To add to the long drive. Also, remember that men are sensitive and not always verbal. So consider maybe he wants to take the longer way to spend more quality time with you. Put your phone down hold his hand and show him that you are engaged. Open up the space for him to feel safe to be vulnerable.
I told him " As my possible King, I command you to honor my feelings as your possible future Queen." He loved it. Thank you Mat. You are so perceptive and it really comes through in your videos. 😂♥️
Mat Shaffer FIRST I KNOW I CAN FEED CLOTHE AND PROVIDE SHELTER, FOR MYSELF THIS QUEEN HAS HER OWN WEALTH, IF I HAVE TO I WILL DO WITHOUT, A MAN, I DON'T NEED ONE I WANT ONE THERE IS A DIFFERENCE, I HAVE THE TABLE WHAT ARE YOU BRINGING TO IT, I'M ALREADY ESTABLISHED, I KNOW MY GOODS ARE GOOD, I NEED A KING TO COVER ME,AND PROTECT ME, WE TEACH ONE ANOTHER, TO GROW OLD WITH AND FOR HIM TO EMBRACE MY UNIQUENESS, I AM WORTHY OF LOVE AND RESPECT ,I AM ENOUGH. DIAMONDS DON'T CRAWL TOO CROWN, I HAVE MY OWN THRONE TO SIT ON.I CLAIM ALL THE GOODNESS OF THIS INFORMATION BY DIVINE RIGHT AND SO IT IS .
4 Keys to Be the Queen that Inspires a King: 1) Know your value and embody it in your life 2) Practice sound judgement regularly 3) Stand unconditionally and lovingly for men you are in relationship with 4) Joyfully "hold court" with friends and family outside of the relationship Mat, thanks for making these videos and asking people to be their best self.🏆
So right! 😊 Been dating unavailable or toxic man. Improved myself, love myself, I feel a queen... Now men I am dating are nice and sweet... not my type at all but so woossies 🥴 They do not stepup or really pursue 🙄 Telling me how they like me how beautiful I am, bla bla bla... But they do not move as if they are so intimidated, though I am showing up as bright, light, happy soft... But nada 🤷🏼♀️ I want a strong man 😄 Getting there I guess... going from one side of the spectrum tobthe other. Now need to find the middle ☺️
Mat...I absolutely love your videos!!! Through you I have not only learned to appreciate what God has given me as a gift, but to also realize not to settle. Thank you for your Gift...and you now have a new fan! Many Blessings 😘
Mat great video again. It was brought to my attention that I don't know when I am getting hit on. I just figured out who I am and what I out of life. I learned to love myself. How do I know if the person that is hitting on me is toxic or a good person? I'm use to attracting toxic people.
do lots of inner work and build up your "discernment muscle" - often we attract toxic people when we have unresolved trauma that's showing up in our relationships :)
@@Mat_Shaffer thank you. That makes sense. When I find my mind traveling back into my past mindset, I find myself attracting negative people. I bring myself back, more positive people.
I have an idea 💡 how about you make a video for guys "How to be a King for your Queen" many guys need to hear on how to treat your lady right ✅ 😉 enough with wearing Peter Pan pants 👖 😊
ok choose to be responsive instead of being reactive 👍Some women are reactor 😊. But some men are avoidant🤗. Which ruin the relationship. - Good communication is very important. Me if I am silent , thats dangerous bec I learn to tolerate and when I tolerate care is decreasing.
My current person communicates what they want/need. But actions say otherwise. My person suffers from anxiety disorder. He never sets dates in advance and can’t keep promises to meet up. How can I communicate that broken promises and not setting dates in advance isn’t going to work for me?
Find a quiet and comfortable time to have an open and honest conversation with your partner. Let him know that you want to talk about his fears and insecurities in a supportive and understanding manner. Thanks for sharing!
Does the longest drive include booking flights over there he wants me to meet you because he has noticed a difference in me when i listen to your videos. He knows my weaknesses to alot of things
Matt...obviously I'm older than you (45) but dang...where were you 10 15 years ago when I so needed all this great info then. O had such players in my life..ugh. I'm still learning through you which is wonderful. You nailed it in this video for sure!! Great info!
