‘If they told you about it they knew it… they knew it before they performed the action that got them in that predicament, stop feeling guilty for them’ 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
She said that "That was then, this is now. I don't careeee about all that in the beginning. I'M. NOT. THAT. PERSON." Say what 👀 who was that then a FAKE? she didn't say NOTHING. This is when we had our last argument. She just sat there. Mad as hell.
It is astounding how similar the playbook is for the NPD’ed human. I truly believe these conversations are the foundation for understanding and taking-your-power-back. Thanks Lee. I really appreciate your stark and honest sharing.
What's crazy is every time we would split, "love bomb" me back... he would always say let's try to get it back like the first few years... impossible with a narcissist... it's too much work and exhausting for both.... the love bombing cycles just got shorter and shorter
Mine told me for two years "I know you're going to leave me when you figure me out" When I finally had enough of silent treatments and triangulation, I did leave. "It's only been a week of silence and you've left me left me! I KNEW you'd leave me eventually".
Wow.... That YelloPain recommendation was for me that turning point. "Monsters" is even worse from an eye opening perspective. I am here wondering how the F##K I got here. Cried in front of my Narc for the first time this past weekend. She swore at me through the tears... Repeatedly, for close to an hour. I have never felt this hurt in my entire life. Does she even know she's a monster? Well I suppose she does but perhaps the question is, does she care.
Lee…Spot on. Smh. Nothing but facts…out of nowhere the love bombing and his answer was almost what you said verbatim…”he’s old, he’s changed, he’s not the same person!” I’m like you’ve changed that much in a year? No, you’re mask has dropped and this is the real you. I swear his ex warned me…
Absolutely incredible yet eye-opening information. Exactly what I needed to hear and the YelloPain Once You Cheat song is very shocking yet extremely revealing of how some vile nasty men act. Thank you so much for protecting us Lee, your incredible and we greatly appreciate you! Keep spreading this gospel and truth on these vindictive narcissist! 🙌🏾💯
100% on point! He's doing everything with his new supply that I wanted and his ex wife wanted!! I want to thank the new supply so much for taking him off my hands! I'm so much happier without his constant negativity, drama and chaos. It happened to me exactly how you explain!! 1000%. My kid's are better off without his influence in their lives! Once you Cheat by YelloPain is the truth. Lived it! I won! I got away. I love your video's. Thank you!! It confirms I'm not crazy like he tried to say.
In a different video you referred to your wives son as your step son . I love it when folks say “ bonus son!” As it implies something was added to ones life . Don’t you just live that ! On a mission to change the world by passing on that word swap up . Just a thought I wanted to share as u have shared so much with all of us ! And yes I agree , I do not envy ( nor warn) a new supply more pity ! Buckle up , it’s a ride !! Love from Canada
Hey brotha, some feedback here. That STRONG speech is definitely working. Ya dig? Ppl like that. It's bc they like people who take control. And know what they're doing. A leader. Appreciate the help brotha.
Oh man I heard “you’re breaking up the family” and if you do leave and go back it’ll be held over your head how you “broke up the family” and can’t be trusted.
@@MentalHealness thank you for the seriously! I wish I could do a one on one haha but my toxic ex left in the middle of the month bills due and I was a stay at home mom. It’s been rough but I’m getting back on my feet!
The narcissistic personality I was involved, a grandiose female, became a mini me via mirroring, atomic love bombed me and made me PAY for the sins of her past lovers. Been on that guilt trip, damn.
Ew. My ex beat me unconscious and said that it was nothing compared to taking children away from their father. Worse: I was so deep in self loathing that I believed him.
‘I’ve changed’ is exactly what he said …. He then went on the say he was no longer going to let me treat him like shit (😳) and that was his justification for why he was treating me badly ! …
When I stood up to him, he told me I'd changed. When I told him he was treating me like something he found on his shoe, he accused me of having a nasty streak, said I was passive aggressive and that I was showing my true colours now. It's was so confusing. He was treating me badly and accused me of having a problem. So glad I left in the end.
That’s the bit that’s screws you over because there is an element of truth to the statements… makes you feel crazy! We all change. I said the exact thing to my ex husband I’ve changed when he was abusing me whilst whining about not being loved enough! It’s the element of truth that keeps you caught in a lot of cases I think
Knowledge and research in to this disease is more available. Psychologist now are listening to the coaches in this field. Hopefully this will reduce the time people spend in therapy.
