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  • @NOAHFINNCE
    @NOAHFINNCE  3 года назад +1794

    WHATS AN OPINION YOU HAD IN THE PAST THAT YOU ARE EMBARRASSED ABOUT?!

    • @ZimLikesPastaAnimation
      @ZimLikesPastaAnimation 3 года назад +382

      I'm gonna be honest, I used to think guys couldn't marry guys and girls couldn't marry girls, and I used to be kinda truscum-y.
      now I'm bi and non-binary, so there was some character development lol

    • @tanavtheshapeshifter4215
      @tanavtheshapeshifter4215 3 года назад +89

      @@ZimLikesPastaAnimation woooo, glad it is a past opiniom :P growth 🥳

    • @clownbones
      @clownbones 3 года назад +146

      i used to like onision and thought he was really honest 😺😃✌️

    • @nxahsvidz
      @nxahsvidz 3 года назад +54

      @@ZimLikesPastaAnimation woah love that character development :D

    • @Coco-wj8ge
      @Coco-wj8ge 3 года назад +174

      I used to think genderlfuid was stupid till i did come out then as genderfluid and such. It was truly embarassing but thats what happens when you were influenced by kalvin garrah.
      Now im a trans ftm male and i fully support genderlfuid people !!

  • @5H4RKY0
    @5H4RKY0 3 года назад +3772

    'My issue with Noah Finnce'
    -Noah Finnce

    • @karlihabel8531
      @karlihabel8531 3 года назад +68

      The title was so interesting that I clicked instantly 😂

    • @robotboy3104
      @robotboy3104 3 года назад +42

      LMAO I thought it was a hate video at first and was like ?? why is this in my notifications?

    • @trishscarlett6251
      @trishscarlett6251 3 года назад +13

      Self evaluation is needed. Self deprecation is not. Noah you mush love yourself!

    • @cosmicsteinfox
      @cosmicsteinfox 3 года назад

      me me me

    • @cosmicsteinfox
      @cosmicsteinfox 3 года назад

      😤

  • @theolinefredrikkekavli2058
    @theolinefredrikkekavli2058 3 года назад +2655

    Old Noah: has strong opinions
    New Noah: I don’t care

  • @nickr288
    @nickr288 3 года назад +2131

    noah i’m waiting for the transphobes to pull the “you changed your opinion so your gender might change”

    • @kaismagic1506
      @kaismagic1506 3 года назад +61

      i don't know why, but i think they would TOTALLY do that

    • @Harri_James
      @Harri_James 3 года назад +14

      Very Ann Widdicombe using 'we used to think you can't change your gender' to support conversion therapy vibes.

    • @rosiefay7283
      @rosiefay7283 3 года назад +14

      @@Harri_James We (or rather our ancestors) used to think gay sex was sinful, too.
      And some children go through a phase of being unsure about their sexuality, and some transphobes are gay. but don't see the double standards. Odd, that.

    • @bandamani
      @bandamani 3 года назад +12

      @@roosterj i think their point is that they are so critical of trans people's gender and call it a phase, when not long ago people did the same thing to gay people and by now we know it isn't a phase to be gay and you are just born that way.

  • @fools4jules
    @fools4jules 3 года назад +2964

    this is not related at all but his little hair that's sticking up is my favorite thing

    • @NOAHFINNCE
      @NOAHFINNCE  3 года назад +762

      LMAO I SPENT HOURS EDITING THIS AND I DIDNT EVEN SEE IT

    • @oneish7454
      @oneish7454 3 года назад +222

      @@NOAHFINNCE they call it "ahoge" in anime, literally "idiot hair" in Japanese.

    • @fools4jules
      @fools4jules 3 года назад +51

      @@NOAHFINNCE omg omg you responded

    • @mylifeismylaptop8529
      @mylifeismylaptop8529 3 года назад +28

      I literally saw it the second it appeared 😂

    • @aaronlol147
      @aaronlol147 3 года назад +43

      he's the protag of the the story

  • @elliottlupin
    @elliottlupin 3 года назад +1732

    I find the fact that Noah is 21 weird. I would be less surprised if he was 24 or 17

    • @blau6273
      @blau6273 3 года назад +134

      Why is this lowkey how I feel

    • @emilie2667
      @emilie2667 3 года назад +217

      This makes no logical sense but your right

    • @ProtesiIaus
      @ProtesiIaus 3 года назад +80

      like it would be easier to accept that he is literally any other age

    • @akaissy
      @akaissy 3 года назад +13

      @@emilie2667 you’re😊

    • @IndiBindiWindi
      @IndiBindiWindi 3 года назад +49

      21? No
      Any other age? Yes

  • @jamesarnold3286
    @jamesarnold3286 3 года назад +2030

    The teacher: "The test isn't confusing"
    The test:

  • @FW10826
    @FW10826 3 года назад +2765

    As a pansexual, I find the term "woke bi" hilarious

  • @CopsHateMoe
    @CopsHateMoe 3 года назад +1453

    Honestly I feel like a lot of young trans people used to have shitty views on things like neo pronouns etc,, I know I did. I think projecting insecurities was a big part, but I think biggest reason was just the conversations that were being had at the time. They were dominated by people who had those toxic opinions, so it was very hard to escape from. If someone has made a clear effort to change, I don’t think it’s fair to hold it against them,, especially all the young trans people who, at the end of the day, were just shitty teens trying to feel accepted.

    • @milla4748
      @milla4748 3 года назад +21

      Hi moe!!!!!

    • @dylanmontealegre2917
      @dylanmontealegre2917 3 года назад +16

      hi moe!! you're amazing!!

