The Effect of Sexualized Media* | Ande Burns | TEDxYouth@Dayton
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- Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024
- Sexualized media without representation and education has tremendous negative effects. From porn addiction to dehumanization of others, these effects can be devastating, especially for young people.
(*Mature subject matter)
Ande is a sophomore at the Miami Valley School and has lived in Ohio for the past nine years. When she's not taking part in various clubs or extracurricular activities (or studying) she's usually either teaching an art class to elementary students in downtown Dayton, hanging out with her friends and family, or nerding out over Disney movies with anyone who will listen. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx
As a man. I'm eternally grateful to the girls that are calling these things out so that it can be addressed. If nothing is said, then we wouldn't pay attention to it. It's taking days, but I'm slowly getting around to being a better person and I apologize for all those who are affected by our sexualization of you ladies who never asked to be sexualized in the first place.
Its all leftist b.s.
You could hear the fear and pain in her voice as she told her story. I feel like that alone shows the effect of sexualized media.
I gave this one year ago today! My One Year Talk-Aversary, if you will😂🥰
Hi.
@@Forcsythe hi
Is this really u?
@@IbrahimIbrahim-dm3tw yup!
Thank you so much for talking about this :)
so sad how few views this one has.
Maybe if she was twerking she would get more views.
@@jacobleither4873 hahah yeah, or at the least if she was wearing a swimsuit
Also the fact that the channel has 30 million subscribers
People don't realize how important this is that is why
@@Jessby78 it was lame as heck.
Thank you for your courage and for your message. I am sorry for what you went through and hope giving strength to others has helped you heal. You are a great role model for your sister! Great job.
Very interesting and devastating at the same time. She is a woman of great courage, and her words resonated with me. I also have younger sisters and I want them to be able to live in a safe world. I hope this video reaches more people.
I think a lot of people are coming to this conclusion naturally. The overton window has gone too far one way. Social movements get co-opted and make wrong turns all the time, but in time I think we will keep moving towards a better society, even with regressions like this.
It's just important to keep talking.
She is beautiful, but I feel profoundly sorry for what happened to her in childhood. She needs a lot of therapy, love and support to fully overcome whatever residual pain she still has from the abuse.
She has grown a lot from the experience, but she is definitely still scarred. Her crying at the end and her overall downcast demeanor, makes that so clear.
I thank her and the team at TEDx for allowing her to express herself. That in itself is healing and empowering for survivors of any kind of abuse.
Very moving presentation ❤
So courageous amd brave!
Her ability to allow us to hear her passion was amazing
She looks like a stereotypical liberal
@@grainbread539 and what if she’s not a liberal?
I have no words to say how much I appreciate this talk, you truly are an inspiration and a role model to look up to, I’m 16 but I want to help you and countless others to build a safer and more accepting world
I’m only 17, being young just means we have more time to fight for a safer world. I also have no words to express my appreciation, your response makes all the anxiety of this talk and it’s process worth it. So thank you❤️❤️❤️
also dont forget sexualized fashion. which leaves no curve to the imagination
Agree with the multiple comments of not enough views. Should be shared by everyone who sees it.
I am so weak, I would never be able to do this, she is a really strong human being
She is veryyyy intellectual and informative.. She stayed strong through hard times and she's here educating us ! Thank you Dayton !!! Imma share this with allllll my contacts bye
Thank you for this, we need more of these themes to be talked about.
If there's always these women who supports and release this kind of media esp. In music and entertainment industry like music videos and lyrics on songs sexualizing themselves without disclaimers AND if theres no women in the family who can guide or educate not just younger girls but also boys sad but this will never stop
I love her, she is my new hero
Just a single word " INCREDIBLE" for this women who fought with the situation she was in when she was 8 years old.
Ande Burns, I love everything about you. I can feel your heart. I can see your spirit on your face. I can see who you are and hear it in your voice. You are an excellent person. Thank you for your wonderful research and speech. I want to watch it again. I hope you have a massively rewarding life.
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She did so well and I'm proud of her! Agree with everything.
This was a beautiful talk. Well done Ande Burns 🫶
Good, I'm glad someone spoke on this
Fathers need to get a grip of their sons. Down with toxic masculinity.
Lol
right
What they need is to be more masculine, not more feminine.
thank you
Do not get confused people.
Young ones do bad because they are
1. Inexperienced
2. Insensitive hearts.
Take ownership of your choices. Throw off inexperience, and think of what your parents think, think of what those who love you want for you. STOP putting your selfish desires first. Turn around, change before your heart is too hard to listen.
needs more views!!!
I don’t even have to hear her. I just love her.
