What I don’t get is that when the mother is pregnant, the parents are like "I don’t care what the gender is, I will still love them" but when their child came out as transgender, they don’t accept them.
everyone who's saying he isn't transgender, he may be scared. from the parent's obvious reactions, it probably scared him. men can act feminine and women can act masculine. gender stereotypes suck
Damn Riley that sucks. I’m so sorry you have to deal with this shit... but damn you SHUT it down with “there’s cupcakes over there”! You deserve all the cupcakes manz
“YoU fEeL pAiN sO yOu ArE pAiN?!” That is not the same. Gender is your BRAIIINNN and physical pain is SIGNALS SENT FROM NERVES. “There’s cupcakes” was a great break in the middle lmao. Love your courage.
I'm just gonna quote a drawing/comic real quick. "Do you want a boy or a girl?" "It doesn't matter what gender our baby is. We'll love them anyway," If it didn't matter then, why the fuck does it matter now??
I relate to this on so many levels, my dad told me, "You're a girl, and, always will be a girl." The problem is, I just live with my dad. And, I'm only 15.
Your father made my blood boil. He was disrespectful and plain out rude. He handled that terrible. Just because you were born in a girls body doesn't mean you have to be a girl. I will support you, riley
Riley, it's going to be okay. I really hope that it already is. But regardless of what your parents say, you are valid and you are amazing. I admire your strength during this video, and you handled what had happened really well. You can do this.
I want to say thank you to everyone who's commented and watched this video. your love and support mean a lot to me. even though now I have no family members who support and accept me for who I am, just knowing there's random strangers online and friends who do makes things a little easier. So thank you so much.
+the dying unicorn You are a beautiful young man and I would be so proud to have you in my family.... I always did want a brother :) You are strong and inspirational and don't let anyone drag you down. Onwards and upwards with cupcakes galore! Big hugs! Mica Moore XxX
You are absolutely amazing. Thank you for making this. You are such a brave man. It took my brother a very long time to come out and today, some family members still can't accept it. Thank you for being so amazing💕
I honestly hope they come to realise that this is their loss, and I hope you just continue to thrive and be successful, showing them that being Trans has no negative impacts on who you are as a individual. Sending Love xx!!
To anyone who's been told they aren't valid, please remember that no one can tell you how YOU feel but you. It's your life, no one else's, and while there are various reasons someone might feel detached from their biological sex, you know yourself best and can make the best assessment of why you feel the way you do. Whether your feelings are because you're trans or not doesn't change the fact that they're there and they should not just be dismissed. Think about how you feel and have felt, and trust your conclusions first and foremost; most people don't question their biological sex at all, so if you do then you're most likely trans! Transgender people exist and, even if it doesn't seem like it, there will always be people on the internet and beyond who accept you.
Jokes on him. Everytime he calls u Amanda he calls you- A man, Duh. I’m not funny and someone else in the comments may have already made that joke but I’ll laugh at my own jokes.
How can people say to the doctors "idc if it's a boy or a girl,ill love them either way" and then,proceed to hate your son,just because he was born in the wrong body
@@distinguishedgentleman4510 well, say if you were born biologically female; such as Riley, you'd feel sort of... Detached with your body. Like you'd just feel like it's not you, and you'd feel like having a male body would better suit you. Basically you're a male or female on the inside, but the opposite gender on the outside.
I can’t comprehend how some humans can’t accept others that they’d otherwise care for just because of things they can’t control... please learn to support others for who they are, you don’t know them as well as themselves
I’m a cis bisexual female and I can only imagine the pain and suffering that trans people endure. I just wish I could click my fingers and the transphobes, homophobes, biphobes etc would be gone.
Aww I'm so sorry you're parents reacted like that. Don't change who you are for anyone. It's ok to be yourself and if people can't accept it then that's their problem. You just have to do what makes you happy.
I have hope you're okay now, I mean. I REALLY have hope that you are a strong boy, yes, BOY, YOU ARE A BOY. You are yourself, you are a lovely human. We are here, with you! Don't cry, just raise your head high and live, live the way you want.
Dang, my parents are the same way. I have dropped multiple hints about me being ftm. my dad would joke around and say I should get my hair like a Mohawk. I would smile and say yes (the hint). He then would stare at me like I have done something 'wrong' and he them says your not a boy are you? I would say no because I don't want him to put a bullet in my head... (he says when I grow up I will 'marry' a white man with a good job, I then ask what about a girl? He said don't even think about it.) That's how I know my dad is transphobic. I once asked my mom for a binder. She said no in a rude tone and said you're a girl not a boy, and 'they' will grow bigger no matter if you like it or not. that hurt me alot. I once sprayed on some clone, she made me change clothes. Recently she said when it warms up I will have to wear dresses. I said no, they make me uncomfortable. She said, i don't care. I'm just lucky that my friends and two cousins accept me for who I truly am stay strong, tune out the hate, and be your true self whenever you possibly can
I hate it so much when kids tell their parents they are transgender and the parents say “no your not.” It makes me so furious like, how would you know?! It’s not your body! Only the person who lives in that body can make that decision.
