You don’t get out much, seems your the delusional one. Everywhere I go I see hot chicks with ugly ass men. Look around drop your insecurities and you will see.
@@stevestruthers6180 hey Steve, What I have been doing for years is to make the most of what I have. I don't know what you do daily and am not arrogant enough to give you unsolicited advice. For years I wake up early, meditate, eat natural unprocessed food, exercise etc and just try to maximise whatever is there. What I posted above is what I tell me myself to keep myself motivated to keep working hard on myself and maybe that's wrong on my part and not healthy.
Beauty is subjective to a limit, but when you are sitting around talking about which actor is the most beautiful or handsome, yes, there will be subjectivity in the answers, but there is also an objective consensus and understanding that they are all attractive. This is why it is enjoyable to play that game in the first place. People don't play this game with a lineup of ugly, obese, and unattractive people and then try to debate who among them is the most attractive. There is an objective understanding that they are all ugly and do not qualify to be part of the game. There is level of attractiveness that is mandatory to be part of the game. Looks are not everything, but they are very important, and as we become more and more socially awkward and less able to connect with each other, they will continue to become more and more important.
I quit the gym and set one up in my workshop because I have been accused of being a creep without even looking in their direction or speaking to them, I've been asked to leave bars and shops because I look offensive, I've been assaulted by a woman in a train station because of the way I look, I've had no end of problems with women being offended by me and the way I look, I'm not just talking of recent issues, I'm nearly 60 and this has happened throughout my life, even as far back as my childhood, luckily as a male, I can and do hide my face with a beard, I'm lucky enough to still have my own hair which is also long to try and hide my face, again I'm lucky, I do a solitary job, work mainly with males, I don't have much contact with women, I work nights and sleep during the day so I don't have to be around or offend women with my looks, when I have to go out, I keep my head facing the ground but still often manage to offend someone and it's normally a woman, I would never approach a woman, I only speak to women in a working environment, apart from that I stay out of the way, either at home or in my workshop
No, your presupposition is wrong. Attractiveness is NOT completely subjective. There are several objective truths when it comes to attractiviness no matter how you define attractiviness. If you define attractiviness as looks. It is objectively true a burn victim covering the persons face in scares in not attractive. If you define it as personality traits it is objectively true somebody that hits little children and ends puppies is not attractive. The ENTIRE base of your claim is false.
She is a woman, and her perspective is unique and subjective (as is yours). This is a fact. And the "fact" we can disagree is evidence of this fact. In order to communicate we must generalise (and sometimes exaggerate). If you are getting caught up in definitions you are probably missing her whole point. ...for most women: feelings trump thoughts
@@Soul-Survivor only in a world where women are equal to a man and men can have periods. But that world only exists in peoples minds. Just as your idea of "everything is subjective". Thats why Lizzo is a 10, im sure. 🤣🤣🤣
you have a rational mind, and when challenged the rational mind can create great emotions... which to the rational mind are very confusing and irrational. I understand this and know how painful it can be... and the easiest thing to do is to say "you are wrong" thus YOU are the cause of my upset... but this is the root cause of all violence.. and is obviously not the way forward.
@@Soul-Survivor you are funny. Thanks for the laugh, punkin. I know you believe that you can read minds thru text. I assure you, you can not. Stick to practicing your dime store phsychology on friend zoned soy boys, and 40 yo women still "finding themselves". BTW's Aren't you wasting the time you planned to dye your hair pink or something? Just to showcase that high emotional intelligence of yours.
@@user-jv4ic8rh4d this issue of biological males wanting to be recognised as women does not really effect me, so I do not have any strong thoughts about it. I accept that "ideas are in the head" but I don't see how that disproves my point. Quite the contrary... are your ideas not in your head? are your ideas always correct? not so long ago you could literally be killed if you did not believe the world was flat, do you not think they were equally confident in their world view as you are in yours? As for "rating" women, I have done my fair share of that in my life! But when we judge others do we not fear to be judged the same way? do you like being judged? Could this be the reason we too fear rejection? If men did not rate women do you think they would be more free to pursue there natural attraction? Anyway I appreciate you giving your attention to my ideas.
