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you can see the test link below the video :) you are very insightful. thanks for saying that it wasn't my fault

@@intpvamp hey i just took the test. i got a score of 3.6 for avoidance and 3 for anxiety. my cross literally on the line between dismissing attachment and fearful-avoidant attachment. it's funny considering i never date before nor considered dating before.

@@lonerwolf19 haha thanks for sharing. well it's ok . these attachment styles can change if you try

@@intpvamp yea true

I'm not trying to tell you what to do, just sharing my opinion that with assertive communication, my relationships have improved a lot, and I argue less with others. For example, if you phrase things in terms of how I feel, instead of starting with you, people take it less personally. If you simply express needs or desires instead of personalizing what they are doing wrong, it helps. I know it’s not always easy and can be difficult sometimes.

@@katabosz5268 yes i am aware of 'i-message' techniques. this was long ago and i was not good at relationships. i think I got better now

good to hear that you're also working on it! hope you make it !

hey haha you remembered my cake pics. unfortunately I sold all my baking tools away after getting allergic reactions to the ingredients. what does a panda mean? 😄

@@intpvamp Panda refers to My Ennegrams profile which is Type 9 Wing 1 called the Peacemaker 🖖💜 And My Personal characteristics are similar to A Panda :3

ahahahaha i was actually very emotional due to personal issues during the time i filmed this

well I'm studying to get more certificates in IT field. my goal is to work in cybersecurity field. how about you? :)

@@intpvamp lol, I was doing similar stuff, I self learnt Python , trying to get in ai field , currently working in data analyzing, recently self learnt vba , but now trying to shift the direction into finance field What an amazing and logical brain / mind , u have 🤣

@@neronjp9909 ahaha hope everything works out for you :)

@@intpvamp same , hope it work out for you as well! Love yr video👍🏻

@@intpvamp I ve hear that there are 4 main functions for every MBTI, we are usually using the first 1,2 function, and if we wanna improve ourselves , we will have to work on developing 3rd and 4th function, For INTP , it would be , Fe, Si How do u see this? U think of any ways which help improving those area? (Eg: meeting ppl which are 1st , 2nd function in these area and learn fr them ??) I suddenly notice, ISFJ share the same 4th function with INTP, how do u see that and experience u interact with them?

hha ha i am 5w6 and most people think i'm 5w4

haha thanks

😅😂what is that supposed to mean

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@@stevemcgee99 i know what i said. i mean what do you mean 'but' i'm an intj 😆

@@intpvamp it’s a joke.

@@stevemcgee99 haha that was funny

ok

@@intpvamp Gregory House M.D. 😉

@@Fred.Carpenter are you an intp

@@intpvamp INXP

what?

who doesn't :)

hey :)

@@intpvamp just saw your video on 'yellow fever' Personally I dislike the term, I thought everybody was entitled to their own preferences 😭 To me Caucasian women are actually quite masculine looking. It probably also helps that Asian women tend to be smaller in stature. I'm pretty short myself, so some might say my options are limited here in Europe

@@UnimportantAcc I see. as english is my 2nd language sometimes I may not fully understand the nuance or connotation behind every words I use in my videos. since people also use the term 'Bieber fever' to describe Justin Bieber's popularity, thought it wasn't such a bad word? maybe I'm wrong lol. women normally find tall guys attractive but I find super tall guys kind of scary.

@@intpvamp no no! You are correct in using the term. I would say that it is used negatively in most contexts tho. To me it seems people can have their own dating preferences and nobody minds. But the moment a man has a preference for Asian women it gets called 'yellow fever" and he is ridiculed. I'm 170 which is short over here but abt average in many east Asian countries I think 🤔 Actually I think I read in Seoul and Tokyo the men are taller. So maybe I'll have to stick to the countryside haha

@@UnimportantAcc i'd say you are considered tall in Korea. I honestly never understood women's obsession with men's height tho. when media keeps on telling people that women like tall men, it feels really weird to me. it sounds like 'everyone has to buy this brand of tumbler because it's considered cool.' there was a time when I used to fantasize about dating a women with height around 150cm. i'm 163 btw

