? It's not a Men's problem vs Women's Problems comment ~ 😔
She was competing against her insecurities, for men are not competing against women.
😂😂😂 Do you live in 2023 Men constantly trying to compete against women calling themselves transgender women coming into our bathrooms coming into our safe spaces and trying to call us Child bears uterus holders and birthing person so tell me again how men are not competing against us.
Wow... Never heard it put that way, but you nailed it!
'Cept a few who wear skirts and lipstick😂
Exactly!
They do. I worked with all men for years. They compete with women and each other
At 65 ...I wish her all the best.
Just maybe she never wanted to anyway. But likes the thought. I have no idea. I say this but as amazing as my Dad is as he past away now he did everything for my mum I mean everything. That on its own is just insanely beautiful. They were made for each other. I miss them deeply I really do. They just loved. 7 babies. And did the best they could. He worked so hard. Really they are so lovely. Rip👼👼✨ I'm so blessed to have them. ✌️
I once had a female boss. She understood how to be a female boss. She was feminine, kind and competent and the men under her respected her and policed themselves. People like her are rare.
I dropped my phone when he mentioned she is 65. That's incredibly sad.
She realised very late 😂
Yeah when he said 65 I want a husband I was like honey it’s to late for that
But she’s ganna be a burden on her husband that’s the issue no woman understand. 90% of them don’t even make it. I use to work for a utility company 80% of the people that would call for our help were elderly single women who never had a man who anyone else. Everyone’s gone and they’re left. Frankly I find them a burden of society
That sux..
That's believable. She set up her salon, work its way up, made millions. If course its gonna take decades. 😂
It is not a competition between men and women. A man and a woman come together and it’s us against the world. Stop fighting your teammate.
@Madama Belladonna Nobody wants you on their team.
@Madama Belladonna Teammates share resources.
@Madama Belladonna I take it you're single and will probably remain that way for a long time. Men and women both need each other, stop lying to yourself.
@Madama Belladonna enjoy your single miserable life
@@MonsieurGuy men apparently need women but women don’t need men. Women are better off wo men
I have mad respect for this guy.. he’s a real one.
I'm a 50 year old woman & I just want to say how much I love & appreciate men & their role in society. I married my husband at 21 & have two grown kids. My husband is my hero & my rock. I detest feminism.
I don’t detest feminism but I do detest the revenge on men coming from it!
Blacks are treated much worse around the world especially during slavery days, and can’t hide their skin color nearly as easily as girls can hide their gender but yet people talk about racism against whites before misandry.
And gay males and transgenders don’t get away with too much socially but I’ve seen more people talk about heterophobia than misandry!…
Lady, you have no idea how much this broken hearted man needed to hear that.
I'm a currently an unemployed 50 yr old man in an industry dominated by women (ad agencies...I was the only man in a room of 20 on average), who was told by a feminist I think of like an aunt, "good" about it...good if more men can't get jobs to make space for women. I AM the minority in my field. I was FLOORED, and deeply discouraged. Your post lends some healing my way. THANK YOU!!!
Who is heterophobia and racism against whites talked about more than misandry?
Hero?No thanks mate,not all women want a hero,some are born to become a hero themselves,just say you don't have the guts?And what roles?There's nothing they do exclusively,every role includes women too
As a 34 year old woman I bought into it as well but I’ve been lucky enough to get married at 30 and have my first baby at 33. I’m fortunate but also upset that I bought into it for so many years and it affected me in many different ways. I try to educate other young women on it but it’s hard, because everything in our culture screams feminism.
Depending on how deep you went (body count) it might still be too late for you. Divorce is dick dose dependant. Good luck, your going to need it.
Sister ,young girls thinks feminism
Please be care full your girls to take idea of feminism
Let me get this right.
One one hand you have a washing machine, dryer, dishwasher, rumba. All you have to do is some menial cooking (that you have to do for yourself anyway) and spend time with your own children at the zoo, parc, in the yard etc (THAT's opression) .
On the other you go to your corporate job 10 hours a day (8 + comute), pay half your income in tax,drop your children with strangers, still have to cook and clean. And repeat that every week till 65...
(This is "freadom and independance" ).
And this was hard to figure out ??? 😂
@@think2invest right but young girls have been brainwashed to be strong, independent women who have their own career goals. To admit that our primary goal is to be mothers and housewives is “embarrassing” because society has made it so. Of course, in our heart we want that, but it takes courage to admit it (once we finally wake up from the brainwashing).
Never cheat on your husband no matter what you feminist
She fought so hard to win, but in the end, she still lost. That's just sad.
They tried so hard and got so far, but in the end it doesn't even matter.
Women need Men and Men need Women
@@gaminginvirinch3339 No. Women need money, Men need women.
Men get women through money
She still won, you don't have what she has. No one can tell for certain if she had chosen an alternate lifestyle, she would not have regretted not pursuing her career, yes children that she will probably see once or twice a year may not have satisfied her loneliness.
...and there are many women that have family and a career.
People that want to push their agenda will point one person, one specific day in their life to make a point!
@@pchan232, winning is being happy when you’re old. Just because you think you’re getting what you want, doesn’t mean you won’t completely regret it and be miserably depressed in your last years(however many you have left before you realize it).
It's a sign of immaturity & delusion to think that you can follow in someone's foot steps & not end up where they did.
Not every single career oriented women end up like this,everybody has different mindset,so yes it's not delusional,many single women who are childfree regret nothing
It’s very hard for women to admit they were wrong
It's very hard for everyone to admit that, especially if your self-concept is based on said mistake.
you are never too old to be brave enough to speak truth
I feel so sorry for the kids today. Relationships are so difficult.
today houses for love 30 years ago you were obliged...