    • @annacatherineandrews
      @annacatherineandrews 3 года назад +38

      Now that it feels like there are SO many people on the internet talking openly about these things, i feel like I’ve been able to open up myself to neopronouns, etc. because I don’t feel threatened to prove my transness anymore

    • @leakypfaucet
      @leakypfaucet 3 года назад +35

      Yea I Think Blaire white and Kalvin garrah is a large part of this tbh

    • @Treethefairydog
      @Treethefairydog 3 года назад +28

      I myself went through a transmed phase and was a bit of a dick not gonna lie and was very iffy about things like neopronouns. now a few years down the line I have not only realised that everyone should get to use pronouns that make them feel comfy and no one should police another person's name, gender or pronouns but I actually use neopronouns myself! It's wierd to see how many folks I know that have had a similar experience but I'm glad to see that at least within the community most people have learned and grown and are alot more accepting of things like neopronouns.

  • @Ju-gp9xv
    @Ju-gp9xv 3 года назад +551

    "It is not the fault of pansexuals that people misinterpret what pansexuality is" THANK YOU!

  • @user-lb6bn8vy3e
    @user-lb6bn8vy3e 3 года назад +922

    I’m glad people aren’t so worried about labels anymore because it’s helped me realize that my sexuality isn’t that important and I’ll figure it out at some point. I know I’m nonbinary but I honestly have no idea what my sexuality is. If I had to choose rn I’d probably say I’m pan or queer but I’m not really sure and that’s okay

    • @casacan77
      @casacan77 3 года назад +32

      This! I'm the opposite 😂 I've figured out I'm pan but my gender is this weird clusterfuck I can't find a label I like for

    • @leakypfaucet
      @leakypfaucet 3 года назад

      Hells yeah

    • @jlake2247
      @jlake2247 3 года назад +11

      @Aaron Brincefield just because a lot of us find comfort in finally having words to express who we are, doesn't mean that we think its wrong for someone to say they don't want to label themself. labels don't define you, you do and if you find words that match that then great, but no one owes it to anyone else to label themself.

    • @Luc-wv6hi
      @Luc-wv6hi 3 года назад +3

      Omg same except ik neither about my sexuality or gender, i just know i want to bind and keep my hair short.
      Off topic i like your pfp of Jared :)

  • @Conndawg
    @Conndawg 3 года назад +436

    I am so touch starved that when Noah hugged the camera I almost started crying.

    • @tealrose3248
      @tealrose3248 3 года назад +54

      Bob The Egg oh darling.
      Do you have access to an animal shelter where you can cuddle the dogs and cats? They need cuddles too, and they're really not going to judge if you're a stranger like humans might.

    • @yukiandkanamekuran
      @yukiandkanamekuran 3 года назад +15

      I felt this

  • @gabrielamarrero7111
    @gabrielamarrero7111 3 года назад +513

    It's Alfie knocking Pennywise off the shelf for a piece of bread.

    • @youngdevil5010
      @youngdevil5010 3 года назад +9

      Man's got his priorities straight

    • @moriah93ohio
      @moriah93ohio 3 месяца назад +1

      I did not understand this comment until it happened in the video 😂

  • @ZimLikesPastaAnimation
    @ZimLikesPastaAnimation 3 года назад +758

    I read that title and went: 👁️👄👁️

    • @kailergadikor831
      @kailergadikor831 3 года назад +9

      Same 🤣

    • @inactive.5680
      @inactive.5680 3 года назад +14

      Me with the thumbnail 👁️👄👁️

    • @mukula_kivi6397
      @mukula_kivi6397 3 года назад +5

      Sameee here

    • @nxahsvidz
      @nxahsvidz 3 года назад +9

      same 👁️👄👁️〰️👄〰️👁️👄👁️

    • @liam_er
      @liam_er 3 года назад

      sorry i had to ruin the 666 likes 😳

  • @luciacarpio9162
    @luciacarpio9162 3 года назад +310

    wow this is a character development i never knew i needed

  • @jessicawraight2077
    @jessicawraight2077 3 года назад +798

    Cancel culture is dead to me. People who demonstrate willingness and openness to change are people I want to support 🤗

    • @Sage-qd6tf
      @Sage-qd6tf 3 года назад +7

      Y E S E X A C T L Y

    • @jaimieandjosh
      @jaimieandjosh 3 года назад +7

      Yeah exactly. Which is why I feel bad for Shane. He's done everything possible to apologize for what he's done in the past, and it's clear he's changed and matured so much since making content like that.

    • @manupine
      @manupine 3 года назад +49

      @@jaimieandjosh the people you surround yourself with often reflect the kind of person you are and he's still friends with Trisha and Jeffree who are both openly shitty people. not to mention that he didn't just say disgusting and weird things, he did disgusting and weird things too. pedophilic things. racist things. over and over again.

    • @epenner9337
      @epenner9337 3 года назад +13

      Have you cancelled cancel culture?

    • @jessicawraight2077
      @jessicawraight2077 3 года назад +11

      @@epenner9337 heheh that made me laugh, and it’s a good point - but no. I disagree with cancel culture, but I wouldn’t force anyone else to agree with me. So, to me, that’s not cancelling

  • @ASingleLettuceLeaf
    @ASingleLettuceLeaf 3 года назад +277

    The fact that Noah takes full responsibility for having different opinions to his childhood self where other much older creators can't take responsibility for their current racism, homophobia, etc is astounding

  • @jeddos
    @jeddos 3 года назад +803

    We need to accept that people can grow and change especially when they're young.

    • @nxahsvidz
      @nxahsvidz 3 года назад +6

      this ^^

    • @iamalimelight2346
      @iamalimelight2346 3 года назад +14

      I know, I hate it when people call out artists and things because of what they said when they were younger, especially if they said t before they were in the limelight. 💞

    • @jeddos
      @jeddos 3 года назад +23

      @@iamalimelight2346 Yeah I agree. I think it should be called out but once an artist has apologised and engages in activism to showcase they have truly changed, rather than just apologising for the sake of it, then it should just be accepted as an honest mistake. If someone is repeatedly going around being racist or homophobic etc and just keeps apologising and doesn't seem to change after years then that's when it becomes a problem.

    • @yakuzaman5074
      @yakuzaman5074 3 года назад +4

      Omg YES, thank you for this comment!