Coach Mat Amazing Extradionary Videos Advices You Provide And Give us Ladies is so Tremendously Learning Applying in our Lives For Our Relashionship...! Love it Coachy Mat way To Go You Rock...!!!
What an EXCELLENT. Video!! I really appreciate all the work you spent crafting this information laden and insightful presentation.I actually had to get out my journal to take notes.😆 You are helping so many people through this channel, including myself, and I thank you so much for it. I hope youre having a great Holidays!👏🏽🙋🏽♀️
We girls are extrodinarily special,but as a Queen we have many duties to our King. He needs to know your strength and his capabilities within the relationship. We must never undermine his efforts but must encourage his willingness to "grant us wishes". Treating him as the "monarch" of your relationship could be the ultimate pinnacle of success. Wow,supreme roll play my lord.
So if I heard you correctly earlier in the video, if you turn into a queen for your husband he will turn into a king for you? I’m asking because my husband and I since December have been Planning our divorce for the last month or two and then we finally went to counseling together and decided to take steps to save our marriage.
OMG for me its hard to find a king i just broke up because of maybe we are Ldr and he had another Relationship hehe How i wish i can find a truly honest and he make me a queen and i feel he is my truly king.thank you sir mat what a nice topic again😊❤👍
Thank you so much for the deep thoughts because you made this Queen realize how I responded to triggers that made him afraid of talking to me. Love your video😊
I've been seeing this man. And I'm not sure where we stand relationship wise. How do I go about asking him? I'm really nervous to cause I don't know the outcome of it.
Excellent advice Matt…. I have a man who’s torn between losing and winning and it’s a challenge to this here Queen to make him SEE himself the way I see him!! It’s hard when he thinks he needs 2 wives not one!!
What happens when you are home and cant leave because you live there and so does he i cant go home haha. He knows how to make me go weak and defuse the situation way to much
Oh heads up some bright spark thought it was good idea to book plane tickets to come see you apparently i am more relaxed and confident and tend to smile and open up more when i watch one of the youtube videos of yours so he has apparently messaged you to arrange a special meet and greet or something so suprise we are heading your way
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To add to the long drive. Also, remember that men are sensitive and not always verbal. So consider maybe he wants to take the longer way to spend more quality time with you. Put your phone down hold his hand and show him that you are engaged. Open up the space for him to feel safe to be vulnerable.
YES so so so important! men tend to be much more experiential and nonverbal when it comes to intimacy :)
HI , IM IN A NEW RELATIONSHIP💜 & IVE BEEN PRACTICING THIS 👍👍,& MEN ARE SO COMPLICATED @ TIMES😧
Mat Shaffer please elaborate on experimental
Mat this is my very favorite video you’ve ever made! I love it thank you SO much 😭😭😭it’s so beautiful 💘💘💘
LOVE THIS FEEDBACK thanks Raquel~!! :)
Ty.😊i got it. Gmorning!
Good morning!
My man has talked about a 1st date and going on a trip to see our house. What does think that means ? I do love him unconditionally.
I’m so happy for you my dear!
Your videos are awesome ( I'm announcing that in a sing-song kind of voice) lol
I love it! Thank youuuuuuuuuu (also said in a sing-song kind of voice)!!
Ty....Time to rest..Gnite
.😴
night!
Gmorning....How are you? Ty.😊
All good
Ty. .😊
You are so welcome Nimfa Bangay! 🙏
Why can’t I just use these on you😂 it doesn’t seem to work on others😂
haha they will work on others! promise!
Thanks for the encouragement
Hope it's not like marrying a doctor. You get no advantage over patients, if anything you get over treated (meaning he views you as being really sick)
Beautiful video! Just got my new
Man to commit after 90 days of
Dating. Your views are so on
Point ❤️
CONGRATS thats amazing!! so glad you enjoyed the vid :)
QUESTION OF THE DAY - What does being a QUEEN mean to you? How can you embody that energy in your love life and out in the world?
I told him " As my possible King, I command you to honor my feelings as your possible future Queen." He loved it.
Thank you Mat. You are so perceptive and it really comes through in your videos. 😂♥️
amazing thanks so much!