Thankfully I don't wanna get married
Yes you're right
Monk mode baby, I'm over it all.
Innnn the west bro, not anywhere else.
I've never met a happy feminist.
True, when women are young they maybe happy and feel empowered for the time being! It’s sad that it’s often too late by the time women learn, and way off of their peak sexual market place.
Me either 😊
Same!!
Probably because the happy ones wouldn't want to be near you😅😅
@@paula19335True
WE need this soooo much more. God made men and women for each other.
We're beyond the tipping point now 🔥
65 years old and now wants a husband……? Great Scott, Batman…..!!!!
Holy..!! Senior Citizen..Batman..
Not all womens want the same thing
Maybe biden's available on the weekends. Bill Clinton will be on the week days
@@user-io3ru9tc1dby the looks of it, they don’t even know it themselves.
He badussy is filled with cobwebs
Feminism is a psyop
So true. The founder of the feminist movement, Gloria Steinem, was a CIA plant sent to destroy the traditional nuclear family. To destroy true femininity.
Yup , a psyop from the pits of hell !
I think so as well. Corporations wanted more workers to keep wages down and now here we are. Our birthrates have plummeted and now our country can't even sustain itself with children, in other words our society doesn't work at all.
Yep a malthusian psyop to increase worker force, increase tax base, voter base to counter traditionalism.
There was one man who was a friend to John d Rockefeller, or one of the Rockefellers, and he gave testimony saying that his Rockefeller friend told him that feminism was started by them in order to get women out of the house and into their labor work force so they could have more, well, corporate slaves basically.
She won't change. She will compete with her husband.
After 30 it’s hard to unlearn bad behavior of entitlement
Wait ,what ?
Feminism doesnt mean that a woman doesnt need a partner or vice versa, is what i always assume it like .
We humans are emotional being . Wr all need a partner ,we all crave emotional support ,a companion .
I never thought it that feminism means being single or hating men .
I've never heard a single feminist push tne idea about hating men. I think women who had bad experiences pushed this idea of men are dangerous to women. To be fair feminism is a great movement. Its needed around the world to establish basic human rights laws that protect tne interest of women/girls.
This is true…and for both sexes. As a nurse it’s crazy how many people, both male and female, you take care of who have absolutely no one.
The families never visit
Nahhh. Not really. And I also work in the healthcare setting. Not just local, but national. Out of thousands of patients that I work with over the past 11 years, I only met one man (he is on his mid 70’s) who says that he never really wanted a wife/companion. But I find a lottttt of women. I mean a lot.
@@wj7798you make no sense with your double negatives
@@fzigunov I was actually driving when typed the comment. I correct it.
Maybe they have no one because they were difficult to get along with.
This was happening to me , and now it is very difficult to realise a might stay alone
I am a biological woman born in 1960. I am a humanist. I was only presented with ideas of being my best self. I have never seen men as a competition . I take responsibility for my feelings, happiness, life choices, and actions, whether in a relationship or not.!
A real woman doesn’t have to put “biological” in front of woman. You’re just a woman, not a pretend one.
Biological woman? As opposed to? Trans? HAHAHA!!! That's funny.
Women need Men, and Men need Women...
It's not about religion or moral, it's about Human Nature and being better versions of ourselves.
Also evolution.nor man or woman can live without each other.
We gotta shit on the religion tho. Can't allow for a religious tradcon family with religion.
@@Shahi-bangalah_1352 you are BOTH wrong.
Men ONLY need women for survival of the species and NOTHING else.
Women need us foe their very SURVIVAL
John Gray says estrogen makes women think about emotions too much
10 times more noticing problems around her and talking about problems when under stress.
So if estrogen makes so much with human brain and behavior
then love empathy and the hormone oxytocin that is a love hormone
should actually do much greater work psychologically and physically.
Testosterone suppresses the estrogen in a man´s body. Testosterone makes men much calmer to focus on tasks.
He says testosterone is about problem-solving.
He says therefore husbands shouldn't force the wife to be rational all the time,
because it is against her biology. She would become masculine and unattractive to him.
Also, he says women shouldn't force their husbands to be emotional too much
because it is against their biology. He is designed to be a problem-solver.
He is teaching couples how to understand the differences between hormones such as estrogen and testosterone
and their effect on the human brain.
so they may also communicate much better and show love empathy and fall in love, again and again, every day.
I am not sure a husband would be attractive to a woman that is too rational and so being an emphatic decent feminine nice lady, who is kind and holds his hand after coming from work.
And their kids also learn to be supportive and decent because kids have mirror neurons in their brains and they are mimicking everything that adults do or say.
But I noticed that women like confident men, they may not be necessarily the most good looking but a bit confident
but also they love the type of guy who avoids dirty jokes, has some humility, and shows vulnerability
because it means men who show a bit of vulnerability have also a great sense of humor and women are attracted to their imperfections and vulnerability
they are attracted to stories where the guy explains his shortcomings and how he was in a very humble and vulnerable position to get back on track.
Women are attracted to the fact that he is a human, that he isn´t some robot or cyborg or android that never made a mistake. Women love authenticity.
Which most men don't know because they are brainwashed by television. But many women can be brainwashed by fake ideals on television.
they don't want a perfect guy who acts like a robot. who was born with perfect intelligence which is unrealistic therefore women try to find someone who is authentic.
