Clean before they arrive, clean while their there, clean after they leave....because they’re company and you don’t let them do anything but enjoy themselves, or you clean while they’re there because you’d rather than visit with them lol 😆
SAG Brady, which one do you do, the cleaning to let them enjoy themselves, or the cleaning while their there so you don’t have to visit with them much? Lol 😆
Once I made chicory grilled with ham and cheese for my mother. She hated chicory. It was my revenge for all the fish she forced me to eat. Never forget her face when I put it on the table. Of course I also made her a nice salad and some other vegetables. My father was very happy, it turned out he also liked chicory.
My mama puts out decorative hand towels just for looks. The small ones with the satin ribbon, lace and little embroidered flowers /butterflies. Growing up she made sure we kids knew to never use them, those were just for looks she said. My dad would use them anyway then hang them back up lol.
Years ago I saw a stand up comic do a routine about this. "You know it's important when your girlfriend (his words there) says 'Don't use those towel, there for decoration!!" I yell back "Who are these filthy people who never visit?!"
28 hours before Momma arrives, you are not complaining about finding a Cheeto in the sofa. You are waiting for the delivery of your new sofa. Get it right!
this is very true. Back in my single days at church someone asked my best friend where I was one Sunday and she replied that my mom was coming to visit, the whole singles department says," we understand why he didn't make it to church"
Considering the clutter in my MIL’s house, I never really feel the need to deep clean before she comes over. I’m very fortunate in that aspect. I will vacuum and make sure the kitchen and bathroom seems presentable, though. Cleaning prior to friends visiting....Nah, they can deal with the reality of what a home looks like with a bonkers 4 year old running around. I consider it a good life lesson for them.
This literally is so true; as I prep and clean my house this afternoon for my mama to come spend the night! I cleaned the kitchen, did the dishes, ran the dishwasher, cleaned the microwave, refilled bottles, jars and canisters (soap, salt, sugar, flour), finished a load of laundry and swept the floor. So true! Lol! Gotta impress the mamas!
Saima Zia I clean every few weeks; that day, in preparation for mama, I spent about 2 & 1/2 hours...my place is relatively small so it doesn’t take long when I buckle down and do it. Laser focus! Nothing else, no distractions, just clean. I put on music and just go!
Saima Zia also my supplies are all in one place, I use a basic all purpose cleaner for everything and have a well stocked pantry so items are Easy to grab and replace.
Honey, Jeff's coming over" I say, " Have fun in the garage and throw this on the grill while you're out there". Bonus: have a garage with a 1/2 bathroom.
I must admit that I actually coordinate the color of my hangers with the color of my clothes, and then sort them accordingly in the closet. Yes I know I need help... no OCD here!
@@yesterdayitrained That is awesome, lol. ☺ I put my clothes in color order. It has been my dream to have hanger colors that coordinate with my clothes. 😁
My mom's hobby is cleaning. I gave up. We'd go out and she'd want to be home with the kids...I'd come home to the smell of cleaner. SHE BROUGHT HER OWN!
My in laws tell us they're comin when they are thirty minutes away so imagine frantic cleaning and shoving of things in the closet that she then opens and finds. 😖
That's why you keep an empty laundry basket in the closet. When they're coming, shove everything into it and then neatly place a few folded towels on top to cover what is inside it. 😁
If my mother OR mil ever opened my closets, I would have to say a few words. I don't go to their house and be nosy; they can extend the same courtesy to me.
Yeah, my dads mil aka my grandma was a chronic snooper. She came over every weekend to help Mom clean when me and my brothers were wee little. She hated my dad and dug through the closet to find dirt on him. 😤😠😡🤬 Oh, well now we live 2500+ miles away from them and have a restraining order of sorts.
Actually I don't always bother cleaning my home before my mother comes over. Sometimes she will clean it for me. 😂 But I try to clean before friends come. I don't get visitors that often. And what are guest doing in my bedroom anyway? They won't know there is a mess there if the door is closed.
