太沒禮貌了！原來這5個英文說法會得罪人，別再說了！ | IELTS 9分 + DSE 7科5**狀元 | Melody Tam
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老師 you go first 在跟別人吵架時用 就啱晒啦 對方一叫: 你去死啦 即刻就霸氣地回佢: YOU GO FIRST!🤣🤣🤣🤣
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@@MelodyTam I guess Ms. Tam has lived abroad while learnt Cantonese in Hong Kong or neighbouring regions. 2024 January 20, New York City.
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You go first is actually quite common
首先，英式美式有分别，正规交谈地道交谈也有分别.melody老师虽然读书成绩好，有些我吾认同错和对，我在美国40年，系美国联邦政府(小)员工，英语?白人，黑人，拉丁人，中东人，亚州人，墨西哥人, 在美国说的英语都吾一样口音，誰管你? 只有在吾系講英语的国家/地区 才把这事看得紧张。
Agree, same here in Toronto 😅
@@katherinechan9383 markham?
@@anthonyjohnson2172 yes
I think you exaggerated it a little bit. I've asked many people in the UK, and the phrase 'you go first' sounds totally fine to them, even though it is imperative.
Totally fine here in the States too. She likes to make stuffs out of thin air to offend Chinese people. Don’t u know that some phrases in the English language have adapted Chinese or phrases throughout history???
She didn't exaggerate, she's 'wrong'
after you 確實比較委婉，但 you go first 或 you can go first 其實也還行，沒到那麼嚴重。
但如果 you go first被認為是不禮貌，那go ahead也應該是同等級的無禮程度才對，因為都帶有命令的語氣。
真要講究的話，中文也是有分別的，您先請、請先走、你先走、你先、你走，這禮貌程度也是差別很大的。
所以別說什麼用中文直翻會不禮貌，而是你一開始就沒想過要用謙詞，才造成你說出的話無禮。
其實除了對真正的上級或長輩(能決定你未來的人)需要注意用字遣詞外，日常(平輩和陌生人)真的不用注重太多這些支微末節的事。
Basically well said.
Only want to add : 傳統上 對年紀大的 長輩 說 “你先走” 應該是有 忌諱 的
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Is "you first" better?
我都聽過native uk English teacher 話you go first 完全冇問題，只係after you 更加禮貌
在美國南加州用 you first，也是普遍，After you更有禮貌！
幾十年的英国生活，我常说u go first
Go away.等等，完全冇問題
You go first 冇唛問題。 “Go away" 咪乱用！
人又靚，聲又甜，最重要是好有學問，又好用心好實用教大家，人咁好，真係美貌與智慧並重的美女❤
認同，so sweet❤
你说话很不老实啊
誇張
@@kamfooklok 我亦覺得她做作, 欠自然. 我們北美的人不會這樣説英文的. 所教的內容三歲小孩也懂
她已很用心去教英語，真的不錯，何必這麽刻薄恶意攻擊呢，做人厚道一點给人家鼓勵一點一定好過心地恶毒
You go first 其實沒有很大問題，我在北美長大，這裡有人這樣說
平時用可能冇乜所謂，北美可能又真係冇所謂。但呢段片的場景系公司boss & staff，對高級人員講you go first 似有命令語氣，所以唔太好。
北美有許多人 ，不懂禮貌. 我們用after you! 你行先！請坐be seated please weHonghong people 小學就有教.
@@evelyntsui1485 你這種fresh off the boat 最應該學下，永遠講英文同ESL一樣
@@evelyntsui1485文化唔一樣就話人無禮貌？
Too funny. Just the other day I was on line for the restroom at a restaurant and the person ahead didn’t try one of the doors and it was unoccupied. But I did and before I went in, I asked her, “Do you want to go first?” She declined, “No, you’re fine.” I think the context of how you use the phrase matters. In this case I thought nothing of its use and I know she was not offended. But Americans are less disciplined vs the Brits about language. Also we are a country of immigrants, we are understanding of non native speakers.
The phrase 'You go first' is perfectly fine and common. However, 'After you' could actually sound condescending in some cases.
This is misleading!! We say you go first all the time, no one will be offended..
Overall a great lesson that highlights the importance of not translating directly from Chinese when communicating in English. However, I wouldn’t necessarily use the sentence “Did I make myself clear” in that scenario. For me, that’s making a declaration in the form of a question. I would use that with my kids or my staff who’s repeatedly disobeyed my instructions, but totally not with my boss if I want to keep my job. 😂
i think go ahead is more offensive than u go first, but no mater go ahead or u go first, if u said it with smile , i don't think anyone going to think it's offensive.
