Narcissist, Psychopath, or Sociopath?
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- Опубликовано: 29 апр 2024
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What is the difference between a sociopath, a psychopath, and a narcissist? Here to tell us is leading psychologist and author of "Should I Stay or Should I Go: Surviving a Narcissistic Relationship" Dr. Ramani Durvasula.
00:00 Intro
00:16 Misconceptions
00:40 Narcissists 101
00:27 Psychopaths 101
01:45 Sociopaths v psychopaths
04:27 Sociopaths 101
05:08 Childhood signs
07:01 Has Dr. Ramani had clients with ASPD?
07:31 Do psychopaths care about consequences?
08:26 Signs of dating a psychopath or sociopath
08:55 Kyle's personal story on psychopathy
10:17 Empathy vs understanding in psychopaths
11:34 Final thoughts
11:46 How to watch more like this
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I don't know why he's behaving that way.... He normally doesn't have these odd reactions. They have a ton of videos together. He is normally chill.
I would, but you suck
Please change the interviewer! This one is shockingly terrible.
@Hugh Ropp Psychos run the world. The Bush family were the ones publicly pushing for the NWO on fcking international TV, and they are psychotic warmongers. Also funny how she mentions that some forms of military training create Sociopaths, considering that MKUltra and Project Phoenix were used for just that (look up Dr. Lieut. Comdr. Thomas Narut who exposed the US Navy's human experiments on this). These programs have also created serial killers that terrorized US citizens (The Unabomber, BTK, Zodiac Killer, Gary Heidnik, The Night Stalker, etc).
i just dated a sociopath for 7 months....they make you feel like you are crazy and do such insane stuff with the craziest excuses a normal person will have his head spin....it becomes a parody of a life...get out while you can!
Dr. Ramani: *intellectually talking*
Interviewer: "😟😖😨😵😰🙂"
David Allen Sonnier wow you guys are great
So true 😆😆😆😆
Very informative I enjoy your work
give it a rest all of you. Would any young woman date a potential schmuck like that\? Probably not. Who cares what kind of interviewer he is. She just needs the question and provides the answers as we know it so far. Everybody talks about boundaries; she's got great boundaries and I was seriously interested in the topic because I ran into one or two seriously twisted people in my life and was too stupid to recognize it, so I listened.
Yea but I didn’t find it very puzzling because I am a sociopath so I understand it
The statement, "A psychopath is born, a sociopath is made", clears up a lot of confusion for me.
psych = brain, socio = environment this helped me a lot
Actually they are finding brain ventricle differences I think now.
Muddied the water for me even more. If his mom was also one or the other but also created him and pandered to is pathological behavior, I’m still uncertain.
All behavior is a result of environment. There are no babies born with types of behavior. They don't want it disclosed that the monetary system imposes structural violence which makes a psychopath. And rewards them lavishly for it. Albert Fish was not born the boogey man! He was made that way over time, as a result of a distorted violent upbringing. It was researched by Fredric Wertham. Show of Violence it is called.
But I don't see how a sociopath can learn from environment to not have a conscience. Everything I have ever read or heard states they are born without a conscience. If they learn to not have a conscience would mean they have one to start, there for they aren't a sociopath.
The statement "They will dispose of you if you get in their way" sent chills down my spine.
My sister has done it after 17 years of stealing and put her in a home and she died in 2 weeks from inability to want to live eat begged to go back home. She stole her property and real-estate and got rid of her for money. Then came to Missouri from doing that in California and killed and abused my mother 4 year's as go. Just sitting there at lunch after her death a few weeks later she said matter of factly that quote...::"I'm so glad I finally got rid of that f...g bitch. She gave away my favorite jacket in 7th grade. I hated her and I'm glad she's gone".
She's bullied my 91 year old engineering degreed father out of the entire estate. Displaced my sister with a legal eviction from the home my dad gave her Dani, Cathy's the sociopath.. she put her and her little children in the street so she aquire Danis house and spend the last seven years remodeling it for herself and paying an enormous mortgage not allowing any occupation in her new acquisition. It sits empty. She then while throwing me out of my dad's house by way of his limited POA. Puts me in a dump. I'm on disability and no income so she can TAKE my room and force her way nto their home and proceed to bully and demand signatures for POA and illegally take advantage and put ownership of all assets my dad's million plus engineering firm@ all real-estate. Jewelry all my mom's belongings everything they own and keep it from 5 other children. She beat me to a pulp the l a st time I went to visit my father in HIS HOME and blocks everyone from him receiving phone calls quests children siblings. Completely isolating him and monitoring him. Took his credit cards wallet checking accounts all monies put everything in her name well aware she never once attended college or held a job in her entire life. She feels entitles to the elders in our family's complete and total assets and complete control and will kill whomever is in her way. I adventually got s 2 story s townhouse. Before she moved back into my room she briefly had an apartment for 8 months. After that moved into my 2nd bedroom and begged to stay there temporarily. She then attempted to take over my leased home@ berate me mercilessly say and night@ yell scream ignore to the point of terror for me. She then took my phone, over an incident, ran to the top of the stairs, she refused to give me my phone and I ran upside reached briefly for my phone and she deliberately pushed me down a flight of my stairs. Police were called and she said IA horrendous lie that I was att a cking her and I fell down the stairs on my own.