I am so sorry, even though this video is very(3 years?) old. The courage it takes to come out to your own parents is extreme, and a reaction like this is horrific. I know how you feel, because I got the very same reaction, and it near killed me. I hope they've found a way to find peace with your decision, and I hope all's good now.
This is why I hate religion, and especially Christianity. People try to justify their prejudice and hatred with their "deity's words." "God did this so you must do this" bullshit. Dont believe all that Riley, you are you, amazing; I love you so much 💕
I’m sorry some christians dont understand I don’t like calling myself a Christian because of the way some of them act towards the lgbt+ community, but I do believe in god and I’m also bisexual I get a lot of hate from both sides but I can’t help who I am I love god but I’m also not going to lie about who I am 😞 I have a lot of Christian friends including myself who fully support lgbt , I hope you can change your mind that not all people who have faith think the same ❤️
Jus I don't like religion but what I find really funny is how in every argument with religion vs lgbt or left vs right or any really is the hypocrisy on both sides like you know if there is a god or not you act as if the religious people are wrong based on what you believe in which really makes you no better than themn the same actually they can't except you you can't except them.
I came out to my parents as non binary, my dad told me I will always be his daughter and that I will always be a girl. My mum said she loves me but thinks I'm being influenced by social media and that I never showed any signs as a kid and that she will call me by my correct pronouns and name once i am 16 .
im so sorry, I'm not a girl either but i'm not really a boy, I'm demigender and it hurts so bad when people say it doesn't exist or that I'm a girl or that i'm confused, it's what keeps me from coming out
Ok but why the fuck is he getting so much hate? I understand some of you people are transphobic but keep it to your god damn self. No one deserves this much hate. Also respect people's pronouns he uses he/him pronouns so his pronouns are he/him.
This just randomly showed up in my feed, but now I feel so pissed at something I can't quite put my finger on. You are such a brave guy to be able to come out this way and share it with the internet. I so hope this story has a happy ending, for you and your relationship with your parents.
the amount of transphobia, homophobia, and horrible comments agreeing with the parents here are gross, you are so valid man you got this. My parents had a similar reaction and I understand how hard it can be at times, stay strong 💙
I've told my parents that I'm not a girl and I asked for male pronouns and to be adressed as Jesse... They keep killing me inside making me want to die when they say "Oh you're sister..." and " She's a girl she can't be handsome" That only just happened today and I'm crying just thinking about that. A random married couple said I was a handsome young fellow and I wanted to cry with joy but my mum shot it down imediatly. The couple didn't apologise as I think they saw my happiness when they said it...
Morgan Exists Bro I get you, I was outed by my sister so my mom knows but she just ignores it. Feels like shit, I think she's finding every opportunity to call me her little girl in front of family and strangers. Was shaking my brother-in-law's mother's hand when she asked me if I was my sister's brother, which I happily said yes to. Mom immediately shuts it down, asks if she's met her "daughter" and gives me a lecture on how I shouldn't be telling lies. It's crappy, especially since everyone's calling transgenderism (especially ftm) a "fad" nowadays. My sister and mother are two of the few people I've come out to, and they're convinced it's just a phase. I really do feel that pain dude, and I'm sorry you had to go through that :/
I hate when people say ”no you aren’t” like bish?! I didn’t know you lived my life in my body. Can people stop telling us that we are not anything that we know we are
+_R3DM4N sex - what you were born with gender-what you associate with(look it up gender has to do with social and cultural differences its defined as different from your biological sex) 😒
+_R3DM4N sex - what you were born with gender-what you associate with(look it up gender has to do with social and cultural differences its defined as different from your biological sex) 😒
Your dad’s reaction is exactly my parent’s reaction. They’ve become abusive now and an investigation has been started that will likely lead to me going into foster care
Michael McJunkin Im so sorry that happened to you...It's sad they don't accept who you are and the fact that their abusive I hope you get to live a better life in the future
Have you tried getting them an apointment with a doctor or a psychologist who helps transgender people? He might be able to make them understand. I wish you the best of luck.
"No youre not" My heart 💔 this is honestly what I think is gonna happen with me when I eventually come out, and I'm scared. I'm lucky to be seeing a theripast, but I'm terrified of what my parents will say. I tried to tell my dad i was bi, and all he had to say was how dissapointed he was in me.
