7 Signs You're Dealing With a Psychopath
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- Опубликовано: 11 июн 2019
- Today, you will learn about the signs of a psychopath, and if you're dealing with one, what to expect! Remember, sociopaths and psychopaths are different in subtle ways that are important to differentiate. There are many interviews with people thought to have psychopathy. This information is meant for educational purposes only. Only medical professionals can diagnose conditions such as psychopathy.
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Music: “Straight” from Bensound.com
Thanks to Tristan Reed (writing), Troy W. Hudson (narration), and HowlingCreations (animation) for helping to create this video! 
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My mother was one. When I became a mother myself it put into perspective the things she used to say to me. These were such damaging things I would never dream of saying to my own children no matter how naughty they were. They left crippling scars on my self-esteem and created such anxiety in me which I still struggle with today at the age of 72. The tongue is a deadly weapon.
Especially when you’ve been on the nasty end of a sharp tongue since you were born and by someone who is supposed to love you and cherish you
My Mom was brutally mean to me, but I forgive her
L R relatable - my mom is one too ☹️
@@ItalianWarrior777 that's all you can do really forgive and move on
Wow....72...you gotta let that shit go
These traits are consistent in government officials and corporate executives.
Mar Jeff well in fact so many politicians and corporate executives are psychopaths because they can easily decide with no emotion attached !
True point.
Straight facts here
That’s awesome, let’s keep paying their salaries and funding their tyranny.
Good people without these traits need to run for office. We have to get over our hatred of politics first.
He didn't talk about how psychopaths can recruit, organize and exploit people.
Like politicians.
Like most bosses
Jeff bezo
Like people watching this video with "curiosity"...
It's better for everyone not to know how it works
1: exaggerated egoism
2: behavioral chaos
3: insincerity
4: parasitic lifestyle
5: disgust threshold
6: facial attention
7: missing distress
number 2 sounds way more tuned to sociopaths as one of their descriptions are impulsive and erratic behaviour lol
Thanks! Saved me time. 👍👍
Well...then I'm a psychopath... and like being honest
Sounds like a real estate agent to me....related to a used car salesman...same petrie dish
@@serenitysmith352 so true
They don't only fake sympathy to gain something from people. Sometimes they do it to appear normal.
That's my ex, my step father told me he knew she was faking she liked him to get money to borrow. I felt embarrassed 😳
Oh, playing the victim is a very handy dandy fall back.
Fake sympathy to gain something from people every girl I know Haha
Hell yeah ...you know me for good 😂😂
i have mild psychopathy and i have some relatives and friends of mine i really love and because of my ability to understand emotions and behavior patterns i usually try to give them advice if they need it and they told me i always seem to be empathic. i always tell them i am unable to be truely empathy but i'm trying to be a helpful and caring person lol
Trust your gut when dealing with people.. Don't ignore red flags
Well...don't be a critical cheating christian..lmao
Shari GetzFit yes
Fabulous advice Shari! Once the red flags arise you need to get out as soon as possible
Perfect advice. Can't stress it more. If it doesn't feel right it isn't!
Right on the point.
Another thing i find is that since they lack the ability to feel emotional intimacy, psychopaths tend to be very power driven.
@ItsStillRealToMe DamnIt I think only to a moderate degree. Sure, no one wants to feel vulnerable to others' whims but people generally don't aspire to, say, rule the world.
Yep. “Status” is EVERYTHING.
Agreed, they cannot love (and for that reason they can't enjoy sex! - hence the frequency with which they delve into "kinky" alternatives, up to and including murder ...
@@oldishandwoke-ish1181 totally wrong. Its really depends on the person in question
@ItsStillRealToMe DamnIt No, most of us get off on neither.
This is why im suspicious when people are too nice to me. If I get a hunch they are trying to gain something out of me or use me I try to distance myself from them. Had to cut my dad out of my life because he's an undiagnosed pyschopathic narcissist. Always put your personal happiness before others. Your worth it
i am so nice..i am psycho...
Ever see the talented mr Ridley with Matt Damon? I knew a guy like that. Everyone loved him, he hurt individuals secretly. They Always have a dark secret like being angry about being in the closet
Always putting your happiness before that of others is literally one of the red flags they went over in the video. Maybe you are one too?
@Jo Fugya Yup
Always putting your happiness above others is a psychopathic tendency. Being kind to others is rewarding for normal people.
I am so sad that we dont get taught about this in high school when we need to learn to distinguish among people who are good or bad for us. This should be part of the curriculum and will save so many innocent lives.
Aash Kat ummm did you even watch the video at all?
@@prissylovejoy702 hi prissy, not sure what do you mean?
Aash Kat Exactly. They don't teach anything that could save peoples lives. I wonder if it's intentional, hmm.
@@cjpark5748 in my opinion, world's education system and also parents have not realised yet that the world has changed a lot in last few years since technology, social media breakout. Society has changed and so the education system should improvise too.
Its very sad that now people open their eyes and minds only after a tragedy occurs means when someone dies/commits suicide :(
@@aashnakatyal yeah, world's secrets are never taught in schools
If you think something's off, trust your instinct. Don't get involved. If you already are, get out. But watch out for the kind of revenge you couldn't dream up.
Wouldn’t worry about revenge unless you do something other then cutting contact.
Yep. The nx loosened the lug nuts on the back of my car after our last fight/before the official break up talk this summer... I told him about the lug nuts, and of course he didn’t get too excited about it. Tried to blame my mechanic... 🤦🏼♀️
Mindy Lehrman sooo, he is a psychopath because of that? Cba
Right ! People can be absolutely clinically insane !
@@corruptcentral7992 ...sometimes I think that does not matter with some people ! You think cutting contact is enough ? Think again !
That was the longest intro before the count down I’ve ever seen in my life
Yessir - I nearly switched off because of the intro
Yes very irritating😳
Gotta hit the algorithmic sweet spot
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Listen to your intuition when you very first meet people.
North American society is mostly psychopathic and sociopathic. We have made it that way.
