Step Mom is Stealing In My Name
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Why did she even call in when she is not listening to anything he is saying.......
She was hoping her and her dad could stiff the credit card company while still protecting the thief.
shes in law enforcement,they dont listen to anyone,
More than likely it was just her dad raising her so she feel she owes him
She keeps saying, "Yes, but..."
And she's in law enforcement and doesn't recognize theft? The heck...
10 bucks says Ally keeps on paying off stepmom's fraud.
I'll double your money on it!!!
I third that! She is so foolish
The fact she giggles sets my teeth on edge.
Genius! Let me know when you become a millionaire on this. XD.
She is ridiculous... and she's in law enforcement.
I'm in!!
She's in law enforcement and does not know it's fraud? That and her giggles are both alarming...
Right. Definitely shows that she has a soft spot for her family while working in a field where people get locked up with this kind of stuff!
@@alyssam8977 - Double standards. She is just plain stupid
1) Cops are to never snitch on their own
Law enforcement is vague. Being a patrol officer doesn't mean that she is trained in financial crime laws.
She knows. This woman refuses to accept it because its "family". I'm stressed listening to her go on an on
My grandchild did this, forging stolen checks for drug money. I had to file a police report to get the bank to work with me, good on them. I did. He went to prison for a couple years. He's been sober now two years. Best thing I ever did.
The difference between helping versus enabling: helping is doing something for others for which they CANNOT do for themselves. Enabling is doing something for other that they SHOULD be doing for themselves.
Good for you! Enabling the ones we love is abuse and absolutely hurts them. Doing what's right is the harder thing but its the loving thing.
I'm laughing at Dave's bluntness - 'She's a bank robber." Dave, you are loved.
SHE IS A THIEF!!! WHAT WIMPS THESE PEOPLE ARE, SHE DOESN’T DESERVE TO EVEN BE IN THE OFFICE OF THE POLICE!!! LOOSER, WIMPS, CROOKS!!
'Just because you know the criminal doesn't mean it's not a crime..'
Leona Rodriguez - yes
This is how white supremacy works in a nutshell
"I'm in law enforcement."
Then why aren't you slapping the cuffs on this thief?!
Issues with Minuteman Madison 🤣😂🤣😂
She didn’t say she was a cop...she said she was ‘with’ law enforcement. She could answer phones...etc.
That always means a cop. They don’t just throw out that they’re a cop. It’s some weird code. My ex & alllll his buddies did it too. Wives as well. She’s a cop
This girl is in such a dysfunctional family and she doesn’t even realize it.
Yeah, and she's carrying a gun in public with conditional immunity from being prosecuted if she shoots someone who upsets her.
Caller is embarrassing.
She didn't have a clue what Dave was saying and if I hear her say "I'm just trying to keep it civil" one more time I think I'll be sick!
Even her own department's investigator told her it was fraud. She didn't listen.
It’s learned helplessness. This has been going on most of her life
That woman needs to go to jail. She's stealing from everyone she's supposed to love.
Nope. Get her out of your lives!!!
Agreed! File charges and divorce her!
The only thing I disagree with Dave Ramsey on is in saying that her dad is a "good man". Wrong. He's a coward who refuses to deal with his wife's problems. He should have stood up against her a long time ago. But he's too afraid to face his wife, so he let's her run all kind of evil against his own family!
I can't stand this mentality in America right now. He's not a good guy. He's a bad guy. Helping or protecting people who do evil things is evil.
You are so right! The husband is a wimp, the daughter is a wimp! This step-mom must be the ruler of the house! Get rid of her and you would have a better life!!!
The husband is an enabler. His wife will continue since there’s no consequences.
I'm more concerned with ally being in law enforcement and she thinks that the law doesn't apply to her or her family. Soon to be CROOKED ALLY
Yet another example of a HUGE boundary issue with parents and children. Good luck lady. You're gonna need it.
There is NO way Ally is in "law enforcement" as anything other than a records clerk or dispatcher.
Yup. I was thinking in corrections maybe.
@@someoneelse6934 yeah. Corrections isn’t law enforcement, though.
This call is crazy!! The caller is laughing like it's not big money this lady is stealing! 50k, 10k, 15k, that's money that could be invested!