My mom lives near my sister's family (teenage daughter) 2 states away, and always comes to my house (no kids) for Christmas to clean, because it's her vacation from being full-time Nana.
Many, many years ago my apartment was under an emergency evacuation due to flooding. It had been raining for several days so I knew it was a possibility. Had already packed a bag with basic things, important papers, favorite books --- Everything ready in case we had to evacuate. When the order came in my friend with a car knocked on my door for me to go with her ---- I was hand washing the couple of dishes in the dishwasher, because *if* my apartment flooded and emergency folks came in, I didn't want them looking in the dishwasher and thinking I was a slob......... Heck, I even made the bed...... Yeah, sometimes the OCD can kick in at the worst moments :D
Oh thank you I thought I was alone on this, except it's not just for mom it's for when ever the family is coming over and before we leave to go out of town.
Pinesol! Pinesol! And pull out all the food jars from the fridge to double check the lip rim on the jars isn't sticky. Please wipe down the salt and pepper holders... And rinse out all the trash cans with pinesol, and wipe down the one in the kitchen with pinesol and don't keep it to close to the kitchen cabinet. Just spray Pinesol on everything😂
Not gonna lie this is accurate for my Indian family too. Though friends rarely come over so we still clean up a bit for them. It typically depends on how often someone comes over. Every month or so, maybe I’ll vacuum and make sure the bathroom is clean. Once a year or two, everything is spotless (until we all dirty it up when the guests arrive).
Truest thing ever. Pulling out the toothbrush, moving furniture, ironing sheets (or at least putting them in a hot dryer with a damp cloth) so that you can put them on the bed with the fewest wrinkles. It's like you both are pretending that you really live this way, knowing full well neither of you do.
He better get outside and make the yard spotless too, trim the trees shrubs, pull the weeds, wash the windows, detail the car, straighten the garage. We'd start a month out getting ready. Ya better stock the pantry with good stuff for her and healthy food for the kids.
My mom lives in Virginia. I live in Nashville, and have been here since 2010. She has visited the city once, stayed in a hotel, and never set foot in my house.
@@aleskamartinez1196 haha, I think it’s hereditary. Both may parent’s families hardly ever visited us when we were kids. We always went to them. That has pretty much continued lol.
I glad that this couple plans days ahead of time to clean up for mom. They're quite chill in their preparations and cleaning. Some people would wait until the last minute, get comically hysterical, tell their family members to throw their beds out because it hasn't been made and be heck-bent to make sure their house looks like there is no sighs of life.
@@jp-ty1vd You got me on that one!! Lol! But a quick Google search says yes, from the pictures I found. There may be different things on the two, but the concept is the same.
I use to leave load of laundry in the dryer and a couple of dishes for mine. That way she felt like I needed her help. 3 kids, i needed help! Lol! I love my Mom!
I remember the first time we had AZ family visit. I distinctly recall shampooing the carpet and painting the living room, bathroom, and kitchen. I remember that when we’d visit the family in AZ, they’d be like, “Thank you for being willing to go to all this trouble for a visit!” Mama’d smile and assure them that the 3-day drive was no trouble at all. Just once, I would like to have piped up, “She’s not kidding!!”
@@Jermainesqueeze cause I used to feel the same way. still do honestly. but the wife on the other hand, she cleans for a week before her mom shows up and the B still finds something to dis her on. when we first got married I was like the dude in the video all trying to help clean and shit, after 19 years the old witch is lucky I don't walk around the house in my underwear! LMAO
@@gusmc2220 So why does the wife still bother doing all that Damn cleaning if the mother keeps jumping on her about something? Then you have to hear the Mrs mad. Wait! She's still trying to get her mom's approval!!
