Dealing with Anxiety | My Best Advice if You're Nervous // VLOG

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  • Опубликовано: 18 янв 2025

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  • @RyanSerhant
    @RyanSerhant  2 года назад +20

    What gets YOU nervous?

    • @TheRobertCostello
      @TheRobertCostello 2 года назад +2

      Same. Talking to people. Not nervous like you said, like they'll laugh at you, Just being unprepared and they ask you a question that you know the answer to , but since you're on the spot you forget everything

    • @stevemanninghomeinsight60
      @stevemanninghomeinsight60 2 года назад +3

      Honestly? Meeting you would. Why? Because we feel like we know you through the vlogs and stuff so maybe we feel like friends but of course we're not and you are like an iconic mentor/super-hero to so many of us. BME helped me do a personal best year so I would calm nerves just by feeling gratitude for you.

    • @LoveiswhatIwant
      @LoveiswhatIwant 2 года назад

      Approaching someone with my design business ideas is what I fear. I failed financially with my design business during the 2008 economic downturn. I lost everything. There was nothing I could prepare for because my business was still in first few years. In other words I never want to fail again if other people don’t have the money to invest in interiors, landscapes, events, etc.

    • @jennifernelson6187
      @jennifernelson6187 2 года назад

      Success

    • @letty88
      @letty88 2 года назад

      Cute guys. Lol jk.

  • @cgfitnessandarboriculture
    @cgfitnessandarboriculture 2 года назад +87

    In my business I will regularly pre plan conversations with clients, write things down, etc. so that when it’s time to perform I’ve got all my thoughts gathered and am able to communicate more smoothly and professionally without having to think about it too much. Definitely helps to make things less anxious. Also hitting the gym at 4am before starting the day to get the mindset right!

    • @RyanSerhant
      @RyanSerhant  2 года назад +14

      Preparation at its finest! Rise and grind everyday!

  • @catholiccory
    @catholiccory Год назад +4

    Hey Ryan, I have been watching alot of your vlogs this past week and bro... you have motivated me so much to the point that I want to become the worlds best real estate agent! I moved from NYC to AZ a couple of months ago and I regret it ( got out of a toxic relationship so I went back home with family) I should of stayed in NYC and pursued my goals. If you are seeing this, I want to let you know you have sparked a fire inside of me man and who knows, we might be working in the future together!

  • @marianmott4902
    @marianmott4902 2 года назад +3

    You inspire me even though I am a 67 yr old wife, mother & grandmother & retired!!! Amazing Ryan and Thank you .. from Australia..

  • @abrenenemamar
    @abrenenemamar 2 года назад +6

    It's incomprehensible to me how one person can have so much energy and do so many things. Kudos to you!

  • @davidbusinelliaia-studio1648
    @davidbusinelliaia-studio1648 2 года назад +4

    You know how I beat anxiety? Prayer and trusting in God. He put the desire to found your own brokerage in your heart, and he gave you the talent, work ethic and love for your family and team to make it happen. Trust in Him and your anxiety will go away.

  • @jerianneroe3611
    @jerianneroe3611 2 года назад +1

    I'm afraid of burn out. I am primarily a buyer's agent, but I finally reached the top 10 in my office!

  • @goldengirl54
    @goldengirl54 2 года назад +14

    Used to freeze up. I joined a band, and it made a huge difference in me. Thank you Ryan! 💚

  • @taavidre
    @taavidre 2 года назад +1

    I like that you have a theme and it runs throught the Vlog. Makes it interesting even if it happens through different days.

  • @Iammram
    @Iammram 2 года назад +1

    Cold Showers = Wim Hof = Destroys your anxiety, full stop.

  • @josefon96
    @josefon96 2 года назад +1

    Serhant team - suggesting an idea;
    How about doing a vBlog summarizing Ryan’s whole week? You lead the way in terms of shape and form, although I would see original to feel the planning, executing and the up&downs throughout the week!
    Thank you as always for your amazing content!

  • @letty88
    @letty88 2 года назад +1

    What I got from this was you can ONLY rely on YOURSELF to pursue and perhaps conquer your own goals and dreams.

