I believe that people can be successful .. Especially intps .. As infj I find that they have the most powerful mind .. That work in every area ... I believe in you 100℅ People judge intps are completely stupid
I went no contact about 5 years ago. Haven't made it big yet, but I love my life. -fellow INTP (BTW: Anyone else as afraid of success as they are of failure? 🤔)
@@intpvamp I think I was so used to invisibility (in childhood) being critical for survival... Becoming a visible success, as much as it is the technical goal, means being seen in a way that feels dangerous. It is not logical, but it's something I've noticed since starting a small business (selling photography) this year.
INXP here well, I'm suffer because my mother really2 love me she really give me all the thing she has the problem is, she just can't understand my emotional needs....well, sensor (no offence sensors lol) all the love she gave are all what she needs, but sadly I just don't need it but it's quickly just being burdens also, even if your parents support you really give you all you need, give you all you wants you still may be not much different person as you are now
whe emotional needs arent met then mother and father wounds develop. so if u get all the love it does make a difference.
3 года назад
Hi, another INTP girl here. I apologies for the mistakes I will make below, since I'm not very good at English. Well, according to some of your videos I think it should be assumed that you went trough several traumatic experiences in your childhood. And yes, I can get which types are; you spread some hints in your videos, and it's a matter of paying attention. I won't dare to say I know the details, of course, but no need it, just knowing what kind of conflicts you had it's enough in this case. I don't wanna go into anything concrete of mine because I also have a public channel with videos here in RUclips, but you know, also a divorced parents, an uninvolving mother that forced me to always please her and the other persons around us... but my needs... I guess I made them dissapear. I don't remember me having any need, but not because I had everything already... it was quite the opposite. And I will skip the worst events now. it simply amazes me to realize the common patterns in our lives, and the things eventually fed what we are nowadays. The key is that when you realize that, you become free of being whatever you want to and do whatever you wanna do, because now you UNDERSTAND in order to change yourself, no determinism here, although yes, we will still have some characteristics due to our past, like everybody does. Above all, I have to say that I find these videos very necessary, those who breaks the status quo of what everyone believes, because in the bottom of our hearts we know this is the truth, even if some people responds in a denial way. I could speak about this all day, but I don't wanna be boring, so just feel free to contact me whenever you want by private. Bye, and thank you for this video. Edit: Yes, I edit the comment to say I subscribed because I saw other of your MBTI videos and are really great. I'm a magnet to INFPS too xD and I have an ISTP boyfriend. ^^ Bye
subscribed back ♥ I like the energy you have in your videos. and it's good to know that this video could be helpful. I'm sorry to hear about your relationship with your parents.
Indeed a beautifully crafted message brought to us by the intpvamp(don't suk my blood). The "pretentious love"part is rly true. I would definitely thank someone if they showed me their true colours instead of keeping me captivated in their illusion of love which would only stop me from blossoming.
I just looked up if people with NPD are capable of love. 'Narcissists do not experience and show love in the sense that most people do.' Wow, you are right. It is because she didn't love me. I feel at peace knowing this.
It's scarry how this is a pattern. I'm myself an intp girl with a narcissistic esfp mom and a emotional dumb father. Recently, finding my way out of this, I was diagnosed as asperger and on my researchs about this subject it's clearly that the symptoms are always intp intj and istp descriptions. That is old theories about the culpabillity of moms on authism and nowadays, if you google stories about intps and bad moms, almost all the times the mother is an esfj, what is the perfect opposition to an intp. My brother is also an intp, probably because he had to develop the same skills to survive, looking for hidden patterns with intuiton and logics. I have an infj friend (girl) who went throw the same shit and eventually though she was also authistic. We struggled a lot to realize it is possible to a mother not loving their children, that was what happened to us and how commom it is. But only after this, we could see ourselves as individuals and be happy.
@@intpvamp Im pretty sure if you looked for an authistic diagnosis you would easily get one, they think our combination of characteristics are too ackward to be consider neurotypical, mostly the turbulent ones. They put us in the same bag as real symdroms like our brain was damaged, but it always just kids who weren't loved.
@@biasuzcaca04 so you think I'm autistic. thanks... . . . . hahaha just kidding. i actually thought I have many of the symptoms of aspergers though I was never officially diagnosed
😔the moment that I realized that my parents never loved me.. I was at peace and loved myself more than ever ..
true true ♥
I believe that people can be successful .. Especially intps .. As infj I find that they have the most powerful mind .. That work in every area ... I believe in you 100℅
People judge intps are completely stupid
aww thank you. i love infjs. youguys are the best
exactly. infj here too
thank you so much for this 💜💜💜💜💜
glad you like it! ♥
I went no contact about 5 years ago. Haven't made it big yet, but I love my life.