It's not their fault that from a psychological perspective, they fall in love much more with an imperfect but authentic man and kind person, with a sense of humor.
Sam Vaknin says love and intimacy is the greatest addiction, healthy addiction, therefore it reduces the need for other addictions such as Facebook and other shallow stuff.
Actually, love is not about logic
Otherwise, if love was about logic people would never fall in love with anybody.
I can´t get pregnant so what excactly do I need a men for in my life. For the fun and romantic part I´m better of with another girl. I don´t need someone who is just looking to contoll me and doesn´t support me in my life
I’ve dated feminists and let me tell you, they treat their partners like enemies and then gaslight them by saying, “you can’t handle a strong and independent woman who challenges you.” No, I don’t want sleep with someone who sees me as an adversary. It’s not that difficult. Unfortunately for them, they’re still single and blame men for it.
Sounds to me like you're dating misandrists 😅 real feminists don't do that.
@@Sol-nq4ozmodern feminists do that. Misandrism is technically rooted in modern feminism
@@Sol-nq4ozthere are almost no real femists left.
I put a woman in her place like that, met her in October gone in December ..
She couldnt handle a strong independent man i guess😊
@@Sol-nq4ozThere is nothing like real feminists🤡
They are same🤧
Being a feminist for myself and many women is not about hating men but just having equal rights. Without the feminist movement women would still not be able to vote or have their own bank account. I don't think men understand that women feel unsafe. Women won't do things that men take for granted like walk alone on the street at night. Women still get judged primarily on their looks. I've seen on PBD podcast women being judged on the looks when they are politicians where appearance should not be a consideration. We have a ways to go yet
I'm married, and I am miserable. I think the world has gotten so hateful that happiness is pretty much nonexistent.
The more money a woman makes the more doors close for her. The more money a man makes the more doors open for him. Hypergamy
More like the more money she makes, the more doors that she closes for herself. Bet most men with average incomes would actually find it to be a feature to date a woman with a high income. But she wouldn’t want them because at 30 and high salaried, she would have no use for an “average” man.
Notice she’s only upset now that she’s getting old and things are starting to get difficult? Now she wishes that she had a man. Go figure
It's also so disrespectful the way women view men when our worth is reduced to that of an ATM machine.
💯
@@ThermicLight that's why I've chosen to stay poor. Why get rich to get a woman if she's only with you for your money?
@@ThermicLight that is not it at all, we have always chose Men on their ability to provide for the family, it's just now that society has changed that means what that is has changed. It used to be we wanted the biggest and the fastest as you would be better equipped at hunter gathering. It's stands to reason that now we want the most successful in means as that is now how you would provide for the family. It is not really any different then you Men wanting a Women who is nurturing and caring as that makes for a good person to look after your children and home. This has always been like this since the dawn of Time. However I will concede that today's Women have somewhat gone back on their end of that deal, and want a traditional Man but are not willing or just incapable of being a traditional Women. Unfortunately the biggest society lie is feminism and by the time women work this out sadly it is too late.
I'm that woman...I'm thankful that I learned that hard lesson before it was too late...
What lesson did you learn?
Well done for you of stopping to compete with men and cooperate with men in a good relationship
@@thanos4570that equality is good. not men over women not women over men.
Wdym
Well then teach other girls, they need it if women learn so be it, and make money in the process, be the change mama.
PEOPLE NEED TO THINK FOR THEMSELVES, AND LOVE WITHOUT LIMIT!
I’m her age, thank god I didn’t fall for that lie. I did however refuse to get married until I graduated college and had a career to take care of myself if I ever needed to. Married 47 years.
Married 38 years and now a widow.
I wanted to get married and have all my kids by the time I turned thirty then get a degree when the kids were in school. I have succeeded in both and I have a husband that is crazy about me. I always thought I could do it all just not at the same time
Your definitely a smart cookie that's exactly the path woman should go down and be successful on many fronts family career and personal happiness Congrats
Yup. This is the way to go. Unfortunately, most women think they can be both a career woman and a housewife at the same time.
“Pride cometh before a fall.”
this is a reference to genesis 2-4
Proverbs 16:18 Pride goeth before destruction and a haughty spirit before a fall.
I just realize by this comment, so it is one of seven sins.
And people are still waving those dumb pride flags.
Bhagavad Gita Chapter 16 Text 04
“Pride, arrogance, conceit, anger, harshness and ignorance - these qualities belong to those of demoniac nature, O son of Prtha.”
She doesn't need to compete with anyone, male or female. She is successful in her own right, and that is a great accomplishment! Now, she is ready for a great relationship with a man who will respect her and treat her with dignity. All women should do this! This is misrepresenting the whole point of feminism. The philosophy is not about beating men. It's about being able to have choices without being shamed or hindered. Absolutely nothing wrong with getting married and having children, but some women yearn for more! And that is ok too!!! 😊
It’s honestly never too late you just have to believe that it’s possible
I never could figure out what's wrong with my younger sister. The other day my older sister told me she's been in competition with me my whole life. Trying to out Man a Man. While I was trying to be a good brother to her, she was competing with me.
that's rough
Generation X?
@@juniorjames7076 Boomer
Don't worry about anything good that you did and try to continue to do good with her. Have patience
Sibling relationships have always been complicated.
That movement almost claimed me. I will tell u when I surrendered to the more traditional life, I became so much more fulfilled and happy then I ever was before.
Feminism is the concept that a woman is free when she serves her boss and slave when she serves her family we must return to tradition.
Teach YOUNG women age 16 and up. Start EARLY and show em videos of women making those confessions
Modern women need to wake up. It is NOT empoweing to allow random men to run thru. Its empowring for a man!!!