Mat Shaffer FIRST I KNOW I CAN FEED CLOTHE AND PROVIDE SHELTER, FOR MYSELF THIS QUEEN HAS HER OWN WEALTH, IF I HAVE TO I WILL DO WITHOUT, A MAN, I DON'T NEED ONE I WANT ONE THERE IS A DIFFERENCE, I HAVE THE TABLE WHAT ARE YOU BRINGING TO IT, I'M ALREADY ESTABLISHED, I KNOW MY GOODS ARE GOOD, I NEED A KING TO COVER ME,AND PROTECT ME, WE TEACH ONE ANOTHER, TO GROW OLD WITH AND FOR HIM TO EMBRACE MY UNIQUENESS, I AM WORTHY OF LOVE AND RESPECT ,I AM ENOUGH. DIAMONDS DON'T CRAWL TOO CROWN, I HAVE MY OWN THRONE TO SIT ON.I CLAIM ALL THE GOODNESS OF THIS INFORMATION BY DIVINE RIGHT AND SO IT IS .
Living my truth in honesty, loyalty, and understanding.
I absolutely love your videos! Great topics, simply explained and right to the point👍🤗👏Thank You Mat
BOOM so so appreciate this feedback!
I 2ND THAT , IM LIVING & LEARNING WITH MAT💜, IM IN A NEW RELATIONSHIP💘/ 5 MONTHS NOW
Yes Indeed I back that..
Amazing.
4 Keys to Be the Queen that Inspires a King:
1) Know your value and embody it in your life
2) Practice sound judgement regularly
3) Stand unconditionally and lovingly for men you are in relationship with
4) Joyfully "hold court" with friends and family outside of the relationship
Mat, thanks for making these videos and asking people to be their best self.🏆
amazing thank you for this summary!! so appreciate it
Most definitely, Mr. Mat!!! I encourage us all to do the necessary work on ourselves to attract our kings.
Absolutely! ❤️❤️❤️
Love this so much! I’m working really hard to be that Queen to attract my King! Thank you!
You got this!
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I love you your videos
I am always to him that he my King
So right! 😊
Been dating unavailable or toxic man.
Improved myself, love myself, I feel a queen...
Now men I am dating are nice and sweet... not my type at all but so woossies 🥴
They do not stepup or really pursue 🙄
Telling me how they like me how beautiful I am, bla bla bla...
But they do not move as if they are so intimidated, though I am showing up as bright, light, happy soft...
But nada 🤷🏼♀️
I want a strong man 😄
Getting there I guess... going from one side of the spectrum tobthe other. Now need to find the middle ☺️
mmhm the middle is where its at!
I feel i am a Queen in my little way.....a simple queen whose King is drawn by God's working. Ty.😊
🤗
Mat...I absolutely love your videos!!! Through you I have not only learned to appreciate what God has given me as a gift, but to also realize not to settle. Thank you for your Gift...and you now have a new fan! Many Blessings 😘
fantastic that makes me so happy!
Amazing video!! Lots of good information 😊 thank you 🙏🏾
yess so glad you enjoyed it! :)
Mat great video again. It was brought to my attention that I don't know when I am getting hit on. I just figured out who I am and what I out of life. I learned to love myself. How do I know if the person that is hitting on me is toxic or a good person? I'm use to attracting toxic people.
do lots of inner work and build up your "discernment muscle" - often we attract toxic people when we have unresolved trauma that's showing up in our relationships :)
@@Mat_Shaffer thank you. That makes sense. When I find my mind traveling back into my past mindset, I find myself attracting negative people. I bring myself back, more positive people.
The actions I saw in you is making me feel like a Queen.....my King. Ty..😊
🤗
I really appreciate this message. I have been coming to realize I need to build my self worth.
huge realization!!!
Mat this is golden! 👌 💍
YASSS so glad you liked it!!
Matt thank you so much🙏!! Iam so happy with this video!! I’ll surely have my King !!
Awww wonderful so happy to hear that! :)
I have an idea 💡 how about you make a video for guys "How to be a King for your Queen" many guys need to hear on how to treat your lady right ✅ 😉 enough with wearing Peter Pan pants 👖 😊
Thanks for sharing!
ok choose to be responsive instead of being reactive 👍Some women are reactor 😊.