Please someone help me? I'm in danger. I need legal help I need protection. I need representation. I need help. She's trying to get my dad's home now and put him somewhere. I get no answer at the doors. There's a lot more evil m illegal things she's done and is doing. I am begging for help!!!!!
@@debradesanto6946 nope
My ex threatened to make me disappear all the time ... if I displeased him he made something that was my favorite or that i had sentimental attachment to disappear to make his point.
I feel like I was well on my way to becoming a sociopath in high school. Exactly like she says in the video, I was hanging around with the wrong kids because I was being bullied by the other kids. I was becoming more and more careless, emotionless and wreckless. I truly never saw myself becoming a normal member of society. I saw myself becoming a criminal. And I was completely okay with it because my numbness and carelessness shaped me into a pretty good thug. I also truly believed I wouldn't live to see 40 years old, and I was completely okay with that. I didn't give a shit. And I loved not giving a shit. I felt powerful, like the world was mine.
Then I met my girlfriend at the last year of high school and over the course of two years, she changed my life. I cared for her a lot. And she cared for me. And this shaped the way for me to care more about myself and others as well. We've been together for 11 years now and my life has changed completely. Got a stable job which I love, a house and I spend every day with the love of my life. I'm truly alive now.
However, I still feel like I'm always just an inch away from my old life. It still haunts me. And I hope it will never come to that again.
Bro.... You know that feeling that you're an inch away from the old you???? Yea, your girl feels that and she loves you because you have it and it's dormant
@@varrvarrworldboxing7913 Constatly dude. Every day I feel like I'm just one small step away from breaking down again. Hasn't happened yet though, just gotta keep on going dude.
@@Avio033 Familiar with the feeling, its not even worth it. Keep building character bro
@@varrvarrworldboxing7913 exactly. If it happens, it happens. It will be shot, but I got over it once and will recover again. Just gotta live our best lifes bro
Cry out to Jesus, He is able to sympathize with our weakness and save us from destruction.
That clock is very low. That bothers me.
Right, it doesn't feel right lol
I was watching the video at the exact same time displayed on the very low clock
😂
Not for a house of a wheel chair user.
Dark Rainbow I believe this is her office where she does therapy. She probably sits facing the clock so she can watch the time during the session.
I didn't need his reactions. Or interruptions. Loved her though
ysnc12 i love ur pfp
Too bad
I think it’s because she was speaking in a way that suggested she was trying to elicit a response, so he thought if he didn’t respond it would be impolite.
Yes agree his interruptions were annoying
100% agree. Really annoying. P_lease fire him. ty.
Every psychopath is narcissistic but not every narcissist is psychopathic! I love Dr. Ramani! She is so smart!!❤🛐
My mother and her father are raging narcissists with a complete lack of empathy for anyone but themselves. It's hard to grow up along these people because they will make you feel like everything bad that is happening is somehow your fault even if you are not involved at all. The manipulation I went through is really hard to overcome but I'm getting better at recognizing what is actually my fault and things that just happen to happen to me.
Same here but know this about yourself, you learn those same behaviors from them. Learn to spot the characteristics and work on it because even if you don't become like they were it will effect your life. You cannot help but pick up the traits to some degree because you grew up in that household.
My mom same. I was vilified my entire childhood and most of my adulthood. It was cheaper to get a degree in psychology than pay for the therapy 😅 Mom “suffers” from narcissism and NONE of it is my fault. Same your you. Your folks are ill, and you are a victim of their illness. I hope you get the support you deserve. My heart goes out to you. Stay strong ❤
Same here.
"Guilt and shame, shame is a public emotion."
Damn, never thought of it that way but does make sense!
Be married to my ex wife and youd experience it first hand. Her mother is even worse and I firmly believe she murdered her husband 19 years ago because she didn't need him anymore and it was time to move on.
Marion Tinsley Good for you taking an out on time!
She said shame is a public emotion not guilt
I thought that quite interesting and spot on as well.
unicorn kween that's exactly what I quoted. I guess I should've removed the first part?
This woman knows her stuff and is an excellent communicator.
I agree. She explains things so that you and I can understand. It was great!
I really don’t like this women she said nothing but inaccurate stereotypes about people who are afflicted by mental illness. People who are afflicted only want to feel normal and not alienated from society for being different
I was literally thinking that. Her responses are so fulfilling
Yeah but I genuinely felt like this guy was a true sociopath getting a thrill from meeting a psychologist face to face and seeing if he could dupe her. Not only that, but the idea that if he can dupe her, he can use these lessons to get better at being a glib sociopath. Or psychopath, not sure. But basically there's a reason why these people cannot be brought into therapy, and that is because they see the whole world solely through the eyes of power and control, like a game. This is why I despise people calling sacred things like love and life "the game" because it's a very shallow and sociopathic, quite frankly demonic, view of the world, like the way criminals call drug dealing and RICO tier stuff "being in the game."
