How To Deal With Haters And Negavity As A Music Creator
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- Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024
- Negativity is something we all have to go through as music creators. Whether it be from friends, family members, or complete strangers. #howtodealwithhaters is something that we learn as we go and #dealingwithnegativity the right way will help you stay focused and gain traction. In this video I address some of the biggest issues that most of us struggle with and how to handle the hate as it comes in.
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Some create in life, the rest just watch and comment.
If you're not pissing someone off, you're not doing something right. That's part of having an edge as an artist
Damn Straight! Agreed!
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I agree...If you can stir up emotions that is great... Big problem is when people are ambivalent and don't really have any feelings one way or another!!!
Agreeeeeeeeeeed
The trick is to also make money, not just piss people off.
I LOVE getting negative feedback! It means they were paying attention. I especially love it when they go through the song and point out everything they hate about it. Even better, call your friends and tell them about this sucky video and you can all watch it and laugh at it together. Over and over again
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When I get a "hate" Comment I just get motivated to improve more.
thank you had someone come hate on me and my character and you made me realize HURT PEOPLE HURT OTHERS just gone keep grinding
Absolutely!
I've been saying this for years. I wish people would focus on their own ambitions and not worry about Becky down the road. I can relate to being an introvert that puts themselves out there. It's a challenge and you learn to love feeling uncomfortable to a degree. I'm very new in the digital world. And it makes me really uncomfortable putting myself out there and I love it. I watch You, Gary Vee, Rob level, and the rest is random to help me on this journey. You're going to be a motivational speaker for sure. Hell you already are.
Harley Wilt The reality is, posted online or not. 10k views or 20 views or 200 comments...changes nothing in your immediate life. People choose how to take comments and react how they choose. It’s never the comments, it’s the person receiving the comments.
@@DNixon845 agreed. It's the same when playing in a local bar like I do. You have to believe in what you do or haters will destroy what you love. Can't block Mike the jerk in the bar though. Just have to smile and let the show go on.
Watching this as I’m sobbing because a girl commented “oh my god I would be so embarrassed if this was my singing voice” about a song I released about a narcissist ab*ser :)))
It's ALWAYS better to be yourself rather then being *insert artist name here* 2.0. Sadly, way too many people don't realize this.
If a hater comments on your content, just think about this: comments are engagement, which today's algorithms use to drive your content into the eyes and ears of others! Also, a good saying is: "if they hatin', you know they watchin'" -Herobust
It’s always people who have anime pics as their profile picture talking the most who are probably not doing anything positive on there life and just hating for no reason.
making music is not about winning but about find harmony with one selves. you have to love what you create. the feelings that is trapped in your subconscious must be allowed freedom and music is a good way to release it. the worst thing is people that classify your music by comparing to some music only they like. those kind of people i think are simplistic minded.
I’m a female and i wanna make music I wanna be apart of the underground community but the guys have so much doubt and I get they hate on female artists but imma keep going and that’s gonna make them mad. Appreciate this motivational video. ❤
I hated haters for a while but now I'm thinking of using them as entertainment for my audience.
I think that if you have haters it means that you are doing something worth doing.!
Dealing with haters? I love it. There’s something about people who doubt me that turns me on...
Really good content. Also,regardless of how good you become,some people will hate on you just because of your genre, and sometimes even just because of the way you look,etc. Don't try to please everybody.
This video made me feel so much better. I’m 19 and getting my first lot of hate comments was really really hard. I would never let them stop me from making music, but it’s hard not to think about their opinions sometimes. Thank you for this 💖
I always had haters...been proving them wrong since I first started making music in 1996
As someone who’s just started promoting their own music, this is very inspiring cheers!
People going to hate no matter what you do use it for fuel not dead weight... you will grow after and stronger
"If anyone wants to judge me, they can judge me. I don't give a crap about what people think of me"
Love this
I like this one, really needed something like this to help me
We wish we would have watched your videos 10yrs ago. Always good advice. To all the producers and musicians out there, there are lots of sacrifices you have to make. If someone says your music sucks or you need another DAW, don’t listen to them. Keep pushin on!
*I love your videos. You're my Music Therapist.*
I feel like in any given field, there will always be people who aren’t gonna be a big fan of you. Which is fine, to each their own and I’ve come to terms to accepting that. You can’t please everyone and like you said, it’s better to be a first place you than a second place somebody else. Love it man, especially that intro haha! Much love!
I just put out my first single and I promoted it on TikTok, well one of my videos has gotten a lot of views with most of the people hating on my sound, lyrics, and mixing, mastering everything basically I worked hard for (im only at the beginning)....at first it was a bit hard for me to take something positive out of all these comments basically saying my music is bad. But most of them listened to my song on Spotify at least, so I kind of got their attention! Also I think that most of the people who comment negatively on someones art, don't really know how much effort and money goes into making it, and how overwhelming it can be starting from 0. I have never gotten any negative critic from a fellow musician, always supporting words!