I just told my sister i'm lesbian, but she sayid something like: „ I don't care if anyone is gay/lesbian, but i don't like you if you're this". (She Is the first one who knows. She Is also 11 like you. I'm 14.) I'm so scared Now 😖😖 what if She tells my parents?!!?! They are homefobs 😭😭😭😭
Knowledge is power! If family, religion, or culture makes coming out difficult for anyone that you know, the following blog post about homosexuality may provide valuable help: “Homophobia: To the Community” homoeroticpoems.blogspot.com/2014/04/to-community.html
Hey man, you ROCK!! That speech was amazing, YOU are amazing just the way you are, don't let anyone tell you otherwise. I hope your dad has come around, and I hope everything is going well. Stay strong and confident, you're not alone :D :)
Oh my gosh….I know how you feel. I came out to my parents as non binary and they said that I am just a girl….I cried my eyeballs out as I felt so….invalid
Hey human being, you're valid, everything you feel is valid, you are who you are and no one can take that away, best of luck friend - sad smol ftm bean
I honestly hate this though cause I completely understand I am ftm transgender and it’s so hard when no one believes you but don’t worry you aren’t alone in this I’m here for you
Brandon, you even acknowledged that gender dyaphoria is a thing. It's a miserable thing, at that. It hurts and makes you so depressed. Please try to understand.
TheWeird RemixA what is the point of going on videos of people's struggles and hating on them. I would argue more but really, who wants to step down to your level of ignorance?
I liked how your mom reacted honestly. Even if she didn't like it, she still supported it. "If you want to change your name, your adult, your choice." Your dad was just outright...Ugh, he shouldn't react this way. Stay strong man, you seem like an awesome person and your hair is amazing cx
I'm a girl and I want to be a boy, not mention I'm pansexual. And most people in my family are religious. I'm planning to come out whenever I have enough money to have the surgery, change my name,and move out of the house. Right now only my mom and aunt know about this, those are the two main people who support me, and I'm very happy to them on my side.
So they should accept if they’re a serial killer? Accept if they are a rapist? Maybe accept them if they enjoy causing pain and suffering to others? I wouldn’t accept a trans child. You absolutely cannot DECIDE your gender. You are what you were born as. It’s just a matter of preferences.
Your ad shouldn't say that shit. You leave your house. Get a girlfriend and get that sex change FAM!!!! You can do this! I believe in you! You're not a monster of a demon like your dad says. You are Riley!
"but i cant, im not straight" same. i wish you the best lad, he cannot change you, so dont let him get you down. youre strong, youre powerful, youre riley. your father cannot change that.
I'm so sorry Riley! I am happy you are brave enough to come out, even if they weren't supportive. Riley is a great name. Don't ever change that for people who don't accept you🌈♥
I feel so bad for Riley. He doesn't deserve to go through this ;.; I'm not trans or non-binary, but I am pansexual. I can't say I know how you feel, I'm not even out yet. But I will be coming out soon, and my whole family (or atleast most of them along with myself) are Christians. That's the scariest part, but I do know I have somewhere to go if my mom ends up hating me, because even though I'll still love her I won't be able to live in a place that makes me feel bad about who I am. I've already gone through being suicidal before I even knew I was pansexual, I don't need to be suicidal again, it's not healthy and it's no what I want. I am depressed, but I know I'll be better, so atleast I have happy thoughts going for me. My mom is a homophobic Karen, (her name isn't Karen but she has the Karen haircut lol) and my dad is someone like me, who believes all people need to be loved no matter what. My dad and my step-mom actually have a trans friend and I told my step-mom I wanted to meet her, so I'm hoping after I'm out to my dad I'll be able to meet their friend. If you're wondering, I'm only keeping it a secret from my dad because he's a blabber mouth, not because I'm afraid or anything. So far there's six people that know I'm pansexual, and they're all supportive and don't get annoyed when I myself make pan jokes 😂 anyways enough with my blabbing.
*Anxiety creeps back into me* yeah I am waiting till I'm like at least 18 and I am planning on getting out of here, I am 14 and yes that is young but I know I am panromantic and genderfluid. If it will change then I'll figure it out, I'm not planning on any surgeries since I am scared of surgeries but I know I am what I am, I just hope my parents can be accepting and I would start crying if my parents said that, you are very strong and i support you
If it makes you feel any better, I'm kinda the same. I'm trans, not fully sure where on the trans umbrella. I'm kind of debating with trans guy, Non-Binary, and genderfluid. I'm also biromantic asexual. I came out to my family as being biromantic asexual and they took it the best way I could have hoped, except for my brother. My brother would keep telling me I'm probably just a late bloomer in that area and it felt super invalidating. I haven't come out to any of my family as not being a girl and I feel like I won't be comfortable doing that until I'm an adult. Hang in there, you are absolutely valid and you aren't in this alone. Added note, I'm also 14, I'm glad we live in a world where people are questioning and figuring themselves out at a younger age. You can do this ♥️🧡💛💚💙💜
What I don’t get is that when the mother is pregnant, the parents are like "I don’t care what the gender is, I will still love them" but when their child came out as transgender, they don’t accept them.
