My Sister Stole Over $1,000,000!
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You ask this lady "what time is it?" and she'll tell you how to build a watch
Brian Waller no, her sister probably stole the watch...
I'm Hilary hahahahahaha
tone D FUNNY!
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This lady is 19 years late to the party.
It sounded like she just wanted a pat on the back and to talk trash about her sister. :/
Yep
Can't blame her really
And what's wrong with exposing someone for doing wrong and being a real scumbag? It's a public service announcement as far as I can tell!
@@kaydefreese7586 hahahahahaha 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
second comment I've seen like this. are you guys ok with stealing? the woman's pissed. $1,000,000. sister who stole trashed herself. stuff like this should never be an ok.
"is she going to jail?"
"well, I grew up in a small town, and as a child I..."
Had a pet dog named Rocco. I also....
lol!!!
vincentrich - Banned But Not Forgotten ... how to make shanks but...
Don't they screen calls coming in...the staff probably loves watching Dave's face when people like this call. He cracks me up!!!!
Well you gotta have a bit of Drama, some people love the drama.
I love it when people talk in circles and not answer the question directly.
This woman was more committed to trashing her sister than getting her parent's problem resolved.
There is no way to solve the problem. They are too old. They should have been far more involved in the parents finances 20 years ago.
The sister I am afraid has wiped them out.
And?? It's something Dave hasn't ever heard about before. She taught him how people within a family can be scumbags.
I'm pretty sure she wanted to find away. imagine a family member doing that to another family member. $1,000,000? the sister who stole trashed herself, did a pretty good job at it too.
I see it all the time. If some people spent even half of the effort solving the problem that they do whining about it, their lives would turn around. WIN = What's Important Now
When his arms are crossed never good.
Amber U So true. 🤣
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I never noticed that but it's SO true! LOL!
Unless he's laughing
Was thinking the same thing lol
This women is so annoying. For every simple question she has to give a five minutes answer
Dave is a trooper for continuing to work through this phone call when the rest of us would have muted her 5 minutes ago. He is a true professional.
Dave was frustrated speaking with her.
She can't answer questions well. XD
Gabster She sure can't! I had to cut it off...lol
She answers the questions he didn't ask. It's like the opposite of not answering questions, but just as frustrating.
It was frustrating listening to her call. Not everyone is great at sticking to the point. He did a great job trying to guide her to that point.
Mez He really did!
She needs to be sitting on Dr. Phil’s stage. He’d have loved the story. Dave, not so much as you can tell.
spot on!
She was soooooooo breathy. Ugh
Lol your funny
I don't understand why people call into this show and tell their life stories. Oh and it was super important for Dave to know she was in Kentucky driving to Chicago... big improvement piece of information there.
And that’s why Dave has his own network, and does his own marketing. He isn’t dependent on television ratings that are created by drama.
Did she even ask a question? This was the most annoying caller I've heard so far.
Dave is losing it. She just called to vent and blaaa blaaaa.
So what? She did a good deed for his listening audience by exposing FRAUD. Are you ok with people ripping you off?
I don't understand why people think they can just skate past a question like "Is she going to jail?"
She probably didn’t hear the question initially.
Sounds like she just wanted to vent......
Imagine if someone was answering questions like this on Judge Judy.
HA!! As soon as she started talking, JJ would have said, "I don't care. You wanna talk about your feelings, go on Dr. Phil. Just ANSWER my QUESTIONS!!!"
This woman was insufferable.
Would not shut up and just answer the questions... geez
Poor lady just needed to talk to somebody I guess. She had all the answers all along herself and just needs to let go of the past at this point.
Dave: "Is she going to jail?"
Caller: "Well..."
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Dave's "I'm sorry" at the end was to his listeners.
The most annoying thing about this call, besides it being pointless rambling, is how loudly she inhaled before and after every single sentence. Oh my word. Sends a shiver down my spine.
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I think it is a delay tactic, so she has time to think. Primarily to make herself look good and her sister look bad.
The statute of limitations is 3 years from date of discovery so they can still press charges.
Did she say "stoled"?
She done dare said stoled.
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Yes. Starting to see what's wrong with this family.
Oh yes 😈😈😈
Doesn't everyone say stoled?
if that were MY parents, those crooks would had been UNDER the jail in a mili-second!!!!
This lady just wanted to rant about her sister. She didn't call to get any financial help.
My friend went to go file his taxes Friday and the IRS told him he already filed. Tuesday we went to town and I mailed a packet to the IRS certified with signature required. All because Equifax was hacked THREE FLIPPING TIMES and they didn't tell us until the last time.