  • @nico65400
    @nico65400 2 года назад +1

    I‘m a real estate student from Germany and I‘m going to visit NYC in 2 weeks. It would be amazing to meet you!

  • @Robert-ht5kd
    @Robert-ht5kd 2 года назад +2

    Congrats on the first aniversary of your company, Ryan. I thought that your company would fail because a lot of people leave NYC.

  • @listed
    @listed 2 года назад +3

    Great Advice 💪

  • @travelone753
    @travelone753 2 года назад +1

    Family first and taking care of YOU so YOU can be the best YOU. I see that you care so much about helping and being there for others. People need people and it's very refreshing to see a person admit they are human just like everyone else and it's OKAY...thanks Ryan and may you and your family have the best year ever!

  • @NathalieLazo
    @NathalieLazo 2 года назад +31

    Remarkable person reading this.. It’s going to get better; all it is a season of opportunity to grow and be better than before. Challenging times are meant to strengthen us, not to break us. Success doesn’t define to what happened to us; it is how we choose to deal with our circumstances. The more you grow and develop as an incredible person as you are, the more things will change for the better. Forgive more (for you), be grateful for even the smallest things (we have it way better than someone else), choose love over ego, choose humility over ego (humility is strength), and finally, invest into new skills so that your future self will thank you. Our lives will change forever the more we grow. Be thankful for the challenges for we know something greater is coming. Love you always - Nathalie ✨❤️

  • @ulivision
    @ulivision 2 года назад +1

    I missed these types of videos. Thanks Ryan

  • @phumzileqwaqwa7392
    @phumzileqwaqwa7392 2 года назад

    Almost certain I am not the only who checked my phone when that alarm beeped at 04:55. Inspiring video as always!

  • @JeffAnozie
    @JeffAnozie 2 года назад +5

    Always a fan!
    Good work Ryan.

  • @TimKidwellOutdoors
    @TimKidwellOutdoors 2 года назад

    Vlogs are definitely my favorite 🤙🏼

  • @devgrohl
    @devgrohl 2 года назад

    thanks for being honest abt how u feel.... really appreciate tht

  • @pl3xyofficial
    @pl3xyofficial 2 года назад +2

    I think that what makes me nervous is the idea of starting something new and spend all my efforts trying to make something succeed just to fail in the end. But throughout these past few years I've learned to be patient and to trust the process because in the end everything is going to be just fine if I'm persistent.

  • @springlake9228
    @springlake9228 2 года назад

    Great! You’re the best! Your family knows that you feel that way despite the million other things that need your attention. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @JohnM...
    @JohnM... 2 года назад +1

    Last November, I was meant, as a student teacher, to give my first few high school math lessons....and I CHOKED 😩

    • @RyanSerhant
      @RyanSerhant  2 года назад +3

      Prepare and take another swing at it! You got this. Life isn't baseball, you can take more than 3 swings!

  • @privat6558
    @privat6558 2 года назад +4

    I'm nervous that rising interest rates will substantially bring down the property market. How would you deal with that?

  • @stevemanninghomeinsight60
    @stevemanninghomeinsight60 2 года назад +2

    Having spent years and years in rock bands I just see nerves as a form of adrenaline and it shows you care about the result! With real estate, anxiety shows me I'm stretching and growing and I want it to go all smoothly for my clients! You must find your acting career gives you on camera and performing confidence that many of us haven't experienced though? I always thought a night of doing stand-up should be mandatory for agents. Thanks S.

  • @MeetRich2002
    @MeetRich2002 2 года назад

    Sign up to our club, no one is nervous, everyone is confident!!!

  • @goaldineyelife6291
    @goaldineyelife6291 Год назад

    Mr Serhant with the Midas touch

  • @jessilynnstar
    @jessilynnstar 2 года назад

    My problem is feeling unprepared along with nerves. I feel your points for preparedness will help me out quite a bit. Thank you so much

  • @bryandennis8256
    @bryandennis8256 2 года назад

    Best content in the industry !!!!