Dad and daughter are being suckered by the wife/step mother and they are still clearing up after this criminal. I don't think she is mentally ill .... she is a con woman who cares not a jot for anyone but herself. She's a monster feeding off the goodness (or false sense of responsibility of these people) and she needs to have her money supply stopped. Book her, Danno !
The whole family acts slow. Why would you pay for her debt? I wouldn't.
That's right. I wouldn't pay a dime.
Stupid is as Stupid Does!!!
Ally is suffering from learned helplessness.
I've been there, and I might still be. Does anyone have suggestions to get my head out of this rut?
Yes!!!!
retrojoe87- get the best psychotherapy you can afford. I’m not kidding. Therapy changes lives.
@@dr.dermixgirlmd7479 ...I disagree! Therapist are more messed up than their patients, that is why they were drawn to that field! They are nut cases, evaluating people with problems! Find a stable person who isn’t writing prescriptions to help you along your way! Psychology is a fraud that steals your $ & never helps your mind! EVERYONE IS AFTER THE MONEY HONEY!!! They don’t care if you get fixed or not...They are going to the Bahamas!!~! Yes!!!
@@laurenandreas5950 - just an FYI, psychologists don’t write prescriptions, only psychiatrists generally manage medications, and don’t do counseling per se.
So dad married a thief and because she adores her dad, she goes along with it? She should love her dad well enough to put her foot down and not tolerate this nonsense (which happens to be criminal as well).
dad should divorce her over this.
Ally, freeze your credit.
ya think??? duh
Dave messed up here. This woman needs to call all three bureaus and FREEZE her credit. Unless you are a senior you probably have to pay a few bucks, but this will stop the woman cold. As soon as she applies when they pull credit they will see this and end of story.
"I owe.."
"No you don't"
"My dad has 15k to pa-"
"No he doesn't"
Love it
The fact that this lady keeps laughing everytime Dave tells her what she needs to do is all I need to know that she's not listening and will continue paying her stepmoms debt 💁🏻♀️
Family are less likely to report and put someone in jail. That's why she was getting away with it for so darn long.
My late husband forged my name and got a payday loan for $5,000 which I didnt find out about until after his death earlier this year. I told the woman at the lender the signature was not mine and clearly forged by my husband back in 2017. The loan company company doesn't care and keeps trying to collect and I've already told them they weren't getting nickel one from me. Im working wth attorney to try and get out from under it. I had to go to the police dept and file a police report on my dead husband and it killed me to do it but he put me in this position so I had to do it.
szqsk8 what type of attorney did you hire.
My mom did this in 1996, i was 2!!! I found out once i wanted my first credit card. The fact that the stepdaughter paid it off is crazy they could've saved money. How stupid!
It sounds like trying to help anyone in that family is like trying to rescue a fish from water.
Drogo Baggins she just wants to talk to.
She shouldn't be a cop.
It's ridiculous that she paid any of that off. She shouldn't never paid a single cent off. Family if first but they also will be the first to use you.
I would not have paid a red cent of this debt!!
Family works both ways. That step mum is a absolute failure.
"POLICE I'VE BEEN SHOT!"
"Heh heh... Okay. What should I do?"
"PUT PRESSURE ON THE WOUND!"
"Heh. I know."
"HURRY!"
"Hah hah hah hah. I was just wondering what I should do. Heh. Heh."
" Hahaha just keeping it civil! Hehehe"
I'm not payin' bill I didn't make. She crazy!
Dave, thank you for being a voice of reason!
My soon to be ex-husband stole from me while we were doing our debt snowball. I wish this divorce would speed up because I’m tired of seeing his lying 🤥 as*
Handcuffs are the only way to stop a psychopath from stealing.
I had both my father and step-father steal from me. Lawyers were involved and there wasn't anything I could do it. Gladly that is 20 years behind me. Neither on of them are a part of my life, you simply need to cut the strings that are holding you down.
She should freeze her credit.
Your dad is not your best friend if he's letting his wife steal from you. >.> The doublethink is why she is trapped.
She keeps paying the debt and enabling her thief of a stepmom. And she keeps laughing about it like it's not a huge deal. She deserves to get her identity stolen. Good luck in life, Ally.