Very useful, and practical. Well explained. 🙏🙏🙏
前幾天在電梯裡，遇到洋人。到樓層後，我也是說 After you， 第一次用幸好沒崩 😂
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很好奇，請問You go first不禮貌的依據來源為? 找遍YT 你會發現，通常只有在華人頻道會特別說這句不禮貌，但事實上在英國完全沒有不禮貌的意思，完全是看你講時的語氣。你可以查詢chartgpt也是如此說法。
我也覺得，從沒聽過這樣用不禮貌
Just say “After you”--- very simple
中文请坐 = please sit!
Not what you claimed as Sit down 👎
4:45 I think when the boss asks you, "do you have (whatever work) ready?" You say, " I am working on it right now, will be ready in just a minute." Don't ever ask the boss to wait. Lol. All other answers are wrong. 😂
But seriously, good work. As asian immigrants, a lot of Asian businesses are seen as having rude service. A lot of it is a language barrier issue. This type of content is needed.
粤语什么时候开始有那么多卷舌音了？ chuo, zhou
Melody老師你好，今集好清楚學到好多正確嘅日常用語，但係以我所知you go first 唔係中文翻譯英文，原是由外國人日常生活用語，主要是do respect to the others, 是客氣用語，let’s someone go first, ie: ladies first 一樣😅似乎是中國人對這句日常用語感覺有不禮貌之意，一般西方人都明白而且有共識，英國人比較gentlemen會用after you 兩者並沒有不禮貌意思，只是不同塲合不同人嘅用法🤣😂🤣可能有些blue blood感覺有些冇禮貌兼不合身份🙄
多謝補充！語境/唔同地區嘅用法都會導致差異
@@MelodyTam yeah 🥳 AI 用人，定係人用AI 🥳
但係呢，我聽人講，在外國 「you go first」係有少少怪同唔得體。反而，我聽人講， delete 個動詞go, 變成 「you first」係ok同得體嘅。 聲明：我都係聽人講架，求大家證實。
@@ThePowerofLove-mr5uj 係，you first都是常用，唔使到外國，亞洲區嘅外國人也會咁講嘅😊不過得唔得體就睇個人觀感及關係，官場就有機會被人講無禮貌！
Go ahead ,you first, after you 我哋日日隨時都咁講
太喜欢您的教学视频了！ 好亲切的粤语 和很实用的英文例句. 谢谢你！
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第一次睇你嘅視頻，即刻發俾我父母同住喺歐洲嘅細佬。好難得有用廣東話教英文嘅視頻。加油。
对中国人上司，不能说Go ahead, 这意思有“去你死人头”的意思😊
「禮多人不怪」！看這錄影片的目的是希望改善（進）自己的日常生活的英文用語而已，口舌逞強，有什麼得益？
我生活在南半球三十多年，日常生活都是用英語交談，甚至在夢中也發覺自己在説英語，真該死！
幸好今年有機會上網多看中文RUclips, 逐漸尋回我失去的一部份中文字及廣東話…
剛才我看過這錄影片，的確是「字字真言」，也是我們每天的日用語，十分滿意，也 fwd & shared with 住在其他國家的家人，並告訴他們「這錄影片真的值得一看，若已經知道的，也不妨溫故知新！」
我知道我的家人都會明白這是我對他們的一番好意，絕不會毫無人性的指責我的！
我真係試過用you go first，以後不敢用了，謝謝。另請問在餐廳進食套餐時，我想咖啡先上，英文怎樣講？
You go first係冇問題. 白人都會講you go first的. 想咖啡先上, 簡單地說: coffee first 就可以了. 我是加拿大土生華裔, 英語是我的第一語文.
但英國人Susie Woo說You go first沒問題😅
非常有趣，謝謝您的分享，學習到很多。
但也比較泄露了一些英文的習俗，既然老闆可以讓員工先走you go first， 員工must be after you, 也就說老闆象家長一樣， 員工像孩子。
再説，老闆（男） should be after ladies. Usually, we can say lady first! What about Boss first? Crazy? or polite? or hypocritical?
I think "you go first" is quite common and not offensive. Especially when you are in line, but want someone behind you to go before you.
Yes I am talking English here. Maybe u can say, "you can go first" which implies there is a choice. Again it's really common in North America
@mei5385 : 這位網友, 你應該寫 we have an English dialog here, 唔應該寫 we are talking English here, 因為你寫的正正是 Chinese English, 如果被個鬼人睇到, 真係會一頭霧水.
This is spoken English! Lol. Clearly you don't live in North America. I meant we are talking (about) English here.