  • @sonialegault8673
    @sonialegault8673 2 года назад +1

    I am retired and 70 but I really enjoyed this and actually felt some excitement. Looking forward to more.

  • @yoshiinasuit8160
    @yoshiinasuit8160 2 года назад +6

    I’m 20 and I have a feeling that I might have anxiety,I been trying to pass my real estate exam(failed 3 times,retaking 2 courses)I been nervous since I don’t know if I’ll pass this exam,But I’m not going to give up.Thanks for the upload Ryan this has given me motivation to deal with this issue

    • @jway202
      @jway202 2 года назад +1

      Don’t give up i turn 20 Thursday and it took me 6 attempts total and it was worth it. Keep grinding 💪😤

    • @shivenyadav7073
      @shivenyadav7073 2 года назад +1

      Relax, persistence knows no such thing as failure

    • @timekr
      @timekr 2 года назад

      im just starting my course and im nervous about failing my test because I usually fail every test of importance, but im just not going to think about that right now

    • @yoshiinasuit8160
      @yoshiinasuit8160 2 года назад +1

      @@jway202 I pass last Friday!!!

    • @jway202
      @jway202 2 года назад

      @@yoshiinasuit8160 congrats, I’ve done 5 deals and got 2 new listings coming up. Congratulations

  • @natashapang335
    @natashapang335 2 года назад +1

    Thank you so much for your video

  • @zoelcaron7930
    @zoelcaron7930 9 месяцев назад

    Great content Ryan

  • @kennethbrock8748
    @kennethbrock8748 2 года назад

    Thank you ryan for educating all of us.

  • @jacobepstein4009
    @jacobepstein4009 2 года назад +1

    Hey ryan one of the main reasons why I got my license Is because of you. I passed my exam 2nd time since October time I've rented in my company I work for in nyc like 7 apartments in like 5 months. I realized sometimes slow and steady wins the race. Eventually to become a broker down the road im ready to do whatever it takes take that next step.

    • @evanhvance
      @evanhvance 2 года назад

      Slow and steady absolutely wins the race. I agree big time

  • @MarkS-cd3cw
    @MarkS-cd3cw 2 года назад

    The last 30 seconds of this video is perfect!

  • @V.S.M.OChannel
    @V.S.M.OChannel 2 года назад

    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 can't stop laughing at your grocery scene! Hahahahaha! Bruh laughing is so hurt makes me cry hahahaha

  • @da4441
    @da4441 2 года назад +1

    Was Ryan wearing a weird blazer/hoodie at his keynote speech???

  • @awesomeadamfrom2099
    @awesomeadamfrom2099 2 года назад +1

    Awesome job Ryan

  • @Stjepan97
    @Stjepan97 2 года назад +1

    I wish I had so much energy, wouldn't even be able to pretend for 10 mins.

  • @NoblesseGlint
    @NoblesseGlint 2 года назад

    WE NEED MORE VLOGS !!!!!!!!!!

  • @vildanb8038
    @vildanb8038 2 года назад +2

    That's info is wow !!!

  • @joshmercervj
    @joshmercervj 2 года назад

    I’m from Australia and I just recently took a job as video journalist in a small town straight out of university. I’ve only been in the job for over a month and feel like I’m struggling. My anxiety is through the roof when I feel like I don’t have any stories to pitch. I’m worried I’ve made a mistake, but my family and girlfriend think that big things are going to come from it.

  • @nikamri8976
    @nikamri8976 2 года назад

    Always a fan, man ! Real estate agent in Malaysia here trying to follow your footsteps, thanks for all the inspiration Ryan!

  • @susanritzmann7694
    @susanritzmann7694 2 года назад

    Great Vlog Ryan😊
    You have such a Confidence Ryan. Keep it up😉

  • @dr.paulrealini1252
    @dr.paulrealini1252 2 года назад

    Excellent perspective Ryan. The key is knowing what you want your captive audience (could be one person or 2000 people) to hear and take away from what you are saying. If you prepare, practice communicating the details in a genuine manner you have nothing to be scared of. Don't say failure because failure is simply a building block of success. If you are passionate and knowledgeable about your message, you will succeed!