This is why I try to avoid conversations with older people. They just ramble on about everything
Pat C just make sure never to get old yourself to make sure not to be such an inconvenience to others.
You should be so lucky to see the day you become an “older person”. Tomorrow is not guaranteed.
Older people have a lot of wisdom and free knowledge to share and life experiences. You can still get dementia even if your parents do not have it. What happened to respect for your ELDERS??! Everyone gets old. Where is your COMPASSION??
Bina Walburn my "elders" just raised the WORST Generation this country has ever seen....... I have a hard time feeling compassion when taking that into consideration
Women dude
1099 the crook and then tell her to have fun with the IRS for capital gains and income tax evasion! That's how they got Al Capone!
yeah i think that would work. Wouldnt be for near as long but atleast she have to serve some time.
yes she should serve time. Theft is one thing but stealing from one’s parents is despicable.
That’s true! I think it’s something like where she can file a 3949-A with the IRS and they’ll go after her for unclaimed income and tack on interest and penalties.
Sheeez.... this woman can’t get to the point.
Listen folks, when asking for advice be brief and to the point. No one needs all the details, they don’t matter in most cases
USE THE MUTE BUTTON PLEASEEEEE !what was her actual question? All I heard was venting
Kaylynne Brewer that was all she did. Didn't like his answer
Was there even a question asked?!
I think she meant to ask him for advice on what her parents should do financially now - sell their house, etc. She was trying to make a financial plan for them. But she got so wrapped up in talking about her sister's betrayal that she got sidetracked. Dave did a good job of keeping her on point.
I'm kinda surprised he didn't tell her to consult an Elder Law attorney. If the Dad is starting to have mental problems, they may want to put the home in trust or something to avoid the "lookback". I certainly think she should consult someone pretty soon before Dad gets so far gone he can't sign anything.
Hard to help her, since she was fixated on what her sister did. Who can blame her, though? That's a lot of gall and a lot of money! I'm glad he was able to get past that and try to advise her what to do now.
Stealing from parents is not acceptable.
LISTEN TO THE QUESTION AND THEN ANSWER JUST THE QUESTION!!!! NO victim, no crime.
Dave I don't know how you do it. You ask a simple direct question, and they go into a long winded story...I'd have to cut the call.
My ex brother in laws sister took money out of his parents house through a equity loan when his parents were old
When he found out he called his sister and said you have two choices
Either you put the money back or you go to jail
She put the money back
It didn’t hurt that he was a retired police captain
Dave was thinking "OH FFF Jesus take the wheel!!"
smh Wow...This is sad. Her sister and brother-in-law are selfish and greedy. What they did to her parents was awful. I hope her parents are able to suffice on the money they have left.
My god this lady doesn’t know how to get to the point
This smells like drugs
Sell house pick a child that will take care of mom and dad now.
I know which child NOT to pick
Stoled?
Kentucky.
hahaha
American Public school
Next will be, stolded?😂😂
Mike D I live in Kentucky and only 5 year olds say “stoled”
Well my brother stole $25,000 from me so he's dead to me.
Mr. Carroll Ware No Longer Going To Feed The Trolls stoled
Gabriel Waggoner . Thanks for the correction. Appreciated.
Mr. Carroll Ware No Longer Going To Feed The Trolls 😂
Good for you unless he admits his wrong and tries to fix the problem today...
@@cruisingmimi9319 been 16 years so moving on.
This lady can’t answer any direct questions 🤦🏻♂️
Answer the question!!!!!! Please just answer the question.
I knew it was Juicy when she said stoled.
If i was that woman i'd still consult a lawyer about the statues of limitations. if there is large enough gone, depending on the state, it could move the identity theft from being a misdemeanor to a felony and states have different limits on each for prosecution. worst thing is you spend 300 bucks and the lawyer says no luck.
What’s her question!!????
I think it is really helpful listening to Dave deal with these types of calls.
1.What is done is done.
2. Familial identity theft
3. Prosecute
Sister and Brother-in-law will have their hands out when it's time to read wills.
I just don't understand how anyone could steal from family
So they have 235k equity in the house. A 300k house that 2 elderly people live in? Do they not want to downsize? I would advise them to sell it and downsize to a nice ranch. Depending on what part of the country you're in that could be around 100k. Move in there and put the 150 or 200k in the bank.
A tiny bungalow in some areas costs $400k
LOL, 100K? Good luck with finding that!!
Then the sister would take that money too.
The way she answers his questions irks me
before you sell house, check with specialized legal expert as to how sale would affect dad's eventual medicaid application.