Psychopaths aren't stupid though. If they pick up on the fact you've picked them out, you're in trouble. I lost my last job once a psychopath who knew I'd figured them out reached a small position of power in the company I was at. This isn't a game and these monsters will destroy your life if given half a chance so be careful.
@ItsStillRealToMe DamnIt A gift for him. The psychopath was able to rob someone of their employment in a small industry simply because they were inconvenienced by having a neurotypical/empath who'd seen through them. The society we live in allows psychopaths/narcs/dark triad types to reap havoc and our only option is to flee while they take positions of power in businesses. It puts empaths at a considerable disadvantage in the job market as it looks like we're transient and constantly changing jobs but in fact we're fired/pushed out by psychopaths and if we bring this up at job interviews it's seen as sour grapes. I know what you're saying, it's just pretty demoralising knowing that any workplace with more than 20/30 people is going to have at least one or two of these creatures plotting and scheming to drive certain people out of a company.
It doesn‘t help because they know how to manipulate you and set your gut feelings out of function.
I used to say always trust your pet. Now I say: if your pet likes a stranger, it means nothing. But you better listen up when your pets HATE a stranger.
Narcissist/Psychopath is a spiritual, emotional and physical vampire. They drain you and when they feel they have gotten all they want from you, they already have their next victim in place to replace you.
You are Correct.
Energetic vampire.. ⚡🧛♂️
Yes. I do have proof. Blessings
@Mel. you buthurt humans are catching on & waking up?
Good, you should be afraid. When they fully awaken and shed their lower vibrational cocoon they will become the Enlighten & resonate on a higher level of conciousness.
@Mel. Lol 😂
They also accuse others of what they, themselves are guilty of. Listen to them bash others and they're really telling you about themselves.
ive noticed this as well
You mean Democrats?
Peter Storms Politicians of all (fake) stripes.
That's a gossip...maybe the same thing as a psychopath.....
Its called projection
The one thing I found the most fascinating was when someone is going through an emotional moment a psychopath will focus on their mouth. I've seen this before but I never attached any meaning to it. Excellent explanation
I do this, but I'm not a psychopath. My hearing is fine, but for some reason I watch lips while listening. I've always worked with people from all over the world, who speak a variety of languages, and I'm good at understanding people with strong accents because of it. Unfortunately, having adapted has left me with a behavior associated with psychopathy...which is as hilarious to me as it is absurd. I hope I dont have any other traits, lol.
@DecrepitOrigin888 , well yes, I look at both. It doesn't take long to identify that someone is upset by their facial expressions. It can be just as insensitive to miss what they are saying as it is to miss the look on their face expressing an emotion. Especially in situations that involve a range of people who all speak different languages, it can be frustrating if the person with something to say is asked to repeat themselves or the words they do say are misunderstood.
@DecrepitOrigin888 oh they do this. My boyfriend when I am upset about anything especially explaining something that involves him like why he didn't get something, he JUST focuses on my mouth with this MEAN ass scowl on his face & if I turn to look at him he will turn away & say "idk man" so I'll turn away again & he'll go STRAIGHT back to staring at my mouth. I can't believe this trait is in here. Very Very telling of their personality :/
@ItsStillRealToMe DamnIt read my reply above 👀
@DecrepitOrigin888 lol yeah but you do it cause you're listening to the language, and said sometimes you look in the eyes. It's not the same as someone being flat out hostile & impatient while doing it to you.
Don't mistake this with dissociation though. It's difficult for me to feel anymore but I am not a psychopath.
Key word...ANYMORE.
Don't confuse with going numb or suppressing your care factor with someone who never cared to begin with.
Justin - That's exactly what a psychopath would say.... 🤣
You're not a *murderous psychopath... Hollywood has redefined a pretty useless term coined in the 20th century! This video is foolishly trying to reclaim i that term.
@@mikeypaoli8580 no i understand what they mean. I dissociate sometimes due to trauma but otherwise im so sensitive to other ppls pain that i can sometimes feel it before i knw theyre in pain.
"if they go behind your back they blame YOU for trusting them"... well that is so true I've known a few like this
Yeah, still, it is your fault, I spent a lot of time working to achieve the ability to do that, why couldn’t you work for the opposite?
Mattao Williamson elaborate?
Mattao Williamson If that is what you believe...
MY birth father and most of the teachers and other authority figures I've met fall into this catagory. It's ALWAYS YOUR FAULT.
My family, folks.
Anyone else had a specific person in mind when watching this 😳😂
Jolleeee, my x son in law is a psychopath.
Trump lol
@@deliciaestes8555 If people had a dollar for everytime a mother in law accused an x- son in law of being a "psychopath" there would be many more rich people in this World..
@@s.l.s.l.1405 Yes Trump Derangement Syndrome "TDS" is REAL. No debate there!
@@erickelly4107 👍👍
I really think one of my former employers had psychopathic tendencies. They had no problem lying to customers, employees, and even the government. They cared most about their business, they didn't show empathy to me when I was sick one day and was mad that I didn't come to help them, and they didn't care about anyone else's problems at work, and a lot of their emotions were fake and empty. I got hurt at work one day, and when I was on the phone about it to my manager they didn't say anything nice or ask how I was, and when one of my co-workers who was pregnant at the time was ill and feeling cold I asked my manager if we could make it warmer and instead our employer called and snapped at me saying my co-worker was just cold because they were ill and that we couldn't make it warmer. It was cold too, even customers said so. Don't work for people that treat you badly kids. This person made me feel miserable and when the place I worked at closed I felt so relieved.
I have job shopped for 2 decades, I only had one super visor that ever seemed human, and she was living with rare brain parasites, it's sad here in Canada.
That person was or is a psychopath
@@stevenevangelist5221 Glad I don’t work for them any more
Memo to self: when planning out crimes to smallest detail, burn plans after crime is committed.
Why even plan crimes?
@@mounaghm6474 higher success rate
Every normal person watching this: oh crap, am I a psychopath?
Every psychopath watching this: yeah, but I’m different.
The video mixes up Psychopathy and Narcissism a bit, so probably. And then midway switches from psychopaths in general to the more problematic subset of psychopaths...