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bruh, yu just shitted on her TED talk mao
You should probably try hearing her
Everyone is so sexuilzed
how?
@@briancurry2020 all started with the Instagram era in my opinion
@@joshallenforpresident I agree. But I would like to add that it would also be movies and some tv shows that also started this. (I’d say 2000’s movies and onwards in general)
Really good presentation. I'm glad she was able to share these things
Great conversation, nice to hear young people, women and men speaking out.
Keep it going. 😊
She gave an amazing talk. It was really engaging and informative, I feel like I learned a lot. Quite the generational download for me.
i come back here alot amazing person thank you for speaking up for those who are scared to.
Amazing vid
U have amazing strength
@@maddymiller1002 no, she means she's developed this amazing inner strength from what she has been through.. but, damn.. the world is fuckin messed up.. the strong eat the weak
Please share this video everybody
Asian man here and I agree.
youtube will obviously not recommend this to a young child
why not?
It may be that blaming men is one of the many things that is factually true. But as of this moment, it is worse than that. If women have accepted the image of how they should be, and how they can use their power to freely reject, but point the fault at men saying, it's your responsibility to not look at me, then, they have accepted defeated. Maybe nature has taken its rightful course. Maybe eugenics, evolution is an inevitable consequence of the times we live in. But as humans, who are gifted with reason, ought to do much more. Maybe as a whole, not every race, tribe is on that level yet. But we must make a difference, to freely give love and grow insight. Scarcity is a cancerous tumor.
Excellent talk!! 🙌
I personally think that many girls should wear clothes that cover themselves more. Clothes is over sexualized too and people think it’s okay, it’s sad.
There is a difference between oversexualised clothes and people oversexualising someone for showing skin (to a certain extent ofc)
@@Ohmyuna no. You cannot just say that men should not look at what the women. As someone following religion it is easy but for other no can’t imagine it’s both ways
@@aymanbhatti9912don't mix stuff please, I'm talking about oversexualisation that people (wich you reffered as men) do to others, i didn't say men should not look at women wtf, i said men shouldn't oversexualise women when looking at her, oversexualisation and looking is not the same damn thing
@@Ohmyuna ♀️ should prob stop staring at my natty 18+" arms
And 52" chest
And massive 27" thighs
Amd commenting on them
Oh wait, no they shouldn't- that's how I get to breed 🔥🍑
I too was molested at a babysitters house. Repeatedly!!
She got way more cajones than I do she showed strength most don’t have gang gang
i made the like go 1k 😝
thats amazing ❤
The sentences makes me shameful as a male
That was beautiful.
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31 million subs yet so little views
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Beautiful
Thank you for your bravery and bringing this helpful information out. If I can kindly add something, have you done a study on how immodest mini dresses affect men’s brains?
worse than Great Depression
Just broke 444 with my likes
My assumption: blue hair is a sign of an oversexualized mind
@unixez it’s normal
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Sexualization of women is empowerment. As much they get sexualized men will enjoy that and it will be empowerment for women. Sexualization of women in media is good for men. That's why as a male I love feminism. Feminism allows sexualization of women in media.
Sexualization is not empowerment. It's just leeching off women.
Also it's not good for men as it clearly misguides them
Never have a child
That's what they don't understand!! The "empowerment" of women only benefits men, not women.
Bit of a mess, this one.
@Judgement Kazzy I meant the speech, not her (and not the delivery).
@beyonce queen I will respond, but I'm going to watch it again first.
bit of a mess? have you went through what she went through to complain about her speech being a "mess"? she's still damaged from the experience! and it's emotionally overwhelming for her to talk about it in the first place, it's obvious with the way she broke into tears at the end. deciding to speak up about it in the first place is in and of itself enough. I thought the speech was more than perfect as well, in such circumstances.
@Queen queen That’s sad😕
It was a good speech!
Sorry won't happen
We are living in a world where everything is hyper sexualised so
This was boring
Thanks for watching bestie
Ofcourse people like you never listen
@@andelynburns8894 I think it's a very very real problem. It's not talked about enough if at all and I really appreciate and love your speech. Great talk. This will be one of the biggest sociatel problems and the possible downfall of future generations due to Tiktok and other media. Amazing heartfelt speech.
Oh man, damaged goods. She's undatable now, that's always sad to see.
Can you explain more of what you meant by saying that?
@@pinkanime_cat1460 forget about him, he's just a twisted animal.
You were never datable in the first place
@Queen queen LOOL ONE OF HIS VIDEOS IS ABOUT CHEM-TRAILS 💀💀💀💀
He’s right. What are you guys on about? I don’t see her having a happy functioning family at all.
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