Ariel The Little Editor I HATE THAT
Same with my mom 😔
AHEKENDGU OMFG 😂🤣🤣
100% agreed I am going through this myself
Because they love them
"Even if they hate me, there's cupcakes!" Omfg hilarious
Who knew homelessness tasted so good
Ikr
@@Connor_The_Clown Is your pfp a picrew? If so please could you tell me the name of it?🙏☺️
the second she yelled "DO YOU SEE MY PHONE!" I knew this was going to be worse than I even thought
But it could have been a lot worse.
Yeah that made me uncomfortable as well... :/
same
Dad: I'm tired of it
Her: I'm also pansexual
Dad: sighs
Her: there's cupcakes over there
Love yourself! - him*
@@lipinject oh right
*Him
That part was funnnyyy
Him****
everyone who's saying he isn't transgender, he may be scared. from the parent's obvious reactions, it probably scared him. men can act feminine and women can act masculine. gender stereotypes suck
ThatBecca exactly! I’m a trans boy and can be quite feminine at times and people make me feel like less of a boy for it, which makes no sense.
@@avb042 me too I'm a bit feminine. But I guess I kinda feel bad for it cause people say I'm not a "real boy" if I'm feminine. It pisses me off
You're not Amanda, you're a man, duh.
Okay, that was awful, I'm sorry...
You're Riley :)
Wdym that was awful. That was brilliant.
U stole that from friends
"I'm also pansexual.... There's cupcakes over there!"
Best part of the whole video.
I’m pansexual..
Dad: *sighs*
There is cupcakes over there too
Damn Riley that sucks. I’m so sorry you have to deal with this shit... but damn you SHUT it down with “there’s cupcakes over there”! You deserve all the cupcakes manz
Your coming out speech was next level poetry shit. If my kid came out like this I would be proud AF. I'm so sorry this went badly for you.
Same i would have taken them to pride and bought them a hat with their identity on it
"Even if they hate me, there's cupcakes!"
THATS LITERALLY ME
If you're a boy you're a boy you be you and be proud. You have all my love and support
"I'm also pansexual. there's cupcakes over there." I love him.
30 seconds in and I see "father" in quotation marks. This is not going to go well.
“YoU fEeL pAiN sO yOu ArE pAiN?!” That is not the same. Gender is your BRAIIINNN and physical pain is SIGNALS SENT FROM NERVES. “There’s cupcakes” was a great break in the middle lmao. Love your courage.
Signals from your brain........
You are a boy. You are a full male, and if anyone tells you you’re not, they can’t see who you really are. Be who you want to be, okay?
Are you being serious or
@@cheetahlegs duh they probably are.
Coming from Home Depot 😂
@@GenerallyJewels progressive Home Depot.
@@cheetahlegs years late, but yes, I was
Your parents should’ve known better..
Amanda? No. It’s A MAN, DUH.
tea I am. D. E. A. D.
It is Mam, sir.
ur pfp has me dead 😩😩
"Its" a woman.
FUCK YES I LOVE THIS 😂😂
I'm just gonna quote a drawing/comic real quick.
"Do you want a boy or a girl?"
"It doesn't matter what gender our baby is. We'll love them anyway,"
If it didn't matter then, why the fuck does it matter now??
Oh God, I feel so bad for him. I hope he got out of that household and found a new supportive chosen family
i also feel bad for the dad :(
@@Jediguil the fuck are you on about
@@Jediguil what the fuck
@@Jediguil I don’t feel bad for the dad.
How to fix everything:
*There's cupcakes*
IrregularNoodles 😂😂💀
I relate to this on so many levels, my dad told me, "You're a girl, and, always will be a girl."
The problem is, I just live with my dad. And, I'm only 15.
Is your dad secretly my mum? Are we secretly brothers?
@@ashercanmakeapun4554 Please get me out of here
Do we have the same father? Are we secretly twins wth
Your father made my blood boil. He was disrespectful and plain out rude. He handled that terrible. Just because you were born in a girls body doesn't mean you have to be a girl. I will support you, riley
Riley, it's going to be okay. I really hope that it already is. But regardless of what your parents say, you are valid and you are amazing. I admire your strength during this video, and you handled what had happened really well. You can do this.
Isn’t scary how he had to say “let’s see if I have a home after this” like you shouldn’t have to worry about that.
I want to say thank you to everyone who's commented and watched this video. your love and support mean a lot to me. even though now I have no family members who support and accept me for who I am, just knowing there's random strangers online and friends who do makes things a little easier. So thank you so much.
You helped me.
I'm so sorry this has happened to you, all my love and support goes your way. It's going to be okay. Just please, make sure you're safe.
