It’s evident considering you didn’t see her in curly hair during her time as the first Lady...and we all know why! Thanks to the extreme racists who would’ve panicked if she looked more African-American than she did. I heard a poc say that if an African-American’s hair is relaxed white people are relaxed. And there sadly is something in that true statement.
soilgrasswaterair I totally noticed that. Showing her natural hair would have been deemed "too black". It's absolutely ridiculous but I'm glad she is being herself and able to live her best life. She deserves that.
I kept asking the question why to marry.. i asked everyone I knew .. elders, young ppl, married ppl, single ones n nobody could hv explained it so accurately and beautifully then her... omg! Its hard but its worth it.. n her analogy with careers.. like thy r hard but worth it.. n in career n studies we take help of teachers n experienced ppl n similarly we require help too to run the marriage etc... She is a very wise women.. God bless her...
Brilliant women! Michelle is such a role model for the women of the world. She is real, honest authentic and articulate! We were blessed to have her as our First Lady!
I'm so with you Michelle "You don't want them dead just injured...push them out the window not a high one"🤣 especially when my husband leaves the dishes right ontop of the counter where it's below that countertop is the dishwasher!!😵😵 Drives me insane....why!? It's right there!😩😂
Glad to see how open and honest they were. Marriage is tough enough but being in a spotlight and with a husband with a very high pressure job, must've been quite a challenge.
They were there to introduce "Drag Queen Storytime" to the 'rubes' and "Big Mike" was teasing the crowd not letting his shlong flop around. Kept them in suspence, when would the anaconda surface, ...who would it attack???
Exactly! I was saying to people marriage means two different people who raised differently living and dealing everything under the same roof. I believe knowing your spouse weakness help to maintain relationships. God bless all!
It seem like Julia just had to contradict absolutely everything Michelle said and also in reference to things she has done. Even to the last sec. what’s her issue yo???
Michelle is the Love and the Voice of Knowledge in this world right now. She has taken a hard job for herself too - motivating people to grow personaly and establishing new information in the community. She is in a role of The Mother, who cares, loves, teaches, motivates and sets boundaries and rules.
I most likely will not acquire a husband in my lifetime lol. But I do apply a lot of “relationship advice” to other kinds of relationships in my life and it still helps
I didn’t understand what was happening..... I can’t express how sorry I am. I was horribly wrong. I later realized you were inspiring confidence for woman to know their worth. 🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏
😳I just happen upon this ...Oh my goodness it's only a snipet. What I just watch was a great share. I am married and to hear WISDOM from these women ( I am am great fan of both)is so sweet. 👋Please where can I get the ENITIRE conversation.💞
Julia Roberts is so corny. You should have gotten someone else for this gig. But Michelle Obama speaks authentically, she shares her experience where Julia wants us to see her relationship with her husband as no problem here.
I love everything Michelle O has to say in this, and find it so encouraging and heartwarming that this has always really been my understanding of true relationship, cos my “goal” has always been their brand of marriage. Next time I won’t be falling in any millennial traps 🙏🏽
Marriage is hard but it's worth it. You've both got to be willing to put in the work and to forgive each other and get counseling when things get tough. Marriage needs community to thrive. You can't do it alone. You've got to open up and be vulnerable with your community of supporters as it opens up their vulnerabilities too. Men are envious of women's supportive relationships. Women friends are important in marriage and time with them is critical. Men fail because they don't want to expose their vulnerability. Yes I fully agree. This is straight talk marriage! Michelle could be an excellent marriage counselor.
Marriage between a man and a woman is ordained by God and therefore should always seek God's guidiance to make it work , ofcourse with commitment and compromise because of love
Wow. Can't believe how real she is. Why? BC most people aren't. They'd rather say how perfect something is and then sign the divorce papers 1 year later. And for those never married they tend to not want to hear or believe this level of real. The great news is the people usually stay together get the concepts she just expressed.
If you never been married for at least 5 years! You will not understand what she mean about marriage, you will think! She’s negative for what she said.