So as a result of that, you can't really deal with these people in the usual routine. It is however theoretically possible to catch one of them young and just deal with them as they are to become a more useful member of society who's not as much a real danger, but you positively cannot do this through the eyes of emotions and empathy. What you need to do is remember that any therapist type of relationship they are going to view this as you trying to control them, and that is why you have to give them as kids as much of their own agency as possible and consequences for their actions without it feeling like you're controlling them. If you do, they're simply going to find a way to subvert you, and use the "therapy" as lessons in being an even better psychopath than before.
@@skullxwrapper9968 one cold fact is that certain differences must be alienated but since it sound inhuman and remorseless people abandon that way. But some actions needs to be remorseless inorder to be right.
Now I understand why my ex husband was diagnosed psychopath and narcissistic. I still struggle to grasp every little abuse that I went through because of his mental disorders but I did a lot of progress these past two months
You sure know how to choose them, eh?
I listened to this woman for just 30 seconds and I've already decided she explains things better than most professionals. Thank you, Dr. Ramani!!!
I sucked in every little thing she said since she started talking. Absolutely amazing
She IS a professional. She is qualified to make diagnoses.
@@reenieager4243 , yep, a clinical psychologist. chynical. LOL, so funny. Did William think she was reciting a dictionary?
With all due respect, she is a professional!
cause its populistic and just 50% true.
So many people think empathy means to recognize others emotions. But it's to feel what they feel. Huge freaking difference.
Empathy is to understand what one is feeling
Empathic is to actually feel what another person feels… even pain
@@sugarcaina1 Empathy = the ability to understand and share the feelings of another. It's the same thing.
Exactly!!
Empathy is a noun while Empathic/empathetic is an adjective. But they're the same.
Impossible. You can’t feel exactly what somebody else is feeling.
I have so much love for this woman. Thank you for all you do, Dr. Ramani. I never told you this before, but you changed my life.
THANK YOU💞
Thank you so much for this video. It’s on point 100%. This is a great content. Dr. Ramani Durvasula does an amazing job explaining the differences between a psychopath, sociopath and a narcissist. She really did hit the bullseye in a way that was clear to understand. What an amazing job. Thank you MedCircle for having her on here. May you all be blessed more than you already are.
He doesn’t need to be there. She can give this information without him.
Yeah, he was acting really dumb
Zoelis17 and he kept interrupting her while she was talking
Yeah he's acting so dumb and arrogant, like who would ask the dumb question of whether the PET scan was referring to the real "pet"?!!
Lily Tsuen so dumb
Iwannameow yes!
I think the main mistake here was the excessive cutting to the interviewer even when he wasn't talking.
Bugged me from the start. I don't get it unless the guy is trying to become a "personality" and is paying for the production.
I've watched a few of his videos he always does this, I think he's trying to show interest, acknowledgement and some understanding rather than intentionally interrupting and being rude.
I think they do it to keep you interested. If it was just the same shot of the dr talking youd doze off. It’s a way to diversity the shots, i believe
Yes! It's fucking annoying
Yes, but it's funny to see him visually struggling to understand her.
Dr. Ramani is on the world stage as THE expert in Narcissism. She has been making waves in this Mental health arena for years. I am so happy she's getting world renowned recognition for her life's work. Read her new book, "It's Not You" -- so so good and insightful. A must read! (And I'm not someone who leaves book reviews because I'm lazy lol) This book is that good! Thank you so much MedCircle and Dr. Ramani for helping millions!
Thank you for clarifying that. I was victim of a sociopath. But managed to stay alive. God helped me. Dangerous people with zero remorse
That explains our politicians, leaders and the elite in general.
I'd say those characteristics are prerequisites to getting the job. They are anesthetized to an endless national debt to get their way.
No politician has made any effort the whistle on Jeffrey Epstein.
It explains many poor people too. There's no stereotypes.
This isn’t about political things. It’s about any person.
Ha Ha Ha
Eric sewer-well, Schiff, HRC, AOC, SO, SO, MANY MORE.
Dr. Ramani: Good morning.
Interviewer: WOOOOOOwww
ROFL!
Ok it wasn’t just me I commented that too... he is so overly dramatic
for real 😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
lol
She saved my life and opened my eyes as love is not equal abuse and pain. Thank you 🙏
Love = Love ❤️
In the world full of narcissistic, psychopaths, and sociopaths, it's so hard to find a sane person to choose as your partner.
Every single human being out there is wounded and traumatized. The key is, have they or are they actively working on healing their wounds and traumas? Are they evolving and developing healthier coping mechanisms?
should have put a better interviewer...he seems like over acting and perhaps not really fit for such an interview...would be great if it was just her in this video
Joy Amin More suited for celebrity fashion mistakes interviews, not serious issues.
I was picturing him interviewing kids and still looking more immature, personally.
maybe they threw him in there to be an object lesson
I feel like he has some of the traits 😅
Joy Amin weird seeing you here, Joy. Not talking about smelling fragrances!
I like the interaction. He responded and asked for clarification which helped me to understand the difference
I appreciate how the late Dr. Scott Peck (The Road Less Traveled) described the significance of ego boundaries in relationships, especially when people first meet. Narcissists and psychopaths are deceptive enough to conceal their "true selves." When the ego boundaries dissipate is when you hear comments like: "You're not the person I met," but usually not in a good way. This is when the codependency in all of us goes to work with the thinking that I can change that person, that is, if they really love me. Sadly, by this time for most people, it's too late and the damage is either happening or yet to happen, but it's in the forecast model. This is another part of human behavior I think is both underappreciated and educated in our culture. The younger a person is when they learn this about ourselves, the better off they will be in the long run. As it is, psychopaths and narcissists make easy victims of the rest of us when they prey upon our inherent altruism.