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Yes it's common in North America. People do say "you go first" .
It’s quite common in Sydney as well. Nothing wrong with saying “you go first pls” 😊
有啊，有一次我同個VP 在公司一位lift，我話you go first, she said I won’t say this to ….. I was embarrassed and didn’t know what I did wrong. 😢thank you for uncovering this mystery.
有呀！本來好心叫人地小心d。講完be careful 之後，對方差d反面😅
我響美國生活幾十年，日日都聽到有人講you go first. 學校老師問do you understand? 每日分分鐘過百次.....😂
Same in the UK 😂
😊 Melody 。。。我真係好钟意你丫 又靚女！ 😊我好钟意睇你的片 可以學到精緻啲英語會話😊
Wow! Wonderful English lesson! I am amazed. As a Hongkonger living in USA for more than 30 years, you have just pointed out some of the most common mistakes. Keep up your Great Work!
Wow that's nice, what a good life over there. Keep it up
Melody 真係好好，人靚声甜，教学又有用心又有趣。我每日看看確実幫到手，尤其今集。我成日you go first 人地，仲以為自己好客氣。😅
多謝你呀🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻
I live in the uk so I can say her English is very mediocre and indifferent
点解可以lady first ？吾可以you go first 呢，甘我可否改为you first甘样可行吗？谢谢
You go first is Command Mood. e.g. Melody work faster! 'work' here is imperative verb, no 's'. You first is verbal informal, can't stand alone to act as complete sentence, but is common in response to question. Who will go first? You replied, "you (go) first"
正正唔知點講英文可以更有禮貌但又唔會太formal到好奇怪🙇🏻♀️希望可以拍多啲日常生活用語同small talk系列分享🙇🏻♀️🙇🏻♀️
This is the first time I come across this channel.
Pretty well presented. Thanks.
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( 1 ) Another very common use of “seated” is : “Please remain seated” ( which of course does not have the same meaning as “Please sit down” or “Please be seated” ).
I think it is uncommon to say “Please sit down”, even in Chinese ( except perhaps from a teacher to a class of students ).
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( 2 ) Another form is “Hang on”, or “Hang on, let me think”.
“Hold your horses” probably gives an impression that the person you speak to is rushing out lots of viewpoints.
“I’ll be with you shortly” is only suitable if I have many other people to serve, I believe.
For example, the receptionist at the counter of a hotel.
Maybe not be suitable for a subordinate to say to his / her boss.
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( 3 ) “I see” should be the most common.
“Got you” is good too.
“Appreciated” is brief and exact.
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( 4 ) I absolutely hate it when someone said “Do you understand”, “Do you understand what I mean”, even in Chinese.
Or even worse, “If you don’t understand what I mean, forget it” ( which actually happened, believe it or not ).
“Did I make myself clear” is more commonly from boss to subordinate.
I think “if you need any clarification on any point, please don’t hesitate to do that” is quite appropriate and polite, though slightly lengthy.
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( 5 ) “Go ahead” is also more like from boss to subordinate.
“After you” should be appropriate to say to people who you know well, or people who you do not know at all.
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Thanks for the detailed supplement!
Thanks for liking my comments.
Thanks also for your reply, which is exactly what I hope to receive ( just kidding 🙃 )
So far I have watched a few more of your videos, and there are many of what you teach which I did not know before.
Just one quick example, when I learned letter writing ( which was ages ago, and I was also taught by a British gentleman, but in secondary school, not in primary school, I only started to learn English in Primary 3 / 4 ), I think I was taught that “Yours sincerely” is for business, and “Yours faithfully” is for friends.
Anyway, to cut it short, normally I am too lazy to subscribe any channel ( I seldom post any comment anyway ), and too lazy to give “likes”.
But I think I will subscribe your channel, and give you some “likes”.
Thanks for posting all your videos.
Keep up with the good ‘work’.
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In 2 I will say bear with me. Many Londoners say this
"Bear with me" or "Please bear with me" of course is also a good one. Thanks.@@timothyyip2432
OMG. The first time I come across? It is incorrect. Should be "the first time I came across" 😔😔😔
請問如果職場上，我手頭上做緊一樣野，有人叫我做另一樣..我就咁講’Later’係咪唔好？我應該點回應佢好啲？謝謝
你可以話： 我吊柒呀！
Nonsense, no one feel offended, seat is like a dog to sit.