    • @aidan9430
      @aidan9430 3 года назад +4

      I feel like this is something cancel culture often doesn't acknowledge. I hold the believe that we are all assholes in some way & we'll never be perfect so why should we hold famous ppl to these standards? a person can be someone completely different in a short period of time bc we constantly keep changing.
      I once tried to explain the concept of growth, acknowledging mistakes & moving on & the person just told me I had a hero/ saviour complex XD

  • @nwf4407
    @nwf4407 3 года назад +1284

    Every other celebrity: does awful shit and never acknowledges it
    Our king Noah: makes THREE videos apologising for minor mistakes he made as a child

    • @FW10826
      @FW10826 3 года назад +112

      As much as he is forgiven and I think he's changed, they weren't really minor mistakes

    • @yukiandkanamekuran
      @yukiandkanamekuran 3 года назад +100

      I'm still super glad he did address them, because stuff like panphobia in bi circles is actually hurtful. These things actually hurt others.

    • @katu3390
      @katu3390 3 года назад +34

      @@FW10826 yeah, they genuinely were not minor.

    • @nonniperkl6273
      @nonniperkl6273 3 года назад +12

      As a dude who by definition probably hits the pan category I don’t really give two shits. I maybe won’t call myself that but it is valid even as it is not so much different from bisexuality. I can’t understand how fucking difficult it seems to be for international (especially) US folk to get along with their own people.

    • @leakypfaucet
      @leakypfaucet 3 года назад +19

      Well to be fair it wasn’t that long ago but he did do a good job addressing it and these are mistakes many people have made

  • @clara5586
    @clara5586 3 года назад +634

    Noah: 'my issue with noahfinnce'
    Me: tf am I watching? Am I in the right channel?

    • @nwf4407
      @nwf4407 3 года назад +13

      Lowkey got me mad smh

    • @Thatgenderconfused3mo
      @Thatgenderconfused3mo 3 года назад +4

      I fr thought this was some fake account that played as Noah and was like “..what’s wrong with him? Is it because he’s like British?” Like 😂 whoops

    • @nosuchthingasgoodcows7003
      @nosuchthingasgoodcows7003 3 года назад +3

      @@Thatgenderconfused3mo it’s someone being salty over the jamie drama

    • @Thatgenderconfused3mo
      @Thatgenderconfused3mo 3 года назад +1

      @@nosuchthingasgoodcows7003 wait what😂😂

    • @boldanabrasevic3020
      @boldanabrasevic3020 3 года назад +3

      @@Thatgenderconfused3mo just watch his (or jamie's) recent video on jammidodger. it's... a wild ride

  • @robotboy3104
    @robotboy3104 3 года назад +290

    this is the first video I've seen of someone addressing things they've said in the past without being forced to. I'm glad you realized your mistakes and corrected them. Very cool Noah

  • @Lufe_Stark
    @Lufe_Stark 3 года назад +298

    For the he/him lesbians, I saw this comment the other day "i didn't understand he/him lesbians until I realized gay men have called themselves she/her for years" and it makes so much sense

    • @seto749
      @seto749 3 года назад +25

      It would be more accurate to say that some gays have called each other she/her for years, often as a bit of a dig. It's really not the flip side of the he/him lesbians; hardly any of us ever wanted to use she/her pronouns universally other than some full-time drag queens.

    • @totallyoutofit6989
      @totallyoutofit6989 3 года назад +5

      Yess i saw that too and it made a lot of sense

    • @alexshane5713
      @alexshane5713 3 года назад +2

      Ohh

    • @logannew7560
      @logannew7560 3 года назад +1

      @@seto749 !!!

  • @Alex-ui5qn
    @Alex-ui5qn 3 года назад +327

    You're Noah finnce. And you're throwing shade at your self. He has grown so much. :)

  • @bratatouille
    @bratatouille 3 года назад +368

    It's nice to see someone admit their mistakes without even being called out first.
    I also wish a certain other trans youtuber would get over their teenage edgelordness and realise that it's not up to us trans people to make ourselves look good to cis people...

    • @yarahowell5646
      @yarahowell5646 3 года назад +69

      You can say Kalvin Garrah

    • @margot635
      @margot635 3 года назад +54

      it’s ok you can say kalvin and blaire

    • @dakotathenonbinarypal791
      @dakotathenonbinarypal791 3 года назад +36

      You can say Kalvin and Blaire.
      We're all thinking it.

    • @soyboy6953
      @soyboy6953 3 года назад +10

      Or Kaden Workman

    • @nachopeligro
      @nachopeligro 3 года назад +3

      kalvin has changed his opinions, if you were to actually do your research you would know that lmfao

  • @Im_trash08
    @Im_trash08 3 года назад +79

    I’m pan and I just wanted to say, BEING ATTRACTED TO TRANS PEOPLE DOES NOT MEAN YOU ARE PAN. Thank you!🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

    • @-toby-329
      @-toby-329 Год назад

      Bro I don't even know if I'm pan anymore or if what I feel is just- everyone is attractive. Like, I'm either panromantic and constantly friend zone the people I date and can't seem to want to be more than a friend with anyone or I'm aromantic. I'm so confused.

  • @finnsinthebin
    @finnsinthebin 3 года назад +162

    now THIS is a real apology video, Shane Dawson take notes.

  • @Blake-lu9gw
    @Blake-lu9gw 3 года назад +119

    I love that the "my issue with" is now a something like a meme that also works to talk seriously about things

  • @jette7266
    @jette7266 3 года назад +100

    I’ve been feeling shitty these past two days but the hug in the end really made me smile... thank you for that!

  • @nickluki640
    @nickluki640 3 года назад +69

    This whole video is noahfinnce just saying "k edge lord" to his past self.
    But like still this video was very well put together.

  • @julianamagg3177
    @julianamagg3177 3 года назад +33

    I was a little know-it-all as a teenager. Just learning to admit when I am wrong and learning to just listen when others explain their experiences and feelings is something I consider part of growing up and grow as a person.