Lol😂.. some pts here I myself applied personally Seems medical surgeons, airline pilots, etc have some Psychop tendencies qualifying them these occupations..again 🥰🤭
My wife
LMAO FR
I think we all have a little psychopathic tendencies but some are really extreme....
People think psychopaths are like 😡
But really they are like 😐
No that's a sociopath. Psycopaths are 😏 😡
realryanthoman True. Reminds me of the saying, Still water runs deep!
Val O'Brien Distance yourself from them.
@Val O'Brien Yes they sure can
realryanthoman people think we are angry demonic humans. We can be the calmest kindest people we arnt insane.
This is excellent, thank you. And I truly enjoy the animation!
I'm less worried about psychopaths than the obsession society has developed with finding psychopaths under every rock. I've known one person who was a genuine psychopath and narcissist.
This. And I’m glad somebody said this. People are obsessed with labels these days, to the point where anybody they don’t like they attach an extreme negative label to it. “Oh this person I know does this or said this...he’s a psychopath or a narcissist”, or “I have difficulties dealing with this person, he must be a psychopath or a narcissist”. Ironically, the one calling everyone else a narcissist might very well be one themselves. Projection.
But yeah most people aren’t that deep, a lot of the times you’re thinking way too much into it. Maybe the person is just a dick, or maybe they don’t know like people, maybe their personality just doesn’t agree with yours. Maybe you’re taking something too personally when it was never meant to be that way.
@@nickp3949 or a lot of gossip
@@nickp3949 Your correct on the people jump into conclusions to fast with the labels,but you would for the most part understand if your were dealing with someone like this or not. Don't label someone if you don't really know them. Only label those that are actually in your normal life.
You should be worried because the society is controlled by them.
Psychopathy is essentially an adaptative evolutionary strategy for a r-selected ecology or, 'fast life history strategy'. It's not a big deal imo, 99.9% of the negative behaviour attributed to psychopathy is sadism which is a separate construct, or in the case of serial killers sexual sadism.
Other red flag, when words and actions dont ad up.
They allways have some exuses - they think they can talk them self aut of everything.
No responsibility - no remorse - no empathie.
Great point and even just in general something to be mindful of. Avoid people like that, dont bring them into your life. Nothing worse than liars and manipulators.
I don’t know who you are thinking of, but that is not us, I spent so much time testing and feeling those limits and sweet spots, no one believes they can talk themselves out of everything, but I firmly believe I can talk myself into anything if I do it well enough. And I fulfill all of my responsibilities.
so you know, MOST WORLD LEADERS, CEOS AND TEACHERS.
Sounds like Johnson completely
Thats a Flake
I feel that a lot of these behaviors are very similar to narcissistic behaviors, such as a grossly inflated ego, virtually no empathy or imitating it to fool you, insincerity, sudden violent tantrums/outbursts... etc.
I was thinking the same.. its almost the same with narcissistic behavior.. so whats the difference between them
*The biography of Dr. APJ Abdul Kalam..*
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The narcissistic needs something (supply, sex, services) and is stressed out when they don’t get it. It’s called a trauma bond, but still real. They can drop you, but need another source.
A psychopath needs nothing and has a purpose. No relationship.
Both are from horrible parenting, crippling stuff.
S. S. Cookies interesting point, but you could argue that most people believe in god because it is a human nature to want an answer to everything and to feel ‘spiritual’ and fit in with society, but atheists aren’t psychopaths just because they go against “human nature”. That’s exactly the point of this video 🤦🏻♀️ you can’t call someone a psychopath just because you find them strange.
@@4everu984 did you watch the vid at all? Psychopathy could come from genes,so they were born
This was short but sweet. Great video and helpful.
Unfortunately, before listening to your video I was unaware that these "signs" were no more than insecurities, etc., I really appreciate your sharing this knowledge and thank you very much.
If something is sad and you tell someone about it, and they don't have any real empathy like other people, that's not a good sign. They might seem pretty likeable at first, but if you stand in their way (in their mind), they will do something bad to you.
Isn't that just apathy?
No
Psychopathy: Here’s all 7: You’re welcome!! 👍🏽
1. Exaggerated egotism
2. Behavioral chaos
3. Insincerity
4. Parasitic Lifestyle
5. Disgust Threshold
6. Facial Attention
7. Missing Distress
I learned something here today!! Hope you did too!! 😉
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Holy shit ! That list is like every one I've ever met !
Karen Winston Dang man, I have one.
Licensed and insured A - it’s all good!! We all have flaws!! You’re all good babe!! 😉 Just one ain’t bad...
Thank you...I needed to see and hear this.
I had a very close friend in HS who was exceptionally intelligent, albeit his academic non-excellence at that time. But he always hid his intelligence as much as he could, as people would get the feeling that something is off with this guy whenever he talked (His social skills were rather poor, poor guy). They called him a psycho and they meant it.
Almost 20 years passed now since I last saw him. And now, he owns THREE big orphanages. Much more than anything those people (who called him psycho) ever did for the benifit of society. He is a respected member of the society now.
I am very happy to have met him closely and I NEVER once thought that he was a psycho.
Point is - *INTENTIONS/MOTIVES* - the biggest marker differentiating a 'real psycho' and 'not a psycho'. Only catch is - you'll have to be able to ignore the superficial mess and try to see the actual motive behind what anyone does.
Thats why its important to talk about what psychopaths actually are and how they act, so people dont mislabel others who are not. There are plenty of people on the autistic spectrum who are not very social, but they are not psychopaths.
"Psychopaths are often perfectly normal people who aren't dangerous.
Now here's a list of scary facts about how psychopaths' brains work..."
Its Crazy, but it hurts everyday
simmsquee People without conscience and impulsive ate very dangerous. Obviously you didn.t listen to the facts it clear examples. Perhaps.you should present this position to the facilitator.