有一個問題，唔關英文問題，睇住你令我一點兒分❤，並不太集中，一直注視你的眼睛及口腔發音，一對大大的眼睛👁️👁️ ❤😊
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10:15 go ahead不也是命令嗎？禮讓陌生路人也要講after you嗎？
Extremely grateful to receive your reinforcement. Could I use be my guest to replace you go first? In God's name, I have used you go first constantly in England. Fortunately, they know that English is my not first language.
Miss Melody ,很實用、我每次有新嘅嘢都聴⋯⋯Thank you so much 😊
Great information and interesting video. As a HongKonger living in the US, this is spot on! Well done. 👍🏻
Thanks!!
Thank you very much. I did often use the quotes you mentioned in this lesson like "pl go first", "Do you understand?"
突然跳出Melody 学习英文的视频，看了之后订阅了 谢谢你的分享教导😊
很實用的英語，感謝分享！😊
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If you move further away from the camera, your face would look prettier and your hand gestures would be visible.
very good, all agreed except "you go first", not fully agree with what you say
好實用，好生動，謝謝，之後可否教一些如何有禮物地告訴別人做錯事
多謝建議！之後可以分享👍🏻👍🏻
有啊！有個同事上鬼婆個英文班，講到一個環節 -- 個同事同鬼婆講 why don't you go home ?
嬲到鬼婆發火閙佢。好在大家都係成年人，知佢唔明深層啲嘅意思至無搞到大件事。
Honestly, nothing wrong with saying you go first. We say that all the time in Canada, even with my managers.
Thanks MeIody老師, 真是獲益良多！妳以上所講嘅中文直譯英文的錯點, 我全部都中曬啦！現在明白好多了！
都係香港人嘅弊病 Sit ant Seat, Short i and Long i 嘅發音 明明啲生字係好簡單嘅 就係因為香港人講嘢慣咗帶懶音 個Seat字無端端變得好陌生 好少用到😔
仲有 我平時見到Melody Tam嘅Channel都會略過嘅 但係今次點解我竟然會睇嗮呢條片 我係咪撞邪？🤔
每開設一個平台，無論你做得多好或差劣，總有正負兩邊評論，好的就是給予主持者的讚賞與鼓勵，反之就是激發主持者進取與磨練，無論怎樣都是個人（包括外國人）觀點與角度不同，以平常心看待就是你最佳的回報。
睿智悟出真理
😊太受用了，同時學英語跟粵語🎉
很開心幫到你～
謝謝妳，使我學習更多的知識，妳真是一位好老師。
你好，7:55，同意！我覺得解釋完之後問人《Do you understand?》好似教小童，好似當對方係小童唔識諗
As long as the English comm understands by both side, it is good English. Thinking too much before saying it, then no good.
They love to please their masters while they get abused every day
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Good content! The scenes are very interactive!🤩
Thank you 🫶🏻
非常實用；有趣的教學課程，謝謝老師的分享 ❤❤❤
感謝收看～
@@MelodyTam 我在日常生活中是使用德文/瑞士德語，很高興能認識老師的實用英語教學頻道，另外，已經第一時間將老師的視頻推介給我的女兒Janet, 她從未接受過正式的中文教學，期待她能夠跟著老師學好實用的-港式地道廣東話🤗
换言之，粤语真的系好唔礼貌的语言？Tam你好靓女喔。。其实我翻墙到英文世界西人quora辩论沟通，碰到华人中国人英文回应西人观点最大的问题就是太有礼貌，好似太卑微。。其实大可不必。。。例如系电梯口见到上司，想表达粤语里边你行先的意思。。西人电影里边他们用语不会搞到自己好卑微冇晒自尊的，见到他们用after you. 去表达。。所以我觉得应该说微笑着说after you, 更隐晦的可以假装绑鞋带，再随其进电梯，根本不用跟对方讲任何话。。其实西人电影里边已经有好多样板语可以借用。但为什么中国人总是找最卑微最友好的用语去学？其实没必要。。just a moment 没什么大问题可以用。。pls take a seat. 是西人常用，跟pls sit down 会更有礼貌 不过依然是在叫人做什么。。其实应该是先不用说，等对方自动坐下，对方不自己主动坐下，就表示对自己尊重敬畏或不想坐下，对前者讲，pls take a seat, 对后者讲would you mind to take a seat?
想表达知道了，西人有各种用语来表达自己的忠诚度，表达各种感情的用语，gotit只不过说其中一种最卑微的用语。。。彼此地位接近的人不会用gotit的。。I have no doubt in it. 其实比较平等。。
要表达我说得够清楚吗的意思。。西人一般在矛盾尖锐时挑衅式这样问对方。。日常场合一般不用这样问，只需要最后加一句讲，对下属用any problem? 或any question? 对上司,永远不要这样挑衅式问。。。不需要
老師教得好好，扮演角色也好可愛耶🌷🥳😙
謝謝🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻
希望你可以拍多啲說話教學🙏🙏🙏🙏
好呀👍🏻👍🏻
想學spoken English, 選個native speaker比較好.