@@Jermainesqueeze for a long time, yes, sadly she was. she was 19 when we got married btw but after a few years, and a bunch of growing up on her part, now the wife isn't all that concerned about what her mother thinks. not like she used to. having kids of her own I think was the turning point. after that she didn't have the energy nor the inclination to give a shit what her mother thought any more, especially after her mom tried to push her way in and tell her how to raise the kids. be warned never piss off a momma bear! lol I think just about every newlywed couple goes through a phase where they try to impress their parents and the in laws, it's like showing they 'are too!' (like a little kid says) capable of making it on their own. and part of that is the whole house cleaning thing. it passes, it drives you insane and you break up or you see some couples knuckle under it forever. hell I have seen couples who lived together for decades, who already had kids and families together, break up because of that shit. it's really weird. in her eyes I'm sure I'm still the heathen who 'corrupted' and 'stole her little girl away,' the difference is I never cared and now neither does the wife. the old bat can get over it; or not, LOL what's even funnier is the wife's grandma was the matriarch of her family (we're talking old school Mexican family here) and at first me and her butted heads ALL the time too, till one evening we had it out, her cussing me up and down in Spanish and me giving it right back (white boy, but 1/2 of the white population of my nearly all Hispanic high school) suddenly she just straight up asks me "what do you intended to do with my granddaughter?!" I looked her square in the eyes and said "marry her." after that she was cool as fuck. to this day I still respect that woman and hold her in high regard. lol anyway not like you wanted to hear my life story.
Accurate. My mother could inspect my home with a fine tooth comb even after being professionally deep cleaned. My mother in law, however, understands that we're not always able to clean the house. We don't live in filth, and we do chores weekly. When we were in a car accident a month ago, MIL came over and cleaned our home and took care of us. I love her and my own mom.
So true. My husband had a friend over recently. All we did was make sure the bathroom was clean. My MIL came for a visit and we spent the two weeks before cleaning.
When my husband's family were going to visit from Australia, we painted the kitchen, got new rugs, new curtains in the guest room, and washed all the walls. I still came home from work the first day of their visit to find her scrubbing my kitchen floor, bless her heart. 😐
When I was living with family we always had one day out of the week where we would fully clean. We would clean up behind ourselves during the week. But when the weekend hits we had to clean before Sunday, cause my family would cook & folks would come over. Always had to have the house & rooms in order no matter who came over. No one had time tripping over your stuff & no one wants to see a nasty area...that's when the lectures start & folks get on parents for not parenting right. It's a mess. 😣
So true!! I remember once when I was pregnant with my second child and my parents came to help me. I had made a comprehensive list of things to clean and she found it. She was impressed ( since according to her I never learned how to clean...* hint * I was her maid until moved out!) I had included the baseboards. Lolol
My father's best friend was fifteen minutes from us. We he called and said he was coming, the house got passable before he stepped in the door. My siblings - I make sure I have snacks for them - as long as I have a clean walkway and no experiments in the fridge, I'm good.
Their house is DARLING!!!!! Also, true story- when my mom's mother-in-law would come, my mom would buy all new houseplants so her mother-in-law would think she had a green thumb.
I was waiting for the reactions...
Jeff: "Man this is niiiiice!"
Momma: "What is this? Honey did you even clean?"
Lol!
That would have been a PERFECT ending! It was a fun bit, but your ending would have turned it into a classic!
Omg. That is so true. I clean my house before my mother comes over. And prepare food. And she asks. If I even cleaned. Just about every time.
Yes! Or, “Well, let’s just wash the dishes.” Or “I’ll take the kids out while you” *sniff* “clean”....
After I go through all that cleaning, the first thing I say to company is, "I'm sorry the house is such a mess." That's how crazy I am.😅😅
My house stays clean because mama lives about a mile away and almost never calls before showing up. Plus I was in the military, drilled into me.
Jason Lowry Literally!
You're lucky... mine lives across the street 🤣
Saturday GI parties.
Bless your heart lol
My momma is my landlord and i know dang well she stops by when shes knows im not home everything steady in its place always lol
As a kid I never understood why we cleaned so much when family came. As an adult, I get it. I really get it.
Hey Sis!😂😂
Same!