@@kylegovender6211 Yes my brother, the Buddha said the same thing. That is an astute insight. And if all the women were gone tomorrow... would that change?
Well said! I will say that if you’re very good looking AND you possess the positive energy you’re referring to then you will be desired by everyone (not just women). An adage I’ve tried to follow is to do the best with what you have. If you’re so-so on looks, develop a great aura around people and you’ll be surprised at what you pull. Or what can you do to improve your style, smell, etc. Overcoming negative beliefs about yourself is difficult, since they’re usually ingrained as a child. I realized it was at the root of my porn addiction. It’s VERY important how you feel about yourself. One little caveat I will add however, is that if you’re out of shape and you start working out and acquire a “good” body, you WILL be more attractive because your self belief and confidence from changing yourself about yourself carries over.
@@MiguelGebremedhin Thank you for sharing Miguel. I agree, it is about energy. I’ve come across men who by “society’s standards” whatever that means, weren’t as good looking as some but for me personally, I liked them. Why? They liked themselves and were relaxed within themselves and this felt safe enough for me to engage in conversation with them. It certainly is possible to see more of who you really are, I’ve seen it for myself and in others too.
Depends on which type of girl and the environment you are in. If a man has a strong sense of direction, drive and self-confidence. Then you are a winner. Intelligence ranks high up there as well.
Though It can help, but being attractive is not a requirement. If you have good interpersonal skills and can keep conversation going, have life goals, and hobbies you both can share, then your well on your way to being attractive in the female gaze. I will add, that unless you as a man have a medical issue of why you can't, having a little workout routine like pushups and pullups in your apartment or at the park and eating healthy foods can do a lot for your health and make you far more physically attractive; Even if you don't think your attractive. Being healthy and fit really adds a few extra charisma points.
@@NeoJohnPatterson glad it resonated with someone 🙏😅 yes absolutely. She feels it. I’ve always felt safer at having a conversation with a man whose approached when I intuitively feel he’s okay whether im opening to speaking with him or not ☺️
@@Jessicawatt521 It's easy for my generation, we can read people and are comfortable with rejection if we get it wrong. Life is about risk and adventure! I love your description on energy, it encompasses the real deal. We attract what we already are :)
To say that you don't have to be attractive is absolute BS. A tall guy with above average face will always have more success.Subjectivity in this case is for minority of women
I've heard many women say confidence is more important than looks. Obviously you need to be reasonably attractive, but it seems to be a common theme that women prefer confidence over looks.
You don't have to be a 10 or a super model to be successful with women... But you must be attractive to the women in order to be successful with them.
You wouldn’t know
What i hate the most about women is their mind games.
What I hate most about water is the wetness...
@@adamkane7513 🤣
@@user-jz6to8md3c if you hate women you don’t need to be here because anything I say won’t help you
@@Jessicawatt521 I said i hate it when women that play alot of mind games are you saying that you are unaware that women play alot of mind games.
Most women tend to prefer tall muscular men however.
The amount of delusion here is baffling.
You don’t get out much, seems your the delusional one. Everywhere I go I see hot chicks with ugly ass men. Look around drop your insecurities and you will see.
But you need to be Succesful to be attractive with women.
How many can get them? Very few.
That's wrong.
That's a relief, I'm old, fat, bald and ugly
Hit the gym at the least and eat/drink cleaner
@@ItIsMeJamesE I was kidding
I hear you. I'm in the same boat, and pug-ugly to boot. Looks DO matter, and women are sometimes more visual than men are, but won't admit it.
@@stevestruthers6180 hey Steve, What I have been doing for years is to make the most of what I have. I don't know what you do daily and am not arrogant enough to give you unsolicited advice. For years I wake up early, meditate, eat natural unprocessed food, exercise etc and just try to maximise whatever is there. What I posted above is what I tell me myself to keep myself motivated to keep working hard on myself and maybe that's wrong on my part and not healthy.
