Your hair won’t grow past your shoulders? You’re probably doing THIS wrong

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  • Опубликовано: 3 янв 2025

Комментарии • 165

  • @treetea
    @treetea 5 дней назад +403

    I’ve been told that conditioners/serums/oils don’t help with hair growth, and I think that’s technically true, but keeping the hair shaft in good condition helps prevent breakage so it indirectly contributes. I had no idea there were so many ways to harm one’s hair. It is amazing to see your hair as is now, the result of so much work and learning. Thanks for sharing your knowledge.

  • @nickeni3050
    @nickeni3050 День назад +24

    - Don't fear cutting or trimming hair
    - Use wisdom to dry hair (low or no heat is best)
    - Don't leave hair out for long. Twist or braid hair and keep hair up away from friction
    - If doing box braid, don't do it constantly (box braid to twist to mini twist to buns etc)
    - Moisturize attachment braids (if no mousturizer then mix leave in conditioner and water to spray it) then oil with light weight oil
    - Stick with the routine you're sure works for you

  • @chonmonlon2728
    @chonmonlon2728 2 дня назад +36

    At this point, I'll just settle for thickness. I've given up on length 🙄

  • @She_ate_and_left_no_crumbs
    @She_ate_and_left_no_crumbs 5 дней назад +50

    Your hair is beautiful

  • @Tammy-SophisticatedGlamGurls
    @Tammy-SophisticatedGlamGurls 13 часов назад +9

    Caorl's daughter ran away with my hair, my hair got jacked up. I went back to the Dollar Tree, Softee Indian Hemp, Blue Magic clarifying shampoo and conditioner. plaited my hair at the roots, twisted the ends, got some clove water lightly mist at night. My hair grew down m y back pass BLS I went back to old school simple. worked for me. excellent video.

  • @DarleneBattle-n8w
    @DarleneBattle-n8w 3 дня назад +97

    She looks like the 1974's version of Chaka Khan.

  • @Coffeetime1991
    @Coffeetime1991 3 дня назад +60

    My Afro is down to my waist, I have been using Mane n Tail since I was younger. Once I stop using my hair gets greasy or thin and fragile, find products that work and stick to it. Stop buying oils or growth tonics from other people and make your own. My hair is different, what works for y’all won’t work for mine. I only do silk press once a year.

  • @Ohitskeira
    @Ohitskeira 5 дней назад +24

    Your hair is sooo beautifulll

  • @Lee1Min-Ji
    @Lee1Min-Ji 2 дня назад +33

    Clean scalp, moisturized hair and little to no tension in the styling works wonders.

  • @godlovesusall8115
    @godlovesusall8115 5 дней назад +29

    You posted something like this about a year ago. I thank you for that, it really was a game changer in length retention, I'm at nipple length now

    • @Bigheadjustice
      @Bigheadjustice  5 дней назад +4

      I'm so glad it helped you!! Length retention is definitely key

  • @keveenajohnson169
    @keveenajohnson169 4 дня назад +37

    Great video!!! And beautiful hair. Ladies just remember that if you are vitamin D deficient or iron deficient your hair will fall and won’t grow. So consider a hair, skin, and nail vitamin and like she said keep all that heat out of your hair.

  • @Miau_oreo
    @Miau_oreo 5 дней назад +22

    What beautiful hair!

  • @musabayo1936
    @musabayo1936 5 дней назад +29

    I’m obsessed with your fro 💙💙

  • @ruckes13
    @ruckes13 3 дня назад +32

    I keep my natural hair in a ponytail. And I wash and Condition,and blow dry it every 2 weeks. I use wild growth and blue magic coconut oil grease.

  • @KendallMarie94
    @KendallMarie94 4 дня назад +65

    I’d like to speak with Carol’s mom cuz her daughter is a menace!

  • @barbarawright343
    @barbarawright343 5 дней назад +18

    I really love that the advice you provide with your posts are things you have actually been through, learned not to do and pivoted .

    • @Bigheadjustice
      @Bigheadjustice  5 дней назад +4

      Thanks so much! I try to keep it honest lol

  • @zen-rt
    @zen-rt 3 дня назад +19

    I also found that my conditioner caused breakage 😢it was such a shock. So don’t be afraid to change products, you never know what you’ll discover.

