What's A "Kind" Narcissist? (Signs And What To Do)
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- Опубликовано: 15 дек 2022
- Did you know there are many types of narcissism? Because we are so used to the glaringly obvious displays of overt narcissists, who are often attention-seeking, loud, and in-your-face, it’s easy to overlook other types of narcissists, particularly the “kind” or the covert narcissist. To avoid being fooled by their outwardly kind nature, today’s video will be focused on what ‘kind’ narcissism is and what to do when you interact with someone who is a ‘kind’ narcissist.
Disclaimer: This video is created for educational purposes only and is not intended to substitute a professional diagnosis. #shorts
Writer: Daila Ayala
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psych2go.net/signs-of-a-kind-narcissist/
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Damn. I was watching this and I realized I’m a horrible person
What did you do?
I now feel like a kind narcissist and I’m highly ashamed of it
It could just be that you're sometimes selfish. Don't take it as an insult, everyone is selfish in some kind of way.
I’m not sure how to respond, so instead I shall thank you profusely
We're all just people, we all have good qualities and bad. We just gotta keep working on ourselves, and realize we're not perfect. That's just the way life is, and we also have to focus on our good qualities as well as our bad ones
It’s tough to tell this apart from the plain selfishness we all display from time to time
It’s on a spectrum.
true
Live with a kind narc and you'll know the difference. 😑
Depends how often and intense it is.
All ? Nah
This video is gonna make everyone think they are a nice narcissist
No. There are in fact some egoistical of selfish people but they dont necessary want your downfall or see you sad or just dont want to open more. Covert narcissist are extremely attachant with you in the beginning, with extreme kindness, laugh, understanding, good behaviors, like someone you can put all your trust, share good moments,... Its like a person you’re never met, a « soulmate », a loving energy that brings you warmness, they stay and want to be with you every single day. They cant stand being alone and also, they want you to only be attached to them, to prioritize them. And bam! Once you are attached, they start slowly showing their shady behaviors, stings your self esteem by let you believe their negative opinion (subtly recorded in your mind) of you, by mocking you, belittling, being cruel and sadistic like nothing happened. Finally they abandon you during your worst days. They are so impressed and irritated and the same time by your kindness, your sweetness so they want to completely destroys you on the inside ! Its the difference. They know that they mentally abuse you and controls you by your insecurities/complex and will make them much bigger than they really are. Anyway, they always cause you troubles. They are evil inside. Some people think its ok but no. They want you to be stuffed with them and never fly with your own wings! They want you to forget who you are, and enter in their cage, supporting their broken negative self forever! And blame your self that is Your fault that he or she acts like a psychopath.
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@@user-bh1yh3gr5u you're absolutely right.
They tried to do the "watered down" technique for the cutesy video, but this topic is a bit too serious and nuanced for this style. It's pretty misleading. The creator should probably go in depth if they're going to talk about something like this.
For real 😂😂😂😂😂
If you ever think that you're a narcissist then congratulations, you're not. Narcissist never thinks of themselves as narcissist.
Thank you kind internet dweller for debunking my suspicions 😭🥹
thank you for giving me more self confidence
THANK YOU SO MUCH 🙏 🤩
Lol I don't care even if I am
Narcissistic traits =/= Being a Narcissist. If you're concerned, take your concerns to a professional.
There are many undiagnosed narcissists simply because by nature they don’t think anything is wrong with them. So those of us who are on the receiving end of their bad behaviors don’t really have the luxury of this distinction.
Narcs don’t know they are narcs and typically don’t go to Therapy
If I am a "kind" narcissist what can I do to make myself actually be interested in keeping my friendships with other people? I DO like my friend and I DO feel like I don't do enough. I have tried to put more effort to them, but I just lack the motivation. Is there a way to motivate myself to do better in this scenario?
See the good side of other people and hang out more with them to learn more about them?
I would tell my friend exactly how I'm feeling if I was you.