+the dying unicorn be who you are im sure they will love you no matter what if they dont want that for you then i say go for it shit im pansexual
+the dying unicorn You are a beautiful young man and I would be so proud to have you in my family.... I always did want a brother :) You are strong and inspirational and don't let anyone drag you down. Onwards and upwards with cupcakes galore!
Big hugs!
Mica Moore
XxX
I didn't finish the video cause I don't want to know what happens next, but I support u no matter what
Did he seriously just try to hurt you in order to prove you’re a “girl”
You are absolutely amazing. Thank you for making this. You are such a brave man. It took my brother a very long time to come out and today, some family members still can't accept it. Thank you for being so amazing💕
I recently came out as trans, frn and I'm turning 17 in a few days, I don't have anyone who accepts me I got such a similar reaction when I came out
Omg im 17 what did your parents say?
I honestly hope they come to realise that this is their loss, and I hope you just continue to thrive and be successful, showing them that being Trans has no negative impacts on who you are as a individual. Sending Love xx!!
Your accepted by me!
Yayyyy
“You have to learn how to drive a nail straight”.
Sorry, “I’m not straight” 😂🏳️🌈👋
To anyone who's been told they aren't valid, please remember that no one can tell you how YOU feel but you. It's your life, no one else's, and while there are various reasons someone might feel detached from their biological sex, you know yourself best and can make the best assessment of why you feel the way you do. Whether your feelings are because you're trans or not doesn't change the fact that they're there and they should not just be dismissed. Think about how you feel and have felt, and trust your conclusions first and foremost; most people don't question their biological sex at all, so if you do then you're most likely trans! Transgender people exist and, even if it doesn't seem like it, there will always be people on the internet and beyond who accept you.
The way they invalidated you made me want to ✨invalidate their kneecaps✨ 🥰 I hope you’re ok now man
WAS HE TOUCHING YOU?!??!?! AND CALL YOU A MISTAKE?!?!? CALL THE COPS THAT'S TWO FORMS OF CHILD ABUSE!
Jokes on him. Everytime he calls u Amanda he calls you- A man, Duh.
I’m not funny and someone else in the comments may have already made that joke but I’ll laugh at my own jokes.
hey Gerard:D
A woman she is.
Yep totally not disrespectfull@@BOB-id1sl
@@marleythespeciesfluid7306 The truth can't be disrespectful.
That is random and irrelevant.@@BOB-id1sl
How can people say to the doctors "idc if it's a boy or a girl,ill love them either way" and then,proceed to hate your son,just because he was born in the wrong body
How tf do you get born in the wrong body ??
@@distinguishedgentleman4510 well, say if you were born biologically female; such as Riley, you'd feel sort of... Detached with your body. Like you'd just feel like it's not you, and you'd feel like having a male body would better suit you. Basically you're a male or female on the inside, but the opposite gender on the outside.
your mom definitely handled it better props to her
I’m sorry you’re parents didn’t accept you- just know that there are hundreds of people who do. ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
I can’t comprehend how some humans can’t accept others that they’d otherwise care for just because of things they can’t control... please learn to support others for who they are, you don’t know them as well as themselves
I’m a cis bisexual female and I can only imagine the pain and suffering that trans people endure. I just wish I could click my fingers and the transphobes, homophobes, biphobes etc would be gone.
thank you .
- from a young trans boy 🖤
Hell yeah!
It says gullible on the ceiling.
No, really! Look at the ceiling in the video
Thomas Horsman
You have no idea how loud I laughed
Thomas Horsman oh my god I thought the comments were fake lmao
that was the first thing I noticed during this video!!
"im not trying to hurt anyone's feelings" WELL, DAD
Aww I'm so sorry you're parents reacted like that. Don't change who you are for anyone. It's ok to be yourself and if people can't accept it then that's their problem. You just have to do what makes you happy.
I have hope you're okay now, I mean. I REALLY have hope that you are a strong boy, yes, BOY, YOU ARE A BOY. You are yourself, you are a lovely human. We are here, with you! Don't cry, just raise your head high and live, live the way you want.
Hearing the Dad call them a girl literally made my throat feel tight and I hated it
Y? She is a girl.
"No looking at your phone."
"* YOU SEE MAH PHONE *"
LMAOOOO
I’m also pansexual. There’s cupcakes over there. I love it sm
Dang, my parents are the same way. I have dropped multiple hints about me being ftm. my dad would joke around and say I should get my hair like a Mohawk. I would smile and say yes (the hint). He then would stare at me like I have done something 'wrong' and he them says your not a boy are you? I would say no because I don't want him to put a bullet in my head... (he says when I grow up I will 'marry' a white man with a good job, I then ask what about a girl? He said don't even think about it.) That's how I know my dad is transphobic.
I once asked my mom for a binder. She said no in a rude tone and said you're a girl not a boy, and 'they' will grow bigger no matter if you like it or not. that hurt me alot. I once sprayed on some clone, she made me change clothes. Recently she said when it warms up I will have to wear dresses. I said no, they make me uncomfortable. She said, i don't care.