You say your mama said your face was beautiful. Did she created the narc in you. Just genuinely asking. What's funny to me is my ex narc wasn't banking on my reaction to his discard phase. No contact. No look back. Nawww sucka I love me. 😂
Omg he did say all that..anything to do with love became stupid or gay..we were to old for that all kinds of crap..sadly he knows what he is..he just wont do anything about it..
Bcs no one will stay with them if they show their true self from the beguining..the narcissist knows what you love and what makes you happy, and they show it to you during the love bombing, until they get bored bcs it is just acting.
That’s so funny to me🤣😂. One time the ex narc came over after we had words over the phone. He took all of his things, so I’m like ok. We’re breaking up. I asked for my keys back, a few days later. He calls me and says “that’s why men and women shouldn’t live together! Because women always put men out when they’re 😡! Then he says “I can’t believe that you’re such a quitter! You don’t finish nothing that you start!” I couldn’t do anything but laugh. So, I had to remind him…1. We don’t live together, you have your own place. 2. You removed your things on your own and 3. What? 🤔😂🤣. He hung up on me
You make me laugh when you get really wound up by your own advice.But that 9hr road trip video where you spent the entire time arguing with your wife about forgetting to bring one of your home comforts that you need,really shocked.The thought of being trapped in conflict for that length of time,even though I would know I was right,I would just agree in order to have peace.Just because you want to argue doesn't mean we have to show up to the party every time.
No. Not for a sister 'used' to pull crimes off to steal from Mom's Estate, and worse! Then, try to Destroy you, for being a Witness. 😭 The HELL isn't over, yet.
@@shavettelynn609 I truly meant it. You've dodged a bullet.🌷 One (falsely)kind moment can't offset all of the deliberate cruelty. They pick people that have the attributes they wish they had, but it'll never stick, unless you have one that's self aware, like Lee.😉
You getting more comfortable in front of the camera. Nah, you just love being the center of attention. 🤣😂🤣😂 📷 🤳 📹 🎥 I bet you ready for your close up too. 😃 🙂
‘If they told you about it they knew it… they knew it before they performed the action that got them in that predicament, stop feeling guilty for them’ 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Their "representative" is who they start off with first-- but by the end of the facade, you'll be ready to swear off relationships FOREVER!!!
That’s me right now 5 weeks single from a narcissist smh 🤦🏾♀️
yea. it's sad
Don't swear off relationships
Omg 😳 yes! 3 years later I am good on relationships and people. I’m still healing ❤️🩹 and focused on my healing.
Yeah that’s that bs where we fall in love with the potential
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You're funny as hell🤣🤣🤣"Leave, OMG!"
She said that "That was then, this is now. I don't careeee about all that in the beginning. I'M. NOT. THAT. PERSON."
Say what 👀 who was that then a FAKE?
she didn't say NOTHING. This is when we had our last argument. She just sat there. Mad as hell.
Ever since I watched your videos, I have stopped dating losers. Thank you so much.
💪🏼
It is astounding how similar the playbook is for the NPD’ed human. I truly believe these conversations are the foundation for understanding and taking-your-power-back. Thanks Lee. I really appreciate your stark and honest sharing.
What's crazy is every time we would split, "love bomb" me back... he would always say let's try to get it back like the first few years... impossible with a narcissist... it's too much work and exhausting for both.... the love bombing cycles just got shorter and shorter
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Mine used to say he missed the beginning...but he's the one who destroyed it.
There are reasons why narcs habitually get abandoned
perhaps
Mine told me for two years "I know you're going to leave me when you figure me out" When I finally had enough of silent treatments and triangulation, I did leave. "It's only been a week of silence and you've left me left me! I KNEW you'd leave me eventually".
Wow.... That YelloPain recommendation was for me that turning point. "Monsters" is even worse from an eye opening perspective. I am here wondering how the F##K I got here. Cried in front of my Narc for the first time this past weekend. She swore at me through the tears... Repeatedly, for close to an hour. I have never felt this hurt in my entire life. Does she even know she's a monster? Well I suppose she does but perhaps the question is, does she care.
You're a real blessing, Lee. Perhaps proof of some evolution with the self awareness in regards to NPD...🤔
Thank you . i appreciate it
Absolutly
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Being a love bombing narcissist sounds entirely like too much work for both the narcissist and the victim. I’m so done! Lol
😂 it can be
Who you meet at the end of the fake relationship/facade is who they rly are … I found that out the hard way nearly three years ago.