@@StoleSomeCookies It kinda is hard for me to talk about my feelings when it is concerning the other person. I'm afraid that it'll damage my friendship like it did with others. I kinda don't know what I'm doing wrong because others don't tell me no matter how many times i ask. How can i become better when people don't tell what I'm doing wrong... :/
@@baeldaikokuten_yj6792 Thank you for advice! I do see sides of good in others (how else would I find use in them /j). The thing is my friends tells me that we hang out enough at school during breaks that I just have to take their word for it and hope that won't damage anything.
Try to find one person or friend you really care about and are genuinely interested about, try to find what it special about them that motivates you and surround yourself with people like that.
Hmmm... either I am a kind narssasist... or I just need to get off my lazy *** and finally do a load of dishes like I said I would 3 months ago... hhmmm. ( -_-)
Bro I think I might be a kind narcissist 😭
Ur not the only one
There’s nothing wrong with being a narcissist lol being a narcissist doesn’t implie that u hurt others it just says u lack empathy and work mostly for ur own interest
@@jibsij3964not gonna lie, I find something wrong with that (though it def has something to do with how I was raised so please no hate 😔🙏)
@@AkumuIsSleepy nah why should anyone hate u for that statement? U didn’t attack anyone and just stated ur own opinion dw 😄
@@jibsij3964 I wish there were more people like you fr. Idk how old you are, but you're way more mature than most adults online lol
One thing to remember. Everyone in some sense has traits of narcissism, we are human and aren’t perfect by any means. It’s totally normal to have self serving traits, work to better yourself.
Some i can relate, but i don't act rude to anyone and I'm a bit shy person.I keep daydream about myself as successful.
Perfect definition of my narcissistic friend who always makes me crazy with her behavior. But she is also very nice and kind.
Just got through dealing with one. Cut her off bro. In a compassionate way. Watch how much better you feel afterwards, and thank me later.
i thought they'd say a "kind narcisist" is someone who believes they're better than everyone else,
but who legitimately tries to be a good person,
but may struggle to understand others's emotions,
btw i believe those are **possible**, but probable??
That's the kind I am rn
I'm self aware that I am indeed a narc
This video kinds fit me well but I don't believe I'm better than everyone else. Ik I'm in the bottom and it kills me. But I do think I'm attractive which is a trait that disgusts me the most
I knew a “kind” narcissist. A very charming and polite young man. Only this was just a mask to protect his image. He wanted to be liked by everyone. He would say and do exactly what he thought you wanted to see, but his behaviour changed completely the moment you weren’t beneficial to him anymore. Sometimes he would make me upset or even cry just for fun and laugh in my face about it. I did a lot of research on narcissism and decided to finally distance myself from him. My life has gotten much better since then :)
@@isabellevandenheuvel3619 i've seen up close someone upsetting someone else, then smiling and laughing as the other was feeling intense anger and sadness mixed
this person who would annoy the other, would almost always have alcohol as an excuse for that kindof behaviour
i don't think being drunk should remove accountability, but at least it was a good warning of things to come, since it almost always happened after it, and almost never without it
@@yokito0496lol
@@yokito0496 dont throw your self-confidence. Thinking you are attractive is such a good thing. Btw being a narcissist is good, manipulating and smart.
I will speak from experience. This gets a bit iffy with self deception, but also in knowing what the truth is. Because it’s easier to express yourself in a narcissistic way it may be tempting to say this is the truth (you may go from having some selfish impulses or tendencies to rationalizing it as only caring about yourself), you may also notice instances where you feel a lack of fulfillment; the feeling of being narcissistic yet still having it leave a bitter or nonexistent sense of fulfillment/satisfaction may indicate that there are some views, judgements, or perspectives that you internalize which are incompatible and reroute your attention to self serving causes. If you want elaboration lmk and I can reply with a personal example
Everyone is a bit of a narcissist yes, because of selfishness and how you can determine it, some people are more wired to only think about themselves and never introspect or see how they may change. Some people only internalize self serving perspectives and make up for it by acting kindly and strategically. In my experience it lead to some sort of identity crisis XDD
It is also hard to determine or develop as a person away from narcissistic tendencies when you feel everything isn’t sincere
Exactly this
Can you give an example?