Clean before they arrive, clean while their there, clean after they leave....because they’re company and you don’t let them do anything but enjoy themselves, or you clean while they’re there because you’d rather than visit with them lol 😆
@@conniemiller411 omg..I have family visiting as I read this..so true
SAG Brady, which one do you do, the cleaning to let them enjoy themselves, or the cleaning while their there so you don’t have to visit with them much? Lol 😆
This is so accurate but incomplete. Where's the frantic grocery shopping and cooking all of mom's favorites for her judging pleasures? 🤣🤣🤣
And when she wants to cook, prepare yourself, your kitchen tools are all garbage, or why you don't have the "right" spice?
@@katiaschwarzer7310 yeeeeessss.... That "ever woman should have _____ in their pantry" talk.
If I don't have the right coffee, then God help us all.
Once I made chicory grilled with ham and cheese for my mother. She hated chicory. It was my revenge for all the fish she forced me to eat. Never forget her face when I put it on the table.
Of course I also made her a nice salad and some other vegetables. My father was very happy, it turned out he also liked chicory.
Assuming done off screen, how else do you get THAT fruit and cheese plater for the mother?
Hope they remembered to put out the decorative guest soaps and the (never used) wedding china set from Gramma... or is that just me? 😄
My mama puts out decorative hand towels just for looks. The small ones with the satin ribbon, lace and little embroidered flowers /butterflies. Growing up she made sure we kids knew to never use them, those were just for looks she said. My dad would use them anyway then hang them back up lol.
Lady Amalthea your dad liked to live on the edge! My ma’s towels have embroidered seashells and satin ribbon, super pretty, never been wet :)
Years ago I saw a stand up comic do a routine about this. "You know it's important when your girlfriend (his words there) says 'Don't use those towel, there for decoration!!" I yell back "Who are these filthy people who never visit?!"
@@MjollTheLioness-o4y story of my life lol
And those hideous gifts no one wants.
28 hours before Momma arrives, you are not complaining about finding a Cheeto in the sofa. You are waiting for the delivery of your new sofa. Get it right!
I did buy a loveseat so my grandson's dog could sit on something too. It's fabric and my couch is leather.
Mariella Hernandez forget that, we need to move states
I couldn’t believe she was vacuuming it then. That is something that happens an hour before and then no one is allowed to sit on it until she arrives.
One thing I learned about myself watching this video: I am Jeff.
😆
Same!
I want to be Jeff lol
Props!
Nah you’re chef
Mama coming is one thing. Mama-in-law coming is a real reason to panic clean!
Screw that if she doesn't like it there is the door.
@Mo l that's fine but don't put up with anyone's BS.thats all
I won't get a mother in law
Mama helps you clean and bus you groceries, mama in law inspects
Truee
this is very true. Back in my single days at church someone asked my best friend where I was one Sunday and she replied that my mom was coming to visit, the whole singles department says," we understand why he didn't make it to church"
Considering the clutter in my MIL’s house, I never really feel the need to deep clean before she comes over. I’m very fortunate in that aspect. I will vacuum and make sure the kitchen and bathroom seems presentable, though. Cleaning prior to friends visiting....Nah, they can deal with the reality of what a home looks like with a bonkers 4 year old running around. I consider it a good life lesson for them.
Same...sorta. My MIL's home is unbelievably cluttered. I'm always worried she is going to trip on something and get hurt.
You are not supposed to be talking about the clutter in my house! 😂😂
@@Joanla1954 😂
Same! I’m more concern my kids will hurt with all the clutter
"Your eyesight is impeccable"
"Not as good as momma's"
Aint it the truth!
This literally is so true; as I prep and clean my house this afternoon for my mama to come spend the night! I cleaned the kitchen, did the dishes, ran the dishwasher, cleaned the microwave, refilled bottles, jars and canisters (soap, salt, sugar, flour), finished a load of laundry and swept the floor. So true! Lol! Gotta impress the mamas!
How do you have the timeeeeee?
Saima Zia I clean every few weeks; that day, in preparation for mama, I spent about 2 & 1/2 hours...my place is relatively small so it doesn’t take long when I buckle down and do it. Laser focus! Nothing else, no distractions, just clean. I put on music and just go!