Awww good for you. Awesome.
Yeah right.😅
John Gray says estrogen makes women think about emotions too much
10 times more noticing problems around her and talking about problems when under stress.
So if estrogen makes so much with human brain and behavior
then love empathy and the hormone oxytocin that is a love hormone
should actually do much greater work psychologically and physically.
Testosterone suppresses the estrogen in a man´s body. Testosterone makes men much calmer to focus on tasks.
He says testosterone is about problem-solving.
He says therefore husbands shouldn't force the wife to be rational all the time,
because it is against her biology. She would become masculine and unattractive to him.
Also, he says women shouldn't force their husbands to be emotional too much
because it is against their biology. He is designed to be a problem-solver.
He is teaching couples how to understand the differences between hormones such as estrogen and testosterone
and their effect on the human brain.
so they may also communicate much better and show love empathy and fall in love, again and again, every day.
I am not sure a husband would be attractive to a woman that is too rational and so being an emphatic decent feminine nice lady, who is kind and holds his hand after coming from work.
And their kids also learn to be supportive and decent because kids have mirror neurons in their brains and they are mimicking everything that adults do or say.
But I noticed that women like confident men, they may not be necessarily the most good looking but a bit confident
but also they love the type of guy who avoids dirty jokes, has some humility, and shows vulnerability
because it means men who show a bit of vulnerability have also a great sense of humor and women are attracted to their imperfections and vulnerability
they are attracted to stories where the guy explains his shortcomings and how he was in a very humble and vulnerable position to get back on track.
Women are attracted to the fact that he is a human, that he isn´t some robot or cyborg or android that never made a mistake. Women love authenticity.
Which most men don't know because they are brainwashed by television. But many women can be brainwashed by fake ideals on television.
they don't want a perfect guy who acts like a robot. who was born with perfect intelligence which is unrealistic therefore women try to find someone who is authentic.
It's not their fault that from a psychological perspective, they fall in love much more with an imperfect but authentic man and kind person, with a sense of humor.
Sam Vaknin says love and intimacy is the greatest addiction, healthy addiction, therefore it reduces the need for other addictions such as Facebook and other shallow stuff.
Actually, love is not about logic
Otherwise, if love was about logic people would never fall in love with anybody.
I always loved competing against men because it was fun and I was very good at it. I was raised by my dad, and that taught me to really appreciate men, and want to marry one just like him (strong, responsible, respectful, and one who takes charge and takes care of his family). I did, and I’m so thankful for him.
I compete with men, and I always will (that’s life). But my man isn’t one of them. I compete for him. Everyday I fight to be worthy of him.
Men and women are not enemies...we are the pieces to nature's puzzle.
exactly.
Then it only stands to reason that any piece of that puzzle that doesn't fit into place should be discarded as quick as an unhealthy one-sided marriage.
Too bad we don't want you anymore. Respect/balance will only be restored if men get their shit together.
Perfectly said !!!
We have much more in common than not in common. People forget that
I was raised in a lot of dysfunction & abuse. I often heard how sorry men are. By God's grace somehow I didn't take that in for long. I married at 17, we had 43 years & he was the most kind, loving friend & my treasure, my world before he went home to the Lord. We raised 2 sons to be good men who have happy marriages & families too. That's FAR better than any millions!
Exactly. Ur family is priceless
Awesome.
But he's gone already or i misread ? Damn God always take good people earlier
🎉😊
I bet you were a fabulous wife. A good wife can make for a good husband. Men just really want respect in the end. And a help meet.
@@trexpeliahelvetios2302 My precious husband did go far too early- he was paralyzed by a medical mistake. We fought for 9 years for his life, and if we had been able to sue, I could have cared for him so much better, & he would still be alive. While the socialized healthcare in other countries is a nightmare disaster and far worse than ours now, ours is still pathetic. Tort reform in Texas protects these killer Dr's & hospitals, courtesy of Greg Abbott, (who sued the people whose tree hurt him & won millions) .
Then he turned around & got laws passed others hurt by these Drs couldn't sue by lying about what it was. That's why my husband is gone so early.
He was an unusually strong man, in his beliefs, values, & heart. I thanked God so many times I got to be his wife, & I told him that, and I'm so thankful our sons are so like him.
As women growing up in the 70s and 80s we bought a lie that said we can have it all. But at what price? We gave are children over to other people raise and we tried to be men. Why? Being a woman is not a bad thing. And having a husband and children can be the best life in the world. The career can come when the children grown up. Sharing a life with husband raising children is beautiful and a great way to live.
It's strange to hear the way feminism is depicted. For many people, it's not at all about competing with men or being anti-male. It's about having options and not being forced into a particular, predetermined role regardless of personal traits
That's because this is modern feminism that sees men as the enemy. Aka humanity seeing a part of itself as an enemy.
@@arnowisp6244 Misogyny is pretty good at making enemies too. The problem is most people only see one side. You say modern feminism I say misogyny. We need to see from both sides to come to an understanding. Right now the male female power struggle reminds me of autoimmune disease where the immune system is attacking the body. We are are making each other sick.
The feminist movement did more to de-value women than anything I can think of.
Absolutely 100% truth!!!
@Kian
Exactly, the men who wanted world domination shut down the feminist movement.
I dunno I kind of like being able to buy my own house and get a credit card in my name 😃
@@Cateyes767
Exactly, women deserve to be free and make their own decisions.