  • @M_56612
    @M_56612 3 года назад +223

    Lol I got over the bi V pan debate when I started identifying as poly and apparently the entire internet now hates me for it.
    “oOooOhh- sPoOkY miCrOlAbLeS”

    • @NOAHFINNCE
      @NOAHFINNCE  3 года назад +74

      AAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

    • @samuel-zb4qn
      @samuel-zb4qn 3 года назад +46

      @@NOAHFINNCE bruh im 13 and when i was 11 i said i was asexual but then anfew months ago i said that i was too yount to know if i was asexual because i havent even hit puberty yet and i got cancelled on tiktok for "ace erasure and invaladion" to the point where i had to delete it -_-

    • @saurora5615
      @saurora5615 3 года назад +58

      people be like: ”mIcRoLaBeLs MaKe cIsHeT pEoPle nOt LiKe uS” like first of all I don’t care what a random cishet thinks of me and why do we have to seek their validation for what we feel comfortable with?

    • @oshaviolation
      @oshaviolation 3 года назад +18

      @@samuel-zb4qn dude I’m so sorry, what the fuck? I can’t believe people are ‘canceling’ you for your own feelings about your sexuality. I got ‘canceled’ on tik tok a while back for a mundane thing too, and I also had to delete the app because harassment runs so rampant on there. you’re not partaking in any ‘erasure’ for being you. keep being awesome.

    • @samuel-zb4qn
      @samuel-zb4qn 3 года назад +6

      @@oshaviolation it can be really toxic :(

  • @justinsamuel7179
    @justinsamuel7179 3 года назад +58

    Takes a lot of maturity to make a video like this-really cool. I still don’t understand neo pronouns but I guess, even though I don’t understand it, it doesn’t mean those who use them should be criticized. Thanks for opening up the dialogue

  • @austyntistic
    @austyntistic 3 года назад +211

    me , a pansexual trans dude who uses neopronouns : awe yeah . character development

    • @jamieranlett1029
      @jamieranlett1029 3 года назад +6

      which neopronouns do you use? just wondering, i'm not very educated in the topic and would like to know about more people's gender identities :)

    • @hideakisorachi3953
      @hideakisorachi3953 3 года назад +28

      @Rebecca ALLISON neopronouns are pronouns that people use other than he/him, she/her, and they/them. a common one people use is xe/xer, though there is a huge diverse number of neopronouns people use. for instance, I know someone who uses the pronouns bun/bunself. from what I know about neopronouns(I do not use them so please correct me if I'm wrong) many people who use them tend to be neodivergent. because their brains work differently their way of veiwing gender may be different from someone who is not neodivergent. from what I heard from one person (I'm not going to say this is the experience of every person who uses them, just the explanation this person in particular used), people who use neopronouns tend to hyper fixate on certain words/concepts. this hyperfixiation can actually give them gender euphoria. being referred to as that word can make them feel more comfortable with their gender and just make more sense then he/him, she/her, or they/them. some people even use multiple sets of pronouns. they may use he/they pronouns but also use neopronouns as well. it's just depends on the person. once again, I do not use neopronouns. if you want to add something or correct me please do. I'm new to the concept of neopronouns as well.

    • @avanoelz
      @avanoelz 3 года назад +4

      @@hideakisorachi3953 as a neurodivergent who used neopronouns, thats exactly right :>

    • @avanoelz
      @avanoelz 3 года назад +2

      uses*

  • @cadynextdoorr
    @cadynextdoorr 3 года назад +131

    three claps to noah for recognizing his mistakes 👏👏👏

  • @MittensTheMurderKitty
    @MittensTheMurderKitty 3 года назад +87

    If you do decide to actively do stuff wrong and upset people and then make videos about it, don't forget that it's most appropriate to film them on your kitchen floor.

    • @NOAHFINNCE
      @NOAHFINNCE  3 года назад +47

      i’m sure this is a reference to something but i’m not what it is

    • @Sophie-tx3vm
      @Sophie-tx3vm 3 года назад +31

      @@NOAHFINNCE Trisha Paytas

    • @vatershep
      @vatershep 3 года назад +9

      @@NOAHFINNCE Trish like fish 🤪🤪

  • @cyraheinao2857
    @cyraheinao2857 3 года назад +80

    I DISLIKED THE VIDEO BEFORE I WATCHED IT BC I AUTOMATICALLY LIKE VIDEOS AND I CLICKED THE WRONG BUTTON AND DIDN'T REALIZE UNTIL THE VIDEO ENDED AHAH

  • @quinncontento7033
    @quinncontento7033 3 года назад +29

    I'm a pansexual and when I first got into noah I saw the video he addresses here and it made me uncomfy but I tried to ignore it so I'm so glad he addressed it here x

  • @manupine
    @manupine 3 года назад +23

    "you can have an opinion on anything you want, but that does not mean your opinion matters" ok i WILL be using this in the future when my cishet family says some dum shit thank u noah

  • @karlihabel8531
    @karlihabel8531 3 года назад +54

    I love this video! ✨Growth✨
    I’m pansexual. I went back and forth on what my sexual orientation was for a long time. In my experience, people who are bi are typically attracted to certain types of people (I.e. feminine women/ masculine men) To me, being pan is when you’re generally attracted to the same characteristics regardless of if those characteristics belong to someone who is a man, woman, nonbinary, etc.

    • @berndbananebauer2759
      @berndbananebauer2759 3 года назад +4

      Well according to your definition, I am pan then 🥳 I mean I am switching from bi to pan and back for years now xD XOXO

    • @fleurpalmer-paquis8226
      @fleurpalmer-paquis8226 3 года назад +10

      Yeah definitely, I'm bi because I'm attracted to a gender BECAUSE they are that gender, as opposed to being attracted to people regardless of their identity.

    • @berndbananebauer2759
      @berndbananebauer2759 3 года назад +2

      Ok i might not be pan, because the way people get raised by society is strongly related to how they are seen from society. And since gender is a really big part so someones Identity i will not be blind for it. It just makes no difference for my atraction. But for the relationship, because cis men really cant relate to as much as my problems as for example trans womens do. So i am bi... right ?
      Nothing against you i am just troubleing since ages to know which one. My best bet was mostly bi do i will continue with it...