@@strawberrymilk1563 *Summary:* said things I couldn’t have meant because it felt like it would require no effort, stopped caring, thought I was simply narcissistic, looked deeper and realized it’s because I felt things required less patience and endurance, like life was one big loading screen; changed my perspective and helped me follow through with the challenge of following through.
*Detailed:*
It’s easier for me to shut down and ghost someone rather than take responsibility for my words and promises. This lead to a lot of friendships where at the time it felt I would be there for them on my end, but over time it would be clear I had no idea what those words really meant. As soon as it got overwhelming I’d leave, I felt bad but my self defense mechanism of apathy would take over.
This had me at the conclusion that I was narcissistic and self centered. Because I couldn’t bring myself to actually act when it involved anything but what I wanted in the moment. I felt in my emotions that I wanted to help others, but I’d look too deep into it and justify it like: “oh I just feel better when I comfort someone” and “everything can be traced to a selfish reason that involves survival.”
In the first place I never had to look at it that way, I could settle at the fact I wanna help people but I have a false expectation of how the process will go, which lead to a cynical philosophy which is a flaw if my goal is to treat others better. My conclusion was the following:
I had the deceptive belief that these things would take no effort internally because I grew up on videos games, where all you had to do was make decisions from a detached perspective without going through any human emotions or sensations or conflicting desires. As soon as I realized the grit I’d need to follow through on my words and try to think in the present moment, I operated a lot better with other people and in carrying myself as a person. There are still many unrealistic expectations which mess up my ability to act as I actually am, and that’s what I mean by “judgements, or perspectives that you internalize which are incompatible and reroute your attention to self serving causes”
Remind me of an old friend I had. He could be very, very cynical. I think it's important to remember that yes, people need to survive, and yes, they want a degree of success in their lives. But there's enough of that to go around. People's needs aren't exactly endless pits of despair. They can be trying to make a plan for themselves while also needing love, and wanting it for others, and caring about others. Those things aren't mutually exclusive. There's a lot of times when we can work together and help each other a long the way. That in itself is a very human need.
I feel like this just described me practically to a tee. I wasn't expecting that to happen. Parts of me wants to think that this isn't the case, but the signs are pointing to this being true
The more I watch these and the more I think "am I a narcissist? I don't think I like that I am"
Me too. But just watch out what you're saying yk. I did that and I realized that 99% of what I say is highly manipulative
@ravenqun Part of it is Autism as well, I'm not actually diagnosed as a narcissist, but I want to avoid being one at all costs
@@maxwellkowal3065 I'm not diagnosted either but I notice that I am one
@@ravenqun Upon a second rewatch, I do recollect feeling sad or regretful about speaking to people in certain ways or not giving enough to people.
@@maxwellkowal3065 Yeah I get what you're talking about. Maybe seek professional help
I score high on narcissism
Yeah same here...
winner bros
💛 I love you all
The first narcissistic person I interacted with was my best friend. We had known each other since I was three and she was two so basically our whole lives. Honestly she's always been the type of person who wants control over everything but I never really minded it until last year. Last year was when all those bad qualities of her's went to the extreme. She made me feel like I was an awful person and if I said what my opinion was she would get mad if it was different from her opinion. She was very much unforgiving of the smallest mistake or none mistake that she made me feel like was a mistake. Like if we played a game and I accidentally went on her turn she would make me feel so bad that I would just walk away full of guilt over absolutely nothing. One story that ended the friendship was went she slapped me for leaving class without her, I tried to explain what she did was wrong but she laughed it off with a joke. I had tried to keep it to myself until my next therapy session but I was crying myself to sleep and I couldn't do it because it was too painful. I quietly made my way to the living room where my dad was. When he looked up I was crying and he got really concerned so I told him what happened and he went to go wake my mom up. We did our best to make an excuse as of to why I wasn't going to school with her the next day, it worked. I ended up writing a carefully written letter to end the friendship and my mom gave it to her mom after reviewing it. She sent one back but her mom did not review it and there was lots of narcissism in it that I saw right through. She even added a bribe to keep us friends by sending a little pin. We are no longer friends and I'm a lot happier but still working through the trauma with my therapist.