  • @brianm3160
    @brianm3160 2 года назад

    I think "Perfect practice makes perfect" is a much better variation

  • @hyperspacehub0115
    @hyperspacehub0115 Год назад

    Overanalyzing every pre, current, & post-decision I make (body language, verbal communication, action-taking, etc.) because real estate is an industry where you have to care what people think about you. Anxiety about move making is inevitable

  • @patriciavasquez9295
    @patriciavasquez9295 2 года назад

    That’s true, in this business you can’t trust anyone but yourself 👌🏼

  • @RichardRatner.1972
    @RichardRatner.1972 2 года назад

    Always refreshing! Kindest regards, Richard U.K

  • @saadmalik6039
    @saadmalik6039 2 года назад

    you are the man Ryan
    Respect

  • @paulbird1808
    @paulbird1808 2 года назад

    Good vlog Ryan!

  • @JaxAndree
    @JaxAndree 2 года назад +3

    Reinterpreting anxiety as excitement/energy can work well. The feelings are so similar.

  • @fassbenderf716
    @fassbenderf716 2 года назад

    Ryan, I love you.😍😍😍😍😍🥰😍😍

  • @BolitaDeKetica
    @BolitaDeKetica 2 года назад +1

    WHAT MAKES ME NERVOUS?! crippling depression...

  • @rromancunard
    @rromancunard 2 года назад +1

    In the middle of this I was thinking in the Lynnwood Hall, someone know if this house is currently in sale or was sold?

  • @QUEENDAGGER
    @QUEENDAGGER 2 года назад

    Some protein powders add a lot of cholesterol. Have you looked at that in the Ingredients? Thank you for coming to San Antonio. ❤️

  • @ezisbertakachiungo7043
    @ezisbertakachiungo7043 2 года назад +1

    I must say it was the first time I saw wrinkles on Ryan's Face.

  • @snowwhite-jt9cj
    @snowwhite-jt9cj 2 года назад

    ⭐️Every interesting and educational so nice has the real life detailed.✨
    Thanks for giving positive advice 💖

  • @tiffanycurtis4794
    @tiffanycurtis4794 2 года назад

    THIS MAN INSPIRES SO MANY 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤️👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @jfrproductions95
    @jfrproductions95 2 года назад

    Missed these types of vlogs

  • @amaandehlvi
    @amaandehlvi 2 года назад

    The audience count of Ryan gone from 1000, 1200, 1300

  • @TheMantasV
    @TheMantasV Год назад

    I like your winter jacket where did you get it ??? Ryan

  • @soniadubey4773
    @soniadubey4773 2 года назад

    Love the post, Ryan! ❤️Thank you

  • @chrisb2424
    @chrisb2424 2 года назад

    Loved the Video Ryan your content is always great!! I’m also learning to do real estate myself

  • @traceybartee1285
    @traceybartee1285 2 года назад

    I sale vehicle's @ Chevrolet dealerships I go thur this every month sometimes I wont give up.

  • @JasonVaughn
    @JasonVaughn 2 года назад

    The Uber Eats free ad though.

  • @CabanCondosMexico
    @CabanCondosMexico 2 года назад

    Thanks for sharing

  • @karolgarley
    @karolgarley 2 года назад

    The greatest real estate company ever...
    Will you eventually list properly on Mars? 🤷‍♀️
    ...jkjk... Have A Wonderful Week!!! 🙂💕

  • @silviaalexandrecordeiro8400
    @silviaalexandrecordeiro8400 2 года назад

    ⭐️🌎🌍🌏🌹🎵🎼🎶🥁🎸🎤🎻🎹🎺🎷Um dia de música sem 💯 guerras. 🎵🎼🎶🥁🎸🎤🎻🎹🎺🎷🌹🌎🌍🌏⭐️

  • @repurposeyou
    @repurposeyou 2 года назад

    What keynote was that in Texas?