    • @alicat7633
      @alicat7633 3 года назад +7

      @@berndbananebauer2759 Bi means multiple genders so pan people are bi. As in squares are rectangles but are also a valid shape. Pan is more specific but your not wrong if you say bi. People often say both and a lot of people who fit the definition of pan only use bi. I usually use it as an umbrella term. The bibrella includes pan people. (Not to say that pan people have to call themselves bi.) I identify as bi and not as pan because I’m attracted to different things in women and afab non-binary people than I am in men and amab non-binary people. That doesn’t mean that pan people don’t notice the gender or avoid red flags in certain genders that don’t apply to others ( ex men raiseing their voices can be scary while it tends to be less so with women.) The end of the day, labels don’t really matter if you’re comfortable with a label then use the label. The only real use for them is declaring who you’re attracted to. Unless they’re a bigot, no one is going to care what you identify as.

    • @littlewyzard
      @littlewyzard 3 года назад +4

      @@alicat7633 I was just about to comment this! As someone who identifies as pan, understanding pansexual as being a label under the umbrella of bisexual just makes so much sense to me! I feel like a lot of pan/bi discourse can be resolved by using this definition. Plus there are plenty of bi people who are attracted to multiple genders but not all genders and they usually get over looked when people argue that pan and bi are the same so really this definition seems like a win win situation

  • @mariposaarts
    @mariposaarts 3 года назад +31

    Little explanation: He/Him Lesbians used to stand for lesbians who wrote themselves off as men to marry their lover. It now stands for closeted lesbians and closeted lesbian trans women. It's a group of supportive women who are closeted who help eachother. This does not necessarily mean they use the pronouns but that they hide behind them. Lesbian women having to say he/him for their lovers and transwomen having to be misgendered. I hope this clears things up more or less.

    • @sionednortheast9524
      @sionednortheast9524 3 года назад +7

      ohhh that makes a lot more sense thank you for clearing this up, as a lesbian myself i was so confused and kinda angry about he/him lesbians but this explanation makes a lot of sense :)

    • @respqwngd4966
      @respqwngd4966 3 года назад +5

      Thanks! I really needed this explanation, always wondered what he/him lesbians really meant^^

    • @mariposaarts
      @mariposaarts 3 года назад +3

      @@nonkdonk5896 Yes and honestly I don't have an explanation for those who do. I do think it is affecting the view of this group who are supporting eachother and I wanted to point that out. Though the women who do use he/him are very little so :/ I don't care much about them and I would rather this group get less hate.

    • @anceptus
      @anceptus 3 года назад +3

      There's probably some femme enby folks that use he/him pronouns (edit: more common when they're okay with all pronouns) and identify as lesbians. It's a big world out there, and hey, they're valid too :)

    • @Lisa_Flowers
      @Lisa_Flowers 3 года назад +11

      @@mariposaarts To my knowledge he/him lesbians who aren't closeted trans women or trans at all simply use these pronouns because it makes them feel comfortable. Pronouns are not always gendered - most people use them in a way that traditionally aligns with their gender (she/her for women, he/him for men, they/them or neopronouns for nonbinary people) but there are men/women who use they/them and nonbinary people who use she/her or he/him, simply because it's the pronoun that makes them feel the most comfortable. A lot of cis lesbians also experience some level of alienation from womanhood because being a woman in society often entails liking men and centering them in your attraction. So they use he/him as an extension of that alienation. There doesn't have to be much more of a reason other than that it makes people comfortable. I think the idea that he/him lesbians who don't belong to this group you've described make the group look bad is harmful. Pronouns don't HAVE to be gendered. They are for most people, and of course we should respect trans people who do experience pronouns as gendered and want to be called the appropriate pronouns. But we should also respect trans and nonbinary and gender nonconforming cis people who use pronouns differently. It's not an either or.

  • @sarawojcik896
    @sarawojcik896 3 года назад +5

    I am really amazed of how mature that was. I love how you adress your mistakes without completely dragging yourself and on the other hand not trying to excuse what you did or said. Just a perfect balance. Huge respect man

  • @n0face2
    @n0face2 3 года назад +6

    As a bi person who is in a relationship with a pansexual, I find that the biggest difference isn't *who* were attracted to but *how* were attracted to them. For example the attraction I feel towards men is much different than the attraction I feel towards women, but for my partner it doesn't mean anything weather you identify as a man or woman if they're attracted to you they're going for it.

  • @SyreLikeAFire
    @SyreLikeAFire 3 года назад +110

    if kalvin garrah could take a moment to do this kind of vide the world would look like that futuristic flying car meme

    • @littlewyzard
      @littlewyzard 3 года назад +35

      That requires Kalvin to actually change and grow as a person first 😬

    • @nachopeligro
      @nachopeligro 3 года назад

      @@littlewyzard he has? of course you wouldn't know unless you actually watch his vids and pay attention, which i assume you don't since you clearly don't like him

    • @menacingjack
      @menacingjack 3 года назад +15

      @@nachopeligro 3 months ago he made a video with Blaire White about bullying a trans person who didn't fit into their view of what a trans person is like. They were just constantly laughing at them and making fun of them. He deleted it after he got so much backlash because of the video. He hasn't changed, please don't fool yourself.

    • @menacingjack
      @menacingjack 3 года назад +8

      @@nachopeligro if you wanna see it for yourself, there's still a video about it from someone reacting to the video: ruclips.net/video/GhdrjSYjw5M/видео.html

  • @Elliee921
    @Elliee921 3 года назад +28

    'BRO you can't eat apples'
    'you can have apple, sorry about that'
    SO WHAT'S THE TRUTH

  • @laurenpaige8493
    @laurenpaige8493 3 года назад +23

    Me at the fridge at 3 am: “Bro NO you CANT have apples... you can eat apple, sorry bout that. Good boy.”