Lee…Spot on. Smh. Nothing but facts…out of nowhere the love bombing and his answer was almost what you said verbatim…”he’s old, he’s changed, he’s not the same person!” I’m like you’ve changed that much in a year? No, you’re mask has dropped and this is the real you. I swear his ex warned me…
Absolutely incredible yet eye-opening information. Exactly what I needed to hear and the YelloPain Once You Cheat song is very shocking yet extremely revealing of how some vile nasty men act. Thank you so much for protecting us Lee, your incredible and we greatly appreciate you! Keep spreading this gospel and truth on these vindictive narcissist! 🙌🏾💯
You speaking Real Truth. I Love Your Tough Love Lee. Thank you. ❤️🙏🏽
You gotta write a movie script about Narcissist
I'm on it. gotta write the book first
I love how your reactions to the stupidity be 😆😆😆😆
😂
Thank you for telling the whole truth, the truth hurts!!!
100% on point! He's doing everything with his new supply that I wanted and his ex wife wanted!! I want to thank the new supply so much for taking him off my hands! I'm so much happier without his constant negativity, drama and chaos. It happened to me exactly how you explain!! 1000%. My kid's are better off without his influence in their lives! Once you Cheat by YelloPain is the truth. Lived it! I won! I got away. I love your video's. Thank you!! It confirms I'm not crazy like he tried to say.
In a different video you referred to your wives son as your step son . I love it when folks say “ bonus son!” As it implies something was added to ones life . Don’t you just live that ! On a mission to change the world by passing on that word swap up . Just a thought I wanted to share as u have shared so much with all of us ! And yes I agree , I do not envy ( nor warn) a new supply more pity ! Buckle up , it’s a ride !! Love from Canada
he's actually my son and her step son. I apologize lol
Mine said I changed and said I caused him to be the way he is.
That sounds so familiar.
This is for entertainment purposes only , A Leopard never changes its spots..
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Your reaction to the narcissus is funny but to real 😳
And we fall for it over and over again 😔
😞
Thank you so much for showing me what os going on in his mind...
you're welcome
Yes they knew it, becuz that narcissist I had told me about the trauma he had during his childhood..
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Broooo man you so on the money. Man they really do be like this. I can't even be jealous of the new supply because wouldn't want that
It was the instant oatmeal and the instant grits for me 😂🤣
“You knew it too!”😅😂🤣
😂😂😂
Thank you so much for what you do. You are so helpful...and yes, handsome too!
All your videos are great and real but this might be the realest!
Glad you think so!
"End scene..." 🎭👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Hey brotha, some feedback here. That STRONG speech is definitely working. Ya dig? Ppl like that. It's bc they like people who take control. And know what they're doing. A leader. Appreciate the help brotha.
Thank you . I appreciate it
Oh man I heard “you’re breaking up the family” and if you do leave and go back it’ll be held over your head how you “broke up the family” and can’t be trusted.
😧
@@MentalHealness thank you for the seriously! I wish I could do a one on one haha but my toxic ex left in the middle of the month bills due and I was a stay at home mom. It’s been rough but I’m getting back on my feet!
Lol...OMG...You are funny, thanks for the laugh 😆!
Glad you enjoyed
The narcissistic personality I was involved, a grandiose female, became a mini me via mirroring, atomic love bombed me and made me PAY for the sins of her past lovers. Been on that guilt trip, damn.
That was definitely a narcissist comment about mental abuse!!
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Bruises heal, mental scars are forever..
Ew. My ex beat me unconscious and said that it was nothing compared to taking children away from their father. Worse: I was so deep in self loathing that I believed him.
I'm so sorry :hugs:
‘I’ve changed’ is exactly what he said …. He then went on the say he was no longer going to let me treat him like shit (😳) and that was his justification for why he was treating me badly ! …
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When I stood up to him, he told me I'd changed.
When I told him he was treating me like something he found on his shoe, he accused me of having a nasty streak, said I was passive aggressive and that I was showing my true colours now.
It's was so confusing. He was treating me badly and accused me of having a problem.
So glad I left in the end.
@@JJ-iq8mi it’s a total mind F$&k and I can’t believe i thought it was love … better are things are coming your way lovely 🌷🌷🌷
That’s the bit that’s screws you over because there is an element of truth to the statements… makes you feel crazy! We all change. I said the exact thing to my ex husband I’ve changed when he was abusing me whilst whining about not being loved enough! It’s the element of truth that keeps you caught in a lot of cases I think
Wow - he told me that as well “you’ve turned me into a shell of myself” 😂🙈🤛
a shell of himself
I left mine after he ignored me for a week (and the rest) and then he accused me of never having loved him.
