How To Love How You Look
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- Опубликовано: 30 сен 2024
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Learning to love how you look may sound shallow but it can be pivotal in how you conduct your daily life. In this podcast I discuss how I learnt to love how I look and you can too.
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"There's no such thing as ugly, only neglected." Powerful
"I look after me now" "I look after myself" "I care for myself"
I've been saying exactly this to people, but they say it's not true lol. Nobody is ugly, they are just neglected or do not know their beautiful traits to put forward
I disagree so strongly. There are certain faces that are hard to look at. Sometimes you are unfortunately looking and not your type at the same time. What then? Some features just look terribly bad, especially paired with other odd features and no amount of care (maybe only surgery) will change it
I’m a model & I got a rhinoplasty thinking it would help my insecurities & now I’m LESS attractive. My nose is now objectively perfect & it makes my face look bland. I wasn’t able to see the beauty of my face due to dysmorphia so I picked apart my individual features. A big mistake but it made me realize that the issue is me & not how I look & now it’s about learning to like myself instead of changing. Great video.
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You remind me of the Girl with a Pearl Earring painting without makeup. You are a classic beauty!
spot on!!
Omg yes!
I love one of your last points about being with a partner that LOVES your body type/looks. My last partner, I was not his typical type, and honestly I've never felt more ugly in my life. He was wonderful, but as a woman, we can tell when our partner lights up, and when its not for your type, it sucks so damn bad.
Absolutely agree. Not many people talk about how important it is.
HEALTHY looks beautiful on everyone.
Nice.
another little beauty technique - is looking at your own image or photo with true adoration. you will be surprised how only in 3 days - you will never doubt your beauty ever again.
Girl you are literally glowing. You are gorgeous with or without make up and have such beautiful skin. Your whole persona is infectious and high vibration. So grateful for you and how you have changed my life.
Thank you so much!!
The beauty of 2 beautiful women does not mean the absence of the either woman.
IT JUST MEANS THERE ARE 2 BEAUTFIFUL WOMEN.
It's absolutely insane how much your advice has helped with my self confidence. I am turning into a whole new person. Thank you❤
I'm so glad!
I am a classically cute blonde hair blue eyed tiny fit girl but was raised in New Mexico. I spent my whole childhood dying my hair brown, wishing my blue eyes away, tanning my skin, trying to get fat so I could have a booty etc. I moved to Kentucky for college and was shocked that all the popular girls looked like me (but without all the crazy baggage). I feel so bad for kids. Were sooooo desperate to just fit in.
Your type is well liked in many parts of the world lol. But you mentioned growing up in NM so I can understand where you’re coming from
I'm discovering your work and your content is so inspiring, refreshing and insightful, Margarita! Kind regards from Wellington NZ 🙂🙏
I have never understood why men are never bothered with their appearance and no one ask them to wear make up while women APOLOGISE if they go out without wearing it. Isn’t it insane?! Also, it pisses me off when I hear these interviews with women where they’re asked how much money they spend on cosmetics and they ‘half of my income’ or something like this 😮 Our society is being brainwashed, but there is this thing called independent thinking, why people don’t use it? 😢
This information is sooo important for woman to see i don’t consider myself a perfectly looking women but I have really learned to accept and love myself just as I am and I find it so unbelievably crazy how much hate I get from so many women who haven’t yet learned this it’s scary thank you thank you for being the amazing woman leader that you are this work that you do changes the world thank you queen!!!!✨🤗❤️
your supermodel friend watching this :
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girl make a fitness video!! you've got bomb glutes 🎉
I looked very obese in my childhood because of trama and abuse… also my very young marriage plus I put on 40 pounds… I after divorce and self awareness have slimmed down and felt and now look better now in my mid 30’s than I’ve ever in my whole life! No joke. This is truth because I l❤ve me now and the things I can change I do! 🌺🍀👋😊
Lucky to meet you Margarita love. ❤️
I’m in my early 30s and I’ve been feeling so ugly lately. I really needed this
Me too ❤❤
Hey! I am 58, I wish I could turn back time, in appearance.