This call had nothing to do with her parents, more to do with the bs about the sister.
My sister kept stealing my mother's identity and charging on cards until the credit card company told my mother she had to pay it or put my sister in jail ($8K that time). She put in her jail. My sister now blames my mother for making her a felon. My sister also got her for an additional $2K on her card while my mother was dying. She was living in my mom's house and blamed my other sister for leaving the credit card statement where she could find it. My other sister who was inheriting the house put her out immediately. My sister blames her behavior on Borderline Personality Disorder. But my mother didn't nip in the bud when she could have years ago. Moral of the story: If they do it once, they will do again! Lower the boom when it happens the first time or be prepared to have a crook in the family!!!
Sell the house, put the parents in a nice assisted living housing, $65,000 a year plus the sell of the house will sit them well.
Make sure the lady that called and her other siblings names are on everything and definitely not the sister scam artist.
First, your parents need their doctor to order a competency evaluation. That's caring for your parents. The same thing happened to our mother but it wasn't worth the bother of prosecuting because there was nothing to recover. Besides, then Sister would just get what she wants--free room and board. Fortunately, brother and I are moderately wealthy (actually, he's quite wealthy as a newly retired physician) and I'm a retired CPA, so medical and money management were right in our lines. We had the same problem this lady had--Mom assured us that everything was OK and we had no way to know about it until third brother saw a credit card bill that Sister and her worthless children didn't hide quickly enough. Advice: Crash in on this situation. If you don't have them already, get medical and general powers of attorney. Retain an elder care law firm that'll get Medicaid if indicated. Retain a private social worker to find a care home where they'll be cared for properly in a nice apartment. We did those things for less than $20,000 total cost and it was worth every bit of it.
I learned a long time ago in coaching to take the emphasis off the story. Identify the results of the problem, and you find the solution quick.
She needs to be writing to Dear Abby and not calling to shoot the breeze and gossip with Dave Ramsey. 🙄
His eye roll at 3:17 tells it all. If Dave crosses his arms, watch out.
My aunt was doing this to people in our family, mainly to her parents. She died of a heart attack. This is when we found out, because of when we checked her mail. Then, creditors trying to go after her next of kin.
I don't know where they live, but there may be some remedy in regard to the mortgage taken out. In pretty much all states, anything attaching to the deed of a house involves a title company and a notary public. Both of these are licensed and bonded with a legal duty to assure everything is as it should be. If fraud was committed under either of these, their bond is supposed to cover the damages. Mortgages are also public records that can be easily located in the county property recorder's office.
It took her 3 entire minutes to say:
"Hi, Dave. My parents are idiots, my sister and her husband are scumbag criminals, and my mother and I are spineless. They have a 65k/year pension and a house. What should I do?"
CUT OFF THE FAMILY, Sell the 300k house, buy a 180-200k house, use the equity to pay off any debts, open an investigation/IRS, put the rest into savings, hire in-home care, live on 40-50k/year, put 15k/year into savings and pray that it's enough. Geez, lady.
My wife's aunt stole from her sister 35 years ago. It was a lot of money in a savings account. They were overseas at the time. My MIL never pressed charges against her sister. She was never repaid. The aunt lost her mom's home & her home to gamblilng.
Haha personally I loved hearing the drama! 😂😂
OMG she can't answer directly at all. She needs to read Ramsey's policy on Gossip. Medicare + the pension (65k+Social security) is more than sufficient to pay for their longterm care until they die.
Sounds like family got their pants scammed off them! That’s just terrible.
E W that sucks. I would be more upset if my own family scammed me, but they say blood isn’t really thicker than water.
If they have to sell the house and move in with a child, then NO they can NOT live off of $65K/year. That's not supporting yourself.
Middle brother saw a charge account statement that wasn't hidden quickly enough and told the other brothers. Little brother, the doctor, contacted her doctor who ordered a competency evaluation. When Mom turned out to be incompetent, big brother, the CPA, took over Mom's finances. The credit card companies were out of luck--they got nothing. They could come after big brother if they wanted but it would get them nothing and they knew it; we didn't hear from them again. So that's the way to do it: get a medical/psych evaluation and take over. The creditors lose out and too bad for them. I do suggest keeping exhaustive records. CPA brother has recorded every nickel since the incompetency determination. If she gave away a quarter, it's in his records and he can report it in great detail. No court has ever seen anything like these records and it's absolutely defensible.
6:30 😂 I certainly wouldn't want her near anything that's got a number on it! Maybe it wasn't that funny but I Lost It 🤣
This such a sad story! Heartbreaking!!