Saima Zia also my supplies are all in one place, I use a basic all purpose cleaner for everything and have a well stocked pantry so items are Easy to grab and replace.
I’m surprised they didn’t just get the febreze bottle do a few sprays and say that’s good enough for Jeff lol
Honey, Jeff's coming over" I say, " Have fun in the garage and throw this on the grill while you're out there". Bonus: have a garage with a 1/2 bathroom.
He did. 0:27 to 0:33
I can neither confirm or deny this actually happens.
true that
It does...I know- don’t tell!
It all depends on which mom is coming over... mine or his.
Lol
🤣🤣😁😁👍
Plot twist there mom is the same mom
@@WildestCarton *singing* SWEET HOME ALABAMA
@@WildestCarton oop-
If its free, Jeff will eat it!
My family can totally relate to this. Whenever my grandma is coming we clean like there's no tomorrow. It's do or die 😁😄
If you don’t, there is no tomorrow
Mine too! She will not hesitate to talk about how nasty your house is.
".. Is teal in the blue or green family?"FACTS! Gotta get EVERYTHING in order before Mom comes over!! 😂😂😂
I must admit that I actually coordinate the color of my hangers with the color of my clothes, and then sort them accordingly in the closet. Yes I know I need help... no OCD here!
@@yesterdayitrained That is awesome, lol. ☺ I put my clothes in color order. It has been my dream to have hanger colors that coordinate with my clothes. 😁
The teal shirt goes between the blue and green!
@@yesterdayitrained Me too
Is teal in the blue or green family?
_yes_
So true! No matter how much I clean, after mom leaves I’ll hear how she called my siblings to tell them what a slob I am. No way to win!
Black sheep in family know the crap that went on behind my back with every visit
My mom's hobby is cleaning. I gave up. We'd go out and she'd want to be home with the kids...I'd come home to the smell of cleaner. SHE BROUGHT HER OWN!
😂😂😂😂😂
This is exactly my mam maw
My in laws tell us they're comin when they are thirty minutes away so imagine frantic cleaning and shoving of things in the closet that she then opens and finds. 😖
That's why you keep an empty laundry basket in the closet. When they're coming, shove everything into it and then neatly place a few folded towels on top to cover what is inside it. 😁
If my mother OR mil ever opened my closets, I would have to say a few words. I don't go to their house and be nosy; they can extend the same courtesy to me.
@@catwoman1263 You would think so, but no.
Yeah, my dads mil aka my grandma was a chronic snooper. She came over every weekend to help Mom clean when me and my brothers were wee little. She hated my dad and dug through the closet to find dirt on him. 😤😠😡🤬 Oh, well now we live 2500+ miles away from them and have a restraining order of sorts.
Yes! This is also why bed skirts were invented, imo 😂
WHY IS THIS SO ACCURATE, LIKE WHAT IN THE NAME OF SWEET SOUTHERN CHICKEN???????
“Not as good as my momma’s” I feel that deep within my soul.
Actually I don't always bother cleaning my home before my mother comes over. Sometimes she will clean it for me. 😂
But I try to clean before friends come. I don't get visitors that often.
And what are guest doing in my bedroom anyway? They won't know there is a mess there if the door is closed.
😁 same. She loves it so I always leave window for her to do. Otherwise she starts dusting and washing my floors.
My mom lives near my sister's family (teenage daughter) 2 states away, and always comes to my house (no kids) for Christmas to clean, because it's her vacation from being full-time Nana.
@@tvdan1043 she probably enjoys that nothing is messed up while she's at it. 😂 and noone is messing right away after she's done.
That was the guest bedroom they were preparing for "Mama's" stay.
OMG...…. I'm American by birth, but a Southerner by the grace of God.
The toilet paper substitute for the paper towels for friends!!!! Oh my gosh so true!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
If you're a single man you use blue shop towels.😁
Just did the toilet paper thing last week!!
Congrats for having 400k subscribers for 3 years. Bless your heart ❤️ 😇😌
Many, many years ago my apartment was under an emergency evacuation due to flooding. It had been raining for several days so I knew it was a possibility. Had already packed a bag with basic things, important papers, favorite books --- Everything ready in case we had to evacuate.