  • @Rue100
    @Rue100 3 дня назад +28

    LOVEEEE AFRO TEXTURED HAIR PRETTIEST NATURAL HAIR ON PLANET EARTH I LOVEEE IT ❤

  • @Brandiisbeloved
    @Brandiisbeloved 5 дней назад +28

    omg your hair is gorgeous and so are you. Looking like a beautiful lioness

  • @phi4721
    @phi4721 2 дня назад +14

    On my natural hair journey ☺️

  • @TellitTay
    @TellitTay День назад +17

    I noticed my fro will be past shoulder length when I style it before going out, and when I wear my fro out it always shrinks up above my shoulders

  • @imjustsaiyan94
    @imjustsaiyan94 3 дня назад +25

    Your hair is amazing

  • @BlackHandSide
    @BlackHandSide 4 дня назад +13

    I had a hormonal imbalance that made me loose my thick hair when I was young and I had to do the big chop for the first time 5 years ago. I have cut my hair short a couples times over the years but I’m trying to grown out past my shoulders now. Diet and deficiency’s is probably the biggest thing for growth as for me.

  • @tlgregory12
    @tlgregory12 5 дней назад +57

    Carols Daughters used to have great products until she expanded and sold the company . I used to us the products many years ago when she first came out before she was on Oprah .

  • @A_Wilson
    @A_Wilson 3 дня назад +8

    I agree. The overuse of a blow dryer severely damaged my hair back in 2022. I had to cut off a significant amount of hair and nurse my hair back to good health. I haven’t used one since, so over two years ago. 😊

  • @itsericanicoler
    @itsericanicoler 2 дня назад +22

    God is so good! I was just thinking about where I am in my hair journey and how I need to be more consistent. Then your video pops up. So so helpful. Thank you 😊

  • @katrinascorner
    @katrinascorner 5 дней назад +39

    That same Carol's Daughter product is the reason to this day that I will never give that brand another chance.

    • @mochamixoriginal
      @mochamixoriginal 5 дней назад +7

      Same

    • @Bigheadjustice
      @Bigheadjustice  5 дней назад +6

      That's definitely fair, im very wary of new products now because of that one😭

  • @dumbun6660
    @dumbun6660 2 дня назад +26

    I'm trying to start my natural hair journey but I have no idea where to start. I'm currently suffering from breakage and tangles. Got any tips or product recommendations?

  • @nibabi
    @nibabi 2 дня назад +24

    Omg! Carols Daughter black vanilla leave in smelled so good but it left my hair dry and hard. I’m not sure if it had a lot of protein or alcohol.

  • @googleuser2480
    @googleuser2480 2 дня назад +21

    My hair was down to my belly button most of my life and I never cut it because I was scared jt would not grow back. Then one year, my hair cut itself. It literally looked like I gave myself a bob cut but it actually fell out in a very odd way... like I had it professionally cut and nobody believed me when I explained. It grew back, even more damanged than before (because it was never cut, just split off) and I STILL refused to cut it. Lo g story short, I had an eventful 2023 regarding DV and a successful restraining order and decided to celebrate by taking care of myself. I got my hair cut and started taking supplements. My hair is not as long as it was, but it grew back extremely fast and I wish I had cut it years ago. I'm hoping it grows back to its original length but I am thankful the ends are so thick and luscious vs scraggly, thin and fraile.

  • @queencocoamocha9508
    @queencocoamocha9508 День назад +20

    OMG! You remind me of Daria (cartoon TV show MTV)

  • @saritasmith9789
    @saritasmith9789 4 дня назад +23

    This is off topic but you remind me of NappyHeadedJojoba so much!