中文簡單解釋：
請問您有什麼事嗎？
你要ㄘㄨㄥˋ三小
@RayPeng-qp2co : 如果你想問現在情況如何, 又或者你想問有沒有事情發生, 你可以用 What’s up （what is up) 去查問, 這些口頭用語通常用在 office, 上司問下屬喜歡用的字眼, 我從來未聽過下屬對上司用此種字眼查問.
Come on girl! 'You first' is a way extensively used everyday and equally fine as 'After you'! 😨
我相信專業人士的。
謝謝老師你的用心教導！
I am American. After listening to your English teaching, whatever you are trying to teach in regard to the use of English phrases, you are not exactly correct. I give you “A” for effort.
'Go ahead' is more common...I never heard people say 'after you' in Canada... or simply 'please...' with a hand gesture..
Hope there is no music in the background. J😮ust want to listen and learn English from you, not the music. Thanks.🎉❤
Thanks for the comment! Is the background music too loud?
@@MelodyTamA bit. Can't concentrate on listening to your program. ❤
You go first我还真是经常用，日常生活中西人也这样说呀，好像没有冒犯的意思吧。或许在职场不一样？go ahead好像会更不礼貌吧，我不会对长辈这样说。
Thank you for the tip！It's an appropriate time to upscale the video quality to 1080p.😄
點解會咁靚女，加油。好有用處。
講任何語言都不是衹講用詞，而是講語氣。試想中文的早抖，可以是叫人早些休息，但語氣重咗就是叫人去死，😂
Just say “Does it make sense?” make sure that other people understand what we’re talking about.
Melody戴細框眼鏡好好看！！
I found your channel boring and kind of misleading !
想叫對方吔屎，比較禮貌的說法是不是 have some shits please?
6:53 如果講 I copy that 又可唔可以😂
我係美國生活 一直都係用you go first 鬼佬都係咁講 冇人覺得唔禮貌
如果有這種沒有情緒價值的老闆是不是離職也好😊 不然工作就像是為了錢而已 （歪樓
如果你對100個老闆說 You go first! 大該只有一個會像她說的那樣不高興。 你大概也不要給這種老板做事。 沒錯 她說的是比較客氣有禮貌的說法 值得學習。但如果你說You go first 其實沒像他說的這麼糟糕。 尤其對ㄧ個 ESL 的人來說。 在以前的視頻內也有不少類似的情況。
其實睇多啲外國的電視係有幫助。
聽多啲講多啲一定會有進步👍🏻👍🏻
好實用🎉
All good. I appreciate her good Cantonese too, especially for her age.
Ho jeng! 好有用thx Melody🫶🏼
多謝收睇就真～
又靚女又有才
今天这节课都是很正统的英语；以前我与洋人在同个单位工作，都是这么说的；请注意，不能用中文直译翻译。
一直有睇你影片，非常有用，可以拍一些日常情景生活片嗎？
如果，我上次想打電話去book位，想問可以帶蛋糕🎂去餐廳ok嗎？及要收費嗎？英文怎樣說🙏
好好嘅提議！遲啲會做相關影片👍🏻👍🏻
Is it appropriate to bring outside food such as a cake? Would there be any additional charges?
Two cent. So if someone responses with I KNOW. Then it would be a good indicator to read the room. What would be your best response for such situation?
請問叫人等可否用would you please wait for a moment?
喺美國冇人會理啲乜嘢hierarchies 所以boss 唔boss冇關係。我估呢段片係用英國文化角度去教。其實美國人會成日對不同嘅人講”Go ahead” 係有禮貌讓人行先嘅friendly表演。當然，”You go first”就真係少見啲。
这手机是不是监听我说话啊？刚跟老板说了you go first.就推荐这个视频给我了😂
但英國人唔覺得有問題喎 😂
美國人也唔覺得有問題
I would say: After you. Age before beauty.
其實”I know” 不是你所形容的不禮貌。in some occasions like “it has been raining for a week”, you can say “I know” which means “tell me about it” or to agree with what the person just said. “I know” is extremely common in the daily conversation.
點解要比老闆行先？😮
Have a seat please/ hold on a sec/ got it/ it’s that clear或者any questions?/ after you
我會用呢啲字😂可能因為我係上司😂
你扮boss & staff 好正 😊，thank you!
多謝支持🫶🏻🫶🏻