-fellow INTP
(BTW: Anyone else as afraid of success as they are of failure? 🤔)
i heard many people are afraid of success. I heard this from famous person's speech and I'm surprised you mentioned it
@@intpvamp I think I was so used to invisibility (in childhood) being critical for survival... Becoming a visible success, as much as it is the technical goal, means being seen in a way that feels dangerous. It is not logical, but it's something I've noticed since starting a small business (selling photography) this year.
@@valej9387 I think imagining living in big success will let you get used to it and help you not fear it
@@intpvamp I'll have to try that. 🤔 Thanks!
Damn finally someone says it
INXP here
well, I'm suffer because my mother really2 love me
she really give me all the thing she has
the problem is, she just can't understand my emotional needs....well, sensor (no offence sensors lol)
all the love she gave are all what she needs, but sadly I just don't need it but it's quickly just being burdens
also, even if your parents support you
really give you all you need, give you all you wants
you still may be not much different person as you are now
nothing changes when you don't change
whe emotional needs arent met then mother and father wounds develop. so if u get all the love it does make a difference.
Hi, another INTP girl here.
I apologies for the mistakes I will make below, since I'm not very good at English.
Well, according to some of your videos I think it should be assumed that you went trough several traumatic experiences in your childhood. And yes, I can get which types are; you spread some hints in your videos, and it's a matter of paying attention. I won't dare to say I know the details, of course, but no need it, just knowing what kind of conflicts you had it's enough in this case. I don't wanna go into anything concrete of mine because I also have a public channel with videos here in RUclips, but you know, also a divorced parents, an uninvolving mother that forced me to always please her and the other persons around us... but my needs... I guess I made them dissapear. I don't remember me having any need, but not because I had everything already... it was quite the opposite. And I will skip the worst events now. it simply amazes me to realize the common patterns in our lives, and the things eventually fed what we are nowadays. The key is that when you realize that, you become free of being whatever you want to and do whatever you wanna do, because now you UNDERSTAND in order to change yourself, no determinism here, although yes, we will still have some characteristics due to our past, like everybody does.
Above all, I have to say that I find these videos very necessary, those who breaks the status quo of what everyone believes, because in the bottom of our hearts we know this is the truth, even if some people responds in a denial way.
I could speak about this all day, but I don't wanna be boring, so just feel free to contact me whenever you want by private.
Bye, and thank you for this video.
Edit: Yes, I edit the comment to say I subscribed because I saw other of your MBTI videos and are really great. I'm a magnet to INFPS too xD and I have an ISTP boyfriend.
^^ Bye
subscribed back ♥ I like the energy you have in your videos. and it's good to know that this video could be helpful. I'm sorry to hear about your relationship with your parents.
Indeed a beautifully crafted message brought to us by the intpvamp(don't suk my blood). The "pretentious love"part is rly true. I would definitely thank someone if they showed me their true colours instead of keeping me captivated in their illusion of love which would only stop me from blossoming.
that was beautiful. your last line
@@intpvamp thx♥️
@@intpvamp btw ur room is very beautiful lol
@@anisanancy6459 it's actually a living room XD
I just looked up if people with NPD are capable of love.
'Narcissists do not experience and show love in the sense that most people do.'
Wow, you are right. It is because she didn't love me. I feel at peace knowing this.
do you know your mother's type
@@intpvamp ESFP I think.
It's scarry how this is a pattern. I'm myself an intp girl with a narcissistic esfp mom and a emotional dumb father. Recently, finding my way out of this, I was diagnosed as asperger and on my researchs about this subject it's clearly that the symptoms are always intp intj and istp descriptions. That is old theories about the culpabillity of moms on authism and nowadays, if you google stories about intps and bad moms, almost all the times the mother is an esfj, what is the perfect opposition to an intp. My brother is also an intp, probably because he had to develop the same skills to survive, looking for hidden patterns with intuiton and logics. I have an infj friend (girl) who went throw the same shit and eventually though she was also authistic. We struggled a lot to realize it is possible to a mother not loving their children, that was what happened to us and how commom it is. But only after this, we could see ourselves as individuals and be happy.
oh no, you poor thing.
@@intpvamp Im pretty sure if you looked for an authistic diagnosis you would easily get one, they think our combination of characteristics are too ackward to be consider neurotypical, mostly the turbulent ones. They put us in the same bag as real symdroms like our brain was damaged, but it always just kids who weren't loved.
@@biasuzcaca04 so you think I'm autistic. thanks...
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hahaha just kidding.
i actually thought I have many of the symptoms of aspergers though I was never officially diagnosed
@@intpvamp actually, psycologists and psychiatrics think we are authistic, i do not