@@giantsr1eva
Yes, that's what the people behind all this tells you. "Women should be free to make their own decisions"
Then they use mass media to brainwash women that choosing a career over a family is more important, then we get to the tragedy of this video.
Well she can find solace in the fact she helped other woman look good for their husbands.
That's the source of her sadness. Can you imagine hearing those lady's chat? My man surprised me today...etc. While you go home to sleep in a cold bed.
😂😂😂
@@gabrielples6473 no you are projecting your fears
For themselves not for their husbands
@@user-io3ru9tc1dprojection? You and I both know for husband.
As a man, I have the privilege of having almost half of my hard-earned money taken from me to pay for social programs where women are 90% of the users.
My mom is one of them who regretted it. she said: they got us
"We respect women, not bitches."
Based.
I think there's no such thing as woman anymore
@@tylerharris4392there is, you just need to look for them.
I've met alot of good women that I simply wasn't compatible with (Most of them were either very religious or not at all, whereas I'm more in the middle. That and what we wanted out of life were just too different. I don't hate them for it, it is what it is). It requires taking the time to get to know different people and maybe getting out of your comfort zone a bit, but it pays off.
Really? You’re my soulmate!
That’s what the B word means! When they act like that!
Feminism started when a man realized half of the country could be taxed if he just convinced them to work.
I think it’s less about taxes and more about output.
Now men and women both work for comparable pay and lifestyle as a man did with a stay at home wife back in the day.
The taxes didn’t double… the output and productivity did. Corporations now have two worker bees instead of one for the same price.
It actually started when majority of the men went to war for WWII. It left a huge labor gap that women had to fill to keep war supplies, the economy, and US moving.
When the men returned from war, the jobs women were doing for years were given back to men. But women no longer wanted to go back in the house to be housewives. They felt empowered and had the first full taste of “independence”.
Look up “Rosie the Riveter Icon”… It was propaganda that worked in the short term but backfired in the long term.
“Around 5 million civilian women served in the defense industry and elsewhere in the commercial sector during World War II with the aim of freeing a man to fight.”
U are spot on man
Leaked FBI documents and proofs of big corporate business man admitted (e.g. Rockkerfellr foundation) that they funded feminists movement to get women to work so they can tax them
@@danielprice538 I’ll get shredded I’m sure but it doesn’t make it untrue, at least in my experience. But the productivity I’ve seen from men versus women in the workplace is incomparable. If you laid off all the women in the entire workforce you would not see much of a fall in productivity; lay off all the me and the world collapses.
Again, this is ONLY applied to my work experience and fields.
But I say that to kind go against your statement and back up the commenter, or rather to say at the very least the government gets way more in taxation out of the deal than society gets production.
So true!!
"I want a husband" was what she said at the end of her journey instead of when she was starting college
Supposedly this is worse in China because of what happened with the one child policy making the women there overly entitled to alpha males, creating a false sense of security and philosophy about "never settling" like never settle down which means never getting married. Jokes aside, I don't doubt this is affecting the westernized places like Japan.
Men are beautiful and talented. And the world would be a disaster without them.
MJ Alpine Oregon.
Same For women too
The real truth is we NEED one another. Neither should invalidate, minimise nor devalue each other. This is the key to marital, domestic, community peace, success and joy.
💯
That's a half truth at best. This is what it sounds like when someone starts a war, supports that war, lost the war and now trying to save face. You DON'T get to set the terms & conditions of surrender. The victor does.
Absolute correct it's to late to save face damage has already been done.
Yes and having a personal intimate relationship with the Lord. It's written God says all souls are mine. 😂Lol
Exactly!
The happiest women I've encountered are the ones acting in there natural state.
okay well STATISTICALLY women who are childless and single are happier
femininity makes them powerful
*their
@@aeughcarrot wrong
Yeah making your life easier by supporting you . Mine learned the hard way when I left,he apologized for neglecting me , to late then. I stopped caring. Two way street ,he really regretted it how smooth his life was until I left. So piss on your dominance theory.
I never wanted a man to control me or depend on one. But when you get older you change your mind. I'm single .
I have always been proud to be a women. But always proud to have a man who would take care of his family, although I did my share as well. When you try to prove that you are better than someone else, you lose any creditworthiness.
I am a well educated woman who chose to stay home and raise our son. But I wasted 34 years of marriage being angry and resentful that I left my career. It’s time to let young women know that a family and a good man are the key to a happy fulfilling life. Men need to be appreciated, loved and valued for being a sturdy provider. And women need to be exalted for being the backbone of a happy, healthy family. The current divorce rates and gender confusion are proof that what we’re doing is not working!
Beautifully said.
Well said. What changed it for you? And why do we need to hear it from others to “confirm” or to “convince” us what we deep inside already knew and felt called for? What makes the grass look greener on the other side? I’m asking myself for myself as well. Do we tend to seek validation from mainstream think tanks?
Shut up. Not everyone wants a lifestyle as yours. Working women can still have a family if they choose to. There's nothing wrong with them if they choose to stay single or not.
the problem is most modern women want abusive guys ( aka 'bad boys')
Nice guys finish last
these women will only realize this when they are in their 60s
No, a family and a good man were the key for YOU. Feminism is about choice. It's about having the freedom to choose what makes you happy.
That's why my rule number one in dating is: never date a feminist. I can't think of any reason why a man would benefit from dating a self proclaimed feminist. My girl is a traditional woman. She does all the womanly things and I do the manly things. We fit like puzzle pieces to make a whole. I have no idea why women now days want to live like they're men. But while they are slaving away in their job, my girl sleeps as much as she wants and lives a life of leisure other than the hard work she does maintaining our life. But she has no boss, no deadlines, etc. We also have a baby on the way which fills her with joy, me as well. Traditional gender roles are the natural way for the average person. Time to bring back common sense everyone.