Tantum vemus quantum scimus (a person can only see as much as they know). some of my skills are not so undervalued as you think. for example, there are very few cake desginers who can pipe those edible flowers and the classes are very expensive. beginner course would cost around $500 and there are only few designers who can teach them that when there is a class, bakers have to book a plane ticket. and they have to pay extra to pay for the certificates as well. and those jazz stages where I was paid to perform did not allow just anyone to perform there. A lot of people who had degree from music school had to wait in line to be able to perform on those stages for more than 6months. and I did not even go to music school and later I was able to to perform in one of the TV show as well. and most of my certificates require months of studying and practicing to aquire them. and my intention was to make other intp feel proud of themselves.

oh it's just that some people try to talk to me every single day in long long paragraphs and I have school life to catch up on. and I also want to talk to them only 1-2 times a week so i can miss them and have the feeling to want to talk to them genuinely.

women are still women. true love and genuine heart can cross all the boundaries i believe.

@@intpvamp thanks for answering, but I wonder, how does she know it's love? if I were to compliment her based on her appearance, would she accept it? in Italy I believe this would be perfectly fine, if you do it in austria/germany you would be ghosted immediately :D

@@smilesmile1237 hahaha i think in all Asian countries the compliment would be accepted. I never knew about Austria and Germany. why would they be ghosted for giving compliments?

@@intpvamp If you would say "you have beautiful eyes" she would think bad about you and be like "sorry i dont talk to this kind of guys". instead you would have to say something like "you wear nice earrings, very beautiful". not sure how it is handeled in south korea.😂

@@smilesmile1237 that's ridiculous. 'you have beautiful eyes' or 'you are beautiful' would be appreciated in south korea. if a guy said 'you wear nice earrings' korean women might think he's too shy to compliment on her beauty directly. have u lived in Germany or Austria?

hahaha this video became unintentionally dramatic

haha I was just trying to be helpful. what would u have done :)

@@intpvamp not sure, maybe date her? jk^^ I believe showing her the site was a good decision. What I would do different probably was the first part: I would not just talk to someone then decide we now live together. :D But I also feel like sensor ppl often undervalue the intuitives. I believe they don't do it on purpose but they just can't look far enough into the future to notice the value of an idea.

hahahahaha that's funny. it's almost been 10years since this all happened. i was so young and dumb. i never thought girls would be this crazy honestly.

haha you are just as sane as i am ;)

hey goatman. it is always nice to have brighter thoughts. i agree :)

link under the video :)

ahahaha wow you have watched this thoroughly. yes they're attractive cuz they're differnt from me but then it also becomes the problem that we speak different language.

I have to follow the order of the game so I can't just choose which type I want to date. next one is already recorded and next date is an INFJ. my emotional side is not on all the time. i had to turn it on before getting into these dates lol

@@intpvamp ok I see, my guess INFJ kind of feels relatable? for ENFJ however you probably will need all emotions you might have, would be the final boss of the game if I made this 😄

@@smilesmile1237 ahahahaha i would need energy drink before meeting an ENFJ lol infj feels relatable to you? you mean?

@@intpvamp yes but not in a romantic way I cannot explain it :D

yes INXJs are my favorite :)

@@intpvamp btw how did you know to put on the ears for the INTJ? 😄 I have to admit, the simulation kind of paints a picture which could be too positive. While I also one time drove to a place to check it before going there tomorrow, I believe, most INTJs are not so familiar with social rules and dress code etc. ofc I'm working on myself lately, so I even got a watch and a jacket in a more brighter color.

@@smilesmile1237 watch and a jacket on INTJ sounds hot . if that's so i should really consider putting those ears on if i ever go on a date with an intj. thanks for the advice. 😆

i have no idea what ur saying

it's coming soon :)

yea i didn't try dating all the types yet

hahaha 😆

i tend to talk about unstreotypical traits of each types. so you are right.

if you could send me screen captures of your text messages to my dm it could be helpful for me to see if there's a problem

@@intpvamp thanks but sorry I was just kidding, I unfortunately don't know any INTP in real life^^ i still enjoyed your video even if i would never try to control an INTP obviously :D

@@smilesmile1237 haha ok 😝

sounds like you've traveled a lot.