@@solebe3301 lol right I'm married going on 3 years and I understand what she means😂 it was tough to hear when my husband mentioned marriage counseling to me I was thinking it in a negative light and he didn't see it like that he seen it it would benefit the both of us.... I felt like I failed really took a toll on me when he did bring it up. Glad I have a strong husband to conquer it through. And how she explains you need a third party involved (NOT YOUR MOMMA OR SISTERS OR AUNTIES FOLKS!!) to help with the problems sure does help. As for you before getting married really ask the right questions because this is the man you'll be lying down with for the rest of your life and will be raising kids with so don't have him pressure you to get married so quick or vise versa really take the time (or woman if you go that way) ☺️
I do validate everything she is saying however the forgiving part I struggle to fully reconcile. There are some things that can be forgiven however abuse is not one. If one continues to forgive abuse, that is not healthy. One must be clear on that. Being disrespectful and inconsiderate in a huge way is not something to gloss over especially when it is repeated. If one doesn't feel safe opening up and sharing what is on their heart there is no relationship because trust is needed in order to feel safe emotionally opening up, obviously expressed in a loving and tactful way, not an aggressive, accusatory or attacking way. Some use the "I'm just being honest or I'm just telling it like it is" to excuse the fact being "honest" in the way they are is rude, disrespectful and harsh. Being harsh and aggressive does not invite someone to feel safe sharing. Only in being respectful, validating and empathetic do people feel safe sharing.
Jaclyn H completely agree but domestic violence isn’t on most people’s radars. When they say forgive they usually don’t mean abuse, extreme disrespect (which would include repeated infidelity), etc. But I think forgiveness and unconditional love needs to stop being promoted to women. It’s literally killing us
Bienvenue sur le téléphone portable de fouadi Madi mze yes thanks you soy math you Président Barack Obama And chère Michelle Obama of Chicago Bulls ❤🎉❤
" Think wrongly if you please, but in all cases, think for Yourself." *Gotthold Lessing German dramatist and critic (1729-1781) AP Courtesy: The Asian Age Kolkata Tuesday 9 September 1997.
There is nothing like perfect, Coz u ur self are not perfect so u can't expect someone else to be. All u can choose is which imperfect person u choose to be with
Star Online, let me correct your caption "Forever US First Lady Michelle Obama and actress Julia Roberts share how they view marriage [...] on Thursday." Michelle needs to be on the cover of Time as Woman of the Decade for sure. Such a fine example of positive potential women offer to communities
I wish they'd just chatted with Michelle. Every time Julia answers a question it's either not an answer, can't hold up its end beside Michelle's, and/or just brings down the room energy!
Leaving a life of fake reality from movies can spoil ur mind but reality will beat you up if u ignore it ...it affected me too it creates multiple personalities...my child should become a judge or a preacher for One God Allah ...julia has not opened up lot to protect her fame ....Thanks for this post ....reality & logic is the best and is the style of the Quran++
I love Michelle even more after the presidency. She is even more real and honest and seems like she finally feels free.
She is just hollywood elite now.
It’s evident considering you didn’t see her in curly hair during her time as the first Lady...and we all know why! Thanks to the extreme racists who would’ve panicked if she looked more African-American than she did. I heard a poc say that if an African-American’s hair is relaxed white people are relaxed. And there sadly is something in that true statement.
soilgrasswaterair I totally noticed that. Showing her natural hair would have been deemed "too black". It's absolutely ridiculous but I'm glad she is being herself and able to live her best life. She deserves that.
LadyPeace89 and outfits 👸🏽
the "Michelle" you are talking about has a 2 inch black shlong under those clothes
Michelle is deeply honest and this conversation would help the new generation.
There's a new one?
I love that both Julia and Michelle wear comfortably looking shoes!
Funny! I noticed the same thing-their shoes-when they walked onto stage. I so relate!
Well... At least Julia is a real woman. Not Micheal.
Yes. Comfort represents confidence! They look great!
They’re both tall. That helps with lot needing height.
@@JF32304 And you know this how you disgusting piece of crap.
"Push them out the window not a high one...You don't want them dead just injured..." Listen...this is a WHOLE word right here! LOL!!!!
Sachel Harris They can strap a go-pro to my head and push me off Mount Rushmore..... maybe it will fix me. :-)
I MISS THEM SO MUCH!!!! GRACE AND TRUTH AND LOVE AND RESPECT AND STYLE
I kept asking the question why to marry.. i asked everyone I knew .. elders, young ppl, married ppl, single ones n nobody could hv explained it so accurately and beautifully then her... omg! Its hard but its worth it.. n her analogy with careers.. like thy r hard but worth it.. n in career n studies we take help of teachers n experienced ppl n similarly we require help too to run the marriage etc... She is a very wise women.. God bless her...