Even if she have a job , her main priority should be taking care of the kids that women does better than men .
Bro, just remember, not that I mean nothing thing of it, but please get a secret paternity test no matter how much you trust her. Please 🙏 it's a great advice
@@sunset2.00
You can't raise moral children with a job. They will eventually learn that money us what matters since thats why mommy left us
Nice 👏🏼
@@DEMOSPUBG did you even read his comment?
“I wanted to prove to men that I can beat them. So I entered a female-dominated business, with a mainly female target demographic, and 4 decades of investing without children expenses got me well-off.”
can you stay your self without marriage until you died? dont tell lie to other girls
😂😂😂😂
Exactly. Little value add to society. Her opposite would be a man who started a plumbing or construction company - things we need. Women extracting cash from other women isn’t success. She has stuff - but she left no legacy.
"I had gathered enough wealth, but it's still doesn't bring me happiness. My therapist is rich too, thanks to me."
@Mark S, ...extracting the money of those women's husbands!
This man speaks facts and only facts. I love his presentations.
Men built the world
my wife is my best friend ever and I'm confident she would say the same thing....we don't compete, we compliment....
She didn’t gives u sexless marriage
Complement, though I’m sure you compliment each other too! 😂
65-year-old feminist now wants a husband? Good luck. Enjoy your cats.
No self respecting man wants a feminist as his girlfriend / wife - He wants a woman who was meant to be his helpmate like The Bible says not his competitor
And she will want a prenup
It's too late for some but not too late for others
They need to know this before it's too late
I dont think she is 65, that was just an example he gave.
Everyone deserves a second chance! Life has been interesting full of surprises! Thera are a lot of single man out there! If she really changed I hope her the best! May God almighty help her!
There needs to be balanced. You can be a boss and a vulnerable partner. Just learn when to turn it on and off. Compete w other men/women but do NOT compete with YOUR man/woman
Old school feminism is wanting females to have the same opportunities as men. The new school feminism is something totally different.
They are not good with the same 'opportunities' as men.
Feminism is about:
* treating women as equal to men not only on paper;
* having equal job opportunities with men;
* not having to put up with the pressure to marry and procreate which society puts on women;
* not being blamed for becoming a victim of physical or psychological violence, sexual harrasment or assault - that is always the attacker's fault;
* not having to obey the society's beauty norms and hate yourself if you are different from the standards of attractiveness;
* not letting people believe in gender stereotypes, which also benefits men who are also victims of those stereotypes about the traits which "a real man should have" and all of that bullsh*t;
* creating a culture of active consent when a woman can have sex when she wants to and not when she is psychologically pressured into sex by her date/boyfriend/girlfriend/husband/wife; moreover, she can ask the partner to stop in the process if she wants to.
@@user-jp6me1by7y Will feminists marry men who are shorter, weaker, dumber and poorer than themselves? - NO.
All women want SUPERIOR MEN - taller, stronger, smarter, richer.
Men are SUPERIOR GODS of the planet. Men built everything and civilized women.
@@user-jp6me1by7y no it's not. That's how YOU interpret feminism. That is not universal among feminists. Feminism is a female empowerment movement. That's the only universal. Everything else is a personal ideal.
As a feminist of the past in the 70's you are totally correct
I married at age 22 ..6 children ...problem come problem go.. and thank God i live in the philippines😊
People got it too good here in the US. Mark my words the people here will become so spoiled they will end up killing each other.
You're smart.
You’re definitely happier in that eastern paradise than this western hell that we currently have here! My wife and I will eventually retire there. It was beautiful when we visited.
You can't really feel sorry for them. I guarantee you there were tons of nice guys interested in her throughout her earlier years but she scoffed at them for not making as much as her. She's in that position by her own doing.
Zero sympathy! You reap what you sow!
Thank you. We're done saving them.
Scoffed? Most men don’t want to be outearned by women…Y’know. Men’s egos can be very detrimental to themselves. They want to be “The Man”.
@@chadcadsonvii5258exactly
John Gray says estrogen makes women think about emotions too much
10 times more noticing problems around her and talking about problems when under stress.
So if estrogen makes so much with human brain and behavior
then love empathy and the hormone oxytocin that is a love hormone
should actually do much greater work psychologically and physically.
Testosterone suppresses the estrogen in a man´s body. Testosterone makes men much calmer to focus on tasks.
He says testosterone is about problem-solving.
He says therefore husbands shouldn't force the wife to be rational all the time,
because it is against her biology. She would become masculine and unattractive to him.
Also, he says women shouldn't force their husbands to be emotional too much
because it is against their biology. He is designed to be a problem-solver.
He is teaching couples how to understand the differences between hormones such as estrogen and testosterone
and their effect on the human brain.
so they may also communicate much better and show love empathy and fall in love, again and again, every day.
I am not sure a husband would be attractive to a woman that is too rational and so being an emphatic decent feminine nice lady, who is kind and holds his hand after coming from work.
And their kids also learn to be supportive and decent because kids have mirror neurons in their brains and they are mimicking everything that adults do or say.
But I noticed that women like confident men, they may not be necessarily the most good looking but a bit confident
but also they love the type of guy who avoids dirty jokes, has some humility, and shows vulnerability
because it means men who show a bit of vulnerability have also a great sense of humor and women are attracted to their imperfections and vulnerability
they are attracted to stories where the guy explains his shortcomings and how he was in a very humble and vulnerable position to get back on track.