  • @ajeasmon0715
    @ajeasmon0715 День назад +9

    I tried that leave-in as well. I love lavender but I couldn't feel any moisture after several uses so i threw it away. Its kind of trial and error with products cos there's so much out there but don't get excited about all that you see cos everyones hair is different. If its working, stick with it and be consistent with your routine and you will get results

  • @ayofr
    @ayofr 5 дней назад +19

    I used a different carol's daughter spray in my hair last Thursday. It was my first time using it. It worked so well in my hair. I did mini twists. They turned out so nice.
    BUT i regret using a new product. I had an allergic reaction to it. I have a rash all over my neck, ears and face. My eyes swole up and my ears. My face looks puffy. My skin in so dry and peeling and red. The spray got in my eye somehow and for the oast few days my left eyeball has been irritated, dry and in pain. Even though I've constantly flushed it with cold water.
    Ultimately I had to wash this product out. And now i have to re-do my mini twists on top of trying to heal from this allergic reaction. All of this to say, i wish i would've listened to my intuition and not tried the new product. 😓💯

  • @1204
    @1204 2 дня назад +12

    What does your hair actually need?
    As you may already know, hair needs to be constantly replenished with three or four elements in order to have healthy hair: water, oil, cream, and protein. These four elements are equally important and depend on each other for overall hair health.

  • @sw3et._.s0ur
    @sw3et._.s0ur 5 дней назад +9

    Your hair is actually so pretty 😫💗

  • @Ash_321
    @Ash_321 5 дней назад +7

    She posted!!🤩🤩

  • @nani0logy
    @nani0logy 5 дней назад +21

    I relaxed my hair for the first time in 2023 because my natural hair was stressing me out and once I did I absolutely HATED it so my dumb self figured “well since your hair is straight maybe bangs will make it cuter?” BIGGER MISTAKE. I COULD NOT CUT BANGS. Did a big chop in July and now my hair is doing much better and I’m taking much better care of it but its neck length and no longer armpit length 🥲 to this day I wish I could go back in time and slap the mess out of myself

    • @Bigheadjustice
      @Bigheadjustice  4 дня назад +5

      Omgg😭 ur hairs definitely gonna flourish in no time though! I kinda miss the short natural era when i first big chopped

  • @seymonetko1958
    @seymonetko1958 3 дня назад +9

    I only do protein with a stylist. It can really damage your hair if you don’t do it right. I also stick with the same products that work for my hair and don’t change it up unless I see someone with my same hair type use it(maybe on RUclips) before usage. Sometimes the simplest products work the best. I love pure castor oil from Whole Foods - one bottle is like 7 bucks - lasts forever and my hair loves it. No added fragrances or chemicals just pure oil. There’s no need to over complicate things with our hair

  • @tylerbhumphries
    @tylerbhumphries 4 дня назад +6

    I also had issues with that particular Carol’s Daughter line. But I know my hair is protein sensitive and once I learned to avoid high protein products (mainly coconut oil), I started experiencing softer, more moisturized hair. I do still use Carol’s Daughter. I use their Goddess Strength line. I haven’t had a problem with that one. My hair is soft, shiny, and an inch or 2 away from waist length. Like the OP stated, find products that work for your hair, style your hair in ways that protect your ends, moisturize your hair, and be patient. Your hair is always growing, you just need to figure why you’re not retaining length.

  • @MildredRoland
    @MildredRoland 4 дня назад +8

    I had long relaxed hair but I got bored of it started transitioning. By September , I cut it to about three inches. Currently, I'm going on 8 inches long (the awkward length phase). I used a lot of your advice to get my hair where it is now, and I hope 2025 takes me to bra length😁. Thank youuu😍...btw your hairstyle is eating

  • @Lexis_artlife
    @Lexis_artlife 5 дней назад +9

    thank you so much! you actually helped me grow my hair. it reaches my shoulders now😸

  • @hi.goodbye2167
    @hi.goodbye2167 5 дней назад +4

    Pleeeaasseee do a tutorial on this style girl! Your hair looks amazing 😍😍😍 Thanks for the tips!!!