Some of of it I disagree with but most is accurate, at least for most of us.
epiphany of veritas isn’t everyone impulsive tho? Conscience is not very useful for anything, and can easily be faked if necessary. Empathy is usually the biggest thing you need to build a bond with others, that is hard for me, but proven the most effective.
haha exactly
3:01 is where the 7 signs are started
Thanks
It's obsessive; when it's not quite 100% right or correct their "plan" won't work, it upsets them.
Anyone wanting to learn more I recommend the Book " the boy who was raised as a dog". It's an eye opening book on how early childhood can influence us dramatically. You don't need an abusive parent to become a violent damaged individual, simple neglect in the first years of your life can irreparably change your personality and tendencies.
Children are far more sensitive to trauma than in spite of the myths.
I feel like nobody has empathy anymore
Katie Bon your so right. Unfortunately 😢
Well sometimes in this cruel and wicked world it does seem as though no one cares anymore But there still are people who are decent kind loving human beings They just are few and far in between like anything else worthwhile in this world The earth is given into the hands of the wicked for these last days and that is prophecy being fulfilled But the most high is about to restore all things according to the scriptures
Myrna Davis they are certainly few & far between. I reckon I’m a good person. Wish I could meet other like minded people
Yep, you're not wrong. A whole society of psychopaths, now there's a sobering thought.....
@Ben W not true at all, everyone is going out there way to avoid narcs and sociopaths now . People know the damage they do .. plus the only women attracted to men who are abusive are women who've been abused so good luck with that.
Well at least after watching this I'm convinced I'm not one lol
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*The biography of Dr. APJ Abdul Kalam..*
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ye psychopaths know they are psychopaths for sure and they dont tell anyone they try to fit in with society and I think its only like 1% of the whole world
Then u r a loser
@@karla7765 shut up, psychopath.
Thank you for this video. I've learnt a lot. I'll try to use this video to compare assess real people and movie villains.
You go deep here, wow! Love the the psychopath will look at your mouth rather than your eyes, because they can ditatch from emotions if they give you news that is upsetting; but still clock your upset from your mouth without having to acknowledge your emotional eyes...now that's deep and impressive how you studied up on that.
I was married to one of these...this video exactly characterizes her. I notice that all the psychopaths depicted are men. As far as I know, there is no sex bias either way, so men, be careful!
Yes there is a female coworker like this
Thats all women
@@batman3279 To be fair this is not all women There are still decent women in this world with integrity and morals But I'm sure like you've come to realize they seem to be few and far in between The same with finding a decent man with integrity and morals They also seem to be few and far in between
She probably had borderline personality disorder.
@@myrnadavis2409 That's why I don't stereotype anyone. It's content of character that really matters.
I dated one for two weeks, she was gorgeous, which kept me going but she completely lacked empathy, she really couldn't understand that the world wasn't just for her to use.
did you tap it, tho?
She fine?
@@waterproof4403 oh yeah, otherwise I would have ended on the first day. non stop drama and impossible behaviour
I'm having flashbacks of Vampire in Brooklyn... "Evil's good - and ass is good! And if you get a piece of evil ass... *wooh!* "
Pretty typical woman of today
Thanks for this video. Very true and helpful information.
The saddest part about psychopaths/sociopaths is the fact that they can’t help it. They’re just born that way. It’s truly sad honestly.
Some are born that way. Severe abuse in childhood can also damage the mirror neurons responsible for empathy and thus can contribute to development of sociopathy/psychpathy as well.
Phycopaths are born sociopaths are created
why is it sad to be a gift of nature? we always have been the best doctors, salespeople, journalists, cops and so the list goes on...
Not for them it isn’t..
@@regularlinuxuser251 What an odd thing to say ! But on the other hand , predictable for a psychopath..
Alternate title: how to be a successful businsssman/CEO
Sudirman Alibaba yup you've got that right!
Haha, true 😂👍
Yes, you correct, survival of fittest or should I say survival of the smartest.
Capitalism gods way of separating the smart from the poor.
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Hahaha 😂😂
1 egoistic
2 emotional chaos
3 insincerity
4 parisitic lifestyle
5 disgust treshold is pretty high
6 facial attention
7 miss distress
Hmmmm……..sounds like Obama...…..
Muskrat Outdoors #HangObamasClintonsBushesAndSoros
@Mary Lane He speaks the truth and demonrats hate truth.
Muskrat Outdoors: Actually, it sounds more like the current asshole.
@@robinluich5576 democrats and republicans are the same thing, only progressives want to positively change this nation
Thanks for the video ! Now I know what to practise
I was married to one for 11 years! I finally wised up and fled back to a normal world!
My wife in a nutshell!
I was married to one for 15 years, do you know what that makes you??? ....smarter than me!!! By 4 years.
@@tittifck I am going on seventeen! You are both smarter than me.
I am married to one.
When i told my husband that I tested positive for covid last April, he was just so concerned about how he will have to be quarantined also, because of me!
All throughout our home quarantine, I was practically the one who shelled out money for our expenses - all groceries and meal deliveries, and my medications. And despite me being so weak with all the symptoms, I still had to do all house chores.
His only contribution? He was the one to pick-up the delivery from the door, and rub my back with herbal oil at night.
What took you so long? Will it take another 11-years to break out of your security back-step? Or have you painted yourself into another corner?
Happy to finally find a comment section where none is saying "OMG, Im a Psychopath".
Omg hilarious!!!!
U just killed me lol
Oscar Maidana But everybody’s six exes are all psychopaths, as usual...
Low key,,, all of us need help..lol
Hahaha at first i thought i have the signs but when he mention tht the other sign oh no i am not hahaha so im not sure lol
It pays to be single
yes it does!
@@caliwoman Yep
ora et labora Not really. I am old and totally happy alone.
@@MothaLuva Amen to that
Being single, you avoid spending your free time with all but one a-hole. And that makes life much more simple and manageable.
These broad definitions enable literally any human being to be diagnosed with these labels, which in itself means those treating Psycopathy are also Psychopaths. Doubt this? Make these statements to them and watch for these signs.