Women are attracted to the fact that he is a human, that he isn´t some robot or cyborg or android that never made a mistake. Women love authenticity.
Which most men don't know because they are brainwashed by television. But many women can be brainwashed by fake ideals on television.
they don't want a perfect guy who acts like a robot. who was born with perfect intelligence which is unrealistic therefore women try to find someone who is authentic.
It's not their fault that from a psychological perspective, they fall in love much more with an imperfect but authentic man and kind person, with a sense of humor.
Sam Vaknin says love and intimacy is the greatest addiction, healthy addiction, therefore it reduces the need for other addictions such as Facebook and other shallow stuff.
Actually, love is not about logic
Otherwise, if love was about logic people would never fall in love with anybody.
Honestly (and also not in a rude way) I don't get most of this comments. Being Feminist is all about having options, opportunities. We couldn't vote, we were forced to get married, have children, we weren't able to have a career, to study, to work, to have our own bank account or even to get notified about the diseases we had. Now we can CHOOSE, a key word, we CAN have both, you GET TO be a stay at home wife, get married, have kids, AND work and study. This isn't a black & white situation. The difference between having kids now, and being a stay at home wife now, its the decision factor. YOU CAN CHOOSE to do one, both or none. Being a feminist DOESN'T mean you CAN'T love men or women, or both, or neither, BEING A FEMINIST IS TO FIGHT TO LET EVERY WOMAN HAVE THE OPPORTUNITY TO CHOOSE.
(If I have any grammatical mistake, or rather any spelling one, I would thank you if you told me, I'm not a native English speaker and the feedback would be really helpful to improve
How many women did we have to hear from who said they gave up their own autonomy to depend on a man, only to be cheated on, beaten, emotionally abused, abandoned, and wish they had kept their independence to get to that point? People always want to blame feminism, but feminism was a reaction to men not holding up their end of the bargain first.
lol good luck being miserable and alone
100%
In the speakers own words, she said i want a husband, i no longer want to compete... she didn't say i wanted a husband all along and i shouldn't have built my buisness. There's nothing stoping her from getting a husband now, when she finally wants it.
He spined it like she regrets all her prior decisions. May be she did but not in the fragment that he quoted.
@yulia7577 depending on how old she is getting a husband is impossible after 40 dating for women is almost entirely impossible and if she has reached menopause she can no longer have kids and even before then her chances are low men date young not because we are pervs but because you have high fertility which allows us to continue our bloodline and fulfill our basic human desire to have kids
There are good men out there. Stop filtering out people based on shit that doesn't matter n youd know that
Go ahead. No one is holding you up. It doesn't matter. 😂
I dated a woman for 3 years who was 33 when we first started dating. Her first relationship. Always put her independence first, and that was ultimately why we broke up. She just didn't develop the state of mind to put us first as opposed to just herself. She couldn't do it, and she was mid 30s. At 65, there's just no way she finds a husband even if she commits to the idea that she wants one.
At 65 there are old men trying to scrape by on social security or disability whom do marry elderly women to combine incomes and not live alone.
I know a woman who remarried at 64.
@@SoldierAndrewbut she didn't get what she really wanted, she had to settle for whatever bit of happiness there was left available for her out there, even if he's her soul mate she'll be wishing she met him at 24 so they could have built a life together, not slot into the seperate lives they had already built seperately
Honestly good for her! :) People probably I wouldn’t have a problem if a man did this and put his independence and career first, so why can’t a woman?
we call it feminism okay brother ???
@@kiddieclutterI would never. this is why I never made eye contact with my ex. Can’t stand those people
Men and women need each other.
Absolutely Right Sir 🙏
It’s true being alone is horrible and depression sets in they don’t tell you that, losing your femininity for this movement is soul crushing
Looking for a good wife is harder then looking for a good husband, many men are alone as well.
If you're looking in America or any western country it is.
Were born alone and will all die alone you shouldn't worry about any women let them go all of them
Men have always been alone though. Only 40% of men have ever had children.
@@strategygalactic and where did you pull that statistic out of?
Because its safer than ever attempting to interact with a woman to big of a minefield
Men and women are partnership to fill each other‘s lives
I would cry the life out of me if I'd destroyed my chance to have a happy life like she did. It's too late now. Can't have kids anymore when you're 65 girl... too late...
Men and Women need each other 100%. No if’s ands or buts. Mic Drop
Feminist: That's not true.
@@apachekafka773 some years later: it's true
@@apachekafka773 why are you inventing stuff?😅 literally no real feminist said that.
@@paula19335 yup, but they say "all m3n are trash" and "k1ll all m3n", very resonates with your argument🎉
What the hell?
I mean have you ever met a FEMINIST
Now, I'm not talking about toxic Feminist
Such a shame people focus on toxic feminism only
Men are equally important and beautiful just as Woman.
End of story... A feminist said🖤
Women never learn until it’s too late
this! they need to figure it out in their prime and secure the man (when the woman is 18-28)..... keep in mind, a man's prime is between 35-55.
Its not all women that are like this and people buying into the idea that some women speak for all has been a part of the problem. So men and women both believing this idea that people are clones because of physical traits and must all think the same has also contributed to the issue and this idea that one person just must be speaking for everyone because they said so or are on tv. If it was understood by most people that one person doesnt speak for a whole gender unelected this would have died out a long time ago and people would have been laughed off the television. Everybody not using their brains has been a big problem and all people validating these groups through acting as though what they are saying is real instead of them being con artists abusing peoples sexualities etc has been a massive contributer
@@peab9179 First of all, not all people in general desire a romantic partner, and not all women are interested in men. Secondly, if someone cares more about your appearance than your personality, then they probably aren’t a good fit for a long term relationship.