Brilliant women! Michelle is such a role model for the women of the world. She is real, honest authentic and articulate! We were blessed to have her as our First Lady!
*man
@@iluvass Ahole
@@iluvass ?
Michelle is hilarious she keeps things simple and we get it. Love her.
I'm so with you Michelle "You don't want them dead just injured...push them out the window not a high one"🤣 especially when my husband leaves the dishes right ontop of the counter where it's below that countertop is the dishwasher!!😵😵 Drives me insane....why!? It's right there!😩😂
I am a couples counsellor and you would be amazed the amount of times this issue comes up!!
totally agree 😂
No wounder I love Michelle "Is there wine?" 😂
Michelle IS an incredibly beautiful, intelligent, wise woman who makes a difference in the world!!!
Love you, Michelle. You make me proud to be a woman.
Mardan P. Wo-MAN
that bitch is a man
@@iluvass yo momma a man
Singles Quote: It's important to talk more with your partner about your concerns than about them with someone else : Eboni King
Glad to see how open and honest they were. Marriage is tough enough but being in a spotlight and with a husband with a very high pressure job, must've been quite a challenge.
They were there to introduce "Drag Queen Storytime" to the 'rubes' and "Big Mike" was teasing the crowd not letting his shlong flop around. Kept them in suspence, when would the anaconda surface, ...who would it attack???
@@neolskum8286 How ignorant and disrespectful.
@@neolskum8286 I hope you get the help you need.
Michelle said the very thing we all want to say - I want to push my husband out the window 🤣 a low one I love her
Audrey Marshall I know 😂😂😂😂... but it is relatable when Michelle says, if we do we get fingers pointed at us😂😂😂😂
Or long time boyfriend. But then I'll miss him too much and probably be empty. Therefore, it's just a good imagination.
Michelle Obama just described my 79 year old father and my 76 year old mother. 56 years of marriage.
Your highness I love the way you talk to people, the respect you give to them and may God grant you peace.
Exactly! I was saying to people marriage means two different people who raised differently living and dealing everything under the same roof. I believe knowing your spouse weakness help to maintain relationships. God bless all!
I love you Michelle Obama so much God continue to bless and keep you healthy an president Obama
Michelle and Obama does not like Christians! It's a fact on their actions..
You obviously didn't get this. This person was blessing them and you need a blessing also. They are Christian's. Who are you to say their not.
so good to hear them! straight from the heart. Thank you for sharing. Peace & Blessings to y'all.
I always said " I can love you, but if I start to dislike you; there's a problem." Am I right?
Me too! I love Michelle Obama. She’s so real, relatable, humorous, classy, and wise!
Damn I love Michelle Obama’s realness😂😂😂 and why does Roberts seem like such a ms prissy here?? Lol
Tina Marie J. It did seem as if she attempted to invalidate everything Mrs. Obama said. Glad I wasn’t the only one who slightly felt this.
Julia can't pretend to be like Michelle just because people love Michelle. She has to speak her own truth. People are different.
It seem like Julia just had to contradict absolutely everything Michelle said and also in reference to things she has done. Even to the last sec. what’s her issue yo???
Michelle is a magical lady - very nice and beautiful!
Singles Quote: Less expectations of your partner and more nurturing of the relationship can reduce the negativity: Eboni King
Thank you Michelle and Julia for your honesty. We need to hear more from all about relationships, good times and bad.
My 2 super favourite people in the world💕
I love Michelle. If you don't have the urge to push your lover out a short window it ain't true love. Love makes you do crazy things!!
Omg love Michelle Obama, speaking the truth!💗
Her and Obama were terrible for the country.
@@geogeo4139 the first gay president, and a first "lady" with a penis.
@@geogeo4139 Who was bad for the country was trumptard. What a loser.
Being single is hard too and being married is hard :(
Mabel you are so correct, lawdy😂✌👌
Mabel Wong being married is really hard..
Stop complaining
I feel you 😂😀
Omg that was way toooooo short. Thank you for allowing us to glean in and partake of such word fun words🙏🏽
Michelle is the Love and the Voice of Knowledge in this world right now. She has taken a hard job for herself too - motivating people to grow personaly and establishing new information in the community. She is in a role of The Mother, who cares, loves, teaches, motivates and sets boundaries and rules.