Thanks for talking about ethnicity. I'm biracial and I find myself constantly feeling bad because I do not look like my white half (which is where I live). On top of that my personality is a bit different and I'm also culturally mixed. I feel like I'll never be the ideal "town girl" and that nobody will be attracted to me or brave enough to introduce me to their family. It's a very alienating experience
I get it, I kind of have the same experience. It's hard because I can't seem to connect fully to the people from my country. My personality is definitely different, but it's also what makes you stand out and much more interesting. You're probably a gorgeous awesome girl, but just do you. You're literally amazing as you are and carry that energy and embrace all of who you are ❤
We're in this never ending consumerism machine selling us every product and secret under the sun convincing we're not good enough. If you just make a little tweak here, slim this and that.. 24/7
Love this video. Very refreshing❤️
I'm very inspired by your content as a small creator and admire your consistency!!
You are a genuine person. No niceness masks, just a kind, real woman sharing her valuable insight. Love to hear you, sis
“I want to do everything I can do better the real version of myself.” This sentence succinctly and powerfully sums up my entire philosophy of beauty. Thank you for putting it into words!
Your skin looks amazing without makeup 🤞🏽would love a skincare routine
The way that you speak so directly is so helpful for me to absorb what you give out. Thank you for this- it’s such a gift
You were wonderfully and perfectly made. Your body is a temple. I pray you are at peace within and feel it without. Your aura is one of a kind and irreplaceable. Keep shining, be-YOU-tiful soul.❤
Life is so beautiful when we spend it creating, loving, etc., so why waste this precious time obsessing over whether or not we accept ourselves? So much truth. Thank you Margarita! ❤
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I think it's offensive that so many people call SJP ugly when she represents a regular all-American girl, especially in the 80s. It's like saying that everyday regular beauty is not enough.
Очень красивая без мейка❤😮
i'm brazilian and i'm not telling you this because i like you but trust me you would be very popular in here, we love a blonde bright eyed woman ❤
You make my Tuesdays better Margarita 💕
i'm 45 and finding it really hard to accept the aging process, on the face, on the body.... it accelerates so much after about 41/42.... tbh it's depressing me a lot atm.
Are you doing anything to preserve ? Facials, exercises?
@@nene-b6p yeah i use tretinoin, creams etc and trying to exercise (altho been home with sick kids or sick myself a lot lately). i've done a little botox on frown lines since age 37... any miracle advice? it does hit your self-esteem when people stop double taking or even looking at all! 🫣
this is very difficult...the man I loved and destroyed my heart, turned up with a Eastern European model type, tall, skinny, big mouth perfect fake teeth...opposite of what I am....and it makes me feel so ugly now...like I cant compete....the issue is, I liked him and not someone else...now I am told I need to find someone that would like me, because I cannot have the guy who chose someone more beautiful instead...I dont know how to cope with this
if that's you in the pic you are absolutely gorgeous! you dont need to be pretty like her, just be pretty as yourself💕
thank you, but she gets him and she gets him to treat her like a queen, taking her to trips, 5 stars hotels, gifts etc....and he treats me like crap and calls me stupid....I guess if I want to have a life like her I would need to be pretty like her....@@tine272
Totally get potato 😅
You have slavic potato features, I'm a baltic potato. The difference being baltic potato smiles a lot ( difficult childhood = people pleasing, also being naive/innocent), slavic potato don't smile just to smile (no people pleasing, tougher attitude, no worries to say what she thinks).
I love your advice and energy so much. You’ve really been helping me see things in a different light. Especially myself. My issue is my nose. One big difference I noticed yesterday was when someone called me pretty instead of saying ‘wise up’ like I usually would, I said thank you. Accepting compliments is definitely a good start💗
Same : nose. Thinking how it is my ancestral heritage instead of this thing to “fix” (homogenize)
I have a big nose too. When I was 18 at my grandfather's funeral a man whom I've never seen in my life came over to me. He said, "I know exactly whose daughter you are, you've inherited the most beautiful features of all the family." That really stuck with me and shaped some part of my self-image, think about that.