You sound so strong, beautiful and intelligent. You will find people who cherish you and show that. Hope your healing is going good ❤️
@@nandeetaprasad7763 thank you! I’ve had tons of help and healing since I posted this but I really appreciate you sending encouragement🥰
I fall into this category that's for sure 🙃
They’re extremely dangerous, because they are passive-aggressive. They plan and groom their victims. Think of an overt (aggressive) as a rapist, think of the covert as a pedophile. They groom everyone around their target to dismiss the target’s anxiety or anger at being abused as the problem - victim blaming. The worst part of being abused by a covert, is not being believed and getting help.
There is more than enough misinformation on narcasstic personality disorder for you try such a low move. They are not remotely the same thing. That is like saying depression & psychosis is the same thing. 😂 Clearly you are bitter, & would like to share your hurt with the world for validation.
"Have you interacted with a narcissist before?"
My mother is a narcissist.
same
same
same 😔
Yep, as an person who gets to do with an narcissist everyday, wich seems to be the most kind person in our class, who sadly is my „friend“ (I try to get away from her) is this video very relatable.
"Have you ever interacted with a kind narcissist before?", hell, I think I might be one myself
If you are concerned about it, you are not. Narcissists are not able to self-reflect. It is one of the reason that they project their shortcomings onto others. It is much more likely that a narcissist in your life has gaslit you into thinking this way. Good luck.
Have you ever noticed that depression and anxiety are often spoke about in 2nd person whereas more stigmatized disorder are almost always described in 3rd person? "If you have depression, you might experience these things" vs "if they are a narcissist, they might do these things". People with mental health problems that are more heavily stigmatized are more often treated as if they have no internal life and are incapable of complex thoughts and motivations.
This is such a thoughtful response to one of the most stigmatized personality disorders out there! Cool to see it!
One of my closest friends is diagnosed with NPD, and they’re a genuinely kind and funny person who goes to therapy to help them with narcissistic traits, the same way you would for any other mental health issue. NPD is often demonized and that’s really not ok. People with NPD are people too and deserve to be treated as such.
Yes I have and they ruined me as a person. I'm afraid I'll never recover
me realizing this exactly matches my problems with my ex bestie:
Overall, looking at it all these types of narcissists it seems like that’s majority of the population. I kind of think like we all have some type of narcissism in us
I think it's important to mention that not every narcissist is automatically a bad person.
So i've been slacking off on my narcissistic behavior! Thanks, I'll have to be there by noon tomorrow morning!
I don’t think I’m a narcissist as my friends always tell me to change my stubborn ways and I just ignore them and never said anything but they’re not giving up ;-;
I don’t say I’ll change my ways next time, I would just keep quiet and sometimes when my friend is late, I assumed that she is probably asleep and I was right. It was too early in the morning so it was understandable
yeah that’s just stubbornness
@@XerosOfficial yeah. There is no limit to my stubbornness
I'm just tired of throwing my time out there over others. I want for myself for a year with a prayer
I honestly hate that I could apply all of these to myself and I wish it was easier to just change these things about how I act, the worst part is that I know that even after the guilt from this realisation resurfaces I’ll end up ignoring or just forgetting about it again. I really hate myself for it though so I can’t understand why I just act like this anyway
Yes I have and I promised myself to stay the heck away from them😢
Bro I swear you could come up with some sort of different way to describe someone through a negative personality and it just makes everyone who watches these videos somewhat paranoid. Now I don’t know who to trust because they could be a ‘kind narcissist’ smh.