Exactly!!!!!! Those diagnosis don’t mean anything and most mental health diagnosers are hack therapists and hack coaches are themselves very irresponsible, ruthless, stupid, losers who diagnose everyone with the worst diseases, tell them that they have a victim mindset, tell them that they do not want to underestimate them but in fact make them have a victim mindset and underestimate them and insult them and give unsolicited rude demeaning cruel stupid advice to make that a self-fulfilling prophecy. I wonder whether they became therapists because they watched documentary about killers and thought that studying psychology would help them ruin people’s lives without any consequences because there is no supervision in therapy except for masters students and most therapists are parasitic thief losers who give no positive results to their clients because they care only about getting paid for destroying people’s lives.
@@mounaghm6474 wow so true. 👍
Great illustrations!
I cut one out from my life, all of the traits are the same as explained here.
Twisted view of reality, looks down on you, turn everything upside down and just crazy paranoid.
What a digusting piece of human flesh, never again.
I’m sorry for whatever happened to you but in a way you can’t blame a psychopath for being the way they are since most of the symptoms of psychopathy are there since birth
but hey, at least they know how the world works, good for them except for those who unknowingly deal with this type of person, it’s not that being cynical is key though
3:03 the Godamn thing starts...
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legend
Thank you
..lol Sheeesh
Thanks
Tq
Thank you for the video.
This is why I have constant scrutiny about what people truly are or might be when I go outside, I simply don’t make friends, psychopaths are excellent manipulators, so excellent that you would never even know until the destruction is done. Stay true to people you know FOR sure are fully good and not manipulators, the world is a very cruel, harsh, and deceptive place sadly.
They never apologize as they feel justified. It's always someone else's fault. If they stab you in the back it's the person's fault that told you
Yes!! And if they apologise it’s just words and no remorse
Are you the Military Industrial Complex??? Sorry I disagree with you about backing Israeli Foreign Policy, or War-Profiteering/Slaughter-for-Profit, and no I do not feel empathy for your lost profits that peace will bring, but COULD YOU PLEASE STOP THE PROPAGANDA AND CENSORING???
Joe Barcelona You’ve got the wrong comment section love!
If you loan them money.and they never pay you back..They blame you and will try and find something to blame you with for asking for it back.
@@reverseuniverse2559 Do I?
I would add. They act charming and so have a group of well groomed followers.
I thought that tendency was more associated with sociopaths meanwhile psychopaths prefer to keep to themselves or only to those they choose to keep in their close ‘circle’ or what have you.
@@_Orphic_ They are very simular in behavior. One can be one, one can be the other, or have a combination of the two. It is sad that the PPI test looks for these traits in police.
Much like deciphering when a person has a vascular and migraine headache together or not. But MRI studies show psychopaths have no feeling of empathy.
A professor in college recommended I read the book "Wisdom of the Psychopath". It does a good job describing this dreadful manipulator.
Chris Montreuil Ah, thank you for clearing this up for me. That makes quite a lot of sense now.
@@chrismontreuil2206 I'm amazed at how easily they 'groom" people around them. One in our community immediately gets every issue "going through them" and not many see the danger signs in bottle necking information. Even lawyers, prefessionals, retired, teachers all buy into this, and it contaminates getting anything done, unless it "goes through" her.
@@Dwightstjohn-fo8ki simply, people would rather hear a good lie than hear the truth.
thanks for the video
This is scary, because there are so many people that fit this description these days...
Including me
We are living under a psychopathic economic system ....
Wait hold on. You think Capitalism is psychotic. Yeah I mean look how kind and wholesome Kim’s regime is. I love the idea of having a leader that controls everything and let’s his people starve while also using them as slaves. Sounds like such a nice guy. Phew glad we’re far away from those capitalist psychopaths.
@@dundermifflin3847 Dear Dunderhead, for a start, capitalism is not "psychotic" - that means actually insane. Psychopaths are not insane. Secondly, ANY extremist, fanatical regime is going to be terrible, whether Communist or "free" market capitalist increasingly allied with fascism. And when it comes to starvation and slavery, take a look at how 50% of the U.S> population is living these days ....
@@oldishandwoke-ish1181 First of all I made a typo, and that was corrected by autocorrect to something I didn't desire it to be. Second of all well yes there are its flaws, but what solution do you propose? All the rich people give their money to welfare recipients?
The first sign is, they call you crazy.
John Devine omg u rnt lying! i dated this guy months. he started calling me crazy behind my back but smiled in my face. he would accused ofthings he afflicted on me as if he was the victim. he was very dependent. but i knew when he was bout to hav an episode, his demeanor would change drastically. from hyper happiness to extreme sleep, irratabilty n violent!!
That’s called gaslighting.
A common narcissistic strategy.
Your crazy
That's called projection, psychopaths know they are "crazy" and so they think everyone else is just as crazy
Yelp, they play mind games and will sabotage your sanity
Many Human Resource departments are full of these people.
One also sees high rates of this for people who are doctors, lawyers, law enforcement and judges.
These people are strongly drawn positions of authority and positions which offer oversight
and control of others.
Cops train in Israeli government programs to know everyone is a death threat
These professions make complete sense.. Just like Democrats
Jehovah's Witnesses is a safe house for Psychopaths, Pedifiles, Child Abuse and Domestic Violence
Retired therapist here - probably the profession with the most is politics. LOTS of politicians have this "disorder".
HR departments, in general, indeed have zero empathy and are great with knives.
Amazing info!
That egotism is what actually make my psychopath ex make very sick till he dies. When I told him what other people says about him. Somebody says that he and his brother is rotten to the core people, since then he become weak and become very sick and dies. What he believes is all people look at him a nice person and I was the one bad.
I dated a psychopath for a year. Most confusing year of my life. All of this video is right on. Scary stuff.
You should tell that story. I'd listen for sure.
He probably dated a psychopath too, going by your slander.
@Mara L First of all: we weren't talking about crimes - but even then - lynching and publicly blaming are not forms of justice and the monopoly on that lies by the state and respective courts. Second: Slander to me is name-calling and to point out that someone has done something bad when not being able to prove it. This is the case for the above comment. I'm sick and tired of people judging their partners when there are always two parts of a relationship. I myself was the victim of extensive shaming and name-calling in a very abusive relationship but I would never call them something in public or blame them entirely. It's called integrity and you insane women need a bit of that. Have a nice day.