INTP females would be harder to find in real life as they rarely go out lol. it's hard for me to find INFJ males as they are so rare. I tend to attract INFPs, ENFJs, INTJs mostly.

@@intpvamp Yeah, I only know INFJs from online. In real-life, my classmates and co-workers were not INFJs.

@@AlexC595 i see..

yea there are a lot of toxic infjs out there. beware

@@intpvamp wow what if the person I wanna meet is a toxic one???? 🥺💔

@@KarenMaissi-h8q RUNNNNN

@@intpvamp 🥺🥺🥺🥺

i am still moving on yes. but i decided to use this period to motivate myself to make more videos. it's like how some artists make music when they're going through depression or pain.

@intpvamp that's nice. Best wishes to you for your journey to self-healing and prospering. Your recent videos which I watched felt a little fixated on these experiences so I felt that was the case. If you want to share your thoughts you're most welcome.

@@lonerwolf19 it's not that i'm sad about failed relationships anymore. i just wanted to make videos as detailed instruction for people to understand me better to prevent misunderstandings in the future. thank you for your kind words tho. I appreciate it

@@intpvamp I didn't assume you were depressed about it. But, You're welcome tho. 😁

Japan has one of the lowest female labor force participation rates among developed countries. you can copy this and do research you will see a lot of sources.

​@@intpvamp Only when old people are factored in, due to retired old age in aged society. For general working aged under age 64, South Korea has one of the lowest female labor force participation rate for developed countries. Even lower than Japan. Japan is actually higher than some European countries. Japan also has much higher rate of dual-income households than South Korea. Also, you are getting the stereotypes wrong. Japanese women are perceived as earnest and kindhearted. Korean women are perceived as prone to hysteria. Chinese women are seen as more traditional.

@@fin-e4h Japan has higher income because overall income of the entire country is higher than Korea. you need to do some research. there are literally graphs and data out there comparing japanese and korean wives working hours after marriage. stop writing novel

​@@intpvamp South Korea has higher average income. Japan has higher women's labor force participation for working aged under 64. Japan has a higher percentage of married women that are employed than South Korea. This is in accordance with publicly available OECD data.

@@fin-e4h according to international labour organization Japan has one of the biggest working time gap btw men and women. and korea has one of the biggest gender gap pay.

some feeler women are attracted to traumatized men as they want to heal them. I'm just saying it takes me a long time to feel empathy for a person. i don't feel empathy for any strangers. the person has to be in a close circle for a long time for me to be able to feel empathy for them. i was just talking about the first impression. also telling people they just met about their traumatic events to manipulate others is a trait of a sociopath.

@@intpvamp Yep. Don't talk about those things with strangers.

that's a good idea

hey welcome. INFJs are beautiful ❤

haha

sorry about that. my dad was washing the dishes in the background and i was too sleepy to film this again

hahaha 😂 so true . thanks for watching a long video

noooooo!!!!

Listened to it a second time and finds it very disrespectful.🤦‍♀️

@@nicolenefonternel6389 i think you didn't watch the video

Controlling is correct. Controlling gets a bad name for it's negative meaning, Controlling by force or manipulation.

​@intpvamp calling a mature INTP a liar?! I told you I have watched it x 2. Second time was worse. You are still very young and immature.....and it shows.

@@nicolenefonternel6389 fine . which part is so disrespectful in the video if you watched?

Waaait a Minute You Make Cake!? WoW Stunning *in Awe and Claps hands. Now I got Hungry and is craving Cake...... Amazing Skillz 👍👍

@@robertlonn6128 hey Robert. hahaha glad you find this video helpful. yes i find that a lot of people in my life have hard time understanding me that I decided to put up videos for people to deal with intps properly :)

@@intpvamp Amazing! 👏 Love Your Insightful Videos 💜

@@robertlonn6128 aww thanks!