  • @UnpopularOpinionX
    @UnpopularOpinionX 4 дня назад +4

    I LOVE YOUR CHANNEL SO MUCH~ now THIS is the representation we need

  • @rukayyaibrahim2800
    @rukayyaibrahim2800 3 дня назад +5

    Sounds just like me😭 till I completely abandoned heat. I now trim 4 months or whenever needed, but braids helps me maintain moisture and prevent knots. I will follow this advice of yours ❤

  • @josephakpeti5944
    @josephakpeti5944 5 дней назад +15

    I absolutely love your hair,i hope my hair is as full as yours one day😊

    • @Bigheadjustice
      @Bigheadjustice  5 дней назад +3

      You got this, it's all about consistency!🙌🏽

  • @hiyahiy
    @hiyahiy 3 дня назад +7

    Dang, your hair looked so thin. You've been through so much.😄 You've come a long way. Congrats on where you are now. I no longer buy products naturals are raving about. I buy and experiment too. Protein treatments dry the hell out of my hair. I deep conditioner every single time I go for a wash and set. And I only oil my hair once or twice a week amd keep it braided with only my hair

  • @Kgidiful
    @Kgidiful 3 дня назад +15

    First of all thank you for showing us your beautiful natural hair.
    But for me it was exactly the opposite that made my hair grow. When I started blow drying it once a week the health of my hair improved significantly. I saw a clear decrease in breakage when styling my hair daily.
    Furthermore I figured out that my max time without a wash is 6 days instead of 7. My breakage significant increase from day 6. So funny how if you focus on your routine your hair speaks to you clearly.
    Next to weekly washes I deep condition once a month and do a mask once a month. After washes leave in liquid conditioner is added always. And as the last step hairoil is added on ends, oil leftover on mids and roots.
    Once again live tells us that there isn't a one strategy that fits all😊

  • @KENFINITY_3K
    @KENFINITY_3K 2 дня назад +5

    Gorgeous Crown Queen! 🙏🏾☺️ thank you for sharing your journey and providing tips!

  • @LeaGholson-t6w
    @LeaGholson-t6w 4 дня назад +9

    I absolutely love your afro😍

  • @Passion84GodAlways
    @Passion84GodAlways 4 дня назад +4

    Thank you so much for not only sharing this informative video with us💎 but also answering SO MANY QUESTIONS in the comments! 👑💐👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @Sunny-os1or
    @Sunny-os1or 5 дней назад +8

    Great tips! Thank you so much. Trimming too often can also be a reason

  • @angelfire6421
    @angelfire6421 5 дней назад +12

    The shorts are okay but I prefer yours videos on hair the health and maintenance, especially wash days

  • @RosettaTrim
    @RosettaTrim 5 дней назад +12

    Beautiful hair

  • @Aritul
    @Aritul 8 часов назад +3

    Thank you for these tips.

  • @morrisahj
    @morrisahj 3 дня назад +13

    Aphogee is that girl lol Intermittently depending on your porosity of course

  • @EtherealSolana
    @EtherealSolana 5 дней назад +11

    The aphogee treatment kinda destroyed my hair. I have very very tight coils and even when I followed the instructions it wasn’t right for my hair. Made me have to not only blow dry BUT straighten it with a small (non heat controlled) flat iron. Makes me just want to wear head wraps forever!! The tangles I got were the worst tangles I’ve ever had in my life even after I detangle r it. I’ve always blow dried my hair after every wash day and before I used that protein treatment I never had that type of horrific tangled breakage. To detangle it I had to break or cut off my hair with hair grade scissors. Beforehand I took good care of it in knottless braids (and after learning of health studies concerning the braiding hair toxicity) decided to quit them permanently. I’m only doing my own hair no synthetic extensions OR expensive ssa human hair that’s unregulated (and unethical). My hair grew and inch but that breakage + worst knots in my life, was the death of me.

    • @Bigheadjustice
      @Bigheadjustice  5 дней назад +3

      Ooo this may not be your case but when i dealt with the same issues, my problem back when i first used it (before i every dyed or bleached my hair and it was low porosity) is my hair didnt need a protein treatment at the time. Only when i use heat or have dyed it, now do i need to keep to a protein schedule. My hair didnt really enjoy protein when my hair was healthy and now my hair needs it more than it used too.

  • @MyeshaSnipe
    @MyeshaSnipe 3 дня назад +16

    Mane and Tail shampoo and conditioner: makes your hair grow (no doubt), it makes my hair hard and dry! It works, but it's not worth it!

  • @TitiLectric
    @TitiLectric 4 дня назад +14

    A running theme seems to be looking at what other people are doing without any actual research. Every person I’ve seen do an aphogee protein treatment say to do it sparingly or once evry 6-8 weeks.