You're spot on with this. SOmething else to remember is the people who don't like it aren't your fanbase. Those aren't the people who you are looking for. Keep going and you will find your tribe.
Everyone needs haters! They tend to say the things you don’t want to hear. As you said it can be a great source of constructive criticism. You can become better as a singer/singersongwriter/musician. I embrace hate comments, because they help me grow as an artist. Believe in what you do and others will too. Great content and channel. Keep up the great work! 🙌🏻🤘🏻
Haters have made me famous. They add the fuel to my fire. I've blocked family members and school and college mates. Fuck the haters!
Just a couple of days ago I posted a video of my playing a couple of my synths and a guitar in a few Facebook groups. The first notification that I received was of some dude laughing at it. I went to check the group and then check out who was laughing? When I saw his profile photo I chuckled to myself and just left him in his own little bubble. I thanked God for blessing me with the opportunity to own what I own and to be able to create music with them. I also thanked God that he didn't create me to look like that dude. I am immensely grateful. He has far more problems than what I have with my music lol.
Thanks for such an Inspiring Video....
A checklist for dealing with haters:
1. Remember that haters do nothing but spread negativity and
2. Use the block button and
3. (This is what I Feel) Improve your content till haters become your fans...
trying to please a hater is litterally impossible lol
"you sound the same as everyone else" hits me even though i know damn well I am being my own person
DUDE, HATERS MAKE YOU GREATER... Sometimes Haters can secretly be your Biggest Fans... BTW...is that a Wig on your head....
MrMustard2U agreed!!
Oh I’ve had all kinds of stuff. I had somebody write me and call me retarted and go back to handycapped school. 😂. I’ve had ppl tell me I m out of tune, music not mastered, that it sucks, and my own family tell me to sell my songs to some big time celebrities. Lol 😂
At the end of the day, whether it’s feedback or just a hateful comment, none of those things are true. I don’t even understand where those ppl come from, so I’ve learned to just laugh at it and move on. It’s not worth my time or energy.
It used to get to me bro until I started reading books like the four agreements and 'Can't hurt me' by David Goggins....u just gotta say fuck em and focus on wad u want not others.....be you always!
Oh yes I had several haters when I started to have more public attention, for example while my Redbull3style National Finals performance or once I posted a video and a guy commented, that I dont have an understanding about turntablism. Depending on my own mood on a day it hurted more or less. Being aware that it hasnt to do nothing with you and not to take it personally, bc it is the other person, that needs sth, like attention, an outlet for emotions, or just having fun while hating...and to be honest, it happens to us all, to me as well, sometimes you watch sth and have a hater thought, it can be just for a second, but it happens to all if us 😂😂😂. well its normal, lets not be so strict with each other ❤❤
The opposite of love is indifference, so I take the haters I get as a compliment.
This comment is everything 👏
jealousy is a horrible disease
For real Adam people who spend their time hating on others really don't have much going on in their lives ... most of the time it says more about them than you....
Thank you yeah I sort of crumble because I spend so many hours on my art. I have a much more positive feedback but I get those very hurtful comments. I try to be nice, talk to them, eventually fought them/block. But I guess it feels good to hurt in order to stronger and continue improving. It still hurts.
Adam I start my day with coffee and your videos every morning... my music is a complete different style then yours... but in my eyes an artist is an artist ... you have my full respect bud... and this video came at a great time for me. Thanks buddy
I get lots of positive feedback on my music And one dude says “your music sucks” (faceless btw) I get demoralised such a weird thing
My haters dont know that they're doing my marketing better than me 😂
Everyday there are more and more haters I don't block them I just ignore them....
The first question I ask myself when read a comment that draws attention more than other comments is: who is talking? A pro? Ok, may be there is a point. A person who doesn’t have anything to show of his work? OK, next...
I am soo incredibly happy to have found this channel...what a blessing man. I really needed this talk. Thank you, Adam.
I’m a pretty sensitive person. It’s one of my strengths (allows me to create feeling based content). I have run larger size social media pages for years now. Here’s my take away:
1) haters don’t have balls (notice they run in circles. Yeah it’s because to stand alone. You have to have lots of balls 😅
2)their unhappy. I’ve meet a few happy people, I have meet a few successful people, I have meet a few grounded people. They never act like that. They rarely run in groups. Some don’t care about you, some give you objective criticism, some are supportive, some are competitive and are coming for your azz😅 (some competitive ones can be haters tho). But notice they are not happy if they have to be competing all the time. Seems like they’re covering inadequacy.