Jon Reno just being real :)
Mara L the truth does always come out.... and I think it did. You are one of the few that know what it means to be a psychopath. Very few actually get it.
Once it said psychopaths specialize in logic and reason I knew I wasn’t one
Hahahahahhahahah
U r funny xD
LOL Yep, that goes for me too and me crying over my daughter's pet snake dying might be another reason.
Hi Lydia. We do highly weight logic and reason because we do not trust our own senses and constantly look for outside validation or reassurance that is proven since NTs are highly unreliable and prone to emotional distress that can alter the objective truth into "my truth".
@@Mr.Cedric7607 Wtf . Lol .
3:03 actual countdown begins from here
My good man, you have a new subscriber, you are dead on with your psychoanalysis, however you are missing small keys about us, as a new subscriber, meaning a new supporter I'm with it, however I will comment on your videos if they hit home to me, however I would never tell you a lie no matter how insane I am viewed... You can learn a lot from me all psychopaths are not the same there is no mind the same no matter how synonymous it thinks alike, when I comment on your videos for now on, keep in mind I am in a 98% mental to stressed state relentlessly, perpetually, forever.... If you ever fully understand me, there will never be a human being animal plant nor microbe that you cannot assist, mentally.... You are very brilliant young man however you are very misinformed, with that being said if you are misinformed so greatly and I still can acknowledge you and said the closest relation I've ever heard, you are a brilliant man, also you were also a psychopath also a sociopath, well done my boy 😂🤣😂🤣😂😂🤣🥀💀⚰️ I subscribe to your channel if you have a cash app just drop your cash tag and I will support your research I used to toy with the treatment team, they are psychologists and I found them mundane.... You are more brilliant than them and they had degrees, for real for real you ain't shit nigga get more brilliant than them, I will forever share this video thank you so much
Why wasn’t this information around when I was engaged to and married a psychopath?
Ellie you was the crazy one bitch
@@kerronthedon9306 What
@Life Is Beautiful! California You've obviously never met a true psychopath then. There is NO absolutely perfectly correct way to relate to a psychopath. There is no solution to their issues. There is no way a normal, regular human being can NOT be affected by what they say and do. There is also no way someone like you, who has never truly run across a real psychopath, knows anything whatsoever about Ellie, or anyone else whose been unfortunate enough to get tangled with one. Basically, most people believe as you do, that somehow the Ellie's of this world "set the psychopath off", "upset him/her", was "just as bad", "annoyed him/her and caused the psychopath to react negatively". You are absolutely, completely, 100% wrong. You may be assured that Ellie went through her own angst, thinking that "if only I hadn't said this/done that/been there/bought that/looked like this/that" my psychopath SO wouldn't have done this or that. That is also 100% incorrect. It did not, and never will, matter how graciously, kindly, patiently, tolerantly, lovingly and wonderfully you relate to a true psychopath, it won't make a blind bit of difference to how much they are going to blame you for every mosquito bite, for every red light, for every sub-standard burger, for every rude pedestrian. You have no freaking idea, mate. And I wouldn't wish a psychopath on even you in your blissful ignorance. Thing is, they don't announce to all and sundry they are like this. Just wait until you work with one, and start wondering why all the folk you work with suddenly treat you differently and scoff at you, when before they were at least friendly. Just wait until you find out you were passed up for a promotion, because the office psychopath undermined you, talked shit about you, took credit for your work, and if you try to rectify everyone's wrong ideas about you, you just sound defensive. Those suckers are CLEVER in how they manipulate everyone. Good luck.
kerron the don LMFAOOOO
@@Kayenne54 Always the women getting mad..
Perfect description of a former coworker I knew. Had to eventually cut them off - be forewarned, they will go all out and spread garbage about you to everyone, but hey - it's worth it.
Wow, he didn't even mention that a straight jacket will stay crunchy in milk.
Im glad he said its a gene, Ive often wondered if it can run in families and if it was a learned or inherited. Im in a family full of them.
'Being a psychopath doesn't make you a killer or a criminal. There are however, risk factors that increase the likelyhood of violence... ' 😂😂😂
Including psychological violence; they also cause the world financial crisis if 2007.
@S C psychopath!
@S C I doubt you're a real psychopath, as a real psychopath wouldn't admit to it online and allow themselves to be detected willingly. Unless you don't care to conceal your psychopathy. But that is highly unlikely.
@S C how do you fake interest. I find it so hard to look in their eyes nod and ask them questions. What do you do in such situations,for example if you want them to like you but cant hear their the bullshit anymore?
@S C sociopaths often act as psychopaths. They start off with no remorse for killing animals it escalates from there. You know like the cats or the friendly neighborhood dog that never did anything to anyone.
When dealing with people always have and maintain strong boundaries.
Anderson Mendes Someone put out a video about the Great Depression. His grandmother lived through it. She said that she feels sorry for the people that have to go through the next upcoming one. She added that when she went through it, people united and helped each other out. Now it’s a dog eat dog world.
Psychopaths don't let you have boundaries 🤷♀️
And enforce those boundaries with heavy weaponry
@@gigiw.7650 they will knock on your door at late hours, asking for pantry items. This will have often until you stop it
@Anderson Mendes Yea this so people who walk all over you hooe there dead in a fucking ditch
You just described every person that I've ever met which is why I don't say anything to anyone anymore unless it is absolutely necessary
If you want to end an interaction with a narcissist, compliment them on something or get them to talk about themselves. After getting their supply fix they will remember they need to attend to something in their very important life and rush off. With a psychopath, taper off with the grey rock method until they no longer find you interesting, then go no contact and never look back.
Simply, if you go looking for sympathy they will attack you.