I'm just lucky that my friends and two cousins accept me for who I truly am
stay strong, tune out the hate, and be your true self whenever you possibly can
did his dad hit him ?? when he said pain what happened
I hate it so much when kids tell their parents they are transgender and the parents say “no your not.” It makes me so furious like, how would you know?! It’s not your body! Only the person who lives in that body can make that decision.
Mr Skeleboi I mean they have eyes.
Intersect hahah yeah I know. But I’m just talking about how they feel on the inside. Not how they look on the outside.
I am so sorry, even though this video is very(3 years?) old. The courage it takes to come out to your own parents is extreme, and a reaction like this is horrific. I know how you feel, because I got the very same reaction, and it near killed me. I hope they've found a way to find peace with your decision, and I hope all's good now.
This is why I hate religion, and especially Christianity. People try to justify their prejudice and hatred with their "deity's words." "God did this so you must do this" bullshit. Dont believe all that Riley, you are you, amazing; I love you so much 💕
I’m sorry some christians dont understand
I don’t like calling myself a Christian because of the way some of them act towards the lgbt+ community, but I do believe in god and I’m also bisexual
I get a lot of hate from both sides but I can’t help who I am
I love god but I’m also not going to lie about who I am 😞 I have a lot of Christian friends including myself who fully support lgbt , I hope you can change your mind that not all people who have faith think the same ❤️
Jus I don't like religion but what I find really funny is how in every argument with religion vs lgbt or left vs right or any really is the hypocrisy on both sides like you know if there is a god or not you act as if the religious people are wrong based on what you believe in which really makes you no better than themn the same actually they can't except you you can't except them.
*Your profile picture makes me REEEEE 🤮*
At least your mom is trying to understand and somewhat supports you
I came out to my parents as non binary, my dad told me I will always be his daughter and that I will always be a girl.
My mum said she loves me but thinks I'm being influenced by social media and that I never showed any signs as a kid and that she will call me by my correct pronouns and name once i am 16 .
Does anyone else notice the sign that says Gullible on the ceiling.
I did
im so sorry, I'm not a girl either but i'm not really a boy, I'm demigender and it hurts so bad when people say it doesn't exist or that I'm a girl or that i'm confused, it's what keeps me from coming out
🥺I'm pansexual transfeminine and you are who u are and I support u and believe u🌈💕
isn't that just non binary? or Genderfluid, or gender queer?
Ok but why the fuck is he getting so much hate? I understand some of you people are transphobic but keep it to your god damn self. No one deserves this much hate. Also respect people's pronouns he uses he/him pronouns so his pronouns are he/him.
abbigail smith Or they
I’m two seconds in and I already love him. ‘So even if they hate me there are cupcakes so.’ ME TOO.
This just randomly showed up in my feed, but now I feel so pissed at something I can't quite put my finger on. You are such a brave guy to be able to come out this way and share it with the internet. I so hope this story has a happy ending, for you and your relationship with your parents.
Um.....
It actually says gullible on the ceiling.
febreeziTV lmao
@@febreeziTV haha mine
the amount of transphobia, homophobia, and horrible comments agreeing with the parents here are gross, you are so valid man you got this. My parents had a similar reaction and I understand how hard it can be at times, stay strong 💙
I've told my parents that I'm not a girl and I asked for male pronouns and to be adressed as Jesse...
They keep killing me inside making me want to die when they say "Oh you're sister..." and " She's a girl she can't be handsome"
That only just happened today and I'm crying just thinking about that.
A random married couple said I was a handsome young fellow and I wanted to cry with joy but my mum shot it down imediatly. The couple didn't apologise as I think they saw my happiness when they said it...
Morgan Exists Bro I get you, I was outed by my sister so my mom knows but she just ignores it. Feels like shit, I think she's finding every opportunity to call me her little girl in front of family and strangers. Was shaking my brother-in-law's mother's hand when she asked me if I was my sister's brother, which I happily said yes to. Mom immediately shuts it down, asks if she's met her "daughter" and gives me a lecture on how I shouldn't be telling lies. It's crappy, especially since everyone's calling transgenderism (especially ftm) a "fad" nowadays. My sister and mother are two of the few people I've come out to, and they're convinced it's just a phase. I really do feel that pain dude, and I'm sorry you had to go through that :/
"I'm transgender"
"No you're not"
Well damn, he's got a good argument there
Lmao
Guy 1: Hey look it says gullible on the ceiling
Guy 2: oh it doe- awww you stole my lungs
Get it ;)
Panda Pancake786 I like pancakes anfd pandas
You stole it from asdf movies
Awe, I'm crying because what you said made my heart warm, Hope you have a good day and I hope your father would somehow accept you for who you are. :)
I hate when people say ”no you aren’t” like bish?! I didn’t know you lived my life in my body. Can people stop telling us that we are not anything that we know we are
I saw this on my recommendations, I am proud of you, well done for telling them x
+_R3DM4N shut the fuck up.