  • @hiyahiy
    @hiyahiy 3 дня назад +3

    Omg!!!!!! Thank for that comment of wearing box braids back to back. I had the same issues and I thought it was my hair dresser that was secretly cutting my hair. Oh no! Thanks. I will cancel my next braid appointment

  • @brielleiylee
    @brielleiylee 2 дня назад +18

    Thank you for this videoooo; Can you make a Wash Day routine video pls?

  • @teshplaysroblox4017
    @teshplaysroblox4017 5 дней назад +8

    I always look forward to another video from you i love them so much

    • @Bigheadjustice
      @Bigheadjustice  4 дня назад +1

      I'm so glad! Thanks for ur support 🙏🏽

  • @MyeshaSnipe
    @MyeshaSnipe 3 дня назад +10

    This Is A Great Video, Thanks!

  • @lakeshaharris543
    @lakeshaharris543 5 дней назад +6

    Thanks for the tips. I
    Love your hair it’s beautiful 🤩

  • @bonitavickers4473
    @bonitavickers4473 3 дня назад +6

    I absolutely love your hair!❤

  • @lavishleo831
    @lavishleo831 5 дней назад +9

    The picture of the breakage 😂😂😂😂😂😂. How painfully hilarious 😂😂😂.

  • @djewel
    @djewel 3 дня назад +8

    Thank you ,for sharing .

  • @NateOllievere-jg1rr
    @NateOllievere-jg1rr 3 дня назад +6

    SEASON GREETINGS EVERYONE THANKS FOR THE VIDEO JUSTICE LOVE YOUR HONESTY ON YOUR HAIR JOURNEY EXPERIENCES

  • @Gymnasticsmgirl
    @Gymnasticsmgirl 5 дней назад +6

    I luv Ur hair so much!!! 💕😍

  • @jessiegbrown1520
    @jessiegbrown1520 4 часа назад +3

    Problem for me is that I found a good product they discontinued it so now I’m trying different things what a blow argh!

  • @carmelcutie1991
    @carmelcutie1991 2 дня назад +9

    OK so I need help. I relax my hair and I blow dry it after washing. But I only blow dry once every 2 weeks. I forget to deep condition. I'm taking collagen supplements. I don't flat iron my hair. My hair is past my shoulder but I want it longer. It doesn't break as much

  • @Highwizardd
    @Highwizardd 21 час назад +2

    my hair been growing the most when im just lazy and do nothing. i put amala oil once in awhile then put it under a bonnet thats it. i cut my ends off if they are fizzy.

  • @LauraYakubu-r8v
    @LauraYakubu-r8v 2 дня назад +6

    Such a nice video😊. Pls how did ur hair becomes this thick??? Is there anyway I can make mine this thick too???

  • @toxiknao8826
    @toxiknao8826 3 дня назад +10

    Does type 4 hair eventually grow to where its no longer a ball of fro? Do i just need to be patient

  • @iitstiinytiink
    @iitstiinytiink 4 дня назад +7

    Could you post your LCO routine? 🫶🏽

  • @ronicmwest
    @ronicmwest 2 дня назад +12

    Like this button 👇🏾 if you clicked because the hair is everything!!!

  • @skellyb1368
    @skellyb1368 9 часов назад +4

    What if your hair isn't long enough and just stays up in a short afro always???

  • @chiyohage5461
    @chiyohage5461 5 дней назад +3

    I love your hair 💖💖💖

  • @JazzyFro
    @JazzyFro 5 дней назад +6

    Love the video!!

  • @rissilient85
    @rissilient85 4 дня назад +2

    Very true and very helpful

  • @vincentAyan
    @vincentAyan 4 дня назад +2

    helped so much🥰😍

  • @neqwise2641
    @neqwise2641 День назад +9

    Im doing most of this and then sum🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @ajbrew1347
    @ajbrew1347 3 дня назад +6

    What’s crazy is my hair didn’t like that spray either!👀 6:22

  • @mahoniudo-n805
    @mahoniudo-n805 2 дня назад +8

    Didn’t know you had a youtube channel

  • @roselinechuku4010
    @roselinechuku4010 3 дня назад +2

    Good information!