Thank you for coming to my ted talk 👍
Don’t let haters dismiss your unfair advantage all!
Thanks Adam! I always pay attention to both the good and bad comments.ive developed a thick skin over time but I always acknowledge the positive comments and dont pay mind to people spreading negativity . Once you engage with the negative people you just validate them and that's all they want.
12:22 is what I’m going through lol. I understand the hate from others and it doesn’t bother me but I didn’t expect hate from a childhood friend. I know he is jealous and envious cause he said it plenty of times.
Thank you so much Adam, i needed to hear this. I literally typed in "how to deal with haters on social media if your a rapper". Ive been landing some big placements in the industry trying to work my way to a record deal and everybody from my family, to friends, to strangers, to enemies have all been throwing their shade at me. God Bless you brother, i just subscribed. What would you advise i do if the "haters" continue to re make fake pages after theyve been blocked? Adam is obv a busy man so if he doesnt respond im open to answers from everyone. God bless everyone. Merry Christmas 2020. This is christmas day btw and ive been hiding in my room while my family is downstairs opening presents. Havent eaten all day just been on my grind. We dont even act like we love each other anymore. This shit is wicked.
I love the negative feedback but when it’s you vs you and you get negative comments that match your negative thoughts it does kinda hurt
You know these videos are timeless when watching it 2x continues to hit home and inspire!!!
Hey Adam, I really enjoy your videos. As a newbie singer songwriter that’s trying to get a career off the ground the info you provide has been invaluable! I’d love to hear you do a video specifically on handling criticism and rejection in the business. That’s the hardest thing for me to deal with. I usually feel that I am my harshest critic and if anyone is going to bash my song in any way it’s going to be me. So that being said after I’ve completed a song and I’ve gone through numerous revisions I want to believe it’s perfect and no one can tell me otherwise. Would love to get your take on this subject. Thanks!
I just got a Dm from a hater about my music LMAO
I’ve learned if I don’t believe in myself that’s when it hurt! But now learning and working hard on my craft has made me love who I am!
I'm getting noticed now and on my most popular song I received my first hate comment I'm learning from that hate but only one hate comment I know I'm doing something right because I'm bowing up and receiving more positive feedback than negative feedback
Something else I wanted to add Haters make you famous 😅
Great video! For the most part, I try to avoid blocking "haters" because I need them to build my thick skin and they have actually taught me a lot about myself. I've only blocked a few and that's when what they say has no truth to it and is only for malicious intent.
I've dealt with haters most my life like most have..... I've always tried to brush em off and tell em to fuck off. Thanks for the awesome vid Adam!
Thanks so much, I use to not give haters mind but lately I’ve felt insanely vulnerable. Glad this video exists to help me and others.
Adam you are awesomely authentic…thank for what you do. You don’t know how much you are mentoring
One of my favorite ones from you brother! Around that 9 minute mark, it felt to real... They just don't understand what its like to chase a dream... AMEN! Best wishes Adam.
Bra literally don’t mind them jus keep posting good music watch them still watch don’t pay no mind
Your content is Extremely good my Man, Just cause it doesn't get Million Views doesn't mean your quality is low. PEOPLE JEALOUS!!
its always the people hiding behind a screen name with no videos up that got most to say...quick to be a hater. Every time I leave a comment on a channel if it gets 50 plus likes you can almost bet they will have 10 replays under it of people hating on th comment or going to my channel to hate. We are the people that walk the walk...they are the people that talk the talk and never walk cuz they hating and talking about everybody else
You know i wish I would've heard this years ago. I grew up in this business that you take the bad with the good and you take the bad as a learning curve and better yourself. 😌 Adam im releasing a new song out of my comfort zone and put it on for reviews away from my normal fan base and got many awesome reviews but shit did I get some hurtful talk but it makes me who I am. Thanks Adam!!
Since when being called an” autistic” is actually definition of being “ weird” actually as a mom of son who’s on Autistic Spectrum, I could say that my son has so much creativity and so much brain that not a single “average” dude’s brain can’t compare to, I’m dead serious. You guys using technology made by those “weirdos” and can’t leave without it! I would take it as a compliment if someone said I am on ASD honestly.
I see the hate as unintentional constructive criticism
Btw...there is no such thing as 'hate speech'
People: Great lyrics. Great vibe. But I'm just not feeling your voice.
Me, crying inside: Me too.... Me.... Too...