But some men are avoidant🤗. Which ruin the relationship. - Good communication is very important.
Me if I am silent , thats dangerous bec I learn to tolerate and when I tolerate care is decreasing.
Thanks for the beautiful share Be Enthusiastic Be Inspired 🙏
Powerful advice! Thank you😇
You're so welcome!
My current person communicates what they want/need. But actions say otherwise. My person suffers from anxiety disorder. He never sets dates in advance and can’t keep promises to meet up. How can I communicate that broken promises and not setting dates in advance isn’t going to work for me?
check out my boundary videos! You want to make a positive invitation for a different pattern of behavior :)
I absolutely love your facial hair style...looks great!
Thank you so much
Wow! This is great thank you 😊 🌹#Queen 👑
BOOM yes you are ! :)
There is pain. Because the feeling is true....ty.😊
😁
This video is exactly what i needed to bring clarity to what is going on in my life. Thank you so much! You're so amazing
Glad it was helpful!
I really enjoyed this. Thank you.
Glad you enjoyed it!
He said that he is afraid that he gets something good it's going to go away how do I tell him I'm not going anywhere?
Find a quiet and comfortable time to have an open and honest conversation with your partner. Let him know that you want to talk about his fears and insecurities in a supportive and understanding manner. Thanks for sharing!
Does the longest drive include booking flights over there he wants me to meet you because he has noticed a difference in me when i listen to your videos. He knows my weaknesses to alot of things
haha thats sweet!
After 2 of them I fienly fawned my man n my love n life
congrats!!
🙂🙂 your videos are really helping me a lot.. and also opening my eyes to appreciate my man .. and i realized that i have great amazing one😊😊
Thanks so much my dear!
Amazing video
Thanks!! 👍🤗
Glad you liked it!
Wow! Amazing trainings!!! Always in depth! Thank you!
Love your vdos Matt. Very insightful. 👍
thanks so much!
I felt that in our last meeting on your bday. I was flattered Ty...gmorning. 😘
Good morning!
Gam/Gpm....as long as i/you love you/me , the court follows, I think. I dont know....but thank you.😊❤
so welcome! :)
Happy New Year to you, great advice.Thank you.🎆⭐️💜
You are so welcome
Always know your value & add tax 💜
LOVE THIS COMMENT!
Mat Shaffer Thank you for your reply and for all you do to help so many 💜
Matt...obviously I'm older than you (45) but dang...where were you 10 15 years ago when I so needed all this great info then. O had such players in my life..ugh. I'm still learning through you which is wonderful. You nailed it in this video for sure!! Great info!
Thanks so much Karen Hernke! 🙏❤️
SO wonderful. Thank you, Mat!
Glad you enjoyed it!
Have been patient....Ty ♥️😊
Hope you like it!
God will make me a queen ...ty.😊
You are so welcome Nimfa Bangay! 🙏
Definitely 🙌 working on it.
You got this, Tiffany🙏🙌
Ty, my King....😊
🤗
Coach Mat
Amazing Extradionary Videos Advices You Provide And Give us Ladies is so Tremendously Learning Applying in our Lives For Our Relashionship...! Love it Coachy Mat way To Go You Rock...!!!
Thanks so much Nèlida Velàzquez! 🙏❤️
Thanks for recap at the end 👍🙂
yess so glad you enjoyed that
Thank you so much coach for inspiring vdios love it
My pleasure!
Love it! 👍
woohooo
EXCELLENT THANK YOU! GREETINGS FROM GREECE!
greetings!! :)
What an EXCELLENT. Video!! I really appreciate all the work you spent crafting this information laden and insightful presentation.I actually had to get out my journal to take notes.😆 You are helping so many people through this channel, including myself, and I thank you so much for it. I hope youre having a great Holidays!👏🏽🙋🏽♀️
Wow, thank you!
Am i responding lika a Queen? Ty.😊
🤗
My sweetheart kisses like I’m his sister what is wrong with him or is it me
Amazing!
Nice overview, thank-you!
Thanks for watching!
Much better eye color mat!
Thank you so much, I really appreciate hearing that from you.
Mat, how are you..hi i can see from this video that you are good as always..