.A lot of people do not understand the operations of the exploitation of ignorance, or exploiting a thriving market with a low quality product, or taking advantage of people's need with a fake product. And these are things we should become aware of since the internet (or youtube rather) is the teacher of so many. There's no such thing as "kind narcissism" because narcissism has nothing to do with kindness unless you mean manipulation tactics.
a "kind narcissist" is not some evil spooky villain to be afraid of. i am not going to jump out from the bushes and attack you, or drive over to your house in my narc-mobile to cause chaos and terror. i am sitting in my room playing the sims 4 right now. i really have no interest in going out of my way to antagonize or abuse random ass people. or anyone💀 if someone is abusing you, then that's what to be afraid of. behaviors. videos like this using fear mongering tactics to group everyone with an illness together to make them seem some kind of evil threat to society should really be ignored
My mother is a forensic psychiatrist and I have done extensive research into personality disorders lately and became aware of one in my life. How it was explained to me is that a narcissist will make you feel differently than other people will, it's a sort of negative kind of heavy emotion you get when you think about how much you like them or what they mean to you. They might seem like they're above other people and even exceptional, but instead of the normal feeling of admiration you may notice feelings of heaviness and a hint of negativity when you examine them and their behavior
@@diaaemus666Narcissists don’t treat people well , so yes if you are a narcissist you are someone everyone should be wary of . What are you talking about , stop downplaying how damaging narcissists are to people around them.
@@WillArtiguesi kinda feel this
Their praises dont sound genuine or real
It feels like they are just saying it only to just *look* nice
It just sounds sarcastic
But when you are going to communicate with them you will see their narcissistic traits
If this video describes you please, don’t panic. Don’t call yourself a terrible person. How you “expand” from it is your choice and if you saw those mental abuse videos on narcissistic behavior that was those peoples choices to believe in. None of them are “monsters” in the beginning. It’s just what path they decided to go down, which does of course involve personal bias, but don’t think you are immediately a terrible human being and start to feel sorry for yourself or worse just because of how others stereotype it.
I think you're talking about a specific variation of Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) known as the vulnerable narcissist. Vulnerable narcissists come across as altruistic, prosocial, sacrificing and selfless, and say negative things about themselves, but it turns out, they still want you to see them as kings, queens, emperors, empresses, lords, presidents, angels, gods, goddesses, superheroes, superheroines or whatever it is. Although they seem to enjoy doing good things, they love the way it rubs off on their public image
Dated a guy like this for way too long. He’s now engaged to the granddaughter of an Italian princess. He got the nobility he wanted after all… good luck to her
i feel like i’m like this, but it’s hard to change since i’ve been like this for a while at this point
It's pretty hard,but you can do it! Ik that sounds pretty off coming from a stranger you've never met but keep trying^^ it will take time^^
I want her to narrate my life story ✨.
Of course i know him. Its me but im open about it
Speaking as someone who is like this, but does genuinely believe in helping others, I feel this is a psychological adaptation to help me survive--moreso authentically rather than physically--in a world that didn't care whether I did or not. And I notice this trait ... this quirk of mine becomes more exacerbated the more insecure I feel in life and vice versa.
But because I realize this, I want to try and channel these maladaptive qualities to help build a safer life for myself so I can stop constantly draining others without having to stop living; I mean others will suffer because of me still, but at least the suffering will stop this way without thinking myself above wanting to live like everyone else.
These are the worst people to deal with. Such a waste of time and effort.
Agree
also agree
Yeah 💔, it hearts so much. You feel like such a fool to friend a narcissist
“Have you ever interacted with a narcissist?”
Yes. I was raised by one. And I’m scared that I’m becoming one now.
My ' BEST FRIEND (Actually Fake friend)' is a kind but dengerous Narcissist.