My daughter in law stole my bank card information and used it on a Walmart app. The app allowed her to enter my information and use it for payment at the register. With the app you scan the app on your phone. No identification and no signiture required or asked for. She used this for over two months before I found out. I notified the bank and Walmart. The bank didn't pursue criminal charges. They returned the money to my account after I filled out necessary papers. The amount was roughly $3000.00. I filed charges with the police departments. (there were three separate counties involved with the multiple locations she used the app.) Walmart would not cooperate with me personally. They said they only worked with law enforcement. Long story short... She got away with it. Law enforcement said there was not enough evidence to prosecute her. She admitted to me she did it, showed me how she did it. However, that wasn't enough. Where's the Justice in this? What can I do to see her held accountable for her actions? Yes I got my money back.... But quite honestly what I had to go thru was horrendous. She got off Scott free.
Dave was a legend on this call, he wasn’t playing her silly game at all 😂😂😂
Wait... shes in law enforcememt asking what do with someone stealing someone elses identity... lol WHAT!!!!!! YOU NEED A NEW CARRER !!!!!!!! person robs a bank in Texas just know atleast 1 cop is asking what do i do
aww man im a crook. Theres numerous time I signed my school field trip permission slips as one of my parents lol
This woman is supremely unintelligent.
Someone needs to love her enough to put her in jail.
That's fine you laugh and keep paying the debt you didn't create genius.
jb@uk I think it’s a nervous laugh. She doesn’t think it’s funny.
There's plenty of love! The stepmom, loves that she can make complete fools, of two Marks that love to be played, by their "Loved one", and gladly pays for her criminal behavior. Lol!
It's really strange to me to hear any peace officer say they're "keeping it civil" by avoiding the civil system and hiding crime.
She's covering up the real issue by using that language. Hope she takes this advice.
I agree with Dave, I wouldn't pay anything that someone else open up in my name.
There's nothing noble about protecting criminals; the definition of civility is not enabling frauds to steal one's money (no matter how much Washington tries to tell us otherwise), civility is ensuring the criminals get justice according to due-process and the innocent are protected. She seems to be under the impression that she has to yell, scream, and go crazy in order to hold this thief accountable. She can modulate her tone, be respectful, and still say "You have broken the law and you are going to jail".
like Dave say some people say la-la la-la la-la she one of them
Lord how can you remain calm in that situation???
“Somebody needs to love her enough to help her” - that part!!!
I used to fake my dads signature for notes for school
Many years ago, my daughter ditched school and signed her dad's name on the fake excuse. They called me, they said they double check anytime a father signs an excuse because 99% of fathers don't do that. It is usually the mother. I laughed then and it is still funny now. Of course since she was busted she got appropriate discipline.
Mary Carricaburu well my parents are divorced and they knew so I got away with it (usually)
Mary Carricaburu lol 😂
Me tooo... I’m a criminal 😄
My daughter’s high school was so small that when she tried that trick the attendance clerk, Mrs. Killer, (I’m not joking) took one look at the note and said, “That’s not your Mom’s handwriting.” I know this actually happened because Mrs. Killer called me and told me!
6/20/18.... This woman calling is laughing & keeps WHAT IF this & WHAT IF that.....meanwhilecshe keeps daying she's trying to "help her dad".....& this woman is in law enforcement?
She sounds goofy as heck!
She's the perfect cop
The incessant giggling is maddening....
I love Ramsey
Scratch a liar, you will find s thief! Just like in the movie "Ray"!!! That is so true!
I do too!!!
so many people refuse to turn in family members who are criminals.
If you think someones taking out stuff in your name place a fraud report on your credit, and freeze your reports.
I think the reason she is laughing is because she probably has been her father's "daughter/wife" for years. She sees the step as taking her place as wife - she said her self the father and her are best friends. Bad parents do this. They feel guilty and elevate and lean on children emotionally like they are the partner . Now she laughing cos she loves hearing him bad mouth the step as she and her father do.
Does she even hear herself? She isn’t helping her dad or herself. 🤦🏼♀️
😂😂😂😤😡 No laughing matter Ms. Law Enforcement! Send her to JAIL! AIN'T NO WAY! You didn't put her in jail, she put herself in jail!!!!!🤬
What a horrible situation!
She's not in law enforcement.
Unbelievable that parents do something like this to their children.
Hahahaha...... jokes on you Ally.
she's not in law enforcement.