+_R3DM4N except he is a boy. He can be a boy if he feels like a boy.
+_R3DM4N btw your pun with problematic gracie was so funny (I'm being sarcastic)
+_R3DM4N sex - what you were born with
gender-what you associate with(look it up gender has to do with social and cultural differences its defined as different from your biological sex)
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+_R3DM4N sex - what you were born with
gender-what you associate with(look it up gender has to do with social and cultural differences its defined as different from your biological sex)
😒
They sound like the stereotypical hill Billy cristian homophobes on t.v
YOU'RE VALID, DID U UNDERSTAND IT? YOU ARE VALID!!!!! AND WE LOVE YOU, YOU'LL FIND A BETTER FAMILY, I PROMISE
Your dad’s reaction is exactly my parent’s reaction. They’ve become abusive now and an investigation has been started that will likely lead to me going into foster care
Michael McJunkin Im so sorry that happened to you...It's sad they don't accept who you are and the fact that their abusive I hope you get to live a better life in the future
Thank you
Have you tried getting them an apointment with a doctor or a psychologist who helps transgender people? He might be able to make them understand. I wish you the best of luck.
Yeah… the letter dropping their charges came in today. I’m not going into foster care.
"No youre not"
My heart 💔 this is honestly what I think is gonna happen with me when I eventually come out, and I'm scared. I'm lucky to be seeing a theripast, but I'm terrified of what my parents will say. I tried to tell my dad i was bi, and all he had to say was how dissapointed he was in me.
I just told my sister i'm lesbian, but she sayid something like: „ I don't care if anyone is gay/lesbian, but i don't like you if you're this". (She Is the first one who knows. She Is also 11 like you. I'm 14.)
I'm so scared Now 😖😖 what if She tells my parents?!!?! They are homefobs 😭😭😭😭
And at first She sayid " no, you're not lesbian "1
Knowledge is power! If family, religion, or culture makes coming out difficult for anyone that you know, the following blog post about homosexuality may provide valuable help: “Homophobia: To the Community” homoeroticpoems.blogspot.com/2014/04/to-community.html
I'm so proud of you Riley, you did something I sure as hell am not ready to do. We're all here for you Riley. And we all accept you.
they're too ignorant to understand
Zane Henry Har Har, no u
@Zane Henry he's*
Zane Henry says the one who can’t even spell
This is what I'm afraid of if I come out as transgender even if they accept me
I feel for you dude, I'm sorry you had to experience this.
Your dad sounds like those old slave owners is old Western movies
He really does
I knew it was gonna go bad when I saw "father" in quotations.
I’m a Christian but I don’t think it’s right to tell someone what they believe. Don’t tell your kid what they believe.
Hey man, you ROCK!! That speech was amazing, YOU are amazing just the way you are, don't let anyone tell you otherwise. I hope your dad has come around, and I hope everything is going well. Stay strong and confident, you're not alone :D :)
Totally agree - that was a beautiful speech and u r a beautiful person
Oh my gosh….I know how you feel. I came out to my parents as non binary and they said that I am just a girl….I cried my eyeballs out as I felt so….invalid
Hey human being, you're valid, everything you feel is valid, you are who you are and no one can take that away, best of luck friend - sad smol ftm bean
I honestly hate this though cause I completely understand I am ftm transgender and it’s so hard when no one believes you but don’t worry you aren’t alone in this I’m here for you
I couldn’t imagine going through this EVER. Please stay strong and know there are people out there.. Good luck Riley my dude.
I AM A LIVING BREATHING RAINBOW ikr?
I just love the timeline in the beginning. And it makes the common comments "it's just a phase" and "you are to young to know your sexuallity" unvalid
Not as invalid as your grammar.
*invalid* unvalid isn't a word
Invalid*
Too*
I felt really bad for Riley, He got shut out completely and almost Immediately, I wanna give him a huggg
Scrunchi *her
He deserves a hug
She
Brandon, you even acknowledged that gender dyaphoria is a thing. It's a miserable thing, at that. It hurts and makes you so depressed. Please try to understand.
She* Her*
I personally am not trans, ( I'm lebso) but to whoever is, should be excepted! LGBTQ+!!!
Wendy'sButt I'm bi and proud
this is the dumbest shit ive seen
TheWeird RemixA what is the point of going on videos of people's struggles and hating on them. I would argue more but really, who wants to step down to your level of ignorance?
I’m glad you’re old enough to leave and live safely away from them.