All I could think while watching this is "Stop. Interrupting. Her."
Seriously.....
Hush. He’s realizing that he has an experience or that he is one.
Likewise. That dude is woefully unfit as an interviewer and a massively obnoxious prick to look at.
Watching him was so irritating. Nothing he said had any substance for this video either.
@@catherinebush5093 Honestly i Wish he had asked more meaningful questions. Ughhh!!!
TWO people should be fired immediately. 1) The interviewer. 2) The person who chose the interviewer.
But why though?
🤣🤣🤣
Yeah, but their boss must be a psychopath to do it, which it's not, so..
What kind of dumbass asks what a PET scan is?
...yeah, he was not even needed here.
"A PET scan isn't about pets?"...😂😂
In my psychiatry subject, I have not understood about all these matters, but now, I could say that I'm learning eveytime I watch this channel with C.P. Ramini. She emphasizes the difference between disorders (mood, personality, social, etc.). I like her. It shocks me everytime, I wish she was my professor in my psychiatric nursing. 👍
I was diagnosed with antisocial personality disorder years ago. I'll try to explain it from my pov. Empathy, compassion & love are foreign to me. No, I'm not some cruel heartless person as I love my sister and mother (as much as one can love?) I've never had any true friends just people I see to use to my benefit and once I get what I want they're of no more use to me. I've never been in love, lusted? Yes, but never in love. I've tried forming bonds with people over the years but to no avail. I try to show empathy for people but I don't know how to. I wasn't physically nor sexually abused as a child but I was overly sheltered and taught that everyone is out to get you.
And back then, you were conditioned into believing everyone is out to get you. Some kids were told all kinds of nonsense when they were growing up, doesn't mean it was true. You're living in the past. And if you continue to live in the past, you're going to be stuck in the past. So which do you want for yourself? And as of now: Change your thinking, and you change your life.
@@yourconnection9303 what are you saying ☕️
@@good8lood598he said true
A brilliant woman being interviewed by a head of lettuce.
I'd say he's more 1 tenth a head of lettuce? Or just the tip of the iceberg.
Straight Weirdo !!!! She probably talking about his ass !!!🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hahahaha
😂😂 yes 2:43
Are you sure you aint a psychopath?
Dr Ramani is really great. Her explanations are completely spot on, clear and easy to understand. Thanks.
SleepWoke, Too bad he seemed fake or very uninterested.
Wow...either that dude is really dumb...or he thinks that his audience is!!!
Text book psychopath!
Yes she is,se my self in her ;))
NOT her!
I am a diagnosed pyschopath, I am very interested in telling my story to someone. I'd like to share the way I perceive people. She said we don't seek out therapy, that isn't entirely true. I had to know exactly what I was dealing with. But it worked out great, I talked my way into a 6 figure government job with no credentials. My favorite game is invoking an emotional response in people in anyway just to see where my limits are with an individual and have a base knowledge to general human emotions.
Psychopathy is not a diagnosis so you can't really say that you're a "diagnosed psychopath". Psychopathy and sociopathy fall under the umbrella of Anti-social Personality Disorder (ASPD) which is a legitimate diagnosis.
IL talk to you. I have been Interested in them for a while now, it would be great to talk to them
First, you need to accept that you are not special. Your imaginary diagnosis doesn't make you important. You are not special or unique.
One thing that seems very consistent with psychopaths is that they have that subtle or even overt sense of superiority or glee at exploiting others. Whether that’s exploiting their emotional reactiveness, or exploiting their sensitive aspects.
As open as a psychopath might be, they cannot help but advertise how goddamn awful they are to be near.
Your a diagnosed lizard shut up bro
Thank you for your explanations about the mental disorder. 🙏🏽
It really annoys me how the interviewer is cutting her off like dude LET HER TALK jesus
Yea she was annoyed at his interruptions: (see her concealed anger at 6:15)
Kristyn I just noticed this too!!!
He nearly spoke
@Florence Lyn: Gurl u r so cute.
Narcissist?
I had never seen a clock hanging at waist level before. Now I have
How does that make you feel?
🤣😂
Lol now i feel the same😂😂😂
seppet0ni stop I thought the same !!
I hang it in my house the same way. It’s for the sake of little kids at age of 4 or 5 , to see with better view
This is a great discussion. 👌. Thank you both!
This is the clearest I’ve ever heard this described. Excellently video.
Can we get a diagnosis for displaying obviously fake, exaggerated emotional reactions in response to every word out of someone's mouth?
basically Americans lol
Are you referring to Kyle the host?
he's just nervous
Yes. That would be acting. Were you thinking that these people did not know they were on camera and had an audience?