You make so much sense in my ears ..
I can only say ..
Thank you.
so welcome Maggie! thank you for your kind words >)
Thanks for sharing the beautiful video
so glad you enjoyed it :) so so welcome!
We girls are extrodinarily special,but as a Queen we have many duties to our King. He needs to know your strength and his capabilities within the relationship. We must never undermine his efforts but must encourage his willingness to "grant us wishes". Treating him as the "monarch" of your relationship could be the ultimate pinnacle of success. Wow,supreme roll play my lord.
Aww love it my dear! So glad my content supports you :)
This is the best video ever. I plan to listen to it often. Thank you 😊 so much.
You are so welcome!😊
Hello Mat, I love the way you talk 😍
aw thanks I appreciate that :)
You’re great! I liked this ! So true ❤️🙏🏽
So glad my content supports you :-)
So if I heard you correctly earlier in the video, if you turn into a queen for your husband he will turn into a king for you? I’m asking because my husband and I since December have been Planning our divorce for the last month or two and then we finally went to counseling together and decided to take steps to save our marriage.
Thanks for sharing!
Thank you!❤
You're welcome 😊
Respect
@@Mat_Shaffer thanks
Me getting my emotional therapy from yet another Mat Shaffer video 😊😊
awww LOVE THAT!! :)
I just love this video so much. I appreciate you!
Thank you so much!
OMG for me its hard to find a king i just broke up because of maybe we are Ldr and he had another Relationship hehe
How i wish i can find a truly honest and he make me a queen and i feel he is my truly king.thank you sir mat what a nice topic again😊❤👍
Best of luck!
Thank you so much for the deep thoughts because you made this Queen realize how I responded to triggers that made him afraid of talking to me. Love your video😊
You are so welcome!
Mat, This is the best video you have ever done. Thank you, I will listen again, and take notes next.
WOW so so happy to hear that thank you!! truly appreciate that feedback... Im proud of this one too :)
I've been seeing this man. And I'm not sure where we stand relationship wise. How do I go about asking him? I'm really nervous to cause I don't know the outcome of it.
Thanks for sharing!
Excellent advice Matt…. I have a man who’s torn between losing and winning and it’s a challenge to this here Queen to make him SEE himself the way I see him!! It’s hard when he thinks he needs 2 wives not one!!
Thanks so much my dear!
What happens when you are home and cant leave because you live there and so does he i cant go home haha. He knows how to make me go weak and defuse the situation way to much
tough situation!
Oh heads up some bright spark thought it was good idea to book plane tickets to come see you apparently i am more relaxed and confident and tend to smile and open up more when i watch one of the youtube videos of yours so he has apparently messaged you to arrange a special meet and greet or something so suprise we are heading your way
I wish men would have these training videos too! How about direct a RUclips session to Men on how to attract your queen. How to be a king!!
Thanks for sharing!
Actually help this suggestion for boy or no man I am no interested in man.
Thanks for sharing!
Ty. .😊
You are so welcome Nimfa Bangay! 🙏
Ty.😊
You are so welcome Nimfa Bangay! 🙏
Ty.😊
Thanks so much Nimfa Bangay! 🙏❤️
Ty.😊
You are so welcome Nimfa Bangay! 🙏
Ty.😊
:)
Ty.😊
:)
Ty.😊
You are so welcome Nimfa Bangay! 🙏
Ty.😊
Exactly you got it Nimfa Bangay!
Ty.😊
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Ty.😊
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May it’s so funny. You describe all types of men to avoid and most man are in those categories 😅.
I hope it helps.
Hola! You are not perfect and so I... I woll try tounderstand.. Ty ♥️
You can do it!
So true. Thank you for this.
You are so welcome Sophia Murugi! 🙏
I’ve always been a man builder. Not only does it build their confidence but it takes them to their full potential.
Thank you!
I loooove this video so much thank you for you generosity and passion on this topic
Glad you enjoyed it!🤗
Hola! I am awake now since I went to bed early, like 10 pm? How are you in this Covid times? Vit. C is going to help. 😊
Morning!
Jazmyne😅
Great insights
Fantastic! Thanks so much!
You are a gem💎
awww thanks :)