When the order came in my friend with a car knocked on my door for me to go with her ---- I was hand washing the couple of dishes in the dishwasher, because *if* my apartment flooded and emergency folks came in, I didn't want them looking in the dishwasher and thinking I was a slob......... Heck, I even made the bed...... Yeah, sometimes the OCD can kick in at the worst moments :D
I feel you😅
I hate how accurate this is.
When he ate the Cheeto lol
Oh thank you I thought I was alone on this, except it's not just for mom it's for when ever the family is coming over and before we leave to go out of town.
Yes! I have to clean before I leave town. I morbidly think about if I die while traveling I don’t want my family to have to come to a messy house.
@Ashley Banks lol maybe
Pinesol! Pinesol! And pull out all the food jars from the fridge to double check the lip rim on the jars isn't sticky. Please wipe down the salt and pepper holders... And rinse out all the trash cans with pinesol, and wipe down the one in the kitchen with pinesol and don't keep it to close to the kitchen cabinet. Just spray Pinesol on everything😂
Oh, they got LAVENDER Pinesol now! I was shocked. No need for air freshener now.
Not gonna lie this is accurate for my Indian family too. Though friends rarely come over so we still clean up a bit for them.
It typically depends on how often someone comes over. Every month or so, maybe I’ll vacuum and make sure the bathroom is clean. Once a year or two, everything is spotless (until we all dirty it up when the guests arrive).
I feel like this is gonna be me cleaning for anybody or any reason vs. me cleaning for my dad
Truest thing ever. Pulling out the toothbrush, moving furniture, ironing sheets (or at least putting them in a hot dryer with a damp cloth) so that you can put them on the bed with the fewest wrinkles. It's like you both are pretending that you really live this way, knowing full well neither of you do.
He better get outside and make the yard spotless too, trim the trees shrubs, pull the weeds, wash the windows, detail the car, straighten the garage. We'd start a month out getting ready. Ya better stock the pantry with good stuff for her and healthy food for the kids.
Yep, we gonna need backup...no doubt, bless her heart
That southern tradition.
I love your profile pic! Is it for new Bern, nc?
@@emileeknox5270 yep
@@emileeknox5270 yes!
@@blackkat2018 girl how did you find me again?
@@sarahjenkins8139 another channel
The chips vs full on salami/cheese cracker plate made me laugh. That is so true!
Where did that girl go to greet her momma? The driveway? Lol. Mommas reflection was not on that front door glass!😂🤣
That's because Mama was checking out the stuff they neglected on the porch.
@@margaret-marywhite299 "Do you even water these plants?" 🤣
" Did you know there are dead shrubs in ya yard baby?"
You have to greet momma as she gets out of the car. Husband should have been out there too, getting her bags.
Oh lordy all the mom scenes are giving me WAR FLASHBACKS. 😂
This is soooo true! Bless your hearts!!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
People really be commenting before the video is halfway done.
My mom lives in Virginia. I live in Nashville, and have been here since 2010. She has visited the city once, stayed in a hotel, and never set foot in my house.
How?! Tell me!
@@aleskamartinez1196 haha, I think it’s hereditary. Both may parent’s families hardly ever visited us when we were kids. We always went to them. That has pretty much continued lol.
Really, that's all? I can never keep my mother out and I'm 32 with kids.
@@aleskamartinez1196 Hmmmm....it may be different if I had kids haha. But she lives 9 hours away so who knows.
I love your videos so much!!!
This is too accurate. 😂😂
I can’t remember what it was like to let people inside my house. My deck is looking sharp though!
Same.
Lockdown was a blessing in some respects . . .
I swept leaves with such dedication this fall. Even my trash cans look clean.
Loved it ! You guys just keep banging them out and I am so grateful for that. Keep on keeping us laughing !