@@Entomology314 everything from my orginal comment is valid. You seem to have gone off on a personal tangent. Best of luck :)
@@peab9179 How is anything I said personal? I simply spoke the truth. Not everyone wants a romantic partnership, and people who focus too much on appearance are often toxic.
For me, it has never been competition with men but a desire for independence from my family. Some of us grew up in homes with totalitarian fathers and you just need* to break free and can't wait to find the right man with whom you could start a new life. While I always wanted a husband and children, my desire to make sure I could always rely on myself financially became priority. And without intending to, men didn't know what role to play in my life and vice versa. I do wish I had the foresight to balance that earlier in life. I'm working on it now because I still want my husband. ❤️
I'm reminded of a scene in The Fountainhead where Howard Roark is asked by Ellsworth Toohey what Roark thinks of him. Roark dismisses Toohey with "But I don't think of you". This is what every man she was supposedly trying to beat thinks of this woman.
"I opened a salon"
That is the most female profession I can think of.
Right?! 😂
@Kian by opening a salon she competed and beat all the men.
...by all men of course, I mean all the homosexual men.
Exactly. She opened a salon where women try and become more attractive.....for men 😂
Feminism has no logic
@@azzystyle94 💯
@@azzystyle94 😂😂😂😂
Honestly, as a trad wife in her 40’s I find this so gratifying, because making the choice to raise my children, and support my husband by making sure he has someone to come home to that is making sure he has dinner was not easy when our marriage and children were young. But I’m so glad I did it and so grateful for my husband for making it happen. Looking forward to our children finding their way in the world and looking forward to growing old with my man.
Right there with you. Made it through the hard times. Feeling so grateful to reavh this stage with hubby.
Old, eggless women. Better hope he dosnt die... nobody else will every want a expired single mom. :)
@@spoons250 with the joy I’ve experienced in life, I’m just so grateful, it would be inconvenient to work again but I wouldn’t mind. I wouldn’t ever remarry though. I would never bring a stranger into the lives of my children.
Also, let me add, being eggless is such a relief! And I have 3 wonderful people who love me and will always want me around.
I'm 40 and babies are grown, everyone say it goes fast. But darling it goes even faster the more you look back and age.
I married at 21 after I qualified as a nurse after having children (4) I worked part time as a nurse until our youngest was in high school then I went full time, we raised our children and worked together to raise our kids and buy our home. Our children are all married and have children now and we have 12 grandchildren. Our life wasn't easy, I couldn't be a full time home maker due to finances but truthfully I'm glad about that because we shared the load. I feel very blessed to have children and grandchildren, we have now retired, our 45th wedding anniversary is this month and don't have any regrets
I'm alone too and miserable and I feel the same way this woman does
Feminism ruined my life.
The day women understand their success doesn't threaten men is the day they will begin to understand you battle all men when all men ain't even your enemy nor do we even care.
I do love a successful girlfriend that can pay the bills. I'd feel more threatened by the broke ones.
@@Ludoovik To each his own but you should at least pursue success in your way. It's a given women will earn more but not necessarily true for all. Just money doesn't threaten me. It's who they are inside that makes you step your shit up.
I bet a lot of men who lost their job during Covid were glad to have wife still bringing in an income.
There are millions of men who threatened by a womans success
Men make money to support their family. Women make money to be independent from men. Too late for single women
Men have more options as they become rich and the opposite for women.
Women are killing themselves delaying marriage or having super high standards
Lol. You're acting like families can all make it on a single income these days.
@@Undomaranel that’s not the point. The point is women chase their career to compete against men so they don’t need a man in their life until it’s too late for them to find out feminism has lied to them because she genuinely wanted a family. However, men chase their career to support his family and not to prove he’s better than a woman.
@@themack5653 There are a lot of women who simply make bad choices in life early on- they reproduce with men who are useless as providers- so they "chase a career" as you call it so that they can provide for themselves and their children. (others are widowed and are forced to become providers because of that)
GOOD MEN do what you wrote.
So true! Im 62 .. great hubby of 32 years and appreciate him every day!
How is opening a successful salon has anything to do with "beating" men is beyond me.
I think a salon doubles as a hoe house or something.
If she was trying to compete against men I presume it wasn't a logical thought process that led her to that conclusion.
Had me stumped too for a minute until I figured it out. It was about her outdoing men financially. Remember she said she is worth millions
One of the best episodes yet! Nothing but facts time and time again.
People just refuse to wake up and accept indeniable, objective reality.. and they will be in for a rude awakening time and time again with "coping" and denying said reality.
I know, no one wants to listen to me they treat me like I’m crazy. What is the name of this episode?
That’s already happening man, men have being denying reality: women can do their jobs as good as they do, can be independent and successful as they are… but because of their denial they forced women to push them out of their lives to do it… and now, poor women they are not happy hahahahha in reality is poor little men, big women are scary! 😂😂😂
@@mhorworshipper7456 no you are projecting your fears
@@user-io3ru9tc1d hahahahahahha that’s the pot calling the kettle black…. YOU ARE THE ONES PROJECTING THEIR FEARS: if women don’t need us and are happy alone then… we are going to be old and miserable without nobody to take care of us 😂😂😂😂
@@mhorworshipper7456your 65 is waiting for you