"I am a boy
I am pansexual.
there's also cupcakes"
me
This was amazing, like the big hammer then,"There's cupcakes!" He's so funny lol
"Even if they hate me, there's cupcakes."👌🏼
I liked how your mom reacted honestly. Even if she didn't like it, she still supported it. "If you want to change your name, your adult, your choice." Your dad was just outright...Ugh, he shouldn't react this way. Stay strong man, you seem like an awesome person and your hair is amazing cx
I'm a girl and I want to be a boy, not mention I'm pansexual. And most people in my family are religious. I'm planning to come out whenever I have enough money to have the surgery, change my name,and move out of the house. Right now only my mom and aunt know about this, those are the two main people who support me, and I'm very happy to them on my side.
Best of luck with that, friend. Also I love ur profile pic!
the second I saw the word father written as 'father' I knew it was about to go down
Tru
Ikr
Ikr
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same
I'm pan and trans FtM. I wish you luck Rylie
All of us on this vid r the pan and the tran and I love it
Mazzy Hiner Same Bro Same
Miles McQueary nah I’m lesbian
The mom didn't seem too bad tbh... Hope things are better now! Take care Riley.
A parent who can’t except their kid for who they are isn’t fit to be a parent
So they should accept if they’re a serial killer?
Accept if they are a rapist?
Maybe accept them if they enjoy causing pain and suffering to others?
I wouldn’t accept a trans child. You absolutely cannot DECIDE your gender. You are what you were born as. It’s just a matter of preferences.
@@justowen3441 Being trans isn't a choice. You don't decide your gender. Your brain is a different gender than your body
Torrin Ashley your point?
Your ad shouldn't say that shit. You leave your house. Get a girlfriend and get that sex change FAM!!!! You can do this! I believe in you! You're not a monster of a demon like your dad says. You are Riley!
CLOSED DEAD did you even see her other video
CLOSED DEAD you have to wait until you are 18 or over to get a sex change so they might have to wait a bit
Watch her other video smh
You go Riley! You are so brave and strong to be able to do this.
This isn’t a game, this is your life. And your dad equating his sins with you coming out is ridiculous. You deserve better parents Riley
Masked Marvel but it’s not a sin to turn your back on your children? Gtfoh
@@mmarvel2003 it's really not
A piece of paper taped to the ceiling that reads "gullible "
"but i cant, im not straight" same. i wish you the best lad, he cannot change you, so dont let him get you down. youre strong, youre powerful, youre riley. your father cannot change that.
I'm so sorry Riley! I am happy you are brave enough to come out, even if they weren't supportive. Riley is a great name. Don't ever change that for people who don't accept you🌈♥
Mandy*
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I feel so bad for Riley. He doesn't deserve to go through this ;.; I'm not trans or non-binary, but I am pansexual. I can't say I know how you feel, I'm not even out yet. But I will be coming out soon, and my whole family (or atleast most of them along with myself) are Christians. That's the scariest part, but I do know I have somewhere to go if my mom ends up hating me, because even though I'll still love her I won't be able to live in a place that makes me feel bad about who I am. I've already gone through being suicidal before I even knew I was pansexual, I don't need to be suicidal again, it's not healthy and it's no what I want. I am depressed, but I know I'll be better, so atleast I have happy thoughts going for me. My mom is a homophobic Karen, (her name isn't Karen but she has the Karen haircut lol) and my dad is someone like me, who believes all people need to be loved no matter what. My dad and my step-mom actually have a trans friend and I told my step-mom I wanted to meet her, so I'm hoping after I'm out to my dad I'll be able to meet their friend. If you're wondering, I'm only keeping it a secret from my dad because he's a blabber mouth, not because I'm afraid or anything. So far there's six people that know I'm pansexual, and they're all supportive and don't get annoyed when I myself make pan jokes 😂 anyways enough with my blabbing.
Pan is the same as bi. There is only 2 genders
@joe mamma no
*Anxiety creeps back into me* yeah I am waiting till I'm like at least 18 and I am planning on getting out of here, I am 14 and yes that is young but I know I am panromantic and genderfluid. If it will change then I'll figure it out, I'm not planning on any surgeries since I am scared of surgeries but I know I am what I am, I just hope my parents can be accepting and I would start crying if my parents said that, you are very strong and i support you
If it makes you feel any better, I'm kinda the same. I'm trans, not fully sure where on the trans umbrella. I'm kind of debating with trans guy, Non-Binary, and genderfluid. I'm also biromantic asexual. I came out to my family as being biromantic asexual and they took it the best way I could have hoped, except for my brother. My brother would keep telling me I'm probably just a late bloomer in that area and it felt super invalidating. I haven't come out to any of my family as not being a girl and I feel like I won't be comfortable doing that until I'm an adult. Hang in there, you are absolutely valid and you aren't in this alone. Added note, I'm also 14, I'm glad we live in a world where people are questioning and figuring themselves out at a younger age. You can do this ♥️🧡💛💚💙💜
I’m gender fluid and Demiromantic
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Every word