Watch for if someone talks differently to some people than he does others. Watch if someone can easily get other people to do things for them without any authority. Watch if someone is hyper dominant. Watch if you start getting a slight resentment towards someone and you find yourself talking yourself out of avoiding them. Watch if someone mentions violence while they’re not in a fit of rage. Watch the eyes man, if you’re talking about something emotional and they’re sitting there looking like they’re just thinking without much of an expression and their comments get a slightly question like tone then it could they’re faking it til they make it and are analyzing you.
Obviously if someone does a few of these it doesn’t automatically mean sociopath. It’s honestly really hard to spot one immediately, especially in the moment. It’s usually about trusting your gut feeling and genuinely considering this when you look back on someone. You really want to spot a sociopath and especially a psychopath in your life before they make it clear and they will. They work by moving from group to group, environment to environment. They’ll stay somewhere for a while but eventually they’ll be found out and move, leaving everyone fucked over. This is hard cause sometimes these people will figure out what you need and make you feel good. All you have is a gut feeling and honest analysis
the way the guy's acting makes it feel like a SNL skit
100%
LOL
Agree! Lol
When did SNL get that bad? She knows her stuff; I switched majors at Uni but this was a big topic even then. Ignore fleas ….
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Dr Ramani is great! So grounded!
Wow!! This is exactly what I needed to hear to clear my mind. Thank you!!
Dr Ramani is so discerning and crystal clear in her descriptions and definitions! This is one of the most concise and precise descriptions of these conditions you will ever hear explained!
I learned something here and thanks, but have question, think it cud be true lack of empathy, love can have these same effects, can see possibilities for effective treatments for not inconsiderable numbers of humanbeans
Totally agree
What an amazng professor she must be!
Agree!
I won't say you to trust me on this but there are many videos which explains like she did. Even better then her too. I think people loved her including me because of the way she talks. She clearly is passionate and loves to explain.
Btw I encountered only one video in RUclips about mental disorders that what effing irritating. Nothing i learnt from it. Only ads.
That was perfectly explained. I spent 4 years in college studying this stuff and she explained it in 10 minutes 💯
Wowwwwwwwwww your brain be wired slow bro.
@@ruzziasht349 doesn't mean that he's slow. These topics are taught continuously and repeatedly in any psychology major.
@@ruzziasht349 Dude, the first word of your channel's name means donkey in Arabic. Congrats!
@@jaddoughmen3759 The M142 High Mobility Artillery Rocket System (HIMARS) is a light multiple rocket launcher that kills many RuSSians on a daily basis! I love it!!!! Himar is donkey in Arabic not Himars - I'm guessing you have a sub 80 IQ.
@@becauseican5821 You be slooooooooow too!
She explained it in a very impressive manner.. Indeed she has a strong grip over the topics
She's the leading expert on narcissism, psychopathy, and sociopathy; watching her speak on these topics is always a great experience. 💯 She's super intelligent, fascinating, and (of course) beautiful. She brings a lot of knowledge to the table! 📚🧠📚
I can really relate to the struggle against the confusing mind games of a narcissist. It's like walking through a maze where the walls keep shifting. Your story resonates deeply because, like you, I felt so isolated, doubting my own reality, as if my confidence was slipping through my fingers.
*Doctor:You Understand Right?*
*Interviewer:Wow!*
The comment about "white collar" is so true. I'm 4+ years into lawsuits against the psycho/socio attorney who took advantage of my wealthy elderly mother in the final years of her life. After she passed, his explanation of estate plan basically went like this "I knew you mother better than any of you, you'll get what we give you and you'll like it. If you don't like it, get a lawyer and try to sue the trust." So in Feb 2019 I got an attorney and after years of hard work and $100k's spent, we are close to having him convicted of fraud for stealing nearly $1M from our family. The guy has no remorse and continues to do everything in his power to abuse and stall due process in the court system. What's really messed up is my family isn't the first to sue him! There was an article written in Forbes in the early 2000's about him being sued by another family, yet the nationwide law firm he works for continues to keep him on staff because he's charming and a good earner. It makes me want to throw up.
So sad. But I like to thank you very much for fighting and not putting up with their evil bs. My grandfather had back surgery but the Dr got tired or something and stopped half way through. Which lead to my grandpa never walking again. My grandmother at the time tried talking to a lawyer or someone about the case and mentioned it would take 100s of thousands of dollars just to try and sue.. now this was probably 10 years ago now and from my grandmother's words .. so I might be off with a few things but I believe her.. thank you again for fighting for the little guys 🤠✌🏼
My condolences to your mother too!
Just scumbags
That law firm must be full of his type. Oh I must add there is a word for that lot; shysters.
@@milkoansah-johnson8768 Lawyers are in the top ten professions for psychopaths. Others are: surgeons, police, CEO, clergy, government beaurocrats, media, sales, chefs.
It's heartbreaking knowing people like this are among us ❤🩹
9:58 that's actually a really good question us psichologists get asked a lot, and the answer is as brilliant as the question.
Wow, the same exact thing happened to me by a boyfriend after I broke up with him. He worked very hard to woo me until he knew he had me, and then he dumped me coldly without a care. I have wondered all these years what that was all about, and I was just given my answer. That was done to be vindictive and as a means to punish me for breaking off with him originally, and only a person who lacks empathy is capable of doing something like that.
She explained the difference between each mental disorder very well.