P.S.: I opened your picture, you look absolutely stunning
Strawberry legs are not fixable. But I’m learning to accept that my skin is beautiful
Thank you 🤍
Absolutely agree with every point apart from the gym, cause I go there myself (even tho I do horse riding in the side) and for me it’s a sign of consistency and self control, very hot features indeed. It’s just a matter of whether a man makes it the centre of his universe or just works out in free time from the stuff that is actually worthy of centering your mind around (achieving goals, learning new information, leaning deeper into yourself etc)
Going to the gym train your mind too...
I am an engineer and being among mostly men is not celebrated at all😢. Women can be catty as well, but with the criticism I have learned how to love myself. We all just need to support each other. My confidence came from surviving the doubt to show my self and the world that I matter!
I’ve recently stopped putting foundation on just powder my skin looks better and sometimes I put only powder and blush to work and guess what I don’t care! But I think it comes with an age when you older you stop carrying what people think especially people you don’t know or you don’t even like! I’ve stated using natural products and my skin improved and it’s glowing🤩ps.I love make up and to look good by the way;)so even for someone like me it does work not to care!
Dropping facts while also being so ironically funny
Loved it
Very uplifting and good video
Ok, but putting soy milk in your coffee instead of cow’s milk is very masculine
Yes! This👆. It’s so hot when a man orders whatever non dairy milk he wants and doesn’t give a crap what anyone thinks about it 👏
In the past I didn’t like the dimple in my nose. My fiancé adores it.❤
Pls how you got rid of strawberry legs😢
Margarita- Online dating is hard. Especially when I feel like I look way better in person yet some guys want to video chat before we meet. I don’t look my best on video. And honestly it feels lazy of him anyway or distrust- he has to make sure that it’s me before willing to meet for coffee? Should I just say I’d rather meet in person?
you have a great sense of humour 😂
You are absolutely beautiful the way you look and speak. Hi from Dallas 😊
can you make a video about how to maintain attraction and love in long-term relationship/marriage when going through very rough times? not rough times as in arguing a lot, but as in crisis, life crisises, serious illness, bankruptcy etc. all the horrible stuff that life can throw at you while sharing your life with someone else for a long time. how do you maintain a strong relationship through such hardship? how do you maintain the attraction when you or both are feeling defeated by something?
I was told I was fat since I was a child… looking back now I was very skinny and because of that I developed body dysmorphia . Now I have to be very careful and conscious because sometimes I dont even know if I trust my eyes or the mirror or even a camera
I freaking love you. You're so funny. I'm quite a bit older and not all content related but I do value a lot of this and how you relay it. Thank you ❤
It is so hard. I was born with a malformation which affected my face. I had near than 20 surgeries. I had boyfriends and so on. I am skinny, I do a lot of sports, i have blue eyes, I am tall, i have long and healthy hair. But because of this malformation I just can’t see anything beside this. The scars and the fact that I shouldn’t be born with this face, surgeries helped a lot but I know that without it I would have a different face. And no matter how hard I am trying this is really hard to surpass this and “accept” this. This doesn’t come from my ancestors or whatever, it’s just bad luck I guess. And even if I also have a lot of “””pretty””” features or like things that are celebrated in our society in my mind and my eyes I have this difference, this thing coming from nowhere but here with me since my birth.
Your videos are helping but still this is a hard thing to deal with.
(I am french so sorry for my non perfect English)
Dear Margarita, I’ve been following you for one year, and your content is always a breath of fresh air. I recently launched my own channel inspired by your message of self-love. I’d be so curious to know, what has been your biggest challenge in learning to love yourself? Your journey has truly moved me. 💋 x
I'm almost 50, grey hair, dress less than flattering, and have no make up and I attract people with a HUGE smile 😊 I engage people in conversation and people just open up and continuously compliment me. I take it 😊
big sister 💗
It's quite funny how you said you did not like your nose, one of the reasons I was so intrigued by you was because of your features and especially your nose, you are such a stunning woman I adore your features and you as a person in general, fr❤❤❤
This is great and it's the sort of thing that people should talk about more.
The irony though is that you would never see a video like this made by someone who's looks are below average, or who has aged without some kind of modification(botox, surgery etc).