So true. Then after everything is clean, the above oven light gets turned on for a lil sparkle at night
My fiancé always yells at me; we DON'T live in a show house! Lol.... but when my mom comes, we're ALL OUT! This IS SO TRUE y'all!🤣🤣🤣🤣
Now if that ain’t the truth then I don’t know what is!! 🤣
I love the chemistry between Eric and Eunice
I glad that this couple plans days ahead of time to clean up for mom. They're quite chill in their preparations and cleaning. Some people would wait until the last minute, get comically hysterical, tell their family members to throw their beds out because it hasn't been made and be heck-bent to make sure their house looks like there is no sighs of life.
Surprised she didn't reach back in and smack his hand when he took the cheese off the charcuterie board 😂
I am not ashamed, I had to look up "charcuterie board"!
@@jp-ty1vd No shame needed. For others, basically a meat/cheese/crackers/finger veg board.
@@ashlaynesaar so like a French antipasto?
@@jp-ty1vd You got me on that one!! Lol! But a quick Google search says yes, from the pictures I found. There may be different things on the two, but the concept is the same.
@@ashlaynesaar thnx for the replies! eat well.
The milk: "Jeff will drink it" lol!!!
I do that with friends too though. It all gets a sparkle.
Too real!!!
I use to leave load of laundry in the dryer and a couple of dishes for mine. That way she felt like I needed her help. 3 kids, i needed help! Lol! I love my Mom!
This is the first one that made me say "so true, y'all" out loud! And in the first minute, too! Nailed it!
This is also another great video
LOL, so true! Your friends know how you live, they really don’t care how the house looks, but MOM, she has standards!
I remember the first time we had AZ family visit. I distinctly recall shampooing the carpet and painting the living room, bathroom, and kitchen.
I remember that when we’d visit the family in AZ, they’d be like, “Thank you for being willing to go to all this trouble for a visit!” Mama’d smile and assure them that the 3-day drive was no trouble at all. Just once, I would like to have piped up, “She’s not kidding!!”
I have to clean like that for her friends as well as her family.
Ah. This is what is so much better when friends come instead of mom.🤷♀️
If you're a total introvert u never have to clean 🙂
Yes! It's rare we invite anybody to come over...mom included.
@@Meela234 I haven't invited anyone over in 3 years lol
LOL - and true!
Not so---I'm a total introvert, never, ever have the neighbors in, and extremely rarely anyone from my church. But I detest a dirty home, so I CLEAN!!
@@jb6712 I've lived alone for years...never have anyone in my home...my home is far from dirty and I rarely have to clean
Mama must be invisible or she's standing more than 6ft away! 😂 I love these video's!! ❤
She was just getting out of the car lol.
I love it 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂you can never be too clean for momma and the friend visiting, not such a big deal!
I was not going to do all that damn cleaning. A clean bathroom and kitchen is good enough for my visitors. My bedroom aint your damn business.😎
you're not married huh? lol
@@gusmc2220 What gave it away? Hahaha
@@Jermainesqueeze cause I used to feel the same way. still do honestly.
but the wife on the other hand, she cleans for a week before her mom shows up and the B still finds something to dis her on.
when we first got married I was like the dude in the video all trying to help clean and shit, after 19 years the old witch is lucky I don't walk around the house in my underwear! LMAO
@@gusmc2220 So why does the wife still bother doing all that Damn cleaning if the mother keeps jumping on her about something? Then you have to hear the Mrs mad.
Wait! She's still trying to get her mom's approval!!
@@Jermainesqueeze for a long time, yes, sadly she was. she was 19 when we got married btw
but after a few years, and a bunch of growing up on her part, now the wife isn't all that concerned about what her mother thinks. not like she used to.
having kids of her own I think was the turning point. after that she didn't have the energy nor the inclination to give a shit what her mother thought any more, especially after her mom tried to push her way in and tell her how to raise the kids. be warned never piss off a momma bear! lol
I think just about every newlywed couple goes through a phase where they try to impress their parents and the in laws, it's like showing they 'are too!' (like a little kid says) capable of making it on their own. and part of that is the whole house cleaning thing.