Other than wondering how this chick got into law enforcement is just bizarro. Other than that, her family is jacked. If my mother stole my identity and even showed her mug on my Ring video? I’d call the cops.
Ally is likely being manipulated by her dad “just pay the money back. Step mom has done a lot for you. If you call the cops I’ll never forgive you for hurting my wive.”
Press charges. Simple.
Preach it! :)
Ally is in a tough position. I'm sure she doesn't want to lose her father. It's a bad situation...
The woman caller needs to smarten up and not let this thief continue. She's breaking the law and I'd have her charged,if the rest of the family doesn't like it that's tough. Don't let any type of fool know you won't let them get away with it.
Akky, daughter of cop here.. if this comes out, YOU WILL HAVE TO JUSTIFY TO EVERYONE. You're a cop, do yoor job or you won't have one! Geeze.
Something cannot be civil when it is criminal. I think that a LEO that ignores a crime in front of her face is not a good cop.
Excellent advice, Dave. This is truly codependent. She is afraid because she is going against the "family programming". I don't "hear" that this situation is ever going to change until the young woman gets strong and asserts her boundaries.
If you're in LE then they run a credit check. Puzzled how she got accepted when she had already had a lot of debt.
Why does she keep laughing? Keep covering for this woman isn't solving any problem. This is a special kind of stupid! Get out of your own way.
“I was just tryna keep it civil” - A law enforcement worker who’d probably shoot a poc for stealing a bag of chips off the ground
Yes, or a Chihuahua because she was "afraid for her life" as she giggles.
the Zander plug at the end. lol
Her father is culpable too. He allowed this woman in their home to take advantage of his kid. Then is asking his kid to not file charges and to pay off the debt out of her own pocket. No sympathy or empathy for the father on this one.
You are in law enforcement how do you not handle this. Quit trying to make this easier on your dad!!!!
Ally and her dad both need to freeze their credit Right Now. Freeze it at all 3 bureaus. Future problems stop.
I remember a friend of mine in Jr high and high school who's step dad's sister had the same middle name as his mom's first name. So the criminal would be filling out loans and everything and say "I go by my middle name", have the ID to support it, but would then fill out the address and phone number of her sister-in-law. They would constantly get phone calls from debt collectors and have to explain that they were now victims of fraud.
Wow. She just laughing..
“I understand that. But....” -Ally
I know someone like this. Parents who use their childrens names and social security numbers because their credit was so bad they couldn't get things so they damaged their kids futures.
I don't understand this, don't these companies who approve these loan investigate the age of the individual. How can this parent match his/her name with there kids social security number, wouldn't it show invalid? If I want to take out a loan, it would be hard to use my name & my brother's social security number, it wouldn't match. Why not just make up a social security number?🤔🤨
They used credit card applications not loans
I never understood how they got away with it but unfortunately they did.
Family is allways the hardest
I hate it when they laugh in situations like this. Open your eyes and see the reality woman!
Report her to the police and have her prosecuted. The stepmom is a criminal. She should be in jail.
I am willing to bet all of my money that she left this call frustrated and continued to pay her step moms debt.
And no... heck no...she would be sitting in jail.
Why are you paying the debt???!!
- "Yes"
People want to protect their family members even though its freaking illegal and identify theft..also why does she keep laughing? I don't think Its a laughing matter.
Press criminal charges!
The ONLY reason for them to keep paying off her theft is they don't want her to go to prison. They don't want to lodge a complaint.
The mother wasn't sick when she calculated how to steal her family's names... and continuously KNOWING your family members are aware and paying her debt! That's not a mental illness. Its criminal, reckless, and selfish! One time, shame on the mother. MULTIPLE TIMES, shame on the family for not putting their foot down and reporting a crime! The mother has stolen from their inheritance of hope, peace, trust, and who knows how much more of their future is yet to be discovered in shambles after the fact! Despicable!
@ 1:34 You rock Dave!
Why she laughing, at this point she gets what she deserves
A person that I've known for 15 years and allowed into my home took my debit card and used it repeatedly to drain my bank accounts without my permission or knowledge as well as maxing out all of my credit cards causing hundreds of dollars in overdraft fees. My car was repossessed and I became 2 and a half months behind on my bills and rent. My credit was ruined.