Those are actually personality disorder not mental disorder.
@@pj2056 Excellent point!
Jessica Cartas Thx. This is the reason why when they are arrested. They have to receive punishment. They will not be sent to mental hospital or mental asylum.
@@pj2056 Personality Disorders are a type of mental disorder
@Cristian Ivanescu that women lies and rips people off for a living and no proof of any of it and it just labels bad or good behavior and act like sex organs makes a difference so no she is very wrong
Plot twist: This is not an interview, its an appointment. And Dr. Ramani is trying to explain to him what he got
"That's how you get shit done Dee"
"Noooo, that's how you get a diagnosis"
Best comment ever! 😂
Right?! He’s like my friend dated “this guy” for a year. It’s freaking him!
I got the same vibe with this guy. She is not as good as she thinks she is if she can't see what he is doing. He is playing to her ego and tries to learn from her how he can hide his disorders and better is manipilation skills He is doing a good job, she has got no clue!! LMAO!
Haha love that
Thankyou Dr. Ramani Durvasula ma'am & MedCircle host Kyle Kittleson sir fr interesting topics & case studies. I'm learning de many different personalities of people in general. I want more case studies in every topic you come up with...Thankyou once again!
I needed to hear this . Thank you .
I could listen to Dr. RD forever. She is so clear.
Clearly biased against men
@@cansee8637 Wtf? She wasn't man bashing.
@@cansee8637 stfu
Linda Storm,You are absolutely gorgeous 🌹🌹🌷🌺,hope you are not with a narc 😈!!
@@cansee8637 nah just be smart
I didn't see the interviewer as being fake, but more like being overly expressive with a childlike curiosity and fascination, but with a low awareness of how he comes across.
I have to agree with this statement.
@DT Undercover Too far.
I mean, there’s no thing to argue with how the man inquire or how he talks, but in my opinion, he just want to elaborate the topic for the viewers to absorb the topic articulately. There shouldn’t be hate here. Besides, that’s his expression and humans have different expressions too. Perhaps, it’s just their emotions who make them to dislike him.
@DT Undercover Asperger’s syndrome is a type of autism that starts from the early age of an individual and in his case, he is just REALLY entertained naïvely from what he is absorbing.
@DT Undercover I reckon that you need some tough enlightenment. You have still a lot of time to absorb knowledge from anyone. From your point of your brother being moderately autistic can be a true if he is just two years old or less but proving that the interviewer has Aspie is a false accusation because according to such particular studies that autism or any kind of autism cannot be obtained during adulthood, if it is developed, then it is a rare case.
This is an argument also, and ad hominem is for the weakest people who can’t prove their point right.
Dr. Ramani, you are amazing. simply amazing. Thank you for your expertise.
I think the interview make a good job here and he also learned with us 🙏🏻💗😭
She could talk for hours on this topic and I believe it would be informative.
it is very informative. it’s important to raise awareness on these types of people. they’re dangerous and all around us
I don’t know why these things are so interesting to me like murders and crime and such. It’s all just so interesting to me and I don’t know why lol
Layne Carper that’s not tru. Not all of them are dangerous. Just because they have the diagnosis doesn’t mean they’ll cause mayhem. That’s another misconception about them. More often than not they mind their own business.
i got an ad abt a woman who talks abt chimpanzees and i thought you were talkin abt her and then remembered that im watching a vid
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Doctor: *Says anything*
Dude: 🤨🤔😐😯😕😲
This video is really really good . Thank you so much for this interesting info
She Is so good to put it all in language we can understand
“Asking for a friend” the most famous line 😳
omg you're right
9:00 pointing at himself 😳😳
I feel like the interviewer lowkey freaking out cuz he knows he’s a narcissist
Paulie Luce hell yeah I thought the same. Lmao
😂😂😂
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HAHAHHA EXACTLY
Very true such an annoying person he is
The way i've kinda always thought about empathy is that its attached to your emotions understanding someone else isn't always attached to emotions.
Wow! That all makes perfect sense to me. I was adopted to my evil aunt. She showed symptoms at the age of 8 when my birth mother was born. I was the family scapegoat, my twin brothers the golden children, my adopted dad the enabler. Narcissist never seemed to go far enough for me. My youngest son had difficulties throughout childhood. I finally linked my son's behavior to my adopted mother. I am definately an empath, a sensitive, intuitive. Apparently it skips generations. I always felt like I was surrounded by crazy people, and I was.
"Every psychopath is narcissistic, but not every narcissist is a psychopath."
Very good.
That reminds me of saying here in my neck of the woods of France.
Toutes les chasseurs sont cons, mais toutes les cons ne sont pas chasseur.
It would be useful to know which column sadistic people fall into.
I'm Both ... LOL
@@ThePatriotPoet23 isn't something to be proud about
I'm a cynic. Do I have to go to physcotherapy, or worse?
I wished i never read the comments, now I'm bothered by a lot of things in the video
Right 😂
Same lmao
Congratulations 🎊 😜 😜
The low clock?
LOL
Thank you for this
Makes so much sense. Psycho is born, socio is created .
The interviewers reactions the whole time had me cracking up lol the whole time he's like NOOOO WAYYYYY!!!