I love my parents and I know my parents love me but they dont support me at all. they think because I sit 8hours in front of a laptop while (clearly) producing beats, they think Im lazy and Im doing nothing with my life. I understand that they are from a different generation and dont quite understand all this internet stuff, but even after explaining and showing them what I do all day and where I want to be, they dont believe me, because I dont make thousands of dollars yet.As soon as I started doing this music thing seriously, my parents got more and more negative. Of course, they want to protect me and want only the best for me, but the best for me is making music. Id love to move out and get my head cleared, but I also enjoy being at my parents house because I can save up money that I can invest into my career. What would you do? Thank you for any advice
Keep making your music and get a part-time. That may keep the parents off your back and give you more finance to play wit for now. Give yourself a time line. It will make you focus more. That will allow you to be a bit more independent and less dependent on them.
One of the things that lets me know I'm not doing enough is I have no haters. No pushback at all. 🤔 I gotta step my game up and get more active. Give 'em something to hate 🤷🏾♂️
You mentioned the red and yellow song... so glad you did. Just started my day smiling because of it
Thumbnail cracked me up and definitely grabbed my attention xD
2 Root feelings give way to all other emotions. Love, and fear........................................................... Hate, like anger, frustration, envy etc. are nothing more than by-product of fear. . . .Great video. Thank you
AND WHY WE SHOULD TELL EACH AND EVERYONE OF THEM TO-- Man I love your videos. Thank you so much for doing what you do Adam. I really needed this vid 😂👍🏼👍🏼
After four months and dealing with these people in public I come to realize that I am probably a greater talent than I think I am when their jealousy comes floating like shit out of their mouths...
Discovered your channel recently... And I have started feeling better with the decision of pursuing music as a career... Keep it up brother
Hey, man, thank you a million for food for thought... I’m new to the channel, but I’m now a subscriber. Goodnight
Welcome aboard!
Fair play, Adam, your channel is so on-point! This video has helped me a lot! I'll be re-watching this one for a while :)
Close family and friends can be the worst even worse than the public i made 4 albums and never released anything because I don’t even want to hear anything people have to say
Thank you Adam for your videos! It amazes me how much motivation they always give me
I just created my RUclips for my music. Having a hard time feeling like I should keep on doing it. He's right, putting yourself out there makes me vulnerable. I want to share my stories and my music and my music which is my therapy. I do get a lot of views... but analytics destroy my motivation. I try to not look at it because I enjoy making songs. But if no one even wants to watch it... then why am I doing this? I started off just doing it for myself because it's what I loved doing. But I also want people to see it, comment on it, enjoy it and maybe relate to what i am saying in my songs... I don't know
I love your shirt, Donald is my most favorite Disney character!
Adam you are doing an amazing job, I watch your videos and learned a lot! You don’t deserve hate,but you’re doing your work and hates still on the same spot they’ve been for the last 10 years,so hope to see more of you next year!Merry Christmas!🎄🎄🎄
You a big bro to a lot of people who are on point thank you for everything and appreciate your presence!
Lovin' the content! You're so right... it's crazy..
I love sending love to my haters. Oh yeah they wanna hate fine by me but when I hate back they gone hate wtf I got to say 👍
If you fight with haters it means that you are not self secure enough. So basically its is the problem within you, and not in somebody else or somewhere outside there. But yeah, its easy to say ;)
Who ever gave the thumbs down is A HATER!
Fuck Yeah Adam !! that second place drake line just single-handedly beat up the hip hop industry
absolute legend
I get a feeling I've been sharing my music with wrong people. They just leave dislikes for no reason whatsoever.
According to me, haters are of 2 types.
1) Useful Haters : You suck because " The quality sucks, your expressions suck. Your instruments suck" fix them.
Useless haters : Dude , you suck! Your music sucks because " you are making it". :/
How do I know with whom I should share my music with? It's a pretty simple question , but when you think about it, it is quite deep.
Speechless... nothing to add, very inspirational. Thank you for sharing your thoughts Adam.
LOOOl i was soooo tempted to leave a hater comment, but you made a nice save, so heres my would be hater comment. Flowers.
ADAM THIS VIDEO IS Fuggn 🗑🗑,!! ... nahh jp mane your video damned near tha most informative i can find 😳 feels like ya talkin in tha room really, these videos really help me man LOVE 💯💯
Haters are hidden marketing power for your products ... that's what "they" say in marketing books
Cristiano Ronaldo uses hate as his fuel to improve more.
I love that guy!!!
So now you now, USE HATE AS YOUR FUEL TO IMPROVE AND KEEP GOING !!!
Hi Adam this video made me finally subscribe. I’ve watched a few of your videos hear and there but this one hit home and is really helpful and motivating. Thanks for your time and effort putting this stuff together! I’m just starting off with sharing my music and your Chanel is very helpful! Thanks again Adam
man you are the best youtuber. I love your content never stop doing this.
That hurt people saying is great 👌
I feel like ive learned the more actual supporters I get the more hate I get.