Can you please make a video addressing the extreme transformation of Eastern European women? Some of them change themselves so much, that the world now believes that huge lips and tiny button nose are the original look…
My boyfriend told me that he liked blonde and blue eyes and im the opposite (latina type). Should i leave him? Cause ive been feeling so insecure in the 6 months weve been dating … 😞 ive never been insecure about myself and now … ugh . Should i be with someone who will worship me for being me ? 😞
It’s better to leave. Think about the long run will it be worth it if he keeps lusting for his true type? I left a man who liked insanely thin, pale, big boobs type of woman while I’m more tan with curves. Why stay and feel insecure with him when there are men who DREAM about your type? Also, a boyfriend isn’t a husband so you aren’t obligated to commit.
@@BashaerB-h2c THAT’s so true. Man who dreams about me, where are you? 🤣
Woah I never thought of Europeans comparing their beauty to other Europeans . Holy crap
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We come in so many different and interesting forms. We are like God’s garden of variety. I feel deeply sad for everyone changing their characteristic features for plain and boring like that latte! I stand with you with uniqueness! ❤❤❤ P.s. As a woman in my 50’ I haven’t even considered a facelift. We are still young, contract to popular belief. When you treat yourself well, you remain well! The visible aging can vary dramatically based on the lifestyle not the age. And btw, even the aging face can be so beautiful when you wear it with grace. Internal work! I love your content! ❤
I have slowly accepted many things about myself with time. I am okay with getting older and having grey hair. However there are two parts of my body that I just cannot seem to accept. I have tried cosmetic treatments on them and nothing seems to help. Do you have any advice for "acceptance-resistance" body parts?
Your videos are amazing, thank you for everything xx
As I am watching I am exfoliating my face with this mornings coffee grounds ☕👩🏼
I feel genuinely ugly. It doesn't matter how well I take care of myself. I'm not what most people tend to view as pretty.
I have attracted a few lesbians though.
I'm an exaggerated flamboyant natural with a bit of extra muscle and weight. I'm assumed to be athletic. I have more masculine features in my face as well. Much of society just doesn't appreciate women with masculine features. I don't look like a normal woman so I'm not treated as one.
Haha, so true. I studied at a tech school (75% male) and it was really good for my self development. I got to know and love men in a spiritual level also.
Well, you will be always pushed to diminish yourself eventhough you are gorgeous (some men do this as an strategy to sleep with you, be careful!) It is true that in this world women are feeling so depressed bc they are told by people in their life that the only important thing is her beauty, but not her natural beauty but a beauty that is not real, bc it is artificial.
We should change our context by being mentally strong, and take care of our mental health and our bodies first
BUT i will say that taste in men is something that is very subjective, for example I am soooo attracted to muscles and gym bros (deffo not for everyone) but trust me there are people who like those kind of men lol
Thank you so much for this video, it was deep and empowering
You don’t need make up Margarita you’re perfect! ❤ I watched your videos every day you help me a lot. Thank you keep up the good work.
I am a Ukrainian potato and can spot another EE person anywhere. We usually spot each other like sup cheekbones 😂
You are saving me! I am so blissfully grateful that i have discovered you! Cheers from Uzbekistan ❤
i love how articulate you are!
Your mother's friend would have been an ex friend!
I always click on your video first. You are the best.
Choose a man ? Wow What an abundance you are blessed 🍀
you look like the girl with the pearl earing ! - Vermeer
off topic but are you sitting on the ground?
I needed this and so does my daughter! Passing this on to her! Thank you! 💗
Your so Beautiful Marga❤
Wow, love you Margarita ❤️
Please go help baby magpie 💕
I don't necessarily think you have to love the way you look. Being oblivious isn't healthy or helpful. Some women are not pretty. And that's okay. With age, I have come to a place we're I'm happy with myself as a person and have accepted the way I look. I am fully aware of my flaws but it doesn't bother me. I think as you get older you realize you're not your body or your face, I'm amazing and I don't have to be beautiful or believe I'm beautiful to know that.