The sparkle of that ring! Wow 🤩
I love and admire Michelle. Great history, woman so smart! I really love her capacity to be honest about everything.
Singles Quote: It doesn't take years of dating to know if he or she is your forever: Eboni King
I most likely will not acquire a husband in my lifetime lol. But I do apply a lot of “relationship advice” to other kinds of relationships in my life and it still helps
Singles Quote: Everything grows when it's nurtured : Eboni King
J'ADORE ces 2 femmes
🌞🌞🌞🌞🌞🌞🌞🌞🌞🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
I didn’t understand what was happening..... I can’t express how sorry I am. I was horribly wrong. I later realized you were inspiring confidence for woman to know their worth. 🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏
😳I just happen upon this ...Oh my goodness it's only a snipet. What I just watch was a great share. I am married and to hear WISDOM from these women ( I am am great fan of both)is so sweet. 👋Please where can I get the ENITIRE conversation.💞
I missed u Michelle *, and may God be with u"
Je vous remercie pour votre compréhension cordialement valider 🎉🎉🎉
Julia Roberts is so corny. You should have gotten someone else for this gig. But Michelle Obama speaks authentically, she shares her experience where Julia wants us to see her relationship with her husband as no problem here.
Wow, who is this woman? She is so real. Yup you did deserve to be Calle the First Lady
In the name of love!!!!
I love you Michelle...honest at its best!!!
Singles Quote: It's important to define every stage of the relationship: Eboni King
Michelle is honest and an asset
What insight! ❤️
I have never played, but would love to be part of her mahjong group. Not because she is a celebrity but because she is smart and loves to laugh.
I love everything Michelle O has to say in this, and find it so encouraging and heartwarming that this has always really been my understanding of true relationship, cos my “goal” has always been their brand of marriage. Next time I won’t be falling in any millennial traps 🙏🏽
Singles Quote: Honor is given in many different ways. It's only shown through marriage: Eboni King The Relationship Book Coming: I feel like giving up
Marriage is hard but it's worth it. You've both got to be willing to put in the work and to forgive each other and get counseling when things get tough. Marriage needs community to thrive. You can't do it alone. You've got to open up and be vulnerable with your community of supporters as it opens up their vulnerabilities too. Men are envious of women's supportive relationships. Women friends are important in marriage and time with them is critical. Men fail because they don't want to expose their vulnerability. Yes I fully agree. This is straight talk marriage! Michelle could be an excellent marriage counselor.
Marriage between a man and a woman is ordained by God and therefore should always seek God's guidiance to make it work , ofcourse with commitment and compromise because of love
impressive and powerful advice on the subject of marriage!!!!
Michelle. Obama’s comment on marriage was like hearing the sequel to “becoming Michelle Obama”........👍
Wow. Can't believe how real she is. Why? BC most people aren't. They'd rather say how perfect something is and then sign the divorce papers 1 year later. And for those never married they tend to not want to hear or believe this level of real.
The great news is the people usually stay together get the concepts she just expressed.
If you never been married for at least 5 years! You will not understand what she mean about marriage, you will think! She’s negative for what she said.
I never been married, but I do understand what she said.
@@solebe3301 lol right I'm married going on 3 years and I understand what she means😂 it was tough to hear when my husband mentioned marriage counseling to me I was thinking it in a negative light and he didn't see it like that he seen it it would benefit the both of us.... I felt like I failed really took a toll on me when he did bring it up. Glad I have a strong husband to conquer it through. And how she explains you need a third party involved (NOT YOUR MOMMA OR SISTERS OR AUNTIES FOLKS!!) to help with the problems sure does help. As for you before getting married really ask the right questions because this is the man you'll be lying down with for the rest of your life and will be raising kids with so don't have him pressure you to get married so quick or vise versa really take the time (or woman if you go that way) ☺️
You
Foundation
Obama of Chicago Bulls ❤🎉❤
Nice
Hahahhahah! Michelle is really the best 🤍
What a queen 🙌🏼❤
MO would be a great president.
I love Michelle!! LOL
São duas potências. Vou passar aqui várias vezes.
Michelle is here but I didn’t know it. They were amazing couple and meeting with them will means a lot to me.
Much love to you both!!! I admire you Folks!!!
Thanks Michelle, you are so empowering
If I had the chance, I would move in with you and get him out the house.