Lolol
They're so distracting that I listened without watching after a minute.
Even funnier, if they filmed it separately, and the director just got him to be 'surprised ' for 10 minutes straight.
Not a very professional performance from the interviewer. He was annoying.
Why I had a feeling that he's a bit narcissistic, too? I mean, the reactions don't look sincere, do they? And the faces, compared to the Doc
The clock behind her is at the weirdest low spot on the wall 🤨
Doomsday?
Now I can’t stop looking at that
😂 😂 😂 😂
Had to minimize the browser after ~1 min, what kind of savage would hang a clock that low on the wall? Its like hanging a carpet on the ceiling, fucking bizarro world.
lj033 LOOOL 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 this person!!
I like having him there. He gives a nice counterpoint to the Dr. Also, he asks some questions I found interesting.
Yep; dealing with a stepson who will do whatever he wants to do as soon as you leave the house (for work), despite any conversation you have with them about your expectations of them.
It's the editing. It shouldn't cut to him as much. An interview is about the person talking, the audience doesn't need to see the interviewer or reactions. It's distracting and unintentionally makes it comical. Not mention the wide shot is super awkward because they're a mile away.
Spot on.
He probably see himself in the descriptions given🤭
I accept the questions given by the person but the reactions are sometimes unneeded
"unintentionally makes it comical"
I couldn't help but laugh because you're totally right
He craves attention. Guy wants his E- Fame lol
Just adding my 2 cents here, but I think a psychopath's greatest weapon is society's unwillingness to believe he / she is capable of being that way (ex: "Oh, she's SO sweet and friendly; how could anyone accuse her of murder?"). I think this is especially true if the psychopath is young, attractive, female, disabled, or elderly, or holds a trusted position such as a law enforcement worker or a medical worker.
Man, a lot of women are disabled because of car accidents when they are young. After they become disabled, they want to be attractive because they need energy and they cannot afford to look sloppy and untidy. Old psychopaths are dangerous, too. Why are you so attracted to young attractive women and imagine that they are killers? Old people could be sweet and friendly. Men are ugly and rough. I don't think that means that men are safer to be with. Attractive men, old men, rough men kill people, too, especially they kill women.
That's bc they're Sneaky, seem normal, but they do a lot of 'thinking' & planning.
@@learningenglishthroughtran8540 I agree but they also go for boys and men they can Control.
And hella rich or hella famous.
I agree!
This video made it very clear to me: my ex was a psychopath and not a narcissist.
Well..that explains everything..perfectly clear
I love how engaging she is. It's like I'm sitting in the room with her.
Sexy smart.
Shane should’ve interviewed this Dr. Instead of the lady he interviewed about sociopaths
ikr
The lady he interviewed is qualified it's just that she was being very casual and dramatic so it didn't come across as professional at all so people doubt her information.
Lolli Pop some of the stuff she said was different than this doctor though
Lolli Pop i watch her and she is not qualified in that area since she is marriage councilor who also works with patients with eating disorders only
Omg 😂😂 shane
to me the most fascinating part is in the lack of arousal - if an anti social personality cannot be aroused in terms of the various emotions you describe - how can they achieve the peak experiences we all seek? if a persona can't feel - what lengths do they have to go to to find something enjoying?
I thank God my Mom reached out to therapy for us Because I was was exposed to all sorts of rough and abusive tactics psychological and otherwise . Therapy really helped me to understand I could make choices to direct my own character and what I could live with in this many times brutal world .To be in it it but not of it That IS the battle here I think
6:14
her reaction was like:
*broskii interrupt me one more time and i swear*
She'll go sociopath on his ass! Lol
I read this as it happened 😂
We are interpreting how she feels, but the only thing that matters is how she really feels about that interviewer not how we feel. That's probably something we'll never know
She also has some kind of condition.
Maybe she should let people she converses with get a word in.
Damn yall are so harsh on the interviewer bruh let him live😂
Thank you Dr Ramani you’re brilliant as always!
theyre hating on his acial expressions yet im here making the same ones.
watch the clock in a weird place behind her- they're not using his reaction shots to help edits, they're for his vanity, & they suck. I had to go audio-only.
he's one of these dumb-down dicks, even if he is actually listening.
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He has a bunch of questions if he doesn't say it right then he'll forget 😂
No, this man has one job to do, gather information from the women about the topic at hand. He's doing a poor job at it and needs to improve.
Good clarification lady..I admire you much
Same! ◼️◾👍🏻◾◼️
He asked really great questions. Thanks for the info
I wish I had this woman as my teacher when I was a kid.
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The host ruined it for me
@@AdamThoba2 EXACTLY - SHE IS TALKING WITHOUT TRYING TO UNDERSTAND WHAT PEOPLE IN THIS ENVIRONMENT NEED. SHE IS TALKING PURELY FROM HER POINT OF VIEW AND WHAT SHE NEEDS . SHE IS SAYING SCREW THE STUDENT AND EVERYONE ELSE IS SAYING - SCREW THIS UNFOCUSED RAMBLING PIN HEAD. FOR A GENERALIZED DESCRIPTION SEE - DR ROBERT HARE. HE WAS THE FIRST TO DEFINE THE PROBLEM IN A WAY THAT THE AVERAGE PERSON COULD UNDERSTAND IT AND NEEDS TO UNDERSTAND IT. I DO NOT FIND ANYTHING SHE HAS TO SAY IS WORTH STUDING OR WORTH KNOWING. AFTERALL - SHAKESPEARE HAD SEVERAL CHARACTERS IN HIS PLAYS THAT PRESENTED THE INFO THE AVERAGE PERSON NEEDS. THIS WOMAN HAS HER OWN FULL CATALOG OF PERSONALITY DISORDERS.