Literally described the person that caused me so much pain and trauma
My stepfather is a narcissist. There was so many bad things but basically he was the sweetest and kindest person when he met my mum, but when they got married, it was just horrible, he would always seem and act so kind around other people but he treated us like crap and we had no freedom, by the smallest "mistake" we did or if we didn't do what he wanted he would explode, get very angry, yell and break things threating my mum that he would hurt me, once my mum wanted a divorce but he always said he was going to change and go back to the nice person the next day as if nothing happened. I was pretty young back then, my mum got help and currently they are divorced, but it was definitely an experience, I remember just being 8 years old and always locking my room door covering my ears crying.
For those who are confused,this explanation is like playing with you mental health and basically say that :WE ARE ALL NARCISSIST 😅😂
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Not really, there surely are some differences
Most people are narcissistic
Yes... same 😅 confused... feels like.. how much is your measure on the scale.😂.
Oh shit..
You didn't have to expose me like that...
My whole school is and they use each other without knowing it
Mother Theresa... At first glance she was kind, generous, helping the helpless. Dig deeper, she was a damn monster.
Of course, i know him. It's me.
I noticed these things in me. I don't want to hurt them. But i still would like to be loved by them. Often wonder, would i be a good boyfriend.
wow, i never thought to think this could be a thing. whenever i think of someone who shows signs of lacking empathy at times and yet shows mock kindness and friendliness, i always just assumed that was sociopathy
Oh my gosh, I'm starting to notice hoe much of a narcissist my ex is. I kinds sensed it but, golly I was blind. Thanks!
Careful. Going down that road may cause you more harm than good.
My ex was like this. They basically shut-down or disengage as a form of weaponized emotional withholding. Lots of emotional games. Lots of hot-and-cold -behavior. Lots of last minute flaking, canceling or leaving from your company to mess around with your head. They balance this out with lots of idealization & affection to make their partner trauma bond & associate abuse with love. They also keep a tab of side-flings while in relationship that they pass as "friends". They eventually get bored & discard you. They go after weak lovers & discard anyone they can't control. It's a hell to recover from if you fell in love with these demons. Like a hard drug to recover from. A telltale sign to look out for is a vampiric, dead demeanor. Thousand mile stare & inflated ego to go with the introversion. But mainly watch out for weak self-esteem & the shutting down or disengaging. The push-pull -game.
I searched this because i thought my friend was narcissistic but it turns out it was me..
Im literally the opposite of narcissistic..
Releating to this honestly.
They mirror you. Coverts, you actually fall in love with yourself. Let that sink in🤯
Yes and I hate her.
Her name is lea she's always making people me included feel like we aren't worth it like one day my best friend gave me a bunch of sea shells but lea was next to us and said "what about me?" Like that is so rude both of us wanted to hit her.
(I still have the sea shells their in my room😁)
Never really thought about this but it might be so true!
HAD A BEST FRIEND *EXACTLY* LIKE THIS
"have you ever interacted with a narcissit before?"
Well considering of what you said about 'kind' narcissist, i'm can say i've interacted with this narcissist before, he's me
Yes!!! This is why I was stuck for so long. 😢
Im a kind narcissist and i care more about others more than myself according to my school mates, and i let my friends hang out with others, and i don't fake my attitude, i just like being nice to others :)
And im ashamed of myself for being a narcissist :(
I mean… that’s just like me BUT i have a to be this way till i get to student council.
So i have to kinda be this way
Voice ❤❤❤
My brother whole personality described in a 1 minute video 💀
Oh yeah, I interacted with myself. Kinda hated it ngl 💀
I just broke up with someone like this in my life. When i said i didnt want any more gaslighting it was verry mutual. There wasnt any quality left in me if i was not firmly stuck under their thumb😊
I don’t know a kind narcissist personally but this describes a character from my writing pretty well.
I'm a little bit but I'm taking care to be better day-to-day, thank you for pointing me this :D
Ok, ok. So a lot of people in the comments are concerned that they might be narcissists. Listen, I've been there, having NPD isn't the time of your life. I just want everyone here to know that you're not alone, you are worthy of love, and that you deserve to feel better.