I’m dating one now. I’m also an Empath. I’m highly sensitive and it’s a lot.
U might as well go head and leave
Leave... Please 🥺
@@chiquittachapman9050 🥺
Run !!!🏃♀️
yea, in a situation like this if you know what to expect and you continue to stay people think you wanted it :(
What happens when they are all out of tricks? Wait they leave you😬
Knowledge and research in to this disease is more available. Psychologist now are listening to the coaches in this field. Hopefully this will reduce the time people spend in therapy.
#facts. But they know they can’t love bomb because I know what it is... but yeah, they switch the game up, like you said the other day... so complex
Ok. I need my instant oatmeal Lee. Hold up waita minute 😁😁😂😂😂
😂
Instant oatmeal isn't good for you. Thank You for your perspective.
So true!
😂Lee u be extra with that quick love stuff😂
Hahhhahahahaha 😂
Will a narcissist ever feel bad about the ppl they hurt
I dont think they do😪 if they did they wouldn't do every person in their life this way
very rarely
Man that guilt trip sounds so familiar 🤦🏾♀️
Mug,,, Voice 😮And Can Be Do Tell Nooooooooo love Bombardier 😮
Narc just tries to save you really 🤷🏾♀️
🤔
Instant oatmeal 😆😆😆😆
always lol
😂 2:02 Now, THAT'S FUNNY!!!!!!🤣🤣🥳
Now i want instant noodles.
You say your mama said your face was beautiful. Did she created the narc in you. Just genuinely asking. What's funny to me is my ex narc wasn't banking on my reaction to his discard phase. No contact. No look back. Nawww sucka I love me. 😂
what happened to the Narcissist Disney characters episodes you said you would do?
coming back this week
Omg he did say all that..anything to do with love became stupid or gay..we were to old for that all kinds of crap..sadly he knows what he is..he just wont do anything about it..
Great content
Thank you
Is love bombing the narcs way of showing “love” in THEIR own way? Why do narcs want to act out or show their true selves?
Bcs no one will stay with them if they show their true self from the beguining..the narcissist knows what you love and what makes you happy, and they show it to you during the love bombing, until they get bored bcs it is just acting.
@@Ilawsa F A C T S
it is
Lee it’s frustrating isn’t it???
it really is
That’s so funny to me🤣😂. One time the ex narc came over after we had words over the phone. He took all of his things, so I’m like ok. We’re breaking up. I asked for my keys back, a few days later. He calls me and says “that’s why men and women shouldn’t live together! Because women always put men out when they’re 😡! Then he says “I can’t believe that you’re such a quitter! You don’t finish nothing that you start!” I couldn’t do anything but laugh. So, I had to remind him…1. We don’t live together, you have your own place. 2. You removed your things on your own and 3. What? 🤔😂🤣. He hung up on me
Can you please make this closed captioning? Anxious as I want to know what you’re saying. 😬
You can do it yourself.. Just hit the screen and you'll see the icon for CC
You make me laugh when you get really wound up by your own advice.But that 9hr road trip video where you spent the entire time arguing with your wife about forgetting to bring one of your home comforts that you need,really shocked.The thought of being trapped in conflict for that length of time,even though I would know I was right,I would just agree in order to have peace.Just because you want to argue doesn't mean we have to show up to the party every time.
I heard no bad behaviour from a narcissist in the beginning of relationship. Is there love bombing.
No. Not for a sister 'used' to pull crimes off to steal from Mom's Estate, and worse!
Then, try to Destroy you, for being a Witness. 😭
The HELL isn't over, yet.
So are you wearing a mask in your videos because you're so likable and fooling us all??
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Of course. Narcs are charming.
did you suffer childhood trauma?
That’s what I use to be scared of all the things I wanted him to do he’ll do to the next….
But they can't sustain it. No stamina!
@@lisarodriguez6966 thank you love
yea a lot of ppl are. focus on how they treated you and dont focus on what they are doing for someone else
@@shavettelynn609 I truly meant it. You've dodged a bullet.🌷 One (falsely)kind moment can't offset all of the deliberate cruelty.
They pick people that have the attributes they wish they had, but it'll never stick, unless you have one that's self aware, like Lee.😉
You getting more comfortable in front of the camera. Nah, you just love being the center of attention. 🤣😂🤣😂 📷 🤳 📹 🎥 I bet you ready for your close up too. 😃 🙂
🤭😂
He definitely likes short sleeves, putting his arms in the air and flexing his muscles in front of the camera.