I was frustrated just listening to the conversation
“In the meantime SIR!!!” Lol extremely rude lady
Caller : "Well Dad has Dementia." Dave [wishing ~he~ had Dementia at the moment] : "Sure"
My sister and her children did this to Mom. But it wasn't as much in this case, and there's nothing to recover from them. I don't think the district attorney will bother with it as a criminal matter, although Adult Protective Services referred the case to the police. Fortunately, my younger brother and I can sustain her.
This show is not story time, it is direct and to the point. Have your income, debts, savings, assets, etc written down. This is a numbers game.
How do you sleep at night knowing u steal money that is messed.
Something like that happened to us and our Mom. The roof fell in on them. But there was no criminal prosecution because there was nothing to recover from the thieves. The credit cards companies, when notified, and after a little resistance, wrote it off. "OK, credit card companies, go after the old lady. No chance!" My brother is a doctor who can handle the dementia part, I'm a CPA who can handle the financial part, and we have attorneys on retainer who'll confront you credit card people anywhere. That part of their care problem went away.
89 and 91... No offense but they don't need to worry about retiring for much longer
At age 70, I stopped cooperating with myself. Finally, I am progressing.
Drama queen!! Love when Dave rolls his eyes....
Assisted Living Centers & Nursing homes average 5K a month, thats 10K a month for two. At their age it won't be long before the kids will need the care facilities.
I don’t think Dave knows how identity theft works… if she has no criminal record she will not go to jail.
Is that true?
Awful situation. I wish the parents the best, but it sounds like their approach with one child will now impact the rest of their children. Just a mess.
Wow,
Must have been terrible parents for them to turn their kids into crooks and then cause them to dislike them so much that they'd steal a million bucks from them!
Dont care who steals my identity or why. I will be pressing charges faaaaast
Most people don't retire making 65K. They can survive. You just wanted to tell the story on what your sister did.
I had an Ex that used to talk like this in circles. That’s why she’s my Ex. ; )
Why can't this lady answer a single question directly? LOL!
With family like that who needs enemies. I put my kids under the jail if they ever did this. But luckily I don't have kids or siblings. LOL.
If anyone were to steal a million for me, they better pray to God the police gets them before I do. Either that or they better disappear like a mob snitch. Because if I were to get a hold of them, I am going to jail.
David Reynolds na man just don't get caught and don't do it right after they stole from you.
Sophisticated Swanson So would I .
I'm so glad to know that you know what you would do if your pretend kids stole money from you 😂
@@Jemgirly yw
This lady was annoying . You can tell dave was getting mad 😂
Ah, not good when the Master's arms have crossed
Fiance mom put energy bill in her daughters name without her knowledge after she turned 18. Six years later we energies finally catches up with her in oyr apt and bam! 2100$ due asap. We no longer trust her but we moved on and paid it.
Some folks take the long way around the barn and complain about being rushed.
You know you’re never too old to get a good whoopin from your parents
Family members cannot "put these crooks in jail" if the ones who are violated will not press charges unless they are Power of Attorney and the victims cannot speak for themselves. Elder abuse has already been involved, but the case is closed. They can reopen it if financial exploitation happens again, and the state can press charges under those conditions.
Yep, brother did the same thing to my mom as an authorized user on her credit card. $16k in the hole so he can show off on Facebook his “jet setting life” traveling the world. My other brother and I threatened him in pressing charges for elderly abuse and threatened to try to get him disbarred from practicing law (he’s a lawyer...go figure 🙄). After he saw how serious we were he set up a payment plan with the credit card company to pay the whole debt off. I have been checking the statements monthly to make sure it was being paid. This was 2.5 years ago and he is nearly done paying it off but I do suspect my mom helped a little towards the payments 🙄 because he is the favorite (first born). Also he hid all this from his fiancée/now wife, as well as a his bankruptcy. Even though my mom wants us to make amends I really keep our relationship at a distance since I don’t want to associate myself with a person who could do that to their own mother and never has apologized for this. He even tried to convince her to file for bankruptcy to clear the credit card debt but luckily she told us and called him out on it and told him she isn’t filing this is your mess.
I thought you weren't responsible for loan or credit card charges that you didn't make
Truck Driver 101, if they would have prosecuted, they wouldn’t be responsible.
Ya, by not prosecuting when they knew who did it, they assumed the debt.
yep as the other 2 said. Hard for creditors to do anything with no one to point finger at. Sure creditors will eat few dollars IE 100 even now and then. But not this kind of amount. They need someone to point the finger at. They are after all a business to.