...and Broke ? C'mon, you gotta cover all bases ! lol ;)
We are done with western women, women overseas are our goals
Beauty is subjective to a limit, but when you are sitting around talking about which actor is the most beautiful or handsome, yes, there will be subjectivity in the answers, but there is also an objective consensus and understanding that they are all attractive. This is why it is enjoyable to play that game in the first place. People don't play this game with a lineup of ugly, obese, and unattractive people and then try to debate who among them is the most attractive. There is an objective understanding that they are all ugly and do not qualify to be part of the game. There is level of attractiveness that is mandatory to be part of the game. Looks are not everything, but they are very important, and as we become more and more socially awkward and less able to connect with each other, they will continue to become more and more important.
Well said
This is exactly why i dont play the game. When its not made for me, its not made for me. At 33, i dont even look at women anymore
What do you think successful means? Sure I can have good conversations, but if I'm only making friends, that's not successful when it comes to dating.
I quit the gym and set one up in my workshop because I have been accused of being a creep without even looking in their direction or speaking to them, I've been asked to leave bars and shops because I look offensive, I've been assaulted by a woman in a train station because of the way I look, I've had no end of problems with women being offended by me and the way I look, I'm not just talking of recent issues, I'm nearly 60 and this has happened throughout my life, even as far back as my childhood, luckily as a male, I can and do hide my face with a beard, I'm lucky enough to still have my own hair which is also long to try and hide my face, again I'm lucky, I do a solitary job, work mainly with males, I don't have much contact with women, I work nights and sleep during the day so I don't have to be around or offend women with my looks, when I have to go out, I keep my head facing the ground but still often manage to offend someone and it's normally a woman, I would never approach a woman, I only speak to women in a working environment, apart from that I stay out of the way, either at home or in my workshop
Let's say attraction is measured on a scale from 1 to 10. If the woman doesn't see you at least a 5, you will waste your time.
No, your presupposition is wrong. Attractiveness is NOT completely subjective. There are several objective truths when it comes to attractiviness no matter how you define attractiviness.
If you define attractiviness as looks. It is objectively true a burn victim covering the persons face in scares in not attractive.
If you define it as personality traits it is objectively true somebody that hits little children and ends puppies is not attractive.
The ENTIRE base of your claim is false.
She is a woman, and her perspective is unique and subjective (as is yours). This is a fact. And the "fact" we can disagree is evidence of this fact.
In order to communicate we must generalise (and sometimes exaggerate). If you are getting caught up in definitions you are probably missing her whole point.
...for most women: feelings trump thoughts
@@Soul-Survivor only in a world where women are equal to a man and men can have periods. But that world only exists in peoples minds. Just as your idea of "everything is subjective". Thats why Lizzo is a 10, im sure. 🤣🤣🤣
you have a rational mind, and when challenged the rational mind can create great emotions... which to the rational mind are very confusing and irrational. I understand this and know how painful it can be... and the easiest thing to do is to say "you are wrong" thus YOU are the cause of my upset... but this is the root cause of all violence.. and is obviously not the way forward.
@@Soul-Survivor you are funny. Thanks for the laugh, punkin. I know you believe that you can read minds thru text. I assure you, you can not. Stick to practicing your dime store phsychology on friend zoned soy boys, and 40 yo women still "finding themselves". BTW's Aren't you wasting the time you planned to dye your hair pink or something? Just to showcase that high emotional intelligence of yours.
@@user-jv4ic8rh4d this issue of biological males wanting to be recognised as women does not really effect me, so I do not have any strong thoughts about it.
I accept that "ideas are in the head" but I don't see how that disproves my point. Quite the contrary... are your ideas not in your head? are your ideas always correct? not so long ago you could literally be killed if you did not believe the world was flat, do you not think they were equally confident in their world view as you are in yours?
As for "rating" women, I have done my fair share of that in my life! But when we judge others do we not fear to be judged the same way? do you like being judged? Could this be the reason we too fear rejection? If men did not rate women do you think they would be more free to pursue there natural attraction?