  • @makattack6870
    @makattack6870 3 года назад +24

    I’ve been here from the beginning but man I love the way you’ve turned out. You’ve grown a lot and I’m really proud of you

  • @natalie8111
    @natalie8111 3 года назад +10

    As a Pansexual enby, I find “woke Bi” hilarious and I have to be honest I was pretty much laughing this whole video, but yeah, we stan a king who realizes he was wrong😌

  • @coco_writer929
    @coco_writer929 3 года назад +4

    I actually remember seeing the video you made about Pansexuality near when it was first posted and I'm Pansexual so I thought "whoa, is this what people think of me?" I mostly rolled my eyes because I was hearing a lot of it from people around me.
    I appreciate you acknowledging that your mindset has changed about this over time, that shows growth and that is a beautiful thing. I'm 28 and I can tell you many things I felt at 21 have changed. Not drastically, but be enough for me to look back and think "wow, I've grown in the last seven years". So never beat yourself up for anything you may have felt or thought in the past. Just acknowledge it, learn from it, and let it help you continue to evolve. I love what you create Noah, so keep doing what you're doing. :-)

  • @enbywithcats
    @enbywithcats 3 года назад +27

    woah another hug from noah i feel honored

    • @enbywithcats
      @enbywithcats 3 года назад +1

      woah and a heart from noah
      again am honored

  • @lr6359
    @lr6359 3 года назад +8

    Noah hugging the camera and giving us big brother vibes literally makes me tear up idk why WHY AM I LIKE THIS

    • @IPONJ
      @IPONJ 3 года назад

      Because you had a kind heart. Makes me sick!
      ;)

  • @haleyrg6412
    @haleyrg6412 3 года назад +113

    You hate yourself? Yeah same

    • @nxahsvidz
      @nxahsvidz 3 года назад +2

      felt this-

    • @ZimLikesPastaAnimation
      @ZimLikesPastaAnimation 3 года назад

      meeeeeee

    • @p0tat0s0up
      @p0tat0s0up 3 года назад

      yup literally me

    • @gabrielamarrero7111
      @gabrielamarrero7111 3 года назад

      Yo same my they/girl/ dude

    • @jaybek7707
      @jaybek7707 3 года назад +5

      Gabriela Marrero
      Yo! Handy tip here. I use this a lot. Pretty much all the time.
      Pal, fam, and bud are all really good non gendered terms!

  • @alphie2056
    @alphie2056 3 года назад +26

    my names alphie so when Noah said "alphie what are you doing?" I panicked

  • @gabrielamarrero7111
    @gabrielamarrero7111 3 года назад +16

    Legit was so confused when I saw the title. Honestly we change as we grow and we have to accept that. Love you Noah!

  • @i1113
    @i1113 3 года назад +57

    yea remember the marshmallow scandal... never forget.

  • @micahwhoispointless4229
    @micahwhoispointless4229 3 года назад +16

    It's nice to see these kinds of videos because acknowledging how you used to be is wrong is the best way to be a better person. Also thankyou for existing Noah, you always make my day better whenever I see any of your videos and I cant wait to see what you do with your music career!!!!

  • @Julia-md3fh
    @Julia-md3fh 3 года назад +27

    Yo Noah, you probs won’t see this but I got my Spotify thing today, asthma attack was my most listened to song this year, you were my second most listened to artist and I got some sort of badge for listening to underachiever before 50,000 people or something like that lmao anyway I love your music 🖤

    • @NOAHFINNCE
      @NOAHFINNCE  3 года назад +10

      AW NICE THANK U FOR LISTENING 🤗

    • @Julia-md3fh
      @Julia-md3fh 3 года назад +5

      @@NOAHFINNCE WAIT HOLY FECK YOU REPLIED

    • @greythekid8955
      @greythekid8955 3 года назад +2

      @@Julia-md3fh DAMN NO FAIR

  • @Snuzzled
    @Snuzzled 3 года назад +10

    Man, if all the stupid shit I said as a teenager had been immortalized on the internet..... yeah 😂 I'm just glad the internet wasn't a thing back then

  • @JA-jx9uk
    @JA-jx9uk 3 года назад +15

    The hug at the end.......................😭

  • @finn1079
    @finn1079 3 года назад +13

    i really needed that hug in the end

  • @that_one_shark6887
    @that_one_shark6887 3 года назад +11

    broke beefing with other channels, we have ascended and now only beef with our own channels

  • @michaelahigginson4834
    @michaelahigginson4834 3 года назад +94

    I just say I’m bi even though the gender of the person doesn’t matter to me. Not as many people know what pan is so it’s easier.

    • @tealrose3248
      @tealrose3248 3 года назад +24

      Michaela Higginson whatever communicates best in your community is valid. Labels are there to help you understand yourself and to explain your identity to others - use whatever works. If you identify as pan but communicate that best by saying bi, that's fine. 😘

    • @natm2443
      @natm2443 3 года назад +4

      @@tealrose3248 THIS

    • @themoralagent
      @themoralagent 3 года назад +11

      Yeah, I hate having to explain myself every time it gets brought up. I really don’t even want to label myself anymore tbh but I don’t want people to think I’m straight. I think I’m jus gonna tell ppl I’m queer so they can figure it out themselves

    • @praalgraf
      @praalgraf 3 года назад +12

      i mean, bi doesn't necessarily mean that you do care about the gender of the person you're dating... read the bisexual manifesto if you wanna!