I do validate everything she is saying however the forgiving part I struggle to fully reconcile. There are some things that can be forgiven however abuse is not one. If one continues to forgive abuse, that is not healthy. One must be clear on that. Being disrespectful and inconsiderate in a huge way is not something to gloss over especially when it is repeated. If one doesn't feel safe opening up and sharing what is on their heart there is no relationship because trust is needed in order to feel safe emotionally opening up, obviously expressed in a loving and tactful way, not an aggressive, accusatory or attacking way. Some use the "I'm just being honest or I'm just telling it like it is" to excuse the fact being "honest" in the way they are is rude, disrespectful and harsh. Being harsh and aggressive does not invite someone to feel safe sharing. Only in being respectful, validating and empathetic do people feel safe sharing.
Jaclyn H completely agree but domestic violence isn’t on most people’s radars. When they say forgive they usually don’t mean abuse, extreme disrespect (which would include repeated infidelity), etc. But I think forgiveness and unconditional love needs to stop being promoted to women. It’s literally killing us
@@brioche8123 Completely agree...
Bienvenue sur le téléphone portable de fouadi Madi mze yes thanks you soy math you Président
Barack Obama And chère
Michelle Obama of Chicago Bulls ❤🎉❤
Julia said nothing interesting. Mahjong. Give me a break.
Awesome women!!
Marriage is hard if you have unrealustic expectations of the other. Let people be, but call them out when their actions messes with your peace....
❤
I m sure every honest married person can relate to this😀😀.
" Think wrongly if you please, but in all cases, think for Yourself."
*Gotthold Lessing
German dramatist and critic (1729-1781) AP
Courtesy: The Asian Age Kolkata Tuesday 9 September 1997.
BRAVOOO
Weird choice since Julia broke up her current husband’s marriage.
Love Her!
I just want the perfect husband and perfect marriage Michelle. Is that too much to ask? 😩
There is nothing like perfect, Coz u ur self are not perfect so u can't expect someone else to be. All u can choose is which imperfect person u choose to be with
mildred masinde well said
There's no such thing as perfect
Short version: Yes
You can work towards perfection, everyone always has room to improve, start with yourself and the rest will follow.
God is the only one who is perfect.
Star Online, let me correct your caption "Forever US First Lady Michelle Obama and actress Julia Roberts share how they view marriage [...] on Thursday." Michelle needs to be on the cover of Time as Woman of the Decade for sure. Such a fine example of positive potential women offer to communities
Marriages shouldn't be hard. If there is love
I wish they'd just chatted with Michelle. Every time Julia answers a question it's either not an answer, can't hold up its end beside Michelle's, and/or just brings down the room energy!
Everyone keeps talking about this shared values, what exactly does that mean? I never got that.......
For ex: What is important and requires to spend energy and money on it, what is not. What are the ideas that we will focus on with the kids
Simply put: if he is a republican and you are a democrat, chances are high that you do not have too many shared values...
Julia sounds like a dadday's girl..
Michelle Obama came to my secondary school.
That's a bigotry lawsuit under privacy
Real talk. Love the honesty from Obama 💯
Selamat datang ke Malaysia (Welcome to Malaysia) to Mr./Mrs. Obama & Julia Roberts.🤗
What?! They were in KL!?
Love u ms. Obama.. U r my hero!!!
Singles Quote: If you can't believe each other before the marriage it's unlikely they'll be trust afterwards: Eboni King
Julia Roberts speaks more deeply and with sense.........
I thought the exact opposite. Don't tell me there hasn't been a time during her marriage she hasn't been annoyed with her husband!
Leaving a life of fake reality from movies can spoil ur mind but reality will beat you up if u ignore it ...it affected me too it creates multiple personalities...my child should become a judge or a preacher for One God Allah ...julia has not opened up lot to protect her fame ....Thanks for this post ....reality & logic is the best and is the style of the Quran++
Michelle makes perfect sense she lives in reality, not la la land. But nice try though. 🙄
@@daniellealfaro6210 I agree
Both man? 😏 What about the producer host that was murder after she said Michelle is trans? . Julia too.
And you are a total idiot. Get help now.
🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽👍🏽
Love u lot with respect Michelle Obama
I 🥰 Michelle Obama
True, marriage is hard, it comes with it's own baggage
You have inspired the diaries of marriages......the Obamas