@@thatguy-art6229 you are very perceptive
I wish she was my mom
He's asking really good questions
That’s what I’m saying!
He doesn't ask anything interesting. He only interrupts and reiterates what she's saying. Pretty annoying if you ask me.
@@Mar.1634 why is it annoying? Can you explain? I am a bit not to understanding of social cues so I might miss it. Thanks in advance.
@@Mar.1634 for me it shows that he's actively listening and actually is interested in the topic at hand. Better than following some script I guess.
@@saltNpepper952 right ... why do so many people hold this guy to a lens .... he's not even the expert right?
Great description, though she missed a chance to explain that a narcissist can swing both ways.
There's the kind we colloqially use, who think they're the greatest thing since sliced bread and then there's the polar opposite, people whose self-esteem is almost nonexistant and who view themself as a burden to the people around them, failing in their own way to read how they're perceived by other people and what their place in the social context is.
God I love listening to this lady talk!!! She’s so intelligent and informative. So interesting.
yeah but we all know what you really want to do...
@@jaimhaas5170 I'm gay
@@scottjharris so then you want to noodle the interviewer...all good on my end Scott. I always say why stand in the way of love. :)
@@mnstark3342 all night long!
@@jaimhaas5170 haha yeh all the way
This is so, so good... but why does he keep interrupting her??
Hi Klein. Nice to meet you. I did enjoy it (see above: " This is so, so good" ). I was just confused why the interviewer kept interrupting her mid-explanation. I was wondering if anyone knew the reason. Was this a certain kind of interview? Was this a show with a personality I was unfamiliar with etc? It eventually became really distracting and appeared to annoy the psychologist as well (see 6:15 for instance).
@Klein Bottle Maybe, but saying "why don't stop whining" doesn't sound like a very calm or polite reply either. And I agreed this is a very interesting subject and she explains it in a way that is easy to understand but is distracting to sed him interrupt her to the point she looks annoyed like at 6:14.
@Klein Bottle I am Alex Dorian. Lol and such a "nice" reply, I guess you are not a good person either =P
@Klein Bottle Lol there is no private conversations on the comment section of a video. If you post people are going to reply to you even if you don't like it xD
But I congratulate you for making an less angry reply this time Now you can be more of a good person =D
@Klein Bottle haha what is wrong with you? No offense.what is going on in your head? 😂🤣😅
Incredibly detailed
I'm impressed with proving serious interview using clock to prove no editing ect. Well produced.
My ex wife was either a psycho or narcissist. Someone who couldn't see past herself. She would bait me into arguments until I realised she enjoyed hurting me. She later moved into another phase where she slept around and so forth. I chose to ignore her antics. We finally found a good marriage counsellor who knew how to deal with her. My exe decided to end the marriage. In her eyes all that transpired was my fault and I had kidnapped the kids. She took all our savings because she thought she deserved it and I inherited the kids. I got the better part of the deal even though I worked three jobs to care for them and pay for their education. The best thing that came out of this disaster was a painful rearrangement of my priorities. Wealth, house etc come second to kids and family. Today I'm very close to my kids even though they're grown up and have left home. They are professionals in their chosen fields and successful in life.
was she a woman, just guessing?
Edit for anyone replying: y'all just dont get the fuckin joke, do you?
@@abhaysingh-lg2cr Bruh moment
Judging by how this psychiatrist keep blaming fathers for behaviors and not once mentioned women, I'm guessing she would blame you lmao
Most of the time women will get borderline personality disorder diagnostics. It's kind of the feminine equivalent of the narcissistic personality.
Eternal victims of everything, while antogonizing those who surround them. These personalities are really hard to "enjoy".
You must draw a hard line with them and stick to it, or they will eat you up! They can't help it, but they're social vampires.
Good for you, life must be so much better now.
I would’ve booted her out
Gosh golly thanks to the interviewer for clearing up the PET scan confusion, I was about to head off to the hospital with my cat.
Ford Fairlane Or have your cat scan you 😜
lmao that interviewer is weird man
PET scans are awesome. They literally use antimatter (positrons are anti-electrons). :)
To get a CAT scan?
:D
Great Information!
So it seems like a narcissist is just full of themselves but they have emotions. A psychopath is born with no emotions and learns to act like a normal person and a sociopath is a normal person that learns to act like a "psychopath".
Christian C., narcissists are over obsessed with receiving praise, sociopaths are just empathy-less and wanna dominate ppl.
Narcissists have emotions when it comes to themselves but dont feel empathy for others
@@allyjay7395 They actually get high when they destroy others live.
@@Polymath9000 factz
@@allyjay7395 I have a daughter-in-law like this.