And for those asking "is this a sign?? is this a sign??" I can't diagnose you all. I'm not a licensed psychiatrist, and I also don't believe in the whole "covert vs overt narcissist" thing, since covert narcissism is either pwNPD masking their traits or just... being nice. Remember, no disorder makes you abusive by default.
Stay safe and take care ❤
I think we need a video about how we can detect a narcissist in ourself
50. Your videos has helped me alot. Thank you.🙏🏻
i had a father figure who is a narcissist who did more then break my boundaries and said its ok cuz its them
This is just the kind of friend i had to cut of recently. He was a close friend for years,its a shame.
Maybe I’m a kind narcissist
🎵 narcissistic my God I love it 🎶
For anyone saying if they’re a narcissist, a true narcissist would never look out for these videos and would immediately defend themselves when told are narcissistic, just be yourself and if you think you’re narcissist you aren’t one, you either KNOW or think.
But what if I’m thinking that “I’m not a narcissist because they’d see their behavior as a bad thing” but I am a narcissist and it’s just an excuse for my behavior?
Not really. I just realized I am a one and my friends want me to change. narcissist can be aware about their condition, so what? can it change anything? I know I'm horrible yet I don't want to apologize. I wish I could but it hurts my pride so badly. I'm studying psychology so I know my condition and causes. my friend hates me because I let her do all the things all the time and I talk about myself all the time. But still I can't help it. she said no one will tolerate my behavior if it is not for her. Even though I know all of these , I can't help it. even now we are on a fight and I got mad because she didn't hangout with me, and I know it's because she actually did not have time, but I can't help but think she doesn't want to hangout with me at all. I want to apologize but still I'm struggling because I can't figure out the real reason. maybe she doesn't want that for real. I can't blame her though. so, I decided not to talk to her again. maybe she will be relieved and be happy because I'm not with her.
Luckily I'm not a kind narcissist but it's close to one without meaning it, can come up as one which is more scary tbh
The fact that you have that thought process means you definitely aren't. I'm sure you have traits; We all do. But they literally can't put themselves in your shoes.
Still set boundaries 100%
Self estime, self control ,self respect, don't overthrowing, don't overthinking, realize what you do wrong fix it, don't destroy each other, love one another ❤😊you welcome ❤
For everyone in the comments who think they are now diagnosed narcissists that’s not how that works. Everyone has narcissistic traits it’s encoded into our brain and is basically our default mode as humans but proper socialization is what breaks us out of this animalistic mindset but we all still have it laying on the back burner of our brains. So having narcissistic traits and displaying them once in a while does not mean you are a pathological narcissist.
I need more about a kind narcissist. It describes my ex so much.
❤🎉Thank you for enlightenment.
Blessings
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I think I might be doing all this on accident...
i think my boyfriend is like this.. im not happy with him nor how less effort he puts into our relationship while im the only one who does even with my mental illnesses such as severe depression and ptsd
i do the most for him, he never does for me and always tries to deny it when it comes to a discussion about it and it repeats itself just like in the video.. im very sad
Damn i think i just got EXPOSED
Kinda scary how my mom is exactly like that
Sadly my entire family is filled with them. My mother is the “kind” narcissist. My grandmother seems like one but she can be considered another kind as well.
The problem here is that we think that all narcism is bad which isn’t persé. A healthy fluctuation now and then is perfectly human.
Yes very much familiar with a such person
Well thanks for telling me I was just a narc the whole time.
Me, literally.
Why dont we ever talk about how soothing the voice of the narrator is
..I swear, I do this unaware of what I am actually doing! I have no ill-intent!!
I think I am a kind narcissistic person! I am genuinely willing to change myself, I'm just done hurting my family friends and everyone out there I'm just done!
So please can any of you help me get out of this narcissism? please I need help
Im pretty sure narcissism roots from low self esteem
Make sure to:
- Love yourself
-stop looking for validation and validate yourself
- And apologise when you know you've hurt someone
E X C E L L E N C E ! 💎
my roommate seems more like this as time goes on but his mom is part of the blame
My big brother and sister 🫢😶
This is how my friend is like to me and only me.