  • @navreetsingh4987
    @navreetsingh4987 2 года назад +1

    ryan when will you show new york apartments not town houses
    waiting for them
    specially on the billionaires row

  • @mattcheneyrealtor
    @mattcheneyrealtor 2 года назад

    🙌🏼

  • @BonnerEnsina
    @BonnerEnsina 2 года назад +1

    I needed this, you're the best

  • @gabec9529
    @gabec9529 2 года назад +1

    Ryan I have to know what is that strap on the back of your phone?!?! Pls tell me where I can find it 🙏

  • @BeautyWithTiffy
    @BeautyWithTiffy 2 года назад +1

    1100 for rent?! I pay 800 and there's mold, falling stairs, roach infestation, etc... I have $150 for food and medicine and clothes.. Wow - 1100 a month? Ok

  • @jessegabriel364
    @jessegabriel364 2 года назад +1

    Remarkable presentation. My.name is Jesse Gabriel am From Nigeria. Please sir do you have any online classes for realtor's that I can register????

    • @shiboares
      @shiboares 2 года назад

      Check the description

  • @Sullivynn
    @Sullivynn 2 года назад

    one more time Ryan?

  • @faithsudi1165
    @faithsudi1165 2 года назад

    I really love your content

  • @MrTyler8877
    @MrTyler8877 2 года назад

    the biggest thing that makes me nervous currently is making the move. I have a stable job here in Indiana but im over it and want to move on. I got my Florida real estate license about a month ago and am working on selling my house right now. Im mostly worried about making it work in FL kind of in the same scenario you were in when you started. Worried about the money and how much I should save before I move. If I could ask, how much would you recommend me save before moving to St. Pete? Love your videos and all advise you give.

  • @ce5347
    @ce5347 2 года назад

    🥷 @5:35 looks like Ryan is robbing that store 🤣🤣

  • @jameste8125
    @jameste8125 2 года назад

    Gold nuggets for real estate agent.
    Appreciate your video that inspiring me which is a real estate agent at Malaysia 🇲🇾.
    Love this !

  • @vedantsomani3848
    @vedantsomani3848 2 года назад +1

    Hey Ryan really Interested for LA Fin $139 milion mansion ...Too excited 😊

  • @evitamartinez-montenegro3196
    @evitamartinez-montenegro3196 Год назад

    🎉

  • @nreekayimmortal4386
    @nreekayimmortal4386 2 года назад

    I missed the vlog!

  • @razakovakbar
    @razakovakbar 2 года назад

    Let's goooo

  • @_unfeared
    @_unfeared 2 года назад

    does this help with social anxiety

  • @robertcantu1278
    @robertcantu1278 2 года назад

    When are u coming to SA ?? I wanna stop by 😂

  • @terry2588
    @terry2588 2 года назад

    I enjoy you, just not the profanity 👍🏾

  • @DETTMARMagnus
    @DETTMARMagnus 2 года назад +1

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  • @alessandrolatif166
    @alessandrolatif166 Год назад

    S shaped couglings though…

  • @chrisramos2979
    @chrisramos2979 2 года назад

    It's like winning $1 Million off of Scratch ticket $20 one the question I ask is how can i multiply this money I get after taxes instead of buying liabilities how can I invest $650,000 in paper assets to pay for my car 🚗 condo what ever it is .

  • @IsaacMirandaTRO
    @IsaacMirandaTRO 2 года назад

    SO-LID Ryan

  • @PaulSyng
    @PaulSyng 2 года назад

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  • @williebanga4283
    @williebanga4283 2 года назад

    Aren’t your wife and children becoming older and older and time is passing by at each precious moment? But it seems in these years you are prioritizing family around work and not work around family

  • @ThebeautylinerBlogspot
    @ThebeautylinerBlogspot 2 года назад

    so early

  • @WSB32867
    @WSB32867 2 года назад

    Ryan stop being nervous you can do anything just please don't run for president because nine out of 10 I know you're a Republican and I won't vote for you as always no disrespect intended New York City 💜💚❤🖤💛💙

  • @ausBOyDe
    @ausBOyDe 2 года назад

    Don't you get tired?