Anyway I appreciate you giving your attention to my ideas.
right. you need to be rich/tall/fit/educated/attractive/hung/liberal/masculine/sensitive/funny etc, etc, etc
Name me one benefit a woman has in a man's life... i'll wait
just his very existence... not much really
@@Soul-SurvivorI know you're being sarcastic
But you hit the nail on the head cause life is a curse
@@kylegovender6211 Yes my brother, the Buddha said the same thing. That is an astute insight. And if all the women were gone tomorrow... would that change?
@@Soul-Survivor I am saying extinction good
@@kylegovender6211 whose extinction? what do you want? what is your purpose?... why?
Well said! I will say that if you’re very good looking AND you possess the positive energy you’re referring to then you will be desired by everyone (not just women). An adage I’ve tried to follow is to do the best with what you have. If you’re so-so on looks, develop a great aura around people and you’ll be surprised at what you pull. Or what can you do to improve your style, smell, etc. Overcoming negative beliefs about yourself is difficult, since they’re usually ingrained as a child. I realized it was at the root of my porn addiction. It’s VERY important how you feel about yourself.
One little caveat I will add however, is that if you’re out of shape and you start working out and acquire a “good” body, you WILL be more attractive because your self belief and confidence from changing yourself about yourself carries over.
@@MiguelGebremedhin Thank you for sharing Miguel. I agree, it is about energy. I’ve come across men who by “society’s standards” whatever that means, weren’t as good looking as some but for me personally, I liked them. Why? They liked themselves and were relaxed within themselves and this felt safe enough for me to engage in conversation with them. It certainly is possible to see more of who you really are, I’ve seen it for myself and in others too.
Depends on which type of girl and the environment you are in. If a man has a strong sense of direction, drive and self-confidence. Then you are a winner. Intelligence ranks high up there as well.
I am an ugly guy (large right nostril from nosepicking) and i ruined the lives of the women i chased
Thank you for making this content. It's always good to get others perspectives on things.
@@bloomcrawler thank you for being open to hearing it 🙏 I think you are the only one
Though It can help, but being attractive is not a requirement. If you have good interpersonal skills and can keep conversation going, have life goals, and hobbies you both can share, then your well on your way to being attractive in the female gaze. I will add, that unless you as a man have a medical issue of why you can't, having a little workout routine like pushups and pullups in your apartment or at the park and eating healthy foods can do a lot for your health and make you far more physically attractive; Even if you don't think your attractive. Being healthy and fit really adds a few extra charisma points.
Good looking without good energy = next
Time reveals the truth
People have 2 sides
Great vid!
You contradictied yourself in your discription of the video. You do need to be attractive first before energy and all that stuff.
The thing is they won't let you connect.They act like idiots.What's the better than everybody else
Confidence kills everything.
Very well said! It is all about energy, which creates the self-fulfilling prophecy.
@@NeoJohnPatterson glad it resonated with someone 🙏😅 yes absolutely. She feels it. I’ve always felt safer at having a conversation with a man whose approached when I intuitively feel he’s okay whether im opening to speaking with him or not ☺️
@@Jessicawatt521 It's easy for my generation, we can read people and are comfortable with rejection if we get it wrong. Life is about risk and adventure! I love your description on energy, it encompasses the real deal. We attract what we already are :)
@@NeoJohnPatterson I love that ☺️ I agree! Thanks for sharing
All bs...........
Good luck with your channel and hope it takes off, liked and subscribed
To say that you don't have to be attractive is absolute BS. A tall guy with above average face will always have more success.Subjectivity in this case is for minority of women
I've heard many women say confidence is more important than looks. Obviously you need to be reasonably attractive, but it seems to be a common theme that women prefer confidence over looks.
Doubt
It can actually be a hindrance at times
No attractive at all
Just have tons of money.
The only thing that matters with women.
Yeah yeah ...please...
based on gpt
Ban cell phones not this video
Jessica! hello
@@resoluton hi!
@@Jessicawatt521 I subscribed, I think you are attractive.