My mother is like that and my sister is not too far behind.@Angry SimRacer
@Angry SimRacer talk to your therapist bruh don't air out all your issues on here
Probably because people that are psychopaths were incorrectly taught that having emotions was a bad and improper way to be. Thus they as they grow older see sympathy and empathy as the incorrect response. Sort of like if you attach an electric shock collar to a dog and each time it barks you shock it to modify its behavior. Anyone who is now considered a psychopath went through some sort of behavioral modification and whatever happens next to trigger the sort of revenge response is sudden because the average person doesn't know what happened to someone else in their past. So, whenever you meet someone knew be cautious about telling jokes and so on. Get better acquainted with someone. Sure they may turn out to a psycho killer. But do you want to find out what it's like on the other side of that equation? I don't think you do.
Uh, rightfully so. Why are you LOOKING for sympathy?
@@700joshr exactly!!
Opening statement, "not all psychopaths are bad" then at 8:14 "like lice or ticks psychopaths will latch on to you" ... GTFO
so your just going to discount and negate the whole video b/c that he messed up a line? Are you one of those people that thumbed down this video?
@@charleslee1862 "messed up a line" ... dude, he created complete graphics to back it up, I actually did give it a thumbs up, cuz I know this stuff takes work, but giving your comment a -1
@@onewordhereonewordthere6975 thanks for that... now I remember why I don't comment =))
911aDay many is not all
Warnings are not prophesies
Bahaha!!
My mother in-law, my wife’s daughter (from previous marriage) and one one the daughters sons inherited the EXACT behavior you describe. The daughter is very dangerous, the mother-in-law and the son are not. The worst thing is they totally deny they are psychopaths. Therefore, they will never get help.
This made me think of a time I was an intern in a nursing home for elderly people , this time I cried in front of my boss bc she was just verbally abusing me telling me I would never come far in life , that I just should quit and that I’m useless basically. And what I’ve noticed is that when I was crying all she did was look at me with a normal expression. This might sound normal, but what I’ve also noticed is that when she would smile her smile never reached her eyes. She was also very good at getting what she wanted hmm idk 🤷🏽♀️
My ex husband Is one. I suffered so much it almost cost my life. Seeing my kids play and thinking about them saved me. I managed to separate taking both kids with me and that was a turning point in my life. Years later, the other day,he asked me to give it another chance. He would even offer me a house. I stood in my power, and embracing my self esteem that l'd lost completely after living with him, l turned him down. Never again. Ever.
i`ve got a similar T shirt. It felt good turning her down, in a way it gave me my self esteem back and i`ve never lost it again since. Stay safe and take care.
Romi D, there is NOTHING WRONG with putting yourself FIRST! Some people live to prey on others, whether they are malicious or not, does not matter. Your choice was a great one!!!
Hold yourself accountable. No one has a right to make you feel LESS THEN and YOU ARE THE ONLY ONE THAT GIVES THEM PERMISSION TO DO THIS.
By holding yourself accountable, YOU TOOK THE POWER HE THOUGHT HE HAD OVER YOU.......remember this. Life is always changing. If you meet someone else, GIVE THEM TIME TO PROVE THEMSELVES TO YOU. It has nothing to do with what he can give you (materialistically). Allow him time to show you how he will treat you, your feelings, your heart and your mind. ALWAYS PAY ATTENTION TO RED FLAGS. If they can get through that time without drastically changing, your good.
No matter what, KEEP THOSE BEAUTIFUL EYES OPEN.
@@td2555 thank you!
Make sure he never finds out where you live and try to eliminate every connection to him: these crazies are unpredictable and dangerous.
he needs HELP
Sounds a lot like narcissism...
It is related to narcissism. ie. The cluster B personality.
Every psychopath is a narcissist. But not every narcissist is a psychopath.
It’s on the lower tier of the antisocial personality disorder spectrum.
@@yellowraincoat3777 i am sorry to hear that. You must had quite a disturbing childhood. Lets keep on the brideside..better sociopath then psychopatic parents..at least you are geneticly safe. Sociopathy is a learned pathology often after a huge trauma coused in childhood..its good you chose the good path even though you suffered a lot.
FETTY FRESCO
It is.
This is so acurate...wow!
I like how he starts with the statement at the beginning that being a psychopath doesn’t make you a bad person. Then he goes directly to how we’re parasites that normal people need to forcibly cut out of their lives.
"loook at mee" you
What the narrator was trying to state was that certain people were born with the gene that would cause them to be pre-disposed to inclinations to act out in ways that medically define a psychopath. Those who then realize this, and attempt to control those inclinations thru medical psychological intervention, are people who live normal lives as productive members in society. It's those who don't choose to control those inclinations and harmful tendencies towards others as the ones to be avoided at all costs.
Yeah what don't you get? Prisons contain many. If you see a big ugly dog do you pat it or avoid it?
"We're parasites that normal people"...
hmmmm
@@jackasschicken5922 wtf fr dud I thought he was going to praise us
Their eyes are truly a window to their dysfunctional soul.
They are not dysfunctional they are better an smarter then all of us
@@wtfartizts6928 naah not really... Depends on how you define better, but empathy is overall a quality not a defect... When it comes to intelligence, they maybe are more intelligent on average, but you can still with great probability find smarter non psychopaths amongst the other 99% of the population
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@@marekb1556 you may be right but how much could we accomplish if we wasn't busy worrying about how we feel no heartbreak or death would get in the way of enything
@@wtfartizts6928 true man true
Dr Drew says “Genetics loads the gun, and environment pulls the trigger.”
this explains alot but i wonder if the tools for overcoming psychopathy could be developed at a young age.
@Real Dudes Party Nude Grow up.
@@Davidlee37101 Yes it could and parents being kind and tender with their babies and little children make all the difference in the world. Here is a comment that I just left..."I don't believe they are born that way. Especially when I see how hard some parents are on their babies and small children. When a baby or small child is left for long periods to cry and tough it out on their own or left in the crib with nothing to do but eat their crib or play with their poop to try to keep from going crazy, it causes the adrenals to produce cortisol. Cortisol is like adrenaline in the fact that it is intended for short burst to get you out of the path of danger. But a constantly fearful baby or child is constantly pumping out that cortisol which in turn kind of eats away at the organs. A baby is born with only 25% of the brain functioning. It can disrupt the cells that are floating around looking for the right place to land and they don't end up in the right place, thus changing the pattern of the brain. The sad thing is that even parents who love their little ones and do a lot of things right are horribly misguided and believe they are teaching their children to soothe themselves and get on a schedule. That is a schedule of hell for the child and causes a great deal of problems for that child for the rest of their lives".