  • @puddin12dt
    @puddin12dt 4 дня назад +7

    ❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉 your hair looks beautiful #hairgoals

  • @deaththekid5445
    @deaththekid5445 18 часов назад +3

    i need a new and good condish/leave in and styler sooo bad, my leave in doesnt give enough slip and moisture, and my gel doesnt have good enough hold to me

  • @Beachgirly626
    @Beachgirly626 5 дней назад +9

    Second and your hair is gorgeous

  • @tost852
    @tost852 5 дней назад +4

    You look great! Well done. What products do you use for deep conditioning treatment?

    • @Bigheadjustice
      @Bigheadjustice  4 дня назад

      I like the oaui thick hair mask or the amika curl food mask for hydration!

  • @s_sanny
    @s_sanny 4 дня назад +11

    I didnt even realize u posted this 1 day ago idk why my mind read it as 1 year ago

  • @PrincessV95
    @PrincessV95 4 дня назад +5

    Yesssss please educate me mine is growing but not as fast

  • @MsTee-xe3ux
    @MsTee-xe3ux 5 дней назад +13

    This is my hair but I don’t use no heat on my hair. My hair is brittle, what do I need to do to get it to grow

    • @lavishleo831
      @lavishleo831 5 дней назад +9

      It can also be an internal problem as well. Get your lab work done and you'll know exactly what vitamins and minerals you're lacking in and take it from there. 🙂

    • @Bigheadjustice
      @Bigheadjustice  4 дня назад +1

      Just like the reply said it could be a vitamin deficiency or a health issue. Or even small issues like ur hair rubbing on any non-smooth fabric like cotton pillowcases when u sleep

  • @sweetoil2952
    @sweetoil2952 3 дня назад +1

    I haven’t started a hair journey yet, but I’m sure I need to. I see my hair is shorter than in previous years. I think it breaks a lot, and I’m finding tangles or knots around the ends pretty much every time I touch it (which is constantly if I don’t have a hair cover on). I also wear my hair out all the time because I enjoy it. Would you know how to help stop the breakage and tangles other than keeping it in a protective style more often?

  • @PrincessV95
    @PrincessV95 4 дня назад +11

    What about steaming cause i steam my hair when i deep condition

  • @dredzel5775
    @dredzel5775 5 дней назад +15

    How often do you use the hair products in your Amazon storefront

    • @Bigheadjustice
      @Bigheadjustice  5 дней назад +11

      Those are all products i repurchase regularly or have liked and used mutliple times!

  • @RAELLEE.
    @RAELLEE. 5 дней назад +11

    But I barely use heat and I always use pritective styles tho

    • @RedRuby3453
      @RedRuby3453 5 дней назад +12

      Their probably not protective then,what kind of protective styles

    • @cherrelleg8276
      @cherrelleg8276 5 дней назад +8

      Make sure to moisture your protective styles.

    • @Bigheadjustice
      @Bigheadjustice  5 дней назад +8

      It could be the type of style, perhaps u might be not moisturizing the style enough, or even other small habits like friction on cotton (anything other than satin or silk) pillows or clothing or a health issue like vit d or iron deficiency (i had these same issues in the past)

  • @demyabruh6058
    @demyabruh6058 3 дня назад +3

    i watch this as i use the black vanneilla leave in conditioner😭😭

  • @craigroper4
    @craigroper4 5 дней назад +8

    so how long is your hair now, i remember in a previous video u said your hair was 15 inches max but I checked my hair and it was 16 inches but it didn't look as long as yours so when was the last time you did a length check?

    • @noova02
      @noova02 5 дней назад +12

      Also keep in mind height/ neck and head proportions matter. For example, if you're taller/longer neck, 16 inches can be just past shoulder length, but on a shorter/shorter neck person it can be almost mid-back.

    • @Bigheadjustice
      @Bigheadjustice  5 дней назад +10

      My hairs around 17.5 now! Im pretty short and have a slightly shorter torso and also my hair is super dense so my hair looks extremely big

  • @Teadenise
    @Teadenise 4 дня назад +4

    YOU ARE AMAZING !!! what shampoo and conditioner do you use ?

  • @LivingMyLyfe
    @LivingMyLyfe 2 дня назад +12

    My hair did the same thing with the carols daughter!!