it passes, it drives you insane and you break up or you see some couples knuckle under it forever. hell I have seen couples who lived together for decades, who already had kids and families together, break up because of that shit. it's really weird.
in her eyes I'm sure I'm still the heathen who 'corrupted' and 'stole her little girl away,' the difference is I never cared and now neither does the wife. the old bat can get over it; or not, LOL
what's even funnier is the wife's grandma was the matriarch of her family (we're talking old school Mexican family here) and at first me and her butted heads ALL the time too, till one evening we had it out, her cussing me up and down in Spanish and me giving it right back (white boy, but 1/2 of the white population of my nearly all Hispanic high school) suddenly she just straight up asks me "what do you intended to do with my granddaughter?!"
I looked her square in the eyes and said "marry her." after that she was cool as fuck. to this day I still respect that woman and hold her in high regard.
lol anyway not like you wanted to hear my life story.
Accurate. My mother could inspect my home with a fine tooth comb even after being professionally deep cleaned. My mother in law, however, understands that we're not always able to clean the house. We don't live in filth, and we do chores weekly. When we were in a car accident a month ago, MIL came over and cleaned our home and took care of us. I love her and my own mom.
Can't believe they get that much warning when Mom is visiting!! Lucky!
So true 😂
This was cute. I love this house. Whoever decorated it likes my style.
Cleaning for mom is like preparing the house to greet the queen of UK to come over and have a sleepover:)
Funny. I don’t see my kids doing that for us.
Mine either. But I always did it for my mother's visits. Whatever has become of this new generation!!! 🤣😂
if it's free..... my friends and I to a tee
Hey jeff!
Love how he continued to snack through most of it!
If this place don't shine like the Chrysler building your backsides will...lol 😂🤣🤣😂
So true. My husband had a friend over recently. All we did was make sure the bathroom was clean. My MIL came for a visit and we spent the two weeks before cleaning.
“So true” doesn’t even BEGIN to describe it! This is the most correct video EVER MADE!!!
I love how she's straightening the pics right after him!
"Is teal in the blue or green family?" 😅
This is so true tho😂
When my husband's family were going to visit from Australia, we painted the kitchen, got new rugs, new curtains in the guest room, and washed all the walls. I still came home from work the first day of their visit to find her scrubbing my kitchen floor, bless her heart. 😐
OMG 🤣 this is my life!!. I laughed so hard. Thank you, I feel so much better...I'm not the only one.
When I was living with family we always had one day out of the week where we would fully clean. We would clean up behind ourselves during the week. But when the weekend hits we had to clean before Sunday, cause my family would cook & folks would come over. Always had to have the house & rooms in order no matter who came over. No one had time tripping over your stuff & no one wants to see a nasty area...that's when the lectures start & folks get on parents for not parenting right. It's a mess. 😣
So true!! I remember once when I was pregnant with my second child and my parents came to help me. I had made a comprehensive list of things to clean and she found it. She was impressed ( since according to her I never learned how to clean...* hint * I was her maid until moved out!) I had included the baseboards. Lolol
Yes oh my gosh yes
And what are Mama's First Words when in the house.. "Do you Ever Clean Up" Don't Lie and say diff...specially if yo Mama SUTHIN!!!!!!!!
Awesome.........
So so true!! Man I live this almost every week
My father's best friend was fifteen minutes from us. We he called and said he was coming, the house got passable before he stepped in the door. My siblings - I make sure I have snacks for them - as long as I have a clean walkway and no experiments in the fridge, I'm good.
Hilarious!!! Thanks for the laugh! That's how we southerners roll 🙂🙃
A dress for Mom! And snacks at the door!
So true. Getting ready fo visit this weekend🤗
The over the shoulder spray🤣
Their house is DARLING!!!!! Also, true story- when my mom's mother-in-law would come, my mom would buy all new houseplants so her mother-in-law would think she had a green thumb.
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I love the constantly eating. Don’t care mode.
I was really hoping to have the mom walk through the house and complain about how unclean it is. XD
Aww these are some good kids right here.... taking care of mom like that💖