@Real Dudes Party Nude - A lot.
@@Davidlee37101 if it is in your genes the is always a change that it wil develope. Even with the tools.
I used to feel things and I remember feeling shame and guilt and I had empathy, but as time went on I realized that all those things only hurt me so I've stopped caring
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Wow! Answers YEARS of confusion!
psychopath; sociopath, demon possession , narcissist - all sounds like the same to me!
Almost. But demon possession is the worst , really.
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I'm a Travelin' Van YES, it is all the same!!!
demons possession is real and they only talk to you when you are alone,they will not flare up with witnesses,as they are told not to,i've heard a males voice come out of my ex wife,it was incredible and funny,as I've suspicioned for years she was different,beware,as they can become violent and uncaring unto death
Seriously?
Casey Anthony is alleged to have said:. "I must be a really good liar."
My ex said that to me once too, except she said “I’m a really good liar, ya know.” Discovered a few months later she had been sleeping with her brothers friend, her friends ex boyfriend AND a guy at her work all at the same time. Lol Never trust anyone who makes that statement.
This sounds like every parent I've ever known... I really can't say I feel this is accurate, unless about 40% of people are psycho.
Don't you get it ? That's the idea of them , to make you feel that way ....the massive goal is to cause conflict amongst people . That's how they rule easy . And as I see they succeeded with most of the people .....don't you see how they are throwing at your face only "problems" and when you see there are only problematic topic in the social media, you will convince yourself that reality is the same . They are creating a reality for us in order to feel desperate and chained. That's the idea
Interesting... I feel similarly.
Neighbor of the serial killer canibal neighbor that just got busted?
" He seemed like a nice guy"
Greetings ...Mr.Price I know you're glad you didnt invite your neighbors over for a Bar-B-Q. ..lol you would have been on the menu....!!!.
And, "He was very quiet and kept to himself"!
Came here to find out if i have a psychopath friend and now i think i am one
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@@BOOMBLACKA-cn5fk totally is thanks 😀
@@BOOMBLACKA-cn5fk Incorrect. Some know they are. For example: www.quora.com/Athena-Walker
Lmao
Thank you 🙏🙏
the ironic thing is they're trying to be just like you to appreciate enough to feel appreciated.
"hey let's go single out the dissheveled poor persons, they probably had it rough, let's show and tell how different our circumstances allowed us to be."
I feel as if I have alot of these traits but I wouldn't hurt anyone. I had a really hard life just one huge misfortune after another. I use to not know how to deal with my emotions and was so angry about why my young life was so different and terrible compared to others my age. So yeah if I got tuff skin and don't take crap from others and give you some blank expression it's because I don't let things faze me anymore.
I was married to a psychopath, I got one hell of an education, I am an expert now.
I had to read this twice to see the "was" good for you!
@@Miss_Cherry I'm only alive to tell about it because I hid the knives.
@Candice Campbell I'm sorry, I didn't mean to scare you. I'm not big into the divorce thing, however, it was my only escape. Any kind of mental disorder such as Bipolar Disorder can get out out of control. One day I was sitting quietly at my computer and she was playing video games then she suddenly got up and said that she wanted to smash something and do I have anything to smash. I replied NO, you've smashed just about everything I have so far. That was not an isolated incident it was one of many. It got to where I just couldn't trust her anymore.
@@Counselor77 what ? Dude just because she wanted to smash something doesn't make her bad I agree that you are saying your wife is a psychopath for a reason and there might be plenty of evidence to state that she is a psychopath but in any case I will tell you that psychopathy is something which psychologist haven't really taken a grasp of what truly it is.Many world leaders of the past had Psychopathic traits . Media just loves portraying psychopathy as madness but the truth is just as their are good and evil normal persons there are good and evil psychopaths but because of the age we live in Modren Secular and non religious the proportion of Evil psychopaths have increased drastically in comparison with good psychopaths that is because Religion is what plays a very great role in nurishing and making a psychopath good person . Unlike concept of Humanity religion promotes the concept that those who do good will recieve rewards in the afterlife and those who do evil will burn in hell for eternity because of religon Psychopaths have many times acted as leaders,reformers and revolutionalizers of the society their ability to look things logically helps them contribute alot to the society. In shorter terms psychopaths can be villains or heroes of the society or they could just choose to remain neutral
@@fuzailhasan7856 Listen yo-yo the authorities hauled her away and put her in a padded cell and medicated her. She was certified. END of STORY.
It has been said that " The mind is a terrible thing to waste". Sometimes "The mind is a terrible thing"!
You ain't lying Jeff !!
I sometimes look to the mouth when someone is sad but i am not sure cus no one was sad recently and when somoane will be my brain will then make me watch at the mouth....
You missed one! How about they smile all the frikkin time, which inturn would sometimes convince me to smile when I didnt feel like it just to get them to relax and stop staring at me. They latch on to you with their eyes when in normal conversations and leave a fake stinking smile on their face that often is untimely and CREEPY AF!!!!
THEY PRETEND TO BE THE HAPPIEST INDIVIDUAL ON EARTH WHEN THEY ARE THE MOST OF ALL MISERABLE!!!!!!
That could also be some one dealing with depression caused by serious stuff
That's called duping delight.. Scary stuff
Omg, MY BOSS!!!! And my little sister!!!!
No, we are not miserable and most learn not to smile or well, show any excess emotion, though our childhood, women however tend to fake a smile a lot, i spent about 4 or so months learning a Duchenne’s smile, you can’t tell it is fake. I am as happy as one can be.
Also, if I notice you are nervous around me and there is not point in your existence, I will try to make you break, it is really fun when people are scared, anxious around you.