    • @michaelahigginson4834
      @michaelahigginson4834 3 года назад

      @@themoralagent I like that 😂👌🏼

  • @leolikesanime1339
    @leolikesanime1339 3 года назад +96

    NOAH FINCE IS GONNA BE SO MAD😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡
    YOU'RE GETTING CANCLED NOW😡😡😡😡😡😡

    • @nxahsvidz
      @nxahsvidz 3 года назад +11

      NOAH FINNCE IS SO BAD CANCEL HIM >:(

    • @leolikesanime1339
      @leolikesanime1339 3 года назад +10

      @@nxahsvidz GRRRR HE IS SOOOOO BAD😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡

    • @nxahsvidz
      @nxahsvidz 3 года назад +10

      @@leolikesanime1339 GRRRR 😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡

    • @TheActualJeffery
      @TheActualJeffery 3 года назад +4

      GRRRRRRR 😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡 CANCEL HImmm 😡😡😡😡

    • @soyboy6953
      @soyboy6953 3 года назад +3

      GRRRRRRRR 😡😡😡😡

  • @littlemissbump100
    @littlemissbump100 3 года назад +32

    My issue with Noah Finnce
    - Noah Finnce 2020

  • @QuantumPV
    @QuantumPV 3 года назад +1

    Acknowledging your issues or admitting you are wrong is a strength and is mature. It’s growth. I’m a 56 and still learning every day. Wonder sometimes why it’s taken me so long to learn some lessons but I keep on moving forward.

  • @butasimpleidiotwizard
    @butasimpleidiotwizard 3 года назад +7

    Initially the he/him lesbians video made me dislike you and I didn't want to support you after that but I've been watching you again recently and now watching this video it's really wholesome and I'm so happy you aren't afraid to make up for your past opinions and correct any misinformation you shared, it's a good example to be setting

  • @elisestegmann9125
    @elisestegmann9125 3 года назад +4

    The sheer confusion that surfaced when the notification for this video. I've been writing about a. Scarcella for a class and all the video titles that are formatted like that now immediately bring up her, and genuinely thought for a split second that I had somehow subscribed to her and was TERRIFIED

  • @gerardtay
    @gerardtay 3 года назад +3

    As a trans masc enby I really appreciate you making this video. You're proof that people CAN and DO change. And I really hope that others grow and change in their understanding of other trans ppl as well.

  • @nwf4407
    @nwf4407 3 года назад +44

    And today's news...
    Noah Adams has been cancelled!!!
    ... by Noah Adams...

  • @marsd8442
    @marsd8442 3 года назад +5

    I remember watching ur he/him lesbian at the time when I still thought I was a girl, and honestly thank you so much for making this . I think it kinda hurt me for a while bc i now know i feel so much more comfy with they/he pronouns but I'm also a lesbian but i had internalized what u said at the time.

  • @libbyford6765
    @libbyford6765 3 года назад +12

    Seeing the rat run behind you on the bed as you were speaking is the reason I have serotonin today

  • @kendallcubes
    @kendallcubes 3 года назад +5

    The mistake many people make when talking about he/him lesbians is assuming all he/him lesbians are cis women. Nonbinary people can be lesbians, and they can use any pronouns they are comfortable with. So there can be nonbinary lesbians who are most comfortable with he/him pronouns, but that doesn't mean they are damaging to the trans community, they are just expressing themselves.

  • @starlightlion8603
    @starlightlion8603 3 года назад +34

    I don't have to understand he/him lesbians to respect them, it's just that easy XD

    • @sand747
      @sand747 3 года назад +2

      same goes for a lot of the LGBTQ+ community

  • @carolyngracyalny5222
    @carolyngracyalny5222 3 года назад +64

    Noah has a lot of issues with people lmfao. You should make a video on Elliot page because that's some very good news.

    • @nxahsvidz
      @nxahsvidz 3 года назад +9

      yesss im so proud of him, you should watch Jamie's vid on it :D

    • @carolyngracyalny5222
      @carolyngracyalny5222 3 года назад +4

      @@nxahsvidz already did lol

    • @nxahsvidz
      @nxahsvidz 3 года назад +3

      @@carolyngracyalny5222 oh okie great :D

    • @carolyngracyalny5222
      @carolyngracyalny5222 3 года назад +1

      @grayson land yuuuuup

    • @carolyngracyalny5222
      @carolyngracyalny5222 3 года назад +5

      @grayson land and his wife is supportive too. Don't see that much with celebrities. Actually everybody is supportive of him and its so amazing

  • @naynaykillua3363
    @naynaykillua3363 3 года назад +21

    Nobody. AbSoLutELy NoDy:
    Noah: I dunn a woopsie doopsie and I dont deny it ♡
    Edit: WHO DISLIKED THIS I- how is this bad hes being such a great human

  • @torim3090
    @torim3090 3 года назад +4

    Love how Noah on most things sexuality wise is just “I don’t care?!” - i wish other ppl had this view, ppl in my year found out about me being bi and it’s ridiculous how much they careeeee

  • @commonerscoffee.
    @commonerscoffee. 3 года назад +2

    to past noah: pronouns don’t equal gender. I’m a demiboy, but I’m very feminine, and use she/her pronouns because I’m not out yet. if I had my way, I’d use he/it, but I’m fine with she/her.

  • @e.r.g6681
    @e.r.g6681 3 года назад +112

    Taking a shot every time he says “who cares”, see you in therapy 😚✌🏻
    For legal reasons this is a joke

    • @kaijohnson3144
      @kaijohnson3144 3 года назад +10

      T shots

    • @Scififan926
      @Scififan926 3 года назад +5

      Mission alcoholic coma start

    • @rodentia1474
      @rodentia1474 3 года назад +6

      Wait wtf before I pressed “read more” I already had it in my head you were gonna say “for legal reasons this was a joke”
      *b r o*

    • @e.r.g6681
      @e.r.g6681 3 года назад +2

      @@rodentia1474 lol

    • @totallyoutofit6989
      @totallyoutofit6989 3 года назад +1

      @@kaijohnson3144 BWAHAHAAAHAHA

  • @nazvalizade
    @nazvalizade 3 года назад +46

    I’m trying not to stare at your hair sticking up

  • @morganmightbeok...
    @morganmightbeok... Год назад +3

    When I was in middle school, so maybe 12 or 13, I thought that when somebody was bi that they liked everyone, without distinction (Texas is a strange place and that’s the social context I was existing in at the time, so ya), so when one of my friends told me she was bi, I remember being actually worried that she might like me like me. So that’s a little bit embarrassing, but don’t worry, I no longer think that. I’ve grown up and learned better since then, and also come out myself…a couple of times😂

  • @taylormoravec
    @taylormoravec 3 года назад +1

    you’re so sweet. your rat is also sweet. it’s adorable 😭💜 also, I just really commend you for this. I like the attitude of just let people live while listening to their experiences in order to understand where they are coming from. we need more people like you on the internet.