Love this video ❤️
When you were talking about features, ik what you mean. A good example for me would be Vanessa Hudgens. Some of her features (wide nose, smaller/not full lips, short) could be considered less attractive in some societies/cultures or to some people. However, she's still gorgeous
Thank you for this content. I comment on this video but I watch them all! I find that your way of expressing things is so visual and expressive that you have no chance but to look at it and process it. I love how you can give your opinion, even if sometimes polemical, without being judgemental at all. Its like alchemy! How do you do that? It's really difficult not to like you. Thank you for opening up and for being out there as a reference for other women ❤ we need to follow more reknown people with values and a relevant message, and less famous people with not that much to say.
Michael Imperioli (The Sopranos) … had a nose job to help him land a role on Goodfellas … looks completely natural 🤩 … Love you Miss Margarita 😘
Wow. This really opened my eyes. The part that really hit me was when you mentioned that there is always something unique about you, and just because YOU think its "bad" doesnt mean everyone else does because thats your personal charm. I really love this! You are the one person on RUclips that gives this raw real advice. Thank you :)
Wow 9 months and you still look amazing! If you have skin like that I'd rather not put makeup on. I never wore makeup until I stepped into medical school and the stress got to me my skin changed now I had to put makeup for various reasons, lack of sleep, high stress, lack of ventilation in school sleeping environment, etc. Goal is to have minimal makeup again after I get out of here. BTW folks in U.S. don't know of the thumbelina story! I keep asking people and they have no idea! I loved that story!!
The "can I have soy in my latte" type of nose thing really cracked me up 😄 so true. Sadly, I did work in engineering, in a male dominated environment where I was the only woman, and I have to say I didn't feel like a superstar at all...I just felt out of place, constantly in my masculine energy, it was draining and I hated it 😢 wouldn't recommended that. Loving the magpies out there ❤
I laughed so many times in this video. Thank you Margarita
This video is helping me a lot, it’s just hard having a bigger nose as a girl (Greek) with a strong big bump, with the no jawline, or lack of it. Sometimes I wonder if that is the reason I’m treated by a ghost by society.
Will you ever touch on the subject of religion, more specifically Christianity? I'd be really interested to hear your perspective on it
Love the video, but what if the “can I have soy in my latte” guy feels better about his nose and doesn’t feel like he killed his charm. Same analogy can be made towards you. Someone saying that they liked your original smile before you got braces twice and Invisalign.
In my culture, it's very important to have a small nose and western features but I've always embraced my ethnic looks and can't ever imagine myself changing. I feel perfect the way I am but for some reason when I am about to go on a date, all of a sudden I start getting OCD and fear a male's judgment. I have no idea how to stop that.
A BIG THANK YOU to you for sharing this video. You dont know how this has helped me and how I just happened to find it at the right time. Your clarity on the details of this topic is praisworthy. You have touched every point. As a woman I could understand and moreover relate to almost each and every point that you highlighted. "Accept what you cannot change and improve what you can change." Please keep making more of such videos. Glad that you chose to share your experience and knowledge with all of us here.❤lots of love.
Damn this makes me love my man even more cuz when he sees a woman that looks like me there is no twinkle 😂 he doesn’t twinkle for any other woman except me 🥲😭👏🏼 however I don’t want to measure beauty based on a mans opinion. I feel like that’s unhealthy.
I wonder if you're a Landmark graduate?
Another great piece of content and well spent 33 minutes:)
I wish i had your face shape 😂 my face is squarish which already makes me look fatter than what i am 😂 i have a genetic condition so i cant have surgeries. I wish i could do something to my jaws but i cant have any surgeries or risk infection as i barely have an immune system 😢 my nose is big but i actually like it. That i can accept but my face shape makes me die inside. I need to try to accept it. Trust me i have one of those unforgetable faces. Still have to learn how to make the best of it 😅
💜💜✨✨✨🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 blessings to you and your family thank you for raising our vibrations with every video ! You are making an impact more then you know !! 🙏🏽💫🙏🏽
What about the dynamic of you meeting western « euro » standard of beauty?
I'm so glad i found you. I love how you express yourself, it's so therapeutique because you explain things so well.