  • @Meeko4eve39
    @Meeko4eve39 3 года назад +5

    Your ability to be self-reflective and make really good apology videos is honestly one of your best personality traits, Noah. It makes you a really good role model, actually.

  • @alexiswatson-lowe9833
    @alexiswatson-lowe9833 3 года назад +1

    18 to 20 is a big personal difference in growth as an individual. There are some things I said at 18 that I would slap myself for, but I also have to be forgiving of it - youth, being in an abusive relationship at the time, general lack of information, etc. I am sure that me at 25 (five years from now) will wanna slap 20 year old me and will have to chill since my brain was still developing. Same for 25 to 30 (minus the brain development).
    Still happy to see you reflect on your old comments, as you said, it is a fantastic way to realize how much you've learned and how much you still have to learn.

  • @p0tat0s0up
    @p0tat0s0up 3 года назад +7

    thx for the hug Noah. it actually helped :)

  • @annacatherineandrews
    @annacatherineandrews 3 года назад +2

    Thank you for this! I also used to think these things but just thinking a little harder into it, it’s really no one’s business so I stopped acting like I was protecting trans people when really I was just being a dick to situations I was unfamiliar with

  • @playswith_squirrels
    @playswith_squirrels 3 года назад +6

    When I saw the title my first thought was me too. I have a LOT of issues with myself so...

  • @agentofasgard6213
    @agentofasgard6213 2 года назад +1

    Noah, I love to see so much personal growth and confidence in you. For me personally it has always been the most difficult tasks to call out my own shitty behaviour and to give a sh*t about other people's opinion. It took me years and years of therapy but it's all been worth it.
    To see such a young man as yourself showing that much self reflection makes me so happy :)
    And thanks for the hug, I needed that 💚

  • @bunniaster
    @bunniaster 3 года назад +3

    i used to judge girls who wore makeup n short dresses/skirts and showed off their body (i never judged them to their face but im still embarrassed about it) and now thats exactly what i do

    • @bannstrahl
      @bannstrahl 3 года назад

      this is random but you’re so pretty!!

    • @bunniaster
      @bunniaster 3 года назад

      @@bannstrahl omg thank u sm

  • @juls_krsslr7908
    @juls_krsslr7908 3 года назад +4

    One good thing about being old is, none of my horrible teenage opinions wound up on the internet. I kept a journal, though, and some of the stuff I wrote makes me cringe now. Some of it is hilarious, though. Sometimes, you just have to laugh at your own stupidity.

  • @marsbarsdraws1453
    @marsbarsdraws1453 3 года назад +3

    i just really appreciate you making this video. it's such an important thing to acknowledge our mistakes as human beings learning about the world and coming to terms with our past ignorance. i had unsubscribed to you a while back and once you showed yourself learning from your mistakes in the past i immediately subscribed back because i do love most of your content and was very happy to see you grow as a person

  • @kashalakasha2092
    @kashalakasha2092 3 года назад +1

    Lots of respect! No one's perfect, people are always changing. This is why cancel culture usually sucks, we're all growing and improving. It's hard to call yourself out, so props to you

  • @kensingtonvanhouten5565
    @kensingtonvanhouten5565 3 года назад +3

    Bro, you have nooo idea how much i needed that hug...thank you, Noah

  • @headphonetherapy9222
    @headphonetherapy9222 3 года назад +2

    “The goal is to be comfortable, not understood” hit different.

  • @eleanornolastname316
    @eleanornolastname316 3 года назад +6

    It's important to grow, I used to have opinions that I completely disagree with now. It's more important to grow.

  • @tykuju_473
    @tykuju_473 3 года назад +1

    Very good how you went over differences between pan and bi. As a pansexual I need to stop going on Pinterest the amount of people on there that call themselves pan for liking trans people then go and complain about bisexual people makes us look bad.

  • @azraelfish
    @azraelfish 3 года назад +13

    Me looks at clock and realizes I am late to my class: Well.....oh well

  • @ytcrb
    @ytcrb 3 года назад +1

    Noah, I recently discovered you! I’m glad that you’re pointing out your faults and correcting yourself. You might just be my new favorite musician

  • @arohamello548
    @arohamello548 3 года назад +27

    the way i had these SAME opinions at the beginning of this year, and now i totally disagree, in fact i am now a he/him lesbian lol

    • @timmycardiac7558
      @timmycardiac7558 3 года назад +12

      INCREDIBLE character development

    • @anceptus
      @anceptus 3 года назад +5

      Congratulations! It takes a lot of courage to publicly admit you're wrong. Glad you're now comfortable with who you are.

    • @amyl819
      @amyl819 3 года назад +3

      congrats!!! ive gone through something similar!!!

    • @roswurld
      @roswurld 3 года назад +1

      the way i went through something very similar

    • @sackiesack8492
      @sackiesack8492 3 года назад +1

      hello i am very sorry for using u as an encyclopedia but I cannot find this anywhere, yknow how when an enby person says they use he/they pronouns people will refer to them as boy and stuff, but for he/him lesbians do you still use feminine terms? is it JUST the pronouns or does it also influence the terms you want people to use?

  • @sophieelizabethleah8031
    @sophieelizabethleah8031 3 года назад +25

    I looked at my Facebook history the other day from 12 years ago, one I didnt understand my own slang and two I said some very odd things... I was a mum but obviously very very young still. Safe to say I deleted A LOT of shizzel xxx

  • @xanderd.7216
    @xanderd.7216 3 года назад +11

    Noah: Have hug. I'm feeling so big brothery right now. Me: :,)

  • @staceycoates1418
    @staceycoates1418 3 года назад +1

    I think it is great that you are acknowledging that your opinions change and that it is good that opinions change. And that many of our opinions are going to change in our life.